Text Game -- From Number To Date Step By Step
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.พ. 2018
- Why do you suck at texting? Well, there are probably a lot of reasons, but one of the main ones is you don't understand the motivation behind her texts and you don't know what type of reply is merited. This video solves that, and provides a foundation for text game in general.
If you want more insanely useful and actionable dating info, check out my new site: www.toddvdating.com/blog/
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I'm so alpha that I just send girls this video.
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Shlome
Ahaha. Good one!
galaxy brain
lmao
No wonder I am single. There should be a college course on dating women, maybe even a major.
The major would be STEM or anything that generates six figures
@@jaymacdonnell4730 so you're saying us STEM majors have a chance?
lmfao forreal @@jaymacdonnell4730
The courses would all be feminized and they would give you shitty advice and tell you to be nice while they keep fucking the alpha.
Ikr
Bro deadass I listened to what this guy was saying took notes and used the notes while texting and i scored a date in not even 5 messages💀
🧢🧢🧢🧢
This guy is on point. I'm suddenly horribly aware of the flaws in my text game.
agreed, I can never tell when it's time to advance things or not; this does help at least a little bit. People always say "you'll just know"; no seriously, I don't.
@@KingRandor82 yeah i feel ya. I dont know either
@@KingRandor82 some of us are so lost, that phrase ends up passing above our heads lol
Ughh, I just realized that I'm awfully needy
Right. So many that’s it’s almost embarrassing to think back to old texts
Categories:
(1) silence
(2) shit test
(3) logical / platonic
(4) positive
Action to take for each category..
(1) ping value into the void (no questions, no plans)
(2) pass it (e.g. agree and exaggerate) (no questions)
(3) depend on context (either some banter or close)
(4) start making plans (8:05)
Sam Murphy u nailed it, thanks
Thank you my man
Master.. Kind of.. Only in games that are close to you
I don't understand 3
What's a shit test?
Paused the video at 2:10. Went to my tinder convo's and scrolled to the first messages I received and started categorising them. Todd is ON THE BALL here. Literally only 4 categories. Whats cool, is now that I could distinguish/categorise the text received, I already knew where I stood. 2 minutes of this video has already improved my text game.
Todd is like an uncle that actually gives good advice and he doesnt go into bullshit like youre an alpha male get her shes yours blah blah. Straight to the point, just some great advice.
You actually RECEIVED messages on Tinder? I'm there for years now, I am a wish come true-guy for any girl and I haven't received any message EVER! I probably live on the wrong planet. Please shoot me to the Moon please. One-way-ticket.
@@andrejguesswho9837 just get better pics
Pretty sure Tinder is a scam lol just bots and fakes to make it look real so you buy Tinder Plus
When you learn marketing you see it everywhere.
But maybe I'm wrong have you met any girls off that
@@justin5033 Lol I've used tinder a lot. You probably unknowingnly do things that women consider red flags or smth. There's plenty of videos out there to figure out what that is.
Todd is truly on fire since he left RSD. Seems like he thrives when he is working within a framework of his own making!
I feel like his content is just so much better now, unbelieveable value packed short videos, not like 3h for a basic concept.
Yeah, Todd is pure technique.
short videos are the best videos
Rsd still lit tho
I didn't know that, shit makes so much sense now
This is why i love u todd. You treat game as a science more than a art. Easy to understand for everyone.
Yeah. Totally agree with you man.
are u robot?
Damn. Learned a lot. This dude approaches dating like mathematics
3:24 silence
5:03 shit test
7:58 Positive
9:54 logical
the breakdown into the 4 basic types is a huge help itself. also, like the annotations on the video screen
Bucky Barnes screenshot team
wait I thought you were with Cap?? 😂 j.k.
How does one pass a shit test ?
Categories:
(1) silence
(2) shit test
(3) logical / platonic
(4) positive
The Categories are like a Ladder or gradient.
Silence:
More work to do.
Ping Value into the void.
Say something cool fun funny intresting that requires no answer. Pics memes, etc
DONT ask Questions
DONT try Make Plans
Shit Test:
Just Pass It (Exaggerate, reframe)
She likes you.
Better than silence.
They are turnable into dates.
Exaggerate.
Dont pass shit test and ask questions.. (huh?)
Mess it up by passing shit test and asking questions or making plans.
Pass it and stand your ground. Dont soften it to make sure you get a response back.
Logical:
Good Area.
Build off of it.
She does like you.
Either respond back logically and then add banter and flirtation.
Grey area:
Logical/Convo questions.
understand she likes you.
Either be logical briefly then add banter to get you to positive.
Positive:
start making plans.
Make plans gradually.
Find out her schedule.
Do a multi step sequence.
Are u an adventerous person?
Whats your stance on a date with a hot person?
Bridge the positive into plans
Call her if she is being very positive also
If you get a shit Test at this stage go back to shit test stage. STOP tryna make plans.
These are rules of
Mr. Lhoyte1 I am your 101st like, gotta say, you deserved it.
@@rounak.rsakhare5946 what is meant by reframing? new topic?
The fact he did this all in one cut made me subscribe. Guy knows his shit.
Dudes...don't forget the power of the male voice on the phone in a girl's ear. If you have a deep or unique voice, this will work to your advantage in fostering sexual attraction. Combine text and a call where she can hear your voice, dawg.
Truth! I speak for myself when I say I would rather hear a man's voice on the phone versus seeing a text-aside from the person taking initiative to pick up the phone and standing out from everyone else using text (as main mode of communicating), certainly makes him stand out from other possibilities I may have at my disposal. And yes, the guy has a nice, deep voice-forget it, can turn you into butter. It's getting harder and harder to find men who know the art of seducing a woman. I know they're out there still.
thats a good point especially on whatsapp where you can send voice messages
@@agee7777 ooh no
That’s faxx bro
Lol, have 't say, calling her is strong!!
I watched this and now I have a wife, 7 kids and a jet ski. Thank you Todd v Dangerfield.
So glad Todd's back. I don't really feel the need to watch PUA videos at this point but it's always nice to get Todd's opinion. I've never had a moment with one of his videos thinking to myself "wait what? wtf that's bullshit?", probably because it's always presented in a very simple and logical way. It helps you deal with the situation by understanding it first and then reacting to it so it can easily apply to a wide variety of scenarios.
Anyway, thanx Todd, with your content I feel I can be completely non-needy in my relationships knowing your ideas and techniques are available and will definitely help me out any time I need them.
Normal guys: replying to girls as usual
Me: Analyzing the girls text message and seperating them by category following on figuring out a fitting and positive reply
Lmfao how did it come to this fam
@@10toesdownceogg48 well, sometimes i go too much into details hahaha
See I just try and respond and keep it light but for some reason I think I am mishandling the convos.
Too much thinking lol
XD
Todd, you're one of the most honest PUAs out there. You identify grey areas and say that you should follow your intuition which is something I feel a lot of PUAs don't do. Mad respect and thanks for the video.
Step 1: must stop texting when drunk 😂
so so hard to resist.
Very true
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Can’t tell you how important this is. 😆
My only downfall lol
dude this is some legit guideline on how to behave - thanks so much. How rare and refreshing it is to find actual practical „solutions“ to problems. Salute.
Thank you Todd. I finally found someone who explained it as logical as possible. The 4 text method helped so much it helped me see the big picture of texting. I always knew that text should be to meet up but this gave me the few details I needed to really improve the texting part of game
Sensei Todd V! Teaching the jiu-jitsu of game. Such insight into gaining leverage and navigating complex challenges by way of technical solution. Sincere appreciation and respect for this master of the art.
Todd, you've come an incredibly long way dude, such a fan of your stuff over the last year. You have a very "you have a problem? Here's the field-tested" no-nonsense way to things which I like. Why f*ck around if a problem has been solved already or you found the highest odds way of doing something? Keep it up bro!
Most guys are totally baffled and clueless when it comes to texting. This won't give you ALL the answers, but it'll give you most of them, and also a clear roadmap you can follow to get her on a date. Enjoy... and be sure to check out my new site at: www.toddvdating.com/blog/
This is a really good model for Game in general as well. Each move gets you closer to your goal, where as some don't enjoy the entire process of the pick-up, so you have to take the set one step at a time. Logistics is key. Calibration is everything. Thank you master Todd.
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Todd V Dating thanks for getting to this todd I love you bro
Todd V Dating what do you do about one word replies? Where does that fall in terms of these 4 types??
Oh man this is the best thing that i've seen in the last 15 months. Im absolutely thankful on you because im a beast in game after years practicing but i've been stucked on the texting stuff. Actually my game lately has become a "i pull this girl tonight or never" because my text interactions doesn't move forward but i see everything clear to the past with this guideline. It's very sad to lose girls that you really like because you dont know how to game them by texting.
I would like into this series how to manage your and her ratio of time response text, because sometimes i feel that the girls shittests you even when the interaction has been going very positive with no response by large amounts of time.
by the way, thanks man, keep it up!
Todd this texting video helped me completely turned around a relationship that was already over and I fu*ked up beyond belief, I don’t believe how well it worked and I do believe it at the same time
@JeffPaulTv1 what do you mean by this
You the best man. I love how you always show both spectrums of how things can go. I remb seeing a video of you automatically getting the girl and you said that was too easy/went to perfect, so you showed another one where it didn't work out as smoothe but still pulled.
Todd has hit the bullseye on this subject. This is the first time I've listened to him, and it's enticed me to listen to his other vids. As a woman, Todd's strategy and explanations could not be more on point in my estimation.
Simple, direct and non needy, and making sure all logistics are good. Good video Todd
Timestamps:
4 types of texts 1:08
Silence 3:13
Shit test 5:02
Positive 7:55
Logical/Platonic 9:46
Todd, thank you so much. It used to be hard for me to feel confident enough to understand how to positively interact with women. Your video series has helped my life a lot, man.
Todd, you're analytical skills are something else!
Great Vid!
The way Todd treats talking and getting girls is very interesting, it’s very similar to sales and it makes complete sense!
Todd, this is great, you need more texting videos bc 90 percent of game is text game nowadays and texting is extremely complicated and not natural.
I can confirm. Todd’s method works. Seriously, this shit is good. I was getting way more dates thanks to this formula. I was using it in the past (from 3 girls a day program). Thanks Todd!
Thank god Todd is making bangin' informative videos that can put stuff in perspective again. Sometimes I rush in and lose focus when I text because I have my head in my pants. Good to tweak a bit as i go along.
You’re so logical and systematic-i love it. Definitely a master Todd.
Todd you're a mind reader man this is exactly what i needed
Yes Todd! I was just looking for a text guide. Great stuff as always!
Thank you so much for your wisdom bro. Each and every one of your videos has so much value condensed into so few minutes, unlike most of the coaches out there.
Just wanna say that Todd is just awesome, this just clearly shows how youre making mistakes and how to correct them... just perfect
Not to shit on RSD cause they have helped me in the past and sometimes still put out awesome videos but the way Todd explains this in a methodic and precise way in 15 min would take RSD 1h+ in a "manifesto" video
So true. Todd is the master of breaking things down in a bullet proof and concise way. I hope he'll stick to the short-video format cause he excels at it.
with half incomplete explanations
i have the impression that these long RSD videos is a marketing technique as a mean to an end that I havent realised what it is yet!!!
@@Kochos ik I'm a bit late but I believe it's to give the illusion of an absolute plethora of info
This is true
Todd, thank you so much, this is great! Texting is that one area which gets frustrating really easily, and you're really helping a lot with these videos, so thanks a lot:)
I just reposted this on a group of mine. This is the second most important game video I have ever watched. If you learn and implement this, it becomes a skill of yours so strong that you know, as long as you can get her talking... you can get her on a date. #gold
Never ceases to produce quality content. Great Video Todd! and that 44 Bars outro +1
Hey Todd I normaly dont write comments but I just had to for this great video. Keep up the good work. You give so much value with your videos, I think a lot of people really appreciate it.
Jesus christ Todd ur advice is so much more on point than RSDs fucking spiritual nonsense. U NEED to make this shit big, please release some mega outer-game program or something covering it all, would be the most efficent best product in PU history, most likely
The spiritual stuff is not nonsense though.
Gold. Precise af, you can really see all these patterns when you're texting with a girl
This completely blew my first serious conquest in over a year wide open. Kudos
Thanks so much Todd for this EXCELLENT video !! Very insightful, very practical, concise and clear. Keep it up man ! : )
*So Good to have Todd doing his thing!*
Are you the guy who has the beef with bt sport?
This is an amazing map to grasp the feeling of the interaction via text. I have realised that when you approach with the frame of just having a good time w the girl and flirt, she offers you her fb or phone number. And that at least jumps you to the shit test phase in text.
I wanna say thanks because this video helped me a lot. I used to always just ask questions and try and kiss up to the girl coming off as low value. Changed my game up and used these tips and my results have been 10x better. You're a G Todd
This is like PEMDAS for text game
@W2 I appreciate you XD
Best video I've seen on text game, keep the great context coming!!!
Man. I've been using your stuff.... and its working.... my brain is blowing up right now. I can't believe this.
I have been doing text game for awhile with varying success. I person is easy, texting effectively is hard. This is really good info.
how to game in school or university please!!!
like so that todd sees this!!
Just tipe in ThatWasEpic , haha
Kaeseatze yo hey, I like you😂
RSD Luke, Social circle
That's the easiest environment. All you have to do is show you have high value (bulletproof game) and that's it. Most girls in uni/college are focused on school, don't want a LTR, and just want to get laid, and are waiting for a non-creep. That's it. If you have an apartment (not residence/shared dorm), your SMV increases one point, if you can handle weak shit-tests and wear any thing other than sweat pants and a university-logo hoodie with hangover hair, you will get laid.. You don't have to have a house, a high paying career, dress sharp, etc. And you're in an environment full of thousands of women who are either approaching or are currently in their SMV peak (22-25). It doesn't get easier than that. Good luck.
Be on top of your grades and offer to help others out, or study together. So simple
This is the best breakdown of texting i've ever seen. Thanks for this Todd!
Wow, I am impressed by the precise map Todd has and paints, brilliant
Even though I don't agree with everything, I have to say you make a lot of good points and I find it quite interesting many of the things you're saying. And honestly, I don't see why people think game is "manipulative" when it's transformed a lot of people into being better versions of themselves. Thanks for the advice.
For the first time I see some useful content on pickup.
I remember trying to read LoveSystem's Magic Bullets a while ago. And the Approach - Transitioning - Attraction - Qualification - Comfort - Seduction pyramid make sense. But the book itself barely explains anything, except the concepts. And their book of "pick up lines", only explains stuff till qualification, and expects you to figure out comfort and seduction yourself.
Same with a lot of other pick up books. They stay very vague about the specifics.
OMG this is so helpful, thx so much, Todd!!
I'm beginning to believe... that this guy's brilliant. Absolutely brilliant.
It’s funny because the only time I ever spent or would ever spend money on anything pickup related was on Todd, but when he was with RSD I didn’t spend a dime. However, the moment he put out “The System by Todd” (and had it for a limited time discount price, 48 hours I think it was) I jumped on it and bought it. The best money I’ve ever spent! After that I started calling him “Todd the God”, because the guy explains everything so damn well and has so much info he’s able to put out countless FREE vids on TH-cam, not to mention what’s in the The System...
By the way, a big thanks for all of this free information you’ve put out for us over the years Todd. You’ve changed so many lives brother. 👊
this one is one of those really helpful strategies, good looking out bobby fischer i mean Todd Valentine
Hahah great comment
Simple and accurate. For me the best video on texting ever ! Thank you for this golden nugget !
Thank you brother for this info! For 3 months, I’ve been f’ing up either potential dates or 2nd dates from girls I’ve met on Bumble and Tinder. Damn I wish I would’ve saw this before those interactions. Oh well, I’ve got the rest of my life to figure this crazy texting shit out. Now I understand the expression “Gotta respect the game.”
Todd is soo damn useful! "Show intent from the start" was indeed very messed up thing to spread
Field testing this today after a good day game sesh
Uri Balsam results?
Absolutely brilliant.
Speechless.
This guy covered it all in one video, true legend💟
Yoo this dude is the goat, all these years and only now my eyes are open
you are like that awesome big brother to me, is always ready when i need hem ;)
so true
Great insight on texting Todd !
Hey it's Brian! Shoutout from RSD group from Utah!
A lot of guys struggle on the silent treatment - I agree that sending something funny and light hearted and not being too invested is the best approach. Never mentioning anything serious about the situation. The girl is trigger-happy on that de-friend or block button in the silent treatment the second it's called out. Leaning in the mindset of "interest hasn't grown yet" is helpful but also keeping cards open.
The reason I like this guy over the other dating coaches is because he actually tests these strategies on women I've never seen another channel with this much infield footage. This man does his research!
2:15 It's almost like trading/investing: When things go well, people try to buy more, but when things are down, they try to sell. It's the exact opposite of what you should do, you should buy the dip. Similarly, with texting and in real life, we often try to keep a good thing going when we should close, and when things suck we try to ask a girl out to salvage the situation. You should do the opposite. It's really simple, just as with investments, but men do the exact opposite. Very insightful, both for text and real game. Thanks man.
I wanted to set a date the other day with with my crush , but all she said is like "we can write.." what does that mean? i think i messed things up
Woah, thanks for the insight man!
Wanna connect somewhere and talk about game even more? You seem like a pretty smart dude and i could add you in some groups that discuss about game
Zharakov add me
Dennis Weber
If you're referring to her as your crush then something tells me you're coming across to her as very needy.
You did a great job - very informative
Dude Todd V this video helped me a lot for online dating because I’m good at getting numbers. However, I struggle sometimes in keeping good flow in texts but dealing with silence and shit tests are always the biggest obstacles.
This video is pure gold! It should have 9 million not just 900k
About to text my crush, you are blessed Todd
how is it going? I textet my crush too but its almost 6 months ago, maybe we will meet up on friday
Dennis Weber she asked for my phone, then never texted me. Then I sent a message to her FB, hasnt seen it. If I see her I score, but I heard she has been with a girl for 2 years or so. So I get why she did not text me, maybe because of regret or because she wanted me to ask her for her phone that time.But she really likes me, so I’ll see when I see her. She was attending my gym but we have not bumped into each other in 3 months hahaha.
update pls
its over
GOLD. 💙
this video is so helpful, I've always been super smooth in person, but never knew how to really text well this video bridged the gap!
The holy grail of texting science. Well done man thankyou
PRICELESS!! so much value!
My god. Women make this waaaayyyyy more complicated than it needs to be lol. But hey if it works then it works. Can’t argue with results
The results aren’t good.
Not everyone looks like Channing Tatum bro. It's the same in life man nobody's gonna give you a six figure job for nothing. You gotta work for it.
@@earlspencer7863 women aren't with working for that much
It makes sense.
They filter out men with bad social skills and emotional iq. Social skills and social iq matter so much in todays society.
They’re basically the foundation of leadership skills.
It means a man can make more influential friends, get promoted at work and etc.
@@pahwraith It also eliminates people who don’t like texting and who don’t want to play games.
Texts are just words and they have no tone of voice. You can’t really tell exactly what the other person means unless you know them well and even then they could mean something different. This is cuz when people read something, they usually translate it how they would say it. So really a text has only the emotions you imagine for it.
But a lot of people like to play these games so I’m not gona spoil someone else’s fun.
Well said kid,,,you're the first guy I've watched who's got it 100% dialed in.
Dude! This is the best video and advice I've ever seen on texting. Thank you!
pure gold... again
I don't know what's harder, my multiple science classes or learning how to date a girl
you make a real good videos bro you're one of my favorite coaches and rsdmax i haven't seen any coach before telling what you just said
These are good guidelines, thanks! But you're right I too have that problem of sometimes following these things too literally and it blocks me from just being myself.
Fantastic content, thanks!
Dope video Todd! Good stuff. Really helps me notice some things. I've been doing a lot of these things but not really completely aware. Can silence be a shit test? That's kinda the most confusing part for me. SILENCE
Just watched it again. WIsh I could like it again. SO much value Todd.
Todd V, you're the best. No BS
Most PUAs wanna work in RSD. Todd left RSD and showed them who's boss. Perspective.
To add to this, the faster you can get the person on a date or a meet in person the better. The longer it takes the more “scary” the meet up in person will seem for them
lol
Great Video! What I like about your vids are that they are short and to the point. If this was Alex's video it would have been an hour of filler. Or if it was Max's probably the same long tiring thing of beating around the bush.
I was winging my way untill i watched this and realised i was getting positves so slanmed down the 'are you adventurous' and she qualified so continued with the 'whats your view on drinks and banter with a cute guy' she responded with 'a good one but am flying to Malaysia tonight but will be back in 2 weeks' she just finished her honour's degree so is celebrating over there. Looks like the format works 🙌