You WOMEN are HYPOCRITES! It's called DOUBLE STANDARDS, y'all.
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- When a woman says she won't date a short guy, people say it's a dating preference. When a man says he won't date a woman because she's overweight, society says he's fat shaming. No matter how you slice it, it's a double standard.
This week, I lay it all out, discussing the many ways we body-shame men, while coddling women. Weigh in on the conversation down in the comments section.
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YES! Thank you! I've said this for years. It's super unfair that as a man you're not allowed to say you don't find a fat woman attractive, but every music video or movie with a fat woman has her fantasizing over tall, muscular men with huge packages who somehow also have time to earn six figures, clean the house and feed the kids! Where's she gonna find that unicorn?
Agree 1000%!!! LOL at unicorn.
At this point, everyone wants a fit partner. Also if a person is unfit, there are usually issues that they need to deal with before being in a relationship. No one person can help people change. They have to do the work themselves.
I’m a dude and I have been “body shamed” by women a lot. I’m not saying men are perfect angels we can be awful too. I’m just saying some women can be incredibly cruel to us. When I try and talk to about this with my female friends they seem to shrug it off and say things like men don’t have feelings.
I know men who have been body shamed by girls. I'm so very sorry that you have had to deal with that, and it's sad that your friends don't offer any understanding or support. Men need love and support, just like women.
It's happening to me everyday i am 47 Bulgarian who work and leave in the Netherlands since 7 years.Same is happening with me all over in Europe! Congratulations "Women' all of you are in the bottom! 99.99% love to ashemed mens. I have experience with this shits every single day.They provocating me all the time and this is one of the main reason WHY men killing women!?! Think about it,american brother s and sisters!?!
If i was straight i would have been into amazonian women lmao , probably they don't exist tho .
Like why do yall date short women ? Yall can also date tall women if not taller than you . Tall is more aesthetic no doubt about that . Too tall can be bad for both men and women tho .
I would probably look for new friends if I was you. Why be around people who hurt your feelings, denying their existence in the first place? But that's me.
I was "body shamed" in elementary school when internet didn't exist for just common folks, I was simply very short back then and very skinny. And shy. And that was enough. When I saw some of them around two decades later, I couldn't help but smile with satisfaction, princes and princesses turned into frogs. Karma is a b*tch 😈
Are they really "your female friend's" if they feel that way about Men ergo YOU?
This reminds me of Riley Dennis's infamous take on preferences, saying that our dating preferences are inherently harmful against fat, trans, disabled, etc. people and those preferences are a social construct rooted in bigotry that can be "unlearned".
Big oof on that. 😵💫
Dating preferences are like belly buttons: everyone has them and it's perfectly normal. People shouldn't be shamed for not finding a 300lb woman (or man) attractive. No one is entitled to sex or any romantic relationship in general. Your dating pool being shallow doesn't give you the right to use slander in order to shame people into swimming in your end.
Oh, I agree with you. No one should be shamed into liking them/dating them. That's just crazy. I just don't like when women expect men to accept them as they are, but clown men for who they are and things they can't control. The Australian guy in the video said it best...say I'm not your type, but, don't be nasty about it.
I have a friend who loves hairy men. The more hair the better. I do not like hairy men at all. We tease each other, but everyone has the right to choose what they like.
Exactly. Some women need to be accountable for their toxicity disguised as "girl power".
You are a blast...intelligent, balanced, very self-aware and ...a pretty decent gal ...😏
Thank you so much for saying that!!!! You're so awesome. You made my day!🥰🥰
@@ThisBahamianGyal The world is in dire need of more humans such as yourself...(am a mother(6) in her 7th decade(ouch) and hail from the land of the Trucker's Freedom Convoy known as the "No Longer Great White North...Canada"... Happy Trails... !!
@szrn1239 Hello freedom convoy :) Greetings from the Netherlands and the Dutch Farmers 🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱
@@catwalkster To paraphrase from the movie "Galaxy Quest"...!....~Never Give Up...Never Surrender~ honk 🦆 honk 😏
As a six foot tall woman, it drives me crazy that these little shrimp women demand a man be 6 ft tall..why??! The average woman is 5'4 on a good day. A 5'9 man is towering over them. That's plenty tall!
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You are absolutely correct. I’m 5’9”, and my wife’s 5’5”, I tower over her!! Also been happily married for 32 years.
I am a short girl and strongly agree. Let the tall girls take the tall guys.
Or a 5'2 woman demand a 6'5 men, for what, the mouth be at the same height as the PP, so no need to kneel?
@@betelguese18 sure LOL 🤣 🤣
Can’t wait till your channel gains real traction, easily worth 100k subs with your content, well done so far, good luck out here!
Hi!!! Awww man....You just got me so emotional with your comment. You are beyond kind and your words just blessed me. Thank you sooo much for that! 🥰🤎🤎🤎
@@ThisBahamianGyal no problem at all! Sorry for the late reply we all know how TH-cam blocks notifications on subjects like this so that’s nothing new! Great job again :)
I’m fat.
There. A simple admission of a fact. You can substitute it with other words like chubby or overweight. The fact remains is that I am fat. Used to bother me when people would use it as an insult, but it’s now a better insult to thank them for pointing out the obvious.
Edit - can I get a flag for that?
The flag for that should be a 🎈😎
Dear it is called becoming adult, and strong.
We should find à flag which represent this.
I'm fat too. My saving grace is my 6'5''/1.98 m stature hides it quite well, yet the fact remains I am currently about 77 lbs/35 kg overweight.
Thanks to regular walks and slight change in diet, I've lost 33 lbs/ 15 kg over the past year.
Query: Are you working on losing weight? It's none of my business, of course, but just want to throw my support your way if you are (or consider it).
We had one my guy but unfortunately we had to use the fabric for the other half of Lizzo’s new stunning and brave swim suit she’s going to cry in later. 🐋 slay
I lost it at the flag reveal 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm glad you enjoy my crazy sense of humour! Haha. Thanks for watching, hun! Heehee.
Same 🤣😂🤣🤣😭
@@DJx79x 😂😂😂
I’m often shamed for being skinny and would be told guys like thicker women. I eat a lot and I have a fast metabolism so it’s hard for me to gain a lot of weight. It’s so disheartening seeing people just shame others because they’re also insecure about themselves so they try to project their insecurities and make the other person feel insecure too.
I feel ya. Slim girls are beautiful too.
Do you miss. Don’t like fat chicks get you down.
I’m a guy and I like women who look healthy for their height and age.
LOL non slim girls are told men like thin most girls vomit starve themselves to try to get to size 0. You know what every you happen to be people will shame it change and you will find people will criticize you for being that size.
I am curvy no one likes curvy, yet I'm sure men say they do to the girl that don't have curves men want to convince you you're not good enough they think it gives them the upper hand in being able to control you. Don't allow it know what you like be that when happy in your skin people can't get to you.
People that are haters will be haters no matter what you do. As the people that truly care about you will be happy for you when you're doing what makes you happy. So just go for your goals those that matter will cheer for you want what's best for you. those that try to drag you down are not your friends so why should their opinions even matter.
Yea I hate hearing that too I’ve dated super skinny to really thic woman and I believe they all have their own beauty you’ll find that one who loves you for you period hope you get it out there for real!
I feel like I see more people in my real life who want to gain weight. There isn't a lot but when I do hear people talking about their body it has been about gaining weight.
Just found your channel and have watched quite a few this past week or two. I absolutely love your energy ❤
Thank you so much, KG! That means a lot. What you doing these days now that you've retired from basketball? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sorry, I couldn't help myself.
Male body image issues are never taken seriously, I was 104lbs at 6’2 my sophomore year of high school and my parents chalked it up to a growth spurt while immediately getting my sister a nutritionist and therapy when she printed out the plan for a crash diet. Shits wild look at ED discourse it is never taken to the male experience with it. I know it’s not as widespread of an issue but because I thought I was struggling with a “teenage girl problem” I was willing to let myself die before I got help
I think more people get concern over anorexic teen girls because it's a known common issue and risk for suicide.
Where it is common for young boys to be thin until they start fulling out some boys don't start bulking up into 20s and have a Wirey thin frame all through high school but are healthy boys.
females overall start puberty younger and have women's bodies by high school so can be seen as a red flag if lack of shape because the whole anorexic thing females being obsessed with being thin to the point of harming themselves.
Both sexes have issues. You dont have to date them but you dont have to insult them either. Be grateful someone showed you interest. Feel flattered, be nice and move on. That goes for both sides. Life has a way of biting you in the behind and diminishing that arrogance and meaness. It's best to recognize it in yourself and correct it. You seriously dont want a higher power doing it for you lol.
I absolutely agree with you. There's a way to turn someone down nicely.
NAILED IT
Exactly. Be happy about that first date and if there is not a second date then you move on. Not having a date is not the end of the world but the insults need to stop happening.
The difference in all of this that male issues aren’t taken seriously at all.
No quite the opposite. They make fun of all the things men can’t control.
My 6’ 2” male co-worker was making fun of my husband’s height. He was all, why do you like him he’s so short, my husband is 5’8”. I said short? I’m only 5’3 he’s 5 inches taller than me I think he’s a giant. We’ve been married 28 years and he’s still my giant and knight in shining armor.
Exactly! Why woukd you need someone super tall...your hubby already towers over you. LOL.
Impossible to shame anyone for what they have no shame in. If Lizzo was proud, she wouldn’t care and make crying videos all the time smh. People are going to say mean things about everyone in their lives, just how it is 🤷🏾♀️
All I know this generation is toxic
The criteria these women have will remove a lot of amazing partners from their dating pool. They're just such stupid things to prioritize. What will a few extra inches of height do, make him a more faithful partner? Make him a better communicator? A better father?
My husband is a 5 ft 5 inches/165 cm tall second-degree black belt who is genuinely the greatest man I could've ever asked for. Funny, generous, thoughtful, respectful... but since he's 5'5, some silly women passed him up. Mine now. 😜
The toughest man and best lover, I was ever with, was 5' 7" and had an average pp (just so everyone knows, according to science average is 5.5"-6"). He could bench 450lbs and I saw him knock a 6'3" man out in a blink of an eye he was so fast. I like what you said about not being able to control traits you are born with, I agree 100%. The meat suit is not important, it's what you do with it that counts.
A smart man would know how to use fingers and mouth as well imo.
Past 3 inches there is absolutely no sensation. It's how we can wear tampons comfortably. Them huge ones look like they would just hurt😂😂😂
Either way,people should stop living the fantasy,Hollywood/Disneyland delusion. Most don't even qualify for the kind of partners they desire.
Even when I was fat I wouldn’t date a fat person. It’s okay to have a preference it’s not okay to be mean. People don’t owe anyone attraction 😂
You obviously don’t study women
Your preference was hypocrisy tho. That ain't OK. Just like it's hypocrisy for a fat dude to not want to date a fat woman.
The same women who complain about "slut-shaming" are the ones who shame men for sleeping around and call them "man-whores".
The same women who complain about being sexualized and objectified post IG lingerie selfies and drool over banana hammocks.
The same women who say they want men to be more sensitive, cry, and show their emotions are the ones who cal you a "pu--y" for having feelings.
Literally everything women complain about men doing is stuff they themselves do to men.
Because that's how the world works. Bad people will hurt others, then the victims in turn will hurt other people, perpetuating the cycle of abuse. Also, although I agree with your other points, that one about women complaining about being objectified is totally valid. Posting thirst traps is an invitation for compliments, not comments about them probably being passed around and being used products etc. You can see the difference when men do it. Just look at the comments.
and the same women who say "men who do 50-50 are broke", they call themselves empowered women when they want someone to pay their things.
No I don't think that's the issue. The issue is when they are dishonest to women saying they are loyal then turn around and cheat constantly. That is a man whore not a guy who sleeps with multiple women.
I agree on all charges. Personally I prefer a guy with something small because there are women out their with shallow vaginal canals and they prefer a guy whose smaller. Like don’t chastise guys for having a small one, or a big one. No guy ever shames a woman for have a shallow cervix (probably because they don’t know about it, and that needs to be fixed), why are we shaming guys for something short?
Such good points you make. I wish more people would/could talk about this. Thank you for doing it!
as a woman i’ve always felt this way , i grew up being more pulled to having guy friends then girls and i feel like men are so misunderstood (in many women’s eyes). just because they’re masculine and “tough” and laugh at shocking / dark jokes does not mean they don’t have feelings. once i got a bit older and began being around more women the amount of judgment they had towards men and themselves was astonishing. it was seen as something to laugh at (now you can’t laugh at women, but a few years ago many women would degrade other women). i just never saw men act that way.
like for example: if i said i was self conscious about something , guys made sure not to bring that up or they would tell me how silly i was. while the girls around me would use it against me. i know this isn’t all women and all men, but it’s what i’ve experienced. now women have changed to “we must only uplift women , even during times they’re wrong. but we can still have this same attitude towards men” and it makes no sense
Well written.👍🇦🇺
I truly enjoyed reading this comment. I agree completely! Men have feelings and can be sensitive. Even if a guy approaches me and I'm not interested, I never EVER turn them down in a nasty way. I always try to make sure I'm kind. It takes a lot for a man to approach a woman. The last thing I wanna do is treat him like trash. But, yeah...guys deserve respect and for us to show some level of care and concern. Even the manliest man needs that.
you are so superior to other women yass queen
Well said.
@@ThisBahamianGyalthank you Im not a bad looking guy and talked to many women when I was dating and even tho I’ve done it countless times I still got ultra nervous to approach a women like I said did it a lot but that feeling never went away men struggle to approach woman soo much thank you for being understanding in that not a lot of women are love your channel glad I stumbled on to it
Gyal, you had me laughing so hard with the flag bit! 😂 "YOU need a flag. I made one for you." 😭 💀 🤣
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I remember one popular actor that his fans loved him for who he was: JOHN CANDY.
If there was a straight male flag, it would be considered a hate symbol. Men do talk about women being too loose down there. The difference? They get dragged for it. Women can say anything about a man's manhood. I'm not trying to be vulgar.
I agree. Although, to be fair, men complaining about women being "loose" is most likely one of the reasons why many women (and gay men) prefer men with a rather sizable meat snake.
Hate that men can't even date whoever they like without being blasted about it. No one should be shamed for something they have no control over nor should they be villanized for liking the things they like in dating.
I don't like women to do that. I think it's super immature. I don't even talk to my girlfriends about my partner's manhood. Ever! It's not their business.
@@ThisBahamianGyal I'd agree. It's also juvenile.
I dont give a crap what she looks like. Treat me with respect and dignity and i will do the same. After loosing my wife i am not looking to date anyone. But that same standard goes for people who want to be friends as well.
What di wybe iz my sista, my friend, my people
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I once dated/courted a young lady for a few years that upon the day of our going out separate ways decided to verbally assault my "Peter Parker". I, who am absolutely comfortable with myself think I ticked her off even more when she didn't get the emotional response from me that she expected. But I did in turn ask her a question afterwards. This is the question I asked her. How many men have you been with that later on at some point you considered them then as you consider me now. She responded with it has been quite a few. I laughed so hard at her response and in the process got the response from her that she was expecting from me. She finally took the bait and asked what I found to be so funny. I answered her by saying "It appears that you are more proficient at elevating your legs than you are your mind". Maybe you should put more energy into getting ahead in life rather than getting a head in your life". I ran into her a few years later and she apologized for what she had said and how wrong she was for her ignorant display of anger towards me on that day.
Damnnnnnnn!!!!! Your response was colder than the pole in the winter. 🤣🤣🤣(Quoting Biggie Smalls here) LOL. She wad beyond wrong for that. That was such an immature thing to do. Thanks for watching, Mike! And thanks for weighing in!! 🥰
Always Gyal!!! We gotta support us. Good one with the Biggie line lol
Jesus, the savagery! LMFAO Good on you standing up for yourself.
Size depends on the person. Someone with a short canal may find average to be plenty.
I fell in love with a man based on the way he treated me. Nothing about his physicality would have attracted me on its face, if you know that I mean. BUT, I find him so hot based on the way he loves me. I’m keeping him.
Thank you for weighing in. Keep your good man! Way to go.
This is my opinion you didn't fell in love with this man you settled for him because every woman should understand this you attract what you are if your beauty fades next thing you know not a lot of men are checking for you so you gave the man that really wanted you a chance knowing deep down you didn't want him you want the Chad you want the men that are not tame you want the man that every single woman wants you just settled for him deep down when a hot guy knocks on the door you're quick to throw everything away for him that is 100% the truth is every male celebrity hot male models knock on your door you're telling me you're going to close that door and go back to your husband I'm just being honest here you don't love it because when there's another man more attractive than him all women have this you're quick to throw him away for something better but the downside is if you do that that man might not treat you so well like the man you were with before that's the truth it happens all the time
I don't know how i found this video but i am subscribing immediately. I guess the moral of the story is to treat others as you want to be treated. We should all remember this more often. Thank you, from 🇿🇦
"Motion in the ocean" love your flag and support everything you are saying 100%
Haha...Thank you!!!
When I was younger I was shamed for being fat. I have since lost a lot weight, not for the naysayers but for me and my health.
I’m now a personal trainer and specialize in helping people lose weight, again not for naysayers but for themselves and their health.
Because of my experience, I never look down on anyone because of their weight. Men still have feelings and we should be more sensitive to that.
I keep finding these intelligent, well spoken, and logical TH-cam personalities and it's beyond refreshing and comforting. You definitely are incuded in the above statement. ❤
Shaming people as a weapon to obtain selfish wants, the hypocritical behavior of certain modern feminists, the LGB wanting nothing to do with the latter half of the community, etc.
Everything you state I agree with 💯.
People, well logical thinking people need to start speaking up and stop being afraid of shame retaliation or things are going to get even more insane. Which seems impossible at this point sadly.
i been with hot guys before. they usually have quite the ego after being told so many times that they look good. the average looking guys are so nice.
i like nice guys because i have gotten to know hot guys that to put it simply are crappy. average looking guys respect women and aren’t so judgemental.
also, fat guys got a little more to love if you know what i mean 🥵
Mike Tyson 5'11" ate up 6'3" fighters for fun ;)
Exactly!!! Ate them up! Absolutely correct, Mario!
5'10 to be exact
Also what I find hypocritical is women will shame men over things they can’t control like height / penis size but will destroy a man if he comments in things she 100% can control like her attitude or weight 😂 this generation sucks take me back to the 90’s😂
Love your channel btw ( Freeport in here )🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸
My partner is 5'-8" tall and slim; considered on the shorty side even by men. He's also 70y/o now. At the time he was in his early 60s and on crutches from a torn Achilles. This tall, built guy accused him of leaning on his car. He responded that he wasn't yet the guy pushed the ussue. My partner handed me the crutches, hobbled up to the guy and got in his face, "Now you callin' me a liar?!". The dude took a good look at his face, turned around and got in his car. My partner told me about a break in at his apartment when his children were very young. He found the guy in his living room and proceeded to punch him in his face. After the police left he found a piece of the guys tongue on the rug. He's a former Top-10 Handball player. You don't want to get hit by a guy who can slap a ball out if his hand travelling at over 100 miles per hour 😏
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You were in my recommended 2 weeks ago, and again today. I'm not sure why, but so glad the YT alg is pushing you lately. Your phenomenal humor with honesty gained my sub today, & I'm confident will now quickly gather an immense following. I'm excited to be here "early" to witness your very deserving success!
Hi CB! Thank you sooooooo much for your kind words. The mean a lot to me. I've been here for four years...I guess I just started making the content people wanted to see. I NEVER EVER expected these videos to get the traction they are getting. I thank God for it, though. Thank you again! 😊💓
What you said about short guys being able to fight is so true. Don’t get me wrong size can be a factor, but I swear, if the dude has that kind of fury or those kind of hands, it can make up for a lack of size.
Yes, it truly can!!! Thanks for watching!
If they need to look up …. Well , they made knees for a reason lmao
Thank you! I am a big woman 😛but I trip over these body shaming fools 🤬🤬
Hi Liza!! Thanks for watching, babes. 🤣🤣🤣
I would like to see people encouraging one another. Instead of discouraging them. I wouldn't want to be friends if a person finds fault with other people. They don't make good friends.
When I was 21, I had the most perfect man pursue me. He was smart, funny, well educated, successful, handsome, AMAZING body, owned his own home and the list goes on and on. I honestly don’t know what he saw in me, other than I was pretty by some ppls standards and not dumb…. But he was 5’3” and I was 5’8”…. I was never cruel when I ended things. And honestly, the only reason I ended things was because I was so insecure in myself. That’s it, that’s all. I wonder about him all the time, but I hope he found the queen he deserves because he was an absolute King. He was better to me than anyone I’ve met since and it’s been 17 years. Funny how that works. I love your channel, I’m a new subscriber and this is the first video I felt like It was my lane to comment on. Keep up the wonderful work. You’re a queen yourself!
“Everything gets swallowed up.” That noise she made after saying that. 😂
Most Young Women: If a man doesn’t live on his own, he hasn’t finished college, isn’t making at least x5 what I make in a year, and doesn’t have his life figured out at age 23 Then He’s Worthless
Also Most Young Women: *Still live at home with their parents, never pays bills, works a part-time job making minimum wage, either still in or dropped out of college and doesn’t have life figured out at 25* HOW DARE YOU BE SO CRITICAL OF ME!!!
I 100% agree with you. I know women JUST like this, too. Expecting the men to have their entire lives together. Meantime, their lives are in the toilet!
@@ThisBahamianGyal What's so hypocritical as well as when women say "I don't need a man in my life", and then they realize how hard life is. They just wanna point the finger at men and say "YOU HAVE IT SO MUCH EASILER". No we don't. Sorry honey, but it's hard to live, make money, and have a life regardless of your gender. In all honesty, I think one of the biggest weaknesses of people who think that way is logic.
While i am well endowed....i once had a chick ask me for measurements and i said why? She was like im curious i said ok but can you give me a measurement? Can i ask for depth and width and some sort of elasticity measurement? She was like its not the same....i just blocked her
But how could she know that?
Being a 6’3 guy I can’t count how many times I heard I love to look up at my man and that’s the reason why they love a tall man I remember not even having to try hard with girls at times just say my height and my boy who is 5’6 always struggled to get woman to look his way just because of his height and use to tick me off tbh to see him get rejected just cause of his height while others would drop what they’re doing cause I said I’m above 6’0 it was kinda sickening at times but that’s why they never got a second date outta me
Lol that “no edges” was personal. 😅
I’m only joking lol. I’m a new subscriber ❤
And THIS is why so many men and women end up alone, sad, and lonely. Cause they turned down a GOOD man just because he was short. Or she has small b00bs. My fiance is 5'7 but I see him as 7 feet tall cause he treats me like a prince and takes care of my heart, body, and mind. I feel bad for these judgemental men and women because a few months of having a "dime" on your arm isnt worth a life time of sadness and being alone on your death bed once they leave you for someone taller or with a bigger " Peter Parker". I need loyalty, love, and someone who will stay beside me when times get hard and what you look like really doesnt matter when it comes to those things.
YES, HONEY! That's what I'm talking about. I don't even know you, and you come across so so very sweet, kind and considerate. Your fiancé is a lucky man!! God bless you!
@@ThisBahamianGyal Oh my goodness! Thank you. A highly appreciated compliment indeed coming from you. ❤
6ft 2in gay man here. I have always liked short guys! My very first boyfriend was five foot two the only time and ever became a problem is one he would move the seat in the car so far forward that I'd smack my knees when I got in after him! But believe it or not there are the same type of prejudices in the gay world as there are in the hetero world as far as fat short bald Etc. One of the reasons I think that I like short guys is because they try harder. And by that I mean they're not just drifting by on their looks they have to become real people and I really appreciate that.
Funny thing, I was a cross country runner in college. I was slender, obviously, but strong and fast. I could DB press 65s and leg press the 350 lb stack as many times as I wanted. I was ‘not fit’ and ‘didn’t look like boyfriend material’. Now I’m married, balding and soft and my wife is always smiling’.
As I always say, "I'm built like a sports car. Wide and low to the ground!"
Think "Doctor Who" time machine...."The TARDIS". Small on the outside. Inside endless.....😀
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Its like the old saying out of alberta Canada...its like throwing a hotdog down a hallway or f@$king a warm bowl of soup. Lolyour content is so spot on. You have a loyal fan here
Thank you soooo much, Chris!! I appreciate you. 🙏 💛
I’m a stocky dude AND I’m 67, but still looking for the right “fit”. I’m not gonna be checking for a large girl because you’re asking for trouble down the road in the health dept., so what am I doing? Getting my health together by loosing and eating more healthy myself. Why don’t we all do that, stop looking at other people, but look at yourself and make sure you are what you want in the other person. Hmm?
Frankly, I don’t expect any compassion from women. It was very strange to hear this point of view from a woman, because I get a general feeling that women don’t care about the mental state of men at all. I don’t think twice when women complain of body shaming and then turn around and do it to men, it is expected and shame on me for expecting anything else
I care about men's feelings. A lot of my girlfriends and I share similar sentiments. I get into it quite often with other women often who mistreat men.
@@ThisBahamianGyal i feel that is where change will need to come from to be effective, self-policing a group is far more effective than outsiders criticizing a group.
i feel i should also say that the rational side of the brain knows that "not-all-women"... logically i know many women care for men, but I also admit the mechanism I have adopted to keep myself "protected" (from disappointment? from anger?) is to know not to expect anything from women. this is not good, and it is against my ideals and something i certainly need to change.
btw, i also call out guys who do toxic crap, i try to do it in a comedic or clever way to plant that seed rather than just dropping the hammer on them. but bad behavior is not good regardless of who does it and men are far from perfect in that respect. i am glad to see there are women that feel the same way about their own in-group
Watched a couple of your videos and had 2 subscribe bc you tell the truth & I love it. Keep up with these great videos. I agree 100% that men are treated so differently bc they are men and can take it.
So gullible you are mayo
Praise Lizzo, but clown 50 Cent and Bobby Brown for gaining weight!
What is this
A flag show?
How many sleepless nights you spent in those designs cuz , it just leaves a lot to be desired
Go back n do better designs and we'll talk
The moment a women brings this up with other women people will call her a pick me.
I just don't like the double standards by some of these women. Ppl have their preferences. I just feel that women can just be as vain as men
I actually don't see a problem with women stating their penis size preference...And I also wouldn't have a problem with men saying they wouldn't date women with kids, cause they think they would be blown out...Both ppl because of their preferences may be missing out on the solid relationship opportunities..However they're still allowed to have those preferences....and they're allowed to state those preferences out loud if they choose to do so...The problem is that men tend to be shamed and cancelled for saying what they prefer in a woman...and women tend to get a standing ovation for stating the same...
Thats funny you saying that. I just came from two videos where black macho along with her followers body shaming half naked women, but they will not talk about half naked men. Then Monique and other males shame women for wearing their bonnets, but will not shame men for wearing their durags. Hey this mess goes both ways🤷♀️🤦♀️
If people can't be natural and organic with each other then they don't belong together.
I love you. Thank you for all of this. ❤
Preach. You are for real on target with so much andI am glad I found your channel.
My husband and I are 20 years together... Neither of us look like we did when we got married. We were 23 (him) and 29 (me) when we said "I do." We're 42 and 48 now. We've had 3 sons and gone through so much together. I lost 70 lbs because i wanted to be healthier. But he never pressured me to and always made me feel sexy. He's got the dad bod now and he's sexy not only physically but because of how he loves me
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I didn’t see the big boy flag lol 😂 Love the post
Haha...dammit...how did I forget my big boy flag!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love the big boys. They're good to snuggle with. Haha. Thanks for watching, babes.
known several short guys who can take down in a fight. they dont look like it, but it was funny to watch 6 foot plus guys flat on the ground.
I believe you! I know several short dudes who can fight. Thanks for watching.
This is one beautiful women in and out pure heart and not afraid to tell you
I was short chained as a young man. But I used to tell them that their insults just like the weather goes right above my head. And now I've been married 15 years to my Smurf Queen.
Am a man and i got fired because a female employee said i was flirting and i wasn't i never even talk not gave eye contact to her and am autistic but my boss believe a wemon over me she was a lazy worker to. I was doing everything
For me I do have a preference for guys who are taller than me, but it isn't a dealbreaker and it won't make me consider someone less if they're short. It's just a bonus if they're taller.
Hi Scarlet. I'm sure everyone has their preferences. I don't think anything is wrong with that at all. I just think it's hypocritical for women to have their standards then turn around and get mad when men don't want them because they're not their preference. Thanks for watching!
@@ThisBahamianGyal oh agreed about the hypocrisy. I wouldn't blame a guy for not wanting to date me because he thinks I'm too fat, or he doesn't like my hair, or he just thinks I'm straight up unattractive.
I’m with you on your preferences
I always thought that 6 is the magic number. But seriously folks, I wouldn't want superficial people in my circle of friends. I'm out after getting half way through this video. It just makes me mad that there are empty headed people who never consider a meeting of the minds because they have empty, superficial souls. (not you of course)
Sayonara, heifer 😏
18:02 the gyal doing the interview is a big gyal too. Double standard
Agreed!! I'm glad you noticed that. Nobody else did.
Visiting Rogan's channel for my daily dose of logic and comfort in restoring my faith in humanity😄 As always: couldn't agree more.
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I have 6 brothers and one is shorter than me and let me just say he would get bout it
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I believe you!!! Haha
Some of these ladies have never seen some of these Asian men that know Martial Arts obviously 😂
I watched this 5'2 Asian bouncer beat 7 dudes in 14 seconds.
There will always be double standards in dating however women who fall under the delusion will find it hard meeting the right person. Male dynamics cause us to be obstinate.
YT algorithm recommended your channel & I'm really glad! I appreciate your honesty - so refreshing.
My celeb love was only 5'2"!! Prince!! He was the hottest man imaginable... The talent helped. 💜 I joked to my husband that Prince was my first husband 😂😂😂... Loved him since 1985 and he's the only celebrity death I ever truly cried over. 😢
Omg girl !! Just found your channel a couple hours ago,and im on my 3rd video ! Love it !!!!
Yay! Thank you so much! I hope you continue to enjoy the vids.
Just love ur sense of humor. U remind me of myself
Then we are officially twins!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for watching, Shanika!!
Am still watching it
Attraction is important thing in a relationship but it relies on so much more than esthetics.
I've dated all those categories - and those were NEVER the reasons it didn't last.
I love Sims 2, and one of the things I LOVE about Sims 2 is the turn-ons and turn-off system. Fat can be a turn-off, but it can also be a turn-on. Being unemployed can be a turn-off, but it can also be a turn-on. Being in a high-level career can be a turn-on, but it can also be a turn-off.
Basic things, like hair color, or whether or not you wear make-up or jewelry or perfume can be turn-ons, but also turn-offs. STINK can be a turn-on or a turn-off. Skin color isn't even an option for turn-on or turn-off, but occult status can be. So, no racism, but occult-ism is an option, because some people do NOT share the ideology that witchcraft is good, and some people think vampires are evil (in the Sims, they are just people who happen to burn in the sun and stop aging. Evil is in how the player plays them).
I LOVE how they recognize that turn-ons and turn-offs are strictly personal and subjective, and THERE IS NO UNIVERSAL STANDARD OF BEAUTY OR ATTRACTION. It's wonderful!
And when your turn-ons/off are all aesthetic things, like hair color, you wind up growing out of your love, when your partner becomes an eldr with gray hair (unless gray hair is your turn-on). BUT, established relationships can thrive, even without the turn-ons, and even with turn-offs, because personality counts a lot, too, as well as how long you've known the person, and relationship level.
It's not 100% realistic, but there's a lot more realism in this simple system than people give credit for.
It is not the size of the pen, its the way you use it. I am called the calligrapher.
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Your wrong about being able to control the size of "PP". You can get a (Pump) that "pumps" it up lol.. I mean, I know someone who said they hubby uses one.
And some little scrawny dudes can whoop ass too. 145 < 180. Lil dude beat the shit out if him 😂.
My girlfriend and I just found your channel and have already subscribed. Look forward to watching more.
Thank you so much. I appreciate the support.
You are one of the few self-aware youtubers!👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you so much for saying that. It means a lot.
lol you are soo funnyy😂
The new flag, Petter Parker
Haha...Thank you, honey!
My longest relationship was with a guy who's my height (5'3) he likes to say that he's one inch taller than me because it says so on his license.. i guess that means im 5'4?? LOL. Anyways we dated for around 3 years and we were just peanut butter jelly time. After he broke up with me (i dont understand why still but i respect his decision) i wanted to stay friends because he is so funny we share similar humor, geek out over animation, and he is kind. I also feel safe around him. I mean i dont expect him to win in a fight becausr he wouldnt want to fight in the first place, but strength and height are not factors that contribute to me feeling safe. Anyways great guy, its been 5-6 years since ive known him. So glad i swiped right on a dude for a picture of men in mario and luigi costumes posing like it was a family photo (i was unsure about him bc of his facial appearance, but i realized how beautiful his face actually is).
Prince was small and women loved him.
Yep…Short of stature and petite in size; But Prince’s love interests were incredible beautiful women.
Lol, the flag was just too hilarious
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3 vids and i have subscribed. I would love to hear you and patience xina discuss modern day hypocrisy.
I thoroughly enjoy your content love. I am not perfect but, I am still particular about height. I have tried to ignore it but, I just feel uncomfortable when the man is shorter. And I am hearing you, if I am going to be picky based on something someone CANNOT change then I must keep the same energy when someone is not into me for something I cannot change. Thank you for the reminder love.
lol…your flags killed me!! 😂 Thank you for this! ❤️
I like the flags!
Haha...thank you, Michelle!!
This has got to be your most entertaining video yet 😁😁😁🤣🤣
Not the flag 😭😭
This woman is so great, if I wasn't married. Yes, I have receding hair. But blessed on the other🤨
I really do. I want to learn. Some folks took exception with me wanting to buy the book and read it. But, I need to know.
@@ThisBahamianGyal You are great, when someone looks to find the truth. ❤