Married for 34+ years. My wife and I have only been intimate with each other. It is practical to save yourself for marriage, it just takes a strength of will and moral values to accomplish. Don't be weak!
beautiful. it also discourages room for comparison to other people because u have had s€x only with each other & no other people before . it focuses the 2 brains on being the best for each other.
For the whole body count issue for me is not the question of how much sex you’ve had but more of the mindset. If you’re more busy just having sex with others it shows that you’re not interested in holding down a relationship but you’re just there for the initial chemistry and once that dies down you move on
If both people have waited, then you get the joy of learning together what works and what doesn't. The shared experience of discovery can only make the bond stronger.
I had a girlfriend for three years. Then we got married we’ve been married four months. I thought we had sexual chemistry, but she met another man a month ago and now we’re separating and all she talks about is how good their sex is so I would say sexual chemistry is very, very important.
@@k0pera bullshit sex it’s important not the most important thing but it is important. In times of struggle, despair and hopelessness sex is the glue that holds couples together.
Naw bro. If she really wants you she will teach you what she like and if your a good lover you’ll learn. The reality is, she didn’t like you all like that
You don’t need experience with multiple partners to be good at sex. Spend enough time with the partner you love and they can communicate what they want and don’t want in the bedroom. It’s as simple as that. Experience doesn’t matter when both individuals mutually love one another, that’s where the real chemistry is.
This is 100% on the money. It wasn't until my mid-30's that I got a the time of day from women I was attracted to. Always rejected. The attention late in life completely wrecked me for a few a years. So much time wasted pursuing women that were wrong for me. I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self, 'It'll be aok. Focus on growing your strengths, on your expertise, on being mature and you'll be absolutely fine.'
She got the whole point of when you were young and you did not have all kinds of women around you back then, now you are older and you can not get enough of women. Very well explained.
I just cursed out a player hitting me up. I just found out he has 3rd baby mamma. He follows Tate and Tate says don’t marry. Dummies are following Top Dummies advice. He thinks he’s Alpha, he’s a joke to me.
Not marrying is not tate advice, he himself is marrying. Not marrying knowing women can take your money at any time is called common sense. Something you don't have. Have fun with divorce
HBO did a series on sex in America. A private pilot was interviewed who flew middle aged men to Nevada so they could hook up with young women. The pilot's opinion was that the men who hired him were the guys who wanted the hot cheerleaders and felt cheated that they never got her and are ditching long term relationships to satisfy themselves. Seems like this is what Sadia is saying.
I can't see any benefits to wait after the wedding. You need to know what your life is going to look like. From sexual side, and from the cohabiting side as well. It is different to live with someone and to date someone.
@@SaveDaDrama4YoMoma u can be attracted to someone without having sec with them lol and if you’ve both waited until marriage then you’re surely going to be satisfied with your partner. Attraction and desire can’t get any higher than if u wait until marriage. The ultimate momentum to start ur life with ur spouse
@@TheBlazingEagle the reality and actuality of someone waiting is slim to none, then you think you found the one have sex and it doesn’t go anywhere so just because your attracted doesn’t matter if you’re not matching your partners and now you stuck with it reason why marriage doesn’t matter, when it comes to sex no one is loyal to one person idc how hard you lie about it
@@SaveDaDrama4YoMoma I’ve waited, people that want to do it do it. So u can be attracted enough to someone to marry them, only to have sex with them and realize ur not attracted to them? Doesn’t make sense.
I think before getting into a relationship you should be sure of what you're willing to overlook before setting out on the path. Or better yet find someone with the same belief system as you!
The correct term is "Sexual Partners" NOT Body Count. Body Count is a Term used in Medical forensic and law enforcement for Human Casualties. NOTHING to do with Sexual Activity at all.
Men never ask about body count, I’ve never come across it. And, I can tell you they’d never ask it before you’ve slept with them - not a chance and still…never come across it. They don’t care. If they are boyfriend material they’ll never want to know, only that they are ‘better’ than anyone you’ve been with 💖. Men that want to know might have some religious views (fair enough) or have some predjudices. This is at least the way it is in Northern Europe. Perhaps this is a thing in other cultures? Don’t know. Or perhaps they’ll ask it depending on how the woman behaves. No idea.
Many years ago, I read of a tribe where the men liked women who already had a child. It was considered proof that she could give birth to his child. Not all societies are alike.
New Sub here. Sadia, I am so grateful I saw on you Soft White Underbelly. In the world full of men telling us what men want, what women want...it's refreshing to have a woman's voice. You are Brilliant. Even though I am happily married for over 23 years (in a beautiful, loving relationship), your content is still very educational. You have a very warm and motherly approach. I don't know what it is, your voice (the lovely accent), I could listen to you for hours. I am hooked :o) Wishing you all the BEST.
Sexual chemistry is very very important. I had a girlfriend for three years married her. I’ve been married for four months and she’s met another man and she’s gone so I guess his sexual chemistry and hers were by far better than ours so it’s either there or it’s not.
i actually wanted to hear what the guest speaker had to say, but it feels you keep cutting him off... let them finish their sentence, otherwise it feels like constant jumping onto another topic..
Self control is a reward for women , cause men want inexperienced wife. Self control is failure for men, cause women want experienced men/husband. Do not simp
The thing is anything in excess is usually bad. Much corn today is real life people recording on their smartphones. They aren’t actors. They are showing you the inside of their world. So to say it’s not realistic is more so back in the vhs and dvd days when it was only actors. My experience is women don’t want “make love” to me all the time. They want nasty, choke me, talk dirty type of action. Too many men are caught up with what Disney portrays. Get out in the real world and live it.
Virginity is more of youth thing with some evolutionary and sentimental value. A man who is first will always be happier than a man who is last. Body count itself, high or low, is worthless as a marketing pitch. Women past their prime don't benefit from advertising virginity, but they do benefit from not having kids or being good in a bedroom and mentally stable.
Virginity is a myth. No one pops a cherry. If the hyman sealed a vagina, we couldn't have our period. We never lose our hyman either. It is a thin stretchy membrane that returns to original shape when a woman goes an extended period of time without vaginal intercourse with objects thar are larger than a tampon or period cup.
I don’t think men fall in love through sex, how does the no sex until marriage work if they can’t fall in love until after marriage. I also do not think that men fall in love with an experienced over an inexperienced, we don’t need them to be experienced when most of our desires are the submission of a female
Study and do an episode on Unwins "Sex and Culture." It is the best and broadest anthropological study of the topic and comes to empirical conclusions.
I dont appreciate the way he disagrees with her at the end. "Oh you re just saying that because you deal with an unhealthy population" No shes just saying that because no matter how evolved we think we are. We are still animals looking for the sexiest and strongest specimen. A nice woman is seen as a weak woman, a woman that depends on him. He likes the woman that rejects him or isnt afraid of him leaving because this is a woman that can survive in the wildnerness and protect his children. Same goes for women, women like the hypersexual, confident strong guy, not the nice guy that is afraid to speak up, no matter how many resources he has
100% correct. I remember being very affectionate regarding a certain girl, she looked perfect to me in every way. And then I found out that she was pumped and dumped by a bunch of guys that I know, she went from 12/10 to 0/10
Such a generation of used up people who are empty and angry. They want to blame anything but themselves. They act like they were raised with no morals or standards in life. They think they know it all, but their love lives are a train wreck. ❤
I think sadia is incredibly intelligent and she says things sometimes that are just unbelievably insightful. She will say things that sound like they have a spiritual mooring but here's the problem 1).she lives in a city where there are more sex workers and gold diggers and debauchery than just about any other city in the world. she is servicing a lot of these clients for mental health so her view is skewed towards that. She says it's men's fault that sex work is on the rise l amount other things like the sex workers will inevitably prosper in the end. It almost sounds like she's promoting it. which I totally disagree with. Then she says that she is a Muslim yet she is not covered. It literally says that if you don't cover then you will be punished and she doesn't do it so how can she be Muslim when she doesn't follow her own book? And then the other thing is she follows a God who says that it's not only okay, but commanded the subjugate people. To offer them for them to pay a tax or to convert or to accept death. Thats her prophet. He had multiple wives and sex slaves and slaves for burden and child brides and preached intolerance and hatred and spread his teachings through the sword. He slaughtered thousands of people over his lifetime and there has been nothing but war coming from that religion for the last 1400 years. This is the ideology that she follows. She is very educated but I think you have to look at where she is basing her morality. I have never ever ever seen anybody go wrong when they follow Christ's teachings. Those teachings include, Christ is God. And yes Muslims, WE Christians only follow ONE God. Anyway, I tried to glean gems from her but many times they are tainted by these other statements that I just cannot agree with and as a Christian I cannot follow someone who's not basing their heart or their advice on what Christ taught us🙏
i fell for a 48 year old alcoholic woman. i’m 60 . this woman would cheat and lie and hook up with young men . i live alone on a yacht with my dog and sailed away to another country. yes i got fleeting pleasure but the chaos was overwhelming along with the dysfunctional behaviour. even at rehab hooked up with the 35 year old meth addict. apparently she is in love and i’m to old . but still tries to contact me ? she lost her 3 boys her marriage and all her settlement. lust is dangerous. along with high body count.
For someone to wait until marriage to have sex 🙄🙄 will never work out these days. My belief is that I have to smell, taste, sniff, and shake the product before I buy it for sure
Learn the art of getting girls when men are young then settle? It's not that easy for most men. It takes us years to build up our confidence, stability and to learn more about female nature. Hence why men only hit their prime 30s/mid 30s onwards. Woman have it easy in their late teens/20s. So obviously men are going to be more inclined to play the field in our primes just like woman have all their fun in youth.
It sounds like SadiaPsychology, when she talks about a woman who gives push-back being somehow engulfing _(by which she probably means a form of passion),_ is referring to the notion of _kissing and make up_ being a sort of passionate sex-life. It might be spin that sells a steamy book, or there might be a valid logic to it in some specific situations. However the submissive wife who is not argumentative is a tough act to follow especially since the husband and wife have kids. SadiaPsychology listed a bunch of things a woman needs to do _(or rather what women perceive they need to do)_ to bring something to their husband, and yet SadiaPsychology did not mention procreation as one of those listed. Maybe she just has a video-edit that does not show the emphasis, however it is not in the video. Considering the attractiveness of disagreeableness in a female mate (i.e. the push-back), it might be a dark-triad trait exhibited in the female which would suggest above average intelligence _(even if mental limitations arise elsewhere)._ Women are territorial in long-term mate-selection, and seek out immune system traits in some parts of the world, especially northern hemisphere. Women also (unfortunately) die of puerperal fever or staph if not strep and other infection and other childbearing complications, and yet some immune system traits _(from her father or generation older than that, for the allele to then be combined with her own genes)_ can save her life. It is however possible that childbirth can still end her life and yet the bairn survives. If that happens, and the bairn has inherited immune system traits and intelligence from both the father and the mother, the father now has his bairn _(the one thing he wants the most, other than more of them in addition from his wife or wives)_ in his sole possession _(other than assisted care by another new wife)_ without Harlow's monkeys mechanisms negatively affecting predispositions in the dark-triad during the formative years. So it is not about whether or not it is beneficial that the mother dies but rather that it is a silver-lining to the cloud of if she does pass away, because now he has sole influence and his own intelligence to teach his offspring. So it isn't necessarily a low "self-esteem" men thing. SadiaPsychology could be better off to say "self-respect", but whatever. There is no such thing as self-esteem. It is self-respect. Nobody says _"my self-esteemed colleague"._ Lulz. It'd make him sound like a loser. Instead they say, _(for example in a speech introducing them)_ something like _"Ladies and gentlemen, please show your appreciation for my esteemed colleague"_ and then they all applaud or make some gesture to that effect. Let's not digress though. The point is, that it seems like there is more to it than some low-self-respect (esteem) rationale. The evolutionary missus being something of a bantam would serve a purpose as a biological mechanisms (described above), but it would depend upon if they were from a defined part of the world and female selection-selection of her husband by immune-system traits. The CCR5 (protein) chemokine receptor implications of Delta-32 mutation can lead to immune system protections against some staph. The Delta-32 mutation can also be in a woman who is agreeable, of course. The above is more about the risk-taking behaviours of women who are less agreeable and yet use mood induction to initiate an interaction to lead to procreation (intercourse). The man might have (historically) more than one woman _(wives basically, with or without the paperwork)_ as mothers to his offspring. Female vulnerability is an Achille's heel to men. If she is Machiavellian, she might work it on him. Also poor emotional regulation means she might genuinely have signs of distress, and that can catch him off guard too. It is a neoteny traits mechanism to evoke paternal instinct. My comment has no hate in it and I do no harm. I am not appalled or afraid, boasting or envying or complaining... Just saying. Psalms23: Giving thanks and praise to the Lord and peace and love. Also, I'd say Matthew6.
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In defense, the available pool of women my age, not obese and willing to date "at their level", is practically nil. If we abolished social media and went back to a more "natural order" with healthy femininity everywhere, I suspect that this type of behaviour would become stigmatized quickly again, just the same as being the town bicycle.
Tell shawty/ mr. Go get her take the phone off dnd, off vibrate for a month and turn on all notifications. You be like bae you got to delete some of these people. Somebody on there in her head is her back up. Unless both people monogamous then it’s lit 🔥 if not someone going get hurt mentally hopefully not physically.
The point that he is making about "sexual chemistry" doesnt make sense. I am a man and i have had plenty of woman in my life, my bodycount is around 150 to 190. My current girlfriend was virgin, i took her virginity 5 years ago. The sex was bad the first 2-3 months very bad sexual chemistry. , but i didnt care because i loved her. After 4-6 months the sex was so good, better than any of those 150 girls i have had before. (By the way she let me wait for atleast 6 months before having sex) Also not only that, most men cant even respect or fall in love with a woman when they have sex early into meeting eachother, this is a scientific fact. Not only that, if the guy didnt like the sex and just leaves the girl, this actually ruins her over time. There are plenty of studies showing that when a womans bodycount rises, the chance of a succesfull marriage drops.
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I could tolerate if she had 1 guy before me, maybe even 2. But thats the line, after that she is used up. But to be fair, I think men should also hold themselves to the same standard.
she just parrrots standard psychilogy that anybody can read online or in a journal or textbook. probably got boosted there cos of her looks. probably looks made her talk about flagrantly unIslamic topics often.
@@sadiapsychology don't bother responding to non-sensical people who will always hate you no matter what you do because of their deep insecurity, jealousy and internal turmoil. You are above them. Be completely indifferent to their nonsense and keep doing what you do best and I'm telling you sis, the people who matter will see you and appreciate you. Only listen to constructive respectful criticism. You are above the trolls. Do not dignify their senseless hate by responding to it. If you must, make a video acknowleding all of the misconceptions in one place and move on. You are a wonderful beautiful lady who is doing lots of good and has helped many people including this young fellow paki girl and that's all that matters. Thank you so much for your free insights.
@@alyzak.8997isi/state agencies operator helping her out with psychology. She needs to teach you psychology you are not supposed to teach her instead.
Interesting. A female psychologist who tells men what to do and takes away their right to have fun. Apperently it is a sin to have a much younger girlfriend and not to be married. How dare we? Calling it "Body Count" is way out of line!
You have no idea what happens in her homeland Pakistan. Women who can't give birth create fake birth certificates and ask child support and DNA is not allowed.
@@tallspicy there are a lot of things wrong with your statement but I'll start with.. i attract a lot of women of all kinds.. I mostly date doctors bc I'm very well educated.. they all still sleep around though.. it's the culture today.. and again I'll state my original comment.. there are no quality women anymore.. it has nothing to do with my ability to attract women.. I turn women down constantly.. they all fall in love with me quickly but it's me who doesn't want them
@@alyzak.8997he doesn't require validations from you about what dignity is. If women had dignity of their own they would have stayed with one man and take responsibility for their actions. Instead of blaming others.
ofcourse you shouldn't! Btw she never encouraged that. She just stated the fact that men are designed like that. Sadia actually promotes men to have self control and sexual mastery to be their best selves.
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Married for 34+ years. My wife and I have only been intimate with each other. It is practical to save yourself for marriage, it just takes a strength of will and moral values to accomplish. Don't be weak!
Your living the dream man
People who value loyalty and faithfulness life to be in relationships.
♥ Yes, it's practical!
beautiful. it also discourages room for comparison to other people because u have had s€x only with each other & no other people before
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it focuses the 2 brains on being the best for each other.
she slept with your best friend already
“The goal is peace over pleasure.” 💯💯
You have to have peace in order to exclaim pleasure 😅🎉😂❤
Amen 🙏
For the whole body count issue for me is not the question of how much sex you’ve had but more of the mindset. If you’re more busy just having sex with others it shows that you’re not interested in holding down a relationship but you’re just there for the initial chemistry and once that dies down you move on
*I don’t see the issue. Just fuck around until you meet one you actually like.*
there a lot of insights someone's body count can give you, yes
Dam, wish I read this comment 3 months. You described my ex and exactly what I think happened
If both people have waited, then you get the joy of learning together what works and what doesn't. The shared experience of discovery can only make the bond stronger.
I had a girlfriend for three years. Then we got married we’ve been married four months. I thought we had sexual chemistry, but she met another man a month ago and now we’re separating and all she talks about is how good their sex is so I would say sexual chemistry is very, very important.
I’m sorry for what you had to go through. But she most likely slept with other men during those 3 years or so.
Sex is the least important thing in a relationship if you are with a wife material woman.
@@k0pera bullshit sex it’s important not the most important thing but it is important. In times of struggle, despair and hopelessness sex is the glue that holds couples together.
Dodged a bullet. She was not ready and she deceived you
Naw bro. If she really wants you she will teach you what she like and if your a good lover you’ll learn. The reality is, she didn’t like you all like that
You don’t need experience with multiple partners to be good at sex. Spend enough time with the partner you love and they can communicate what they want and don’t want in the bedroom. It’s as simple as that. Experience doesn’t matter when both individuals mutually love one another, that’s where the real chemistry is.
So true
This is 100% on the money. It wasn't until my mid-30's that I got a the time of day from women I was attracted to. Always rejected. The attention late in life completely wrecked me for a few a years. So much time wasted pursuing women that were wrong for me. I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self, 'It'll be aok. Focus on growing your strengths, on your expertise, on being mature and you'll be absolutely fine.'
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She got the whole point of when you were young and you did not have all kinds of women around you back then, now you are older and you can not get enough of women.
Very well explained.
Women are born with value. Men have to create value. Do not simp.
@@CarlosRamirez-xx6jz True. It’s Ego and they hurt a lot of good women.
I just cursed out a player hitting me up. I just found out he has 3rd baby mamma. He follows Tate and Tate says don’t marry. Dummies are following Top Dummies advice. He thinks he’s Alpha, he’s a joke to me.
I’m a man and I don’t engage in hook up culture I’m focus on God and my business goals. I hope that there’s still good women like you out there.
Not marrying is not tate advice, he himself is marrying. Not marrying knowing women can take your money at any time is called common sense. Something you don't have. Have fun with divorce
Dumb comment
@@MattzufulTata has changed his tune on many things. Go back and listen. He shifts.
@@ashuranero5721What amazes me is how many broke guys complain about the potential that a woman will take his hypothetical money.
HBO did a series on sex in America. A private pilot was interviewed who flew middle aged men to Nevada so they could hook up with young women. The pilot's opinion was that the men who hired him were the guys who wanted the hot cheerleaders and felt cheated that they never got her and are ditching long term relationships to satisfy themselves. Seems like this is what Sadia is saying.
She's right on point. The world should be filled with women who think like this, and we will make a better world all the way around.
A divorced female ? Even from Middle east Asia ?
@@saurabhunadkat7748 she's 10 times more value than u that's for sure.
A talkative wife....the best thing to have sometimes....
My husband said he is allergic to my talking 💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😭😭😭😭
you are yapping not talking then.
It would be awesome if everyone waited until marriage ❤
I can't see any benefits to wait after the wedding. You need to know what your life is going to look like. From sexual side, and from the cohabiting side as well. It is different to live with someone and to date someone.
It would but you wouldn’t know your actually attracted or not because there’s no point of starting
@@SaveDaDrama4YoMoma u can be attracted to someone without having sec with them lol and if you’ve both waited until marriage then you’re surely going to be satisfied with your partner. Attraction and desire can’t get any higher than if u wait until marriage. The ultimate momentum to start ur life with ur spouse
@@TheBlazingEagle the reality and actuality of someone waiting is slim to none, then you think you found the one have sex and it doesn’t go anywhere so just because your attracted doesn’t matter if you’re not matching your partners and now you stuck with it reason why marriage doesn’t matter, when it comes to sex no one is loyal to one person idc how hard you lie about it
@@SaveDaDrama4YoMoma I’ve waited, people that want to do it do it. So u can be attracted enough to someone to marry them, only to have sex with them and realize ur not attracted to them? Doesn’t make sense.
I think before getting into a relationship you should be sure of what you're willing to overlook before setting out on the path. Or better yet find someone with the same belief system as you!
Yeah, see what you like and don't like sooo you don't waste time.
The correct term is "Sexual Partners" NOT Body Count. Body Count is a Term used in Medical forensic and law enforcement for Human Casualties. NOTHING to do with Sexual Activity at all.
Pre-marriage sex is lust. Sex after marriage is learning about each other and how to satisfy each other.
Men never ask about body count, I’ve never come across it. And, I can tell you they’d never ask it before you’ve slept with them - not a chance and still…never come across it. They don’t care. If they are boyfriend material they’ll never want to know, only that they are ‘better’ than anyone you’ve been with 💖. Men that want to know might have some religious views (fair enough) or have some predjudices. This is at least the way it is in Northern Europe. Perhaps this is a thing in other cultures? Don’t know. Or perhaps they’ll ask it depending on how the woman behaves. No idea.
Many years ago, I read of a tribe where the men liked women who already had a child. It was considered proof that she could give birth to his child. Not all societies are alike.
Thats a weird culture and it speaks volume that it died out and was incredibly rare
11:17 audio and video overlapping, could not understanding anything.
New Sub here. Sadia, I am so grateful I saw on you Soft White Underbelly. In the world full of men telling us what men want, what women want...it's refreshing to have a woman's voice. You are Brilliant. Even though I am happily married for over 23 years (in a beautiful, loving relationship), your content is still very educational. You have a very warm and motherly approach. I don't know what it is, your voice (the lovely accent), I could listen to you for hours. I am hooked :o) Wishing you all the BEST.
Women who don't want to be kept won't be kept
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Don't force anything.
how dare she go after my buffet
Hahaha. I was with her until she insulted my love the buffet.
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She is so spot❤ on and people can’t handle their own truths
Sadia love your wisdom
Sexual chemistry is very very important. I had a girlfriend for three years married her. I’ve been married for four months and she’s met another man and she’s gone so I guess his sexual chemistry and hers were by far better than ours so it’s either there or it’s not.
Can only speak for myself … but looking for them to be that “promiscuous “ type girl … with me only … nice when it is developed … for both
i actually wanted to hear what the guest speaker had to say, but it feels you keep cutting him off... let them finish their sentence, otherwise it feels like constant jumping onto another topic..
You know if you have sexual chemistry if you can dance with someone. The "test drive" is a con.
Self control is its own reward ..Thank you 😊
Self control is a reward for women , cause men want inexperienced wife.
Self control is failure for men, cause women want experienced men/husband.
Do not simp
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The thing is anything in excess is usually bad. Much corn today is real life people recording on their smartphones. They aren’t actors. They are showing you the inside of their world. So to say it’s not realistic is more so back in the vhs and dvd days when it was only actors.
My experience is women don’t want “make love” to me all the time. They want nasty, choke me, talk dirty type of action. Too many men are caught up with what Disney portrays. Get out in the real world and live it.
Virginity is more of youth thing with some evolutionary and sentimental value. A man who is first will always be happier than a man who is last. Body count itself, high or low, is worthless as a marketing pitch. Women past their prime don't benefit from advertising virginity, but they do benefit from not having kids or being good in a bedroom and mentally stable.
Yeah same. A woman who is a first will also be happier
Virginity is a myth. No one pops a cherry. If the hyman sealed a vagina, we couldn't have our period. We never lose our hyman either. It is a thin stretchy membrane that returns to original shape when a woman goes an extended period of time without vaginal intercourse with objects thar are larger than a tampon or period cup.
Omg said that was amazing I love how you said I'd we are going to say experience is important then say you want an experienced women not a good women.
Experienced at what exactly?
@davepazz580 sexual which is not true it does the opposite of good it causes damage psychological and emotional bonding damage foe future marriage
I don’t think men fall in love through sex, how does the no sex until marriage work if they can’t fall in love until after marriage. I also do not think that men fall in love with an experienced over an inexperienced, we don’t need them to be experienced when most of our desires are the submission of a female
Study and do an episode on Unwins "Sex and Culture." It is the best and broadest anthropological study of the topic and comes to empirical conclusions.
I dont appreciate the way he disagrees with her at the end. "Oh you re just saying that because you deal with an unhealthy population" No shes just saying that because no matter how evolved we think we are. We are still animals looking for the sexiest and strongest specimen. A nice woman is seen as a weak woman, a woman that depends on him. He likes the woman that rejects him or isnt afraid of him leaving because this is a woman that can survive in the wildnerness and protect his children. Same goes for women, women like the hypersexual, confident strong guy, not the nice guy that is afraid to speak up, no matter how many resources he has
I've been rejected many times, but when i was in a relationship or dating women, i was the one that dumped them, never been dumped!
That is not a good thing. You may be self sabotaging.
you either keep choosing the wrong women or have commitment problems. Work on that.
You thought you ate😂😂😂😂
Nowadays girl at 20 had already going through the whole neighborhood! Stop promiscuity !!
100% correct. I remember being very affectionate regarding a certain girl, she looked perfect to me in every way. And then I found out that she was pumped and dumped by a bunch of guys that I know, she went from 12/10 to 0/10
Such a generation of used up people who are empty and angry. They want to blame anything but themselves. They act like they were raised with no morals or standards in life. They think they know it all, but their love lives are a train wreck. ❤
I think sadia is incredibly intelligent and she says things sometimes that are just unbelievably insightful. She will say things that sound like they have a spiritual mooring but here's the problem 1).she lives in a city where there are more sex workers and gold diggers and debauchery than just about any other city in the world. she is servicing a lot of these clients for mental health so her view is skewed towards that. She says it's men's fault that sex work is on the rise l amount other things like the sex workers will inevitably prosper in the end. It almost sounds like she's promoting it. which I totally disagree with. Then she says that she is a Muslim yet she is not covered. It literally says that if you don't cover then you will be punished and she doesn't do it so how can she be Muslim when she doesn't follow her own book? And then the other thing is she follows a God who says that it's not only okay, but commanded the subjugate people. To offer them for them to pay a tax or to convert or to accept death. Thats her prophet. He had multiple wives and sex slaves and slaves for burden and child brides and preached intolerance and hatred and spread his teachings through the sword. He slaughtered thousands of people over his lifetime and there has been nothing but war coming from that religion for the last 1400 years. This is the ideology that she follows. She is very educated but I think you have to look at where she is basing her morality. I have never ever ever seen anybody go wrong when they follow Christ's teachings. Those teachings include, Christ is God. And yes Muslims, WE Christians only follow ONE God. Anyway, I tried to glean gems from her but many times they are tainted by these other statements that I just cannot agree with and as a Christian I cannot follow someone who's not basing their heart or their advice on what Christ taught us🙏
I new there was something that wasn't right in my gut and you nailed it perfectly..thank you
People have done horrible stuff in the name of Christ, too. People are people. They are the way they are no matter the religion.
I need all data on a drive
Please end this issue forever
25 people you have slept with is a low number? Whoa! And I thought being with 4 partners was a lot
You wanna listen to that guy????
God send you!!! God bless you and your family!
Nice hair !
S.I.G.N shaming tactics insult guilt & need to be right
Cougar women or older women only... NO younger women..
Fine wines are better with time
i fell for a 48 year old alcoholic woman. i’m 60 . this woman would cheat and lie and hook up with young men . i live alone on a yacht with my dog and sailed away to another country. yes i got fleeting pleasure but the chaos was overwhelming along with the dysfunctional behaviour. even at rehab hooked up with the 35 year old meth addict. apparently she is in love and i’m to old . but still tries to contact me ? she lost her 3 boys her marriage and all her settlement. lust is dangerous. along with high body count.
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The age gap is an obvious telltale of why she is with you, even sadia explains it in her vids. Go for a woman close to your age range.
So love this gorgeous lady ❤
Right but what about the women that say they wanna commit but don’t ? And pretend
Nothing wrong with being happy and single
Nothing wrong at all 💯💯 !
The discourse has changed
What about a men in middle 40s after breaking up. Is that ok to go to the club to find a new partner Sadia?
For std purposes no sex. Women should not bc she should not tie herself to a man without marriage.
For someone to wait until marriage to have sex 🙄🙄 will never work out these days. My belief is that I have to smell, taste, sniff, and shake the product before I buy it for sure
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Learn the art of getting girls when men are young then settle? It's not that easy for most men. It takes us years to build up our confidence, stability and to learn more about female nature. Hence why men only hit their prime 30s/mid 30s onwards. Woman have it easy in their late teens/20s. So obviously men are going to be more inclined to play the field in our primes just like woman have all their fun in youth.
It sounds like SadiaPsychology, when she talks about a woman who gives push-back being somehow engulfing _(by which she probably means a form of passion),_ is referring to the notion of _kissing and make up_ being a sort of passionate sex-life. It might be spin that sells a steamy book, or there might be a valid logic to it in some specific situations. However the submissive wife who is not argumentative is a tough act to follow especially since the husband and wife have kids. SadiaPsychology listed a bunch of things a woman needs to do _(or rather what women perceive they need to do)_ to bring something to their husband, and yet SadiaPsychology did not mention procreation as one of those listed. Maybe she just has a video-edit that does not show the emphasis, however it is not in the video. Considering the attractiveness of disagreeableness in a female mate (i.e. the push-back), it might be a dark-triad trait exhibited in the female which would suggest above average intelligence _(even if mental limitations arise elsewhere)._ Women are territorial in long-term mate-selection, and seek out immune system traits in some parts of the world, especially northern hemisphere. Women also (unfortunately) die of puerperal fever or staph if not strep and other infection and other childbearing complications, and yet some immune system traits _(from her father or generation older than that, for the allele to then be combined with her own genes)_ can save her life. It is however possible that childbirth can still end her life and yet the bairn survives. If that happens, and the bairn has inherited immune system traits and intelligence from both the father and the mother, the father now has his bairn _(the one thing he wants the most, other than more of them in addition from his wife or wives)_ in his sole possession _(other than assisted care by another new wife)_ without Harlow's monkeys mechanisms negatively affecting predispositions in the dark-triad during the formative years. So it is not about whether or not it is beneficial that the mother dies but rather that it is a silver-lining to the cloud of if she does pass away, because now he has sole influence and his own intelligence to teach his offspring. So it isn't necessarily a low "self-esteem" men thing. SadiaPsychology could be better off to say "self-respect", but whatever. There is no such thing as self-esteem. It is self-respect. Nobody says _"my self-esteemed colleague"._ Lulz. It'd make him sound like a loser. Instead they say, _(for example in a speech introducing them)_ something like _"Ladies and gentlemen, please show your appreciation for my esteemed colleague"_ and then they all applaud or make some gesture to that effect.
Let's not digress though. The point is, that it seems like there is more to it than some low-self-respect (esteem) rationale. The evolutionary missus being something of a bantam would serve a purpose as a biological mechanisms (described above), but it would depend upon if they were from a defined part of the world and female selection-selection of her husband by immune-system traits. The CCR5 (protein) chemokine receptor implications of Delta-32 mutation can lead to immune system protections against some staph. The Delta-32 mutation can also be in a woman who is agreeable, of course. The above is more about the risk-taking behaviours of women who are less agreeable and yet use mood induction to initiate an interaction to lead to procreation (intercourse). The man might have (historically) more than one woman _(wives basically, with or without the paperwork)_ as mothers to his offspring. Female vulnerability is an Achille's heel to men. If she is Machiavellian, she might work it on him. Also poor emotional regulation means she might genuinely have signs of distress, and that can catch him off guard too. It is a neoteny traits mechanism to evoke paternal instinct.
My comment has no hate in it and I do no harm. I am not appalled or afraid, boasting or envying or complaining... Just saying. Psalms23: Giving thanks and praise to the Lord and peace and love. Also, I'd say Matthew6.
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My favorite teacher! Gratitude!
So body count doesn't matter. Got it. I always forget that when I'm looking for a mate, I should have listened to a woman and I'd be happy. My bad...
It ruins a woman's mind so yeah it matters !
@@spartanghost9713 oh I agree, I was being sarcastic lol
Where is the next part?
Never get married. Or do whatever I don’t care.
Clearly you care enough to leave a comment granted a completely useless comment.
Peace over pleasure --- yes
Realising this now in my late twenties ❤
Body counts is smth that is not exists in Ukraine.. Most of the women try to keep it as low as possible, having sex only in serious relationships.. 👌
Good culture! Same in Pakistan. Men and women both protect their virginity. Saves a lot of problems later.
That's the way it should be otherwise you become toilet paper used up and soiled
In defense, the available pool of women my age, not obese and willing to date "at their level", is practically nil. If we abolished social media and went back to a more "natural order" with healthy femininity everywhere, I suspect that this type of behaviour would become stigmatized quickly again, just the same as being the town bicycle.
She’s on the money
How can a woman tell a man how to live ..That’s ridiculous
I love her.
Tell shawty/ mr. Go get her take the phone off dnd, off vibrate for a month and turn on all notifications. You be like bae you got to delete some of these people. Somebody on there in her head is her back up. Unless both people monogamous then it’s lit 🔥 if not someone going get hurt mentally hopefully not physically.
I think these are overgeneralizations. Live and let live. Enjoy your life❤
I am heading for divorce after 32 years of marriage and commitment to my wife. I wanted pleasure. Should I just settle for peace without pleasure ?
Excuse me! When you were speaking did he interrupt you! 😎
What’s yours Dr. Honey?
I'm boring as HELL!!🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️
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Women in dubai have become commodities.
The point that he is making about "sexual chemistry" doesnt make sense. I am a man and i have had plenty of woman in my life, my bodycount is around 150 to 190. My current girlfriend was virgin, i took her virginity 5 years ago. The sex was bad the first 2-3 months very bad sexual chemistry. , but i didnt care because i loved her. After 4-6 months the sex was so good, better than any of those 150 girls i have had before.
(By the way she let me wait for atleast 6 months before having sex)
Also not only that, most men cant even respect or fall in love with a woman when they have sex early into meeting eachother, this is a scientific fact.
Not only that, if the guy didnt like the sex and just leaves the girl, this actually ruins her over time.
There are plenty of studies showing that when a womans bodycount rises, the chance of a succesfull marriage drops.
Who is that guy?
SOoo, whatsup with her right Cheek...she got hit by BF , some Botox crap, Allergy, stung by a Bee... ?
that's a dimple, and it's cute
Hey Faggan87, only demons talk like that. What is one's experience like, to be a demon? Could you Enlighten us?
U says money attract disloyal people but everybody is not smart good looking like hollywood in era where women had infinite option on internet❤ TELL ME❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊🎉PLZ ANSWER🎉😊🎉😊🎉😊🎉
Disagree with both of both men and women need to be celebr
Aye…. Doctor Honey…. You gonna give it up or what?
4:58 opinion discarded, lmao
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I could tolerate if she had 1 guy before me, maybe even 2. But thats the line, after that she is used up. But to be fair, I think men should also hold themselves to the same standard.
Can't be talking about the majority
she just parrrots standard psychilogy that anybody can read online or in a journal or textbook. probably got boosted there cos of her looks. probably looks made her talk about flagrantly unIslamic topics often.
Please show me this textbook and book I parrot off? Not my fault you’re not as attractive or intelligent but show me the evidence
@@sadiapsychology don't bother responding to non-sensical people who will always hate you no matter what you do because of their deep insecurity, jealousy and internal turmoil. You are above them. Be completely indifferent to their nonsense and keep doing what you do best and I'm telling you sis, the people who matter will see you and appreciate you. Only listen to constructive respectful criticism. You are above the trolls. Do not dignify their senseless hate by responding to it. If you must, make a video acknowleding all of the misconceptions in one place and move on.
You are a wonderful beautiful lady who is doing lots of good and has helped many people including this young fellow paki girl and that's all that matters. Thank you so much for your free insights.
@@alyzak.8997isi/state agencies operator helping her out with psychology. She needs to teach you psychology you are not supposed to teach her instead.
What looks do you think she even has?
Self control 🔥
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I dont see much reasoning happen here. Its anti-social to some extent. Not much development here. Wow
She looks incredibly egotistical. I wouldn't listen to a word she says
Interesting. A female psychologist who tells men what to do and takes away their right to have fun. Apperently it is a sin to have a much younger girlfriend and not to be married. How dare we?
Calling it "Body Count" is way out of line!
You have no idea what happens in her homeland Pakistan. Women who can't give birth create fake birth certificates and ask child support and DNA is not allowed.
Literally you need to have a long conversation with me to understand her home country.
Or there are no quality women anymore
Yeah, your photo screams … I’m a catch. Might want to consider why you can’t attact quality women. It’s not because they don’t exist.
@@tallspicy there are a lot of things wrong with your statement but I'll start with.. i attract a lot of women of all kinds.. I mostly date doctors bc I'm very well educated.. they all still sleep around though.. it's the culture today.. and again I'll state my original comment.. there are no quality women anymore.. it has nothing to do with my ability to attract women.. I turn women down constantly.. they all fall in love with me quickly but it's me who doesn't want them
@@DG123z nah we just be waiting for the quality men to show their faces but uhh no where to be found :(
@@alyzak.8997 you have to BE quality to GET quality
You know exactly how to find them. Some cultures somewhere which still preserve its values
When you have pleasure then com peace
My husbands body count is well over 300. I should have known nobody could really make him happy and I was no exception,
Is she married?
Yes
No😊
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Sadie do you have a dumb truck 🚛? Show us your cake
Dr. Dork, your cross-eyed lens of perception is trapped in your own delusion of reality. Please try to break free and join the rest of humanity.
You dropped your dignity
@@alyzak.8997he doesn't require validations from you about what dignity is. If women had dignity of their own they would have stayed with one man and take responsibility for their actions. Instead of blaming others.
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Women are promiscuous if they've had multiple partners? No, Sadia! Just no.
Yes and yes !
came here to dislike 👎
First minute shes just projecting. You shouldnt be spreading your seed like a 15 year old....wtf
ofcourse you shouldn't! Btw she never encouraged that. She just stated the fact that men are designed like that. Sadia actually promotes men to have self control and sexual mastery to be their best selves.