What to look for in a man?
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"When you work on you, you attract your match."
A word!!🙌
He cracked me up when he said: “Jesus is the only man that is perfect and he’s not available for you to date” 😂😂😂
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jesus def aint available
This comment is sending meeeee😭😭😭
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I had to stop the video when he said that haha I can't with Tony!
One major thing I got from this message is this: Let your eyes be your questions and let your ears give you the answers.
Lonnica Darden yes! That is exactly right!
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That’s good!
Well said!
Lonnica Darden yup.
Tony's mocking women voice... Priceless‼️😂
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Too funny. It never gets old LOL
I 👏🏾 LIVE 👏🏾😂
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I thought I the only one he has me rolling with the voice.
"Every man you meet is going to have something about them you're not going to like, but is it a deal breaker?!"🤔 🙌🏽💯
I have 4 grown daughters. Ages 30, 27, 24 and 24 twins. I have been forwarding your videos to them for awhile now and they have tremendously benefited from your wisdom and so have I. I just wish I had this teaching years ago prior to marriage and divorce. You’re a blessing to me and my family sir. Thank you!!
Awww.... bless you Sis! 4 daughters close in age. I pray that they're close & take care of one another. ❤ I'm sorry, I'm kinda mushy at times but I'm an only child & just thought about how cool it would've been to have 3 more of me. 🤣🤣🤣
ThoroughbredDiva it’s not fun it’s a bunch of headache fighting over toys and clothes lol ugh 😩 but at least you have some to talk to besides your mom and dad
@@selenajackson1745 awww lol well hopefully kids grow out of that as they get older.
Good mommy ♥️♥️
Faith really is everything because it’s the basis for someone’s morals, values, character, and integrity. If he can’t pray, he can’t stay. 😉
I don't think you understand how much we appreciate your videos. I'm so mad at myself. I waited 8 years before getting Involved after coming out of a painful relationship. Now I'm right back at point A. Please pray for me. Thanku. Be blessed.
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What did you do while you were “waiting” you didn’t do the work you just waited
8 years here!
8 years is a longggg time
@Cee Thank you so much. God bless you too. 💕
“The adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny”🔥
Facts...❤❤
@elle Jaye, I believe the knows what you like better than you.
TONY: “You have to understand that you will never in your life, Never in your life, NEVER IN YOUR LIFE meet a perfect man...in Manhood, Husband-hood, Fatherhood, Adulthood, In NOBODY HOOD are you going to meet a perfect man.”
ME: Got it!! Now back to Tony’s words of wisdom. Be Blessed!!
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Drea yes
It’s the nobodyhood that got me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A Relationship with Jesus Christ alone, is very important. God will keep his child out of bad situations
Non negotiable
Amen
Black women love god but can't seem to stop having kids out of wedlock
@@nikkyshamz2696 so true i agree
Yes Amen so true
What is wrong with people telling you how to do your job/calling/ministry??? Sometimes I think those educational degrees and
'years of experience' make people arrogant. Thank God he checks the heart and not the 'titles' people hide behind. Lord help us. Thank God for your patience Tony. Be blessed.
Marsha G. Yes.
What I noticed is many people, don’t listen or hear God/The Creator or anyone else who speaks out of love. They screen what they accept of what is said.
Why do people get mad with the Truth and if you do not agree, you do Not have 2 . The Truth is the Truth no matter day, age, male or female! Come up. SMH
I’ve been derailed multiple times in my life.
Wasn’t listening to God at all. Got caught up in the lust of the flesh. My God. Help us Jesus.
Yesssssssaaaaa
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I would love to meet other people from the Blessed Tribe. Tony, you built a community. 🙌🏽
Hi. Angelique! I'm Tonya from St. Petersburg, Fl
me too!
I would also
Hi Angelique I was thinking that as well.
@@allaboutdasha1261 Hi Rondasha!
The pre-planned questions tho 😂😂😂😂
Who’s still looking for a Man💁🏽. Be happy w self
I am🙋 I will be 3 years single in March!!! I'm ready for my Boaz now!!!!💞💓👰👰
5 years deep..
@@reedbeans3653 What do u mean about 5 yrs deep??
Nothing wrong with desiring a mate! I am ❤️
It’s perfectly normal to desire a man. Doesn’t mean you’re unhappy because you want a man. You just want to be at peace so you’re not desperate for one.
30:25 ooooohhh (smacks lips)...well Tony this is what I'm sick & tired of...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony is a part time Comedian when he isn't doing Life Coaching!
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😂😂😂😂💀 i love him.. He's my big brother and don't even know it
Thank you for capturing the minute so I can replay and replay. Hilarious!
Yes, over 3 years ago I met a physically beautiful man, I saw him and the lust of my flesh screamed Oh my look at this Greek God, the most beautiful green eyes, height , build, exciting, he pretended to be so kind! God gave me a word of knowledge and I asked him about it, guy tells me the truth, I ignored it, I asked him if he was a christian he said nope! I ignored that too! That man was literally and with no hyperbole Evil! We were together almost 3 years I was blessed to escape with my sanity and life!! I learned my lesson!
He was a liar, a thief, compulsive gambler...... but he was fine🙄
@@missy3505 I stayed 37 years
7 day adventure😂😂😂😂...i love the humour that you add to the conversation it makes the truth easier to take...be blessed
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Right lol
Tony crack me up when he switches up voices and start talking about the religious sector and changes his personality 🥰😆😅😂💯‼️❤️🎯
Gurrrrrrrl😃
It is hilarious 😂 😂
I think one thing women have to admit is that we hate wasting time so if we meet a guy that checks all the boxes we start wondering if he the one and than again sometimes we miss all the tale tale signs that the man we are entertaining is not a good man because we trying to get ojt the dating market . I would say take your time ladies. He's on his way
Another good practical teaching. As a criminal justice major I have been guilty of interrogating a man just like we was on the first 48 or the game show 21 questions 😂😂 but thank God for the Holy Spirit checking me 🙏🏽
Be blessed, my deal breakers which I will never again compromise on are drugs, alcohol, cursing, smoking, spirituality, which all tie into character and INTEGRITY. I cannot be with any man that has questionable character and integrity point blank period! Men that are shaky in character and integrity are broke men in my eyes and a man that is solid in those things has real wealth in my eyes.
I told a guy on the first phone convoy " I notice you use alot of colorful language!" Lol
"Unto the Lord, we gon' get this candy in the name of the Lord" 😂😂
Be Blessed
God won’t send you a project ladies!!!!!!!
That’s a word !
Amen!!! A projrect will be prepared for someone else!!! Pray Pray Pray!! So you can make logical not a emotional decision!!!
Since I've been listening and learning about men I learned to be patient. Why because I've come to an understanding not all men grew up good or if they have they have not learned how to deal and love a woman properly. I also pray to prepare myself for my husband. I pray for knowledge, wisdom and understanding in learning and dealing with men. All that comes together.
I clicked with the quickness 🙌😂
Nikki Britt me too 😄
Yep Lol
Haha same, I clicked off the TV and clicked on this video immediately.
Same!!!!!!!! 😂
Loooooool I’m laughing so hard cause lately I’ve been
doing the “what would Tony Gaskin say” 😂😂😂😂😂😩
Omg..me too!
“Intermittent fast and starve”😂. That’s me right now, trying to work on the last of my three B’s!
PrettyTaurus me toooooo 😂😂😂
Good luck stay strong and pray you got this God bless you
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That one made me burst out laughing 😂😂😂 On top of that I have been intermittent fasting for almost a week now.
"In nobody hood are you going to meet a perfect man" 🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for the information , I just laugh so hard everytime
You ask all of the first 48 questions, he nails you to the bed and keeps it moving! Discernment is the key! Not looking for perfection. Tony G is a wise “man”!
You should know in the first 3 minutes or less if a guy is worth a second date or not.
Thank you for these videos! I’m 26 and never really had anyone teach me how to date or even what to look for while dating or marriage. In my mind your like Uncle Tony to me.
Tony, you’re my relationship coach that counsels me for free via your videos and books. Thank you for your faithful service!
I’m Seventh Day Adventist and some of us are strict and some live differently
we celebrate holidays in my church and for me the goal is to have a strong relationship with my Heavenly Father through Jesus while listening to The Holy Spirit that lives within me.
Chew the meat, spit out the bones. Be blessed!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your time and advice. I don't care if your videos are 30 minutes or more than 60 minutes. Your content is amazing. I'm working on my 3Bs simultaneously. Best part of video for me: The adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny. God Bless you and your family. Keep doing what you're doing!😊❤🙏🏾👍🏾
Love how thorough you are and give lots of examples, métaphores, stories to help your listeners understand the point.
“Overstand” - Love it.
Be blessed 🙏
My brother I appreciate you so much. The truth means everything and all of us single women need to be waiting on a man like you. Your wife is a very blessed woman.
Tony might be funny but that anointing is on him for real. Because he ain't never said anything that wasn't the truth. Thank you brother!
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I needed to hear this. In my professional life right now I'm facing this destiny vs distraction. And that last part was my life last year. I am now a single mom
Wait I can't 😂😂😂when you pulled put the interrogation list!!! I hollered🤣🤣🤣 with the first 48 checklist. I don't know if you're trying to be funny but its hilarious to me!
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47:54. “How am I going to be God and send you a man that don’t believe in Me the way you believe in Me?”
47:58 🤯 that hit me!
Thank you, Tony! I’m dealing with a guy like that now and I told him we wouldn’t work because we don’t have the same fundamental values and he totally ignores everything I say and tells me I’m only worried about myself and not what he wants! 😕 He’s def suffering with narcissism.
I hope you're no longer seeing this man! He's already DISRESPECTING YOU by IGNORING YOU!
In nobody hood ladies 😂😂. We are listening Tony!!
And Jesus ain't available to date😂😂😂😂
RealTalkWithKizzyRock 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmbo to myself I was like “nobody’s hood ?? “ dam 😂😂😅
Lol right!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this man has me cracking up
“God is not a man with a oxygen mask and special nose in outer space” lol 🤣🤣🤣 I lost it! Completely lost it 😂😂😂
I'm Seventh Day Adventist and I'm thankful to God to be one! Be blessed! ☺
Heyyyy "Nephew Tony". Thank for always being straight....no chaser. Be Blessed
Once again another video that literally spoke VOLUMES. The Father is using you Tony. Can’t say thank you enough. 🙏🏽👍🏽💯🤗
This is so freeing!!! So many of us put all these rules in place instead of just doing what we believe is the right way to approach relationships. Thank you Tony for making this so simple and easy to understand!
We have so many dealbreakers and I have been guilty of this. We missed out on a good person due to this. Tony I remember you said ‘Become Love 💕 and you will attract it.’ Be Blessed
I met a great guy but like Tony said I kept looking back and he kept it moving forward on my behind 😆 lesson learned
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Commenting and watching, but the most important thing is to know what your deal breakers are and determine if he'll be a good fit for your life. I agree interrogation is never 🙅a good way to collect this information.
Oh my goodness! It’s the best Sunday ever with Tony poppin’ in!!!
WALK BY FAITH AND NOT BY SIGHT 👋👍👌🙌🤗🙏💒👏 AMEN HALLELUJAH 👋👏💒🙏🤗🙌👌👍 PRAISE HIM
Amen
I ain’t ever heard some of these words Tony say - “argiing” 🤣Great info!
Tra Stephens
If I could spell the way he says “out”, I would. 🤣. He is awesome!
Tra Stephens I love when he says now you wanna “arg” 😂😂
Tra Stephens bol 🤣
"Bike" for Back❤
I'm mixed with maturity, education, two kids, and some hood ways. I can honestly say I don't know it all about men but I'm willing to learn. It will only benefit me in the future because what I have done so far obviously haven't worked if im watching this video.
I’m so glad you said God is the equivalent of the universe because I feel very connected to God and I always felt it was a spirit
Tony another phenomenal video , one thing I no for sure these mature women better start taking notes about these mature men, because they run game even better than the younger guys because they've had more practice. You are so on point the tip is not sharp enough. Keep preaching my brother, I'm 55 and listening on the edge of my seat. I will get married again and because of you I will do it right this time. Thank you, you and your family are a blessing. S
Such a good vid, Tony. Now I know how the belief system works. Took me 40 yrs to get here.
Mature and don’t understand nothing about a man! Now that’s a word! Thank you Tony G!💗💗💗💗💗💗
Am I the only one who says "Tony gaskins here" with him at every start of the video? 😂
your mother's favorite. I just wanted to “pop in” 😂😂😂
Oh “Ay this Tony Gaskins”
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Kenisha Perkins not your mothers favorite chillleee I’m on the floor! 😭😭
Bible says, Train a child the way they should go and when they get older they will not depart from it. I turned out just fine.
Provs 22 ; 6 jehovah is good all the time!
Thank you for the video..I am inspired and eager to learn more..Heres why: I am a single woman and Ibwas raised without my father and all the information your giving im getting it late in life, I still believe theres someone for me. I look at video to improve my thinking and outlook on Men..my view was distorted because of my up bringing.. Your classes and coaching I cant afford yet, Im working on my finances and myself.
🤦🙋too..but i did join the blessed Tribe ..its a start..❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾for us all
Mr. Gaskins, the more and more I listen to you the more plainer it becomes...simplicity is the 🔑 to unity!
Be blessed!! Tony is speaking the truth and nothing but the truth. “When you are getting ready to have a date with destiny the adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny” Experienced this for myself. The man had everything going for him BUT had absolutely no belief in God! I thought, “well he’s everything else I desire and he has a great heart.” No ma’am that did not work! As great of a person is if they don’t believe there is a God and you do, I promise you you will be bumping heads on a regular basis. Never again will I date someone that I can’t even talk to about simple things like my time with God
Nikki Rowland I agree with you so much Tony be blessed
Whew child the adversaries
May God continue to bless your endeavors, you're a blessing
Be blessed Tony, I am so happy to have you available to women for your sermons from God. We are so grateful for the time you commit for your purpose to actually help both women and men. God bless you, your wife, and family.
Be Blessed 🙌🏽
I'm ready for this.
Always get a good laugh and wisdom be blessed!
Tony, Tony, Tony! You broke this thing down today brother and I love it!💯!! I thank God for you and for this message!! Keep on allowing God to use you and being a blessing to His people! God bless you and you be blessed!!
The devil analogy..so true. Clear as crystal.
PREACH!!!
I come here just for your humor!! Love it!!
“Listen Bobby” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be blessed! A+ content as always!
Heyyyyy sister
🤣🤣🤣🤣. You're too funny pls do more of those women accents
This is Good.
Had to listen twice....🔥🔥🔥
This is a Word .
Tony you are too much!!!!!! Laughing my wig off!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Be blessed🙌!!! Great video Tony. I am taking notes.
Be Blessed!!!!!! You were dropping some good gems.
Powerful message... I've wondered for a long time where i went wrong and you just answered yet another question for me. I'm listening to the audio book "A Woman's Influence" and I've told every female that i care about, to get the book. I love your wife's humility and transparency in this book, none of us have it all figured out but she knew she wanted better for her life and she clung to her beliefs God worked it out for y'all! You guys are truly sent from above! Thanks again!
Thanks!
I guess this video is for singles w/no children. I’m single with children but I’m still listening.
Tuned in. Bless you Tony!
4 minutes in, and I hit the like button! The truth is the truth & he was speaking it!
Be Blessed Tony and Your Beautiful Family!!! Your videos are the best gift! Don't listen to people who said your videos were too long or whatever. You're amazing!
"Work on you and you will attract your match... destiny... adversary will send... blocking your blessing..." 👍 Got it. Thank you, Tony. Be blessed.
Such truth and conviction.
Be blessed tony! The woman who wants a man who listens to classical music is doomed unless she separates non-negotiables from the negotiables. I’ve learned to value things in a man that align with how we will raise our children and how we live. Although i know it’s alright to have certain foods in moderation, i can’t be with someone who eats trash every, single day and doesn’t even want to try to eat clean. That plays a big role in raising kids. Majority of the time, our eating habits comes from how our parents ate/what they gave us.
So true! If once in a while he eats badly that’s okay. Cheat days are good. But everyday/multiple times a day? No!
Be blessed ... Another on time sunday word.
The truths hurts you were speaking to me. My ex husband was a atheist and I am a Christian now I’m a single mother. I’ve learned my lesson I’ve been single and abstinent for the past 6 years. Can’t get a decent date in church or out of church if I’m not willing to have sex.
I’m not a Christian and I believe when we remove sex from the equation it removes clouded judgement. As a society we place too much significance on a practice that involves vulnerability and trust by offering this sacred moment to be made casual.
There is nothing casual about SEX. EVER!!!
jackseve Agreed
LaLa Amen
Be blessed my brother.Keep preaching and teaching. Lol Tell your wife thanks for letting you help the sista out.
Wooooow... Tony YOU BETTA PREEEEEAAAACH @ 45min!!! But especially starting at 47.45! My God I felt the wind on that! Thank you for letting the Lord use & speak thru you like that. The flesh is so real, & that's why discernment, mastery of our emotions and patience are so key for us women. Can't act out of desperation or from the place of loneliness. "Refuse to compromise"... because the consequences of falling victim to the flesh can be life long or take YEARS to recover from.
Woo Tony Tony! That last bit was for me!! Thank you thank you! My son will indeed recieve the blessings of Ishmael! Thank you Tony for your obedience to the Holy Spirit!
Had to pause video, he said nail you to that bed🤣🤣🤣,ok back to the video...
You're right Tony I know I blocked my blessings. I need to work on ME. I have so many thoughts and distractions😫. Date with destiny -> Boy that's deep🤔
This is definitely your calling.
Be BLESSED 🥰 GOD is REAL
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"BE BLESSED!" SPOKEN TRUTHS ...THANK YOU, TONY GASKINS! point...blank...period
This video took me 3 days to digest! There is so much TRUTH in EVERY word. Thank you for this💜
😢what a word in this message. Thank you for speaking on this. This is so necessary to hear. Mr. Gaskins, I think you should also speak to young girls. As the mother of two little girls, I try to tell them these things to avoid the pain I have been through. How I wish my father had sat me down and told me these things at an early age.
Sha Ruiz Excellent idea. Or maybe he could do one to moms and dads on what to tell their kids to prepare them.
Probably same stuff he’s already saying here. 😂
Hey Mr. T, I've sent my guy friend 2 of your videos. Since then He's changing like The Tramaine And Walter Hawkins song. It's a start. Praise The Lord
Yes Tony preach to me. This video got me shouting I'm in tears because your words were on point. Thank you
Tony G-Be Blessed!! “ those distractions that look like destiny” Whoooah!
Thank you-I hope these ladies can understand this !!-