Physical Boundaries, Really? (Christian Dating Short Film)

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  • ‘Physical Boundaries, Really? (Christian Dating Short Film)’
    Okay, okay, we know, this was pretty cheesy. But we do believe that in this short film we were able to get an important point across. It’s easy to brush off the idea of setting boundaries, even if the two people are Christians. But just because you’re well meaning Christians doesn’t mean you can’t stumble or even fall into temptation if you’re not careful and wise. Follow two couples and see the difference between one that sets boundaries and one that shrugs them off.
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  • @PaulandMorgan
    @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Hey Fam! In honor of hitting 100k subs, we thought we’d do something a bit different:) We know it’s cheesy, but let us know what you think! P.S. this is only a skit, Michael is still single. ;)

    • @lauralogue602
      @lauralogue602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That was cheesy, but it's true! It's ironic you posted this literally minutes after I set a boundary with my crush, who knows now I like him, and we've agreed to be friends. He doesn't want to lead me on, but I don't think he knows when he's doing or saying things that are flirtatious, so I told him today if we are to be just friends then there are some boundaries that need to be set, so I don't get lead on. Honesty takes vulnerability, sometimes, and can be hard, but if you're both Christ minded and truly want the best for each other then you'll face the difficult conversation and be honest about the boundaries you *need*. Ultimately, your relationships will be better for it. Now I know where my Brother stands, and as he honors my boundaries it will build trust between us and we'll know we can be our authentic selves and just go after God without any pressure, missunderstanding, or hurt.

    • @chachabread6590
      @chachabread6590 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hello. I’m Tyler. I am a gay Christian from Pasadena Texas. I’m hopeing that you could stop calling yourself’s Christians since all you do is judge people? Thanks ;)

    • @lillysmith8091
      @lillysmith8091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for making this vid. I do agree that it's kinda cheesy but it's so true. It refreshed my mind that boundaries are there to help you and not to annoy you and make life boring. I want to make sure I keep boundaries in relationships when I'm older (I know I still have lots of time and this might surprise you but I'm thirteen) PS. may God bless your marriage, I believe God wants to reward those who keep his word, also I think keeping boundaries is a test from God that He wants us to pass 😀

    • @orpheusasmr9858
      @orpheusasmr9858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've been watching the videos y'all make for some months now and I feel blessed to be able to have the advice of a married couple whose foundation is in the LORD! I am a in high school right now and my dating life has yet to exist, but I truly appreciate y'all making these videos and putting up with all of the criticism that is made. Thanks for giving me hope!

    • @ketsiaa8199
      @ketsiaa8199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good act people maybe you should do more like this

  • @nomrs5942
    @nomrs5942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    My husband and I had sex before we got married and didn’t experience any of the guilt and shame that you portray here. It’s almost like it’s self inflicted.

    • @CgirlAJGM
      @CgirlAJGM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Then you should check yourselves, because just like fisical pain warn us about something wrong in our bodies, guilt warn us about something wrong in our souls, especially if we cross boundaries clearly set by God in His Word.

    • @BerserksEclipse
      @BerserksEclipse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I don’t understand why on earth people wouldn’t want to live together to see if marriage is right for them, and that includes an intimate relationship. I get why it’s in the Bible because unfortunately back in the day women were property and it was a means to protect women cause if she had pre-marital sex she was seen as useless and couldn’t survive. But we’re in 2019 where it’s just not necessary anymore. I’d rather be on my knees for two reasons on Sunday. These people are so judgey and annoying.

    • @Hollow-ty3qm
      @Hollow-ty3qm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@CgirlAJGM guilt isn't always rational. Rape survivors often feel guilt for no reason, some people who grew up with abusive parents feel guilt for no reason, etc

    • @kimxx10
      @kimxx10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ash Renee Can I ask why do you think that? Do you think that that comes without consequences?
      And I think they’re not being judgey they are warning us, which is love.

    • @Hollow-ty3qm
      @Hollow-ty3qm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kimxx10 sex can always lead to consequences even in marriage that's why it's wise to be careful, married or not. What if you wait till marriage and than find out your husband cheated and gave you HIV? Marriage doesn't make you immune. Driving a car can have consequenes. Does that mean we should never drive cars? Or rather be careful when driving.

  • @zuha1154
    @zuha1154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    “It’s personal to our relationship” “why can’t they just leave us alone?” A bit hypocritical coming from a couple who likes to dictate how people should live their lives and how a couple should operate isn’t it?

    • @lydiasparks2616
      @lydiasparks2616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was a skit....

    • @Adnilas
      @Adnilas 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you might have missed point of the entire skit...

  • @rosesandtoeses
    @rosesandtoeses 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Somebody send this to Cody and Noel.

    • @natalielatta6552
      @natalielatta6552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Noel would have a field day with this

  • @justinlawrence7584
    @justinlawrence7584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who’s here from James Marriott and inabber

  • @ashliediard3881
    @ashliediard3881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Am I the only one who didn't have these conversations with friends or even family members?
    I would have felt very intrusive on my friends' personal lives as well by asking them their personal boundaries in their relationships. I've never felt it was my place.

    • @larevival4074
      @larevival4074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ashlie Diard I wish I HAD friends that would have approached this topic with me! Unfortunately I had friends like you who didn’t really care about me and my walk with God.

    • @sassib.4667
      @sassib.4667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know what you mean Ashlie. It would feel the same to me in a larger friend group. But I always had very good girl friends with whom I could talk about boundaries and their advice and perspective. I wouldn't talk with guys about this no matter how close the friendship. And also not in larger groups. But that is just how I see it. Talking with somebody (christian) about it is very important though.

    • @ocinidolegna
      @ocinidolegna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LA Revival wowie that was a jump. Someone feeling uncomfortable getting into the personal stuff of someone else's relationship doesnt mean they dont care. If they didnt care they wouldnt feel any sort of uncomfortability in the first place because their attitude would basically be that they dont care about the other person's feelings. Taking these things into consideration doesnt mean you dont care...

    • @aseafishh
      @aseafishh 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can see where you're coming from. It can be uncomfortable. I struggle with it. But we are to hold each other accountable. It's our responsibility. To me it seems like the graceful, right thing to do. I wish i had friendships like this as well.

    • @Thezaza1101
      @Thezaza1101 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@larevival4074 how self centred

  • @VictoriaHatzson
    @VictoriaHatzson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is one of the weirdest videos I’ve watched.. you’re literally vilifying physical touch between two partners by presenting sex before marriage as this diabolical act that if you commit your life is changed ...and then suddenly the guy who didn’t have sex is getting married to the girl he’s been seeing for two months.. how’s that any different ?? People just end up getting married sooner to have sex and without exploring their options or taking time to really get to know the other person

  • @reneemathews5551
    @reneemathews5551 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    "Iron man 7 the resurrection of Tony Stark!!!" Woww!!😂😂😂❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Renee Mathews baahaha😁

    • @crazyc6528
      @crazyc6528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When does it come out??? 😂

    • @lynnjoellegardner10
      @lynnjoellegardner10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was great 😂

    • @sunshine1110
      @sunshine1110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also thought that was funny hehe XD

    • @CS-hx1th
      @CS-hx1th 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmbo

  • @gradyadams2366
    @gradyadams2366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    At the start I thought that was legit Michael's girlfriend 😂

    • @lillysmith8091
      @lillysmith8091 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @Outcaaast
      @Outcaaast 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God will bring someone into his life soon. Fingers crossed 🤞

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Grady Adams gf only for the skit😊

    • @amyecorbin
      @amyecorbin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Michael needs to date Hannah Williamson :)

    • @marcosperez1329
      @marcosperez1329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amy Corbin I love the passion she has for Jesus.

  • @Alessandra-er7gg
    @Alessandra-er7gg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “I’m not talking about like Trump wall boundaries” 😂😂

  • @markmoore8399
    @markmoore8399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The moment that you think you are good is when you are most susceptible. (1 John 1:8) It's why we need to seek God (Matthew 6:33) above even each other.

  • @choochoocharli
    @choochoocharli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The distancing from friends is so true! Once I got into a situation where I was ashamed and didn't know how to get out, I did exactly that. You guys are top quality, thanks so much for making this.

  • @sb_3
    @sb_3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    loooove this video!! It was funny, but also helped me to see how to set boundaries in a practical way. I’m also in a big Christian friend group that is starting to break off in to couples, so I loved seeing the dynamic with the group of friends in this video. Thanks for posting! 💜

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Skai Rachel Ann awe so glad to hear❤️

  • @tabbyrh978
    @tabbyrh978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are actually decent actors 😂 I LOVED IT!!!! You got the message across super well and you should DEFINITELY do more of these!!!! Paul and Morgan's characters that they acted are actually like super accurate to what I've noticed even in my own Christian friend groups: boyfriends and girlfriends that can't seem to keep their hands off each other...and more often than not, that behaviour does lead to sex before marriage :/ Love you guys and keep shining

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you liked it Tabby! That’s what’s we were going for. Haha I was loling st the bloopers too😂

  • @EmilyClaireDaly
    @EmilyClaireDaly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I’m cringing so hard but the message is sooooo true

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emily Daly - TRACKING ED 😊😊

    • @carter5007
      @carter5007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This reminded me of a middle school “don’t do drugs” video.

    • @dropplett.
      @dropplett. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how is it true?

    • @n0penotagain647
      @n0penotagain647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was so cringeworthy and the message was indoctrinating

  • @keeba9540
    @keeba9540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    « I just think they’re weaker Christians »😂😂

  • @sharegrace2289
    @sharegrace2289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you guys for not being afraid of being cheesy 🧀 and making this short film!! It drove the point home! Appreciate your ministry and heart! 🙌🏼😍

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sharegrace awe you’re welcome❤️

  • @lisaschwab5154
    @lisaschwab5154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, This was such a good video! I know many young Christian couples who started out planning to wait for marriage, but because they didn't set good boundaries at the beginning and/or didn't agree together on those boundaries, they ended up crossing lines they never wanted to cross- never meant to cross. But once you've crossed those lines- I hope one will take comfort in these words from a much wiser woman than I who goes to my church: "Conviction is the opposite of Condemnation" . Conviction is remorse for having sinned against God and His Word, because it grieves His heart, but God has not closed the door to you! Condemnation would keep you bound in the weight of the guilt of sin. Yet, God uses conviction to lead you to repentance; and God is faithful to forgive us! Then, go and sin no more (John 8:10-11). - It's a decision, but God can help with that part too!

  • @jazzye_92
    @jazzye_92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great reminder of the importance of establishing physical boundaries from the get go when dating. I read an article recently on Desiring God's website that talked about the importance of setting boundaries in what u talk about and how often u talk to each other. For instance, don't talk about sex early into the relationship since it creates unnecessary thoughts. Or limit how long and how often u talk, instead of say texting ALLLLL day, limit it to an hour or so here and there which makes u more intentional in what u choose to talk about. And of course avoid late night communication as u guys have mentioned in a previous video. I'm so glad I found yall's channel, it's very useful in this season of singleness 😊

  • @hippygram
    @hippygram 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sorry, but you are sending the wrong messages to young people. I’m a senior, not a kid, or young adult. I believe in God, and that he gave us free will for a reason. To follow our own decisions and live OUR best lives. Mistakes will be made, which we will learn from. God does not warn us or frown on affection between people. Remember men wrote the Bible, it’s their interpretation of being a Christian. You are very unrealistic that people think this way.

  • @sunnyorencia7418
    @sunnyorencia7418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video truly resonated with me because it’s something I can relate to. I’ve been in a previous relationship where we’d cross each other’s physical boundaries, despite the fact that we both were Christian. I can only thank God that we did not have sex, but I still learned the hard way through that experience. When entering a relationship of any kind, you bring your own dysfunction into the relationship. I’ve acknowledged and repented of my sin. Just as Christ has forgiven me, I learned to forgive myself and the other person. God’s healing me each and every day. I’m at a place of peace in my heart despite the breakup. However, I keep no record of wrongs. Thank you so much again for this video, Paul and Morgan! God is using both of you in amazing ways. I’ll be keeping y’all in my prayers. Loves ❤️☀️

  • @allyiahluvsyou
    @allyiahluvsyou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    HONEST QUESTION: Just because someone else believes something is important (boundaries), why do they have the authority to tell another person that they should also believe it is important? What gives them the right to tell someone what should be important to them?

    • @POLYMATHSORTA
      @POLYMATHSORTA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AllyiahSlack(@LuceDivinaCrystals) Thank you for asking a honest question.
      A: it isn’t so much the person assert Their authority as it is an appeal to the the authority of the Holy Bible and an implied urgent invitation for the person to also accept its authority . The Holy BIble is the actual authority text on these moral subject matters .

    • @allyiahluvsyou
      @allyiahluvsyou 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your answer

    • @POLYMATHSORTA
      @POLYMATHSORTA 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      AllyiahSlack(@LuceDivinaCrystals) 👍

  • @angelhelton9098
    @angelhelton9098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I actually think this is soooo sooooo SO important. It has been on my heart alot about what boundaries I want to set in a relationship. Thank you for posting this!! And I love both of you so much!! Thanks for never being afraid to post uncomfortable subjects.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angel Helton awe thanks so much❤️

  • @linachauser8010
    @linachauser8010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There is a .000001% chance that I would marry Michael, but I am glad he is still single...

    • @inni3642
      @inni3642 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      HAHA love this

  • @danielwilliamson5546
    @danielwilliamson5546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One month later, Morgan is still wearing those same shorts.

  • @maryc8502
    @maryc8502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was such a good example of what happens to way too many couples for not being intentional and setting boundaries.

  • @rebeccahkay5528
    @rebeccahkay5528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So funny, but 100% true as well!! Loved how you added the part about repentance as well, a lot of people forget that you can still repent and gain Gods forgiveness and mercy after something like sexual sin!!

    • @hippygram
      @hippygram 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WTH is sexual “sin” That’s ridiculous to use the word sin with consensual sex.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching!

  • @brendalofrano9139
    @brendalofrano9139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg this video is so so so so truth. Unfortunately it happened with me once. Please everyone, just begin a relationship only if you are ready to get marriage. setting up boundaries is the best thing ever. Cause coming back to the God's work is So hard But not impossible.

  • @cassidymilne5584
    @cassidymilne5584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how much you guys involve your friends in your channel! It may be the Paul and Morgan Show but it's not all about you, its all about God and I really respect that!

  • @hannahdare4350
    @hannahdare4350 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t comment on TH-cam videos very often, but I’ve been following you guys for a long time and just want to thank you for making such great content. This short film was great... haha cheesy but great 😂 I’m loving the dating series you’ve been focusing on and an definitely setting aside all of these videos for reminders and encouragement!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hannah Dare awe thanks so much😊❤️ thanks for the comment!

  • @somethinggood9267
    @somethinggood9267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good vid guys! Even though people will tease you about this, it makes a lot of sense and it's so important to those of us who are serious about honoring God with our purity.

  • @keeba9540
    @keeba9540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When exactly should you set physical boundaries? Is it okay to talk about it during the dating stage or should you wait till you’re officially bf and gf or would it be too late by then ?

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A Z go watch the video we just did, ‘Our Physical Boundaries.’ We talk about that :)

  • @priscillaahlers
    @priscillaahlers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Y’all did great! Even though it was pretty cringy at parts I am very impressed! Great job guys🙌

  • @RiggyDiggy-Yeet
    @RiggyDiggy-Yeet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I honestly loved this, peeps! Thank you! Bruh, I yelled when ol' boy mentioned Iron Man 7! Ha! Also, the going out sequence of the actors and actresses was pretty cool, too! Made me think to for sure set boundaries when I get in a relationship one day! Thank you, Paul, Morgan, Lucy, Caroline, Michael, and Stephen! Great work! Bloopers were 🔥, too!

  • @danielscully9356
    @danielscully9356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cheesiness and all, using a story to communicate your point definitely brings it across in a different way. Looking through the cheese, it brings a gravity and seriousness to this that I appreciate and value. Thank you. I think you guys should continue to keep this style of communication in mind for the future; especially as you gain more capability/capacity for better videography. This has got to be some of the best bloopers from you yet. The door bell was so unexpected and hilarious! What are the chances!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha appreciate the insight, bro👊

  • @agnosticgamer3122
    @agnosticgamer3122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I didn’t realize Christians required a committee to be formed when they’re in relationships. Maybe this is a big reason why Christianity and I didn’t work out because when two of my friends are in a relationship. What they do or don’t do is none of my damn business.

    • @SarahRumley
      @SarahRumley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Atheist Gamer Right?! This is what I hated about mormonism and religion in general was people felt the need to interject themselves into your personal life and relationships. How does what I do with my body affect anyone whatsoever???

  • @madisonlivesay8140
    @madisonlivesay8140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This clip has 97% rating on Rotten Tomatoes.
    For real guys this was so cheesy but very true!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Madison Livesay haha thank you!

  • @blessygrace7028
    @blessygrace7028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My goodness the bloopers though I can't stop laughing 😂😂
    It's Amazing you guys, just love it! Great job 👏 GOD BLESS Y'ALL 🙌😍♥️

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blessy Grace awe haha glad you liked it!

  • @madelynwinslow6213
    @madelynwinslow6213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was great! What advice would y'all have about starting a conversation about setting physical boundaries when it comes to a long-distance relationship?

    • @nathalie9751
      @nathalie9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hi Madelyn! You didnt ask for my advice but I Thought I could just give it to you anyway lol I think talking about the language you use to talk to each other is a good start :) God bless

    • @paigeemcwaigee
      @paigeemcwaigee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m not them either (odviously lol) but ive had friends in long distance relationships. I think that you should start by just talking about like the person before me said love launguage and how you communicate! But another thing is if you plan on meeting up odviously you should definitely talk more about things like saving yourself for marriage but also other physical boundaries like hugging kissing sleeping in the same bed, etc.

    • @madelynwinslow6213
      @madelynwinslow6213 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, Nathalia and Paige! :)

    • @Anne-ll2eh
      @Anne-ll2eh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would agree with the others. Language used is very important, as well as topics of conversation, pictures exchanged etc and if the intent of the relationship is marriage then at some point before that physical meet ups will have to occur so a general and clear conversation on the topic of boundaries despite the distance should be had and follow ups on it throughout the relationship, especially before physical meetings. God bless

  • @zogly9469
    @zogly9469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    A little cheesy? Sure. But not bad overall! I really like that you included the accountability side. older, wiser people, or good Godly peers are an amazing resource and help. To keep my thoughts brief instead of posting the book-like comment I had typed up:
    I have found that being very specific in boundaries is important. Setting firm ones in place that are not based on situation/context, and that address as many physical acts or environments as possible. Not allowing too many "grey areas." (If it's grey, perhaps it's better to not do it either, even if it's "fine." If a couple is relying on each other to say something when you're starting to cross lines in a "grey area," they're going to end up crossing them. (P.S. Is Michael actually dating now, or was that just for the film?)

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zogly really appreciate your wisdom bro. Good stuff!

  • @eniolafujah
    @eniolafujah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys so much, I lead a Bible study in university and I will be playing this video for the students to help them understand boundaries in dating. No one talks about this.
    Thank you for sharing this video, your videos are so insightful, relevant and helpful. Thank you for being a vessel for God

  • @jessicagerlach6147
    @jessicagerlach6147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seriously guys, you hit the nail right on the head. I really wish I had seen this video back when my husband and I were dating. I feel that your skit spoke volumes. Keep up the awesome content!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awe glad to hear it😊❤️

  • @themadisonstevens
    @themadisonstevens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this!! Bless you all for being a light in spite of the hate, and for advising others in such a loving way. You guys are so encouraging, and uplifting...I’m grateful for you and your channel! :)

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      STEVE :3 awe praise God thank you❤️

  • @Chryslerdealership
    @Chryslerdealership 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Aww I love this short film! It really helps me see boundaries in a better way. Thank you for all the efforts you put into your videos ❤❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Christina Dimidenko yay so glad!❤️

    • @kallixoxo5334
      @kallixoxo5334 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im so sorry that you have fallen into the belief that you need to "save yourself" for marriage. It is very unhealthy to believe that you lose value if you have sex. Sex is natural and nothing to be ashamed of. Of course, i am not advocating for having sex with someone new every weekend that would be ridiculously unsafe and can lead some people to feel only valued in the physical sense, and not as a whole person. However, there is nothing wrong with a healthy balanced relationship that includes sex before marriage.

  • @oneinemily
    @oneinemily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so awesome, gave such a great perspective, please keep making more!

  • @jazzyrobot
    @jazzyrobot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ahaha this was hilarious but great! After having some conversations recently with friends who love the Lord but have gone further physically in their relationships than they ever intended to before marriage, I realise even more the importance of boundaries- literally like in this film! I'm single, but thanks to your advocacy of boundaries, and the realisation that the temptation is greater than most Christians seem to imagine, I already have a pretty clear idea of the boundaries I want to stick to when I am in a relationship- like Paul did- and I think you guys are a great example. Thanks!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jazzyrobot awe that’s really encouraging!

  • @isaacmogilevsky1857
    @isaacmogilevsky1857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really appreciate your guys creativity, it seems like you had a lot of fun making this!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isaac Mogilevsky thanks bro, we did😄

  • @kendrafidlin8658
    @kendrafidlin8658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this video! I wouldn't mind watching more "cheesy" films from y'all!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kendra fidlin haha okay cool!

  •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Bruh I am DYING 😂 I appreciate how accurate this is and that you made such an important video in a fun way! God bless!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      María de Fátima awe that’s what we were hoping❤️

  • @katiec.6473
    @katiec.6473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i loved this different kind of video!! i bet you all had a lot of fun filming it AND it taught a lot! love y’all :)

  • @hblane1
    @hblane1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    this was really convicting! what a lighthearted way of showing a real issue we don’t talk about enough!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hblane1 awe good to hear😊

    • @lydiexo5868
      @lydiexo5868 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      “a real issue”

  •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wasn't going to watch the whole video when i clicked.... but I couldn't help myself. lol
    It was really fun, loved it!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fé e Tulipas hahah aww yay! Glad we kept your interest 😄😂

  • @angelicamendes6939
    @angelicamendes6939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love the style of this video, very lighthearted and gentle but bold in the truth. The examples and explanations shared are very easy to understand.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Angel Love awe really glad to hear that❤️

  • @mikoemenes
    @mikoemenes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂 Ha ha ha! You all are awesome! Such an important message. I kept on expecting the “one month later” to be a baby bump. Great creativity to tell a story and compare what can happen. The outtakes are the cherry on top!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha thanks for watching!❤️

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Yay! So looking forward to this video! I love how you invited others! And it's a film 😃
    Edit: I loved that- funny but definitely a serious topic. Great job!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allison Lucas yay glad you liked it!❤️

  • @kichihoe9819
    @kichihoe9819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why I am a lesbian and an atheist

  • @Merrrvinson
    @Merrrvinson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Awesome video😂 funny and serious 👌thanks guys

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mer Vinson awe welcome😊😊

  • @swirlyferly
    @swirlyferly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was the funniest and cutest and most Oscar deserving thing I’ve ever watched 😂😂👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ferlynn Awwww haha❤️❤️

  • @JisSilent_
    @JisSilent_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was soooooo accurate!! I have truly enjoyed this 5 part series I will definitely be sharing this with my friends. This was such a creative way to explain the dangers of not setting physical boundaries. Good work you guys! God bless you all! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awe so glad to hear it! Thank you❤️

  • @Amanda-qv8vy
    @Amanda-qv8vy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    lol wth even just happened?

  • @yanniakajohn3858
    @yanniakajohn3858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was the most dramatic, hilarious informative , Christian educational video I’ve seen.

  • @believe.receive
    @believe.receive 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stumbled upon one of these hardcore Christian videos. In the politest way possible, their behaviour after having sex shocked me. Maybe I'm missing something because I'm not very religious but all of this just seems so extreme. Is it necessary to feel such guilt over something that is natural? And do Christians think that God sends them to hell if they have sex before marriage and don't repent? Quite confused over here.

  • @baabaenninglowz
    @baabaenninglowz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a fun and cheesy way to get such an important message across. Good job guys :D

  • @shadybb7662
    @shadybb7662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    none of this will happen if you have sex before marriage. have sex when YOU feel comfortable doing so. this is a horrible example. again, do it when you feel comfortable with whoever you want whenever you want

  • @juless5682
    @juless5682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was really good. Very entertaining 😂

  • @inkandpaperloveedits
    @inkandpaperloveedits 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are amazing! This showed me what it might really look like to cross boundaries! Thank you SO much! Also the bloopers killed me! I don’t think I’ve ever seen Paul laugh like that!

  • @peterharrison6495
    @peterharrison6495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The beauty of Gods wisdom.......waiting til marriage helps you create time to know each other more, helps you be tolerant of each other, builds the foundation if your relationship on durable love rather than the availability of sex(coz yall gon grow old someday and sex wont be as fun, atleast with your partner and one of yall gon cheat), helps you understand true love and prevents you using each other to gratify your sexual lusts and sub conciously objectifying each other.......marriage based in Gods wisdom will last, if not yall wont be able to withstand struggles with each other....
    Thank You God for the Wisdom....
    God bless Paul and Morgan and friends

  • @sydneymoen3135
    @sydneymoen3135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So well made! Please please please do more short films! It was funny, but also showed real situations! A+ guys!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sydney Moen awe so glad to hear!

  • @brikate9806
    @brikate9806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE it! Even with the cheesiness it was great fun to watch. And a GREAT message! Love y'all 💙

  • @reneemathews5551
    @reneemathews5551 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this video 💜💜 you guys are amazing!!! You got you point across in such an entertaining way!! Awesome work by all 6 of you❤❤❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Renee Mathews awe thank you!❤️

  • @gabrielles98
    @gabrielles98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BRO, THIS IS EXCELLENT!! SO GOOD!! And I feel like Michael would say that for real if he were getting married! :)
    And that mention of Tony Start resurrecting, brrrroooooo!! Oh my gosh!! I wish!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gabrielle S haha glad you liked it!

  • @carolineurena8509
    @carolineurena8509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this! 💖💖 It was a bit cheesy but it was good! HAHAHAHA "Trump-like wall boundaries" I DIEEEEED 😂😂😂😂

  • @JanaeCrawford
    @JanaeCrawford 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was amazing! As you said, a bit corny lol BUT the message was SO on point. I wish a video like this was out years ago because I could've definitely related. I also think having a group of strong fellow Christian friends/couples is also VERY important. I grew up Christian but moved various times and never had those friendships, so, not that I'm blaming my sins or struggles on anyone else- because only I can do them- but I will say definitely finding people with the same beliefs as you to keep you accountable - especially when in a relationship - is a must.

  • @gafortoday4647
    @gafortoday4647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely loved this short film! It really puts what ya'll talk about in your videos into real life situations. Thank you for doing what you do!

  • @jayceemiller3400
    @jayceemiller3400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have never been this early. How long did this take to make? Also how’s your day today Paul and Morgan?

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Topic Taste yay😊 Some planning and then a few hours of filming

  • @lieslweber6912
    @lieslweber6912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it!! Keep up the good work guys❣️See this to aften "we are adults we know what we're doing" and then weeks later....... boundaries are needed!#TonyStarkForevvvvver!!!!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Liesl Weber thank you! Right on😊

  • @gabrielfranciscorichardson9557
    @gabrielfranciscorichardson9557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really Awesome visual of the crucial lesson! Thank you for this!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gabriel Richardson thank you!

  • @ericanewby5894
    @ericanewby5894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love this!💕 It was a little cheesy but super cute! Y'all got the message through very clearly and in a fun way! Great job!👍 The "I'm not talking Trump wall boundaries" had my dying😂😂 Can y'all tell Lucy that her highlight was on point for me? I need to know what it was asap!! Keep encouraging people and being the light ya'll!😊

  • @melissadiazrodriguez4952
    @melissadiazrodriguez4952 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a GREAAAAAAT video 👏🏼 Praise the Lord.

  •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is was cheesy and cringy in the best possible way😂😁😍 I loved it, that was a great 100k gift😜😊

  • @bunnyI3oy15
    @bunnyI3oy15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi y’all love your videos and I love this one it’s a great example of what to do and what not to do.
    Plus the iron man 7 resurrection of tony stark killed me

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cesar cruz 😂❤️❤️

  • @jaylendiller4323
    @jaylendiller4323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a great take on boundaries Paul & Morgan! I know this video is a little cheesy, but I loved how it helped to show the perspective y’all have and share everyday! Good job!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jaylen Diller thank you so much. We really appreciate that 😄💜

  • @HarryHannahEvans
    @HarryHannahEvans 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Soooo good!! I really needed to see this today!

  • @Rockenster15
    @Rockenster15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Boundaries is key. Without boundaries is without respect for the both of you guys.
    For the Lord blesses a man with a wife. But respect comes before marriage and stays even after marriage.
    Amen!!!

  • @tanyasichkar6844
    @tanyasichkar6844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Setting boundaries in your relationship sounds important.

  • @pethias1016
    @pethias1016 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooooo good!! Really will help a lot of young couples who didn't start off right but can restart and do everything the right way. It's tough but i like it how you were guys were speaking about having other people hold us accountable. Love your channel so much Paul and Morgan!! You guys should do a meet and greet in NY!

  • @worshipandstrings
    @worshipandstrings 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for creating this! The message was clear and can inspire many Christian couples to practice purity. And the bloopers were hysterical 🤣

  • @CharleneNicole67
    @CharleneNicole67 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was thoroughly entertaining to watch! Lol loved all the cheese and the message! Please do more skits like this honestly 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @daisyhinojosa23
    @daisyhinojosa23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Short films are so cute!! I love them 💕 great video

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      daisyhinojosa23 awe glad to hear!❤️

  • @abbytubbs4510
    @abbytubbs4510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was so cute! And very realistic! Love you guys!❤

  • @ohyeah2269
    @ohyeah2269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome i loooovvvee this. So relatable to my past mistakes and what I've learnt.😊 this is a great expression of the point or message. I've always wanted friends and people in my life to get it. And this is a great way to teach

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah awe thank you❤️❤️

  • @dancindonuts4735
    @dancindonuts4735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YES THEY NEED AN IRON MAN 7 BOIIIIII
    Great message guys!! Love you guys so much, you are such an inspiration for me! I wanna be like you Morgan. LOVE YOU GUYS!!🎉❤👌❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      KateLynn Osborn awe glad you liked it!❤️❤️

  • @emily2263
    @emily2263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome. Need this and love this! Thank you Paul and Morgan!!!

  • @annabromley2331
    @annabromley2331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was really cool. Thank you

  • @Hermandesigns123
    @Hermandesigns123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well played guys!

  • @abby.padilla
    @abby.padilla 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a great example!! Thank you guys so much for making this, great job!

  • @KellBell-oz3cu
    @KellBell-oz3cu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay this was so awesome! 😆😆😂 loves this

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GODLY GIRL23 awe yayyyy❤️

  • @sallydot8880
    @sallydot8880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good!!! I would actually really enjoy more skits! lol great job guys. :)

  • @ItsEverythingEuodia
    @ItsEverythingEuodia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you guys 💜

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Orikundela Matshili ❤️❤️

  • @danatanner2390
    @danatanner2390 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all, 😂😂😂 I love this video! I think yall should do little skits pertaining to all of your past videos! This is so cute!