Having lived abroad in many places, best advice is to go into it knowing well your motivating factors and understanding that these may change over time and being flexible enough to adjust your plans accordingly.
I will never move back. I love my life in Jamaica and I am so grateful to be able to live here. I love being treated with respect and I love the fact that I never need to think about my skin color..
Been gone for 2 years, with no intentions of ever going back. Retired early, recuperating from years of stress & work-related burnout. Lots of new friends & hobbies, and have learned so much more about the world & myself.
I lived in Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 for 6 months as a retiree and loved it!!! I stayed in San Juan and was literally walking distance from two beaches! Even though I spoke very little Spanish I had a fantastic experience and social life. I had the best of both worlds, living among locals and tourists alike. Puerto Ricans are so, so, so SOCIABLE and that’s what made me extend my stay to 6 months and even consider relocating there permanently. But I eventually had to return to the states. I’m glad for the experience and looking forward to more extended stays in various different countries, as I continue explore the world.
Sounds like a great plan! I have been to Puerto Rico many, many times but just for short visits and not to live. I always had a great time there, though it struck me as a bit expensive. Still I can see it being a great place to live for six months at a time. I will say a lot of countries in the Caribbean are also pretty awesome for half year stints.
Moving abroad is a viable option if you're retired with a nice pension, or if you have a nice US based job, that will let you work remotely. However, if you're struggling to make ends meat in the US and you have some major health issues and challenges, living in America is probably your best option.
Omg, I felt when she described how superficial the DC area is. I still live here. If one more person asks me where I live or what I do for a living, I'm going to go AAAAAWWWWFFFF!! The superficial and competitive behavior is ridiculous. I'm highly educated with a six-figure job, but when you meet me, you'd never know. I don't talk about it nor mention. I'm a NYC girl; we enjoy getting to know about YOU and have fun discussions; not how many acronyms you have behind your name or how big your house is. Smh
I’m from LI, NY, lived in DC and MD for 10 years and experienced the same thing. It’s not me. I retired early and I am now living in E. Africa. It’s NOT easy living in a new country/continent but the quality of life, healthier food and lifestyle is worth it so I am determined to succeed here unless the Lord instructs me to move somewhere else. I worry about my family and the future of the US because it’s declining rapidly, it’s become beyond wicked and war is coming 😳
@tourismlens I believe you. A friend who lived here before I did use to tell me, and I didn't believe her until k moved to the DC metro area, and now I see. It's disgusting, but I'm still here because it's a progressive area for blacks. I just make sure I don't hang around those superficial people.
There is so much colourism and racism in the Dominican Republic. Most are mixed race but don’t identify as black. For dark skinned Americans it’s not very hospitable.
The term word black is only used in the United States Black Meaning black American. People in most countries go by nationality not by color So when Dominicans say they are not black they are right How are they racist Even Haitians go by nationality
Many black Americans travel there and don’t have any issues. I know of this one black realtor from Seattle who’s been living in Punta Cana for over 20 yrs and she loves it there. She even built a successful business network and is doing quite well for herself on the island. But I guess everyone’s experience is different..
I always think it’s better to bounce from countries to countries instead of permanently relocating abroad. Three to six months in each country and then back to the U.S. for a quick break and then repeat. That way, the honeymoon is never over. Talking about other TH-camrs, hmm, it really bugs me when they promote as paradise certain places where hundreds of people get killed for just being undocumented.
Think it all depends on the person & what they’re looking for. In my case, “bouncing” has no appeal for me (I love being in my one place where I’ve been for 2 years as a resident). But I know plenty of others that thrive with bouncing around either quickly or slowly.
Hundreds get killed in the US due to hate crimes and bigotry. Yet people market America as a great place and you suggest going back for a break is wise. Talk about contradiction. Why would anyone want to go back to an overpriced racist country for a "break"?
I am disabled vet and I am also retiring from my job in a couple years and that’s what I’m really thinking about doing….instead of just moving abroad to live go from country to country and stay a couple months in each country and just enjoy and learn the culture from each country
I think the key is choosing a good place. I've lived in 7 different countries and nothing would ever make me feel America was the better option based on the fact that I chose countries that were good to their citizens and have a great quality of life.
I'm a US expat 5 years deep in South America. Those considering expat life need to start with their "why." It can be cheaper and better, and/or a nightmare. A country that looked great a few years ago might have descended into a dark place like with Ecuador's challenge with gangs and lack of electricity. A friend who was mugged by an Uber driver in Quito got no help from Uber or the police. You have to get good at avoiding scams in relationships, business investment, and real estate. Other US expats can amazing or the worst people you've ever met. So go slow and eyes wide open. Expat life might be great or a no bueno thing.
I felt that wall when I spent extensive time in Saint Lucia. I loved the beaches, the nature, the slow laidback lifestyle but knew I would never be fully accepted.
Agreed! I love to travel, but the last plane ride takes me back to my crib in southern California. Year-round warmth, sun, sand, beaches, no power outages, cops don't solicit or accept bribes, I dont wear a money belt when I'm out and about, I can flush the toilet paper 😂...I could go on and on...In spite of everything that's wrong with the U.S. (and the list is long!), "God bless America... There's no place like home!"
Thank you. This video has been a breath of fresh air and conveys a bit of realism. I am tired of these out-of-touch TH-camrs either born with a silver spoons or did fraud for a living trying to tell people otherwise because they are on some vacation high. I am definitely sharing this video.
I think every American should experience living abroad & I came to appreciate US much more after living in Nicaragua ! Safety was huge for me & the state owned electricity was frustrating. Welcome back !
You’ve raised some great points Lili! The US is not all bad and life abroad is not all rainbows and sunshine. We go through seasons and sometimes the best choice is to come back to the US 👍
This is exactly what I wanted to get across, Linda! Thanks for your comment. Life is definitely about seasons and transitions, and what works best for you.
Interesting, the truth is most people will not be happy with expat life. It is different when you are on vacation in a place and living in a place. I always tell me that if they are thinking of the expat life you need to try it out for awhile before you commit to the lifestyle. The USA is great place to live, all places have positives and negatives.
Thanks for sharing. I completely agree about trying out for a while before you commit, which I also mention in the video. Can't get carried away with the lifestyle. And yes, there are no perfect places to live, just the one that is a fit for you at a particular time in your life. It's a very personal decision!
Caribbean and Central America is not a monolith. Each and every country is different and people are different. For things they have in common they have just a many differences. You can only determine if a place is good for you by living there. For instances some countries have beaches, mountains and major city withing an hour of each other, etc. Also age makes a difference. Working vs being a retiree makes a difference etc.
As someone who has lived abroad for almost 10 years, I’m sick of all the Pollyanna videos from people like the Exodus Summit group talking about how it’s all fun and roses living abroad. They aren’t talking about some of the real challenges and how it really isn’t for everyone (part of their business model is selling that everyone should do this) if you have aging parents who can’t move abroad for whatever reasons, you have to realize that visits are not going to cut it when it comes to making sure they have quality care. My mum got really sick and died while I was bopping around abroad and I really regret missing some of the time I could have spent with her, You always think you will have more time with your loved ones and sometimes that is not the case.. When I moved abroad I missed my family terribly even though I had friends and a significant other where I moved to. People don’t talk about that part and how painful it can be when your family in the States passes away and you are abroad living this supposedly carefree life
So sorry for your loss, Rosemary, and the regret you felt not being there, that is so very hard. I understand this completely which is why I wanted to be present for my dad. I feel blessed that God gave me at least one good year with him since I came back permanently and still now he is with us, though the dementia is advancing. Some folks are commenting that I came back at a bad time (I mean it is a bad time globally!), which is so insignificant to me because nothing beats being here to support my dad (who is also the reason why I grew up abroad and traveled a lot, and my life has been so enriched by it). So yeah it is important to weight a lot of different factors. As for Exodus, I know the two women behind it from when they first started, and they are doing their best to help Black women who want to go abroad avoid making mistakes and get out of the rat race. But I do think that a lot of women tend to want to escape their situation really fast and end up making mistakes as a result.... but it's a marathon, not a race, to move abroad permanently and do so for the first time for many. Thanks for sharing I appreciate your important feedback.
The 5 countries you could have tried for safety: South Korean, Singapore, Norway, Dubai and New Zealand. I’ve never lived there but these could have been safety options.
Dubai is not a country, it is an emirate of the United Arab Emirates (UAE). In addition, some people prefer to live in countries that are more diverse or at least mostly populated by people who look like them.
Witness here an intelligent, empowered, graceful, heartfelt and articulate communicator talking about culture, philosophy, anthropology, modern times, tourist expectations versus the reality of living in other countries, sharing why the USA has some positives which is healthy to hear right now being a native born citizen living here. You could easily expand your channel on tourism and bring this cultural - philosophical approach to all your vast experiences living abroad. I enjoyed this very much! Thank you. Your comment section audience is insightful also. You and your Hubby are invited to our homestead for dinner. Brilliant! Subscribed. ❤
@@tourismlens I'd love to see you include your thoughts about Europe and beloved Paris and everywhere you've been, including your birthplace! Thoughts... insights...comparisons, what made you grow in each place, what was magic, what wasn't, etc. You were in Paris for a whole summer! Love to hear about that. Keep up the Good Work!🌹📸
@@kentbyron7608 that's a really good idea to talk about my birthplace and my complicated relationship with it! And also how I grew in each place, what struggles what highs. So appreciate this feedback you are dishing out:) thanks! 😊
News is not stressful 4 me, it’s very informative! U must read between the lines, & stay vigilant! Thank u 4-being honest! I concur u must be alert at all times wherever u move! If war breaks out, other customs will save their community first…be aware! Peace & Blessings!
Thank you for the honest content. So many people make it seem like living abroad is all paradise but there are good and bad aspects to it as well. I like the idea of slow travel and coming back to a home base, wherever that may be. Do you have plans to continue travel journalism but going around the US instead of abroad?
thanks Renee! Yes there's good and bad to every place, just have to weigh it all carefully but not be afraid either.. Slow travel is absolutely the best if you can do it! Split your year in two places. I am still a travel journalist so I do visit places either in the US or abroad, depending on where work sends me. But it's short trips of one week or less.
Thank you for sharing. I am in the process of writing a ebook for my 17 year old daughter- she plays basketball and aspires to play in college- sharing her fundamentals and skills developed through the years. It’s my first experience writing a ebook. Love your videos and sharing your journey along the way.
I lived in the Caribbean for a few years a while ago & have been considering going back as an early retirement. Up until the election, I thought I could do it again as long as I’m able to get off the island. Post-election, I’ll have to rethink that.
Good points about the cons of living without basic:expected amenities we take for granted here in the United States. Also, so many expats don’t consider the weak/corrupt judicial systems that one day might ensnarl them in a legal nightmare.
I'm sorry to hear about your father. Welcome back to the USA. I'm from Belize City, Belize. I left my country many years ago. I went home for a quick visit in April of this year. It was totally different with lots of new developments. I spent most of my life in the USA. I couldn't see myself living in my own country. There's not not much to do there. I experienced the electricity shut off many times. What an inconvenience. I can never see myself in Belize for more than 2 weeks. some of the people very warm, friendly, but also needy. No place like America..
Thank you 🙏🏾 You’re actually the first person to express that about my dad; I appreciate it. And yes I completely understand what you mean; that’s an important point about the neediness..just depends how much you can help too, it’s a slippery slope. I love your country but also could not live there again. It’s great you visit family still. Important to keep a connection with your native home. Thanks so much for sharing here! 🙏🏾😊
1:15 so true. I’m glad I left. I actually moved to Columbia, Md a year after I retired. A year later, I moved to Colombia 🇨🇴 this past May, never looked back. Met a local who was working in DC on a 2 year contract. We met on her second year, relationship flourished, and that’s why I moved here. So far we been together almost 2 years. Cost of living will allow for more travel throughout the year. I saved $2000 a month after leaving. I am currently in Medellin, it was better due to having all those available services, activities, and things to do. Things I did in the USA that I can do here is cafes, malls, movie theaters, festivals, events, and taking walks. What I miss, walkable parks, organized driving, safety as far as not being able to walk without taking your phone out on the street. Those things are not too bad compared to the benefits, now and in the future I’m getting just living here. Saving for a house purchase can be done here much quicker if we choose to buy in another country like Europe, or even here. It things don’t work out, there are always other countries in experience instead of returning back to the USA until you find what works for you.
Thank you for this balanced and informative video. I've lived in Mexico, Russia and China and I've travelled to all continents except for Antarctica (which I'm going to next year) and I really love the US. I spend most of my time in the US in New York City and in the Bay Area in California and those places are just really special. I love the diversity, the general overall kindness of people toward each other, the drive and belief in pursuing big dreams, the culture (I'm a big musical theatre buff, so NYC is a dreamland to me, but I also love the museums here, the food scene and the culture that stems from so many people of different backgrounds gathering in one place), the education (I take dance classes and voice lessons in NYC and the options are so extensive), the individualism (which I realize hurts us, but it also is what allows us or even encourages us to live our own lives without worrying about the judgment of others - there's less pressure to conform to societal norms than in other countries that are deeply rooted in traditions), my friends (mostly Black American - I'm a Black American descendant of enslaved people here and I love my culture so much, but I also have close friends who are American but whose parents are from Jamaica, Nigeria, Belize, Russia, Taiwan and I have friends here who are directly from China and Russia). People put down the US for good reason; there are so many messed up things about this country! I myself put down the US. I have an adult son who is Black and the racism here is a nightmare for both my son and for me, BUT I still love it here. I don't know what is going to happen now given the results of the election. I really don't want to leave, but I realize leaving might be necessary. The thought of leaving truly breaks my heart though. For now I recognize that any US citizen currently has passport privilege (we can easily enter and/or get visas for so many countries). I don't know if that privilege will continue after this upcoming administration, but for now I'm renewing my passport in case I need to get out! The thing is that my son's career depends on being here, so I can't really imagine leaving if he and his fiancee are staying. Most immigrants don't leave their homeland (because most people love the places where we grew up) unless it gets really bad and that will be the case for me if I leave and become an immigrant somewhere too.
Thanks for sharing that. Indeed passport privilege is a real thing and mine is valid for several more years too, lol. I try to stay positive because either way, the whole world is going in the wrong direction to be honest. too many wars.
Too many people in the states are trying to keep up with the Jonses. Way too status conscious and like you said evaluation is based on what you do. Living to Work vs Working to Living is often confused. I left the US 6 years ago for Europe but each persons needs and desires are different and should be considered carefully before moving. I've not been in the Caribbean but in the areas of Europe I travel and live as a 65 year old woman I've not felt afraid and I travel alone.
Your video was exactly what I needed to hear. Congrats and welcome home. 😁✌🏿❤️🙏🏿 I went to Belize recently for a week in Placencia. I love the nature, beaches, and if you could get it the local food. Was in tourist area. Have considered getting as place there part time. Did get sense of people being friendly but not really welcoming. I'm not a bar person, so figured I have more work to do regarding a place that would be good to settle down. Any recommendations?
I am not a bar person either and I agree that a lot of socializing centers around that in the Caribbean. Depends what you like to do - if it's nature, focus on places where you can easily hike and get outdoors. If it's museums and cultural activities, big cities are best. Have heard people love living in Panama, maybe worth researching? See what you find that fits your interests, personal situation including health, and budget.
LOVE your perspective - very good insights I hadn't thought about. Nice to hear a more realistic and balanced perspective, apart from all of the YT videos made by people that never actually lived (or have even visited!) some of the overseas destinations they recommend. Most of those channels are AI generated anyway now, so good to see a real face of a real person, talking about her real life experience! You've given us things to seriously think about - you brought value. TY!
Hola Lily. We met in front of Ikea in Punta Cana years ago; never got to hang out but always appreciate your content and your take on things. One thing to add to those taking all things into consideration is having and not having kids can really change your perspective insofar as what you' value most. I get the whole career advancement in the US for example, and I'd probably be on the same boat but having kids and living here has been a real blessing even if it means having potentially limited my career opportunities. Be it as it may, I'm happy that you're in a good place and always value your objectivity. Un fuerte abrazo!
Oh hi!! So nice to hear from you.:) Small internet world, lol. Yes that is true, having kids is a totally different ball game as far as where you decide to live. And I understand your choice for your family. Thanks for sharing, always appreciate your support and comments! Un abrazo para los dos!
Have you tried Malaysia - they speak English officially, Bahasa Malay 2nd, most have a 3rd language at home - its safe, tropical island weather, its closer to SE Asia and China. Its multiethnic, multiracial, multi religion - country with indian, chinese and malay folks and lots of western expats with families there.
Thanks for posting. I am from Guyana which is part of the Caribbean. I now live in the US. In April, I visited with my During our visit my wife asked me if I saw myself living in Guyana. Without hesitation I said, "You can't pay me a $1 million US to live here. Life in the US is way too easy." Most homes in Guyana were like mini fortresses. Walking on the street always came with a warning about being robbed. The cost of living was also very high. I am still wondering how Guyanese are able to pay bills. For example, a Butterball turkey was $22,000 Guyana money. That is about $100 US. A beginning teacher's salary in Guyana is about $500 US a month. Yes, there is the romance of living in a developing country and connecting with the local people. However at the end of the day, life is easier in a developed country. Heck, in the US, even the folks who cry oppression live a luxurious life compared to those in the developing countries.
You have raised some very important points and I completely agree! I think a lot of folks don't understand this -- having even moderately more income in a country where most make very little (and little in America is not the same as little in other places in the Global South) is difficult in many ways, including safety. But many have not lived abroad or traveled extensively so they don't fully realize the above. It's complicated!
Nice. Power cuts are kind of a bigger deal. Safety is also a bigger deal. I don't think it makes much sense for me to look at moving abroad. I tend to be open and trusting of other people.
Being from the Caribbean, i want the tangible, items, the lifestyle opportunities the US and other 1st world countries offer, however they lack soul ....its a real catch 22
I want to move abroad but I’m trying to find the best place to go or to stay. You give me advice on how to move forward on what to expect not everything is going to be roses moving abroad,either USA I know things are not the same moving abroad but willing to give it a shot.
You have to take it slowly if you've never done it before. My best advice is to pick a place you've always been curious about, that could be a fit, and talk to people who live there (there are Facebook groups you can find am sure), then read a lot about it and watch videos. Plan a two-week trip. See how you like it. Then the next trip try a month longer, and go from there. It takes a lot of planning. Just take it slow is my advice if you have no experience living abroad.
Hi. I'm new to your channel. Have you lived in any one of the ABC islands? I love Aruba and Curacao, but I haven't been to Bonaire. I haven't lived abroad either.
Hi! I have been to Curaçao and loved it for a visit. But I haven't lived in the ABCs. I think it would be too small for me though. Living abroad is a great experience to have if you can, and it doesn't have to be forever, it can be for a month even.
I am from the D.C. area as well. Living abroad I feel you would like Panama, or for the U.S. Hallandale Beach and really nice Hollywood Florida 0cean Dr is so nice you wouldL Love it
Thanks for those ideas! I have heard Panama is cool to live - but also know others who say they didnt like it and moved to Argentina. I visited Panama City and liked it a lot, for a short trip. Will keep in my radar!
I'm a senior, and both my parents are deceased now... However, I see seniors who have moved abroad and left their elderly parents in other people's hands... That's something I could never do... My goal right now is to stay stress free and keep my focus on my health and finances...😊
Thank you Lilly for this insight. I thinking about moving to Carib when I retire. I didn't want to go to Jamaica even though I have a lot of family there. Are you able to do a vid on living in Jamaica. Ive seen alot of expats living in Jamaica. But they don't show the cons
You're welcome! Re: Jamaica, I'll think about doing a video, OK? But it's been a long time since I stayed there long term. I will say that I changed my mind due to rising crime (this was a few years ago though).
I’m glad you felt welcome in the DR❤. Regarding electricity, depends on location; I am from Santiago and there were frequent blackouts when I was a child, but at about 15 years ago, they largely decreased and we had a backup inverter for when it went off. At least in the neighborhoods I lived, the blackouts were very seldom by the time I came to the US (almost 9 years ago). I think in Santo Domingo is still an issue.
Thank you! Me too:) And yes inverters saved us in Santo Domingo, but I remember the first apartment I moved into and I didn't realize they didn't have one (gah). So I would end up leaving the house to go work in a hotel nearby. At least I could do that... Am glad the blackouts have decreased in Santiago.
My family (nuclear and extended) is considering moving abroad given the current state of things here in the U.S. and your video has given me a deeper perspective. So thank you for that! The part about toilet paper makes me remember growing up in Mississippi and visiting relatives in an even more rural part of the state who didn’t flush their toilet paper and it was a little jarring. I guess my relatives may have a better time adjusting if we have to move to a country with that requirement 😅
lol! I guess after 10+ years of having to do that I got over it. Some things wear on you but it's not the end of the world. thanks so much for watching and sharing your perspective too!
Thanks Alicia! Appreciate you watching. I do think about where we'd go if US becomes unbearable but remember I also have my dad here who isn't well. But am not worried, am blessed to have options ,including going back to nearby DR.
The way you described the lonelinessim tge DR is hiw I ferl about Atlanta. The only friend that I have here moved here from Rochester, NY where I used to live (I didnt like it there, due to the economy and racism in the workplace, and bougie black people. Im waiting for my husband to retire abd were going to uae a combination of relocation astrology and fe n g shui to find our next hometown (and the blue maps from state voter registration sites 😂)
🤣🤣.I hear you! There are very few places I can say I truly love living in in the US... but I think eventually every place has its downs, and you have to make sure the pluses make up for them.
D.R is too expensive,naw not good place to retire,go to play then move elsewhere,me in tanzania is so peaceful and cheap. Yes i miss walmart sometimes or the 24/8 but im happy
👩🏽🦱 I like your hairstyle! (I’m so tired of those Caucasian wigs on Black women! 😂) I’m African American, and I’ve never left the country. However, I have been researching countries on different continents that I want to vacation, so I look forward to taking friends with me. There’s an island where I might want to live in the future. I’ll see after I visit it.
I want to move to RD. I can’t because of my job so I just travel there a lot. Because of that, I’m hoping to get an apartment and offset the cost when I’m not there by turning it into an air bnb.
What happened with Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 😮. I believe you haven’t lived there. I grew up in NYC and I have thrived here in Puerto Rico 🇵🇷. We are just 31/2 hours from NYC . check us out.
In the DR, the best places for kids are either the upscale closed residentials or the rural towns. So, both extremes. But the “upscale” areas can be affordable for digital nomads (except for Punta Cana 😂).
We have a similar professional and geographical history 😊... But the crime "behind-the-scenes..." in Belize, Mexico, even the DR and many other countries is frightening to me... And., only getting worse... ( For me I am spoiled by my Whole Foods on River Road (Bethesda))... I was amazed when in the Bahamas, which I truly love, what a "food desert" it is... I prefer that country and feel horrible for the health of its lovely (non Nassau Island) inhabitants.. No fruit or vegetables... That is a comfort I just cannot live without... Yes the other countries beyond the Bahamas are better with their fresh food but I prefer the "outer, tame, non-tourist" Bahamian islands... I also prefer "You know who" to the sick repugnant DEI politics and Identity politics... IMO a FAR lesser EVIL than the new administration... YES, granted, it is disgusting in certain ways... BUT I hated the morons who have been "in control..." for the last 4 years... Welcome Home !
I have not been, but the little I read didn’t make me want to (major electricity issues, increased crime). I can’t judge though since I haven’t been and I know mass media has a way of distorting reality. Especially when it comes to African countries. Have you been?
The DC area will suck the life out of anyone. There are so many other places in the US with an abundance of nature. I’ve had many job offers in the DC area. There isn’t enough money in the world to make me want to live there.
Too true. I could use ideas on other places in the US -- my husband and I are thinking of moving to another spot where it's more affordable and with more outdoors that are easy to access.
Having lived abroad in many places, best advice is to go into it knowing well your motivating factors and understanding that these may change over time and being flexible enough to adjust your plans accordingly.
Absolutely! Totally agree. Thanks for commenting.
I will never move back. I love my life in Jamaica and I am so grateful to be able to live here. I love being treated with respect and I love the fact that I never need to think about my skin color..
Been gone for 2 years, with no intentions of ever going back. Retired early, recuperating from years of stress & work-related burnout. Lots of new friends & hobbies, and have learned so much more about the world & myself.
That's great - which country did you move to? Living abroad is so incredible for personal growth and understanding the world!
@ I’m in Mexico 🇲🇽. Love it here!
I lived in Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 for 6 months as a retiree and loved it!!! I stayed in San Juan and was literally walking distance from two beaches! Even though I spoke very little Spanish I had a fantastic experience and social life. I had the best of both worlds, living among locals and tourists alike. Puerto Ricans are so, so, so SOCIABLE and that’s what made me extend my stay to 6 months and even consider relocating there permanently. But I eventually had to return to the states. I’m glad for the experience and looking forward to more extended stays in various different countries, as I continue explore the world.
Sounds like a great plan! I have been to Puerto Rico many, many times but just for short visits and not to live. I always had a great time there, though it struck me as a bit expensive. Still I can see it being a great place to live for six months at a time. I will say a lot of countries in the Caribbean are also pretty awesome for half year stints.
Moving abroad is a viable option if you're retired with a nice pension, or if you have a nice US based job, that will let you work remotely. However, if you're struggling to make ends meat in the US and you have some major health issues and challenges, living in America is probably your best option.
Omg, I felt when she described how superficial the DC area is. I still live here. If one more person asks me where I live or what I do for a living, I'm going to go AAAAAWWWWFFFF!! The superficial and competitive behavior is ridiculous. I'm highly educated with a six-figure job, but when you meet me, you'd never know. I don't talk about it nor mention. I'm a NYC girl; we enjoy getting to know about YOU and have fun discussions; not how many acronyms you have behind your name or how big your house is. Smh
LOL! I am telling you. It was like that years ago and I don't think that will change.
I’m from LI, NY, lived in DC and MD for 10 years and experienced the same thing. It’s not me. I retired early and I am now living in E. Africa. It’s NOT easy living in a new country/continent but the quality of life, healthier food and lifestyle is worth it so I am determined to succeed here unless the Lord instructs me to move somewhere else. I worry about my family and the future of the US because it’s declining rapidly, it’s become beyond wicked and war is coming 😳
@tourismlens I believe you. A friend who lived here before I did use to tell me, and I didn't believe her until k moved to the DC metro area, and now I see. It's disgusting, but I'm still here because it's a progressive area for blacks. I just make sure I don't hang around those superficial people.
There is so much colourism and racism in the Dominican Republic. Most are mixed race but don’t identify as black. For dark skinned Americans it’s not very hospitable.
I'm a dark-skinned brotha from the U.S. and I got nothin' but love when I visited the D.R..
The term word black is only used in the United States Black Meaning black American. People in most countries go by nationality not by color
So when Dominicans say they are not black they are right How are they racist Even Haitians go by nationality
You just said. They are mixed race. So what is your point? I'm biracial, and I identify myself as biracial. It's not a big deal.
. A mixed race person can identify any want. Stop trying to impose your hateful beliefs on others.
Many black Americans travel there and don’t have any issues. I know of this one black realtor from Seattle who’s been living in Punta Cana for over 20 yrs and she loves it there. She even built a successful business network and is doing quite well for herself on the island. But I guess everyone’s experience is different..
I always think it’s better to bounce from countries to countries instead of permanently relocating abroad. Three to six months in each country and then back to the U.S. for a quick break and then repeat. That way, the honeymoon is never over. Talking about other TH-camrs, hmm, it really bugs me when they promote as paradise certain places where hundreds of people get killed for just being undocumented.
Please explain more. What do you mean people get killed for just being undocumented?
Facts this what I do
Think it all depends on the person & what they’re looking for. In my case, “bouncing” has no appeal for me (I love being in my one place where I’ve been for 2 years as a resident). But I know plenty of others that thrive with bouncing around either quickly or slowly.
Hundreds get killed in the US due to hate crimes and bigotry. Yet people market America as a great place and you suggest going back for a break is wise. Talk about contradiction. Why would anyone want to go back to an overpriced racist country for a "break"?
I am disabled vet and I am also retiring from my job in a couple years and that’s what I’m really thinking about doing….instead of just moving abroad to live go from country to country and stay a couple months in each country and just enjoy and learn the culture from each country
I think the key is choosing a good place. I've lived in 7 different countries and nothing would ever make me feel America was the better option based on the fact that I chose countries that were good to their citizens and have a great quality of life.
I'm a US expat 5 years deep in South America. Those considering expat life need to start with their "why." It can be cheaper and better, and/or a nightmare. A country that looked great a few years ago might have descended into a dark place like with Ecuador's challenge with gangs and lack of electricity. A friend who was mugged by an Uber driver in Quito got no help from Uber or the police. You have to get good at avoiding scams in relationships, business investment, and real estate. Other US expats can amazing or the worst people you've ever met. So go slow and eyes wide open. Expat life might be great or a no bueno thing.
This is 100% great advice! Totally right.
I felt that wall when I spent extensive time in Saint Lucia. I loved the beaches, the nature, the slow laidback lifestyle but knew I would never be fully accepted.
So interesting! I visited SLU some years ago but never lived there. Thanks for sharing.
Agreed! I love to travel, but the last plane ride takes me back to my crib in southern California. Year-round warmth, sun, sand, beaches, no power outages, cops don't solicit or accept bribes, I dont wear a money belt when I'm out and about, I can flush the toilet paper 😂...I could go on and on...In spite of everything that's wrong with the U.S. (and the list is long!), "God bless America... There's no place like home!"
Same...I always come back to Florida. I like the humidity and Central America was just as humid.
Thank you. This video has been a breath of fresh air and conveys a bit of realism. I am tired of these out-of-touch TH-camrs either born with a silver spoons or did fraud for a living trying to tell people otherwise because they are on some vacation high. I am definitely sharing this video.
I think every American should experience living abroad & I came to appreciate US much more after living in Nicaragua ! Safety was huge for me & the state owned electricity was frustrating. Welcome back !
Totally agree! Thanks so much
I mean... I'm sure you WOULD appreciate the US much more after living in Nicaragua...
You’ve raised some great points Lili! The US is not all bad and life abroad is not all rainbows and sunshine. We go through seasons and sometimes the best choice is to come back to the US 👍
This is exactly what I wanted to get across, Linda! Thanks for your comment. Life is definitely about seasons and transitions, and what works best for you.
Interesting, the truth is most people will not be happy with expat life. It is different when you are on vacation in a place and living in a place. I always tell me that if they are thinking of the expat life you need to try it out for awhile before you commit to the lifestyle. The USA is great place to live, all places have positives and negatives.
Thanks for sharing. I completely agree about trying out for a while before you commit, which I also mention in the video. Can't get carried away with the lifestyle. And yes, there are no perfect places to live, just the one that is a fit for you at a particular time in your life. It's a very personal decision!
Caribbean and Central America is not a monolith. Each and every country is different and people are different. For things they have in common they have just a many differences. You can only determine if a place is good for you by living there. For instances some countries have beaches, mountains and major city withing an hour of each other, etc. Also age makes a difference. Working vs being a retiree makes a difference etc.
As someone who has lived abroad for almost 10 years, I’m sick of all the Pollyanna videos from people like the Exodus Summit group talking about how it’s all fun and roses living abroad. They aren’t talking about some of the real challenges and how it really isn’t for everyone (part of their business model is selling that everyone should do this) if you have aging parents who can’t move abroad for whatever reasons, you have to realize that visits are not going to cut it when it comes to making sure they have quality care. My mum got really sick and died while I was bopping around abroad and I really regret missing some of the time I could have spent with her, You always think you will have more time with your loved ones and sometimes that is not the case.. When I moved abroad I missed my family terribly even though I had friends and a significant other where I moved to. People don’t talk about that part and how painful it can be when your family in the States passes away and you are abroad living this supposedly carefree life
So sorry for your loss, Rosemary, and the regret you felt not being there, that is so very hard. I understand this completely which is why I wanted to be present for my dad. I feel blessed that God gave me at least one good year with him since I came back permanently and still now he is with us, though the dementia is advancing. Some folks are commenting that I came back at a bad time (I mean it is a bad time globally!), which is so insignificant to me because nothing beats being here to support my dad (who is also the reason why I grew up abroad and traveled a lot, and my life has been so enriched by it). So yeah it is important to weight a lot of different factors. As for Exodus, I know the two women behind it from when they first started, and they are doing their best to help Black women who want to go abroad avoid making mistakes and get out of the rat race. But I do think that a lot of women tend to want to escape their situation really fast and end up making mistakes as a result.... but it's a marathon, not a race, to move abroad permanently and do so for the first time for many. Thanks for sharing I appreciate your important feedback.
I recommend checking out Panama City, Panamá when you feel ready to explore again.
I visited for a long weekend, but never stayed long-term! Definitely curious about it. I know a lot of expats love it there.
@tourismlens I've been a permanent resident here for 10 years, and I love it. Of course, it's not for everyone though.
THE GREATEST FULLFILLMENT OF TRAVEL IS LEARNING ABOUT ONE'S OWN SELF.
Porto, Portugal 🇵🇹……. Is really nice, safe and feels nice (black man speaking)
Thank you for sharing!! Storing that in the back of my mind.:) Have been to Portugal years ago and loved it (Lisbon, Albufeira).
The 5 countries you could have tried for safety: South Korean, Singapore, Norway, Dubai and New Zealand. I’ve never lived there but these could have been safety options.
Dubai is not a country, it is an emirate of the United Arab Emirates (UAE). In addition, some people prefer to live in countries that are more diverse or at least mostly populated by people who look like them.
Appreciate the honesty.
Witness here an intelligent, empowered, graceful, heartfelt and articulate communicator talking about culture, philosophy, anthropology, modern times, tourist expectations versus the reality of living in other countries, sharing why the USA has some positives which is healthy to hear right now being a native born citizen living here. You could easily expand your channel on tourism and bring this cultural - philosophical approach to all your vast experiences living abroad. I enjoyed this very much! Thank you. Your comment section audience is insightful also. You and your Hubby are invited to our homestead for dinner. Brilliant! Subscribed. ❤
Thank you so much! I'll take your advice!
@@tourismlens I'd love to see you include your thoughts about Europe and beloved Paris and everywhere you've been, including your birthplace! Thoughts... insights...comparisons, what made you grow in each place, what was magic, what wasn't, etc. You were in Paris for a whole summer! Love to hear about that. Keep up the Good Work!🌹📸
@@kentbyron7608 that's a really good idea to talk about my birthplace and my complicated relationship with it! And also how I grew in each place, what struggles what highs. So appreciate this feedback you are dishing out:) thanks! 😊
Thanks for your honest opinion about living in another country.
As a Dominican I can tell you that Punta Cana is the worst place to live in the Dominican Republic.
Explain please
Have you lived there? i'm dominican and live there and do not agree with you at all. I've lived in other parts of the country. But, to each is own!
News is not stressful 4 me, it’s very informative!
U must read between the lines, & stay vigilant!
Thank u 4-being honest!
I concur u must be alert at all times wherever u move!
If war breaks out, other customs will save their community first…be aware!
Peace &
Blessings!
Excellente information. Considering Belize, for a while. Thank you 💫
I like how you posted the opposite of what everyone posts on youtube.
people in other places come to expect foreigners to leave, so we must deal with this and accept this, because it is a real issue.
I love these expat videos, everyone has a broad but specific message. I noticed each expat has their specific reasons for moving. I’m all for it👍🏾
Thank you for the honest content. So many people make it seem like living abroad is all paradise but there are good and bad aspects to it as well. I like the idea of slow travel and coming back to a home base, wherever that may be. Do you have plans to continue travel journalism but going around the US instead of abroad?
thanks Renee! Yes there's good and bad to every place, just have to weigh it all carefully but not be afraid either.. Slow travel is absolutely the best if you can do it! Split your year in two places. I am still a travel journalist so I do visit places either in the US or abroad, depending on where work sends me. But it's short trips of one week or less.
Thank you for sharing. I am in the process of writing a ebook for my 17 year old daughter- she plays basketball and aspires to play in college- sharing her fundamentals and skills developed through the years. It’s my first experience writing a ebook. Love your videos and sharing your journey along the way.
I lived in the Caribbean for a few years a while ago & have been considering going back as an early retirement. Up until the election, I thought I could do it again as long as I’m able to get off the island. Post-election, I’ll have to rethink that.
I visited the DR in a place where power would get cut. In El Valle the cut it everyday for four hours is what I was told.
Phenomenal video! Thank you for this viewpoint and welcome home ❤
You're welcome! And thank you so much:) It's good to be back, honestly
Good points about the cons of living without basic:expected amenities we take for granted here in the United States. Also, so many expats don’t consider the weak/corrupt judicial systems that one day might ensnarl them in a legal nightmare.
I'm sorry to hear about your father. Welcome back to the USA. I'm from Belize City, Belize. I left my country many years ago. I went home for a quick visit in April of this year.
It was totally different with lots of new developments.
I spent most of my life in the USA. I couldn't see myself living in my own country. There's not not much to do there. I experienced the electricity shut off many times. What an inconvenience. I can never see myself in Belize for more than 2 weeks. some of the people very warm, friendly, but also needy. No place like America..
Thank you 🙏🏾 You’re actually the first person to express that about my dad; I appreciate it. And yes I completely understand what you mean; that’s an important point about the neediness..just depends how much you can help too, it’s a slippery slope. I love your country but also could not live there again. It’s great you visit family still. Important to keep a connection with your native home. Thanks so much for sharing here! 🙏🏾😊
I understand, I am from NC..We speak to each other..I live in DC area..can be lonely
Yes I really don't get why! Maybe because a lot of folks in this area are transient, they are just passing through.
Thanks so much for your insight. Very very helpful!
1:15 so true. I’m glad I left. I actually moved to Columbia, Md a year after I retired. A year later, I moved to Colombia 🇨🇴 this past May, never looked back. Met a local who was working in DC on a 2 year contract. We met on her second year, relationship flourished, and that’s why I moved here. So far we been together almost 2 years. Cost of living will allow for more travel throughout the year. I saved $2000 a month after leaving. I am currently in Medellin, it was better due to having all those available services, activities, and things to do. Things I did in the USA that I can do here is cafes, malls, movie theaters, festivals, events, and taking walks. What I miss, walkable parks, organized driving, safety as far as not being able to walk without taking your phone out on the street. Those things are not too bad compared to the benefits, now and in the future I’m getting just living here. Saving for a house purchase can be done here much quicker if we choose to buy in another country like Europe, or even here. It things don’t work out, there are always other countries in experience instead of returning back to the USA until you find what works for you.
Yes I agree with you. You have to do what is best for you, and that sounds like Colombia for you. I did enjoy visiting there couple years ago.
💯💯💯 to this! Especially what you said about being less immersed in news. It’s all encompassing here no matter what and never feels good!
It really is 24/7 in your face in a way that is very toxic!
Thanks for sharing your experience. Love your video!😊
Thanks so much!
Thank you for this balanced and informative video. I've lived in Mexico, Russia and China and I've travelled to all continents except for Antarctica (which I'm going to next year) and I really love the US. I spend most of my time in the US in New York City and in the Bay Area in California and those places are just really special. I love the diversity, the general overall kindness of people toward each other, the drive and belief in pursuing big dreams, the culture (I'm a big musical theatre buff, so NYC is a dreamland to me, but I also love the museums here, the food scene and the culture that stems from so many people of different backgrounds gathering in one place), the education (I take dance classes and voice lessons in NYC and the options are so extensive), the individualism (which I realize hurts us, but it also is what allows us or even encourages us to live our own lives without worrying about the judgment of others - there's less pressure to conform to societal norms than in other countries that are deeply rooted in traditions), my friends (mostly Black American - I'm a Black American descendant of enslaved people here and I love my culture so much, but I also have close friends who are American but whose parents are from Jamaica, Nigeria, Belize, Russia, Taiwan and I have friends here who are directly from China and Russia). People put down the US for good reason; there are so many messed up things about this country! I myself put down the US. I have an adult son who is Black and the racism here is a nightmare for both my son and for me, BUT I still love it here. I don't know what is going to happen now given the results of the election. I really don't want to leave, but I realize leaving might be necessary. The thought of leaving truly breaks my heart though. For now I recognize that any US citizen currently has passport privilege (we can easily enter and/or get visas for so many countries). I don't know if that privilege will continue after this upcoming administration, but for now I'm renewing my passport in case I need to get out! The thing is that my son's career depends on being here, so I can't really imagine leaving if he and his fiancee are staying. Most immigrants don't leave their homeland (because most people love the places where we grew up) unless it gets really bad and that will be the case for me if I leave and become an immigrant somewhere too.
Thanks for sharing that. Indeed passport privilege is a real thing and mine is valid for several more years too, lol. I try to stay positive because either way, the whole world is going in the wrong direction to be honest. too many wars.
Too many people in the states are trying to keep up with the Jonses. Way too status conscious and like you said evaluation is based on what you do. Living to Work vs Working to Living is often confused. I left the US 6 years ago for Europe but each persons needs and desires are different and should be considered carefully before moving. I've not been in the Caribbean but in the areas of Europe I travel and live as a 65 year old woman I've not felt afraid and I travel alone.
Absolutely right! 100% agree with you, as I mentioned in my video, everyone's needs are different.
Your video was exactly what I needed to hear. Congrats and welcome home. 😁✌🏿❤️🙏🏿
I went to Belize recently for a week in Placencia. I love the nature, beaches, and if you could get it the local food. Was in tourist area. Have considered getting as place there part time. Did get sense of people being friendly but not really welcoming. I'm not a bar person, so figured I have more work to do regarding a place that would be good to settle down. Any recommendations?
I am not a bar person either and I agree that a lot of socializing centers around that in the Caribbean. Depends what you like to do - if it's nature, focus on places where you can easily hike and get outdoors. If it's museums and cultural activities, big cities are best. Have heard people love living in Panama, maybe worth researching? See what you find that fits your interests, personal situation including health, and budget.
@tourismlens thanks. looking to get more time to explore. Good luck with your channel. I've subscribed. ✌🏿
I would like to wish you all the best with your future endeavors.🙏😊🙏😊
Thanks! 🙏😊
Thanks for Sharing
LOVE your perspective - very good insights I hadn't thought about. Nice to hear a more realistic and balanced perspective, apart from all of the YT videos made by people that never actually lived (or have even visited!) some of the overseas destinations they recommend. Most of those channels are AI generated anyway now, so good to see a real face of a real person, talking about her real life experience! You've given us things to seriously think about - you brought value. TY!
Thanks so much! I'm so glad to hear it was helpful.
Hola Lily. We met in front of Ikea in Punta Cana years ago; never got to hang out but always appreciate your content and your take on things. One thing to add to those taking all things into consideration is having and not having kids can really change your perspective insofar as what you' value most. I get the whole career advancement in the US for example, and I'd probably be on the same boat but having kids and living here has been a real blessing even if it means having potentially limited my career opportunities. Be it as it may, I'm happy that you're in a good place and always value your objectivity. Un fuerte abrazo!
Oh hi!! So nice to hear from you.:) Small internet world, lol. Yes that is true, having kids is a totally different ball game as far as where you decide to live. And I understand your choice for your family. Thanks for sharing, always appreciate your support and comments! Un abrazo para los dos!
This is an excellent informative video. Thanks a lot.
Thanks so much, I'm glad it was helpful!
Great info! Thanks!
Thanks for watching!
I agree the US is right for now. Key phrase is "right for now". Just have an escape plan. You have 3 days to get out if Sxht hits the fan.
Have you tried Malaysia - they speak English officially, Bahasa Malay 2nd, most have a 3rd language at home - its safe, tropical island weather, its closer to SE Asia and China. Its multiethnic, multiracial, multi religion - country with indian, chinese and malay folks and lots of western expats with families there.
Thanks for the idea!! No I had not considered it but sounds very interesting!
Love your story
Thanks for posting. I am from Guyana which is part of the Caribbean. I now live in the US. In April, I visited with my During our visit my wife asked me if I saw myself living in Guyana. Without hesitation I said, "You can't pay me a $1 million US to live here. Life in the US is way too easy."
Most homes in Guyana were like mini fortresses. Walking on the street always came with a warning about being robbed. The cost of living was also very high. I am still wondering how Guyanese are able to pay bills. For example, a Butterball turkey was $22,000 Guyana money. That is about $100 US. A beginning teacher's salary in Guyana is about $500 US a month.
Yes, there is the romance of living in a developing country and connecting with the local people. However at the end of the day, life is easier in a developed country. Heck, in the US, even the folks who cry oppression live a luxurious life compared to those in the developing countries.
You have raised some very important points and I completely agree! I think a lot of folks don't understand this -- having even moderately more income in a country where most make very little (and little in America is not the same as little in other places in the Global South) is difficult in many ways, including safety. But many have not lived abroad or traveled extensively so they don't fully realize the above. It's complicated!
Where in West Africa are you from and would you recommend I visit? I just learned I’m from West African Descent.
Cool!! Did they tell you where exactly. I am actually from East Africa (Ethiopia) originally, but grew up in Ivory Coast on the west coast.
Thanks for an interesting talk
Hello
I enjoyed your content. Thanks for sharing
thank yoU!
Thanks for the info…
How was your short stay in Grenada?
It was great! Grenada is a cute, peaceful island. I think too small though for me long-term and it didn't grab my soul, but right for others.
Nice. Power cuts are kind of a bigger deal. Safety is also a bigger deal. I don't think it makes much sense for me to look at moving abroad. I tend to be open and trusting of other people.
Being from the Caribbean, i want the tangible, items, the lifestyle opportunities the US and other 1st world countries offer, however they lack soul ....its a real catch 22
Exactly! It is a definite struggle:) but a privilege that we can consider all these things.
I want to move abroad but I’m trying to find the best place to go or to stay. You give me advice on how to move forward on what to expect not everything is going to be roses moving abroad,either USA I know things are not the same moving abroad but willing to give it a shot.
You have to take it slowly if you've never done it before. My best advice is to pick a place you've always been curious about, that could be a fit, and talk to people who live there (there are Facebook groups you can find am sure), then read a lot about it and watch videos. Plan a two-week trip. See how you like it. Then the next trip try a month longer, and go from there. It takes a lot of planning. Just take it slow is my advice if you have no experience living abroad.
I found value in your video. Did you meet your husband overseas?
Hi. I'm new to your channel. Have you lived in any one of the ABC islands? I love Aruba and Curacao, but I haven't been to Bonaire. I haven't lived abroad either.
Hi! I have been to Curaçao and loved it for a visit. But I haven't lived in the ABCs. I think it would be too small for me though. Living abroad is a great experience to have if you can, and it doesn't have to be forever, it can be for a month even.
What gorgeously flattering hair!
I am from the D.C. area as well. Living abroad I feel you would like Panama, or for the U.S. Hallandale Beach and really nice Hollywood Florida 0cean Dr is so nice you wouldL Love it
Thanks for those ideas! I have heard Panama is cool to live - but also know others who say they didnt like it and moved to Argentina. I visited Panama City and liked it a lot, for a short trip. Will keep in my radar!
Are you thinking of moving abroad, or have you already done it and returned? What’s your biggest dream-or fear-about making the move?
I'm a black American man in the process of looking at living in Belize I would really like to hear more about your stay 🕊️
Hello Lily where in West Africa are you from I can’t tell?
I'm a senior, and both my parents are deceased now... However, I see seniors who have moved abroad and left their elderly parents in other people's hands... That's something I could never do... My goal right now is to stay stress free and keep my focus on my health and finances...😊
@juanc711 Hi! What would you like to know about living in Belize?
@winstunglyn - Hi! Actually I am of Ethiopian heritage (parents are Ethiopian), but grew up in Ivory Coast
❤this was helpful
Thank you Lilly for this insight. I thinking about moving to Carib when I retire. I didn't want to go to Jamaica even though I have a lot of family there. Are you able to do a vid on living in Jamaica. Ive seen alot of expats living in Jamaica. But they don't show the cons
You're welcome! Re: Jamaica, I'll think about doing a video, OK? But it's been a long time since I stayed there long term. I will say that I changed my mind due to rising crime (this was a few years ago though).
I’m glad you felt welcome in the DR❤. Regarding electricity, depends on location; I am from Santiago and there were frequent blackouts when I was a child, but at about 15 years ago, they largely decreased and we had a backup inverter for when it went off. At least in the neighborhoods I lived, the blackouts were very seldom by the time I came to the US (almost 9 years ago). I think in Santo Domingo is still an issue.
Thank you! Me too:) And yes inverters saved us in Santo Domingo, but I remember the first apartment I moved into and I didn't realize they didn't have one (gah). So I would end up leaving the house to go work in a hotel nearby. At least I could do that... Am glad the blackouts have decreased in Santiago.
The DR was horrible and they cater to Spanish people
Like your channel and process. please watch D4darius cinematography and framing show. having water or movement behind you helpful.
I also think it depends on your age (eg. if you are close to retirement it would be from a different perspective).
It is about priorities, for sure. That's why it will be different for every person.
My family (nuclear and extended) is considering moving abroad given the current state of things here in the U.S. and your video has given me a deeper perspective. So thank you for that!
The part about toilet paper makes me remember growing up in Mississippi and visiting relatives in an even more rural part of the state who didn’t flush their toilet paper and it was a little jarring. I guess my relatives may have a better time adjusting if we have to move to a country with that requirement 😅
lol! I guess after 10+ years of having to do that I got over it. Some things wear on you but it's not the end of the world. thanks so much for watching and sharing your perspective too!
We have the same story. Nice to meet u! #NewSubscriber
Welcome! 😄 Nice to meet you here too!
I love DC!
This was the best review of life abroad I've ever seen! My question is, if American becomes uninhabitable for us, where would you live?
Thanks Alicia! Appreciate you watching. I do think about where we'd go if US becomes unbearable but remember I also have my dad here who isn't well. But am not worried, am blessed to have options ,including going back to nearby DR.
The way you described the lonelinessim tge DR is hiw I ferl about Atlanta. The only friend that I have here moved here from Rochester, NY where I used to live (I didnt like it there, due to the economy and racism in the workplace, and bougie black people.
Im waiting for my husband to retire abd were going to uae a combination of relocation astrology and fe n g shui to find our next hometown (and the blue maps from state voter registration sites 😂)
🤣🤣.I hear you! There are very few places I can say I truly love living in in the US... but I think eventually every place has its downs, and you have to make sure the pluses make up for them.
D.R is too expensive,naw not good place to retire,go to play then move elsewhere,me in tanzania is so peaceful and cheap. Yes i miss walmart sometimes or the 24/8 but im happy
You are right about DR! It is getting very expensive. I have heard Tanzania is affordable. Never been
👩🏽🦱 I like your hairstyle! (I’m so tired of those Caucasian wigs on Black women! 😂)
I’m African American, and I’ve never left the country. However, I have been researching countries on different continents that I want to vacation, so I look forward to taking friends with me. There’s an island where I might want to live in the future. I’ll see after I visit it.
Thank you!:) And that sounds like fun plan!
Thank you and you have to do you
I want to move to RD. I can’t because of my job so I just travel there a lot. Because of that, I’m hoping to get an apartment and offset the cost when I’m not there by turning it into an air bnb.
I think it's smart to invest if you feel like that's where you will be long-term when ready or able to leave the US.
Everyone is doing an Airbnb and hotels are 30 usd per day. You are not going to make money like many are finding out with all the competition
What is RD?
She returned because she wanted a country with running water and electricity. I get it.
I agree. Most of these carribean countries are too unreliable that way and then sometimes hurricanes.
There infrastructure in u.s. is top notch.
What happened with Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 😮. I believe you haven’t lived there. I grew up in NYC and I have thrived here in Puerto Rico 🇵🇷. We are just 31/2 hours from NYC . check us out.
In the DR, the best places for kids are either the upscale closed residentials or the rural towns. So, both extremes. But the “upscale” areas can be affordable for digital nomads (except for Punta Cana 😂).
Yessss! That is a great point - in the campo (countryside) is best for children ,if folks can do that! And PUJ is getting ridiculous, lol
We have a similar professional and geographical history 😊... But the crime "behind-the-scenes..." in Belize, Mexico, even the DR and many other countries is frightening to me... And., only getting worse... ( For me I am spoiled by my Whole Foods on River Road (Bethesda))... I was amazed when in the Bahamas, which I truly love, what a "food desert" it is... I prefer that country and feel horrible for the health of its lovely (non Nassau Island) inhabitants.. No fruit or vegetables... That is a comfort I just cannot live without...
Yes the other countries beyond the Bahamas are better with their fresh food but I prefer the "outer, tame, non-tourist" Bahamian islands... I also prefer "You know who" to the sick repugnant DEI politics and Identity politics... IMO a FAR lesser EVIL than the new administration... YES, granted, it is disgusting in certain ways... BUT I hated the morons who have been "in control..." for the last 4 years... Welcome Home !
Have you considered South Africa as an option?
I have not been, but the little I read didn’t make me want to (major electricity issues, increased crime). I can’t judge though since I haven’t been and I know mass media has a way of distorting reality. Especially when it comes to African countries. Have you been?
The DC area will suck the life out of anyone. There are so many other places in the US with an abundance of nature.
I’ve had many job offers in the DC area. There isn’t enough money in the world to make me want to live there.
Too true. I could use ideas on other places in the US -- my husband and I are thinking of moving to another spot where it's more affordable and with more outdoors that are easy to access.
DR is one of the best Islands that I love to visit. I have family members that moved to DR and love it.