HOW TO RESPOND TO RUDE PEOPLE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
- How to respond to rude people: Rude people are the worst aren't they?
When someone is rude to you, you get an urge to strike back by cursing or swearing at them. But, you don't want to do that. Cursing and swearing is the realm of the unsophisticated and inarticulate.
In this video, learn TWO TECHNIQUES that will let you get a little dig or jab at someone who's being rude to you so that you make them feel a bit bad about their crappy behavior, and do that without going into the gutter.
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i hate it when people try bringing me down when im happy.
Jovo Teen Don't we all!
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very useful, It's more annoying when they're angry when you are being nice. very easy to spot their situation.
@Momin Deen Thanks for your kind words!
I find that taking a step back and cool off before I respond to a rude comment online really helps me come from a place of understanding instead of anger.
I can respect that!
When someone is rude to you it's a reflection of the way they feel about them selves!
For me, I just ignore it if it's a comment.
I would say thank you for talking right in front of me because it gives me a great chance to be sure of whom my backstabbers are and whom I can block from now on.
Just discovered your videos, marathoning thru them. Awesome stuff!
@NebuchadnezzaR I'm happy to hear that! Cheers!
I just want to deal with prideful and arrogant people
Thank u now I know what to say to those mean people
Littlecuite Wonder ;-; You're welcome. I can only imagine the look on their faces when you get them back!
It is a proven fact that people who swear are more honest and trustworthy.
Good advice!
THANK YOU VERY MUCH YOU CHANGED MY LIFE
Thanks Zaid!
IM assertive but sometimes aggressive if someone has really gone deep
Haha sometimes that what you have to do, but hopefully not often!
Love it! A little snarky trolly but respectful firm defense against rudeness from others. If they just met you or don't know you - most likely their rudeness is a "shit test" to determine if you are more alpha or beta... if they've consistently been rude to you, this is because you allowed them in some way or another (perhaps you ignored their remarks , chuckled and accepted them as not rude when they actually are, or they have strong prejudice against you). Regardless, you can always speak up for yourself - it's never too late, and may even shock them in a way that will help you and others...and possibly even them to realize they were actually rude when they weren't aware of it! Rudeness can be subjective for both parties - speaking up clarifies the reality.
I agree.
0:45 LoL
I can see someone ranting most of these on screen but vodka? affect_the_lives?
Nice video
Worse when it's someone you know (your own flesh and blood)I won't point no elbows but theirs this guy that treats his gf like royalty, but he's rude with everyone else. Maybe it's a phase he's going through. It's like it happened overnight.
Well at least they didn't say it behind your back
Thanks Min, I like your videos. Please keep them coming. Tim
Thank you for commenting Tim, people like you make the effort worth it!
hey great vid, short concise with no grandmother long story, effective too! Will smith could learn from you
Him "you're not gonna do that are you? "
Me :"Umm...yes I am ! Duh!" LOL !
Jokes aside, the older I am getting the less patient I am with rude people so I might need to watch more of your videos to learn how to respond without using slurs 😉
This is a good technique I like
Bro upload more like this,,you are good,,thanks to teach me something,,i never commented on a youtube video in last 6 yeras,,you are really good
Thanks for the kind compliment Gaurav!
Bro how do I respond to my friends getting rude/disrespecting me in front of other friends.
You can respond by understanding they are not your friends.
Very awesome ty use tysm!
People made fun of my hight it hurt me
Sad that we're gonna need this passive-aggressive skill now more than ever.
I only wish I had this and a lot other skills sooner.
It sure is, but a part of it isn't that the world has changed, but as we get older we start to see the world (and people) as they really are.
I feel so depressed. I'm a big joke.
Jet lee?
Hey Min. I've been watching your videos and reading some of your books. However, I've only learned how to deal with one-on-one confrontations. I am in a discriminatory neighborhood where an entire circle of adults gossips about and verbally attacks something important to my family. While we usually get attacked by individuals or pairs, they use social threats (like "everyone knows about _____") and onlooker support. I have tried to explain using reason and evidence, but the group effect seems to render this effective only for the extremely open-minded few. I have yet seen from your videos and books how to deal with situations like this. I am wondering how to argue with multiple people at once, and, most importantly, stop the gossips circling around. I totally understand if this is outside the scope of your expertise, but I was wondering if I could borrow some of your wit.
You're absolutely right, reason and evidence doesn't usually work in most situations. Reason and evidence only serves to embolden those who would attack you. I'd be interested to know more specifics about these group situations, do you mind PMing me at info@artofverbalwar.com and giving me more detail? I think this is an important subject!
i just say meh...
DONT JUDGE ME!!...
What if that is person is my supervisor
Then a different approach is necessary!
jet lee
Cool
Thanks!
When I'm in a game, I say "Dab on dem haters"
U look like jetlee bro
I've gotten that before!