“Women are becoming a product of broken men.” TG So true. We have to fix ourselves and we cannot fix someone else who doesn’t want to be fixed. Mothering should be preserved for motherhood not grown men and boys.
52:00 "Your life is going to change You're going to glow. You're going to elevate. And you will be desired by men. You'll be desired by ALL men. But you will have the discernment to choose the man of God when he approaches you"
Thanks for this Tony! The last 2 guys I dated made comments because I don't have a butt like Kim Kardashian, Meg the Stallion, or Cardi B. I am NOT altering my body for NO MAN!! Neither of them went to the gym or ate right, but would side comments as to why I don't wear this or that. I have a average body build and it works for me. I am HAPPILY SINGLE and focusing on me and me only. Mind you they both got married to other women within a year of me breaking up with them. Good riddens!!!
Those famous so called women are actually demons in human form. Go look up the truth about those people you will find your answer sooner than you think. You can find that here on TH-cam when you can in your spare time. And don't worry focus on yourself and worse less about this world in general.
What are these men going to do after their wives have kids and their body changes? Smh. Marrying them was a huge mistake those women are going to regret that decision a few years.
I started listening Tony in June 2020. In October 2020 I started dating a guy I've been friends with for 10 years (yup I go against the rule). But I'm now engaged with the wedding in May 2023. Ladies listennnn to Tony's advice he showed me every area I went wrong in the past with men and I know it's brought me to where I am now with my fiance.
@@ebangoosa Aw I loved that you responded to this to remind me. Yes I'm very happily married. I do believe listening to Tony helped to turn things around for me. But also the man I'm married to is a good guy (I know everyone thinks that about their partners). He goes against Tony's rule but he's a good man!
I've decided to age gracefully, using minimum makeup no lashes, natural nails and wearing my hair natural. It's too expensive and time consuming on a fixed income.👍🏼
I was just telling a friend it feels like people care more about how they LOOK vs how they or the relationship feels. I feel out of touch, lost, and like i dont fit in. Even frienships are taking on this way.
Ladies! Be yourself, show your confidence! That is sexy! Set standard to what your most comfortable level for you. Men either meet you there or not. Honestly, it is simple than you think it is. Practice, practice. 😊🥰
Truth. I think women need a self-discovery journey. I see many women with false lashes, nails, body parts, and hair. It is getting to be ridiculous. Who told Black women that they aren't beautiful ❤️
This talk has made me appreciate my breasts. To think they so small I wanted to do a breast augmentation. Was even willing to take a loan for it. Thank you so much Tony for your wisdom 🙏🏾❤️❤️much love from South Africa 🇿🇦
The enemy has always hated God so when he sees us, children of God who love and live for Christ, he hates us! So he entices us with the bells and whistles and manyyyyyyyy fall for snare because of the voids in our souls. We have to seek the face of God always and the Holy Spirit will reveal these things to us. ❤
"If you want something different you got to be something different" amen Tony. Tony with this message is 💯 the realest. It's so much in this message that I need to hear right now. I guess I will get braces again instead of veneers.😅
I broke up with my bf today we are long distance Texas and California. He is an great person never called me out my name help me elevate my life & he was stepping up in my kids life. The only problem in the relationship is he couldn’t meet my non negotiable standards every time he saw an attractive white women he would literally dose off and stare hard eventually I started to feel insecure in my relationship and not good enough… we argue about this for months until I told myself “ let’s move on” which I was then after 4 months of not seeing eachother I was taking him out for his birthday and he side eye a white girl in a dress I felt so disappointed I went home and I left him . He did say for the 2 time that he was gonna change but my heart can’t take no more I will be draining myself tryna make it work when I feel insecure in the relationship.
@@nayagales everybody looks we all have eyes the issue was the disrespectful behavior. When a good looking man passes by I knowledge him cause he’s in front of me but I don’t sit there and constantly look that’s disrespectful in his presence or without his presence if I wanna be doing all that extra stuff I might as well be single .
Beautiful talk Tony, I’ve lost 40 lbs and kept off 5 years, 2 days a week in gym, just smaller portions cut down some of the junk and move it can be done!!
When you are truly satisfied with who you are you REALLY don’t care what others think of you. I am totally free from opinion of others… man or women. Do I get insults? Sure, but I just don’t care what other think of me. I just don’t care what they think 🧐
Thank you so much Tony for sharing your wisdom. I am a black girl who grew up in Denmark, without a father and never had any real male rolemodel or father figure. It is so comforting listening to you speak to us women with such brutal honesty, love AND respect. Much love brother!
Speak Tony! You have phenomenal analytical skills, in observations on both sides of the field. I will Never emulate a Man's actions regarding sleeping around, cheating, and displaying unworthy Grown Boy mentalities. No Man is worthy of me defiling myself in such a deplorable and demeaning way. I've decided to remain single, and content with God and Jesus!
Only Godly men and women can experience true love, respect and loyalty. Keep you eyes and intentions on God at all times. Allow him and make him be the center of your life and relationships.
Mr. Gaskin you said something that it seems society is going to great lengths to negate - " Women and Men are DIFFERENT! There are pastors of mega-churches and politicians, educators and SCIENTIST who avoid taking a stance on this absolute truth regarding gender. It's as if truth is becoming illegal! Kudos to you for the intestinal fortitude to speak truth!
Majority of people are missing the point. We are to dress for the Lord. Therefore, if you desire to be married, The Lord will send that person to you in due time.
Dressing in MODESTY. Amen...I have been getting convicted of this very topic. I need to pray before I get dressed on a daily to ensure I'm dressing to bring God glory not myself or man.
Tony, it is utter ridiculousness, I do not dress up for other men or women. I dress up for myself I refuse to be in competition with another woman or a man. And that’s exactly why I don’t care what another man wants or thinks to a certain extinct.
Right. Growing up women weren't allowed to wear alot of make up. Anything that doesn't look natural is not acceptable. Even with fake nails, they can't be long and be loud bright colors. That's why now I just wear mascara sometimes, and gloss
I know for a fact this message was given to you by God. My mom told me the same thing this week. She saw that my heart was turning cold & black towards men after my divorce. I have to get back to being my true sweet self.❤
I feel you Tony. My mom was a single mom, and I needed braces as a kid. My mom couldn't afford them. So at 52 years old, I have crooked teeth, and I never smile. My current dental plan doesn't include braces. So at this point, braces are out of the question for me. It is what it is.
Women need a hard reality check… stop waiting for this man that will NEVER come. You can’t pray & fast your way to it. Give yourself the life you wish for & desire. Most men can’t even if they wanted to.
Thank you. I've laughed at a Fellow that "made suggestions" for me to have augmentation 30 years ago when a brown paper bag was suitable for him to engage with. Fortunately, this concept of manipulation has never been a struggle at my place but I do acknowledge that these abuses run rampant to the detrimental of so many others. I got what I got and that's it that's all. I'd like to also suggest that "weight gain" could also be due to underlying infections or benign tumor. I have seen both so the Gym, may not address the issues globally. Take care of yourselves, Folks.
I’m not gonna lie, this hurt because I know I’ve been deeply hurt by men starting with my father. And I have given up on the idea of a good and real loving relationship. Or the idea of having a husband. This video brought me to tears. And I still don’t know if I can truly let this mindset go because of the pain and hurt I’ve gone through at the hands of irresponsible and abusive men.
This was good! And a lot of women should appreciate this information coming from a real man… and take accountability on lack of purpose and understand you are what you attract and when you are alone not wanting a relationship finding the time to build a purpose to better yourself and love yourself during the journey, men will come. That happened to me, I took accountability and worked on everything I wanted to change about myself and found my person when I figured it out. He will say his favorite trait is my drive and the ability to change anything I want!
It's nothing wrong with getting braces at any age. I got braces late in life too. I was so proud of myself. I joined the gym. Now working out on every Wednesdays, will add days as my schedule opens. Thank you for this message.
Your teeth are perfect! Veneers are crazy to me too Tony! No way! Hey Tony I'm low-key upset my parents didn't focus on me as far as skincare and dental care, but I try to improve as an adult. Gym gym bob
Hi Tony! Good news! Ive been googling this statistic for 3 years in a row, including right now and apparently there's more men than women by a whooping 44 million! Though this is expected to even out by 2050. So women can't use that as a reason to not have standards anymore
Thank you! We have been bogged down by the "not enough men" excuse. Now I understand this stat is heavily influenced by the effects of China's one-child policy. This is why travel is important. You don't have to get in a long distance relationship but see the plethora of men around the globe breaks that mindset. Especially black dark skin women!
We All fall short of the Glory, and struggle with fighting sin Every Day! God already knows This! Tony I am so Proud of your Godly Man Spirit and Realness to Always keep it REAL! God Bless You, Sheri, and your entire Family! 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾✊🏾🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾
This is honestly my favorite video from you, Tony. I love the videos when you speak to us women about our insecurities because it’s nice to hear that nothing is wrong with us naturally. It’s really hard for me as a 21 year old woman to fight these demons of vanity. I hope you do more videos like this in the future.
Thank you so much for this message Tony! I had a lot of these traits. I finally started praying for God to help me to learn how to love myself and that’s when my world was turned upside down. A lot of losses but the one thing I found was myself. We have to learn how to truly love and value ourselves so that we can be of help to others. That’s really what it’s all about.
I believe that I have become a "self lover" thank you Tony for that revelation. Not that I am vain but in the sense that I have had very traumatic situations with men in my life which has caused me to take inventory of myself and begin to love myself first. However, I have been so involved in self love that I have began to not desire to be loved by someone else.
Brother you broke this down so well that even a child could understand! I too have had some of these thoughts and have done some of these things! “But God🎉🎉🎉🎉Thank you🙏💙
Tony I always appreciate your time making these videos. Please extend my thank you to your wife Mrs. Gaskins and to your sons because you put hours in to give the Word of The Lord and guidance to walking in righteousness. There are good people like you making The Lord smile everyday and showing His Glory all the time. Glory to God!
I took a huge step today and got rid of all of my jeans , I fee like that's stopping me from meeting my future spouse. All I have are skirts and dresses now 😊 Division is definitely happening, and I want no part of it. I want to keep multiplying and following the path of righteousness. Recently took another huge step and stepped into church . They taught me a lot in just a few days !!! I'm here for the modest femine nurturing movement . 🙌 it's truly a battle and we're slowly letting the enemy win .
You are the real deal I reached out to another dating guru online and tried to book an appointment somehow that was ignored but a hey baby message I sent out of nowhere got a response. I’m so glad I finally can receive the valuable information you provide free of judgement and knowing as a married man you are not using your platform to secretly solicit female attention
I had to pause the video at 13:28 to say Tony you explaining the difference between being a lover of self vs self love especially when you mentioned that scripture about men becoming lovers of themselves you helped me to gain clarity of that scripture and helped me to see that there's nothing selfish about having self love as a lot of people make it seem. Thank you🙏🏾
Dear Tony and subscribers, I have been teaching for far too many years to have learnt and reminded myself and everyone, that it is okay to bloom at different times than those around you, therefore, there is no need to worry about what others do, nor compare ourselves with others, but be grateful for the improvements and progress that we make as we move on this journey called life, because, God has great things for each one of us, just do good, seek peace and obey God. Every flower blooms, each at different time and pace... but they all bloom, and the same God that created them, has created you and created me. Remember this always. Much love to all.
Tony God has blessed you with a very wise point of view. This lost world really needs you! Because of consistently watching your vídeos for a long time now, I have grown so much mentally. I'm becoming the woman I can be proud of. You touched on every important issue that is happening around us all. MAY GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOUR WORK AND FAMILY 🙏
Listen.... when this video first came up, I couldn't listen to it in full because it gave me a hard check and was taking away all of my reasons for having a daily pity parade and slightly hating on the success of others. I listened in full this morning, and I receive it!!!
Tony thank you so much for this message .. God truly meant this message for me and many others Im sure .. But the timing is truly amazing because I just recently scheduled a cosultation at Sonobello because I am now 50 and even though noone believes Im anywhere near my age and I still get compliments on my shape I have put on weight over the last 2 years but I admit I have not been working out the way I used to because I have been working from home I am just not active so I wanted a quick fix to get my pre covid body back .. So thank you fkr motivating me to get up and do it the right way. Thank you!! Love you!!
My Gosh Tony Thank You So Much Sir....👑🔥 I Appreciate YOU! 🤍 Thank You Thank You Thank You! This Was For Me For Sure! Absolute TRUTH! Undeniably So...Jesus 🕊🙏
These are all facts Tony! And this video is too much knowledge to be giving out free!!! But I receive this message!!! I appreciate it. I’m taking notes. I just wish women would actually start listening to you… but I think they don’t because women don’t want to hear the truth. I’m 24 and i wish i would’ve started listening when i was in my early 20s. But what you tell in these videos I myself started talking to others about what you teach. Implementing into my daily life. And also reference you. You’re knowledgeable. As I get older i realize how wise I’ve become because of your teachings. Thank You TG!! -Denise M Blessed Tribe member
I know it was meant for me to hear this simply because I haven't watched any of your videos lately I just felt a nudge to watch a Tony Gaskins video and HERE it is! You literally just uploaded this! Talk About A Now Word Wow!!! 🙏🕊💪🏆🤍 Tony You Are Appreciated & Honored Sir❕️🤍👑 Thank you!
Its moving in to the stepford wifes. Me and my friend was just talking about how relationships and how women are becoming more artificial. Losing the realness.
There are things I don’t like about myself, but I thank God he gave me a natural full size bottom, natural full size chest, and hips because I do not want to be amongst the ladies that risk their lives to have a voluptuous body. Gif is good.❤️
In the times we now live in, the Bible is definitely in effect. Timothy 2 Chapter 3 and ALL of the verses are being displayed before our very eyes! My deepest concerns are working towards being in numbers, when Jesus returns. But then I'm 61 going on 62. I Thank God and Pray for Everyone, to be touched and filled with the Holy Spirit, and become closer to the Lord.🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾
Morning Tony! On my two mile trail this morning sipping on my latte enjoying this message. I’ve heard women say this too! As for me and my house, I dress and groom myself for myself! When I walk into rooms I don’t seek attention but often get it because I’m well put together. I dress for who I am and where I know I’m going in life. I don’t wake up and get dressed to compete with another woman 😂 who does that? I’ve had a man approach and say y to me I was beautiful but that I looked like I had my stuff together so he wasn’t going to pursue me. I thanked him for the kind words and honesty and kept it moving. Me dressing for me either attracts the man for me or keeps the men not for me away.
This is true. Complacency and an unwillingness to push ourselves out of our comfort zone to commit to getting what we want. Instead, we take shortcuts. I also want to work on my body rather than consider surgery. The accomplishment I will feel by doing surgery won't compare to me doing it myself from commitment and dedication.
Too late society done changed us. We get judged too hard so we no longer care what others think. Just do your business and keep it going. :) woman bashing is real out here in society, in the workforce etc. Be gentle on yourself.
This was such a great message for women of all ages. God cares about his daughters so much and he wants us to know that when he created us, he said it was good. I sometimes think why would God give women various body types if only one type was attractive to men. It’s like we are so consumed with these beauty standards of what is considered perfect in the world. I remember being on the track team in high school and their were all different body types especially across the different events. Ofcourse usually a runner has a leaner physique but even our shock-put girls who typically had more weight on them had a nice figure because they trained and exercised regularly. I had to limit social media at some points because I began to feel I needed to have a certain look although I am actually healthy and in good physical shape. Ofcourse I can make improvements, I’m not in optimal shape but I don’t have to fall into some pressure of having a body type I was never meant to have.
Tony you're extending a lot of Wisdom, Truth, and Awareness on these issues, very very much appreciated. Culture & Society has only increased its pseudo versions of even basic communication & devices to so called "communicate" more efficiently *(example: the cellphone 📱. 😀 Obviously I'm not going extreme because its a inanimate object that's neither inherently good nor evil, but the possessor determines its usage either way. With a wealth of avenues to connect in reality we're actually connecting less than say 30 or 4o years ago. We're not going to throw out the baby with the bathwater but we do need to be transparent here. When 🤔 I've been out & about grabbing a bite, I've witnessed firsthand how although family members are seated awaiting their meals each member is in their own little world 🌎 on their own individual cellphone. That's a huge problem so in reality it unfortunately shows that we love embracing the concept 💡 of being connected, but in reality we actually are prizing phoniness, superfluous frothy friendships, and only that which caters to our shallowness, ambiguity, & pride, which is why we live in a 🤳 "selfie" 👏 "self-worship" society that's crumbling & imploding. Back to subject. 🧐 We've embraced culture, the majority of the entertainment industry, media & social media, as our *(gods/idols)ergo in serving them as our "master's" rather than to incure their wrath we spend money we don't have doing whatever we can to get it so that we can do whatever, purchase whatever, say whatever, alter whatever to fit into an ever-changing unrealistic bar that we'll never ever meet. It's very true about women 👗 🥻 👚 dressing 4 women because unfortunately we're socialized this way especially in 🏫 school although unspoken its sensed and implemented nevertheless. Its a form of establishing a "pecking order"🐓🐔🦃🦆🦉🕊🦤 I'm not advocating it just explaining it. It's also a form of "trendsetting" and a form of establishing one's identity and/or roles. Although 🤔 in reality its not realistic it doesn't subtract from it being organized even to detriment. Its very similar in how 🤔 males are socialized in that there's also a "pecking order" 🐓 🐔 🦃 🦆 🦉 as well, with each group males & females the tactics are just slightly different. Guys with their testosterone are gonna eventually get it out of their system and fight 😤 and move on, well many times unless there's a "gang mentality element" involved whereas weapons might be in that "gumbo." Now for females there's a lot of sneaky divisive tactical takedown whereas those that are popular and on top it doesn't have to always be a positive popularity it can also be a negative at the top tier. Ergo those desperate to be accepted, to fit in, to be known by association take on the slavery tasks of becoming incessant "people pleasers" trained to serve those who can give them the approval that they internally crave. It could be that at home they're either under duress, being ignored and/or feeling neglected because they're not the "proverbial golden child" or the "entertainer" or the preferred sex, have any type of disability or blemish which stands out, she might deal with having adult responsibilities to fill the gaps of family trauma, financial troubles, or parents that have a problematic relationship so that girl feels invisible. So she puts herself under the submission of hormone driven selfish gaslighting tyrant who really doesn't even actually know her own worth, because although she's popular on either extreme her family practically pays her to go away. Therefore the girls on the hierarchy are in Truth seeking affirmation from whatever their lacking and being in control over others fills the voids of her life outside of school 🏫 where her life feels so out of control. Although she may be beautiful, intelligent, & full of potential internally she feels powerless. So we deal with a lot and in between these prior mentioned issues are our liking boys which its all embroidered because these same mindsets unfortunately reside in these "starter relationships" 😒 and it's a constant repetitive cycle that's destructive, diabolical, and sometimes fatal. Also, it's very painful 😢 how many men even men in the Church share a code of superficiality with our sex, because taking the subject of women of color who rock their "natural hair." A lot of guys don't like that 😕 when a woman chooses to genuinely love herself and adorn herself a lot of times these same men won't even give her a "side eye" because they only want to get on board if they have this unrealistic straight of any of the "Housewives," TwirkCity She-Ghangsta uneducated loud disrespectful vain types. Don't get me wrong many of these women are very beautiful but they've learned to master hiding in plain sight to get what the can get but they're dying within trust the little girl within them has been constantly abused, gaslighted, lied to and lied on, and once the cameras stop clicking and the lights go off, they cry bitterly because the root of rejection, fear, depression, self-hatred, shame, regret 😢 stalk them like the shadowy predator it is. All the money & stuff, fame, education, sex/partners, accolades 🙌 cannot fill these voids nor give them back their GOD-given voices. Tony, thanks for genuinely helping us without bashing us or degrading us, truly telling us the truth, that really means so much. Cause real love isn't sugary frothy airless flattery. Real love will give you the truth and snatch you from Hell that's Real, it absolutely cannot faked because the Spirit of the LORD is initiating the correct response. His WORD clearly says to, "Believe HIS Prophets so shall you prosper" and Apostle Paul said that, "I wish above all things that you prosper even as your soul prospers." And, "Whoever receives a Prophet receives a prophet's reward." GOD continually Bless you Tony, your lovely Wife, your Children and entire family and all you both put your hands to in JESUS mighty 🙌 name!!!!!!!
“Women are becoming a product of broken men.” TG So true. We have to fix ourselves and we cannot fix someone else who doesn’t want to be fixed. Mothering should be preserved for motherhood not grown men and boys.
52:00 "Your life is going to change
You're going to glow.
You're going to elevate.
And you will be desired by men.
You'll be desired by ALL men.
But you will have the discernment to choose the man of God when he approaches you"
amen
Thanks for this Tony! The last 2 guys I dated made comments because I don't have a butt like Kim Kardashian, Meg the Stallion, or Cardi B. I am NOT altering my body for NO MAN!! Neither of them went to the gym or ate right, but would side comments as to why I don't wear this or that. I have a average body build and it works for me. I am HAPPILY SINGLE and focusing on me and me only. Mind you they both got married to other women within a year of me breaking up with them. Good riddens!!!
Those famous so called women are actually demons in human form. Go look up the truth about those people you will find your answer sooner than you think. You can find that here on TH-cam when you can in your spare time. And don't worry focus on yourself and worse less about this world in general.
Yes, good! You missed out on nothing.
That’s so wrong!💯 They’ll wish they had a real lady like you soon.✅ Amen💜💜💜
What are these men going to do after their wives have kids and their body changes? Smh. Marrying them was a huge mistake those women are going to regret that decision a few years.
I started listening Tony in June 2020.
In October 2020 I started dating a guy I've been friends with for 10 years (yup I go against the rule). But I'm now engaged with the wedding in May 2023.
Ladies listennnn to Tony's advice he showed me every area I went wrong in the past with men and I know it's brought me to where I am now with my fiance.
💜💜💜Amen🥰
Hope everything is going well
@@ebangoosa Aw I loved that you responded to this to remind me. Yes I'm very happily married. I do believe listening to Tony helped to turn things around for me. But also the man I'm married to is a good guy (I know everyone thinks that about their partners). He goes against Tony's rule but he's a good man!
I have learned to embrace my natural beauty and how God created me to be. In todays time your a unicorn 🦄 for this.
I've decided to age gracefully, using minimum makeup no lashes, natural nails and wearing my hair natural. It's too expensive and time consuming on a fixed income.👍🏼
I was just telling a friend it feels like people care more about how they LOOK vs how they or the relationship feels. I feel out of touch, lost, and like i dont fit in. Even frienships are taking on this way.
Ladies! Be yourself, show your confidence! That is sexy! Set standard to what your most comfortable level for you. Men either meet you there or not. Honestly, it is simple than you think it is. Practice, practice. 😊🥰
Period ‼️🫶🏾
Truth. I think women need a self-discovery journey. I see many women with false lashes, nails, body parts, and hair. It is getting to be ridiculous. Who told Black women that they aren't beautiful ❤️
😩😭🤦♀️.
Black men
We can't be beautiful AND do those things?
Black men
@@MWisdomWisdom Hollywood.. society..Black men..the media..smh
Thank you Tony. As a 21 year old, you have help me change my life and future for the better. You have become a father figure in my life, thank you 💕
Amennnnn
Because it’s pure jealousy and low self esteem with in themselves most woman needs inner healing and higher self esteem!
Thank you for reminding me that there is a man out there that is willing to wait until marriage.
This talk has made me appreciate my breasts. To think they so small I wanted to do a breast augmentation. Was even willing to take a loan for it. Thank you so much Tony for your wisdom 🙏🏾❤️❤️much love from South Africa 🇿🇦
My best friend of 37 years lost her life because of plastic surgery. 💔 It's not worth it ladies.
The enemy has always hated God so when he sees us, children of God who love and live for Christ, he hates us! So he entices us with the bells and whistles and manyyyyyyyy fall for snare because of the voids in our souls. We have to seek the face of God always and the Holy Spirit will reveal these things to us. ❤
Truth
"If you want something different you got to be something different" amen Tony. Tony with this message is 💯 the realest. It's so much in this message that I need to hear right now. I guess I will get braces again instead of veneers.😅
💯💯💯💜
Yes babe🤌🏾🫶🏾
I broke up with my bf today we are long distance Texas and California. He is an great person never called me out my name help me elevate my life & he was stepping up in my kids life. The only problem in the relationship is he couldn’t meet my non negotiable standards every time he saw an attractive white women he would literally dose off and stare hard eventually I started to feel insecure in my relationship and not good enough… we argue about this for months until I told myself “ let’s move on” which I was then after 4 months of not seeing eachother I was taking him out for his birthday and he side eye a white girl in a dress I felt so disappointed I went home and I left him . He did say for the 2 time that he was gonna change but my heart can’t take no more I will be draining myself tryna make it work when I feel insecure in the relationship.
Men are going to look but dang he could have at least played it off 🙄
@@nayagales everybody looks we all have eyes the issue was the disrespectful behavior. When a good looking man passes by I knowledge him cause he’s in front of me but I don’t sit there and constantly look that’s disrespectful in his presence or without his presence if I wanna be doing all that extra stuff I might as well be single .
This is a great message. Women did not think they needed all this 20 years ago, because it wasn’t accessible to most. Self love is key.
Beautiful talk Tony, I’ve lost 40 lbs and kept off 5 years, 2 days a week in gym, just smaller portions cut down some of the junk and move it can be done!!
I know a lot of women need to let God heal them
Yes....I have to be me....everyone else is taken 👍😁
When you are truly satisfied with who you are you REALLY don’t care what others think of you. I am totally free from opinion of others… man or women. Do I get insults? Sure, but I just don’t care what other think of me. I just don’t care what they think 🧐
Amen to that!! 💯💗😊
And its really none of your business of what others think or say its all about what and how you feel about you
💯✅✅&✅🥰💜
Thank you so much Tony for sharing your wisdom. I am a black girl who grew up in Denmark, without a father and never had any real male rolemodel or father figure. It is so comforting listening to you speak to us women with such brutal honesty, love AND respect. Much love brother!
Speak Tony! You have phenomenal analytical skills, in observations on both sides of the field.
I will Never emulate a Man's actions regarding sleeping around, cheating, and displaying unworthy Grown Boy mentalities.
No Man is worthy of me defiling myself in such a deplorable and demeaning way. I've decided to remain single, and content with God and Jesus!
💯🥰💜
Only Godly men and women can experience true love, respect and loyalty. Keep you eyes and intentions on God at all times. Allow him and make him be the center of your life and relationships.
Mr. Gaskin you said something that it seems society is going to great lengths to negate - " Women and Men are DIFFERENT! There are pastors of mega-churches and politicians, educators and SCIENTIST who avoid taking a stance on this absolute truth regarding gender. It's as if truth is becoming illegal! Kudos to you for the intestinal fortitude to speak truth!
Majority of people are missing the point. We are to dress for the Lord. Therefore, if you desire to be married, The Lord will send that person to you in due time.
Dressing in MODESTY. Amen...I have been getting convicted of this very topic. I need to pray before I get dressed on a daily to ensure I'm dressing to bring God glory not myself or man.
I was just thinking of doing a spring cleaning in my closet but imma also pray on that
Because of your outfit you can’t be that delusional
Tony, it is utter ridiculousness, I do not dress up for other men or women. I dress up for myself I refuse to be in competition with another woman or a man. And that’s exactly why I don’t care what another man wants or thinks to a certain extinct.
It’s funny I like my face even though I have barely any lashes, I feel different in a way that now I am unique for wearing my own lashes 🤷🏽♀️
Right. Growing up women weren't allowed to wear alot of make up. Anything that doesn't look natural is not acceptable. Even with fake nails, they can't be long and be loud bright colors. That's why now I just wear mascara sometimes, and gloss
I know for a fact this message was given to you by God. My mom told me the same thing this week. She saw that my heart was turning cold & black towards men after my divorce. I have to get back to being my true sweet self.❤
Mr. Tony, we see the weight loss. Leaner face and arms. Hard work paying off.
I feel you Tony. My mom was a single mom, and I needed braces as a kid. My mom couldn't afford them. So at 52 years old, I have crooked teeth, and I never smile. My current dental plan doesn't include braces. So at this point, braces are out of the question for me. It is what it is.
As a former dental assistant maybe look into care credit .. I'm not super familiar but I know you can finance certain dental work.
Ruth's elevated thought life was seen via her faith, and character which positioned her to be seen by Boaz
I LOVE MY BODY AND IM NOT CHANGING IT UNLESS I WANT TOO 🙌😊🤞👌.
This was so good!🔥 I almost cried when you said you are our brother in Christ, you have a pure heart! 💞💖 God bless you and your family!💞
Women need a hard reality check… stop waiting for this man that will NEVER come. You can’t pray & fast your way to it. Give yourself the life you wish for & desire. Most men can’t even if they wanted to.
Thank you. I've laughed at a Fellow that "made suggestions" for me to have augmentation 30 years ago when a brown paper bag was suitable for him to engage with. Fortunately, this concept of manipulation has never been a struggle at my place but I do acknowledge that these abuses run rampant to the detrimental of so many others. I got what I got and that's it that's all.
I'd like to also suggest that "weight gain" could also be due to underlying infections or benign tumor. I have seen both so the Gym, may not address the issues globally. Take care of yourselves, Folks.
Like an ant on bugs life” 😂 loved this message, cleaned my whole bathroom listening to this 😊
When I feel sad, I always come here. Thank you Tony for your
wise words always. God bless
I’m not gonna lie, this hurt because I know I’ve been deeply hurt by men starting with my father. And I have given up on the idea of a good and real loving relationship. Or the idea of having a husband. This video brought me to tears. And I still don’t know if I can truly let this mindset go because of the pain and hurt I’ve gone through at the hands of irresponsible and abusive men.
This was good! And a lot of women should appreciate this information coming from a real man… and take accountability on lack of purpose and understand you are what you attract and when you are alone not wanting a relationship finding the time to build a purpose to better yourself and love yourself during the journey, men will come. That happened to me, I took accountability and worked on everything I wanted to change about myself and found my person when I figured it out. He will say his favorite trait is my drive and the ability to change anything I want!
It's nothing wrong with getting braces at any age. I got braces late in life too. I was so proud of myself. I joined the gym. Now working out on every Wednesdays, will add days as my schedule opens. Thank you for this message.
I hear a voice crying out in this wilderness……
Your teeth are perfect! Veneers are crazy to me too Tony! No way! Hey Tony I'm low-key upset my parents didn't focus on me as far as skincare and dental care, but I try to improve as an adult. Gym gym bob
Hi Tony! Good news! Ive been googling this statistic for 3 years in a row, including right now and apparently there's more men than women by a whooping 44 million! Though this is expected to even out by 2050. So women can't use that as a reason to not have standards anymore
Thank you! We have been bogged down by the "not enough men" excuse.
Now I understand this stat is heavily influenced by the effects of China's one-child policy.
This is why travel is important. You don't have to get in a long distance relationship but see the plethora of men around the globe breaks that mindset.
Especially black dark skin women!
We All fall short of the Glory, and struggle with fighting sin Every Day!
God already knows This!
Tony I am so Proud of your Godly Man Spirit and Realness to Always keep it REAL!
God Bless You, Sheri, and your entire Family!
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Tony, this was outstanding. Thank you for the work you do. This message is so important for women to hear.
This is honestly my favorite video from you, Tony. I love the videos when you speak to us women about our insecurities because it’s nice to hear that nothing is wrong with us naturally. It’s really hard for me as a 21 year old woman to fight these demons of vanity. I hope you do more videos like this in the future.
Thank you so much for this message Tony! I had a lot of these traits. I finally started praying for God to help me to learn how to love myself and that’s when my world was turned upside down. A lot of losses but the one thing I found was myself. We have to learn how to truly love and value ourselves so that we can be of help to others. That’s really what it’s all about.
Amen 🙏🏾
@@goldencox954 🙏🏾
I am a person who was an adult braces wearer. April will be 2 years since I had them off. It was the same at 28 I paid for my braces treatments
I believe that I have become a "self lover" thank you Tony for that revelation.
Not that I am vain but in the sense that I have had very traumatic situations with men in my life which has caused me to take inventory of myself and begin to love myself first. However, I have been so involved in self love that I have began to not desire to be loved by someone else.
Brother you broke this down so well that even a child could understand! I too have had some of these thoughts and have done some of these things! “But God🎉🎉🎉🎉Thank you🙏💙
Wow, well said Mr. Gaskins. May the Good Lord continue to shower his blessings upon you and your family. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
😱 Nothing but the Complete truth here! 💜💜💜🥰
Tony I always appreciate your time making these videos. Please extend my thank you to your wife Mrs. Gaskins and to your sons because you put hours in to give the Word of The Lord and guidance to walking in righteousness. There are good people like you making The Lord smile everyday and showing His Glory all the time. Glory to God!
I took a huge step today and got rid of all of my jeans , I fee like that's stopping me from meeting my future spouse. All I have are skirts and dresses now 😊
Division is definitely happening, and I want no part of it. I want to keep multiplying and following the path of righteousness.
Recently took another huge step and stepped into church . They taught me a lot in just a few days !!! I'm here for the modest femine nurturing movement . 🙌 it's truly a battle and we're slowly letting the enemy win .
This was a breath of fresh air in such a dark time for women society.Thank you Tony!
Thank you again for this powerful insight Mr. Gaskins
Thank you for the message Mister Gaskins. May God bless you and your family🙏🏼💙🩵
You are the real deal I reached out to another dating guru online and tried to book an appointment somehow that was ignored but a hey baby message I sent out of nowhere got a response. I’m so glad I finally can receive the valuable information you provide free of judgement and knowing as a married man you are not using your platform to secretly solicit female attention
Thank you for being yourself 💯 needed this.
I had to pause the video at 13:28 to say Tony you explaining the difference between being a lover of self vs self love especially when you mentioned that scripture about men becoming lovers of themselves you helped me to gain clarity of that scripture and helped me to see that there's nothing selfish about having self love as a lot of people make it seem. Thank you🙏🏾
i understand women and men are different yet we can respect and show love just the same ❤
Dear Tony and subscribers, I have been teaching for far too many years to have learnt and reminded myself and everyone, that it is okay to bloom at different times than those around you, therefore, there is no need to worry about what others do, nor compare ourselves with others, but be grateful for the improvements and progress that we make as we move on this journey called life, because, God has great things for each one of us, just do good, seek peace and obey God. Every flower blooms, each at different time and pace... but they all bloom, and the same God that created them, has created you and created me. Remember this always. Much love to all.
Love this!
Beautifully said!
Tony God has blessed you with a very wise point of view. This lost world really needs you! Because of consistently watching your vídeos for a long time now, I have grown so much mentally. I'm becoming the woman I can be proud of. You touched on every important issue that is happening around us all. MAY GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOUR WORK AND FAMILY 🙏
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Thanks for the clarification, I never looked at it like that. Our indifferences , clearly shows that we are DIFFERENT! Good point!
Listen.... when this video first came up, I couldn't listen to it in full because it gave me a hard check and was taking away all of my reasons for having a daily pity parade and slightly hating on the success of others. I listened in full this morning, and I receive it!!!
Tony thank you so much for this message .. God truly meant this message for me and many others Im sure .. But the timing is truly amazing because I just recently scheduled a cosultation at Sonobello because I am now 50 and even though noone believes Im anywhere near my age and I still get compliments on my shape I have put on weight over the last 2 years but I admit I have not been working out the way I used to because I have been working from home I am just not active so I wanted a quick fix to get my pre covid body back .. So thank you fkr motivating me to get up and do it the right way. Thank you!! Love you!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🎉🎉🎉👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾❤🙏🏽another gr8 video!!! Smh Ty Tony!!!😊
Thank you mentor Tony !!! The work looks tedious but we keep pushing. God’s grace be with us all.
My Gosh Tony Thank You So Much Sir....👑🔥 I Appreciate YOU! 🤍 Thank You Thank You Thank You! This Was For Me For Sure! Absolute TRUTH! Undeniably So...Jesus 🕊🙏
Preach! Keep doing what God called you to do.
These are all facts Tony! And this video is too much knowledge to be giving out free!!! But I receive this message!!! I appreciate it. I’m taking notes.
I just wish women would actually start listening to you… but I think they don’t because women don’t want to hear the truth. I’m 24 and i wish i would’ve started listening when i was in my early 20s. But what you tell in these videos I myself started talking to others about what you teach. Implementing into my daily life. And also reference you. You’re knowledgeable. As I get older i realize how wise I’ve become because of your teachings.
Thank You TG!!
-Denise M
Blessed Tribe member
I know it was meant for me to hear this simply because I haven't watched any of your videos lately I just felt a nudge to watch a Tony Gaskins video and HERE it is! You literally just uploaded this! Talk About A Now Word Wow!!! 🙏🕊💪🏆🤍 Tony You Are Appreciated & Honored Sir❕️🤍👑 Thank you!
C'MON TONY !!!!🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Its moving in to the stepford wifes. Me and my friend was just talking about how relationships and how women are becoming more artificial. Losing the realness.
There are things I don’t like about myself, but I thank God he gave me a natural full size bottom, natural full size chest, and hips because I do not want to be amongst the ladies that risk their lives to have a voluptuous body. Gif is good.❤️
In the times we now live in, the Bible is definitely in effect. Timothy 2 Chapter 3 and ALL of the verses are being displayed before our very eyes!
My deepest concerns are working towards being in numbers, when Jesus returns.
But then I'm 61 going on 62. I Thank God and Pray for Everyone, to be touched and filled with the Holy Spirit, and become closer to the Lord.🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾
hhh...
exhausting...but really real.
Amen.
Thank you.
Yes that is exactly what I was thinking about peoples in general are getting farther away from God"s plan !
I thank God for his holy words
Morning Tony! On my two mile trail this morning sipping on my latte enjoying this message. I’ve heard women say this too! As for me and my house, I dress and groom myself for myself! When I walk into rooms I don’t seek attention but often get it because I’m well put together. I dress for who I am and where I know I’m going in life. I don’t wake up and get dressed to compete with another woman 😂 who does that? I’ve had a man approach and say y to me I was beautiful but that I looked like I had my stuff together so he wasn’t going to pursue me. I thanked him for the kind words and honesty and kept it moving. Me dressing for me either attracts the man for me or keeps the men not for me away.
Hi Tony keep on keeping it real. A lot of women are also over doing the lashes to where you can only see half of their eye balls.
This is true. Complacency and an unwillingness to push ourselves out of our comfort zone to commit to getting what we want. Instead, we take shortcuts. I also want to work on my body rather than consider surgery. The accomplishment I will feel by doing surgery won't compare to me doing it myself from commitment and dedication.
Tony, I thank you for your life-changing content!
Too late society done changed us. We get judged too hard so we no longer care what others think. Just do your business and keep it going. :) woman bashing is real out here in society, in the workforce etc.
Be gentle on yourself.
Good morning 🙌🏽
Confirmation 💫
14:56 people always trying to catch someone up. They hate convictions but want all the blessings. They go hand in hand.
Happy Friday! If you would like to bless him $TonyGaskins
This was such a great message for women of all ages. God cares about his daughters so much and he wants us to know that when he created us, he said it was good. I sometimes think why would God give women various body types if only one type was attractive to men. It’s like we are so consumed with these beauty standards of what is considered perfect in the world. I remember being on the track team in high school and their were all different body types especially across the different events. Ofcourse usually a runner has a leaner physique but even our shock-put girls who typically had more weight on them had a nice figure because they trained and exercised regularly. I had to limit social media at some points because I began to feel I needed to have a certain look although I am actually healthy and in good physical shape. Ofcourse I can make improvements, I’m not in optimal shape but I don’t have to fall into some pressure of having a body type I was never meant to have.
Tony I thank God for you,you're my little big brother with so much wisdom
Tony you're extending a lot of Wisdom, Truth, and Awareness on these issues, very very much appreciated. Culture & Society has only increased its pseudo versions of even basic communication & devices to so called "communicate" more efficiently *(example: the cellphone 📱. 😀 Obviously I'm not going extreme because its a inanimate object that's neither inherently good nor evil, but the possessor determines its usage either way. With a wealth of avenues to connect in reality we're actually connecting less than say 30 or 4o years ago. We're not going to throw out the baby with the bathwater but we do need to be transparent here. When 🤔 I've been out & about grabbing a bite, I've witnessed firsthand how although family members are seated awaiting their meals each member is in their own little world 🌎 on their own individual cellphone. That's a huge problem so in reality it unfortunately shows that we love embracing the concept 💡 of being connected, but in reality we actually are prizing phoniness, superfluous frothy friendships, and only that which caters to our shallowness, ambiguity, & pride, which is why we live in a 🤳 "selfie" 👏 "self-worship" society that's crumbling & imploding. Back to subject. 🧐 We've embraced culture, the majority of the entertainment industry, media & social media, as our *(gods/idols)ergo in serving them as our "master's" rather than to incure their wrath we spend money we don't have doing whatever we can to get it so that we can do whatever, purchase whatever, say whatever, alter whatever to fit into an ever-changing unrealistic bar that we'll never ever meet. It's very true about women 👗 🥻 👚 dressing 4 women because unfortunately we're socialized this way especially in 🏫 school although unspoken its sensed and implemented nevertheless. Its a form of establishing a "pecking order"🐓🐔🦃🦆🦉🕊🦤 I'm not advocating it just explaining it. It's also a form of "trendsetting" and a form of establishing one's identity and/or roles. Although 🤔 in reality its not realistic it doesn't subtract from it being organized even to detriment. Its very similar in how 🤔 males are socialized in that there's also a "pecking order" 🐓 🐔 🦃 🦆 🦉 as well, with each group males & females the tactics are just slightly different. Guys with their testosterone are gonna eventually get it out of their system and fight 😤 and move on, well many times unless there's a "gang mentality element" involved whereas weapons might be in that "gumbo." Now for females there's a lot of sneaky divisive tactical takedown whereas those that are popular and on top it doesn't have to always be a positive popularity it can also be a negative at the top tier. Ergo those desperate to be accepted, to fit in, to be known by association take on the slavery tasks of becoming incessant "people pleasers" trained to serve those who can give them the approval that they internally crave. It could be that at home they're either under duress, being ignored and/or feeling neglected because they're not the "proverbial golden child" or the "entertainer" or the preferred sex, have any type of disability or blemish which stands out, she might deal with having adult responsibilities to fill the gaps of family trauma, financial troubles, or parents that have a problematic relationship so that girl feels invisible. So she puts herself under the submission of hormone driven selfish gaslighting tyrant who really doesn't even actually know her own worth, because although she's popular on either extreme her family practically pays her to go away. Therefore the girls on the hierarchy are in Truth seeking affirmation from whatever their lacking and being in control over others fills the voids of her life outside of school 🏫 where her life feels so out of control. Although she may be beautiful, intelligent, & full of potential internally she feels powerless. So we deal with a lot and in between these prior mentioned issues are our liking boys which its all embroidered because these same mindsets unfortunately reside in these "starter relationships" 😒 and it's a constant repetitive cycle that's destructive, diabolical, and sometimes fatal. Also, it's very painful 😢 how many men even men in the Church share a code of superficiality with our sex, because taking the subject of women of color who rock their "natural hair." A lot of guys don't like that 😕 when a woman chooses to genuinely love herself and adorn herself a lot of times these same men won't even give her a "side eye" because they only want to get on board if they have this unrealistic straight of any of the "Housewives," TwirkCity She-Ghangsta uneducated loud disrespectful vain types. Don't get me wrong many of these women are very beautiful but they've learned to master hiding in plain sight to get what the can get but they're dying within trust the little girl within them has been constantly abused, gaslighted, lied to and lied on, and once the cameras stop clicking and the lights go off, they cry bitterly because the root of rejection, fear, depression, self-hatred, shame, regret 😢 stalk them like the shadowy predator it is. All the money & stuff, fame, education, sex/partners, accolades 🙌 cannot fill these voids nor give them back their GOD-given voices. Tony, thanks for genuinely helping us without bashing us or degrading us, truly telling us the truth, that really means so much. Cause real love isn't sugary frothy airless flattery. Real love will give you the truth and snatch you from Hell that's Real, it absolutely cannot faked because the Spirit of the LORD is initiating the correct response. His WORD clearly says to, "Believe HIS Prophets so shall you prosper" and Apostle Paul said that, "I wish above all things that you prosper even as your soul prospers." And, "Whoever receives a Prophet receives a prophet's reward." GOD continually Bless you Tony, your lovely Wife, your Children and entire family and all you both put your hands to in JESUS mighty 🙌 name!!!!!!!
This was so good!! Thanks Tony! We gotta put the work in and love who God made us
Equal rights dont mean men and women are the same biologically, emotionally and mentally. It means we want the same benefits.
This spoke to me! Literally a whole Masterclass. Thank you Tony for this much needed message 👏🏾
Seriously!! Great video!!
I appreciate this video!!!
On time word Tony. God bless you and yours.
Thank you for the message !
Blessings
Self reality check. Tony! True.
Thank you and thank God I’m young and learning this wisdom
Thanks 🎈🙏