Is Your Man Unhappy? These Are the Signs You Should Check-In with Your Partner

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ต.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 178

  • @wildonez3076
    @wildonez3076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    It's too bad that the show was canceled. This is the best season since season 1. I love the quiet comfortable looking studio. I love the conversations.

    • @TheRealDaytime
      @TheRealDaytime  2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Thank you so much! That means a lot!

    • @wildonez3076
      @wildonez3076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I truly believe that this setup could work on the internet. The very fact that I started watching again says everything. If you guys could create this same exact, and I do mean same exact format ( color scheme, chairs, lighting) and just put it online you would have a loyal audience.
      And then engage the online community in the comments.

    • @eatzwithzee
      @eatzwithzee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@wildonez3076 These gals should start their own youtube channel and do this

    • @LTScheming
      @LTScheming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I completely agree.

    • @anisaantoinette6381
      @anisaantoinette6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@TheRealDaytime if you ladies still want to have a platform together as a “talk show” you should definitely start a podcast together! You’d already have a loyal fan base and therefore many listeners off bat and you’d work for yourselves

  • @HeatherSavonne
    @HeatherSavonne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Helpful Newly Wed Tips:
    1.) Weekly Date Night (no phones. no kids. doesn’t have to be a lot of money)
    2.) Monthly Recap (highs, lows, what can be improved? Compliment what spouse has done well that month.)
    3.) Communication is Key (read 5 love languages book)
    4.) Older Mentor Couple (a trusted married couple that you can go to for mediation if there is ever an unresolved issue, prayer, advice etc.)
    I can think of more but I hope this helps someone. 🙏🏽

    • @binibini7975
      @binibini7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Omg thank you for dropping these gems!💎 Getting married in 5 months❤️

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nice. I really like these tips. I did get a take away so thank you!❤️

    • @dani23dani85
      @dani23dani85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you!!

    • @Sino_Tee
      @Sino_Tee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this❤

    • @oneandonly3139
      @oneandonly3139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love these. More please

  • @anisaantoinette6381
    @anisaantoinette6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    if you ladies still want to have a platform together as a “talk show” you should definitely start a podcast together! You’d already have a loyal fan base and therefore many listeners off bat and you’d work for yourselves

    • @dawncullen0214
      @dawncullen0214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely! The filming would be more relaxed too!

    • @justelsie283
      @justelsie283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hope they see this!!! Even a TH-cam channel what they can film from their homes!!!! Like they did in Lockdown!

    • @nhcsuck42
      @nhcsuck42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope they see this comment and take up this suggestion!!

    • @Sid-si6iq
      @Sid-si6iq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg what a good idea would defo listen to this!!

    • @lylablueabdul5503
      @lylablueabdul5503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've never been a big fan of Jeanie but right here she got me. She sounds like a professional intimacy coach and I appreciate everything she said.

  • @faithoverfear6965
    @faithoverfear6965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    100% agree with Jeannie about sleeping together... so important and it's not just about sex

    • @Kinksgalore
      @Kinksgalore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Different love languages.

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I agree with Adrienne you definitely have to make sure you are willing to hear your mates response when you do ask and be willing to change !!

  • @Victoria-fz4oj
    @Victoria-fz4oj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I’m really sad this show is ending. Truly makes me so happy seeing how much the ladies have grown throughout the years.

    • @joannroshnieable
      @joannroshnieable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was thinking that as well while watching this clip. I truly love all these ladies and am glad I've been able witness their journey. I'm really going to miss their wisdom and authenticity ❤️ I wish them all well 💫

  • @KharisB.A
    @KharisB.A 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I applauded👏 what Adrienne said regarding your willingness to accept gentle critique or reviews when you ask your spouse/significant other about how to better care for them. And this goes for both partners. We shouldn't expect each other to be accurate mind readers. Again, you can't ask, and then when you receive an answer, you would get defensive.

  • @candygirl07ily
    @candygirl07ily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Adrienne was the most well-spoken, understanding, and empathetic person in this conversation

    • @GVFO87
      @GVFO87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeannie too. Based on what she said, I guess I'm about to get divorced. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @shashavengesayi6055
    @shashavengesayi6055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Excellent points girls. Which is why I have mad respect for a person who tells their significant other why they're unhappy instead of going off to cheat and receiving satisfaction elsewhere that is lacking in the relationship/marriage.

    • @fayepatrice1672
      @fayepatrice1672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I get why it happens. Honesty can be hard and sometimes the problem doesn't have an easy fix. What if they just aren't in love with you anymore, or that they aren't attracted to you anymore. Or that they met someone else. Maybe they have changed and want a different partner who suits them better now. I don't disagree with you, just adding my 2 cents.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    If your man getting irritated and reactive every millisecond… it ain’t cuz of stress from work alone! It might be that other woman 😂😂

    • @RosalieBaybay
      @RosalieBaybay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely

    • @lin-deehorne3143
      @lin-deehorne3143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😔...making me wonder now...🤔

    • @fashionstyle7349
      @fashionstyle7349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So so so true

    • @user-ve4zw6jp9i
      @user-ve4zw6jp9i 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg yes. That's why he's an ex husband in 2 months

    • @nitab5039
      @nitab5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts!! I use to tell him don’t take the anger you have for her out on me and he would act like it wasn’t another woman 🤣🙄 yeah okay. Found out later it DEFINITELY WAS! Lol

  • @missnlahi
    @missnlahi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loni has matured so beautifully being loved!! There's hope for all of us

  • @tomi.a
    @tomi.a 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    What Jeanie said is so important. Communing 👏🏾

  • @Godslight1970s
    @Godslight1970s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Jeannie and Loni, the article was about men, not women...this time. Therefore, it's not necessary to question "well what about women?" 99% of the time it's about us and our needs so let's check in with our men, they deserve it.

  • @steph_steph876
    @steph_steph876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    All points made by all the ladies were good but that point by Jeannie about eating and sleeping together sound so simple but carries so much weight.👏👏👏

  • @carlamoreno3213
    @carlamoreno3213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It would be nice if you guys made a podcast 😭 i can’t imagine a day without y’all and your advice🥺

  • @Beatrizbritoxo
    @Beatrizbritoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I’m sad that this show is ending ☹️ I don’t always agree with them but I enjoyed it since the beginning

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Working out together or starting a new diet or hobby helps reconnect too.

  • @oceaneo4603
    @oceaneo4603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Being unhappy doesn't give you the right to cheat on your partner.
    And they could be a conflict of interest, while telling your partner how or why you feel unhappy, which isn't a good sign at all.
    And I totally agree with Adrienne, you need to be prepare to hear whatever comes out of his mouth. And be geniune about it, 'cause he will know.

  • @IntroducingHolliNicole
    @IntroducingHolliNicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The key is respect. Do you lose respect for your partner if they vocalize what they don't like? Are you self aware? Accountability.

    • @nycolehutchens6233
      @nycolehutchens6233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!!

    • @ashtonv1730
      @ashtonv1730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!! Being self aware is a major key to healthy relationships across the board.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hard conversations make for a stronger relationship

  • @ibrahimadabo9417
    @ibrahimadabo9417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I don't totally agree with Jeannie with the sleeping together in the same bed to connect. That's very western and new. Married couples before, and still in some cultures, weren't always sleeping together and still worked.

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And those marriages aren't healthy

    • @ibrahimadabo9417
      @ibrahimadabo9417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Rokia2003 according to western standards..?

    • @jendub9892
      @jendub9892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Don’t agree w/Jeannie either. Me & my old man don’t sleep together bc of his snoring. We’ve been together 11 years and we are still madly in love since day one.😌❤️

    • @mika6516
      @mika6516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jendub9892 #thatpart

    • @aidasa3791
      @aidasa3791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Rokia2003 shut up. It has to do with communication. What THEY THINK IS OK FOR THEM

  • @reflectingtrees6173
    @reflectingtrees6173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love, comes and goes.
    Love, easy and hard.
    Love, tough and fragile.
    Enjoy life, it's so freakin short.

  • @loveydovey162
    @loveydovey162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loni been dropping GEMS

  • @starh.5122
    @starh.5122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loni looks so beautiful! 😍😍
    Hair and makeup on point!

  • @maryjustice5529
    @maryjustice5529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This show is doing so much for so many of us....I wish they could go back to having a live audience for the next season 🙏

    • @familytv9585
      @familytv9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s been canceled

  • @stacysissefahy287
    @stacysissefahy287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What Adrienne said in the middle of the video was beautiful. 💚

  • @khristinarivera4451
    @khristinarivera4451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loni has alot of wisdom! I'm going to miss hearing her persepective on things

  • @claudiakendra4938
    @claudiakendra4938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm sad this show is ending 😔 I've been watching this show on youtube since 2017 (6years) now and I can't believe I won't be seeing y'all together discussing issues 😩
    Anyways, I'm Claudia from Africa, Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @bgknowable
    @bgknowable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loni needs her own show. I heart you girl.

  • @Havanaa07
    @Havanaa07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I will miss you guys so much

  • @Ya_girl_tam
    @Ya_girl_tam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I've been married for almost 20y and I don't like sleeping and touching every night. I toss and turn and run hot and cold so I wouldn't dare keep my husband up with that lol. But we pray together nightly, kiss and we go on our sides 😆 🤣 but I do agree you need that check in time, weekly and make it a safe space for him to say what he needs to say. We do a weekly high and low which helps us keep it 💯

    • @NB-nh2sf
      @NB-nh2sf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Feel the same. Sleep divorce is very popular. And it doesn't mean acouple is on trouble.

    • @Lolee56
      @Lolee56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah that last comment was just her opinion based on her own wants and experience.. it wasn’t a fact. You have all day to cuddle.. you don’t need to lose sleep and become a living zombie to prove u love your partner.

  • @dg_71994
    @dg_71994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Amen Loni!!!!!!!! Been going through this for years.

  • @rainbowglazednights
    @rainbowglazednights 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I get Jeannie on the sleeping together comment, but I have never felt comfortable or slept well when sharing a bed with another. I have to have my own bed or know I won't be touched at all during that sleep to be comfortable.

  • @august21xp
    @august21xp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    As an individual I’m not responsible for any one’s happiness but my own !

    • @Msladyrae92
      @Msladyrae92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I believe the life coach was speaking in terms of happiness within the relationship. Is the partner happy with the relationship?

    • @Honey-hy2lp
      @Honey-hy2lp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I get where you're coming from, but this mindset is why some relationships are falling apart. People become selfish and just think about their happiness. People say relationships/marriage is 50-50, but honestly, its 100-100. Both have to give their all.
      No shade to them - but I remember Will Smith and Jada talking about how they're only responsibly for their own happiness and look where thats got them...

    • @fay9905
      @fay9905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Uhh so you don’t want to be comforted by your partner if you’re not happy? Thats what this discussion is about... no one is saying their happiness is the partner’s responsibility, just being there for them is important.

    • @danibaie
      @danibaie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow

  • @ernestogarcia7481
    @ernestogarcia7481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loni it's that kinda assumption that will lead to him being unhappy. You have to do the check up on him even if you "know" he's good.

  • @mariamsattar6502
    @mariamsattar6502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    So true lonie a lot of men avoud therapy

    • @user-en1zc5vd6y
      @user-en1zc5vd6y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Coz it requires vulnerability and men have been made to think that that’s weakness.

    • @alexiskeys9985
      @alexiskeys9985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-en1zc5vd6y Makes sense💡💡💡💡

  • @MrsBeasonBryant
    @MrsBeasonBryant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is one of the REALEST TOPICS EVER! I love every perspective from all the Ladies. I agree on so many levels. From the communication, receiving that critique, sleeping together... I can't sleep with my leg/foot tucked under my husband leg.
    I had to express to my husband it's not our toddler place to sleep in our bed. Sure when she was a baby when I was nursing her it was expected. But I want to snuggle and feel his body temperature rising on me at times. Only to have our little cock blocker in the middle sleeping like a capital H. 🤦🏽‍♀️ She's the ( - ) 😂 she's beginning to sleep in her sisters room.
    It breaks both my and my husband's heart to learn the show is cancelled. We watched it together. Everyday no matter what. Y'all should've seen the discomfort and panic when the show left Fox26 in Houston. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Only to be relieved of new channel and now sadden again. I'm praying God Blessed the Entire Staff behind the Scenes of the show as well as the Ladies on all Future Endeavors! ✨✨✨✨✨🙏🏽✨✨✨✨🙏🏽✨✨✨
    We Love all of you!

  • @lunaForever2020
    @lunaForever2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just because someone is unhappy doesn't mean their unhappy with there spouse/partner or relationship! They're still an individual with their own separate emotions and feelings and stress. Happiness and wholeness is not found in a relationship.

  • @xuxushushu
    @xuxushushu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ll tell you what it is. When you get with someone, purely for love, or a true soul connection, their well being will be your top priority. You wouldn’t even have to try, because you do what you do to make them happy and vice versa. That’s the baseline your love operates on. But when you get with someone out of necessity, or just to settle down with, you’re concerned with yourself and what you gain out of the relationship. A lot of people don’t have the strength, patience, or even the capacity for the first kind. That’s why many of them end up in unhappy marriages. Ask yourself, why do you love your partner? And if your answer is first for what they do to make you happy, then you’re not in love with who they are but for what they provide.

  • @samanthaspadeson1982
    @samanthaspadeson1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Can we get a girl chat podcast? It would be awesome.

  • @natashadame4397
    @natashadame4397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jeannie's point on sleeping together is spot on.

  • @paralegalkc
    @paralegalkc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Come on Jeannie! It’s a two way street!! Speak on it

  • @Missreepee
    @Missreepee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loni looking beautiful. That colour looks gorgeous on her 🔥🔥

  • @deem132
    @deem132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chile if the man gon cheat he gon cheat but yes you & your partner should be checking in often to make sure you’re both on the same page & happy.
    great tips from Adrienne & Jeannie!

  • @charmedgeek_
    @charmedgeek_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This used to be my issue in my past relationships. I was so self absorbed and was happy so I didn't notice the men weren't happy. I lived, I learned, now happily married and we make sure each other is happy.

  • @wildonez3076
    @wildonez3076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The key to marriage is forgiveness!! It's not communication!!

    • @foreverimmaculate6344
      @foreverimmaculate6344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Can’t forgive cheating. I love myself way too much to settle for a cheating husband

    • @AndreBenjaminswife
      @AndreBenjaminswife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@foreverimmaculate6344 EXACTLY!!! if, GOD Forbid, my man cheats on me, hurts me, or does me wrong I will forgive but will leave his ass in a New York minute

    •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AndreBenjaminswife “New York minute” 😭😭😭😭

    • @foreverimmaculate6344
      @foreverimmaculate6344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AndreBenjaminswife right!!!! Shooo! We ain’t Khloe 😩😂

  • @DEMETRIUSblaze
    @DEMETRIUSblaze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I as man think never been in love, or dating period or anything with relationships. Men are unhappy in many easy ways that I think society has focused on cheating for men so much till his mental health or emotional health is off key, no one really cares at times, I feel a woman should know the man you have, the man whose in love with you when he's not himself as you know him to be check in, It should be two ways the issue is for men is we can ask at times "babe is everything alright?' answer "I'm Fine" well men don't push normally women need the check in tell her man I'm not alright I have so issues my independent thoughts .

  • @Aprilleju
    @Aprilleju 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please Start a Podcast ladies !! I will miss you Ade Jeannie love y'all loni Garcelle love this balance ..

  • @njabulozungu2527
    @njabulozungu2527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These ladies were dropping gems! 😍 I hope the majority of society operates/communicates in manner🙏 This will cause a major shift in many aspects of our relationships and lives! Well done ladies❤️

  • @leigh930
    @leigh930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The topics on this show. These women are amazing!!!! I LOVE listening to their different views and opinions on topics 😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️ so so sad that it's getting cancelled. I've been a fan since day one!

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Start a Podcast ladies or a group TH-cam channel named 'Girlchat'!!! We're all here ready to subscribe... P.s i got the idea from a commenter below name (Anisa) 🥰

  • @Queenalika85
    @Queenalika85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agree with loni...your spouse can't be your therapist

  • @shaneelarahman484
    @shaneelarahman484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'll miss this show

  • @jennifercruz5956
    @jennifercruz5956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do a segment for: What do you think about people staying close with an ex’s family or friends years after breakup?

  • @olaraay
    @olaraay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:52 Adrienne channeling her inner Tamerisms

  • @Xtheearthchildx
    @Xtheearthchildx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Loni’s look here.

  • @stephanygomez8021
    @stephanygomez8021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don’t let your spouse become that old dusty toy lol phenomenal quote Jeanie 🤣💜

  • @twilightfan21212
    @twilightfan21212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In terms of sleeping together
    I guess it depends bc if you have a partner who snores like you don’t wanna share the same bed unless you have a bed or something that accommodates that

  • @venettatucker4
    @venettatucker4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We have that conversation: how are we doing, am I missing something to you and vice versa.

  • @jalondradavis2473
    @jalondradavis2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lonnie is speaking the truth. Yes we should check in with our partners and not always just be thinking about ourselves and that can be really hard. But we also aren’t responsible for one another’s happiness in life, some things as a partner aren’t your fault and you can’t fix.

  • @Lolee56
    @Lolee56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ummmmm… Jeanie’s comment about sleep is a stretch😂 people snore and sometimes people need proper sleep. Cuddling at any time of the day makes up for the “sleep”

  • @riseup6112
    @riseup6112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loni makeup is the best ive ever seen

  • @authenticyou17
    @authenticyou17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amen Loni!!!

  • @yazmin6279
    @yazmin6279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If the show is canceled, we need The Jeannie's show 😤 in addition to hello hunny

  • @clairedavis8564
    @clairedavis8564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loni!💜💜💜💜💜 Looking super PWEEEETY and Springy! 🌷🌸🌺🌷🌸🌺 Beautiful make-up as well👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

  • @elisemiller13
    @elisemiller13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mmmm, sorry, but sleep is Not restorative when you can sleep because your man snores and you're a light sleeper. It doesn't always mean there's something wrong in a relationship if you don't sleep together. Each has to work out what works for them

  • @ione97
    @ione97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love garcelle in yellow!!

  • @truelove-lo7fn
    @truelove-lo7fn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I got time today...dont nobody come in these comments being negative about my girls...just keep scrolling..cause I got time today!!!

    • @mjohnson6841
      @mjohnson6841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Handing out "Will Smith" slaps, huh?

    • @truelove-lo7fn
      @truelove-lo7fn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mjohnson6841 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂On Everythang !!!!! We ain't doing that about my girls!!!!! I don't have to be professional..so imma say what my girls wanna say..the hood way!!!!😂❤

  • @kaihuramercy1673
    @kaihuramercy1673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agreed!!! this is brilliant

  • @edithmariequinones5328
    @edithmariequinones5328 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jeannie is correct!! Even if the toes r touching!! Married 33 years and every night we have to touch arms, legs or hair if not we cant sleep!!

  • @justmemadison
    @justmemadison 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When we go to bed we cuddle and talk and whatever and when we are ready to go to sleep, we kiss goodnight and turn our backs to each other. Sometimes we touch our butts together, lol. Sleeping next to him is like crawling into a burning fireplace. The heat from his body -- I'm afraid I'm going to melt he's so hot. We both sleep naked which just makes it hotter...too much body heat when you don't have any clothes on to trap the heat. I feel like I'm suffocating just thinking about his arm around me or having my leg over him while we are sleeping...the sweat...not to night.

  • @orielicious
    @orielicious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    love this topic

  • @Carlyon100
    @Carlyon100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men should take responsiility for their mental and ekotional health. It is not on women to advocate for them solely.

    • @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd
      @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! It becomes draining when the woman is consistently having to check-up and check-in, but where's the how to and when to for men? I understand as women we're naturally able to care for others and multitask, but the effort should come from both sides. Ever notice if the man is not happy, there's so much advice on what the woman needs to do and how she needs to behave. Her needs tend to go overlooked and ignored while she becomes drained. Personally, men want to lead, they need to lead and allow us to follow instead of having to lead and follow all at once.

  • @crackedclan3651
    @crackedclan3651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guess it's over, call it a day
    Sorry that it had to end this way
    No reason to pretend
    We knew it had to end some day, this way
    Yes, it's over, the kids are gone
    What's the use of tryin' to hang on
    Somewhere we lost the key
    So little left for you and me
    And it's clear to see
    Too much, too little
    Too late to lie again with you
    Too much, too little
    Too late to try again with you
    We're in the middle of ending
    Something that we knew
    It's over
    Oh, it was over
    Too much, too little,
    Too late to ever try again
    Too much, too little
    Too late, let's end it being friends
    Too much, too little
    Too late, we knew it had to end
    Ah, it's over
    It's over
    Yes, it's over, the chips are down (whoa)
    Nearly all our bridges tumbled down
    Whatever chance we try
    Let's face it widened eye
    It's over (it's over)
    It's over
    Too much, too little
    Too late to ever try again
    Too much, too little
    Too late, let's end it being friends
    Too much, too little,
    Too late, we knew it had to end
    And it's over
    And it's over
    And it's over
    Too much, too little,
    Too late to ever try again
    Too much, too little,
    Too late, let's end it being friends

  • @honeyantionette456
    @honeyantionette456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just love y’all

  • @tsholo977
    @tsholo977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen Adrienne

  • @NarwhalFE
    @NarwhalFE 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    these women!

  • @ares7187
    @ares7187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s actually scientifically proven that hat couples that sleep separate are happier. Making sure they have time for each for intimate moments, but when they are ready for sleep. Separate works best.

  • @rstdot
    @rstdot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The problem is that when women suspect a man is cheating, they will muster all the energy and all the resources and all the girlfriends to find out what he's doing. Please bring that same energy when you think your husband is unhappy. "I asked him what was wrong and he said nothing" So what?! If you ask him "are you cheating" and he says "no"...that doesn't stop you from turning the girls into Charlie's Angels, complete with secret cameras and disguises.

  • @asefawsoliana5009
    @asefawsoliana5009 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I 100 persent agree with adriane

  • @ThePltsweet
    @ThePltsweet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm really disappointed with this show. Just when we were getting to know Garcelle. I remember her from the Jamie Foxx show reruns in my country. And she fit in so well here. Anyway, best of luck to the ladies in future.

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Relationships are RELATING communicating. If your Partner starts feeling bored or unsatisfied he should TELL you. But unfortunately that's when they CHEAT!!

  • @SiminaKiss
    @SiminaKiss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why am I thinking of the TikTok were the girl thought she invented something and called sticky bangs when I look at Adrienne.

  • @eveevolution1607
    @eveevolution1607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone believes in therapy but it’s really dependent upon the therapist! If you want to therapy and sat in silence 25 minutes out of the 45 then just know therapy is always different so if the first person wasn’t for you don’t think therapy isn’t for you! Understand it’s based on personal preference and stop acting because someone has a degree they automatically have the answers lol 😂 Get a second and third opinion before taken medication! If someone talks to u for 5-10 minutes and prescribes you something based off that they need as much help as you if not more FACTS

    • @justmemadison
      @justmemadison 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's dependent on the person and if they're really interested in getting the help of a therapist. That's not to say every therapist is a good fit, I agree, they are not, but the person seeking a therapist needs to know what their intention is when they go to a therapist or there is no way for them tot know if they are getting the help they need. Meaning, some people go without a goal in mind and expect a therapist to uncover all their demons automatically. It doesn't work that way. I also agree about the prescriptions.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gm edagdwg pay attention to what you feel about your wife or husband true love is real God blessed us to know each other as one don't give up your life just feel gods love with that person only god can bless two souls being blessed together linda j. Peace

  • @nappygirl8653
    @nappygirl8653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe the ladies can consider doing a podcast...

  • @kinghiggins5021
    @kinghiggins5021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree

  • @ImaDoWatIWant
    @ImaDoWatIWant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A guy cheating is because he is not invested / giving enough in a relationship. Not because he is giving so much and you are not appreciative

    • @justmemadison
      @justmemadison 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really? All men that cheat do it for the exact same reason?

  • @apurple86
    @apurple86 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fire the stylist please Loni

  • @madatu9496
    @madatu9496 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys what did u do if Ur man ask to block him bc u might not replying their message

  • @cleopatra667
    @cleopatra667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yall, id this show is getring cancelled, would you consider maybe starting a podcast together?? i cant imagine going about my day without my daily dose of you guys 😭💔

  • @juicienyad7582
    @juicienyad7582 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They should stick to just gossip... bringing up real issues and only give opinions and no real solutions etc... was very bad and pointless... glade they were canceled..

  • @kinghiggins5021
    @kinghiggins5021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She loves bragging about jeezy I hope I find a woman like that 1 day

  • @ReversedFeminist
    @ReversedFeminist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so annoying and why Jeanie is divorced now. The topic is about checking in on YOUR man not about YOU or the “vice-versa.” Grow up.

  • @loveafrica97
    @loveafrica97 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t believe Adrienne just bought a house because The Real came back 🥴 this is awful

  • @zohra_samizay
    @zohra_samizay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne shouldn’t talk your man cheated with his ex wife sorry

  • @Doctor.Dentista
    @Doctor.Dentista 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I married a non communicator. Boooooo

  • @karlay455
    @karlay455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adrienne is boring - show is too 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @renfax3549
    @renfax3549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is why this show is being canceled * just fake false and useless contents

  • @baldeonevelyn
    @baldeonevelyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad this show is getting canceled. Terrible

    • @_Diaryofwealth
      @_Diaryofwealth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bitter haterrrrrr

    • @wildonez3076
      @wildonez3076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gotta disagree with that one!! This is the best season!!