Modern Relationships with Sadia Khan: Cultural Differences, Finances, Red & Green flags
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 พ.ย. 2023
- In this candid interview, Yasmine Mustafa sits with psychologist and relationship therapist Sadia Khan to discuss the hurdles of modern dating, Dubai relationships, gender roles, and how to stay happy in a marriage. She shares insights on how to spot red flags and how to deal with them before they become insurmountable problems. We also cover finances, communication, and the dos and don'ts of dating in a Western context.
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Thank you for having me loved this convo
We love you sadia❤️ lots of love from switzerland
your content really changed the whole mindset of me and my mother! we listen to you daily🥰
Love your philosophical take on relationships and the faults with women and men in general. Especially men, good men. Men that mean well and find it hard to express themselves. Sometimes it’s not always easy has most women perceive it to be.
Can you please discuss men who abandon their kids even though the mom doesn't prevent them from seeing their kids?
Show studies or cut the BS
As a woman the fact that women hate on her after she’s literally helping you and your relationships and giving you soooo much knowledge on things that no one ever taught us is so crazy to me.🤦🏻♀️ Thank you Sadia
As a young woman it’s so rare to find a talk on women that isn’t overbearingly feminist or submissive misogynistic red pill noise.
Fence sitting also sounds a bit feminist today since they're willing to go either way. You're either a submissive, caring, modest, not-ran-through woman, or you're not an option for relationships.
@@phantomform4171 What on earth are you on about. Life is not black and white. Feminists and red pill people are extreme cases. Choosing neither is not “fence-sitting,” it’s called being neutral and unbiased. This is one of the many flaws of red pill bs. Being a virgin doesn’t make you a saint nor does being “ran-through” give any insight on one’s character. Most school shooters were virgins. People who win the medal of honor aren’t. Someone’s past matters less than who they are today
@@phantomform4171 The world is not black and white. Like any ideology, Red-pill and feminism have extremes but both have an element of truth: marriage is important and ofc women should be allowed to provide too. That’s why moderation exists. Plus of your list of “modest, caring, submissive, not ran-through,” only caring is relevant. The remaining 3 are merely personality traits that women - surprise, surprise - do not all entail because they are not the same.
Sadia is great, I feel bad that she gets hate from women. You’re awesome girl :)
How can a blind person be leading a blind person?
preach bro 🤣
@@bashirudada486
Why is a professional blind? So you go to drs when you’re unwell or someone who happens to be healthy?!?
@@peaceloveunityislam sorry someone who is not a doctor or someone who does not have experience as doctor can not treat somebody that is unwell. It's just like some body that has never driven a car before,in his or her life can not teach somebody how to drive a car.
She has all the qualifications and it’s on her website and more so than anything men are obsessed with her it’s not like she doesn’t have options go soo how many men adore her it’s only women without options that have a probekm
Sadia is my favorite psychologist! Her knowledge, femininity, and class combined makes me feel like I’m listening to a caring family member who has my best interest at heart. I always watch her interviews because she gives the best relationship advice!
Sadia I am personally amazed by you.
I, and I believe that we all women need you to speak. You point out precisely the problems of today's dating/relationship reality.
Please keep doing what you are doing. Lots of love and admiration
Real simple: Set boundaries from the start and stop chasing validation. If someone doesnt respect your values cut them loose and move on. Dont expect people to change.
You can only hate because you speak from a place of fear, insecurities and jealousy. You might not agree with everything and she cant speak for all the population but there is no reason to hate. Just turn the page if you dont like her. Use words to praise not to say bad things.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. Keep shining!
Yes! Death and life are in the tongue!
Sadia is a great source of wisdom and inspiration. As a woman, I hugely appreciate her counseling and her kindness, so rare to find someone whose words truly resonate with me. Keep it up and thank you!
but she doesnt know a thing about men. She prolly single herself lmao
@@Jblah She said she is not single and if some one like her is, that is mostly a choise. It is also sad to see, that there is a lot of good womans that does not even want parhner. But dont worry too much, it is what it is. Best thing what mens can do is not give any attention to womans who does not need a man. let them repair their car's and fix those water leaks. When they live in rotten shacks with cats. Maybe they will come to another tought in their old days 🙂
@@AmisCorolla sometimes i agree but she is far from being a orakel. Tbh when she stated that tate is a high value male i almost choked in my drink lmao
I feel Sadia when she said she struggled with female comnections. This is the 1st interview I've seen with with a female interviewer, very refreshing.❤❤
As female I love Sadia and I enjoy listening her opinion on many topics She is very wise 🫶🏻and I love how she gently explain big picture and always remember us on some wise basis how people think feel and react ❤️🫶🏻very nice talk and very nice choice for questions you are both very beautiful woman from inside and out
Right?? And she is not just a coach, she actually is an academic, is a physiology and has a phd in how childhood trauma affects individuals. I think bc some people don’t agree 100% with everything she says they just want to discredit her hahah sounds a little childish to me if you ask
You do realise she was married for a month before divorcing her husband not to mention she has step brother and sisters who she and her family refused their father to see.
@@paulaayala5561it depends on your attitude towards understanding yourself I think. Some people are so invested in their identities that they are unwilling to think about any concept outside of their comfort zone.
I'm a guy, early 40's and I think these talks are interesting because I'm rather picky when it comes to personalities and who's in my life and around me and most women are incomprehensible.
I'm not really flattered by blatant physical advances or going to be into anybody for their bodies , you have to be willing to invest a bit more so that I know you understand your worth and that you have a lot more to offer than your body...If I sleep with someone that I'm not that into because they really like me and they're smoking, am I basically not getting used for my body😂
Sadia is great, cute and brilliant.
Not discrediting her, I appreciate some of her points, but she's incorrect in that younger women who go for older men have an absent father. It's actually the opposite, they have an absent mother/mother they don't get along with. They therefore became "daddy's girl" and are trying to replicate the relationship. The same is true for men who go for older women, they had an absent father.@@paulaayala5561
@@paulaayala5561No PhD according to her website, but she does have a Master’s degree in education.She does not specify which institution she received it from.
Female here. Love Sadia's content!
Love Sadia!!! She makes so much sense that people get mad about it but I appreciate her consistency and showing up speaking her poignant perspective. 👌🏾
Sadia is great. A lot of wisdom for women. Those that hate her most likely are those that cannot face themselves.
Sadia is a pure genius .
I don’t always agree with Sadia but always respect and appreciate how she represents and expresses herself.
Such a wonderful woman is Sadia. One of the women who is a real inspiration. Thank you for this great podcast. ❤
Being tense / shy on a (first) date isn't negative. It shows that it is special and gives it a spark. As a woman, I can say that women with no female friends (and no good relationships with women in their family) are a red flag to me. But to each their own. I fully agree on the novelty aspect and actually think that it ties into NOT having friends from the opposite sex.
I love Sadia, she is so on point
Such a Great talk!!!
A most excellent interview. Thanks.
Beautiful!!!! Great work!!!!!
The interviewee asked some really useful and relevant questions about relationships. I’ve been listening to Sadia for a while but I learnt some new things from this podcast!! Thank you to you both!!❤
Sadia has taught me about relationships more than anyone could have, helping me go through the difficult times & happy moments too!
Huge huge respect to both of ya 🫡❣️
Loving the podcast
I totally feel her. She speaks my language. I had no idea how to express my approach to many situations and social agreements in today’s world and now I do.
Enjoyed the content. Thank you
I love this so much, thanks for sharing such valuable information 🙏🏽
Sadia is very brave and honest. Thank you a lot
Excellent advice! ❤️🙏
I just love this woman. The wisdom is amazing ❤
Really good questions and really good answers … keep up the good work!🙌🏻
Thank you for this. I recognize my own truths as well as understanding of others in this episode. 👏
I BELIEVE THAT EVERY QUESTION IN THIS PODCAST WERE GREAT AND THE GAME AT THE END WAS VERY COOL. YASMINE NAILDED IT AND SADIA IS AMAZING AS ALWAYS😊😊😊😊
Great information ❤❤
focusing on one person at a time is a great idea. even if yall meet online once you exchange phone numbers or ig handles get off the damn dating apps and explore each other!
until you have met the person in person face to face then you have not met the person.
and yes totally agree with you and Sadia to give full focus and attention to the other once you have met and intend to see each other again (and again, and again) then the app or the 'match maker' is on pause.
Being gold digger is not gender specific.Even men are gold diggers.They pursue rich women.But no one talks about that.
Yes that is true. I think there are more male gold digger‘s than females.
Amazing podcast ❤
❤❤❤ thank you for this awesome interview
I enjoyed both of the ladies’ input and energy. As I was listening to the words of wisdom, I literally felt my perception on things was changing that previously have been cemented for decades (ex: can men and women be friends)!
Thank you so much, I feel my intellectual mind is blossoming being part of these discussions ❤
Thank you for doing the candid interview. Both of you are intelligent and are well spoken about the dynamics and pragmatics about dating and mate selection especially from a women’s perspective. I really appreciated the discussion about the trading of the commodities of mutual interests, attention, affection, sexual intimacy, financial resources and the genetics of physical height and slimness. Somehow this kind of stuff should be explained in school especially if kids come from broken homes and foster care.
My life is not the same after watching your videos thank you so much for sharing your knowledge love you
Wow she's so Excellent at relationship advice! This interview is soooo good!
I enjoyed this so much! Sadia is always a pleasure, so wise and classy.
I really love the way she speaks especially from a logical and reasonable stand point about how we need more self awareness when we date.
This was so eye opening and I'm 10 mins in 😮❤
This is actually great
So true and insightful. I have had similar experience most of my adult life especially in the work place environment with female colleagues. I usually get on better with men. Thank you for shedding some lights into this topic at least I know I’m not alone. Love Sadia for her straightforwardness and keeping it real.
Not commenting on the content here but The studio is such a stunner! !
Wow only 2 mins in and my mind is blown. Thanks Sadia, a true role model for women
I think she's amazing! I love the honesty! I follow her and appreciate her input
She has the best advice out there .. I think it’s all common sense
Omg Sadia, how you break down obvious truths - I’m hooked !
Sadia Khan is a gift to the world. She lends very irrefutable and authentic insights on topical issues that bother on not just relationships but the state of the human psyche. You are my GOAT.
Lots of love to you @Sadia 🎉
Loved loved loved this!!! Two intelligent warm funny classy women!!! The interviewer was first class. So much wisdom in one video. Thank you for posting. I hope the interviewer does several more with Sadi or has a podcast. She is brilliant!
Sadia is amazing!
Ladies... Mrs sadia your wisdom is respected so much... Keep up the good works... God bless..
100% Sadia was on point every time! Great interview
She's amazing
Great podcast! ⭐️ thanks!
I love youuuu,I love your energy❤️❤️❤️
She’s a god send!!! ❤ we need more Sadia ❤
Excellent guest ❤😊
Sadia Khan is an amazing dating expert love to Listen to her talks
Sadia, you're part of my soul tribe❤ seriously...I've evolved and transformed in such a short time since listening to you. Although we don't know you personally, you connect with us at a 5 D energy level! ❤ Soooo happy 🌈🌟🫶🏼
An open minded person has a true heart..... An there motives are pure...
Sadia is such beautiful person, we love you ❤
So so true ❤
I need Sadia in my life and want her advice
I’d pay good money for it!! She’s worth it
This is the first time I really agree with her. Other times those thories did not seem accurate. But here she is correct (in my opinion) point after point at least for first 15 minutes that I heard
As a women i very much love sadia, i know i heard her say compliments make her uncomfortable but truly. The ummah is benefeting from your knowledge. May Allah guide us all and unite us in jannah❤
She is great
Sadia im a woman and I love your content and your energy! ❤
Ladies... We all need to be patient when we are in love... For love has a beautiful meaning to life at the end... Thanks
The online dating section of this segment couldn’t be anymore true. The addiction and novelty as well as mindset. I personally do not agree with online dating apps. It’s not genuine enough. But overall this discussion was very enlightening and informative. 🙏🏼
I think it’s so sad she gets so much hate from women. Sometimes it can come from women who don’t want to face their reality. I love her straight forward self reflection advice. I also understand women hating you for no reason or out of jealousy as that’s been the majority of my experience as well. Sad how women see one another as competition as I’ve never wanted that in friendship however it can be isolating. I desire female friendships as I know it’s important but I also refuse to settle for friendships that are secretly against you. Thank you for always sharing regardless of the hate. We need more people like Sadia speaking truth! ❤️
People give her hate because their mind isn’t capable of understanding things the way hers does and that’s why she gets it… she’s smarter that’s it end of story! She gets it ❤ love her!!!
She is a person who helps me realize and separate real woman from instagram zombie and real man from Tates fan club.
Favourite phrase of Sadia: In any way shape or form😊
Love Sadia Khan!! ❤
That's exactly what happen in most relationships 😊
Ladies... Thanks for understanding how we as men endure the whole process of being loved...
Ladies my best experience is when my first date broke my heart... Yet we learn to grow in understanding of what true love is... 😢❤
I always like it when she is the guess...
Excellent talk show with Sadia Khan a Psychologist who gives practical advice to all we women who have grown up in a orthrodox family down south India. I am watching this show from chennai
She’s completely abusive to people on the internet
@@NicolasNigglesI love that about her, not only not taking shit from anyone, but also throwing it back. I really enjoy it when I see her doing that
Sadia provides solid advice on developing and maintaining healthy relationships. I hope to be fortunate enough to find a solid partner who will be in it for the long haul. I'm not a fan of dating sites.
❤love Sadia
Many has try being loved an failed yet few exalted you're intelligent... An my heart... Simple....
The feel I need is to feel loved an happy...
Less that 2 min and jackpot already there- pure wisdom. Thank you!
How to know she's for you... Simple... The simple smile on her face... 😢❤
Ladies... The only flags between two people in love is the chemistry that both feel... Thanks for learning...
New perspective of women being intelligent and source of practical wisdom.
We can’t love a man who we can manipulate! 👍 Thanks
Less talk an more reading desires... True faith...
2 beautiful ladies! Gorgeous ❤
How can I blind person be leading a blind person.
Good podcast. Happy holidays from our channel.
I feel very good when listening to Sadia. As a man, my opinion is Sadia gets a lot of hate from women who believe we should destroy the patriarchy because she is empowering, I believe, to both men & women. But if you honestly believe that men are the problem, this feels disempowering to your current world view. To be clear, & I believe Sadia would potentially agree, I am not trying to suggest the patriarchy is flawless. I think the world is in desperate need of greater balance of Masculine & Feminine energies, but it is just as important to recognize BOTH energies are ESSENTIAL for the human race to thrive, both on an individual level and a societal level. I am not saying everything is perfect as is right now, but men vs women is a recipe for disaster, we are created to collaborate, not compete. Much love everyone! Thank you for reading!
Always be comfortable around your partner on the first date... Yet be soft an sincere... Ask the right questions if your inquiry lof his or her back round... ❤