Whispering Acts yup this happen to me and oh this girl thought she was the “prize” but he also put her through hell also and told her she was a waste of time and called her a ho but I tried to warn her but she didn’t wanna listen, she thought she was better than me 🙄 she would try to make things up about me and wanted to fight me over a grown boy that was still trying to talk to me🙄🤦🏽♀️ they didn’t last and their relationship got so bad she had to move 5 hours away from him that’s how bad it was
Three most important points in this video: 1. Get you some self esteem and stop chasing after a piece of a man. 2. When a man leaves you. Put your track shoes on and run as fast as you can and don’t let him tell you twice. 3. Toxic relationships leave you with a stench that the next person my not be able to stomach. Get rid of it! Glow up and move on with your life. . Amen Tony! You said that..
when a man tells you he doesnt want a relationship/marriage/children etc. it means he doesnt want a relationship/marriage/children etc. WITH YOU. when he says he doesnt want a elationship/marriage/children etc. that is your cue to walk away immediately because he just told you that YOU are not good enough and you are just a place holder until he decides to get married to somebody else.
That is @Carlene Morgan, that is my dilemma now. He says he wants me to be his wife n the mother of his kids, yet he’s ghosting n coming back like nothing happened, and asking me to give him time...
“No more raggedy relationships. If you were meant to be together you would be, because real love stays together... no breaking up and getting back together”
I feel as though women already know they shouldn’t be in these situationships but they ask the questions anyway, because they want someone else to validate what they already feel or know. But the truth is no matter how many times you tell them, a woman will only leave once she’s officially tired and exhausted. Period.
I enjoy mine. Probably because I’m not seeking a relationship with him. He fills a need. I will drop him like a bad habit if I meet someone worthy of a relationship which he is not. Good for sex though. I don’t expect a man to be what he’s not. Looking to make those type of men more is what got me hurt. I treat him and all men in accordance with our relationship. No love without reciprocation.
@@indicajane4721 No offense but why would a real man respect a woman who entertains situationships? He will be looking at you like you are weak and have low self esteem.
Ended my 2 year situationship almost 3 months ago. Tomorrow will be 90 days no contact. He reached out to me once asking if he could apologize, it was on voicemail and I did not respond. I'm very proud of myself. Although I love him, I know he isn't ready to give me what I desire and I'm not about to wait around or stick around to see if he ever will. I just can't do that to myself. So thanks Tony for confirming my decision and encouraging me to keep moving forward because it's not easy.
Thank you. I just think of why I left and knowing he hasn't changed keeps me moving forward. I have some tough moments, but I keep my focus on my future. You can do it too.
Kee H it’s definitely not easy! I’m sort of in the same situation. Mine has been gone for 6mo and he’s now coming back around and he sounds like he is in a different headspace. But honestly I’m just going to watch his actions and make him work for my attention! No more old me and just giving in
@@PrettiRissa that's exactly what I'd do! Maybe he has changed, but he needs to prove it over a period of time and you should feel like he deserves another chance. If you really love him, I hope it works out for you two, but always put yourself first!
Tony preached that. I found myself in a situationship, I ask him what was he looking for & he said friendship and we'll see where it goes. In my head, I said you not going to keep me in the friendship zone, for the next 5, 10, 15 years while you are trying to figure it out. So I blocked him. Fast forward 3 months later, after my brother passed he shows up on the scene again with the same foolery but the difference was this time I told him that I wanted to be married, & I don't have time for your shenanigans. Now he wants me to come over hang out by the fire pit & drink some wine. I told him I have my own fire pit and my own wine, I don't need you. Every now and again he will text good morning or have something to say, boy gone with yourself, I'm over it. ✌️
Men like that only want to waste your time. You told him exactly what you wanted and it’s obvious he doesn’t want to deliver. More power to you sis!! 💗
I would MUCH rather accept that another woman has him than to hold on to him and never receive my blessing. I've seen the promised land!!! Nothing else will do. I don't feel like that at all. I sincerely thank you Tony. Be blessed.
The most important keywords in the video is "HE UNDERSTANDS." So many women continue arguing, lecturing & nagging men to death, assuming there's no way these men are aware of the damage they're causing. Ladies THEY know. They just don't care. Their love for meeting their own selfish needs outweighs any respect or love they may have for you. These men aren't powerless, clueless beings that are unaware of the damage they're causing. THEY KNOW. Accepting that hurts so bad, but it'll set you free a lot quicker. Why? B/c when you think a man is doing something b/c he doesn't know any better, it's in a woman's natural nature to spend the time to break it all down & go to great lengths to make a man understand. Problem is, 99% of the time, you're just preaching to the choir. These men are fully aware of what they're doing & to a degree, can we blame them? For every fuckboy, there's always a low self-esteem having chick who's chasing him, wants him or refuses to let him go. Those men have no reason to evolve or change b/c there's always gonna be a "you" around that enables them to continue being fuckboys with no real long term or life-altering consequences. And yes staying with a fuckboy is not only enabling him, it's REWARDING him for bad behavior. Just remember ladies, when a man betrays or disrespects you, it's not b/c they're not aware of what they're doing. Oh they know. It's just that our pride & egos struggle to admit that the man knew of the possible consequences & yet took the risk of losing us anyway. OUCH! That kinda raw truth hurts but it's necessary if you wanna take the blinders off, see a man/situation for what it truly is and heal. You can't heal unless your heart, pride & ego is ready to hear, acknowledge & accept some raw but ugly truths. Ladies, THEY KNOW!
Amen! This is so true. The truth can be devastatingly painful, but it doesn't change that it is truth. They wont change, especially as they love what they do and are enabled to continue to do so.. And, honestly, I admit that I had a difficult time understanding that they MEAN it. I thought they did not know! But they do.... And when mine told his son to not do the things he does because they are WRONG (while claiming he no longer acts that way, but most certainly does) that struck me. He knows what he does is wrong - he just does not care. Ouch. Time to move on....
What the hell is wrong with men,? this is crazy, seem like something just wrong with y’all, all this damn mess we gotta go through, it’s just too much, the hell with it
Naw hun. We can no longer blame men . We attract who we are raise your standards and God will send a man who will rise to your standards. But you have to abstain from sex until marriage. Everyone won't have the same grace and be as fortunate to find love like Tony and his wife
I was in a relationship for 9 yrs.... I thought that was it. I thought we would be together forever. He started staying out late giving me all kinds of excuses. I started checking his phone and sit enough there were other woman.... I even called one of the number s and spoke to her...I just couldn’t believe he would do this to me. He tried to come back but he had lied so much. He married some girl he barely met and told me .... see now you’ll be sorry!
I dont want to be the " pick of the litter" tried to keep me stuck for a whole year , he,s history now , thanks to Tony , we have to end these situationships ladies..
My situationship ended me recently but i knew it was already time to go with the lack of communication and understanding. No more holding on to potential if isnt already there.
Currently leaving mine.. Or should i say i left.. 😔.. U can never ever move forward from a situationship. Your stuck.. Just both of you having company, sex, making memories. U ask yourself am i in a relationship.? Nope the other person don't want the relationship. They only want a part of u and not all of you. That shit really hurts 😔
Wow that was so well said. Yes it can be incredibly painful for your love to not be wanted, nor your personality, really so many men only seem to want a womans body. Its very sad, and it can be incredibly difficult to find the man who will work for more, or want for more. It is a shame to be overlooked
I just broke off a situationship of 4 years. (Thanks to your videos!) It was bittersweet because a part of me felt sad and the other part of me felt proud for finally standing up for myself. Thanks for addressing not becoming depressed over the grown boy. You’re right, I’m not about to just let myself deteriorate. God made us warriors! Thanks man, you have no idea how encouraging/motivating these videos are. As a Christian, videos like this almost feel like sermons
Let me say this! Situationships is something I can’t do. I hate dating and I’m not about to give myself to someone who can’t commit. It’s so confusing... yuck.
Agreed but for me we were in a relationship, I figured out year one after moving in w him for 4 months he wasn’t my husband. From there spent the next 3 years in a relationship/situationship ... I always said never! But it’s happened... I learned a lot... one. Trust myself cause although he improved over the years... he just need TOOOOOO MUCH HELP! 🤣
@@angeleyes3386 but what if it's your bd that you in a situation in with? He's a good supportive man to his child but he gives me the bare minimum it's so confusing 😕
Tony don’t let anyone tell you the videos are too long. I needed to hear this, and it came right on time! I listen to your videos everyday going and coming to work. Thank you and Be blessed
Amen i need that whole hour. Everything your saying is real and i know for myself deep down inside i knew better than to make some of the choices i made concerning men but i didn't know i deserved better growing up without a father or postive male role model affected my outlook on men and not in a good way. Thank you for caring about the heart of all of Gods daughters. You are a blessing TG.
“REAL LOVE IS MUTUAL” ~T.G. “THERE ARE NO BENEFITS TO BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS” ~T.G. All Factssssss, the end is even more real!!! I love hour videos!!! BE BLESSED. 👑 💯👍🏽👂🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This whole situationship thing is all about Ego forreal You dont really like them . Its the illusion of Lust and the hurt Ego trying to pick itself up. Once you have him you will be desinterested trust me. Its just not meant to be ... TG is on point! Be blessed 💯
I say this all the time. Do I really like him or am i trying to repAir my ego after falling for someone who doesn't want me! If i had him i know i would be super disinterested. My ego is getting the best of me
Tony had me laughing out loud.When people walk away from you let them walk.Your destiny is not tied to anyone that left.Mans rejection is God's protection.God bless you and your family.
Im late on this one. I wanted to add that in most cases the man is already working on his next relationship before he ends the relationship with the one he is currently with. This is why the one hes with is posting pictures as if he's been with her for a while. Because he has been with her for a while. Now, that's the kicker!
He lives down the street and I found another route to work, the store etc. had to learn all the back roads to avoid passing by that house! 😂 No looking back
When Tony spoke in tongues begging for the man to come back.. I almost fell out. 😩😩 because he know he telling the truth! I have done exactly what he is describing. Amen Tony
Haaaaa! My ex Left me ! Glory be to God! Got married ! A year later she left him! I spent 2 years angry at him and God! And the whole time he was miserable! Never worry about what he’s doing ! Cut off everything connected to him and move on immediately! God was gracious enough to let me find out about it , just for learning and teaching purposes .Just to testify to what Tony is teaching us!
This was really encouraging, that's amazing. I hope your marriage continues to thrive, and bring you the happiness that you deserve. Something similar happened to me recently, my ex left me (didn't give me a reason why) but he did it over text on the day that we were supposed to go on a trip together.
Man, I needed to read this right now. He refused to commit to me, and I agree...I played myself because my self esteem never recovered from past traumas...I thought I deserved garbage. Honestly, I still do, because I can't seem to believe I'm awesome. I know his new toy will see it..too late...and by then, he will be warming up the next victim.
@@skyandrews2613 I’m not married, but I receive that for when it does actually happen! But I see this was 5 months ago ! I hope your healed sweetheart!
@@user-vp8oz1pj9c and this is where the work begins boo! Asking God how come I move like I move? Then he shows you by revealing your past all the way back to childhood, from there you gain clarity , pray for strength, and healing in that area, then little by little you start to value yourself Because you start to see how much God does! 2 months late ! But I hope all is well🥰
I normally don’t comment but I haven’t heard a word like this in a long time. God woke me up this early out of my sleep because I was questioning why I’m in this situation. How did I get here? It’s all so clear now. Thank you 🙏🏾 ♥️ I need to turn this man over to Jesus! So I can receive the man God has for me. Quit playing with these grown boys ladies in 2020. We don’t have time for it.
Glenda Gadlin yep it shouldn’t be so hard. I feel like if it’s meant it will flow! I had an old flame come back around. And it’s weighing on me that I’m even talking to him. I do feel like people can change bc I have changed too since we last talked. But atp I’m just watching his actions!
Neil Butcher please have a lil tact. How about. Save yourself for your husband. God is well pleased with you honoring him first, and will give you the desires of your Heart.psalm 37:4
You will be the reason I become a wife to a wonderful husband! This video brought me to tears! I love you for doing Gods work and taking out of your time to do these teachings. THANK YOU! God bless you and your beautiful wife plus kids! ❤️🙏🏽
I use to think the same way, that someone else gonna get the man I worked hard for and he gon be better to her, but u kno wut I found to be true....THEM MEN NEVER CHANGE!!! Rest assured Sis she ain gettn nothing gd!! HE AIN CHANGED!!!
I had to force myself to watch this entire video. I knew all of this, but hearing this from someone else, and a man at that makes it real and hard to ignore. I always make excuses for men (that they never ask for) and essentially gaslight myself. Thank you Tony. I usually do not listen to videos of speaking on relationships, especially men (because many times they say things to manipulate women). But you are spot on, and your words are clearly from God and from an honest place and from a place of experience. Thank you again. Best wishes to all who are leaving situationships.
I purposely watched his video bc I wanted a man perspective. But what if it's your son's father you're in a situationship with?? It's really hard to disconnect bc we have this child that keeps us connected and bounded😔
A man that I was interested in told me he wasn't ready to have a girlfriend and settle down but still wanted to do boyfriend things with me (no cookies were given). After he told me that I never took him seriously and dated and got engaged to someone else.
I’ve ended mine n to be frank I don’t ever miss him I’ve been thing about all I could have been doing instead of wasting my time and energy. So now that I’m focus I’m getting my Masters this year and trying to focus on owning my own .
Me too recently 23 years a wasted, my energy was drained. I have a son by him , but our is older. That grown boy put me threw a lot hurt , from outside babies , from him put his hands on my while pregnant . Tearing my house up every time I try to kick him out. The disrespect for my sons, been dealing with him since he was 23 years old and now that’s he’s 46 years old he decided ok well times to get my life together. Ok help him do that, now he’s finds someone else, he walked away with no closure. He and his love child by some other girl. He’s not with the baby mama. I’m sure he’s with someone else, I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️ cuz I don’t check his social media and I blocked him , I don’t talk to him at all . I don’t ever want to talk him or see him. All the cheating, lies , the grown boy tantrums, the immaturity not able to sit like a grown man and talk to me when I sat him down several times, All got was childish behavior. Going in circles!! So draining 😫. Working on me now !
Chynadoll77 Cyn May God continue to “richly” bless you and your family! Good you were able to live through all of the heartbreak. Now, I know you are a much stronger person because of that. I’m retired but enrolled back in college to get my nursing degree too. It’s called “Improving Upon Self!” We are going to get it girlfriend! Keep standing strong. You will be in a position to point others in a positive direction. Sending lots of love and prayers your way!!
Its ok, it will get better. Time heals wounds especially this type that wasnt meant for you. God will give you peace and when Mr Right comes youll say "what did I see back there?" Oh no sorry, you'll be so much in love with what God has for you that you won't even remember these days. Better days are coming. Trust God.
There's a difference between a relationship and situationship. If a guy says that he don't want you, BELIEVE HIM! It's better than being with someone who doesn't value you fully. 💯 let him do what he wanna do and his personal boy "trauma" .
“A real relationship runs like a well oiled machine”. Couldn’t of said it better myself. I’ve learnt that relationships don’t have to be difficult or full of drama. Problems will arise as that’s life, however a healthy loving sustainable relationship will deal with circumstantial matters in a healthy respectful manner.
Last time I seen him when I got in my car to leave I heard God say loud and clear "Keep playing with fire and you are going to get burned " I knew I had to let it go. Game Over ! Thank you
Silver Forestt amen I needed that . Just got dumped by my ex and I’m noticing he wants a situation-ship because he doesn’t want anyone to have me. What we are not going to do is have me in shackles while he is test driving other women. I had to let it go because I it’s only hurting me
Mine wants a relationship...but his communication style doesn’t work for me in a committed romantic relationship. I’m finally at the point where I realize as much as we love each other...such chasm in our communication styles now will be the chief thing on the divorce table later.
I was in a very dark place with a narcissist christian situationship were I wanted to kill myself. Really drain you & is not worthy. Learning to heal & love myself 💖
Yep. My husband I left him he thinks I'm stupid sending text and acting the way I've always wanted him to act. He's not getting me back with that emotional manipulation. 🙄
I was in a situationship for 3 years without knowing it. I saw the red flags but i ignored it hoping we be a relationship. I realized he only used me as a placeholder cause i found out hes been in a relationship with another woman recently and when i confronted him, he still lied and then ghosted me... It hurts so much. I feel so alone. 😔
I'm really sorry to hear that,you're not alone 🙏 I understand how that feels but I've ghosted other guys so what goes around comes around, in my situation. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you but I hope and pray that you are able to fill yourself with care and love so you can be happy and attract the person you truly deserve :) ❤❤
The talking in tongues part cracked me up 😂😂😂😂 I wish I saw this video three months ago. This is exactly what happened to me. So glad I'm out of that situationship. As Beyonce said "so since I'm not your everything. How about I'll be nothing. Nothing at all to you." Get rid of anyone who doesn't make you their everything. Never settle for less. You deserve so much more! Be blessed.
I encountered my first situationship in 2018 and I've only gone backwards in life since. Watched a lot of life coaches such as yourself to learn from your experience as I have such little. I was able to set boundaries and a deadline which he did not meet and was disconnected from my life and not in the goal of attention but because he is literally the biggest crater on my path I've ever met. Took two years of work on myself to fix the Damage Done by a manipulator for 6 months cuz I had no idea what I was actually going through.
Love the comparison of a broke down relationship to a broke down car...👌🏽👌🏽 "Service Bae"👌🏽👌🏽🤭🤭 lol! Tony is On point and Funny all in one! Be Blessed!🙏🏾🖤
Excellent advice, Tony. You're speaking TRUTH! Ladies, respect yourselves - Stop letting men play you and waste your life!! You deserve a good man who loves and treats you like a Queen. You also must treat him as the King in your life.
A situationship is a total waste of time, effort, and energy if you're seeking something real. It will drain you, have you overthinking, & clueless.
Amen
Yes Sis..we be playing ourself to be in stupid stuck..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
True story
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So true
You can't loose someone you never had.
But you can lose yourself...be careful
Preach! 🙌
@@cherh Please speak on it. No lies spoken!
Daya Tom facts
Cher H 💯💯
i am a man and he is stating the truth
Thank you for your honesty
Thank you
Thank you
Thanks for the honesty!😊
Thank you also
3 months in, saw the red flags, and texted him today and told him, I can no longer be in it... I'm so proud of myself!!
How is it going ?
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Can’t wait to be there👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏽❗️
Sooo good!!!!
Yu go girl yu deserve better
We always build him up for the next woman BUT let him tear US down for the next man. 💅🏽
True, that's why I stopped the build up
Wow!
Shaking my head... brutal
Whispering Acts yup this happen to me and oh this girl thought she was the “prize” but he also put her through hell also and told her she was a waste of time and called her a ho but I tried to warn her but she didn’t wanna listen, she thought she was better than me 🙄 she would try to make things up about me and wanted to fight me over a grown boy that was still trying to talk to me🙄🤦🏽♀️ they didn’t last and their relationship got so bad she had to move 5 hours away from him that’s how bad it was
Whispering Acts Girl he ain’t changed. He’s still the same just with a different woman.
Being let go is a blessing in disguise. Be blessed.
Amen
Be blessed
Oshun Yemaya Sometimes the Blessings are in the Breakup
Oshun it is even when it hurts. But in the end it will be worth it. God will heal your brokenness.
Way in disguise! Takes faith and time. Find your way through. Thank you, Oshun.
When that man let you go! Let him go.
Could you tell me what that green icon is behind your name?
@@christalintentions I believe it represents being a member of the blessed Tribe.
Okay...so true
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Tiffany Wilcox AAAA-FREAKIN-MEN!!! 👏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
YOU DONT LOOSE A GOOD MAN, You LOOSE A MAN THATS NOT GOOD FOR YOU 💕
This is good! Thanks for sharing ❤
Lose*
Three most important points in this video:
1. Get you some self esteem and stop chasing after a piece of a man.
2. When a man leaves you. Put your track shoes on and run as fast as you can and don’t let him tell you twice.
3. Toxic relationships leave you with a stench that the next person my not be able to stomach. Get rid of it! Glow up and move on with your life. .
Amen Tony! You said that..
Amen
Juss Jess yes good points!
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Number 3 whew !!! I need to get this stench off quick!
Amen!!!
I found myself settling for situationships and I was miserable. Because I knew I deserved better so I leveled up.
Hell yea from the corner of disparate 2 the hilltop of the G code no build a bum here go find a Becky my backbone strong
Be BLESSED
As you should!
I can’t wait to end mine
Be blessed
when a man tells you he doesnt want a relationship/marriage/children etc. it means he doesnt want a relationship/marriage/children etc. WITH YOU. when he says he doesnt want a elationship/marriage/children etc. that is your cue to walk away immediately because he just told you that YOU are not good enough and you are just a place holder until he decides to get married to somebody else.
So what about him telling you that he wants you to have his babies and to be his wife but still cheats like hell, and still engages to you??
@@carlenemorgan8755 It doesn't really matter what he's saying if he's treating you like crap.
I need to read this every morning till i move on
That is @Carlene Morgan, that is my dilemma now. He says he wants me to be his wife n the mother of his kids, yet he’s ghosting n coming back like nothing happened, and asking me to give him time...
@@wendyworgu1368 block and travel💃
I’ll never do a situation ship again. It ends in toxicity, bitterness, disappointment, and/ or pain. Never again.
dating is so messed up these days
I swear It’s like a domino effect with dating
Very!!!!!!! Women have to put their feet down, get these fools together
Always messed up..let's reminist 🤔
@@missball404 I think it should be "women need to put their feet down and get these fools out of our lives!!
@@ed000 agreed!!!!👏
“You hurting bc you played yourself”!!! That was it for me!👏🏾
Me too😐
I agree !!
Samee
Same
How u doing Jody
PLEASE DON’T SHORTEN YOUR VIDEOS! Your messages are too powerful and meaningful to cut down or chop up.
“No more raggedy relationships. If you were meant to be together you would be, because real love stays together... no breaking up and getting back together”
That’s called toxicity or in other words unequally yolk
That's the truth....time to wakeup
@@themedia742
Exactly
This Message Here...
Some women don’t believe they deserve better! How can you pray to God and NOT trust HIS design for your life?
Lisa Ross Right?!!🤨🤔
Right
Amen 🙏
Lisa Ross TRUE
Preach sis ❤
Boy I got all this for FREE????
PRICELESS!!!!!!
Mafuhillmaryhill
Yes yes yes!!
Join the bless tribe Tony is blessing us!
I feel as though women already know they shouldn’t be in these situationships but they ask the questions anyway, because they want someone else to validate what they already feel or know. But the truth is no matter how many times you tell them, a woman will only leave once she’s officially tired and exhausted. Period.
Agreed
I approve this message. 😔
J Love Women don’t know! That’s really why they as...
J Love FACTS all facts
And most times they still stay even after they ask. Hopefully it will stick and be the last time for someone. Let’s not lose Hope
*There are NO BENEFITS TO BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS🗣
Not for women
The only person that benefits is the man
I enjoy mine. Probably because I’m not seeking a relationship with him. He fills a need. I will drop him like a bad habit if I meet someone worthy of a relationship which he is not. Good for sex though. I don’t expect a man to be what he’s not. Looking to make those type of men more is what got me hurt. I treat him and all men in accordance with our relationship. No love without reciprocation.
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@@indicajane4721 No offense but why would a real man respect a woman who entertains situationships? He will be looking at you like you are weak and have low self esteem.
“There is no benefits to being friends with benefits” I felt that ! 😔
Gotta run that.
@@laurenpegues8372 felt it too
Some women play thenselves and the man get to have the best of two worlds
Ended my 2 year situationship almost 3 months ago. Tomorrow will be 90 days no contact. He reached out to me once asking if he could apologize, it was on voicemail and I did not respond. I'm very proud of myself. Although I love him, I know he isn't ready to give me what I desire and I'm not about to wait around or stick around to see if he ever will. I just can't do that to myself. So thanks Tony for confirming my decision and encouraging me to keep moving forward because it's not easy.
Thank you. I just think of why I left and knowing he hasn't changed keeps me moving forward. I have some tough moments, but I keep my focus on my future. You can do it too.
Kee H it’s definitely not easy! I’m sort of in the same situation. Mine has been gone for 6mo and he’s now coming back around and he sounds like he is in a different headspace. But honestly I’m just going to watch his actions and make him work for my attention! No more old me and just giving in
@@PrettiRissa that's exactly what I'd do! Maybe he has changed, but he needs to prove it over a period of time and you should feel like he deserves another chance. If you really love him, I hope it works out for you two, but always put yourself first!
Sunshine ☀️ definitely! Thank you ❤️
Way to go Queen..keep moving forward unapologetically and relentlessly!!!!
“If it was REAL, it would not have ended” thank you, that made it clear
R B 🤣🤣🤣right ! Truth
Tony preached that. I found myself in a situationship, I ask him what was he looking for & he said friendship and we'll see where it goes. In my head, I said you not going to keep me in the friendship zone, for the next 5, 10, 15 years while you are trying to figure it out. So I blocked him. Fast forward 3 months later, after my brother passed he shows up on the scene again with the same foolery but the difference was this time I told him that I wanted to be married, & I don't have time for your shenanigans. Now he wants me to come over hang out by the fire pit & drink some wine. I told him I have my own fire pit and my own wine, I don't need you. Every now and again he will text good morning or have something to say, boy gone with yourself, I'm over it. ✌️
Men like that only want to waste your time. You told him exactly what you wanted and it’s obvious he doesn’t want to deliver. More power to you sis!! 💗
✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾Boy bye.
Good for you, sis!
Grown boy that’s what he is
Wow sounds like my situation people are something you did the right thing to walk away
“Unless you’re willing to become a better man, you’re not going to find a better woman”. Word.
LinzToMySoul Say that Sis!! ❤️
That's the point they don't want a better woman because that means they have to do better which is not hard at all.
Love it!
“You need to have a whole man or whole woman or nothing at all.” You heard!
Him leaving for good was the best thing he could have done for me
Yes mam he her issue I'm feeling myself in my beyonce voice
True
Hope he stays gone and you stay strong.
Terrasse Berry, I am glad you are listening!
Terrasse Berry totally agree with you girl!! GOOD RIDDANCE FOOL!! More power to you girly!! Muah❣️‼️❣️😚👸🏻👑💁🏻♀️💋💖💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
"Waiting on him to come tell you a lie" Jesus!! That's the whole truth
Facts 💯
I would MUCH rather accept that another woman has him than to hold on to him and never receive my blessing. I've seen the promised land!!! Nothing else will do. I don't feel like that at all. I sincerely thank you Tony. Be blessed.
Be Blessed.
The most important keywords in the video is "HE UNDERSTANDS." So many women continue arguing, lecturing & nagging men to death, assuming there's no way these men are aware of the damage they're causing. Ladies THEY know. They just don't care. Their love for meeting their own selfish needs outweighs any respect or love they may have for you. These men aren't powerless, clueless beings that are unaware of the damage they're causing. THEY KNOW. Accepting that hurts so bad, but it'll set you free a lot quicker. Why? B/c when you think a man is doing something b/c he doesn't know any better, it's in a woman's natural nature to spend the time to break it all down & go to great lengths to make a man understand. Problem is, 99% of the time, you're just preaching to the choir. These men are fully aware of what they're doing & to a degree, can we blame them? For every fuckboy, there's always a low self-esteem having chick who's chasing him, wants him or refuses to let him go. Those men have no reason to evolve or change b/c there's always gonna be a "you" around that enables them to continue being fuckboys with no real long term or life-altering consequences. And yes staying with a fuckboy is not only enabling him, it's REWARDING him for bad behavior. Just remember ladies, when a man betrays or disrespects you, it's not b/c they're not aware of what they're doing. Oh they know. It's just that our pride & egos struggle to admit that the man knew of the possible consequences & yet took the risk of losing us anyway. OUCH! That kinda raw truth hurts but it's necessary if you wanna take the blinders off, see a man/situation for what it truly is and heal. You can't heal unless your heart, pride & ego is ready to hear, acknowledge & accept some raw but ugly truths. Ladies, THEY KNOW!
hard to hear, but oh so right you are!
Bruised ego😏but you’re so right ‼️
Amen! This is so true. The truth can be devastatingly painful, but it doesn't change that it is truth.
They wont change, especially as they love what they do and are enabled to continue to do so..
And, honestly, I admit that I had a difficult time understanding that they MEAN it. I thought they did not know! But they do.... And when mine told his son to not do the things he does because they are WRONG (while claiming he no longer acts that way, but most certainly does) that struck me. He knows what he does is wrong - he just does not care. Ouch.
Time to move on....
What the hell is wrong with men,? this is crazy, seem like something just wrong with y’all, all this damn mess we gotta go through, it’s just too much, the hell with it
I swear it’s so much to have to worry about! It does make u feel like! Just forget it all 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Neil Butcher are you a good catch? Or no
EXACTLY @ Nikkie_
Naw hun. We can no longer blame men . We attract who we are raise your standards and God will send a man who will rise to your standards. But you have to abstain from sex until marriage. Everyone won't have the same grace and be as fortunate to find love like Tony and his wife
I was in a relationship for 9 yrs.... I thought that was it. I thought we would be together forever. He started staying out late giving me all kinds of excuses. I started checking his phone and sit enough there were other woman.... I even called one of the number s and spoke to her...I just couldn’t believe he would do this to me. He tried to come back but he had lied so much. He married some girl he barely met and told me .... see now you’ll be sorry!
I just ended one today. I am damn determined to never take him back, not like I ever had him in the first place. No more contact, EVER
U need to have a whole man or a whole woman or have nothing at all. Powerful message
keish Palmer ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Exactly
I dont want to be the " pick of the litter" tried to keep me stuck for a whole year , he,s history now , thanks to Tony , we have to end these situationships ladies..
C Thomas yes!!!!!!
Me 2...and better to be late than never🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤❤
I agree!
My situationship ended me recently but i knew it was already time to go with the lack of communication and understanding. No more holding on to potential if isnt already there.
God got a whole man.for us. Sisters!!
Amen!🙌🏽
Amen! 💜💜💜
Indeed! Not half, not 1/3, but a whole man!
Amen!💗
This is so so true what you just said..thank you so much...I
“When you said rewind that” , I promise I rewinded 5 times!!
Tatiana Cabrera Me too!!!!
Me 3.
😂😂😂😂
Tatiana Cabrera yes ma’am! This is my 2nd time listening to the entire message. He is giving us wisdom straight from heaven
@@ericabostwick4033 Mine too.
Girl me too! Omg this message today! Got me going
"Dont let that lace front and glue be showin, get yoself right and let him go". I know that's right Tony.
@@bamarealist Yes, he is so real.😂😂😂
Lace front!!!!!
That glue is killer my kid plays in it she a teenager 👎
“There are no benefits to friends with benefits...there is a benefit to friendship” 💯🎊
I'm learning this now.... Thank you for saying this!
Currently leaving mine.. Or should i say i left.. 😔.. U can never ever move forward from a situationship. Your stuck.. Just both of you having company, sex, making memories. U ask yourself am i in a relationship.?
Nope the other person don't want the relationship. They only want a part of u and not all of you.
That shit really hurts 😔
Strength to you Sis ... You'll get through it 🌹🧚♂️
You got this! Don’t relapse it gets worse when you relapse.
Wow that was so well said. Yes it can be incredibly painful for your love to not be wanted, nor your personality, really so many men only seem to want a womans body. Its very sad, and it can be incredibly difficult to find the man who will work for more, or want for more. It is a shame to be overlooked
Tony I think you win the award of the funniest relationship coach there is. You win hands down🤣🤣🤣
Yeah I think he could've. been a great comedian
great comedians tell the truth
Girl his too much 😂😂😂...this wisdom is equally so great. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
agreed
🤣🤣🤣when he was saying "breaking news" I was cracking up! 😂
So glad you said it...especially when he does the voices 🤣
😂😂😂😩 I wish I found all this 7 years ago but it’s never too late to hit that 78mph
#BlessedTribe
What she☝🏾 said! At least the next Generation have the tools.
I wished I'd known this 20+years ago...u lucky you got it at 7...be strong sis....💜
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@@lerhondajones-bates3324 me too. 20 years ago I would have bypassed the fools and be married to the best man for me right now.
" You better laid and played! Listen to me naw! " 😂😂TG voice. He is not lying!
I just broke off a situationship of 4 years. (Thanks to your videos!)
It was bittersweet because a part of me felt sad and the other part of me felt proud for finally standing up for myself. Thanks for addressing not becoming depressed over the grown boy. You’re right, I’m not about to just let myself deteriorate. God made us warriors! Thanks man, you have no idea how encouraging/motivating these videos are. As a Christian, videos like this almost feel like sermons
How’s that’s coming for you?
4 years???!
@@Cararenee93xo sad right!
@@celinayoung952it’s ok, you learned something from it’😊
Let me say this! Situationships is something I can’t do. I hate dating and I’m not about to give myself to someone who can’t commit. It’s so confusing... yuck.
Agreed but for me we were in a relationship, I figured out year one after moving in w him for 4 months he wasn’t my husband. From there spent the next 3 years in a relationship/situationship ... I always said never! But it’s happened... I learned a lot... one. Trust myself cause although he improved over the years... he just need TOOOOOO MUCH HELP! 🤣
Just got out of one what a train wreck that was
Im with you.. Dating is Crazy!!
@@angeleyes3386 but what if it's your bd that you in a situation in with? He's a good supportive man to his child but he gives me the bare minimum it's so confusing 😕
Tony don’t let anyone tell you the videos are too long. I needed to hear this, and it came right on time! I listen to your videos everyday going and coming to work. Thank you and Be blessed
YezzzzZzzZz Mr Tony Weeeeee needed to Hear this!!! We Thank You for Your OBEDIENCE AMEN BLESSINGS
@Jazzy Blaque Same here!
Amen i need that whole hour. Everything your saying is real and i know for myself deep down inside i knew better than to make some of the choices i made concerning men but i didn't know i deserved better growing up without a father or postive male role model affected my outlook on men and not in a good way. Thank you for caring about the heart of all of Gods daughters. You are a blessing TG.
Jazzy Blaque ditto🥇🥇🥇
Jazzy Blaque I love the long videos! His comedic lines are hilarious
“REAL LOVE IS MUTUAL” ~T.G.
“THERE ARE NO BENEFITS TO BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS” ~T.G.
All Factssssss, the end is even more real!!! I love hour videos!!! BE BLESSED. 👑 💯👍🏽👂🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This whole situationship thing is all about Ego forreal You dont really like them . Its the illusion of Lust and the hurt Ego trying to pick itself up. Once you have him you will be desinterested trust me. Its just not meant to be ... TG is on point! Be blessed 💯
I say this all the time. Do I really like him or am i trying to repAir my ego after falling for someone who doesn't want me! If i had him i know i would be super disinterested. My ego is getting the best of me
This is very true. Human nature has us chasing them because we want what we think we can't have.
This is truth right here.
Be blessed
Not true! Maybe sometimes but we really do walk in love and find out later it was the jungle , gotta heal
Amen to the title alone! End them indeed... It doesn't lead to anything worth having.
Shumeka Rodgers 💯👏🏽👍🏽
Be blessed!
Tony you cut-up with this message. I'm at the 24min mark. Tony God spirit is on you so continue to make your videos how long you want it to be.
😂😂😂😂 he did, I bursted out laughing. He stay cracking me up. I enjoy the long videos im Learning its over for these clowns.
Yes, please! We all the knowledge!
Hurt me with the truth don't comfort me with a lie... i love it keep it coming & be blessed
Hurt me with the truth don’t comfort me with a lie”...should be on a shirt!
You're here, helping us break generational curses and you don't even know it. Thank you 😌
Tony had me laughing out loud.When people walk away from you let them walk.Your destiny is not tied to anyone that left.Mans rejection is God's protection.God bless you and your family.
That is a verse by TD Jacks.
Me too! Good stuff right there
Amen
Latoya Gentles TD Jakes is right.
He said Jesus told Mary “women no ye NOT” 😂😂 when he said that 😂
There is No benefit, in friends with benefits! 💯
Exactly....
@Goldchild💫 same 😭 or couldn’t eat it right
The moment he decides to leave he was never yours.
sometime the lady will make you leave her
Yes.. and likely even before that he wasn't :)
Thank you needed that❤
Im late on this one. I wanted to add that in most cases the man is already working on his next relationship before he ends the relationship with the one he is currently with. This is why the one hes with is posting pictures as if he's been with her for a while. Because he has been with her for a while. Now, that's the kicker!
Oh so he’s a cheater then?😭😭
Sometimes you have to let a person go, so they can GROW 💫
He lives down the street and I found another route to work, the store etc. had to learn all the back roads to avoid passing by that house! 😂 No looking back
Amen 🙏 sis
What happened if you don’t mind me asking ?
@@THATGIRL0121 I wanna know too
Lol same we work together SMH
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I had to move from the location so we don’t cross paths. It’s so important.
When Tony spoke in tongues begging for the man to come back.. I almost fell out. 😩😩 because he know he telling the truth! I have done exactly what he is describing. Amen Tony
😭😂 God knows he's telling the truth!
🤣 He is too funny!
Nothing but the truth 🤣🤣
Yup! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😩😩😂😂
Juss Jess lol sammmmme!
"REAL LOVE NEVER ENDS!" Priceless ❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Haaaaa! My ex Left me ! Glory be to God! Got married ! A year later she left him! I spent 2 years angry at him and God! And the whole time he was miserable! Never worry about what he’s doing ! Cut off everything connected to him and move on immediately! God was gracious enough to let me find out about it , just for learning and teaching purposes .Just to testify to what Tony is teaching us!
This was really encouraging, that's amazing. I hope your marriage continues to thrive, and bring you the happiness that you deserve. Something similar happened to me recently, my ex left me (didn't give me a reason why) but he did it over text on the day that we were supposed to go on a trip together.
Man, I needed to read this right now. He refused to commit to me, and I agree...I played myself because my self esteem never recovered from past traumas...I thought I deserved garbage. Honestly, I still do, because I can't seem to believe I'm awesome. I know his new toy will see it..too late...and by then, he will be warming up the next victim.
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@@skyandrews2613 I’m not married, but I receive that for when it does actually happen! But I see this was 5 months ago ! I hope your healed sweetheart!
@@user-vp8oz1pj9c and this is where the work begins boo! Asking God how come I move like I move? Then he shows you by revealing your past all the way back to childhood, from there you gain clarity , pray for strength, and healing in that area, then little by little you start to value yourself Because you start to see how much God does! 2 months late ! But I hope all is well🥰
I normally don’t comment but I haven’t heard a word like this in a long time. God woke me up this early out of my sleep because I was questioning why I’m in this situation. How did I get here? It’s all so clear now.
Thank you 🙏🏾 ♥️ I need to turn this man over to Jesus! So I can receive the man God has for me. Quit playing with these grown boys ladies in 2020. We don’t have time for it.
Amen ...I agree..God is good..great video.
Glenda Gadlin yep it shouldn’t be so hard. I feel like if it’s meant it will flow! I had an old flame come back around. And it’s weighing on me that I’m even talking to him. I do feel like people can change bc I have changed too since we last talked. But atp I’m just watching his actions!
Neil Butcher please have a lil tact. How about. Save yourself for your husband. God is well pleased with you honoring him first, and will give you the desires of your Heart.psalm 37:4
Amen
That car analogy was everything!
Yes. Had me laughing so hard at work 😂
You will be the reason I become a wife to a wonderful husband! This video brought me to tears! I love you for doing Gods work and taking out of your time to do these teachings. THANK YOU! God bless you and your beautiful wife plus kids! ❤️🙏🏽
I feel the same way...he is helping me be so strong right now .I'm blessed for his platform
Have a whole man, or nothing at all. No bits and pieces!!!
Yeah, have a whole women not 1 foot in & 1 foot out, forget situationships!
I use to think the same way, that someone else gonna get the man I worked hard for and he gon be better to her, but u kno wut I found to be true....THEM MEN NEVER CHANGE!!! Rest assured Sis she ain gettn nothing gd!! HE AIN CHANGED!!!
It's what the other person is willing to deal with.
Sooooo true!!!
If he knows God her has a higher chance of changing but it's not guaranteed. That totally is on him
Amen to what you just said 😥😧😌😮😅😄😊 made it ✌️🌻😍🤗
He’s not my man = I’m not meant to be his woman, I’m meant to be someone else’s wife.
I had to force myself to watch this entire video. I knew all of this, but hearing this from someone else, and a man at that makes it real and hard to ignore. I always make excuses for men (that they never ask for) and essentially gaslight myself. Thank you Tony. I usually do not listen to videos of speaking on relationships, especially men (because many times they say things to manipulate women). But you are spot on, and your words are clearly from God and from an honest place and from a place of experience. Thank you again. Best wishes to all who are leaving situationships.
Nothing but the truth right here!!
I purposely watched his video bc I wanted a man perspective. But what if it's your son's father you're in a situationship with?? It's really hard to disconnect bc we have this child that keeps us connected and bounded😔
This is a reminder to many women to not get bored with life and start re-connecting with grown boys that was once a thorn in their side!
Be blessed!
KT Robi wow! That’s a good way to put it! Out of boredom we will entertain old situations 😩😩😭🤦🏽♀️
This is why I will never build a man he should already have what it takes to have me
Amen, he should already be a WHOLE man by himself before finding a woman. A "Mr. Right" will make sure HE IS before finding his "Mrs. Right".
No, truly sorry
Love is a mutual building ❤️
He must be a godly Man
@@truthseeker7211 Finances is only 1/10 of the equation. Ck the foundation
Beginning year of a decade is 01
This is the End of the current one
Listen to me now “ in my Tony Voice”
RealTalk Kina my favorite line of his
Mine to
LoL 😄
A man that I was interested in told me he wasn't ready to have a girlfriend and settle down but still wanted to do boyfriend things with me (no cookies were given). After he told me that I never took him seriously and dated and got engaged to someone else.
I’ve ended mine n to be frank I don’t ever miss him I’ve been thing about all I could have been doing instead of wasting my time and energy. So now that I’m focus I’m getting my Masters this year and trying to focus on owning my own .
Me too recently 23 years a wasted, my energy was drained. I have a son by him , but our is older. That grown boy put me threw a lot hurt , from outside babies , from him put his hands on my while pregnant . Tearing my house up every time I try to kick him out. The disrespect for my sons, been dealing with him since he was 23 years old and now that’s he’s 46 years old he decided ok well times to get my life together. Ok help him do that, now he’s finds someone else, he walked away with no closure. He and his love child by some other girl. He’s not with the baby mama. I’m sure he’s with someone else, I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️ cuz I don’t check his social media and I blocked him , I don’t talk to him at all . I don’t ever want to talk him or see him. All the cheating, lies , the grown boy tantrums, the immaturity not able to sit like a grown man and talk to me when I sat him down several times, All got was childish behavior. Going in circles!! So draining 😫. Working on me now !
Chynadoll77 Cyn May God continue to “richly” bless you and your family! Good you were able to live through all of the heartbreak. Now, I know you are a much stronger person because of that. I’m retired but enrolled back in college to get my nursing degree too. It’s called “Improving Upon Self!” We are going to get it girlfriend! Keep standing strong. You will be in a position to point others in a positive direction. Sending lots of love and prayers your way!!
Theresa Hayward thank you 🙏🏾 sister sending love ❤️ back and blessings.
AMEN, I just went through that whole ordeal, but I pray that God gives me the strength to not look back. Please pray for me. Thank you
May God give you strength not to look back..in Jesus Name
Sending love and light to you willing that you keep that door shut tight. You would regret reopening that door more then keeping it closed. Peace Sis
You're doing amazing...keep going
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤❤❤
Its ok, it will get better. Time heals wounds especially this type that wasnt meant for you. God will give you peace and when Mr Right comes youll say "what did I see back there?" Oh no sorry, you'll be so much in love with what God has for you that you won't even remember these days. Better days are coming. Trust God.
Be blessed I needed this one today I just left my situationship
There's a difference between a relationship and situationship. If a guy says that he don't want you, BELIEVE HIM! It's better than being with someone who doesn't value you fully. 💯 let him do what he wanna do and his personal boy "trauma" .
Let that piece of a man go so God can send you a whole man ...you blessed me right there ..Tony you on 🔥🔥🔥🔥
“A real relationship runs like a well oiled machine”.
Couldn’t of said it better myself. I’ve learnt that relationships don’t have to be difficult or full of drama. Problems will arise as that’s life, however a healthy loving sustainable relationship will deal with circumstantial matters in a healthy respectful manner.
See this happening at my work place. No relationship only situationship. Women need to love themselves more. Raise their expectations and stick to it.
Have this video on repeat to either encourage or to remind yourself of why you needed to walk away ! Thank you Tony 🙏🏾
No more “raggedy relationships”!!🤣....💪❤️🙏
Struggle Love is for Sucka Ducks
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Last time I seen him when I got in my car to leave I heard God say loud and clear "Keep playing with fire and you are going to get burned " I knew I had to let it go. Game Over ! Thank you
He hasn't change nothing he just tired.
AMEN!!!
Yep! Lol
Listening to this in 2024 🙌🏼 pulled me out of my delusions immediately 😂
Dont be Lot's wife----looking back. You gonna keep on being salty.
Right! lol
Very profound
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!
Silver Forestt amen I needed that . Just got dumped by my ex and I’m noticing he wants a situation-ship because he doesn’t want anyone to have me. What we are not going to do is have me in shackles while he is test driving other women. I had to let it go because I it’s only hurting me
Good play on words 😃
Mine wants a relationship...but his communication style doesn’t work for me in a committed romantic relationship. I’m finally at the point where I realize as much as we love each other...such chasm in our communication styles now will be the chief thing on the divorce table later.
A Wittle Birdie Told Me yes, let it go sister. If and when he’s ready he’ll come back whole.
💯💯
Well said.
That’s why I’m mad because I played myself and he’s gone on about his business
That's crazy. I feel the same way. But don't beat yourself up it's ok. 🙏🏽💪🏾💕
Trust me he’s gotten his karma another woman will break his heart
We all have played the fool at least once in our life..Grow from it 😍😍😍
I was in a very dark place with a narcissist christian situationship were I wanted to kill myself. Really drain you & is not worthy. Learning to heal & love myself 💖
I was there 3yrs ago. Im still healing. I pray for your continued healing as it is a PROCESS.
@@musicmaker1311 same
I wished I discovered this man when i was 20! Im 41 now and now suffering from a breakup.... Situationship........
Me too😮
At least you are not 62!
Yep. My husband I left him he thinks I'm stupid sending text and acting the way I've always wanted him to act. He's not getting me back with that emotional manipulation. 🙄
Jennifer Nunn Amen that’s exactly what it is!
Jennifer, girl stay 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾in your decision. My Husband left "me" after 7 years. It's hard, but imma stay strong like you😊😊
Thanks Ladies. I am trying to stay strong, got my divorce papers printed and he mad now. He thought I was bluffing. 😒
Tony is a big brother to us for real❤️👍🏽👑👏🏾, he looks right at us and say: "Lissen ta mi nah" the next words bout to be REAL" 💯
Vee Cee ❤
🤣😂country self.
I was in a situationship for 3 years without knowing it. I saw the red flags but i ignored it hoping we be a relationship. I realized he only used me as a placeholder cause i found out hes been in a relationship with another woman recently and when i confronted him, he still lied and then ghosted me... It hurts so much. I feel so alone. 😔
I'm really sorry to hear that,you're not alone 🙏 I understand how that feels but I've ghosted other guys so what goes around comes around, in my situation. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you but I hope and pray that you are able to fill yourself with care and love so you can be happy and attract the person you truly deserve :) ❤❤
Letting him go FULLY. Game over! Period! Be Blessed ❤️
The talking in tongues part cracked me up 😂😂😂😂
I wish I saw this video three months ago. This is exactly what happened to me. So glad I'm out of that situationship.
As Beyonce said "so since I'm not your everything. How about I'll be nothing. Nothing at all to you."
Get rid of anyone who doesn't make you their everything. Never settle for less. You deserve so much more!
Be blessed.
Ikr🤣🙏🏽
Broke busted and disgusted ! Point blank peri-yod 😂😂🤣
Wessam Mohie When Tony says Broke Busted and Disgusted you know he’s preaching good and I’m like 💀🤣💀🤣
I encountered my first situationship in 2018 and I've only gone backwards in life since. Watched a lot of life coaches such as yourself to learn from your experience as I have such little. I was able to set boundaries and a deadline which he did not meet and was disconnected from my life and not in the goal of attention but because he is literally the biggest crater on my path I've ever met. Took two years of work on myself to fix the Damage Done by a manipulator for 6 months cuz I had no idea what I was actually going through.
It’s really weird as it seems to hurt more than being in an actual relationship. Very confusing. I hope you heal and go from strength the to strength.
Proud of you queen! 💕☺️
How did you go about setting the boundaries
Love the comparison of a broke down relationship to a broke down car...👌🏽👌🏽 "Service Bae"👌🏽👌🏽🤭🤭 lol! Tony is On point and Funny all in one!
Be Blessed!🙏🏾🖤
Tony I believe the Lord has called you as a preacher too. You gone be getting a church soon brother.
Gotta got me a whole man or nothing. Point. Blank. Period!
Thanks. Be blessed
Nothing else will do (period- TG voice peri-od😂👍)
Excellent advice, Tony. You're speaking TRUTH! Ladies, respect yourselves - Stop letting men play you and waste your life!! You deserve a good man who loves and treats you like a Queen. You also must treat him as the King in your life.