How A Woman Knows Her Man Is About Her!

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  • @MissPrettySweetC
    @MissPrettySweetC ปีที่แล้ว +365

    This video was definitely needed. So many men want to ask a woman what she brings to the table but he doesn't even want to be a provider. The nerve! Thank you for this Tony G!!

    • @AllAboutAndrew444
      @AllAboutAndrew444 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @Keke-vs7gm
      @Keke-vs7gm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had a guy say to me he ask women what can you do for me that I can't do for myself. That was a red flag that I should have paid attention to cause that was a manipulation strategy.

  • @akilahbatyah6505
    @akilahbatyah6505 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Do not shoot your shot. Do not take care of a man.

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos ปีที่แล้ว +89

    After 2 grown boys back-to-back, God has blessed me with a real man. Thank you so much for this video.

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Blessed! Congratulations god is good!
      I am next, please pray 🤲

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@j-tenn226 I'm in agreement with you. You are next! 🙏🏽

  • @theMadameM
    @theMadameM ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Tony is TOO real and hilarious! 😂Been watching him for the last 4 years. I am in THE BEST relationship I have ever had, thanks to his dating and relationship advice and coaching. I STILL watch Tony while in my relationship to ensure that me and him last for the long run. The lessons don’t stop here!

    • @godislove1602
      @godislove1602 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here. I’m happily married but still keep my ear open for lessons ❤

  • @OctaviaMonique2
    @OctaviaMonique2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    “He has traded his mother for you” yessss all facts!!!! I did this for years I’m done taking care of grown boys! 💯💪🏾

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney ปีที่แล้ว +177

    "You should NOT be a ride or die...What ride or die mean is that if your man is going the right way and doing the right thing, then you riding with him. But if your man is not treating you right, if your man is not living right, you get off at the next stop. And if there ain't no stop, you jumping out and just fittin' ta do the roll...You out....Go on 'bout yo' business." 💯💯💯❤❤❤💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥💎💎💎

  • @vanessaharris6341
    @vanessaharris6341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My father told me a man can always find a job. It might not be what he wants but if he has a family to provide for he will work that job and then some!!!

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    “You need to smell a stench of burnt sun on his skin because he’s been busting his butt…” Now THAT’S a hard working man right there!

  • @kharyzma4u
    @kharyzma4u ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I'm over here making a salad for dinner while listening to this video. I can't tell you how many times I started cracking up! Tony is too funny! But he tells No Lies! He understood the assignment 💯

    • @cleovintora59
      @cleovintora59 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂 I kw right

    • @kharyzma4u
      @kharyzma4u ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cleovintora59 😁

    • @kikiprettylife23
      @kikiprettylife23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes he tell a joke but never tell a lie fr😂😂😂 he’s hilarious

    • @kharyzma4u
      @kharyzma4u ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kikiprettylife23 This 💯😅

    • @faithsteele4006
      @faithsteele4006 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he's legit a comedian!

  • @Queen._sam_
    @Queen._sam_ ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I’ll pass on any man chasing a rap career! Don’t want it at all!

    • @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast
      @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂frfr

    • @Queen._sam_
      @Queen._sam_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast lol 😂 listen 🎧, the moment you say you be in the studio! Lol 😂 it’s a wrap lol 😂

    • @DestinationDionna
      @DestinationDionna ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there done that….don’t not 🛑 ladies keep on going! 😂 I leveled up tho and got me a grown provider man who allowed me to be a wife of leisure…..it’s great here! Thank God I stopped the foolish ride or die ish

    • @MWisdomWisdom
      @MWisdomWisdom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @OluwaAngela
    @OluwaAngela ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Tony is a whole comedian😂😂. I learned something and I also got a good laugh 😂😂

    • @asill.6668
      @asill.6668 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I said he should do stand-up 🤣🤣🤣

    • @OluwaAngela
      @OluwaAngela ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@asill.6668 IKR! I’d definitely buy a ticket😂😂

    • @AERIBERI12
      @AERIBERI12 ปีที่แล้ว

      The funniest part is that it sends he don’t even know it 😂

    • @malvega3123
      @malvega3123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha Botha heads 😂

  • @BeautyMacQueen
    @BeautyMacQueen ปีที่แล้ว +57

    There it go right there! I couldn’t find the word to describe it but women need security and men need physical. I can honestly say I craved my man when I felt the most secure with him. It goes beyond just money or even women. I hate that women put on this front like they just be horny and ready to go no matter what. No when you’re making my life feel secure with you like you’re leading me to something that real the more secure I feel

  • @starblossom1370
    @starblossom1370 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tony is right. Take any job. Let me say this.. Dont sleep Walmart or starter jobs.. I got a job there, started in bakery . I went to trade school & got associates degree.. I got promoted into health & wellness.. I climbed the ranks.. I've seen men & women climb the ladder there & other places.. U show up & show out , you never know where u can go.

  • @Mysterysolved1111
    @Mysterysolved1111 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Tony you’re always unintentionally funny. “Head rubs on both of thee heads” 🤣👏🏾😂😂 Nothing but real facts in this video 👏🏾
    SAY LESS 🤣👌🏾

  • @araceliscollazo5067
    @araceliscollazo5067 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “If there ain’t no stop, you jumpin out, and doin a roll”….😂 that was too funny Tony!!!

  • @Clueless2019
    @Clueless2019 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you for getting it straight; because a woman CANNOT respect her man if he refuses to provide for his wife and children....The only exception would be if he is disabled. Thank you!!!

  • @elsabueno16
    @elsabueno16 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tony had me rollin on the ‘sloppy toppy part’ 🤣

  • @Micahsophia
    @Micahsophia ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If he not a provider i already know the men ain’t about me & im outta there

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have always met men willingly providing for others, except me, and it seems to have taken a heavy emotional toll.

  • @cherankimiorak1739
    @cherankimiorak1739 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    “Head rubs on both heads”💀💀

    • @amberrae2323
      @amberrae2323 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@cherankimiorak1739 thaaaats what took me! 😂

  • @marshafarquharson3816
    @marshafarquharson3816 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm from a family of two I started with a one-bedroom home and now I have my dream house thank you, God.😊🎉

  • @itsHappening-ry2ef
    @itsHappening-ry2ef ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t bring nothing to the table but my presence and I have never been a ride or die ‼️

  • @MsCharizma00
    @MsCharizma00 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “And popping it…” made me choke on my tea😂😂😂😂😂 always giving 💯

    • @talenalewis1823
      @talenalewis1823 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol😅I had to go back twice to make sure i heard him right and yeah he said it.. hilarious.

  • @akziq
    @akziq ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I cannot😂 stop 😂 laughing at work😂😂😂😂 4:37 ".....the sloppy toppy,.......on her back, on her knees and popping it"😂😂😂😂

  • @shekinahfire5936
    @shekinahfire5936 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This video is so real and Tony had me hollering 😭😭😭; thank you big brother. Keep allowing the Lord to disciple and use you. 🤞👑

  • @DestinationDionna
    @DestinationDionna ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If there ain’t no stop….you hopping’ out and doing the roll 😂😂😂 Tony the scream that I just scrome!

  • @brittanyparistx
    @brittanyparistx ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “……..ok….say less….we fittin to be broke then….”
    🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Congrats on your amazing come up! Your son is livin better than me for sure!!!! 💕🙌🏽💕

  • @msparis440
    @msparis440 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im going to start calling TG the "no filter" Life Coach!!!😂 But we need this kind of truth!

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I don't think men should be competing with their woman financially though.

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney ปีที่แล้ว +13

      damn right. they need to surpass her. outright. out the gate. sadly, so many of them DONT GET THE EDUCATION

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nzingahoney but that’s what I’m saying. I don’t think it’s THAT deep that he should look at what his woman earns and try his hardest to earn more just because he’s a man and he should be the “provider” 🤔 you can be the provider without trying to OUT earn your wife. It just seems like a wrong point of focus to me Personally.

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@EsiriE I used to think so, too. We can all get into our heads and forget that the reality of male and female does not always neatly align with what is FAIR on paper. He, as a man, needs sex as much as his energy will allow. He cares if I am tired and all that but it doesn't stop him needing sex. So I need to be ready to learn what he needs and communicate to him what I need for me to be able to keep up with his desire. And I, as a woman, need peace of mind, and HAVING to work, to provide myself and my family what I need to have that peace of mind (and God knows healthy and environmentally friendly food clothing and other needed items is COSTLY) does NOT provide that. So he needs to be looking to out earn me so I can fully relax. Periodt.

    • @HolisticManifesting
      @HolisticManifesting ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@N J yep! Agreed! Or you will stay in your masculine energy. That dynamic doesn't work. Men need to have more.

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I felt that Tony. Your a great man of God. Your family is blessed.

  • @MsChrissyr
    @MsChrissyr ปีที่แล้ว +29

    If this wasnt PERFECT timing. Dating is tough and I really have learned the hard way to stop giving boyfriends or men Im dating, husband benefits. If you have not made a list of things you will not do until marriage MAKE ONE. The word NO has gotten me ghosted so many times. Just when im thinking i should bend alittle Brother Tony comes through clutch. Im sorry I already have kids im not looking to adopt one i can sleep with. Yuck just saying that makes me nauseated

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly.

    • @MsChrissyr
      @MsChrissyr ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PeaceBeStill- these man will try to sweet talk you out of everything but your common sense lol

    • @la6136
      @la6136 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you most men are just looking for a woman they can use and have fun with until they get bored.

  • @cuteblue2212
    @cuteblue2212 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true Tony. I know of a guy who just started a meat packing/delivery business when his warehouse got flooded. All meat and machinery destroyed. He never borrowed money from his wife or touched the personal savings he started for all his 3 kids. He borrowed money from a friend who he made a business partner. His business is thriving today. He even said that that set back though painful and caused him many sleepless nights became such a blessing coz he realized his strength and what God could do for him ( he a praying man). We need to let our men be men. Thanks always for all your videos Tony.

  • @Harlemsweetie82
    @Harlemsweetie82 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    a WORD. The ENTIRE playbook in 15 mins and 28 seconds. Cheers to YOU TG!

  • @whatyaciswhatyaget4150
    @whatyaciswhatyaget4150 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He spoke some real shit just then, do not be a ride or die.

  • @Blynn-y2
    @Blynn-y2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Happy 16th birthday 🎉to your oldest son and congratulations on his first car! I totally agree💯 with this message.

  • @k.d.3664
    @k.d.3664 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You absolutely tell the truth and you do so with absolute hilarity!..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @phyllisdickerson9071
    @phyllisdickerson9071 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Happy 16th Birthday to your young man!

  • @tieonne
    @tieonne ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wish someone had told me this decades ago! Thanks, Tony, for your life-changing content! Happy Birthday to your son!

    • @audyam1
      @audyam1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s never too late. Today, I tell you the secret: Give your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ and you’ll testify about a better life. It’s spiritual! May God be with you !

  • @e.shontadaniels1305
    @e.shontadaniels1305 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I received this message, but definitely not without tears.... from crying laughing at Tony 😂😂😂😂 (too comical 😅)

  • @elizabethhennessey6437
    @elizabethhennessey6437 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I hope someone is telling men all this - they don't seem to know!

  • @Hilary945
    @Hilary945 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never again will I expect anything from anyone or depend on anyone for anything. At this point, I know I'm about myself, and I come correct to meet my future self.

  • @Makada_
    @Makada_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I could cry I know that has to be a good feeling !!! Blessed

  • @travelnurseneenee
    @travelnurseneenee ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "and popping it"
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

  • @starblossom1370
    @starblossom1370 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I appreciate the candid honesty.. It is well put!! & well needed.. I agree.. Providing is a trait of a good man that's serious about a woman & their future! I personally can not respect a man that will not/ can not provide.. I am in my mid 30's ,so at this stage not wasting time!

  • @jenjames8005
    @jenjames8005 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The s**t he says with a straight face!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm SO done 🤦🏾‍♀......... Big facts tho 💯

  • @DestinationDionna
    @DestinationDionna ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tony I absolutely love how you keep it sooooooo real for both the fellas and the ladies! Your sense of humor is an added bonus. 😂

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Toni ……in the long run … I have yet to hear of a man who was NOT sexually cheating on his partner / wife / girlfriend …..cheating in these days is at the tip on the man’s fingers …..online and offline cheating it’s huge .

  • @cleovintora59
    @cleovintora59 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh my gosh 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤God bless you Tony!! That jumping out the car and rent D had me rolling!! But you are 100 % right !! I'm talking tonthis man and he's everything you described he's chasing his dreams but also working his but off!! And he ain't for much but he dose so much for me and in return I love on him !! But no S I told him I don't want to get in to fornication and so far he's still here! Been 4 months going strong ❤❤❤

  • @jenniferwebb6741
    @jenniferwebb6741 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Started from the bottom now yall here ❤. Praises to you and your family.

  • @eps5605
    @eps5605 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The gospel according to TG. I approve this message!!

  • @SunkissedKuri
    @SunkissedKuri ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Wow! He is so blessed to have parents like you who are living in their purpose! Bless you, tony 💓✨️

  • @DeniseM4698
    @DeniseM4698 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lower case “h” 😂😂 hood 😂😂😂😂

  • @anonymous6594
    @anonymous6594 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Peach cobbler? That’s a new one. 😂

    • @cuteblue2212
      @cuteblue2212 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh no, check his other videos. He always talking about staying of yo back and don’t let a man eat the peach cobbler Lol 😂

  • @queenep
    @queenep ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a testimony!!!
    Happy 16th birthday to your son!!!! 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂

  • @phyllisdickerson9071
    @phyllisdickerson9071 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Class is in session and I'm here to learn! Thanks Tony!

  • @miaf7640
    @miaf7640 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tony u telling the truth and doing so with so much humor -love it. Keep letting Christ use u bro.

  • @ChaqerraPrunty-bh2gl
    @ChaqerraPrunty-bh2gl ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tony was so real and honest my ex is one of these guys that provides but we've had rocky roads but he doesn't fail me always been there when I needed him, 🤔

  • @lovephotography1966
    @lovephotography1966 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Women have to encourage themselves, encourage the kids, encourage the man. I have never met a women who have said she received this in return 😢. I'm done done !

  • @SandraJohnsonSupu
    @SandraJohnsonSupu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It doesn’t get any more real than this…Thank you man of God for being an exceptional example of what being a real man entails. You’re a man of valor and integrity and we thank God for making a difference in this lopsided world. This was a great lesson with wit to boot 🙌🏽😎.

  • @Realness4sho
    @Realness4sho ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bring it on…The Truth Here! ✅💯🥰💜

  • @BabyFaceRose
    @BabyFaceRose ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HAHAHA omg “on her knees” i canttt

  • @Nurseaholic
    @Nurseaholic ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happy 16th birthday to your first- born! Congratulations to y’all being able to provide for your babies how you all desired.
    Yep, I told my boyfriend from day one I’m not a ride or die, I will leave you.

  • @TiaraByrd88
    @TiaraByrd88 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You jumping out and rolling 😂

  • @onlyus1278
    @onlyus1278 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Damn not you putting me on blast. A man who ssi ran out and we had to wait on the paperwork. 3 years later I couldn’t he had to go. 😮

  • @fabisweat5145
    @fabisweat5145 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He just hit on the nail.. Keeping it real Tony made too many Good points 😊

  • @smores8982
    @smores8982 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m glad you emphasized the caveats and outliers. There’s always that ONE person who loves to jump in and disagree by only their own personal experience and doesn’t understand that we are speaking ONLY of the general masses, not claim that this is an absolute. But yet, they always point to the small percentage of people who this message doesn’t apply to. If it doesn’t apply to you, then great but save the ‘no not all men’ argument because we know not ALL men are the same. There will always be exceptions to the rule but some people want to disagree just to disagree.

  • @tulip4169
    @tulip4169 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Tony for sharing your life. Your life is an example of what God will do in your life and I’m inspired to keep believing him and living the right way.

  • @DMVNotaryTeam
    @DMVNotaryTeam ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear, I can't with Tony. Honesty at its best. I love it.

  • @akashicdivine888
    @akashicdivine888 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ding a ling in a jar🗣😂😂

  • @healthyhabits3406
    @healthyhabits3406 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Providers deserve what they ask for, u have to be deserving and what position your in. The first 12 seconds is the most important part

  • @stephanieknowles3854
    @stephanieknowles3854 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I use to watch Derrick Jaxyn but I stopped and am so happy I found your channel

  • @IceyIcey2023
    @IceyIcey2023 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh wonderful! For your sons new car. I luv your car chats 🚘

  • @sharitawilliams-burrus116
    @sharitawilliams-burrus116 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I didn't click on this video expecting much, but left with exactly what I needed! Thank you for the education and for being a willing vessel for Christ. Be blessed, be a blessing

  • @drekathigpen4869
    @drekathigpen4869 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    When he explained what men want and how they will work you… he is not telling one fib 🥴😂😂😂

  • @25KENDALL
    @25KENDALL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could have used this at 21 years old. Now 28, I lived & learned this through pain!! Wish I'd know then what I know now. Speaking truth! 🗣️ Got a good man now! I love this video, thanks 🙏

  • @lolakhan2724
    @lolakhan2724 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sloppy toppy...Tony is hilarious..He us truthful..frank..and honest. He tells it straight..no chaser...Right is right..wrong is wrong...he tells the truth..from where he came to where he is.

  • @Discernmenttford
    @Discernmenttford ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dang! I love how real Tony keeps it out here!!!!! This is so good. 🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥

  • @Blessed-me6tf
    @Blessed-me6tf ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wish I saw the video 5years ago before I got with a grown boy. Thank God I am free now. 🙌🏽

  • @angcheri
    @angcheri ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You kept it allllll the way real on this one. 💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @missswol
    @missswol ปีที่แล้ว

    You preaching today sir. Excellent message. God bless

  • @stephaniechatman3679
    @stephaniechatman3679 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen , on this topic what a lot of people don't talk about it's levels to this a Woman of God Don't need it but she will only submit to a man that Provides the same way she does will always be my motto it's basically like saying don't ask for something in many ways and levels that you can't perform as a Grown man yourself ,it's a major turn off the cookie jar peach cobbler all that gets shut down no true woman of God wants a man That is into drugs cause you looking over shoulder the same way he Is Its not Happening in my book ! God bless you and your wife and the way she thinks that is why y'all will always be BLESSED 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @girlletstalk808
    @girlletstalk808 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tony went in on this one 😅

  • @ChicagoFines74
    @ChicagoFines74 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Let me dip dat stick real quick. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 maaaaaaan you are hilarious !! GOD BLESS! ♥️🙏🏽

  • @annieukekwe620
    @annieukekwe620 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good luck guys & dolls 🍀
    Life has scrambled most peoples brains so much they don’t know how/what a good healthy relationship is nor the position they’re suppose to play in it.

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your oldest son!!! 🥳🎊🎉
    Thank you for your advice! 🙏🏾

  • @merlinsvdd
    @merlinsvdd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great sayings.. you speak truth!

  • @mztax09haynesworth44
    @mztax09haynesworth44 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This right here was on time AND on point!!!❤

  • @lisabyl3240
    @lisabyl3240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy sweet 16 to your firstborn. God's Blessings to you all. This is so true. The man is bred to provide as God provides. HalleluYah. You all are a success story. Thanks for your Truth filled videos about men. God bless you Tony. You are a man of integrity. Wish more men would watch your videos and learn these Truths and put them into practice. It would be a different world. Yes women Do Not take care of a man.

  • @2010buttabrowncups
    @2010buttabrowncups ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tony is always on point 🎯🥲

  • @renalewis6406
    @renalewis6406 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Tony G' . I learned this 7 yrs ago. I have not exchanged my values as a women since. If I do get into a relationship if I'm going to be the man and the woman & in the relationship I need to stay single. God has blessed me with someone who is a man and makes way way more than me.
    Who also trust me with everything including the money.
    It feels awesome.

    • @SandraJohnsonSupu
      @SandraJohnsonSupu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen and totally agree with you sis. I thank God for blessing you with such an awesome man. Thank you for your testimony….🙌🏽

    • @renalewis6406
      @renalewis6406 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SandraJohnsonSupu God bless you and yours. God is so amazing & great Hallelujah

  • @katrinabrown7871
    @katrinabrown7871 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Insight Tony! Happy 16th Birthday to Tony Jr ! 🥳🎉🙏🎂That is a BIG milestone & BLESSING… Congrats!! He definitely earned that Bday gift 🚘 with those straight A’s 📚 🙏💙

  • @silentdreams2415
    @silentdreams2415 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Be blessed Sir!

  • @jessieollinger
    @jessieollinger ปีที่แล้ว +78

    My dad did some almost illegal things to provide for my mom. I thought scandalous at the time, now I feel more respect for it! This was insightful, thank you. 🔥🙏

    • @Ambika5364
      @Ambika5364 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Almost illegal? Or illegal? Because I don’t think staying with a man doing illegal things is the right thing for a woman to do... Sheri didn’t support Tony’s “almost illegal” activities.

    • @Ambika5364
      @Ambika5364 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaynetharutherford7975 totally agreed 💯

  • @zamoyonijaja8268
    @zamoyonijaja8268 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So true Tony. My ex has just found me, he has spent the last 4 years building a farm in Africa. I spent 4 years giving him only venom when he contacted me. But he never stopped trying and now I have decided to give him a chance. all he wants to do is give not take anything. Only to prove his commitment and stability.

    • @kikiprettylife23
      @kikiprettylife23 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Be careful girl! Make sure he’s truly changed as a person before you let him come back!

    • @zamoyonijaja8268
      @zamoyonijaja8268 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tjaspire He was a great partner before, no abuse at all. But he got a back injury and lost his job, and was really struggling to provide and got depressed, we argued bout it and I finished with him. Defo not a narc, spent my youth always finishing with men for the tiniest things, hated commitment. Love it now, but I hear you there out there and are always happy to get old supply 😱 scary.

  • @girlletstalk808
    @girlletstalk808 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let me watch this again. This is just too good & so true 😂

  • @MissPetrina1
    @MissPetrina1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Women need sex and like sex. Why does she get urges? A woman does not have sexual trauma from abuse simply because she has sexual desire.
    I think that's pretty messed up. Throughout history men have tried to tell women that sex is for men and that women don't like her need sex.
    Now women may think there's something wrong with them if they have sexual desire.
    And on top of that, most of them don't even know they're awesome bodies. That's why some don't want sex.
    Because the man isn't delivering. A woman who's man found her spot said she began to crave sex
    Most women's bodies go undiscovered.
    I'm not trying to be inappropriate either but there's too much confusion being spread around and many women are so passive and docile they just go along with it.

  • @ashleybeverly7328
    @ashleybeverly7328 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hello, Blessed Tribe!!🎉 I find this message so calming and reassuring. ❤🎉

  • @bettywinn8296
    @bettywinn8296 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know, when I tune into your videos I will always get the truth, which is so hard to come by, these days.
    Just wishing, I had heard these lessons long ago.
    Better late than never. God is definitely using you.
    I am in separation from past person. I did end it abruptly with him, when. I realized, through my intuition, he was juggling me.
    Been hearing, he is planning to contact me & wants to reconcile & make peace. So, this message is timely. My guard is up & I have boundaries, now & have been learning & listening to you & others along with healing. You have the most honest, straight forward messages of all. That's what I need to hear. 💅

  • @lostinmyimagination7485
    @lostinmyimagination7485 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's making too much sense. We all needed to not only hear this, but take it to heart and follow what you said.

  • @ambermobetta6885
    @ambermobetta6885 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes you have to spell it out for em Tony…”skip a letter “ 😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯 Real world terms, for real world situations

  • @queenkristine9590
    @queenkristine9590 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    we may not need sex to the same extent as men, but those of us with “TOUCH ME” as their top love language, you better believe we NEED sex. without it, we die inside & the marriage suffers & falls apart. do not ever think women in general don’t *need* sex.

    • @MeeMeeG
      @MeeMeeG ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @taghazoutmoon5031
      @taghazoutmoon5031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hate my boyfriend for neglecting me sexually