What Happens When Pride Gets in the Way of Your Happiness

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  • @Anas-rx1he
    @Anas-rx1he 2 ปีที่แล้ว +701

    I love Loni’s self awareness of her in past seasons. I know it doesn’t come easily or naturally to her but she’s opened up a lot more in recent seasons, and I appreciate her more serious and intellectual side.

    • @InspirationalSmiles
      @InspirationalSmiles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yeah she’s very smart not in just what she knows but the way she goes about presenting information

    • @Anas-rx1he
      @Anas-rx1he 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@InspirationalSmiles Yes you’re right, especially when it comes to presenting news and factual info, she has a way of simplifying it which makes it easy to follow.

    • @jasminefranc5889
      @jasminefranc5889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes yess!! This!

    • @eneshastringer323
      @eneshastringer323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We love you Lonnie !

    • @TravelingOnStardust
      @TravelingOnStardust 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I do as well! People forget that she comes from an engineering background and she should get props for that!

  • @desireev8798
    @desireev8798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    Pride will cost you everything but leave you with nothing.

  • @IsabelleMN11
    @IsabelleMN11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    I am so glad Loni embraced the decision to just wear flat shoes. This is really major and I don't know anyone else on TV doing that other that Whoopi sometimes.

    • @katy5362
      @katy5362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And Wendy Williams

    • @janejustin1788
      @janejustin1788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      true,,,, i see even pregnant talk hosts wearing very high heels and wonder whether they aren't uncomfortable

    • @carolanncraig3398
      @carolanncraig3398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@katy5362correct!!!

  • @stephanieshelton5813
    @stephanieshelton5813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I'm exactly Adrian when it comes to pride, I get embarrass easily so my pride don't allow me to put myself out there in fear of embarrassment

    • @jaydecampbell3499
      @jaydecampbell3499 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being shy is tied to Pride and the fear of embarrassment around people that you stay to yourself

    • @mrexecutive
      @mrexecutive ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adrienne

  • @kaki_karei
    @kaki_karei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Loni is really growing! Love it. Garcelle has changed the hosts and the show in general. Best addition ever!

    • @hav5959
      @hav5959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Garcelle really fits the dynamic of the show! She vibes so well! Love her!

  • @Kassandra_016
    @Kassandra_016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    If you’re reading this I hope this year you wholeheartedly believe that you are worthy & enough

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Pride is something that will easily make people sway away from you if have you too much of it ! Too much pride to apologize , to not have humility , to not remain humble… lemme tell you something having too much pride is the death of things that mean most to human heart !

    • @dilciaenid57
      @dilciaenid57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      🎯 pride is the reason I’m divorcing. Meaning the highest on the spectrum. A Narcissist can’t be married.

    • @ingrid8994
      @ingrid8994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯💯💯

  • @LiahB
    @LiahB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Loni’s growth is beautiful I simply love her!!!

  • @MrLoyalty2me
    @MrLoyalty2me 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Mannnnnn these girl chats be giving me life!! Thank you ladies for starting off the New Year with amazing topics!!

  • @madison.amariiii
    @madison.amariiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    “girl you 45 now” has me cryingggg😭

  • @rechemaroberts7031
    @rechemaroberts7031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I promise Adrienne and Jeanie's stories get me everytime LOL

  • @mayalicious203
    @mayalicious203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Loni’s take on the funny topic was interesting because the first person I thought of was her lol she definitely had a issue with knowing when to stop the funny and just participate in the conversation . Sometimes that can be overbearing because it seemed like it was her way of deflecting during deep conversations

  • @Queenblessful
    @Queenblessful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow Adrienne just explained me,I feel like I have miss out on so much just cuz I don’t want to come off looking dumb.The slightest detection am off.

  • @music-gs7qo
    @music-gs7qo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Come on Loni !!!!!!! Loving your journey

  • @NaijaGirl94
    @NaijaGirl94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Loni has grown soooo much! We love you Loni!!!

  • @christianrobinson8451
    @christianrobinson8451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Pride is a fool's best friend.... Great quote!

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Pride comes before the FALL and the sad part is prideful ppl be so prideful they don't know they falling 💯 😪

  • @nolyssa
    @nolyssa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Adrienne really hit home with this one

  • @takimahowze
    @takimahowze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There's a difference between Having Pride and being Prideful. I truly pray that Adrienne gets delivered from fear 😔 I love Loni!!! She's amazing this season

  • @sh1659
    @sh1659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yaaaaas Loni! Knowing your worth is important, pride comes before a fall! 💃🏽

  • @raejae5565
    @raejae5565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Adrienne and her "FUN FACT" 😂 There's a big misconception that smart guys are socially awkward and nerdy, the funny/witty guys are usually smart anyway - most comedians hold degrees from prestigious universities

    • @Joejoyoyoyo
      @Joejoyoyoyo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I know one with a masters in computer science… Loni herself used to be an engineer

    • @theoneandonly0099
      @theoneandonly0099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have to be smart to be able to think on the spot and make good comparisons between current affairs etc

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think common sense and street smarts can be helpful in everyday life but I don’t need a teacher or a mentor I need someone who can bring ease to my life and sometimes when time gets tough u gotta laugh to keep from crying so having someone in my life that can make me laugh… I’ll take that over anything else ! Laughter heals the soul

  • @teomt6015
    @teomt6015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WOW! Garcelle is so so so stunning

  • @vuyon5317
    @vuyon5317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    character is what will take u a long way in relationships. funny is a cherry on top

  • @rubykanja
    @rubykanja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I always start my day off with the real, this show is amazing

  • @oriade1889
    @oriade1889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Pride is unhealthy period. We can’t mix it up with self worth, dignity and principles it is not the same. The Bible warns against pride, so there’s no such thing as I have a healthy amount of pride. I love Loni’s perspective…

    • @ItsNicckster
      @ItsNicckster 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *pride offers a sense of protection from people hurting you. everybody has a little portion of it subconsciously. now if you live by it, then that’s unhealthy and can turn into ego and conceitedness. it’s good to have an even balance of humbleness as well*

  • @MaryBieber7
    @MaryBieber7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for the longer videos!

  • @ronwilliams5907
    @ronwilliams5907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    'Pride cometh before a fall' is also in the Bible.

    • @semmungrei4197
      @semmungrei4197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought she was going to quote proverbs. It definitely is in the bible.

    • @ages6592
      @ages6592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s in The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)"), which is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).

  • @josephlovely7759
    @josephlovely7759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Reading the room is important

  • @liana1019
    @liana1019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would have really loved Jeannie’s perspective on this! She expressed before that she’s a sapiosexual and is attracted to intelligence and I relate to that

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loni has really grown as a host. I’m eally loving her insight this season.

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Uff that was eye opening, I never thought it was about pride too only imposter syndrome. This gave me a new perspective on my own issues lol. 👏🏾

  • @goldenbeautytejeda6700
    @goldenbeautytejeda6700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have been feeling Loni for a HOT minute!!! I can relate with her 100%! I am very much appreciate a SMART person! I also love funny, I will take them combined but I am attracted to smart! Sorry very much not sorry. 😁🤣🙌

  • @lofisis7271
    @lofisis7271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was a child when Richard bay came on...he had slime on his show that's what made me watch as a kid

  • @britbritnicole
    @britbritnicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s the run for me 🤣🤣🤣 Yass I remember Adrienne was on there

  • @KandMRule
    @KandMRule 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Adrienne described insecurity not pride.

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The two are intertwined in a way

    • @KandMRule
      @KandMRule 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MJ-wc6nm This is true. My insecurity rooted in fear & shame that stemmed from childhood. It probably came off as being prideful. Haha...I don't know Adrienne but love the conversation that she's sparked.🙏🏼

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MJ-wc6nm you nailed it.

  • @lillyc5805
    @lillyc5805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Richard bay and then jerry springer were my favorites!!!!

  • @aizac.1979
    @aizac.1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving Loni's look right now 😍 Your makeup and color is bomb 💣

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Adrienne your getting pride confused with fear. It's your fear that stops you not pride. Fear of being embarrassed for example. In my opinion

    • @KandMRule
      @KandMRule 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fear and insecurity

    • @djidjine5082
      @djidjine5082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly! Pride would be if she thought she’s too good for the Masked Singer

  • @CrystalSicily
    @CrystalSicily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes. Life is to serious to be taken Seriously. Learn to LAUGH!

  • @jamarbooker8573
    @jamarbooker8573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yup different strokes for different folks 😂
    I loved that Loni I’m both funny and smart
    Also Adrienne’ you should encourage your husband to go to jeopardy

  • @roni6752
    @roni6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think I prefer smart people too. I value someone with views and emotional intelligence.

  • @hiboahmed8876
    @hiboahmed8876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There’s a lot different kinds of intelligence and smarts. For example I think ade is so socially intelligent, she’s relatable and funny and just so good at being engaging and knowing what to say to connect well. That’s a type of intelligence

  • @belunu4980
    @belunu4980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But Loni, I enjoyed your humour in the first season! Loved the first season.

  • @lalaycoco9467
    @lalaycoco9467 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “You shouldn’t be a shamed of your tv guilty pleasures”. This show is my guilty pleasure

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Reason i married my husband! He is hilarious 🤣😆😂

  • @alissabillings2292
    @alissabillings2292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember Richard Bey. He would hold a Mr Puniverse contest and a Ms. Big Butt. It was hilariously low budget but entertaining. Keep up the good work ladies. I love The Real!

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Arsenio Hall was always a blast,
    It felt like a party 🎉

  • @theimpactspacewiththeblack6999
    @theimpactspacewiththeblack6999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loni's sneakers are always dope mannnn!!!

  • @TheSMILive-fk3sp
    @TheSMILive-fk3sp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Actually what Loni is talking about is not intelligence as in IQ but she's speaking about Emotional Intelligence, which self awareness is a part of. Being able to read a room and know when to quit is a combination of both IQ and EI

  • @kendracosey
    @kendracosey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s not an “ancient Hebrew proverb,” Loni. It’s a Bible scripture found in Proverbs 16:18. 😊💕

    • @ages6592
      @ages6592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)") is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).

  • @43grantct
    @43grantct 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Remember when Loni was the DJ on the Ellen Show. She was funny and they kept asking her back.

  • @pinkcherryworld7073
    @pinkcherryworld7073 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne is a fashion Icon , she look amazing.

  • @tyeishamccaleb5520
    @tyeishamccaleb5520 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I definitely understand what Loni says about comedians or people who are extremely funny, not knowing how to read the room.

  • @bunkeeze1184
    @bunkeeze1184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The tresses on Giselle,so luxurious looking😍

  • @Im_LaurenB
    @Im_LaurenB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y'all been dropping a word in these videos

  • @LockedInNOW
    @LockedInNOW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You should Def have a good level of Pride , but not too much where you don’t learn and grow or unintentionally hurt yourself or someone 🙂 !

  • @user-os3gp6pv5h
    @user-os3gp6pv5h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LOVING THESE GIRL CHAT TOPICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @colette5413
    @colette5413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i want Loni’s outfit. she looks so comfy!

  • @CSBTelevision
    @CSBTelevision 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne, my sister and I would watch Richard Bay during the summer break.

  • @sattasana7753
    @sattasana7753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And you should have won Mask Singer Adrienne.
    Just I have put my pride aside and taken my current role..and now I'm pushing for and going to get my what I deserve

  • @JasmineJones-wh1tv
    @JasmineJones-wh1tv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My guilty pleasure is any cooking/food show.

    • @dilciaenid57
      @dilciaenid57 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is that a guilty pleasure?

  • @lydiamesfin2139
    @lydiamesfin2139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love loni, s comments.

  • @mercedesamour4611
    @mercedesamour4611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t get past Adrian’s outfit 🤣🤌🏽 maybe a cute Bob with this look.

  • @MargaritaNZ2024
    @MargaritaNZ2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pride & Ego are the worst traits lol

  • @ColibriDuNord
    @ColibriDuNord 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Noooo never let Pride go❣️ There's Pride , and there's ego.
    ~cheetah g@y 🌈

  • @ria_pseudovev0386
    @ria_pseudovev0386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This show is my guilty pleasure

  • @newnana9070
    @newnana9070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a prideful sister. She’s an expert on everything.

  • @Deerych
    @Deerych 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember Richard Bey!

  • @CatzWach
    @CatzWach 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pride vs prideful is a conversation

  • @keenahizuagie3306
    @keenahizuagie3306 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne wears all her Dads suits so nicely. Every damn time

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    pride and self-worth aren't in the same vein.

  • @semmungrei4197
    @semmungrei4197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, 90 days fiancé. Love that show

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great topic

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy 2022
    😊 Smile! ❤️

  • @santhy9963
    @santhy9963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the “woow” at 8:32 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀

  • @keba773
    @keba773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a word!!

  • @taneshareedkinard
    @taneshareedkinard 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loni!! I love your outfit. You’re just so beautiful.

  • @HabitualMender5
    @HabitualMender5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I miss the old Maury . Paternity test and cheaters are all it shows now. I remember so much the man or woman episodes out of control teenagers . Jenny Jones is a throwback ! loved it !

  • @tracibarnett2058
    @tracibarnett2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember the Richard Bey show.😭

  • @michelleh.3326
    @michelleh.3326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loving Loni ❤️

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like a "smart man" not a "smart ass" know the difference 😉😉

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams8093 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think a sense of pride is okay but having too much pride is definitely an issue. 😳

  • @CrystalSicily
    @CrystalSicily 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let's not confuse Pride being Proud of who you are and acknowledging that with Arogance. If your friends are envious of your accomplishments...you need new friends.

  • @moneytalk1987
    @moneytalk1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love just the three of them

  • @markoushayes2233
    @markoushayes2233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adrian that is me all day.

  • @tikawiththecurls
    @tikawiththecurls 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    90 day fiancé is an organized hot mess , Issa yes for meeeh 😂 !

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Richard Bey is from Queens and lives in Midtown Manhattan according to Wikipedia.

  • @EnterGalactica
    @EnterGalactica 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmfaooooo this was a great segment

  • @rainbowmocasin1
    @rainbowmocasin1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The scripture says pride is before a crash Proverbs 16:18

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG if the real has an episode like morey had with little nas x

  • @BigbossBonita
    @BigbossBonita 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats a great thing Israel did for Adrienne but on the flip side that is EXHAUSTING. I dont want to have to force my spouse to go for their dream. You need to be self motivated & i can add to that but if i have to do ir for you. That is exhausting. That is a job for a father not a husband.

  • @icandi804
    @icandi804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The gold nose on Loni is distracting me!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣

  • @UnpopularAdvisor
    @UnpopularAdvisor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne that's not Pride.. that's deeper

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was on Maury too doing re-enactments.

  • @jeanetteh.8393
    @jeanetteh.8393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loni is beauty and brains though too with her engineering degree lol but I'm with her I like smarts first 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @CJ-dg3bm
    @CJ-dg3bm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me too Loni. I really need a smart man because intelligence is definitely sexy.

  • @kcarjelly
    @kcarjelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is Adrian pregnant she’s been wearing a lot of big suit jackets if so I’m so happy for her

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She addressed this a few months ago saying she wasn’t pregnant and she just likes baggy clothes because they are in style. But I keep hoping that she’s wearing baggy stuff so that when she eventually does get pregnant, she can hide it until the pregnancy gets to a certain stage.

  • @truthfullytiggy5860
    @truthfullytiggy5860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love this show lol

  • @katherynrivera6336
    @katherynrivera6336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bring Tamera back!!!! All the ladies are great but I miss our sister we grew up with!!!!!