Real Reasons I Left United States (and won't go back)
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- Real Talk about why I don't like living in the United States anymore and why I can't see myself ever returning. I had invested a lot of time and money to research and travel the world to find where I best fit in, which culture I feel more comfortable in. After almost 6 years of continues life abroad, I really can't see myself ever going back.
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Enjoy your videos. Just a request, most of us watch these travel vids to see the views, is it possible to just keep the camera pointed to the area where you're walking, the constant panning around and selfie position is taking away from the sights and scenery. thanks!
Sage words amigo. For me its is also important to walk around and get to know a city... especially one as beautiful and green as Medellin (well the flat parts like Laureles). I grew up in Virginia, but my family moved to England when I was 12. America is in some trouble with plenty divisive rhetoric amongst people and politicians. Not to mention an over consumerist society. I don't think there is much hope for its future unless people come together and realise what is truly important in life.
@@JerryLopezArtist We've also been consumed by the attitude "It's all about me." Narcissism is running rampant here now and that's also bringing us down.
Yeah man and that was even before COVID. Now it’s obviously gotten much much worse. People don’t wanna be around one another anymore and it’s really really disappointing 😱😱
Neighbors will not talk to eachother unless they sit out front on their porches/ verandas in summer . Now these suburbs have no outdoor spaces for neighborhoods to talks and chat . I came from Greek family and in Greece you see even apartments have balconies and everybody chats and get to know everybody . " Philixenia " friendly to strangers .
David, I live is the US. I make a 6 figure salary and feel unsatisfied and trapped. Looks like you have found the right balance in Colombia. People in the US have actually gotten colder and more removed in the last few years.
no you don't, stop lying
I feel the same.
same, something is just missing.
@@frankapplewood1231 yes something is missing. I don't know why something has been pulling on my spirit for the last few months to get the hell out of dodge. I just don't know ,maybe something serious is about to happen. I feel so unhappy being here. I got to go.
Same, but if I leave the US I won't have my job anymore. I'd love to leave. I'll figure something out. But the world is crazy with chaos.
what he is saying is true! America is lonely. People stay indoor too often, no activity , and later they start having mental issues!
Preference for suburban living has ruined the USA. We starting doing everything wrong right after the end of the Second World War.
I’m 35 it’s like all my friends are married with kids. No one wants to hang out just work work work!
The women don’t speak unless your spending or unusually handsome over 6 foot. Very little socializing amongst strangers it’s just so dry here.
If you’re over 30 and married with kids in the US, you have NO friends or social life. Unless you go to some cult church or something. Sooooo different than in the UK or Europe.
Depends on where your at. Not everywhere will people stay inside all day.
It’s absurd to suggest that this universal malady is unique to America. Every country has similar issues and every country, including America, has opportunities for people to become more alive and engaged with their surrounding and other people. Just go find it.
I’m from Chile and met a now crazy American woman and ended up marrying her and moved to the US, very much against my instincts. 20 years later and three kids and now divorced all I want is to go back, I’ve never liked it here, it’s all about money and politics, and most people are stressed out, overworked, angry, unfriendly, intolerant, and competitive….I miss my culture everyday, I’m down to a couple of friends who are not Americans either and they hate it here and want to go back too. What’s sad is how ignorant Americans are of the rest of the world and what little they know about life in other places where people might not be rich but they live basic human lives with lots of friends, family, parties, and naps in the middle of the day.
PLEASE LEAVE, you married the crazy woman, bad judgment on your part, your screw up. Move back and start over
You Should Come to Atlanta
@@donaldstewart9166 someone is very sensitive 🤔
U right, western world is colapsing
Biggest mistake you made is Marrying American women, they are not wife worthy especially these days
I spent two years in USA and from my perspective it is definitely true what you say. Consumerism culture, no walkable, tense atmosphere surrounding many things, and overall highly competitive place. On the other hand absolutely great place if you are wealthy - outdoor possibilities, trails, and access to everything money can buy. Certainly not the preferred place for non materialistic people not interested in the rat race
I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?
Im interested in homies comment's question
2 years? Takes about seven years to started knowing and understand any country.
@@tweetyuno I am not claiming I understand American culture on the deepest level, just sharing my experience about some very basic things like walkability and whether people are overall relaxed, or observations like that many people work a lot and definitely more than in Europe. Doesn’t take seven years to understand that.
@@AyushSharma-xg7td exactly..what is this guy's job ?
You said, "You feel very isolated in the States", You hit the Nail in the head. That's Exactly what I am going through here, and I hate it!!! This morning I waived my hand to say "Hi" to a lady who lives in my Apartment Complex and She looked at me as if I just committed a crime by saying "hello" to her and gave me a dirty look, and they all do that here!!! .
Social media turned this country into less empathic and less social
In Cuba, every neighbor knows each other.
Move to Italy mate. Italians love greeting and talking.
shes just weird i def wouldve said hello back it aint that hard. im from the bronx and its the same here sometimes but them being strange like that is their own problem so too bad for them I guess lol
@@urbanart7325 nah dont scapegoat social media 100%
Walking 🚶♂️ anywhere in the United States can get people to believe that you’re homeless and it can also be seen as suspicious!
For real, I got cops called on me because I had the habit to walk next to a neighborhood
No it’s not 😂😂your clearly not from US
It’s true. My grandparents used to walk everywhere when they had more mom and pop stores around. Sometimes people just like to walk around there neighborhood. The United States just has a toxic culture
Yeah yet another weird American thing people are so paranoid of each other and suspicious especially if you're a different race. Anyone out of their little church circle that is.
@@afisanaa not true for you and your experience In SF. It’s very much true in a lot of places throughout the states.
Born and raised in the US (Long Island,NY) and I never ever felt like I fit in here, which had led me to feel isolated all my life. Creo que es tiempo de salirme de aqui para siempre.
Mano, soy un gringo con 58 anos. Siento lo mismo. Until I met my wife, the USA was all that I knew. Can't wait to retire in Colombia. Get this: I had to wear a pashmina in Cartegena at dinner one night in 2021 because I was wearing short pants. My choice was to leave or wear it. I wore it and felt a bit embarrassed but had fun anyway. What would a typical gringo do? Scream, make a scene, then Tweet about the "HORRIBLE" restaurant. I love Colombia!
You'd atleast be making progress by escaping New York. That place is an absolute shytehole. New York os everything wrong with America distilled
@@randymillhouse791I'd definitely wear it and I'm from England..
I am totally agree with you, I live in USA and I am from Colombia and all things you are saying I am living them and feeling them . I can't wait the day I can go back to live in my country again. I am planning to go back there when my son finishes highschool and leaves home to go to college. You have said many words I used when I came like "gost towns" where is the people? Where is the life? Why there are not sidewalks? Why is this town build just for cars? Why everytime to go out with friends is to eat? Can we just talk without food in our mouth? Anyways this country has giving me financial opportunities to be able to go back and have a good life in my country and I am grateful for that!
Im sorry to meddle, but hmm I would suggest you don' t loose track of your son( though of course you know better your own son) these days a lot of negativity, misinformation and doctrine is spread in colleges in the US; I say it for the sake of mental health ...Hope you can go back to Colombia soon ~
Is it safe in Colombia now because I remember the cocaine wars??
I agree with you 100%. I just went to Colombia two months ago, after many years of not visiting Medellin. This super consumption society is killing the USA. We’re competing with each other constantly……New car every 3 years, new iPhone every year, and on and on.
Yes, it is very refreshing to be out of that consumption culture.
You are spot on! Seeing how happy people in Colombia are without all the 1st world bells and whistles really puts things into perspective upon your return to the US
breh, colombians do the same. Especially the ones who god cash.
@@McFanick But not at he usa leves, very different, people in Colombia obviously consume, but there is no pression for having the last everything, we are most likely trying to buy good thing that will have a long life.
This is such a bull crap, I bought 9 new cars in the USA, in 45 years, why because I could afford them . Today I still am better off financially than my friends in Europe and Poland.
Too many miserable people in the U.S. everyone seems to want to be a millionaire here and walk around with a crappy attitude cause they aren’t. It’s an unfortunate Reality.
Well said
Well said
Yes, our value systems have mutated to base human instincts. Part of the problem is the obscene wealth gap that has grown over the past 30 years.
bag 💰
So, don't live here?
Update: we left Europe last year and have been in the US since then. We feel miserably isolated here even though we’ve lived in 2 major cities. It’s horrible. We have to drive 30 minutes to the gym or walk 60 to the grocery
Sorry you left- I feel your pain greatly. I'm am trying to figure out how to permanently move there. Might I ask where you relocated from and to?
Are you in LA?
I dont think I could live in AMERICA its just to dangerous and there's PROS & CONS with every country and AMERICA don't get me wrong is beautiful but there's just so many School,Mass and Gang shootings there and the Political divide that would drive me nuts they get plumped with it 24/7
Live in New England, maybe. It is the most European part of the states.
I’m stuck here and can’t wait to get the hell out!
Come and live in rural England you'd absolutely love it I swear look up its called THE COTSWOLDS and get away from noisy horrible people and the CITY
I live in Mexico and Colombia, split between each. Many people I talk to cite the stress of living in the US as their main reason why they left and won't go back. I suspect the stress is also contributing to the aggression that you discussed.
I also think we have created a hermit culture in the US because, as you stated, we go to our jobs and come home, shut the doors, and spend the evenings by ourselves doing whatever. We don't make time to go out and have to schedule appointments with friends. Nobody is spontaneous anymore. You can't just call a friend and go do something.
But we need to be busy with our jobs in order to pay for our overpriced homes and new cars. We demand this lifestyle and it comes with lots of work and stress.
And don't get me started on dating. It's a terrible, awful mess and has been for years. The social life in the US is horrible.
I agree
We hv no life in usa I fuckin hatevit
Dating in the U.S. isn't horrible. Come on.....
It's abysmal.
As an Island/American. I totally agree. Life here is depressing and stressful. But okay. It's time for me to move out.
We don’t demand these high price things we are just set in this life to work consume sleep and repeat in the US
I have lived abroad for the past 22 years, so I understand and relate to EVERYTHING you talk about. I used to be one of those proud (arrogant) Americans who believed the US was the greatest country in the world. Until I experienced living in other countries did I realize the US is very far from being the greatest. All countries have their challenges, but it seems that in these recent years, the US has so many more. Enjoy your life in Colombia!
Thank you 😊
Well said. The US is sliding into self destruction aided by stupidty and ignorance
Yep we are all anti USA warriors, until chet hits the ceiling.. The we all cherish our USA Passport.. 42 years in Mexico gives me the right to say that.
I have a few American friends that believe that the United States is the best country in the world but yet they don't own a passport. They also have never been out of the country. My number one advice I say to all young people is to get a passport and travel.
@@MrBowmanmt You're so right! It's so sad that some fellow americans take for granted their native country!
I moved from London to California and I really do miss walking around with my headphones on. "Let's go out to eat" is something I hear a lot from my American friends. Back in London, I didn't eat out a lot. We'd get fish n' chips and eat at the park and then walk some more. I miss all the walking.
Move to SF or Washington DC or NYC or what have you, the US consist of so many different states and cities.
I was recently in Leon Mexico. I walked everywhere every day. I could have rented a car but it didn't feel necessary. Everyone seemed to walk to actually enjoy the trees, walkways, air, and even the rain. I would never do that in the U.S. I don't know what it is. I feel miserable in the U.S. There is a change in the U.S. the vibe is awful and heavy, not for me. I can see how people who are stuck in that bubble can't see it or have no way out. I'm glad I woke up and I am much happier now.
I like how you say "buenas" to strangers in the streets. I lived in Mexico for two years and now live in Brazil. In Brazil nobody says hello in the streets, i miss Mexican people
I only do that when they look at me while I'm filming. To ease the tension. Without the camera I don't say buenas. They don't do that much in medellin either
@@LifewithDavid got you
@@LifewithDavid I living one year in the USA, I am hating it. My family doesn’t understand. I love walking, I don’t know how to drive, I lived in Curitiba, a great transportation system. I feel I belong to Curitiba, I feel very depressed living here. People in Curitiba they don’t talk to you, people are more reserved in Curitiba, they are mostly descendants of polish or ukrainian. I don’t like the culture of the US. People think I am brazilian of eastern european descendants, I am adopted. So I don’t know, I know I am part venezuelan, I want to go back to Brazil. It is where I am from, It is my culture. You don’t need a car in Curitiba. I miss that was poor I could eat beat soup, bortcht, for cheap in a ukrainian buteco. But looking at me I think I am part Eastern European. I was looking at at a girl in the gym is started to be agressive to me.
@@isaacabramovich2546 -You have an interesting story
@@LifewithDavid You can always go back to Mexico, I will be ready to take your place in Brazil later this year.
100% agree with all you said here. Walking in most of the u.s.a. can feel like a near crime.
Walking in the US can straight up get you killed.
i couldnt disagree more
My wife used to like to take walks around our old suburban neighborhood in Denver, and our neighbors would actually drive up and ask if she needed a ride anywhere!
That's how feel.
@@28gs28gs do you have any points on why you disagree or are you just ignorant
As a person from Eastern Europe I am totally sharing your opinion: consumption lifestyle, fake, violance, isolation...Its decline and not progress in my eyes.
But its spreading around the world. Nice to see that there still some good guys and places left:) I will probably visit your country soon
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David, I agree with every word you said. I’ve come to the US from Ukraine to stay for a while, and everyone keeps telling me I should stay here forever. People are astonished when I tell them I loved my life in Ukraine better. It’s very similar to what you described about Colombia - lots of friends who are happy to meet, good food, everyone is spending time outdoors.
Unfortunately what is happening in Ukraine is a dispute between US and Russia.
Not Russia against Ukraine of what people think.
@@JTMind It’s complicated but I think everyone benefits somehow as it always happens during wars 😔
@fluentinoverthinking Now thing is, whoever wins this war. Eastern Europe will not be the same anymore. Sorry of what has happened to you guys
@@JTMind , thank you. what do you think awaits Eastern Europe?
Leave dont stay here
The divisiveness is what makes me want out the most. The media pushes division all day long.
In the states, when you meet up with an old friend or acquaintance from the past, it's always like they want to know what position you work at, how much is your annual salary, what car you drive, what you have invested in, how many houses and property you own. It feels like a competition they want to win just to feel better about themselves. And when you tell them about living happily in another country, they look at you as if you have totally lost your mind and need to be on some kind of psychotropic medication.😆 BTW, I'm a fellow Texan and have lived also in el DF, Mexico. I know everybody loves Medellín.. but I really love drinking coffee in Pereira..
...sounds like South Korea. You think the U.S. is bad? Imagine thinking plastic surgery will help with your employment prospects.
sounds like Australia also..
Dude, it’s ALL about “flexing on the poors” AKA eating ramen while driving an $80K vehicle and putting yourself into debt for bullshit.
@@abdiellawrence397 china is becoming like South Korea. Competition + too much surgery.
Doesn’t sound familiar to me. This sounds exactly like India though!
I lived in Houston for six years and never owned a car. I rode a bike. When I walked people thought my car had broken down or that I was homeless. I hate car cities.
I live in Miami. I live a simple lifestyle. Old cars. Old bikes. Same house for 30 years. I know all my neighbors and shop at the same stores always. Love it here. Life is what you make it.
I understand you 100 percent.I lived in a neighborhood in Atlanta for 5 years and never once met or talked to any of my neighbors.I can't wait travel again ,I noticed people outside the US are more social and friendly.
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why? you never saw your neighbors outside even once? i find that hard to believe. i think in 5 years you didnt meet anyone then it’s on you. you were the problem. i’ve lived where i’m at and i’ve said hello / met my neighbors had small talk with a lot of them. it sounds like you are the problem. i’ve had my fair share of experiences where i’ve said hello to strangers and they didn’t reply or they gave a weird look. but i’ve always come to the conclusion that they have a problem not me.
I know man. I hate living in Kennesaw. Isolating, empty, cold, cookie cutter
@@metodifitness8824wheres keeneshaw bro??
Everyone I know that left the United States says they have no desire to come back .
I don't know what to do anymore. I'm 34, never been married and I have no kids. I work a very stressful, hard and depressing job up to 14 hours a day driving a truck. I'm so angry, frustrated and unfulfilled. Everyday I want to quit my job but I know I can't. I feel like I'm the definition of stuck. I want to live a life where I don't have to struggle everyday. I want a beautiful, loving wife. I'm losing hope. Maybe (If I'm still sane and alive) I can make the transition to Colombia. I'm currently learning Spanish, but even that seems insurmountable with everything I'm go through. There have been too many days to count where I just wanted to put one in my head. America is all about keeping you in a never ending cycle until you die. I never thought I'd see the day where it cost me almost $60 to fill up my tank.
Keep your head up. Save your money and leave when your ready. Your young and can still make it elsewhere to be happy. I know it's hard to save money here because everything costs so much but keep in mind in Colombia the dollar stretches very far. If you can take a trip as much as you can afford too. Then when you come back to the United States you'll feel refreshed and focused on what you have to do for your future. Make a 5 year plan.
Hey buddy, I was pretty down a few years ago but life can change pretty fast and all of a sudden you're winning. Just stick it out, be sensible with finances/commitments and come out the other side. I'm same age as you and I've avoided the wife and kids, there are plenty of adventures to be had my man, an epic life is waiting! Stress colours everything bad, my life turned around when I left my mega stress job. You got this bud!
I'm 34 too. Never married or kids.. keep your head up. It gets better. Remember moving away won't solve your inner issues.. maybe go to therapy and see what is it that is really bothering you.. look I've lived in different areas and still was lonely....
Learn to code, get a wfh job and move to Colombia or Costa Rica. Enjoy life.
Break the cycle brother. You only have one life, if it helps Spanish is pretty easy if you immerse yourself into the music and culture and practice using it in your daily life. A good application to help with Spanish is called pimslur. I know Spanish but I wanna hit up Italy so I have to learn that language
I served 12 years in the US Army, been to a descent amount of countries learned different cultures from each of those countries. There were almost no racial discrimination to the person of color with the exception of some European countries. I’m Asian, when I return to the US I feel like everywhere I went they just need verify you because the color of my skin. Especially now that I’m a long haul trucker, I got into more fights because of the color of my skin. I didn’t get into any fight at those countries I was deployed to.
Truck driver ? Well haul your ass out of the USA ! 🇺🇸
Sorry to hear that. I thought generally Asians were well liked in the USA. They are seen as hard working intelligent people.
@@KM-pq7sr you're leaving racist hints all over your comment mate
True story. I was at a soccer match in El Campin in Bogota. A black player made a very poor pass that was intercepted by the opposing team. The guy next to me said "aye negro!." I was like, wtf? But it was explained to me that this word was descriptive and offensive. Still trying to understand how it is NOT offensive because I am an American.
What is racist about what @ K M said?
It makes sense to percieve it like that, as many people in the USA seem to have that idea(plus stereriotypes are usually based on some thruth, some mainly east asian countries have a culture of studying and working hard and parents can be very exigent)
I've said these exact same things to myself. Suburban lifestyle sucks in the USA. Sit inside. Get in the car and drive somewhere else to sit inside. Then back in the car to sit inside at home. Terrible. No life out on the streets.
Different world
take it or leave it.
That's really sad, that's why I don't like the US, it was built without any conscience, always thinking bigger is better, they took down a lot of forest to built a big house for everyone and now the cities are huge and also the distances between everything, so now are car dependants and very contaminated.
The convenience store where neighborhood people hang out and presumably talk with each other, that will get you in big trouble in the US. You'll be told to leave and if you don't, they'll call the police.
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Was living in MX for most of the past 10 years. Came back to the US and feel totally alienated and isolated. It changed! I mean the country is fractured, completely divided. All you say is true and it is just getting worse. I cannot wait to get out and back to Mexico!
What part of Mexico? I decided that Medellin is my destination a year ago, but I am also curious about MX!!!
Yeah Will.
Where did you live in Mexico?
Where you lived - was it safe? No pelligroso?
It's interesting to hear this. I'm American but am living in Thailand. The States does seem fractured and I'm apprehensive about returning. It seems people just hate each other.
@@gemox3225 Right now we have 400K covid caes, mass shootings every few days and on and on, that is all I can say my friend.
@Kelly Moler why's that Kelly? And thanks
I lived in Ecuador for 2 1/2 years and loved not having to drive and walking everywhere. The people were also very laid back.
been living in the states for many many yrs. 99.9% of what you said is so true, sad but, true. congrats for freeing yourself, it takes a lot guts to do what you did your a bright man, most people here get trapped in that system and can never get out. I'm hoping I can follow in your footsteps before it's too late.😘
Man, I could not agree with you even more. I'm in the US Southeast and we don't have sidewalks. If you see someone dressed normal walking immediately you think, "hey did their car breakdown or are they homeless?"
It's not our culture to walk. I love walking. I spent time in Europe years ago and walked everywhere. Frankfurt, Munich, Budapest, Istanbul. And then in Spain for a couple weeks walking everywhere. I love the cultures that will walk. Those places have more laid back people and less fat people. People in the US well they are fat mostly.
I've considered living in Mexico, but will have to consider Columbia. Love the perspective. Thanks.
If you like walking and europe you might like the Netherlands. Small distances. People walk cycle and know english
Dutch work just to live. And the american blockbuster movies and tv shows without the enoying dubbing. Starbucks the Mac Kentucky fried chicken new york pizza. Only much rain in spring and in the west expensive houses and renting. And dutch plan everything. Let them know you come and dont be late.
U can consider Brasil, its not like biggest part of people think.
People do walk in the us
If you go to Colombia, you won't want to leave. That happens to almost all foreigners.
You have pointed every single thing Im finding wrong with this country. Thank you for being real
I honestly think social media has made the culture here in the states horrible. I see friends and family constantly depressed about not having all the material things they want and are reminded of it every day on social media. They don’t even realize that if they weren’t wasting time looking at how other people live their lives that they could actually be happy with what they have or make a change.
Living in Colombia for a year now I would same there is the same problem here actually 😢
@@mwnemo sadly it’s happening all over the world. Hopefully people catch on to it and stop living life through their phone and social media.
Yeah. Even though it helps us to connect, social media can be a parasite, if used incorrectly psychology.
@@mwnemo Colombia is one of those Latin countries that US intervened.
We are way too fat in the US, drunk on excess everything. Wokeism is an invention of the bored who don't have any problems to solve. When you have everything, there is no adversity so they invent problems to keep their curiosity alive.
I lived for several years in Medellin and own a condo in Cali, but let’s be real. Colombia has a lot of things working against it. It is very dangerous and has an abysmal economy. David is fortunate because he can make money off TH-cam. Imported goods are very expensive. Every day errands take forever to do. And forget about the convenience and comfort of the US. Forget most hobbies too. Having said all that, I will probably move back in a few years. LOL.
Right but that is what comes with a pace of life that is slower and a country that isn't hypercapitalistic. Sure, Amazon's 2 day shipping is convenient but the cost is miserable employees that are over worked, underpayed, and treated less than human. They get notified that they are taking too long if they stop at a gas station to get a snack and to pee. They get fired via text message. Amazon literally epitomizes everything David said he hates in the video.
So it becomes a cycle. Miserable, antisocial people that don't need to leave their homes to get anything anymore that then go back to a miserable job they hate so they can get me stuff they don't need shipped to their door.
Lastly, the US is pretty dangerous as well. It was only a few months ago that some guy shot up a super market full of elderly people and a couple of weeks later another psycho locks himself inside of a 4th grade classroom with an AR-15 and killed people's babies.
So yeah... Let's be real... Do you want to be somewhere where people are more relaxed and maybe commit crimes because the economy is slow or do you want to be burned out and angry at the world but you were able to get your dog nail clippers without leaving your home?
I can tell you have never even been to Colombia.
America is also dangerous
The level of danger in the US is not even comparable to the level of danger in Colombia.
@@teachzilla4120 Do they shoot teachers and children in their class rooms in Columbia. America is a very violent society obsessed with guns and extremism.
David. I understand you perfectly. You definitely have a Latin soul. The loneliness of the streets in the United States was the most negative impression I had when I went to that country as a student. It seemed to me an oppressive and aggressive loneliness. You could drop dead on the sidewalk and it would be hours before anyone found out. I also like to walk, in fact I am a hiker in the countryside, and I walk at least 10,000 steps every day in the city. I hardly use the car. Like you, many foreigners are happy here basically because they find life in the streets and in its friendly, curious and talkative inhabitants. Here in Colombia there is human warmth, friendship, affection and solidarity with the other. Without this, life is not worth it. Your reflections as an American seem very valuable to me because you have discovered that there are other ways of living in the world that are more welcoming and rewarding than the "American dream" without the absurd wasteful consumerism. Your phrase that "the best things in life don't really cost anything" defines your philosophy of life. Congratulations David.
Thank you for the comment. Yes, I feel best living in places like Colombia where the culture is as you described. 😊
@@LifewithDavid Latin woman are the most beautiful on planet earth imo lol. Dont blame you bro. You speaking facts!
Me with social anxiety I like the US because I don't usually find people around the street when I walk, but sometimes I miss Mexico for the food and people's warmth.
the American dream is a lie anyways, 95percent of Americans waste their lives away with never ending work for nothing and never get to be anywhere near rich to the sole benefit of a very small tiny handful of ultra rich people
You captured what defines life and happiness, the “Latin soul” seeks joy, camaraderie, love and humanity, whatever happened to “American soul , the American dream”, oh the land of liberty, its people, come on, shake hands, greet each other, make streets walkable, right ? I bet you said it, David said it. The sweet sound of ‘Hola’ with smiles from the heart, can we all do that👋 and 😊
Boy, everything you said is so true. I’m a Texan. Born in the USA. The USA is all about advertising and sucking the public into a spending tornado.
This isn’t the best country in the world. That’s bull.
Very well phrased.
Lots of not pedestrian freindly areas. It's thought to reduce crime. My current neighbor hood used to have everything in walking distance but the buildings got bought by big companies & bull dozed for the cvs, etc to be built..
I used to be an environmentalist and my earth freindly habits also tend to be frugal. I just don't see point of a ton of stuff and disposable things. Its caused social rifts and bullying for me. It's sad that ppl are so closed minded.
The biggest thing I like about the U.S is the foundations of freedom, and life liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Everything else however is just wrong.
Then why don’t u leave ? Or why everyone wants come to here around the world ?
@@tenzinchoegyal9920 Because everyone worldwide have bought the "American dream". An intelligent person knows its a bs lie. It's all consumerism.
@@tenzinchoegyal9920 The guy doing this vid doesn't want to.
Great video!
Excellent insights!
The hamster wheel cycle of work and consumerism is what makes us so unhappy and exhausted.
But people keep putting up with the hamster wheel...so that isn't the fault of the country, rather it's the fault of the people. Think about that.
I don't live a lifestyle like that. I'm an Albanian American that prioritizes investing, saving, and living within my means. I live a good life in New Jersey.
I don't think I could live this lifestyle if I were still in the Balkans.
True
This video describes EXACTLY why I'm preparing to relocate. Like minds brother!
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Very similar motivations. Temporarily back in bay area now to the south of where I resided before due to a project that has requirements to work from the US. Crazy 6 lane roads with people sling shotting around the corner and looking the other way. Definitely feel like I am out of place walking and playing a real life version of frogger ;)
Lol. It was horrible me walking along the major roads in Houston the last time I went.
So insightful I love it great video
I have twenty years on you, but my thoughts are exactly the same. I'm really getting sick of all the materialistic BS and negativity in the States. Things have changed so much in my lifetime for the worst. People stay isolated and to themselves. Here in the northeast during the winter, it's ten times worse. I can't take it anymore!
I’m in the exact situation you explained, self employed and lonely due to the culture and how people are nowadays. I think this is what brought me to your channel like you said likeminded people. I’m 23, planning to travel to a few places then want to settle down like you did in a place where I’m most happiest. Who knows it might even be Colombia 👌🏼
The culture of the USA: trying to impress people who don't even know you exist. Lol I definitely agree with everything you said and could even add more to it based on my personal experiences. Thankfully I'll be leaving here soon as well.
This. As an european I noticed it is nigh impossible to have a normal, chatty conversation with most americans. In most of the interactions with them they either try to one-up you on something, covertly criticize you or use you in some way. It is really draining and it can end up making you cynical or antisocial.
@@jameswolf2464 so true!!!
Well done, David. Thank you for sharing your philosophy. Continued success and happiness my friend.
I was born in the USA and my parents and grand parents were not immigrants, so I have no ties to another country, and I agree with what you said about the USA. Actually, I'm going to start living in other countries and experiencing other cultures soon. I haven't decided which country I will ultimately settle in, it depends on what I learn from my travels and which will be open to me immigrating there.
I'm older than you and grew up in an America very different than you did. I'm not exaggerating, the culture was very different. The neighbors all talked to each other and entire street block would be like a family with everyone watching the kids that would play in the narrow neighborhood street. Even as young as 6 years old, I could walk a couple of blocks away to visit friends without my parents around. There was always an adult looking out a window, in the yard, etc, keeping an eye out for us. We walked to school without adults, sometimes a mile or more. The neighbors would gather in each other's yards, pull up chairs, and talk. It was an open invitation. You didn't need some flashy material possession to impress anyone, just good conversation. We also had lots of neighborhood activities involving both kids and adults, going to the lake, playing softball, etc. And adults having a beer when socializing outdoors was ok then.
Back then, politics didn't matter, friendships did. There were no school shootings. There was little violence and crime and no gangs, at least not in the small towns I lived in. I grew up in that America and had to watch this country decay over the decades. America can't continue in this decline without completely coming apart. I don't know when the breaking point will come, but I now believe it will years, not decades, and I won't be an American when that time comes, I'm done.
Hi, why do you think so much has changed? What caused it
@@britneyt9253 The long answer would take a thick book to explain. The short answer is the news media acquiring significant reach and influence. The problems started with Broadcast TV. It's first effect was turning western culture upside down in the turbulant 1960s. The problem magnified with the addition of cable TV rapidly increasing news and opinion stations and 24-hr news. The clck bait internet and social media has exasperated the problem and will significantly hasten the downfall of the USA that began in the 1960s.
Yes
A lot of Jealousy in America. You can trust no one here in the USA. Enjoy Colombia my brother.
I am from a country with a huge population and a culture where ppl meet each other a lot and a very strong family system. When we visited USA I looked at the streets and kept asking my sis as to where everyone was, so empty even the kids were not playing outside. The feeling of loneliness was very real and no amount of money and material things can replace that. 🤓
Sameeeee🥺
I hate it here!
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You so right man! I can relate! Thanks for keeping it real.
Thanks for your inspirations and educational information.
I moved to Spain in 1992. In 2021 I can safely say I will never move back to the states. My family stopped asking me when years ago. I always thought that living in the states was the deal until I moved to Europe. Your point about walking is right on. Here is Madrid there is so much to see when you walk not to mention the exercise. When I visit my family who live on a beautiful island on the coast of Georgia almost nobody walks. In fact, my partner and I were walking to the local super market 3 miles from my parents home after insisting to my mom that we would walk not drive. Some of their neighbors called the police to report two men walking in their neighborhood. The police asked us for I.D. and were firm but courteous. I have so many reasons for never returning to the states, now more than ever.
That's just crazy. The USA sounds like a police state if you can't enjoy a stroll in peace.
@@ninelaivz4334 It is a police state, for more reasons than just that. Looking forward to getting out.
Madrid is too hot for me I prefer Marbella
@@vivix3795 hahahah america is amazing you just go to the wrong places come to naperville illinois
@@ninelaivz4334 im on a river walk surrounded by teslas in illinois right now, 90 degrees and absolutely no issues
I've lived in San Francisco for 32 years and in that time, never owned a car. I'm a walker and this is one of the few bigger American cities with fantastic walkability,. After 55 years of living in this country, I'm looking at Colombia and a few other countries that offer a lifestyle that's healthy and well-balanced. I'd rather splurge on a fantastic meal or weekend getaway rather than the latest electronic gadget. And then there's the sad and unsettling reality that American culture has steadily gotten more coarse over the last 40+ years that imagining a future here is nearly impossible. Kudos to you for taking that brave step towards a future YOU wanted when you started your journey 6 years ago. And btw, I'm so glad you're making videos again!
@Westward Thinking Europeans are the minority on Earth
Come in Greece and you will be every day happy. There are some Vlog videos i make in my channel about Greece.
Go to bogota, you won't miss SF.
Westward Thinking Lets hope the American wont drag their drama queen culture to Europe.
@Westward Thinking Europeans are a minority in the US? sure, why should we move en masse to the States? We enjoy living in Europe...😆
Brother I have to make a video on why I will never return to the United States because you were spot on. The consumerism society and lack of interaction with people and women, and how everyone stays in their homes 24/7 is depressing. Here in Mexico you'll see people out and about on the streets and in the malls and doing good. Even friendly neighbors in my gated neighborhood who are all locals and I'm the only American seem to be nice. When I left Alaska 2 years ago, I didn't care if I'd end up on the street, I was never going back to the USA. Moved down here with 500$ and credit card. I have grown tons financially since this time and don't regret my decision. If you are reading this leave the usa. The recession will break off the middle class next year. Salute from the mexican caribbean 🇲🇽
I am with you brother David, well you are doing a terrific service what folks need to recover their lost soul and start discovering what’s life that one can truly feel all around with friendly faces and a laid back culture without that crazy run, run and dash to acquire things only to be discontented. Thanks for your wonderful, delightful vlog and lovely commentary from your heart. Lots of love, Best Wishes!
I think you nailed it. People seem to really isolate themselves in many parts of the US. In my case though I found my refuge in a small Midwest US town. I can walk, know my neighbors, and spend time in the woods (one of my many hobbies). Glad you have found your home.
You touched on it, but one of the worst vulgarities in the States is the waste. It’s apparent right away. 1. Leaving your car running to keep it cool while you’re in the grocery store (often unattended). 2. You never see clothes hanging outside to dry. 3. Leave the lights and television on all day from morning to night. 4. Never bother to open the window coverings. 5. Throwing good food away. 6. I was in Cartagena last week and watched a US family throw in the dustbin at least $10 worth of just purchased food at Juan Valdez instead of keeping it for consuming later. The irony is that the majority of the population is in credit card debt beyond control. They never can take vacations because they fear for their job or else don’t have any money because they waste so much. The list goes in and on. Great video.
@@gabe5892 Yes. It's called "bread and circuses"
They can’t take vacations because they’re always at work and the cost of air fare is OUT FUCKING RAGEOUS. You can’t even afford to leave the place. Lol
Wow I've never seen anything but #3
@@sevenpointsixtwo9707 exactly why I left 2 years ago. Most people won't make it out.
Everything you said is completely on point!
Fabulous video.
I live in South Korea and I walk eveywhere. The public transportation is top notch. I am glad to be overseas and I live very minimally over here.
Fantastic channel, bud. I left the USA when I was 26. I've lived and worked outside of the country for 36 years now and I would never voluntarily go back under any imaginable circumstance.
You speak of having a great childhood in the suburbs, so did I, but because of the cultural and societal changes you describe, much of what I knew and loved may be gone forever.
Cheers from a new subscriber!
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This is so on point!
Great video. Thank you for sharing your perspective. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
I moved abroad 10 years ago to a totally different country, yet the perspective is the same. When I'd go home to America I'd walk to the grocery store and receive stares from people thinking I was a homeless guy stalking the neighborhood.
Randomly came across this video. Took a trip to Bogota (and Sao Paulo) once in my early 30's. Immigrated to US from Nigeria. One of my biggest regrets was not going back to Colombia or Brasil. US is great, but I've found many people overlook some of the huge social problems that they wouldn't overlook elsewhere. Every place has it's pros and cons and I'm finally slowly starting to make my transition out (now with family). Great video my friend, thank you for sharing your experience.
I'm an Australian and I've been to Colombia twice, and love the people and culture. Australia is very similar to the States in that urban sprawl is a huge factor in the lifestyle, so much of what you said about the States is so applicable. I usually choose to live in the inner-city suburbs of my hometown because it's much more sociable, but you summed it up better in that it's 'walkable'. Even what you said about being frugal resonates with me. I'm not an aspirational person by nature, at least not where money is concerned. I'm hoping to return to Colombia this year but it's so expensive to get there from Australia.
I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?
True I'm in Australia been saying that for years I'm wanting to move from Australia now uset to be great not so much now over taxed and many other problems now.
painful because of how true it is. I'm here in the US trying to carve out the lifestyle you seem to have there. Sometimes it feels fighting against the grain but is doable step by step. And a recent move to the San Antonio metro has been healing, which carries a slow and peaceful vibe. Lots of family values and warm people here. But my heart breaks none the less because I feel the country is perishing under the weight of it's own problems. I pray that we have a change
Nice to hear Al the good things about Colombia even if they are bad experiences . You are cool guy and enjoy your stories ..
Been in the US for 42 years and my wife and I are planning to move back to Colombia in a few years , listening to you make me believe we are in the right track ..
Thank you for your good vibe and love to see happy people ..
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This was a really good perspective. Thank you for sharing it. I really don't feel like I fit in with the culture here in USA.
Omg… You look and sound paisa already! 😊. Thanks for this video. It gives me joy to find people openly talking about that feeling of being uncomfortable because you don’t fit the culture that you were born in, but at the same time you still love it and respect it. I’m a Colombian living in California… and after a decade, of what you described, the loneliness, the spending, and as a mom … the gun culture in this country where tragedies like Uvalde’s happens and nobody in power cares… all these reasons are finally pushing me to find a new place for me and my family. I love Colombia and always will but still not sure I want to go back. Thanks for validating these feelings we all expats experience to a certain degree.
Great video. Totally relate and agree with all your points. Seems like you're a living much simpler, happier life. I need to follow suit!
Glad for you that you found a good place to live, I moved 3-4 years ago from Brussels, Belgium to Barcelona, Spain and it's the same type of things that make me happy here in Spain
As a person living in the States all of my life I have to agree with you in that there is just way too much strife in our country now and it's just a shame. Of course there are a lot of good people here too but we have become so polarized and that is just a real tragedy.
David, I am so happy for you. The excitement is showing in your face. I am now in Japan with my family ad can relate a lot like you. Peace,, happiness, and quality of lifestyle so priceless.
Im in love with your Vlog 🙋, Looking forward to it 😇
You are absolutely right about everything you mentioned!
Going back to Serbia (Belgrade) after 30 years in USA! 😊👍
Just subscribed! And I feel the same way about living in the United States. I'm only back here to renew my passport and I'm out of here! I started my channel because brothers like you inspired me to tell my story. Great video! Keep cranking them out bro! 🍻🖖🏾
100% the truth. Great video bro 👍🏽
You have a new fan in me my bro. Thanks
This brother is speaking truth we as Americans have become so isolated especially during this insane COVID-19 Pandemic now. No one trust each other everyone is very parionard more than ever now. Neighbors do not speak or know each other. As he say we only truly see fake Happy people on the television selling us stuff that suppose to make us Happy. Having a strong Community is so important for your health and being part of something special
I live in Texas and many people are living a bubble life including me. .
Same here man.
Same here man you nailed it🤦♂️
Good. I hope this continues for the next, at least, 60 years. Too much ungodly activities and foreign people THINK all is free but forgot or take for granted the sweat, blood, and tears it took for the founding fathers to get us where we are....
A lot of them piggy backed ride....😡😡
I never understand why people don't walk, you miss all the life that is going in, walking is living
Can’t. Might get hit by a car and everything is so far apart in the USA
That was cool....keep posting your vids...
I agree with you, great video.
I can relate to feeling like walking is viewed as weird in some places in the States. I spent time in Houston and when I walked to the store people really stared with concerned looks, but I love walking, wandering, discovering and even getting lost on a walk.
Same!!
Wtf, walking is weird? Where do people get that idea.
Houston is not a great reference point for anything. We should not compare it to pretty much any city, it is an exceptionally spread out, weird, corporate and unfriendly city.
Houston is a mega suberb
Excellent video. I've been to Medellín and i could see myself living there. I appreciate your perspective on spending and understanding what really makes life happy.
YOU HIT THE NAIL ONTHE HEAD!
Love your channel
Wow great video man, pure truth.
I miss medellin so much, David is correct on everything he's saying. Walking to run errands is such a pleasure in colombia
You are so right about everything. I’m an American and I wish I could move away. America has turned to trash because of politics, greed. It breaks my heart.
you re a U.S citizen and we dont know about your race or ethnicity .
I wish you could move away too.
I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?
You can, easier said than done but you can, also repent and believe the gospel and believe in the Lord Jesus Christ believe He died and rose for your sins if you havent already.
I totally agree with you America has went to trash
Very wise brother right here! And well spoken, too.
Omgosh I’ve felt this way for so long now. I love to walk places and be outside. I’m so ready to move outside of the states. I dislike it here in Nevada. I’m so ready for a lifestyle change. Thanks for sharing your experience.
David you are so on point. Those are the same reasons I am looking to getting out of the States. And if all works out, it will happen in the Summer of 2022. And I am looking for the long-term, not the short term. Love your walking videos of Colombia. I have fond memories of my visits there. Wishing you well.
Great point about the car, Ive never had a drivers license in the US, thats why I like to travel to other countries because I can do things without a car. Also I like cost of living is a lot lower. I used to rent a studio in Thailand for $120 a month including free internet. Try doing that in the States 😁
Exactly. Hated having to own a car in Houston.
Hey, Charlie, I agree with you and I'm here in Mexico right now enjoying life.
The only thing that you will get in the states for $120 is the free internet LOL😂
@@selwyncallender399 $ 120 is just my internet bill in los angeles lol
@@LifewithDavid Hey I get you. Working from home and having to pay $200 or so a month in insurance when i hardly use the car sucks. As a naturalized citizen myself, I have to agree the isolation is depressing. I think the word you were looking for is "BUBBLE"
Thanks for the vid! I was pleasantly surprised when I reached my hotel in Laureles. Cosy and safe neighbourhood. Had the best chai tea there! Greetings from Singapore!
Great honest video...very useful, thank you! We are thinking similar thoughts as US residents and looking for options! Cheers.
Thank you, David. I thoroughly enjoyed watching your video. You nailed it -- lots of reasons to relocate to Medellin, away from the USA. I was on my way in August -- then was talked out of traveling because of Covid. Still, I need to go!!!
Huge thanks for making this video and sharing your experiences.
A couple years ago my daughter and I traveled to southern Costa Rica to help with a church construction project. I had no idea what I was walking into. I totally fell in love with the people, country, and culture - essentially for many or all of the reasons you've stated. The people and culture are more relaxed, family and community are really important, there's less pressure to buy stuff and fill your life with things, people tend to be friendlier and much less aggressive and confrontational, and the list goes on...
I'm working on learning Spanish. When we finally get the kids settled, there's a pretty good chance we'll move to CR. I don't hate America - it's my country, I love it, and I owe it a lot. But I love the deep sense of community and family in C.R.
And... I LOVE to walk.
Good luck.
Cheers, mate!
great video. And Laureles looks good. A friend said i should stay there when visiting