I REGRET MOVING TO THE GAMBIA! | Mental Health, Getting Married, Friendships | CHITCHAT + Q&A 🇬🇲

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  • @blackhannahofficial
    @blackhannahofficial 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    In my opinion, your father's vision for his family was for your Best Interest. And his TIMING was spot-on 👍🏾
    If you came back here, you would't even recognize it. Nothing has been the same since COVID.
    Glad to see you doing well 😊

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      So I’ve heard..smh.
      Thank you so much for the support❤ I appreciate the love

  • @ishaw9894
    @ishaw9894 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Y’all left the states just in time!!! Your father and mother are very smart people and plus with your dad having a military background he know some things. The best thing to do for us POC is to have multiple forms of incomes, be well educated in various different fields, know multiple languages, be well traveled and invest into properties not only in the states but over seas as well. I am working towards that. U.S.A is not the end all be all. I love it here and it will always be home but I have always imagined myself living bicoastal

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I second this! 😊❤ thank you for watching and for sharing such lovely advice. It’s well appreciated. ✨

  • @jms211
    @jms211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    You have maturity beyond your years! Great film. I love your channel. ❤

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww thank you for the love ❤😊

  • @kamso9269
    @kamso9269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so proud how you are thriving and glowing! Thank God you have found peace and joy in little things and simplicity. God bless you and your family.❤🙏🏽💐

  • @modoulaminblackman9785
    @modoulaminblackman9785 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I agree with you Fajara Beach is my favorite Beach as well, I love Fajara area in general

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love ittt😊❤

  • @kemi1486
    @kemi1486 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You have so much resilience 👏🏾. That’s a huge life lesson that will give you the confidence to achieve anything you want. Many blessings on your journey through this life.

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you sooo much. 🥹❤️

  • @phyliciajoykloes
    @phyliciajoykloes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Aw, Rickeyta, this is such a lovely video! 🙂 Thank you for the shout-out and answering all the questions! Haha, your Q&A felt like hanging out. 🥳 Mango season in the Gambia is a-maaaa-zing! And I definitely have to try out that pizza place. I like your taste in music!
    Looking forward to your next video! Greetings from the Netherlands

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hahah thank you Phylicia!! ❤😊😊

  • @apriljackson5304
    @apriljackson5304 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Life coach Rickeyta❣️🥰💯👏🏼❤️‍🔥🙌🏼

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol I try 😂❤ thanks for watching 😊😊

  • @vernettmathis2729
    @vernettmathis2729 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It doesn't matter where ever you live . It's always some BS. No matter where you live. Always something.

  • @kebbasda
    @kebbasda 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My bother works for the department of agriculture and just last month they only received half of their pay…
    Gambia is a beautiful country just last year we bought land working on our plan B.
    America is falling fast!
    Thank God for dual citizenship.

  • @HadiaDiallo
    @HadiaDiallo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great advice on the mental health and friendship questions. You should do more sit down topic videos.

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much. I’ll be sure to do more! I can see you guys really love it. Anything in particular you’d like me to talk about? ✨

  • @kamso9269
    @kamso9269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Birthday to you when you celebrate 🎉🎉❤🙏🏽💖💐💃🏼

  • @queenjatta2434
    @queenjatta2434 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes🎉Fish & Spaghetti. Stay well beautiful💛

  • @kennyblack1998
    @kennyblack1998 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday to you beautiful ❤ hope you enjoy it

  • @contrastmedia1
    @contrastmedia1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your accent has changed! Lol this has been so beautiful to watch! I always note your character becoming less and less American ❤

  • @gfirm456
    @gfirm456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Great video, I have a question if I may…
    Have you picked up on any of the languages spoken in The Gambia.

    • @IAM-ii4nq
      @IAM-ii4nq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She doesn’t speak Gambian languages. I think her interaction with locals is limited

    • @modoulaminblackman9785
      @modoulaminblackman9785 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@IAM-ii4nqsha actually has lots of Gambian friends I've been following her channel since day one

    • @hassshoban8206
      @hassshoban8206 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@modoulaminblackman9785 she mixes with upper class Gambians and foreigners.

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, definitely wolof! I definitely understand it alot more than when I first moved here. I learn more & more everyday ❤

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@IAM-ii4nqyou must be new to my channel 😂

  • @gabrielleburnett2465
    @gabrielleburnett2465 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love youuuu❤️❤️😍thanks for the upload🩷 love seeing Ricki Denise pop up. 🥳Happy birthday month Sister!💕💓

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you sis❤❤❤ I love you! 😊

  • @astanielsen5391
    @astanielsen5391 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You mentioned there’s things you love and don’t like as much about Gambia. Can you list which things you love about the gambia and which things you like less?
    Watching from Denmark and enjoying your videos a lot 🥰

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I did a video like this already discussing my pros and cons! th-cam.com/video/AvCNfYxyGHQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=eAzXDjDO0SnwccSA
      But i think I need to do an updated one!🤔

  • @yassinjallow4264
    @yassinjallow4264 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yesss a new video EVERYDAY this month!?! can’t wait ❤❤❤ p.s. love your jewelry with your outfit! suits you so well 🥰😍

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks boo😊😊❤

  • @lydiareece6280
    @lydiareece6280 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love your Chain with the African Pendant 💕💕💕🇧🇧🇨🇦

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank youu❤😊

  • @PrinceCity007
    @PrinceCity007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I luv that NECKLACE 😀

  • @latoyajames8909
    @latoyajames8909 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi! New to your channel. I met a really nice Gamibian and am visiting in December. I’m from the south and my biggest fear is not having my bad American food 🤦🏾‍♀️. I’m a sad case haha. Anyway thanks for your content.

  • @whysoserious918
    @whysoserious918 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hi Ricki, I have seen a few content creators like HAMAMAT (Ghana) and Angella Summer Namubiru(Uganda) showing things like cooking in nature and stuff, this stuff is really popular now. Maybe you can also try this content in Gambia :) Love ur channel btw

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes I see!🥹❤️ you know what! I have plans of starting the cooking classes back up with Mariama, so I’ll see what we can do that’s similar to that! Thank you ✨✨

  • @LHicks940
    @LHicks940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Friday Ricki 💜👋🏾

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤😊

  • @silibazisomoyo2499
    @silibazisomoyo2499 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy October Ricki, we love you xx

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤😊

  • @CarlaRFowler
    @CarlaRFowler 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:29 I currently live in Clarksville Tennessee!!!

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh wow!! Small world 🥹✨

  • @tfh5575
    @tfh5575 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    happy belated birthday

  • @morliaturay2258
    @morliaturay2258 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Blessings Queen
    You are a real African now

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching ❤❤

  • @bcm5679
    @bcm5679 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful insights, Ricki

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank youu❤

  • @doglasnjies12
    @doglasnjies12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A lot of good people out there ready to be friends and help you get along, know how things work there

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup! 😊

  • @jackiejones6078
    @jackiejones6078 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Hello 👋🏾 From Conway Arkansas and I hope all is well with you and family in Jesus Christ Name Amen 🙏🏾 I just purchased land in Gambia and plan to build something soon by God Willing 🙌🏾❤️

    • @survivalchic11
      @survivalchic11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That's so cool. I purchased land too in the Gambia :) I look forward to building soon as well.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      May Almighty Allah bless you abundantly amen and make it easy for you to visit the mother land amen

    • @StayHumble577
      @StayHumble577 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Take your false god and be gone pagan

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wishing you all the best❤❤❤ thank you so much.

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@survivalchic11best of luck! ❤❤😊

  • @WesleyBleen-bu7zp
    @WesleyBleen-bu7zp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I watch you grow up pretty good .

  • @tj4star
    @tj4star 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are wise much love!

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww thanks so much. ❤😊

  • @inmyownheadspace49
    @inmyownheadspace49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy early birthday to everybody 🎊 🎉 🙌🏽 I hope you can collaborate with your fave pizza place like yes #sponsor I would love to see whatever you wanna put out! #60kbynewyearsday ✨

  • @EBNiiJi
    @EBNiiJi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday. I'm late though

  • @godmvskvisions8831
    @godmvskvisions8831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have a few questions:
    How much do you recommend an American to save before they move to Gambia and live comfortably?
    Is it hard for Americans to find a job that pays decently enough to sustain being in The Gambia?
    What are some of the average jobs available?
    Do you have to worry about xenophobia ?
    How fluent are you in wolof? What are the challenges with the language?

    • @NiceIsBetter
      @NiceIsBetter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      In my advice I would recommend that you visit many different parts of Africa before deciding to relocate. Also, Africa is not the type of place to go looking for work. There are very few jobs there😢💯.

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great questions! I hope I'm able to hear her response to them

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@NiceIsBetterI think u are right. Everyone that I know that has moved to an African country has visited and made the money and plans to have their own business. My uncle used to visit Ghana once or twice a year for 5 years before he built a hotel. It's beautiful 💕

    • @fionapearson3284
      @fionapearson3284 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are you intending to live there permanently? Probably about $250,000 would be my estimate. Most people in the Gambia seem to be self-employed or perhaps more accurately under-employed. I don't think that many have a stable salaried position or manage to work full time hours - especially out of tourist season.
      I struggle to believe the quoted average salary of 15,900 Dalasi a month! 5,000 Dalasi seems much more reasonable (although still higher than most self-employed). For some context I found a report in 'Gambian' that the 2020 salary for a police constable was about 3,500 Dalasi a month. 'Freedom newspaper' gave the 2024 salary as less than 5,000 Dalasi.
      A 2021 report gave the monthly salaries for the civil service as between 1241 Dalasi (Grade 1) and 9,318 Dalasi (Grade 12). The July 2024 figure for the Commissioner of Police (Grade 12) was 204,438 Dalasi per year according to 'Whats on Gambia'.
      You are unlikely to find a decent paying local job. Can you work remotely (digital nomad)? It costs a lot in local terms to live a western style life in the Gambia, for example the cake Ricki bought in the recent video was 3,800 Dalasi. Check out some of her other videos for rental examples/costs.

  • @kantehkara1957
    @kantehkara1957 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    many greetings to you Kiki, great topics good story hoping to hear more from you, would you marry a Gambian who loves you so much, however living abroad?...

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for watching!! ❤😊

  • @edithmoore5742
    @edithmoore5742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you been back to the states?

  • @MrRob1317
    @MrRob1317 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Haven't watched in a while, just getting back to watching your parent's content as well. 2yrs removed

  • @theundauntedsistahood7641
    @theundauntedsistahood7641 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have 2 Girl friends for over 30 years now ❤

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love that❤❤ sisterhood is so important ✨

  • @Chel_olu
    @Chel_olu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Would you have liked the US uni life experience?

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can’t say.. 🤨 I always used to fantasize about it, only because of what I would see in the media.. the romanticized version of it - parties, sororities, all the fun stuff. Lol. And my friends stories sounded so exciting..
      But it just never seemed that necessary for me to go to college..and I still stand by that. So many people I know who went to uni, are currently in debt, and some who I know who have graduated are struggling to find a job, and/or the jobs they ended up with have no relation to the degrees they got.
      So it seems in some cases, college is lowkey a scam..

    • @Chel_olu
      @Chel_olu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rickidenise I get it totally. College for me was rewarding. But that’s mainly because I went to community college and used my degree. There are degrees that people can seek that have better job outlooks. It’s just about doing research and knowing what you want out of college and career life.

  • @lyndaroane3936
    @lyndaroane3936 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Paradiso

  • @FatimahjokoCamara
    @FatimahjokoCamara 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hiiii first ❤

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Heyyy❤

    • @FatimahjokoCamara
      @FatimahjokoCamara 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi ricki am such a big fan I took all my family’s phone and subscribed to u love you so much ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FatimahjokoCamaraI love thattt 🥹❤️❤️

  • @gabrielleburnett2465
    @gabrielleburnett2465 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im sorry, no fish with spaghetti. Imma still eat it though especially if your mom made it 🤪😋

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂❤

  • @justinathompsonkinteh6485
    @justinathompsonkinteh6485 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow Libra babies like me my birthday 10/2

    • @justinathompsonkinteh6485
      @justinathompsonkinteh6485 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy Birthday to you and The Bag Tribe

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesss❤😊 and a happy belated birthday to you! Libras are the best!!

  • @theundauntedsistahood7641
    @theundauntedsistahood7641 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cute earrings

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww thanks sis! ❤

  • @contrastmedia1
    @contrastmedia1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is your sister still in Gambia or did she go back?

  • @CheyenneBeasley-mc3mf
    @CheyenneBeasley-mc3mf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you and your bestie that visited still friends?

  • @cedricmilliner123
    @cedricmilliner123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Greetings Mz,Ricki Denise* ⚘️ How R, U, B-Day Month Family" Blessings!!! To Every1' Safe Traveling Take Good Care" of Urself 1LUV ❤Enjoy Peace ✌🏿 🌍

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      heyyy😊❤ thanks for watching and showing love!!

  • @Sw1ftCl0ud
    @Sw1ftCl0ud 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    .15 cents an hour is wild.

  • @lonnirenee7645
    @lonnirenee7645 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice Vlog

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Lonni! ❤😊

  • @muhammedcham6472
    @muhammedcham6472 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Telling a Gambian to go visit a therapist 😂

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It sounds very foreign.. trust me i get it.. however, i do know of some Gambians who’ve actually gone to therapists here. You do what helps you..it could save your life.
      You might laugh, but until you’re in the position where you feel like there’s no one else to talk to, things like this could really save your life. Especially if there’s not anyone in your family or friends you can tell your problems to without judgement. That’s just my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Sw1ftCl0ud
    @Sw1ftCl0ud 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would rather live in Arkansas than Gambia....easy.

  • @ThiernoDia-l8c
    @ThiernoDia-l8c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @darkgenix
    @darkgenix 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i went to my friend house when i was a kid and his mom made the spaghetti with the noodles and sauce on top. i was like...what the hell? my mom made it the black way. i'm also a sucker for spaghetti. i be eating whole pots by myself.

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂❤ yep!

  • @gabrielleburnett2465
    @gabrielleburnett2465 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can’t believe its already been so long since the move. 🥹🩷 I remember all the old times

    • @rickidenise
      @rickidenise  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I swearrr😭❤️