Widow Goes Viral After Revealing Heated Text Message With Late Husband’s Mistress
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ส.ค. 2024
- A widow went viral after posting a text message exchange with her late husband’s mistress on TikTok.
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So we gonna ignore Garcelle saying “I’ll send her the funeral bill”
I can’t with her 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Omg 🤣🤣🤣
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I know!! That took me out 🤣🤣💯💯
ppl mad at the widow shows our society is losing touch with morality lol
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True. Unless she knew he had a wife. Then she is wrong too.
@@lalaalaaalaaaa Absolutely, some men would lie about they status. And the "mistress" found it all out putting 2 and 2 together, through all the lies. Well, if that ass... doesn't die before.
IT'S BEEN LOST FOR AWHILE !!
@@lalaalaaalaaaa I thought she knew about his wife.
If my husband cheats on me, I'm leaving his body up to the city. "Ma'am, can you identify this man?" Nope, sure the hell can't." 😒
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Girlllll
I cant. I sure hope it doesn't happen to you. Cant blame ya thou for saying that haha
Now that’s funny 😄
😂😂😂😂😂 girl same😊
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What Addrienne mentioned was my situation. MY boyfriend passed due to covid, found out a WHOLE lot of stuff that happened throughout the relationship and i was left there to both Grieve and be upset. Youre left there with so much more emotions and feelings than you signed up for especially because youre upset about the fact that you CANT be upset since he died.
Heartbreaking. It's almost as if you don't know who the person was and you begin to question "Am I mourning for the person or the person they pretended to be? Am I mourning a stranger?"
@@pjlav6304 exactly what I meant by you don't know how to feel. Am I angry or am I sad? And if I'm sad what am I sad about? Also what am I angry about as well
This broke my heart boo!! Praying you find happiness again with someone who would only ever leave you feeling loved and would only choose YOU!🥺🥺🥺💕💕💕💕💕💐💐💐💐
I’m sorry 😞
He didn’t die of covid. He died with an influenza strain so they’ve classed him as dying of covid. Educate 💡 yo self
This was funny I’m glad Jeannie is back the energy feels better when the whole cast is together
I came here to write this but you already beat me to it. The show feels better now that Jeannie is back.
Yes! I only wish Tamera was here I miss her
@@Lulwwa nah, we good with just Jeannie. I admire Tamera too though.
@@Lulwwa me too! still dreaming of the day she becomes a guest haha
Agreed.
Not saying it was bad. But with mrs jenkins back 😂😂😂 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 we in the game
If the mistress wanted to see him and say good bye or come to the funeral, then she better be paying half for the funeral, since he spent half his time with her. Funerals ain't cheap.
Yes if she is gonna have so much entitlement to ask to go knowing he had a wife. Then pay for the funeral if u feel like u the damn woman
It's true, funerals are bloody expensive.
So this happened in a nearby community of mine, the man died on top of his mistress while they were at it.
And the wife was like "he died at your house, on top of you, you keep him, you prepare the funeral arrangements and all, dont call me about anything."
She didnt know of the mistress until he died.
Good for the wife. Let the mistress deal with the burial. I will just collect the assets and enjoy my life
DAMN!!
Wooooowww lolol
I -💀 ok top of the woman !!!!!!
wow omg!!! clapping for the wife! perfect ending! died in his sin... lol... sorry but it's the truth
Loni looks SO good here! The makeup, the hair, the outfit, everything! 🔥
She does...Beautiful!
The wife was rude to the mistress?! That’s not her responsibility to tell her anything.
Honey, they said the mistress was rude .. Was getting a little smart.
@@superbluerock8327 They said both in the video.
@@superbluerock8327 I’m talking about social media defending the mistress
You said the wife was rude to the mistress, well can you blame her she's dealing with this woman's husband it's obvious the mistress doesn't care about the values and morals and honor of a marriage, if she has it sleep around with a married man and any person that condones this kind of behavior shows they don't have any respect and honor for marriage when the mistress found out this man was married and the man knew that he had a wife this relationship should have never started between them, so the man is just as wrong as the mistress so the wife doesn't owe the mistress anything if anything the mistress also wife an apology for fooling around with her husband
She has every right. I would not even text her.
This widow was being nice enough letting side girl he’s gone. The mistress’ entitlement here is astounding. I mean, how does she think she’ll explain that situation to all the grieving people there? She wants to cry with his mama, hold his auntie’s hand, and tell his widow “I MISS HIM SO MUCH!” and then eat the funeral food? Aw, HECK NAW. If she wants to come, she BETTER foot that bill!
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Right hold one of their kids while they’re crying. Makes no sense. I wouldn’t even have a funeral. The hospital can keep him. I’m not paying for anything even with the life insurance policy. He’s gone bye
Not the funeral food!!😆🤣
Grandma would probably be shaking her head saying "I told you he was no good."🙄😒
"...I can't do this again. He promised me."? He promised her that he wouldn't die? How many times has this happened to her?
LMAO
I laughed so hard at that
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To those who know the man is married and think he's going to divorce and marry u🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣more🤣🤣🤣✋wait let me catch my breath. IF, he does marry u... Guarantee he will creep on u🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I will never understand how people willingly have affairs with married people. How would you feel if you were the one thinking your spouse was loyal?
Are you kidding?
@@donnab8652 is there something fantastic about what she said?
Thank you for pointing this out. Just disgusting and when it happens to them, they are the most jealous and aggressive about that😂.
Everyone's wrong in the situation. The cheating man is wrong, that's obvious. The mistress is wrong too, that's also obvious (unless the cheating man didn't tell her about his wife, which, I could believe because if he's cheating, he's probably lying too 🤷♀️) And the wife is wrong for putting up with it (unless she didn't know, which again is highly probable that the cheating husband has also been lying to her too)
wow! unbelievable that many think the mistress should have the same privledge as the wife.
This hits home for Garcelle. Everybody heard about that infamous work email she sent to her ex's colleagues exposing him of cheating 😏 🍵 ☕️
I didn't hear, I may have to look that one up.
😳😳😳😳… oh… do tell 💅
Woe
@Dion Harder you didn't hear about this? th-cam.com/video/RyA0t5acGFo/w-d-xo.html
@@MrsHarder08 she talked about it on RHOBH her first season
Loni’s hair and makeup is FLAWLESS.
“HAVE COFFEE WITH THE BITCH!” lmaoooo JEAANNNIIIEEEEEE
Why was the wife calling the mistress 🙄
So glad Jeannie is back, that hair looks gorgeous on her! 🔥
Garcelle’s “yes she was!” 😂😂😂😂 I love these ladies!
Garcelle had me rolling this whole segment with her commentary😂😂. She just was so into this story and how crazy this mistress is. Jeannie said she wanted to meet the mistress to see what the husband promised her. Garcelle going say that he was not going die lol. I can’t with this whole group of women. I love them
So I looked into this story and turns out that it was a suicide death. So maybe he promised the mistress that he wouldn’t hurt himself. Maybe she’s dealt with that kind of situation before. Apparently he had been dealing with bipolar depression.
Damn I have no choice but to forgive him because if he committed suicide. He obviously had issues that were beyond me.
I'd never forgive him!
Men like him suffer because they cant choose. So then they are never fully happy no matter who theyre with. I know someone just like this. And he once confessed to me he had suicidal thoughts at times (and this was before the new gf). He ghosted me when he chose her and ever since has kept trying to come back to me. The first time he was able to convince me that maybe I was the one he did it again, ghost out of nowhere. Thats why now im the one who is ghost and dont even reply his texts. This story helped me realize that it isnt love and I am not "the one" he truly wants..its just his bipolar depression. And if I would have allowed it it would have caused me so much more pain. These men are dangerous. Stay away from them. You cant "help" them no matter how much you try.
@@sleepyandhollow. - Please be careful and watch your back! Also, don’t block his # just in case… you definitely want a heads up if someone unstable like that becomes desperate to see you
@@CocoCherie428 thank you for your advice. I had them blocked because everytime he reached out it hurt me. But youre right it is better to know
Jeannie is right. When infidelity happens a woman's curiosity is the first thing that comes to mind.
They were separated due to his mental health. Her husband was in a psychiatric facility for 72 hrs before checking himself out. He would disappear for long periods of time after a very heated argument. The wife had him stay with his parents in hopes that, he’d pull himself together. The wife encouraged him to go back to the psychiatric facility. As for the promise; he promised the mistress that he wouldn’t take his own life. He’s talked harming himself during the marriage. She wanted to approach him about his affair, but was afraid that the conversation would push him over the edge. He blew through all of their savings and their children’s college funds in Mexico.
O wow😫😳...the layers are getting worse & worse. Whew chile!!! Reston sir hopefully you can finally find peace. Blessings to the wife she has been thru alot it seems.
Wow thank you for the details. This makes a lot of sense now.
This man needed all the help he could get. It’s not easy being with a spouse who’s suffering from mental illnesses. The wife’s mental health is at stake as well as the children, and to add another person in the picture? That TikTok post was a temporary relief for her. I hope this family can peace.
Wowo
Oh hell no!
Garcelle, please never leave this show 😂😂😂
My cousin’s FIANCÉ fell out at her house and was pronounce dead…he had some kind of heart issue that no one knew about. She was so heart-broken and traumatized at the same time. They were together all the time.
She showed up to the funeral just to discover that she was the SIDE CHICK!!! 🤯 The family treated her like an outcast, she couldn’t sit on the front row or participate in any of the family ceremonial duties…it was terrible. The sad part is that she had no idea that he was living a double life.☹️
GODDAMN 😭
She never met the family prior to their engagement?
The difference to the real's story is THIS MISTRESS KNEW SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️PERIOD
Why would she be engaged to a man whose family she never met? Also she was never posted on social media?
oh my go-
This sort of happened to my mom with my dad when my dad died over 3 years ago his mistress showed up at the funeral an was sitting with my Aunts I didn’t know who she was but my mom did she made a little scene trying to get the mistress to leave
The nerve of that mistress! And lack of empathy!
@@kathleenkathleen6381 my dad’s sister knew her so she didn’t have a problem with it
@@KillaG3590 does your dads family not like your mom?
@@KillaG3590 and did they know of the affair before he died?
@@jordangaddis9207 yea my mom knew of the lady
I was kinda laughing with the girls but then I THOUGHT about something. This man gave that woman TIME and clearly enough LOVE that they had a long term relationship as well, just no title. Also to make this all the more clear, the fact that the mistress felt comfortable AND had access to call his wife tells me enough.
Its the wife who called the mistress to say her husband is dead. I don't know why the wife bothered but yes that is what lead to a series of text messages between them.
No. The wife doesn’t owe that woman anything AND the woman knew they were together. Hell no.
It's really the husband's fault. He left a mess for his wife. However the mistress knew he was married and still got with him and has this entitlement.
If you want to be single be single. Want to be committed to each other do that. Stop all these games keep it a buck. Decide if you want to stay or go.
All these open relationships is just a waste of time from individuals who either been hurt tragically or don’t want go through it. So they kinda commit.
I agree. Although 9/10 the cheater is a man and its because they like to have their cake and eat it too. Imagine if it were a woman that cheated? They'd drop her immediately. But they want women to be ok with them doing it. Ridiculous.
He promised me he would never die..🤣
What a difference with Garcelle.. she's Soo intelligent .and soo much fun!! Love them all together!! 💜💜
this look on loni is everything!!!! the dress, the makeup, the hair, colors just wow i love it!!!!
She must be in her villain era.. cuz that’s BOLD 😭😭! She said no mercy 🥴
Jeannie lmaooo!!! Girl. Garcelle “ and she was getting smart with the wife. She was. She was. “ 😭😭😭😭
Jeannie LMAO! I wouldn't want to meet with her but I get it everyone is different what all these ladies agreed on though was hell no to the mistress coming to the funeral. Seriously she had a lot of nerve and based on what these ladies are saying she was pushing this wife's buttons. I cannot believe people came after the wife instead of the mistress! Loni said it right this is what happens when you mess with a married man, you don't have those rights.
Is marriage about rights or respect the vows you made ? I would feel awfull to make a fist like that. Instead of : "you know what ? Now that piece of sh... is dead to me. Go cry on this body if you want. I will not cherish his memories".
@@oceaneo4603 She can cry when he is buried. She's the mistress meaning she is a woman of the dark, marriage is a covenant and she was not a part of it so she should stay in the dark and visit him at 1am when everyone left like she had been before when he was alive.
@@bookbag6432 Do you know some mistress are introduced to the family members, friends, coworkers and children. Every cheater isn't hiding the women they been with. Wendy Williams husband wasn't hiding his mistress, taking pictures, going on vacations, etcetera.
😂😂 screaming looolll “He promised you he wasn’t gonna die?”
So happy Jeannie is back!! 😍😍😍
Ohhhh Loni!!!! I love the hair!!
Ooohhh Jeannie!!! I love love the new look! I missed her so much!!
Loni looks AMAZING!! Those colors and her locs!! I’m feeling this look
I can say that Loni's meditation 🧘♀️ is really working...she looks so fresh. 👌
I wouldn’t even go to the funeral , that’s how mad I’d be . I would do everything I can to not pay for anything and have his family members pay for everything .
Not them mentioning the wife wasn't even together with him anymore in the last second 🤦
YES MS JENKINS ! Come through with the bob look ! LLOVE IT
Girl bye. I wouldn't tell that mistress a damn thing
SIDE PIECES HAVE NO RIGHTS!!! my aunt dated a married man for 15yrs she fell in love and the wife knew , and even encouraged it, when he got sick she allowed my aunt to care for him ?? when he passed away she didnt get a dime all she got was a broken heart and she had the nerve to be upset because his wife attended the viewing ! i told her you was a side piece
All of the ladies look beautiful, love the outfits!! Loving Loni's and Jeannie's hairstyles too.
I think people are deluded in their empathy because Carrie Bradshaw glamorized mistresses.
he should have found a way to communicate that he was deceased after all that was HIS woman not his wife's. lmao ADE I AGREE
When you love (screw, whatever) in secret, you grieve in secret. Find out where he's buried and go by your damn self to visit. It is what it is.
I think the widow was nicer than me... I would have waited until the funeral was over and then told her!
He did keep his promise he left his wife.. the mistress can have his spirit now🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just like I still am shocked and can't believe anyone would not only condone, but defend someone walking up & smacking a comedian in the face on stage & then screaming at them twice afterwards. WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE?!! Oh, yeah...3 of these people are hosts on The Real. Shameful.
Why did she even call the mistress in the 1st place.
The audacity of him to have an affair, and then die smh 🤦🏻♀️
I liked Garcelle’s point about splitting the bills. But then I thought, wait a minute. I think it would depend on what is left behind in terms of assets, insurance, estate, etc. If wife acknowledges mistress by saying hey help pay for the bills. Mistress might say that wife acknowledges my importance in his life and he promised me x amount, etc. So I demand my share of estate? 🤷🏻♀️
She can help foot the Bill if she wants. The only thing the judge can order is reimbursement of the funeral cost. When your married you assets go to your wife and children.
The mistress would be a damn fool to pay for the funeral of someone else’s husband. That’s the full benefits of being a mistress. You don’t pay his bills nor are you responsible for his debt. Your vacation trips are free. When your done with each other you can go your separate ways.
@@cocoa_goddess6101 yes I figured so. But I heard of a case where the husband put the mistress in the Will. There were no issues when husband died. They were not divorced nor separated. So settling the estate took some time. I don’t know what the outcome was. 🤷🏻♀️
@@Amaryllis-4U lol give the heffah his bills. If she wants something to remember him by. Car note, student loans, credit card. If I were a mistress I wouldn’t take that. If leave it to the family. I couldn’t live with myself taking anything from a grieving wife with kids.
@@cocoa_goddess6101 yes, that’s the least she can do! That is, unless she had a kid/s with him as well (I don’t know if that was the case). If so, talk about messy! 🥴
I like 😅😂😄 how Garcelle's just cracking everybody up 😧🤣 with her remarks LMAOO 🤣😂
This is EXACTLY what happened on the TV show Queens 😂 Eve played the wife. Such a good show lol
Garcelle has some fire in her after coming back from Spring break.. I'm here for it!!
I know of a man who left his wife for the mistress but when he got terminally ill, the mistress drpped him off to the marital home for his wife to take care of him!
Wow side pieces are only there for the fun times. Sadly is the wife always picking up the pieces
Garcelle with the I'd send her the funeral bill lmaoooo
I wouldn't have told her 1st of all. I would've waited til she contacted him and said we buried him already boo.
“Text him… stay in your game” 💀💀💀
Ummmm you’re an unwanted 3rd party in a marriage? Why would I tell you where he’s buried? Peoples’ moral compass are really screwed up nowadays.
I'm petty. I'd be like Garcelle!
yes come, let's mourn together 😭😭😭
Then, be like, here's the bill. 😅 bye ✌️
Why would a widow informed a mistress of her husband's passing....If you don't want her at the funeral, don't text/call her with that info
“Promised me what? That he’s never gonna die?” 😂
I have a friend, who is dating a married man, sad thing the mistress is always at the parties, the wife had no idea.
Yes! Tamar's mom said her dad invited the mistress to a birthday party he threw for her and to their anniversary celebration and she had no idea. She believed the woman was just his colleague. People are SICK out here. Then he married the mistress a month after they divorced.
But where was he during the 10 months?
All of the ladies look spectacular!! 💕
Thank you for "Making Sense."
The wife should have never ever made that call from the word go!!
What the heck??!! The widow is already grieving so this is insult to injury. The concubine is wayyyy out of order! Crazy
Lani, looks so pretty.
I follow her on Tic Tok and she can't go because he was cremated. So good luck.
I knew a man that died od a heart attack in the ER his girlfriend, side chick & ex wife were fighting over him.He was still legally married so the girl friend whom he lived with and the side chick got the boot.The ex got everything
why did the wife even inform the mistress? that's stupid.
Wow Loni that is definitely your look.
She lucky she even called her to tell her he passed!!😒
This is it, this is the cast ❤️
Lani love your outfit ...your makeup in that blush pink looks beautiful as well as your hair .❤️💕
If the widow informed the mistress, the wife must have known and been ok with it.
Well why the widow calling the mistress??? She might as well let her visit lol
Why did the lady contact the mistress?
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I betcha that funeral wit Lonnie's cousin and the baby mommas wuz A SHOW 😭😭🤣🤣
Loni looks so good like this
The Wife should’ve never called the Mistress to tell anything‼️
Lol this reminds me of the show Queens with Brandy, Eve, and Naturi the literal plot
F those people who think the mistress deserve anything smh WTH she is so bold and brave to approach that woman tbh after I inherited all that I deserved maybe she should go and I will go on vacation lol I would be so pissed at him esp if I found out about her after he died I won’t even bother to go the funeral call me crazy but I’m big on loyalty
Wait so she has the knowledge of the mistress and let her know but won’t let her pay her respects …….OK 😂
This is how the world is.Wrong is wrong and right is right.Dont.become a mistress.
"You know his name and HOPEFULLY his last name..“ lmfao
He promised her that if something should happen to him that she would be notified and that she would be able to speak to him before he died.
It’s entanglement nowadays… lol 😂
why even inform the mistress of his death then....
Why did the wife contact his mistress?? She opened up herself to whatever the mistress wants to say🙄🙄🙄
I loveeeeeee Loni’s hair 😍😍😍
Why tf would the wife call the side chick in the first place🙄. She ask to pay respect and you say no. Whyyyy did you call in the first place??????
I remember Loni telling this story waaay back😅 miss those days!
I found out my Highschool sweetheart was cheating the day he was murdered. I got a knock on the door with the notification and an hour later I got a phone call from the side piece. She wanted to know why I wasn’t acting out of character after she told me their business.
My reply: what do you want me to do he is no longer here? What would make you feel better? Would you like for me to yell and scream at him at the funeral? How would you like if I kicked over the casket? Would that make you feel better?
After I said all of this she had know words. Talking about I’ve been with him for 3 months. So, I had years, wasted apparently. What’s your point? I tell you, people are crazy. Asked how she got my number, she said something didn’t seem right, so she went through his phone.
I learned some very valuable lessons. Now I’ve been married for 18 years together for 20.
It sounds like she wanted to alleviate guilt in a twisted way by witnessing a mean-spirited side of you, possibly part of the lies your ex fed her. Instead, you were level-headed in an incredibly tragic scenario, so now she is left with knowing that she helped a guy deceive a nice lady. Guilt can manifest in strange ways.
why did she even tell her 💀
Garcelle is CRACKING ME