Paul and Morgan Awww your so kind thankyou! I would say um maybe a day out at the park or the zoo maybe it’s out and about and in public too which is always good when dating 😁
i’m LOVING this series so far! a date i would personally love to go on is a cute picnic watching the sunset. but i can see how that can go a bit too far
Playing a sport together!!:) I know not every likes sports(pacifically Girls), but I think it would be fun to play basketball together and you can invite your friends to play to!!:)
I am beginning to think dating is a bit of a waste of time, and just getting to the point with marrying is best. Within reason of course. It just might not take as long as you think.
I agree with the point on texting, in the early stages it's a bit much to be pouring out so much and like doing those late night texting can be unhealthy at the beginning and make you a little dependent on the other person and then if you were to break up early on in the relationship, it's gonna feel like something's now missing in your life and it might take a toll on you, so moderation is key for everything basically, so don't be clingy haha 💕
True Story: First date - We went to a pizza parlor and took the food to go and went across the street to Target and ate the pizza pie on their display furniture.
@@briannacollie2742 then there was another time that I took this gal to a restaurant and a random couple walked in right after us and the host said, "a table for four?" and I said yeah! So, the random couple looked at me with confusion (as well as the girl I was taking on a date) and I said, "how bout it?" They agreed and so we went one a double date with two complete strangers.
Loved the video! Ive dated 2 very worldy men, and I'm happy I've turned to God. Please pray for me! My baptism is on this Sunday, the 7th, and I'm excited but scared. Pray for God to give me courage through Christ. I know God will make it go well! ❤
Aww congratulations Amanda! So happy for you! This will be the best decision of your life. People let us down all the time because we’re not perfect, but God’s love is perfect and unfailing. Of course there will be difficult times, but think of what your trials may produce (Romans 8)!!
I'm praying for whomever my future wife is. Perhaps I have met her or perhaps I have yet to, but I know whomever she is, she is a wonderful and beautiful person :)
Hockey Scouting Reports with Matt Levine keep praying for her! That is so awesome! I find the more I pray about my future husband the more God shows me more and more characteristics I'm looking for.
your first practical advice (about always having a specific plan on what to do) - that was PURE BIBLICAL WISDOM ! Praise the Heavenly Father for people like you.
I'm really loving this series! I appreciate you guys taking time to talk about the dating world. It can be kind of overwhelming and scary. I'm 18 and have never been on a date. I look forward to dating in God's timing and know these videos will be so helpful to me then!😊💜
I like your point about constantly texting. My last relationship was built on a friendship, which was built on mostly texts. A year before we started dating, we moved to video calls, but still did a lot of texting, especially when missing each other. You can sometimes find it easier to say things over text that you would be more cautious/hesitant saying saying in person, which makes it easy to let the emotions fly!!! Good points on limiting time, and making sure that time together is occupied. I like walks in the park, and visits to amusement parks. :) Your dating idea of the day: Go to your local Good will or thrift shop. Each of you picks out a (modest) outfit for the other person. On your next date, you wear those clothes, even if they're goofy and unfashionable. This might not be the best if you care about fashion, but it's a great time to step out and to an awkward/fun thing together regardless of what people think. And you get to laugh a lot. :D Idea 2: One of you plans the date out, then sits and waits at the location. Along the way, they've prepared clues for the other to find/get in texts that that person has to figure out to find the place. You could also come up with a consequence if the person can't figure out the (reasonable) clues and gives up.
Alyssa Hoyt Awesome! Did you guys try to find the best possible outfits, or were you going for the wacky and tacky laugh at each other a bit route? 🙂🙃🙂
Going on the road trip together is an interesting idea for a date. I personally would love to do that one day. No plans, no destination place, just go with the flow. Stop by for some food and have a lunch near the river out of town, explore some new places, or even sleep in the car for a night (if you're married of course). Seem like a fun getaway from an everyday routine
This was great advice. I highly agree with what you said about not texting and calling a bunch at first, it's really overwhelming and can escalate emotions really quickly
I caught a gem here : (speaking about infatuation) 10:20 “don’t let your mind be clouded with pink clouds raining obsession marshmallows” 😂 THIS IS GOLD!!
I'm 19 going on 20 and haven't dated yet. Just not ready for dating yet, but I watch these videos so I can know that when I am ready, I know how to approach it. Thanks for the great content. Shalom!
I genuinely laugh at your videos. I enjoy them! I’m 20 and a single mom to my 18 month old daughter. I have a past but God has washed me clean from it ✨I know God has the one out there for my daughter & I, but sometimes I get lonely & impatient! I also moved to another state over a year ago and with working, being a full time single mom & school, I have no time for friends. I actually kind of forget how to make friends. We do go to church, but I still haven’t met any friends there. I believe the Lord is keeping me alone so I can work on the most important relationship with him. Please pray for me though. My name is Cameron & my daughters name is Zinnia, like the flower. Thank you guys & thank you for your videos, they help me keep hope! Be blessed✨
That's such a cute name for your daughter! Hopefully your church has some type of bible study group you can join and dive deeper in connection with people? Keep your faith up girl! Being a young single mother is not easy, but God will keep you lifted. I'll be praying for you!
I was a single mom for seven years until I met my husband we dated for six years I know a long time. We just weren’t in the right financial place to get married sooner. We have now have been married five years and have an almost three year old son. So we have two boys a teen and a toddler. We are best friends. Being a single mom is the hardest thing you will ever do but the most rewarding. At times I had lost hope. I now have a loving family, loving husband that loves both his boys equally. Just remember your worth the best sometimes it’s just worth the wait. Glad you are taking care of you and your child’s future. Good luck . Just know that coming from your exact place in life there is hope! Your worth the best your daughter is worth the best never settle take your time listen to your inner voice. I hope you meet your best friend soon.
Love the video guys! My grandpa's been having a hard time getting food down lately and he got something stuck in his throat real bad while he was here today. He'd definitely appreciate some prayer
Date ideas: 1) Maybe go to a park and make sand castles and play on the swings? See how much fun it is to be kids again together on the playground :) 2) Go on a hike together in a densely forested place - see how adventurous the person is. Do they take charge like pirates looking for treasure? Or are they careful an cautious? Also, do they take some time to look around and take it in, or do they have a "get to the goal" mentality (which also depends on what you guys stated as the purpose for the hike - ie was the goal to hike and enjoy, or get to the top and see they view?) ? 3) Oh! If you have a subway (AKA metro) in your area, try getting off at all the different stops and go exploring together :) Or, do the same thing with the bus stops. Walk around and get lost together in an area you're not very familiar with :) 4) Maybe just make up songs and sing together and have fun :) Medleys, new tunes, sing and match and enjoy :) 5) Pray and worship time together for sure! But free worship and prayer time; not just rigid "this that and the next". 6) Karaoke! :D Because singing is great!! :D Okay, I'll leave it at that (though there are surely more ideas).
Yay first comment 😁 love the video such great advice for Godly dating and having good boundaries and not going overboard and forgetting spending time with friends and family
Happy 4th of July! How blessed we are in America to be able to worship freely and preach on the streets without being arrested! Love Him with your yes! Do ALL in the NAME of Jesus ♥️✝️
Paul and Morgan - been watching for a year and donated a few times, how blessed you guys are! Do more live streams like you used to! I like donating with a comment and I like seeing the joy it brings you in real time... ! Hopefully finances are much better than last year!!
Paul and Morgan - her deepest desire is for you to figure it out yourself without her having to tell you directly, Paul! hahaha bro I’m just having fun with you, but take care of that woman!!!!
Even 12 years married, it really is important to be your own self and have your own time away from your spouse, too. Obvs when you’re married two become one, but once careers and kids and in-laws and LIFE gets busy, I found that spending time together is more important now AND taking time to care for myself is vital for our marriage.
I love your point about how during your dating phase, you shouldn't spend every waking moment together since if/when you get married, you'll be forced to. There's a lot of pressure for us to spend as much time with our partner before marriage as possible so we "really know" them and if they're "good for us" and whatnot, and you put dating back in its proper place with that. Thank you!!!
My boyfriend and I dating over a year and a half staying pure- We almost always incorporate a physical activity like rock-climbing, swing dancing, walks/runs, workouts, stretching etc. This has been really good. Also we always spend lots of time with each other’s families! This has also been so good. For the first year we allowed some more physical ckoseness like cuddling but now for the last 7 months we only allow hand-holding and occasional brief hugs. The relationship is just too long term to be cuddling all the time... while we were knowing about eachother before, (having had a solid friend stage), it has been good to take a physical step back as the Lord directed us for this time.
Wow amazing! How did you start that conversation about taking a step back? Who initiated it? And At what point did you realize the level of closeness was too much?
tori apodaca tori apodaca My partner had expressed some concerns at times about other areas of our relationship lacking the energy and growth. But it wasn’t until I began to realize the relationship would be longer term than I originally expected that I brought it up-I was expecting marriage to come sooner. But God told me to take a step back. So I mustered the courage and told my man about what I was thinking-presenting it as a healthy challenge. It rang true with him and we were immediately on the same page. He has always done nothing but respect me! Now he is much more capable of focusing on self-improvement and readiness. So it was clear the level was too close when I realized our timeline was going to be different, less energy was being invested in emotional closeness/openness, and ultimately when God made it clear to me, and confirmed through my partner’s affirmation.
Here’s a fun date idea: get a shoebox and fill it with ideas that can be pretty easy to do spontaneously like for example “drive until lost and then explore the city 🌃 together” and then place these simple ideas in the shoebox and you both can make one so the guys has one and the girl has one. Then when you want to go on a date, one person randomly picks something from that box and then you guys spontaneously do that idea without any plans
Paul and Morgan maybe you and Paul should try it lol and see how it is. I’ve personally not done it as I’m currently not dating but I’ve always thought of fun date ideas for when I am dating and this was of of them I came up with
Date ideas: Have a picnic at a local park and watch the wildlife. Go on a hike. Get friends together for a pick up game of volleyball, soccer, basketball, or your game of choice. Have a progressive dinner....appetizers at one location, main course at another, and desserts at the final location. This can be at restaurants or friends houses. Go out for just desserts; the melting pot is a great location for this! Go to a park and read a book together. Or read separate books but sitting next to each other.
I’m meeting up with a guy for the first time in a few days. We decided to meet at an event our church is putting on. I’m so glad we’re doing that rather than meeting for dinner or something. It’ll be nice to see him in that setting and not be just the two of us. Less pressure and great insight into how he worships! I’m looking forward to it!
I would love to see a video on long-distance relationships/ online dating 💜A fun date idea that my boyfriend and i want to try, is dressing up in period clothing (for us, 1950s) and go somewhere or do an activity that people form that time would do (movie, dance, etc)🙂. We are a bit further away from eachother, almost 2 hrs, so just get time on weekends. Having plans is good so we use our time together wisely. And we do communicate a lot, just because we dont get as much time as some couples do during the week. Communication is key and you are so right that both people need time with friends of the same sex, family, etc
That part where Paul kissed Morgan on the cheek was so cute! & loved this, I’m enjoying every second of my single life with Jesus, but also very excited to see what godly man God has for me ♥️
Yes boundaries are very important the moment boundaries aren't there you morals may get tested and nobody wants to get tempted into doing something they don't wanna do 😬
For someone like me who's grown into a long term relationship in a non christian setting, I'm watching this and I wish I could go back in time and take things slow and be more intentional about my dating if that makes any sense ..
Bible study dates are amazing! You get to know your boy/girlfriend on a deeper, more spiritual level. Also, doing something fun, such as laser tag or paintball would be fun.
Great ideas and advice guys! 😊 some date ideas I like doing with my boyfriend is going to the gym together and then getting coffee/breakfast after. And you guys are so right having something to when you guys are together is so important, even if it’s something simple like going to a bookstore and grabbing smoothies together. There will be plenty of time when you’re married to sit at home and hang out together.
OOOO date ideas 1. go on a beauuutiful drive, roll down the windows and sing and dance and end the night with a sunset and burritos 🥰 2. california, beach date, then ride bikes/ skateboards along the beach, go to the pier and ride rollercoasters, play carnivals games 3. bowling or roller skating 4. hikes 5. go surfing together 6. dave and busters date, play arcades games all day 7. picnic in the park and boat riding across the pond 8. drive far enough to a city you both don’t really know and explore it all day 9. romantic beach sunset (my favorite one) 10. drive-in movie
9:22 y’all are so sweet!!! I’d say a great date idea is serving. My bf and I started out going on dates to the local food pantry or homeless shelter delivering supplies and packing backpacks and it was really great to see the kindness and compassion in him. It shows a lot about a person to see their hearts attitude toward serving others.
Great vid again! Also, I am completely opposite to you, Paul, when it comes to date ideas haha. I am SUPER creative, so my goal is that when I start dating I want to have my significant other give me a list of certain things she likes and then give her the biggest surprises. However, I want to one up each one the best I can and then the proposal would be the biggest if it gets to that. And if it doesn't work out with that person, every girl has different interests and desires, so I get to start over and be even more creative! That's what I am most looking forward to when I date.
I love Parent Trap! That's so true what you said about that haha. The camping scene has me in stitches every time. Basically, if you want to know what a person is like, set up your family to play really mean tricks on them!! (Though probably don't go too far with that...) I love walks. I would really like to go on a forest/hill walk or something for a date. You can have really cool conversations on walks and get to know people a lot better, but it's also not as intense as a face to face dinner or something.
You guys are truly helping me with my dating life. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half and are holding off getting married until we are out of college. I am really looking forward to the video when you guys talk about how to be engaged, when it's appropriate to move in, things like that. Love y'all ❤️
We’re both in university so we have simple dates like study dates at a cafe. I love study dates because I think we can just be there silently doing our work and yet bond over it.
God bless you and your family thank you so very much for this video that is a prayer I ask For all the time so you answered it thank you.love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia
Date idea: rock climbing - it's different, you'll be good and hungry afterwards, and it's something active you can do without having to be super athletic or skilled or experienced to enjoy
Please make a video on how to know if you really are in love with someone, specifically a guy. Is it love, a crush, obsession, or infatuation? If you're in love, how to deal with it if they're a friend. Thanks❤
This was really great advice! I personally know people who got into a relationship and completely neglected me along with all our other friends then expected us to warm-hearted welcome her when her heart got broken...
When Paul leaned in to kiss Morgan that was so funny because he was in the process of leaning in for a good couple of seconds and then both of their reactions were just great 🤩💛😂😂
Date idea: On the 3rd of July, tell her your going on a date. Look up where there's gonna be fireworks but don't tell her. Get some fast food or pizza and sit in the restaurants parking lot and watch the show!
Ah, new here. And seeing you guys... this scripture has set in my heart for you guys! If anything Morgan, I believe you would understand more of what it means!! “For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy. Don’t you wives realize that your husbands might be saved because of you? And don’t you husbands realize that your wives might be saved because of you?” 1 Corinthians 7:14, 16 NLT Just dropped the full scripture. Because of you guys already being married, MORGAN- that scripture is for you to rest on! (you both)❤️ Keep praying, hearing God, and seeking Him about your marriage! It’s in my heart to tell you to spend a lot of time in YOUR prayer closet. It’s awesome to pray together but sometimes we need that alone time to hear God concerning a matter! I believe our God is so faithful and real! He will definitely answer according to what he sees in and on our heart beyond what human knows! God bless you all!
I'm late to the show, but I just wanted to chime in with a couple of my ideas for dating (both for established couples and new relationships): Start a project together! Something creative that you both enjoy and are interested in. It can be all sorts of things. Buy a big canvas and paint a picture together as a couple, make music together, ask if you can perform in church and practice together and make a show if you like singing/playing an instrument. You could also help person X with a project in their home (or your shared home if you like together, of course). Perhaps person X needs help organizing their kitchen because they're bad at that and person Y is good at it. Or perhaps person Y would like som help decorating the home and making it cosy and homey, which person X loves doing. I hope I'm making sense - it's very early in the morning and English isn't my first language. Have a great day! 😊 🌸🦄🌸
I'm laying in a parking lot in my tent on a hill in san Jose California. My girlfriend decided to break it off 2 days ago because she was worried that we would cross boundaries that were very important to us. Yes we did go a little some can say but it wasnt the first time. As a man I feel obligated to hold up my side and help her with staying pure and vise versa. But yeah I live 2 hours away from where I am right now. My girlfriend is somewhere with her extended family in this town and I decided to drive out here in the middle of the night so I can wake up and go see her and see where God leads both of our hearts. I know I can not mend the relationship back together. But I know God can. But yeah I think we did invade eachother lives a little too much. I can even say that iv stopped hanging out with some friends. So I'm praying that God can give me courage to speak truth not to win her back but to see if she understands me, and if God allows her heart to be mended back the all praise to him.
Would you recommend sitting together at church on your church date? I don’t know if I would at first, only because the pressure of trying to impress the other person might be a distraction from truly worshipping. Thoughts?
Date idea: find an animal shelter that allows volunteers to play with the animals (some even allow you to take one for a day and bring it back). Spend the day playing with your lil fluffer and having pure joyful fun
I'm currently single but my dating life in the past could have benefitted sooooo much from all the truth and Christian focus that you guys lay out in your videos! I love that I found you guys, Your opinions are great to have alongside my faith armor as I walk into my second virginity. Video topic idea: SECOND VIRGINITY!
My boyfriend and I do text everyday all day pretty much, but don't find it harder to talk in person (we also spend 6 or so days a week together). We've been dating for 7 months and been friends for 1.5 years. If he's gone for more than a day, I miss him terribly. I really think it depends on the couple. We do make sure to hang out with other people, though. We're always out with friends.
My husband and I were dating for a year before he proposed and we basically spent every day together texted all the time 😂 sometimes it’s just up to each persons individual relationship. I’m a Christian, but I guess more progressive because we didn’t set physical boundaries and it worked out just fine for us
Hi Paul and Morgan. You make a lot of videos about boundaries while dating, but what are boundaries you should have when it comes to getting to know a potential significant other? For instance how long is too long spending time with them? And when are you giving too much of your time before dating them?
Hey P&M Fam! Comment and let us know your thoughts on this topic and the series so far. Also share 1 date idea (help Paul Out😜)
Paul and Morgan Awww your so kind thankyou! I would say um maybe a day out at the park or the zoo maybe it’s out and about and in public too which is always good when dating 😁
i’m LOVING this series so far! a date i would personally love to go on is a cute picnic watching the sunset. but i can see how that can go a bit too far
Trip to Israel. There is date and video idea. 😊
A couples cooking class is a great idea!
Playing a sport together!!:)
I know not every likes sports(pacifically Girls), but I think it would be fun to play basketball together and you can invite your friends to play to!!:)
I would love to date, but I need to get to know Jesus better first.
Dragon Dreamer 😊😊
You're want to date Jesus?
I agree 100% with that!!! I think its the best sort of dating mindset you can have! May God bless you!
I am beginning to think dating is a bit of a waste of time, and just getting to the point with marrying is best. Within reason of course. It just might not take as long as you think.
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I agree with the point on texting, in the early stages it's a bit much to be pouring out so much and like doing those late night texting can be unhealthy at the beginning and make you a little dependent on the other person and then if you were to break up early on in the relationship, it's gonna feel like something's now missing in your life and it might take a toll on you, so moderation is key for everything basically, so don't be clingy haha 💕
Nas Ellis good stuff!
True Story: First date - We went to a pizza parlor and took the food to go and went across the street to Target and ate the pizza pie on their display furniture.
😂😂😂😂 I like that
@@briannacollie2742 then there was another time that I took this gal to a restaurant and a random couple walked in right after us and the host said, "a table for four?" and I said yeah! So, the random couple looked at me with confusion (as well as the girl I was taking on a date) and I said, "how bout it?" They agreed and so we went one a double date with two complete strangers.
Enteractive Media woah bold and kinda epic🙌
@@MyTestimony I agree with Paul and Morgan. That's bold 😂😂.
@@PaulandMorgan twas' not enough to keep her 😓
Loved the video! Ive dated 2 very worldy men, and I'm happy I've turned to God.
Please pray for me! My baptism is on this Sunday, the 7th, and I'm excited but scared. Pray for God to give me courage through Christ. I know God will make it go well! ❤
Awe so cool, congrats!❤️
Aww congratulations Amanda! So happy for you! This will be the best decision of your life. People let us down all the time because we’re not perfect, but God’s love is perfect and unfailing. Of course there will be difficult times, but think of what your trials may produce (Romans 8)!!
Welcome to the family of God
I'm praying for whomever my future wife is. Perhaps I have met her or perhaps I have yet to, but I know whomever she is, she is a wonderful and beautiful person :)
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Hockey Scouting Reports with Matt Levine keep praying for her! That is so awesome! I find the more I pray about my future husband the more God shows me more and more characteristics I'm looking for.
Did you find her yet?
dating idea: Go hiking together, or do something outdoors and active! Thanks for the video!
your first practical advice (about always having a specific plan on what to do) - that was PURE BIBLICAL WISDOM !
Praise the Heavenly Father for people like you.
Sam Ard. 😊😊
I'm really loving this series! I appreciate you guys taking time to talk about the dating world. It can be kind of overwhelming and scary. I'm 18 and have never been on a date. I look forward to dating in God's timing and know these videos will be so helpful to me then!😊💜
Sky Bishop awe so glad to hear😊❤️
Paul and Morgan ❤❤❤
Hey I’m 17 I don’t what your type is but I am here
LovingChristhroughlove Hey! I think it'd be really cool to be friends (:
I like your point about constantly texting. My last relationship was built on a friendship, which was built on mostly texts. A year before we started dating, we moved to video calls, but still did a lot of texting, especially when missing each other. You can sometimes find it easier to say things over text that you would be more cautious/hesitant saying saying in person, which makes it easy to let the emotions fly!!! Good points on limiting time, and making sure that time together is occupied. I like walks in the park, and visits to amusement parks. :)
Your dating idea of the day: Go to your local Good will or thrift shop. Each of you picks out a (modest) outfit for the other person. On your next date, you wear those clothes, even if they're goofy and unfashionable. This might not be the best if you care about fashion, but it's a great time to step out and to an awkward/fun thing together regardless of what people think. And you get to laugh a lot. :D
Idea 2: One of you plans the date out, then sits and waits at the location. Along the way, they've prepared clues for the other to find/get in texts that that person has to figure out to find the place. You could also come up with a consequence if the person can't figure out the (reasonable) clues and gives up.
Zogly thanks for the ideas! I kinda want to try that Goodwill one! 😁
Those sound like awesome ideas I will definitely bring them up next time I am dating someone.
These ideas are creative and fun. The goofier, the better. :0)
My bf and i recently did the goodwill outfits and then did a photo shoot after! It was so fun! Highly recommend:D
Alyssa Hoyt Awesome! Did you guys try to find the best possible outfits, or were you going for the wacky and tacky laugh at each other a bit route? 🙂🙃🙂
Going on the road trip together is an interesting idea for a date. I personally would love to do that one day. No plans, no destination place, just go with the flow. Stop by for some food and have a lunch near the river out of town, explore some new places, or even sleep in the car for a night (if you're married of course).
Seem like a fun getaway from an everyday routine
Dasha Twinlight like the sound of that🙌
This was great advice. I highly agree with what you said about not texting and calling a bunch at first, it's really overwhelming and can escalate emotions really quickly
Hannerdoodles 😊❤️
I caught a gem here : (speaking about infatuation) 10:20 “don’t let your mind be clouded with pink clouds raining obsession marshmallows”
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THIS IS GOLD!!
I'm 19 going on 20 and haven't dated yet. Just not ready for dating yet, but I watch these videos so I can know that when I am ready, I know how to approach it. Thanks for the great content. Shalom!
Awesome :)
I genuinely laugh at your videos. I enjoy them! I’m 20 and a single mom to my 18 month old daughter. I have a past but God has washed me clean from it ✨I know God has the one out there for my daughter & I, but sometimes I get lonely & impatient! I also moved to another state over a year ago and with working, being a full time single mom & school, I have no time for friends. I actually kind of forget how to make friends.
We do go to church, but I still haven’t met any friends there. I believe the Lord is keeping me alone so I can work on the most important relationship with him.
Please pray for me though. My name is Cameron & my daughters name is Zinnia, like the flower. Thank you guys & thank you for your videos, they help me keep hope! Be blessed✨
That's such a cute name for your daughter! Hopefully your church has some type of bible study group you can join and dive deeper in connection with people? Keep your faith up girl! Being a young single mother is not easy, but God will keep you lifted. I'll be praying for you!
I was a single mom for seven years until I met my husband we dated for six years I know a long time. We just weren’t in the right financial place to get married sooner. We have now have been married five years and have an almost three year old son. So we have two boys a teen and a toddler. We are best friends. Being a single mom is the hardest thing you will ever do but the most rewarding. At times I had lost hope. I now have a loving family, loving husband that loves both his boys equally. Just remember your worth the best sometimes it’s just worth the wait. Glad you are taking care of you and your child’s future. Good luck . Just know that coming from your exact place in life there is hope! Your worth the best your daughter is worth the best never settle take your time listen to your inner voice. I hope you meet your best friend soon.
Love the video guys! My grandpa's been having a hard time getting food down lately and he got something stuck in his throat real bad while he was here today. He'd definitely appreciate some prayer
Mr. Brightside you got it bro 👊
Date ideas:
1) Maybe go to a park and make sand castles and play on the swings? See how much fun it is to be kids again together on the playground :)
2) Go on a hike together in a densely forested place - see how adventurous the person is. Do they take charge like pirates looking for treasure? Or are they careful an cautious? Also, do they take some time to look around and take it in, or do they have a "get to the goal" mentality (which also depends on what you guys stated as the purpose for the hike - ie was the goal to hike and enjoy, or get to the top and see they view?) ?
3) Oh! If you have a subway (AKA metro) in your area, try getting off at all the different stops and go exploring together :) Or, do the same thing with the bus stops. Walk around and get lost together in an area you're not very familiar with :)
4) Maybe just make up songs and sing together and have fun :) Medleys, new tunes, sing and match and enjoy :)
5) Pray and worship time together for sure! But free worship and prayer time; not just rigid "this that and the next".
6) Karaoke! :D Because singing is great!! :D
Okay, I'll leave it at that (though there are surely more ideas).
Awesome ideas! Volunteer work would be so much fun, too! 😊
Good ideas!
Yay first comment 😁 love the video such great advice for Godly dating and having good boundaries and not going overboard and forgetting spending time with friends and family
Aussiewoman awe hey!!❤️ Right on!
I’m in high school but still love learning for the future
Way to go 👧 girl... ☺ ☺ ☺ check out setapartgirl.com, elisabeth elliot, Revive our hearts..
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Happy 4th of July! How blessed we are in America to be able to worship freely and preach on the streets without being arrested! Love Him with your yes! Do ALL in the NAME of Jesus ♥️✝️
WhaleTail amen yes we are!
Paul and Morgan - been watching for a year and donated a few times, how blessed you guys are! Do more live streams like you used to! I like donating with a comment and I like seeing the joy it brings you in real time... ! Hopefully finances are much better than last year!!
Paul and Morgan - her deepest desire is for you to figure it out yourself without her having to tell you directly, Paul! hahaha bro I’m just having fun with you, but take care of that woman!!!!
well yeah if what you're preaching is Christianity lol
When you’s guys were dating, did you pray together?
Xxx yeah we did :) and more so as we got more serious
I never thought about a church date. I would love to go on one one day.
Aaa me to... Haha One day... 😊😁🙏 It will happen for you... I pray that God blessed you with that desire. Amen.
@@jodyjulius2700 it's going to happen for you too! God bless you as well.
Elegant Anne they’re the best😊
Yay... 😊In God's time. Amen. Hahah thanks. 😇💐 Let's guard our heart. And focus on Jesus. And pray about it... He'll definitely answer. God bless 😊😊😊❤️
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Even 12 years married, it really is important to be your own self and have your own time away from your spouse, too. Obvs when you’re married two become one, but once careers and kids and in-laws and LIFE gets busy, I found that spending time together is more important now AND taking time to care for myself is vital for our marriage.
I love your point about how during your dating phase, you shouldn't spend every waking moment together since if/when you get married, you'll be forced to. There's a lot of pressure for us to spend as much time with our partner before marriage as possible so we "really know" them and if they're "good for us" and whatnot, and you put dating back in its proper place with that. Thank you!!!
My boyfriend and I dating over a year and a half staying pure-
We almost always incorporate a physical activity like rock-climbing, swing dancing, walks/runs, workouts, stretching etc.
This has been really good. Also we always spend lots of time with each other’s families! This has also been so good.
For the first year we allowed some more physical ckoseness like cuddling but now for the last 7 months we only allow hand-holding and occasional brief hugs. The relationship is just too long term to be cuddling all the time... while we were knowing about eachother before, (having had a solid friend stage), it has been good to take a physical step back as the Lord directed us for this time.
Love hearing that :)
Wow amazing! How did you start that conversation about taking a step back? Who initiated it? And At what point did you realize the level of closeness was too much?
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My partner had expressed some concerns at times about other areas of our relationship lacking the energy and growth. But it wasn’t until I began to realize the relationship would be longer term than I originally expected that I brought it up-I was expecting marriage to come sooner. But God told me to take a step back. So I mustered the courage and told my man about what I was thinking-presenting it as a healthy challenge. It rang true with him and we were immediately on the same page. He has always done nothing but respect me!
Now he is much more capable of focusing on self-improvement and readiness.
So it was clear the level was too close when I realized our timeline was going to be different, less energy was being invested in emotional closeness/openness, and ultimately when God made it clear to me, and confirmed through my partner’s affirmation.
Here’s a fun date idea: get a shoebox and fill it with ideas that can be pretty easy to do spontaneously like for example “drive until lost and then explore the city 🌃 together” and then place these simple ideas in the shoebox and you both can make one so the guys has one and the girl has one. Then when you want to go on a date, one person randomly picks something from that box and then you guys spontaneously do that idea without any plans
Just make sure to turn the GPS back on when the date is finished. :0)
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Paul and Morgan maybe you and Paul should try it lol and see how it is. I’ve personally not done it as I’m currently not dating but I’ve always thought of fun date ideas for when I am dating and this was of of them I came up with
Date ideas: Have a picnic at a local park and watch the wildlife. Go on a hike. Get friends together for a pick up game of volleyball, soccer, basketball, or your game of choice. Have a progressive dinner....appetizers at one location, main course at another, and desserts at the final location. This can be at restaurants or friends houses. Go out for just desserts; the melting pot is a great location for this! Go to a park and read a book together. Or read separate books but sitting next to each other.
I’m meeting up with a guy for the first time in a few days. We decided to meet at an event our church is putting on. I’m so glad we’re doing that rather than meeting for dinner or something. It’ll be nice to see him in that setting and not be just the two of us. Less pressure and great insight into how he worships! I’m looking forward to it!
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How is it going now ? I wish you to have a godly relationship, stay strong! 😊
I would love to see a video on long-distance relationships/ online dating 💜A fun date idea that my boyfriend and i want to try, is dressing up in period clothing (for us, 1950s) and go somewhere or do an activity that people form that time would do (movie, dance, etc)🙂. We are a bit further away from eachother, almost 2 hrs, so just get time on weekends. Having plans is good so we use our time together wisely. And we do communicate a lot, just because we dont get as much time as some couples do during the week. Communication is key and you are so right that both people need time with friends of the same sex, family, etc
That part where Paul kissed Morgan on the cheek was so cute! & loved this, I’m enjoying every second of my single life with Jesus, but also very excited to see what godly man God has for me ♥️
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Loving this series so far!
Emma S yayyy!😊
Notification squad uniteee 💕 Morgan's laugh at the beginning is my mood 😂 Morgan's laugh always makes ME laugh haha
Nas Ellis haha yay❤️❤️
Yes boundaries are very important the moment boundaries aren't there you morals may get tested and nobody wants to get tempted into doing something they don't wanna do 😬
Loving this series! You guys are amazing! You should do a video on In-Laws!!
So glad to hear! Oohh thanks for the topic suggestion :)
Great video guys, I think the best dates are just going to places where you guys can really talk and get to know each other :).
True that😊 Thanks Kevin!
Morgan can you make a video of how you curl your hair? It's beautiful!
For someone like me who's grown into a long term relationship in a non christian setting, I'm watching this and I wish I could go back in time and take things slow and be more intentional about my dating if that makes any sense ..
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Bible study dates are amazing! You get to know your boy/girlfriend on a deeper, more spiritual level. Also, doing something fun, such as laser tag or paintball would be fun.
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Great ideas and advice guys! 😊 some date ideas I like doing with my boyfriend is going to the gym together and then getting coffee/breakfast after. And you guys are so right having something to when you guys are together is so important, even if it’s something simple like going to a bookstore and grabbing smoothies together. There will be plenty of time when you’re married to sit at home and hang out together.
Love that, great ideas :) Workouts woop woop🙌
Wow this is SO helpful. Things I never even thought about !!! THANNNKK YOUUUUU & Congrats on almost 100k 💕🔗
So glad to hear it! I knowwwww😄
OOOO date ideas
1. go on a beauuutiful drive, roll down the windows and sing and dance and end the night with a sunset and burritos 🥰
2. california, beach date, then ride bikes/ skateboards along the beach, go to the pier and ride rollercoasters, play carnivals games
3. bowling or roller skating
4. hikes
5. go surfing together
6. dave and busters date, play arcades games all day
7. picnic in the park and boat riding across the pond
8. drive far enough to a city you both don’t really know and explore it all day
9. romantic beach sunset (my favorite one)
10. drive-in movie
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Date idea: star gazing
The editing in this video though 😂😂👌
Christina Dimidenko haha thanks😁
9:22 y’all are so sweet!!!
I’d say a great date idea is serving. My bf and I started out going on dates to the local food pantry or homeless shelter delivering supplies and packing backpacks and it was really great to see the kindness and compassion in him. It shows a lot about a person to see their hearts attitude toward serving others.
Great vid again! Also, I am completely opposite to you, Paul, when it comes to date ideas haha. I am SUPER creative, so my goal is that when I start dating I want to have my significant other give me a list of certain things she likes and then give her the biggest surprises. However, I want to one up each one the best I can and then the proposal would be the biggest if it gets to that. And if it doesn't work out with that person, every girl has different interests and desires, so I get to start over and be even more creative! That's what I am most looking forward to when I date.
Love that! Your lady is gunna be lucky :)
That is so sweet
@@adofowaa Aw thanks... I actually am married now :) I tried to do that to some degree and I guess it worked :P
@@SkullyBud that's Soo amazing
I'm very happy for you
Love watching your videos to help me get ready for my future relationship
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Creating a scavenger hunt for the other person would be awesome. I've done that with family and friends and it's been super special
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My boyfriend and I like to remind ourselves that if we are meant to be together, we will have the rest of our lives together!!
I love Parent Trap! That's so true what you said about that haha. The camping scene has me in stitches every time. Basically, if you want to know what a person is like, set up your family to play really mean tricks on them!! (Though probably don't go too far with that...)
I love walks. I would really like to go on a forest/hill walk or something for a date. You can have really cool conversations on walks and get to know people a lot better, but it's also not as intense as a face to face dinner or something.
creamcolouredponies x I love walks too! Morgan’s not the biggest fan of them tho😭 She’s coming around :)
yall are like my young godly teachers of dating...thank you!!
OHHH what about exercising together for a date? picking a gym? going for a run? etc
Jordan Wehrend I like it :)
Lol at my church you they say you should never be alone just the two of you. There should always be a third party😂😂😂.
The colour composition in this video is so pleasant
Yep!!! Can’t neglect our other relationships that are just as important. 👍
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You guys are truly helping me with my dating life. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half and are holding off getting married until we are out of college. I am really looking forward to the video when you guys talk about how to be engaged, when it's appropriate to move in, things like that. Love y'all ❤️
Thank you for watching!
We’re both in university so we have simple dates like study dates at a cafe. I love study dates because I think we can just be there silently doing our work and yet bond over it.
Thanks for all of this stuffs, this series is a really great idea. Kisses from France 😘❤️
God bless you and your family thank you so very much for this video that is a prayer I ask For all the time so you answered it thank you.love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia
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9:28 was the sweetest thing ever
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Date idea: rock climbing - it's different, you'll be good and hungry afterwards, and it's something active you can do without having to be super athletic or skilled or experienced to enjoy
Very very funny and informative thank you so much so much
I think a good date idea is going hiking ! I love the outdoors
Please make a video on how to know if you really are in love with someone, specifically a guy. Is it love, a crush, obsession, or infatuation? If you're in love, how to deal with it if they're a friend. Thanks❤
Hey, we made that video! Go watch ‘Love or Infatuation ft. Michael’
This was really great advice! I personally know people who got into a relationship and completely neglected me along with all our other friends then expected us to warm-hearted welcome her when her heart got broken...
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When Paul leaned in to kiss Morgan that was so funny because he was in the process of leaning in for a good couple of seconds and then both of their reactions were just great 🤩💛😂😂
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Love the smooth 60fps 👌👌👌
AJ For Short :)
Date idea: On the 3rd of July, tell her your going on a date. Look up where there's gonna be fireworks but don't tell her. Get some fast food or pizza and sit in the restaurants parking lot and watch the show!
Sanders Nilson oooh I like it😊
Ah, new here. And seeing you guys... this scripture has set in my heart for you guys! If anything Morgan, I believe you would understand more of what it means!!
“For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy.
Don’t you wives realize that your husbands might be saved because of you? And don’t you husbands realize that your wives might be saved because of you?”
1 Corinthians 7:14, 16 NLT
Just dropped the full scripture. Because of you guys already being married, MORGAN- that scripture is for you to rest on! (you both)❤️ Keep praying, hearing God, and seeking Him about your marriage! It’s in my heart to tell you to spend a lot of time in YOUR prayer closet. It’s awesome to pray together but sometimes we need that alone time to hear God concerning a matter! I believe our God is so faithful and real! He will definitely answer according to what he sees in and on our heart beyond what human knows! God bless you all!
I'm late to the show, but I just wanted to chime in with a couple of my ideas for dating (both for established couples and new relationships):
Start a project together! Something creative that you both enjoy and are interested in. It can be all sorts of things. Buy a big canvas and paint a picture together as a couple, make music together, ask if you can perform in church and practice together and make a show if you like singing/playing an instrument. You could also help person X with a project in their home (or your shared home if you like together, of course). Perhaps person X needs help organizing their kitchen because they're bad at that and person Y is good at it. Or perhaps person Y would like som help decorating the home and making it cosy and homey, which person X loves doing. I hope I'm making sense - it's very early in the morning and English isn't my first language.
Have a great day! 😊 🌸🦄🌸
Beautiful video, guys!!! Such great advice.
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You guys are so cute.❤ Also,( or because of?!) Relationship advice from the parent trap💯💯😂
Gwendolyn O. 😊❤️❤️
Great job guys!! I’m putting the tools in my tool belt! 😂😍😁
Haha love it!
Morgan does look just beautiful. Hair amazing! Shes great. and so are you together. happy i found this channel a while back :)
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Hiking is a fun date! And so is cooking dinner together :)
Yes!
Date idea: lake day! Swimming, canoeing, boating, you name it.
I'm laying in a parking lot in my tent on a hill in san Jose California. My girlfriend decided to break it off 2 days ago because she was worried that we would cross boundaries that were very important to us. Yes we did go a little some can say but it wasnt the first time. As a man I feel obligated to hold up my side and help her with staying pure and vise versa.
But yeah I live 2 hours away from where I am right now. My girlfriend is somewhere with her extended family in this town and I decided to drive out here in the middle of the night so I can wake up and go see her and see where God leads both of our hearts. I know I can not mend the relationship back together. But I know God can. But yeah I think we did invade eachother lives a little too much. I can even say that iv stopped hanging out with some friends.
So I'm praying that God can give me courage to speak truth not to win her back but to see if she understands me, and if God allows her heart to be mended back the all praise to him.
Would you recommend sitting together at church on your church date? I don’t know if I would at first, only because the pressure of trying to impress the other person might be a distraction from truly worshipping. Thoughts?
Kelsey Young I think it’s okay :)
Date idea: find an animal shelter that allows volunteers to play with the animals (some even allow you to take one for a day and bring it back). Spend the day playing with your lil fluffer and having pure joyful fun
Morgan, girl! You look gorgeous! Loving the hair!
Loved this! And for sure give the other person some space to miss you! 😂😂 Love you guys! 💖💖
Also I haven't heard anyone say "noogie" in YEARS! 😂😂
Thank you Caroline😊 Baahaha I couldn’t stop myself
Awwww I love your love ❤️ it's making me smile 🤗
Orikundela Matshili awe😊❤️
I'm currently single but my dating life in the past could have benefitted sooooo much from all the truth and Christian focus that you guys lay out in your videos! I love that I found you guys, Your opinions are great to have alongside my faith armor as I walk into my second virginity.
Video topic idea: SECOND VIRGINITY!
Paul is always talking about parent trap 😂
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Volunteering things and serving in the church together is such a good idea!:)
Angel Flower yes!
Can you guys do a video on appropriate clothing for a date or just when you go out with your boyfriend in general!! Love you guys✨✨
Doing a craft project together! Or cooking together and then going on a picknic!
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Morgan's laugh is just so cute💕🤣🙏
The zoo, a walk in the park, walking around the city, I like outside can you tell?
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That parent trap reference was so good haha
This was a great video 😊
Thank you!
My boyfriend and I do text everyday all day pretty much, but don't find it harder to talk in person (we also spend 6 or so days a week together). We've been dating for 7 months and been friends for 1.5 years. If he's gone for more than a day, I miss him terribly. I really think it depends on the couple. We do make sure to hang out with other people, though. We're always out with friends.
Omg you guys are so cute together! I love watching you!
That little dolphin laugh =')
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Awesome video! Sooo good!
My husband and I were dating for a year before he proposed and we basically spent every day together texted all the time 😂 sometimes it’s just up to each persons individual relationship. I’m a Christian, but I guess more progressive because we didn’t set physical boundaries and it worked out just fine for us
Hi Paul and Morgan. You make a lot of videos about boundaries while dating, but what are boundaries you should have when it comes to getting to know a potential significant other? For instance how long is too long spending time with them? And when are you giving too much of your time before dating them?
ayeee i love morgan’s energy and i think them two balance each other really well ❤️😍
anoshka awe😊❤️
Painting class is a great date. We have so much doing this.
Seriously Morgan, you have the most gorgeous hair!
Much love guys ❤❤❤from 🇧🇪🇧🇪🇧🇪
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