5 Things That Make A Man Respect A Woman!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- Why aren’t men respecting women in 2022? What does it take for a man to respect a woman? You’d think it would happen automatically, but it’s simply not the case. In this video, I share 5 things a woman MUST do to earn a man’s respect. Unfortunately, respect isn’t just given, it’s earned. I hope this video helps explain that!
I met a man, an army veteran, who proposed 3 months after meeting! He’s ready to be a husband, and I, a wife. Wedding is this month! I have been abstinent for a little over a year! I’m so happy to finally be wife at 31. RC Blakes & Tony Gaskins has really helped me out in finding out where I was going wrong. Thank you to both of you!
Update 02/2024 : We just had our first baby , we are so happy and I’m so blessed to be a wife and a mom ❤️🎉🥳
God bless you ❤congrats 🎉
Congrats and be prayerful in all situations!
3 months. You only known him for 3 months……. Be careful….
You shared this on a public platform so I’ll say it, Military men are iffy, so this sounds like a red flag 🚩.
Crazy military
#1 if he don’t respect himself he can’t respect you.
So true!! That goes for people in general.
True
This is true and also when a man doesn't love himself he cannot love another woman. We cannot get love from someone who does not have it. Some men hate themselves and they will transfer that into their treatment of their women.
Preach sis ❤
If a boy has trouble keeping his pants waist at his waistline then what you have is a boy who doesn’t respect himself. RUN 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
1. Set boundaries. Don’t be too accessible.
2. Respect your body. It should be off limits.
3. Talk to you with respect.
4. Make sure he honors his word.
5. Do not bend over backwards. Go out your way to help. Don’t neglect any responsibilities for a man!!
Bonus: Keep your mouth closed. No oral sex!!!
Thank you ❤❤
I did all
The opposite 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
The bonus for the win! 😂😂😂😂💯💯💯
Amen, Bonus-AMEN, Amen,amen
@@maribelsanchez6421 same girl . Same 🤦🏾♀️
5 things that makes a woman respect you
1: stop sleeping around with anything and everything
2:stop leading woman on especially when you have no intention of marrying her
3:be respectful and stop thinking women are disposable
4:stop being manipulative
5:respect a womans body and no means no
Men will only do what women ALLOW them to do..women have the power, we set the boundaries.
@@franwilds145 Your generalizing. My man treats me like Gold. At all times. We are courting God's way. Hey, keep hope alive!
Men are very much entitled to have their own videos about what they expect and what their standards are for a woman. Matter of fact, I am here for it because it's good to know there are men out there with standards rather than the standard belief that almost all men will settle for anything. There are an abundance of videos where women share their standards for men. I just find it distasteful that men can't have anything without women trying to assert their opinions in as well. We have enough opinions. It reminds me of how women always try to assert themselves on Father's Day and make Father's Day about them as well. We understand the fact that there are a lot of no good men out there. I just wish they could have one thing to themselves without us always trying to combat it in some way.
I would say the same if this was a women's video and a man inserted his 5 tips. I just feel like there is a time and a place. And if one feels that strongly maybe they should go and make their own video with their own platform if not done so already. A woman's view is not what this video is about. This is extremely educational and needed for a lot of women. It seems like a slap in the face to make this about women.
It's just strange when the opposite sex tries to combat as if it invalidates everything that the other has said.
A man respects a woman when she walks way from his crap... Never settle!
I mean this in a respectful way. Is there anyone online that is teaching young men how to treat women properly instead of teaching women how to handle the disrespect of men?
Wow...
No one on line teaching men how to be respectful to women that is the job of mum, dad, school, church and society as well as common sense and decency e.g. treat others how you want to be treated.
Men often see all women as sport. Women see all men as boyfriend/ husband material then get taken to the cleaners. In other words men are from Mars women from Venus. Tony Gaskins teaching here about life on Mars.🙏
@@muzzmill He may be teaching about life on Mars but he is directing his comment to women on how to steer through Mars. If you can teach one gender on how to drive defensively, why not teach the other how to properly steer. How is it possible to advise or offer suggestions to one gender and not the other? Are men not approachable or advisable?
@@sonyawalkercreations5991good question
Men already know how to treat a woman… they just don’t. So we have to work around it
💙So basically, Ladies make sure u GET A LIFE AND Get u some BUSINESS and don’t be all MAN CRAZZZZZY that we forget about OUR PRIORITIES. We AS WOMEN has always had the power 🥰🥰💙💙 but at times we have not ALWAYS KNEW THIS nor KNEW HOW TO USE IT. What’s for u is for u🥰🥰💙💙, As Tony usually Always says. Come on LADIES WE GOT THIS!!!!!!💙💙
💯🎯🙏🏻
Absolutely 💯
Yesss
Exactly
Yeah a man can’t call me dawg, bro, man…my name is Akilah
What about TAkilah ?
Forgiving myself for my mistakes and doing better.Thank you Mr Gaskins.
Sis, we’ve all been there. God bless you.
Yes!
It’s a blessing to know better my sister. Be proud and move on. ❤
Forgiving yourself and moving on and doing better is k
Amen! same here sis! 🙏🏾🤗❤
My pastor always taught us when getting serious in a relationship before marriage that both partners should get tested for all STD’s and go over each other test results with confidentiality.
I believe and agree with that, i tell my daughter that too!!
I do this myself as a grown mature woman before i enter into a serious relationship. Its a given for me. I think it shud be for allmen n women who want to have physical intimacy.
LOVE IT💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Also to get random aids test to keep things on the up an up . We only know what a person is doing when their in front of us
Very true
This message goes back to what my grandma and great aunt's used to tell me growing up. If a man want you, he will wait. Sex will not keep a man, if that's all it takes; then no woman will be alone.
True cause I am married the sex was great and he still cheated
A man will do what ever you want...gotta be bout day life.
Period
What grandma and auntie said if he want you he will wait
Love this, so well-said
Waiting until marriage to become intimate with another person is the best route to take and only your husband will accept that decision. Everyone else is just there to sample goodies they haven’t earned nor have any intension of keeping for the long term. This is the absolute truth ladies. Take it or leave it. The power and choice is and has always been yours.
It’s definitely not easy though but it’s true! It’s best to wait
Facts
There will be not sex ever. EVER.
Easier said than done, ...most women out here are smashing the SAME NIGHT..
You & RC Blakes are having the convos others shy away from. Thank you for this video. More young ladies need to hear this!!!! Set the boundaries and hold firmly to them. ♥️
1. Set and maintain boundaries
2. Respect your own body (avoid pre-marital sex and any “foreplay” like kissing and touching, etc.)
3. Make sure he speaks with you with respect (no cursing, yelling, etc.)
4. Make sure he honours his word/keeps his promises to you (give him 2 chances)
5. Do not permit him to get away with disrespecting your schedule or responsibilities
6. Bonus: Do not do oral and/or anal sex
Thank you for that. I had lost count and the visual list truly helped me.
@@ladyempire5921 You are welcome!
Im just gonna copy your work. You put it so nice and neat
Thank you. God bless you
@@mileyroe4877 You are welcome. God bless you also.
Sex is definitely not that serious, me and my boyfriend are waiting until marriage. He respects my decision and he is willing to wait. If he isn’t willing to wait, he’s not the man for you. Point blank
My man is willing to wait as well. I find it incredibly difficult to be alone with him and trying to always meet in public. I think he's going to propose soon. Abstinence is SO difficult when you are in love.
@@danilaroche1156 I feel that, me and my boyfriend rarely ever hang out alone in a private intimate setting because of that reason
@@Fitandfabcrew Yes, I'm not chillin' at his place. Nor he at mine. But even in the car going on a date, we are wildly attracted to each other. Very much in love. I hope he proposes soon. I'm a bit afraid I might sleep with him and the attraction, both emotionally & physically gets stronger and stronger. Lord, help!
......per i ODD!!!😁
Period!!!!
Tony thank you for your advice and wisdom. After a dead end relationship in 2019 I made a decision to committ to the word of God and took two years off to grow and heal. I used your videos to grow and as a silent accountability. Fast forward December 2021 started to date someone eight months in dating a God fearing man I am in engaged and wedding date set. Thank you for all that you do and walking in your kingdom purpose blessings.
Congratulations!!
Honestly, your videos should be part of the curriculum for Middle and High School to help the youth make better decisions before reaching adulthood. I find myself watching some of your videos more than once because I really have to get your message imbedded in my brain to help me change bad habits. I hope your younger son feel better 🙏🙏 Keep up the Great Work Tony 💪🙌🙏
Yesssssss
I agree ❤
Yes indeed and I agree too.
Amen to that!!! Everything I've learned I wish I knew a lot sooner in life even though I'm only 20. And videos that pertain to my issues I rewatch over and over until I can practically recite what he's saying 😂
@@Alanjacksonliarforhire Great!! You're definitely on the right path ☺️
Ladies, listen to this brotha! These are all things I learned the VERY hard way...and suffered immensely due to my ignorance!
me too and I wish I heard this when I was a teenager wasted time and suffered alot Praise God I'm still here must teach my nieces and grands.
Wow! This needs to be taught to teenagers especially in our black churches. I’m 32 trying to date and I honestly feel like I have been thrown out to the wolves and I’M NOT WINNING. My parents and even the church spent so much time making sure I knew what a wife is supposed to do/ be and how to treat a man but no one ever taught me how a man should treat me or how manipulative and conniving the male species could be. Imagine how much heartbreak and life changing mistakes women could avoid if we didn’t have to learn this through trial and error and someone told us what we could expect from men and how to avoid it.
You too old sit down, especially when there a girl turning 18 every single day, we need that fresh water!
Sis, I feel you. We will learn and be better. We will receive what we deserve. Love you first and do you.
@@thefriendlypsychopath3894 You, sir, are not the prize. The 18 yr olds are not looking for you. You have to resort to looking for people who were recently underage children, to manipulate some naive kid, so you can get your way? Tells us your mental maturity level. Mentally arrested at the same age and never grew past that.
I see that man’s comment, calling u too old. I’ve also seen men, who want a woman their own age. It’s always been scary to me, when a man, 15, 20 yrs my senior tries to get me🤢🤮. Plus, I’ve rarely see any good results in those dynamics. Screw that guy, is what I’m saying. Providing some reassurance here, which I’m sure u already know. Just adding to it, while also saying, SCRAM, to the guy.😊
@@thefriendlypsychopath3894 you're just your average ignorant person.
What’s messed up is when a Man is super sweet and respectful while begging you to marry him then after you marry him he acts 100% disrespectful. 😢
That how narcissist are! The mask comes of after the marriage. They are wolves in sheep's clothing.
That's why you must wait at least 6 months because they can't hold that mask on that long before it slips.
Key is to follow the Holy Spirit. Following your intuition!
Virgins, continue to be strong waiting for marriage. It's very commendable to have sexual self discipline.
I saw red flags in week 2 of getting to know him..I have never stood up for myself when it comes to a man but when he didn't make any effort to see me when he asked am I seeing you this weekend, I knew deep down I was going to be used..I wished him well expressed how I felt and bam he dissapeared..ladies do not waste time ⌚ please..keep moving. Glad I don't have to invest anymore time and energy and I know we all go through stuff but if we can not help each other what's the point.
I know Tony is talking about people in relationships or 2 months in but I had a feeling I have to do it now.
It’s wonderful that your gut instinct kicked in and you kicked him to the curb. You saved yourself a lot of time and grief!! Well done!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻💯
@@piscespisces6 you're right 👉
@@dublingirl1691 oh my gosh thank you..I'm reading your message in the morning thinking about him but comments like yours makes it so much easier to move forward..I'm glad us woman are standing up for each other.
@@Didi-fr5ic I know it’s hard especially when your mind keeps going into a loop and pulls you in. You can do better and move on from it.
@Didi that's exactly how it's been with me and this lawyer I met on dating. He says the exact same things to me. "When am I going to see you next beautiful?" No effort at all to go out of his way to meet me half way or drive to my town..it was all on me. He wouldn't even walk me out to my car at night and had me driving to his place at night as a single mother, after work. And didn't ever offer gas money knowing that I'm a single mother!
Although I thought “ladies keep your mouth closed” meant stop talking and listen to these men (I believe men tell on themselves so I just let them talk my ear off lolll) I’m a big anti-oral for the girlies.
It’s gross!! You speak with your mouth, people interact and see you & your face. Woman do not need to give multiple men top especially when these men are not getting tested or cleaning themselves properly hygiene wise.
It’s not lady like & it’s a bit degrading (to me) with someone you don’t love. Anyways, I have firm no touching on parts when I’m dating men. They don’t touch mines and I’m not touching theirs.
To add to what you said about the current times and it being difficult for a woman to gain a man's respect..I also think the porn industry has totally warped the minds of men. Pornhub, Only Fans, even seeing women thirst trapping on social media & twerking has placed the value of women collectively at an all time low. Last year, I decided to totally put God 1st and since then it feels like God has taken over my self esteem and self worth. I now have absolutely zero tolerance for bs and the games men (and people in general play). When we as Women take our rightful place as beloved daughters of God and heir to throne, God doesn't play about us!!!
Yes porn being easily accessible on the internet is a huge problem. I'm not saying women aren't watching it but it's extremely addicting for men and that includes married men and it affects every aspect of their lives including of course their relationship with women. It is very hard for women to know if and how often this is occurring.
You are absolutely 100% spot on. Porn is depicting women being strangled, slapped, dragged, spat on… and this is the mainstream stuff on Pornhub. Boys as young as 10 are also masturbating to this, thinking it is how women should be treated, and men’s brains are being rewired by porn and porn addiction in such a way they’re becoming extremely sociopathic and lacking in empathy. I’d guess the vast majority of husbands are masturbating to other women in secret whilst the wife is remaining faithful and clean in her heart. We have serious problems. I don’t know if we can even recover from this as a society now. The consequences even if porn got banned worldwide tomorrow, will be multi-generational.
Currently in the process of getting to know someone and this came just in time! I’ve been re-watching all of your older videos on dating. Thank you, Tony!
Same! I got a folder for his top 10 videos and a note pad!! I've been moving intentionally since 2019! I always go back and listen when I start to really like someone..🥰
Tony you are spot on. I had a friend to not come to a birthday celebration for a milestone mind you in order to meet up with a guy she never met. Told her she was doing too much but she disagreed. And guess what...he changed plans. We as women have to learn to have some self-esteem. That's where all this desperation is coming from.
I'm sorry I can't stand women friends like this. They are the type that will throw their most loyal friends under the bus to get a man.
@@la6136 Oh that hurt me so bad. I been around for all kinds of men in her life....told her that stranger is not your spouse not even your man. I was so done. It sickens me to see women go crazy over a man. I'm single and been working on myself because all of that comes from a place of low self-worth.
True!
@@lafemme8 Trust me I understand I have had female friends like this too and it never ended well. Had to learn that lesson the hard way
So true
Thank you for highlighting the importance of boundaries with time and not being so easily accessible and available. I’ve been trying to adopt the mindset that having access to my time is a privilege. Supporting you as your channel grows and evolves. Thanks for the work you do!!!
Your 💯 right! The dating scene right now is disgusting. The hookup culture has really damaged dating. These guys are expecting sex on the first, second, or third date. The men actually feel entitled to have sex wit you. These desperate women are ruining it for the rest of us. I can’t believe what women are putting up with these days!! I always thought a man would appreciate a virtuous woman… they don’t seem to these days. I think it’s totally disrespectful for a man to assume he can kiss you on the lips on the first date. It’s literally Sodom and Gomorrah out there.
Tony got another thumbnail? Oh ok💙💙 let me tune in now💙💙🥰🥰.
Lol
My mistake as a woman has been I have came on strong to men and came at them sexually when they acted uninterested, just recently I went through my young daughter phone and I was shocked so I have to have much more respect for myself because my daughter is watching
You can do it sis. Coming on to men is not worth it.
Good luck
Timing Is Everything and should be a understanding of when the right time and place to do anything.
Didn’t watch the video but I’m just here to let you know that there is no way a man that doesn’t respect himself can respect you , whether you follow rules or not , it doesn’t matter.
First of all a decent man respects everyone and is kind to everyone , that is when you know you’ve met a good man.
Love and Peace ☮️
This needs to be pinned
Mr, Gaskins! I'm ready for class! I love ur videos and wisdom Sir! Be blessed Sir. Much love from the Netherlands.
As always, perfect message! Abstaining until marriage is key. A man who GOD has solely for you, will absolutely wait. Stay Blessed 🙏🏼
Sex isnt all oc it. Some men are closet gay so abstinence works for him. Some men will wait because they are only after your wallet. They could get sex elsewhere in the mean time. Been there, done that. I have no idea what works.
7:21 ladies yall need to hear what uncle Tony said : if he does not want to get married , he will not respect the no touchy my body. If he move like that as uncle Tony always say “got to go🏃🏾♀️”😂. But that will help you to not waste your time ! Ain’t nun changing his mind after that point. That’s all him, nothing of you and there is nothing you can do about that. Keep moving until you find the one who can respect that. Assess that man as a potential husband ! 💎💍. Uncle tone just drop big gems for us! You better pick it up !
In my late 40s I talk to a man for 3 months B4 I even consider a first date.I tell my cousins...let him pursue you for 3 months see if he still pursuing most times he will leave to that one that put out....come back to you....try anyway...I wasn't always this smart.
Big facts, Tony... 3 mos will most definitely reveal who you're really dealing with! Hold on and hold out ladies. Also, re: not allowing a man to speak to you disrespectfully or call you out of your name, address it immediately 4sure but most importantly hold yourself accountable the same way. Model the same behavior you expect... I do my best to rarely use profanity in general, but particularly at/toward my partner and as a result I have never been disrespected in that way even when emotions were high. Stay blessed and strong Sistas!
I met a guy that told me not to curse but he would it's the double standards for me and would say he could because he is a man
Thank you Mr. Gaskins,
I come from a 2 parent household where watching my mother and father interact was borderline cringe 😬. The way a husband respects his wife is the foundation of what a child subconsciously mimics within their own life when it comes to dating. Needless to say, I didn’t come from a background where my father spent time teaching me about dating and men because he was busy spending time outside of the home entertaining other women. So thank you for opening your platform to allow our younger generation of ladies to have AWARENESS of what a quality man looks like and the steps into creating better relationships overall. ❤
Kindly start making videos for men teaching them how to treat, respect and build women up and stop being absentee fathers. Respectfully, I don't think it's enough to just expose their games and put the responsibility of moral conduct all on women. Thank you
agreed! men need help!
My ex told me he would have waited for however long I said he had to wait because he liked me that much. I was the one that wanted it and he was shocked. After he told me that men will wait if they really like you, I said say less sir understood. And I’ve found what he said to be 100% true.
With or without thumbnails, glitz and glamor and all the fluffy introductions on so many of the different podcasts, I love Tony’s content and delivery. His spontaneous videos and posts are unique. Haven’t seen anything like his on this deep honest knowledge he is teaching all of us. He is right on target with it. I’m not a big fan of the Hollywood showy look but if that’s what he thinks it will take then I get it. I trust he knows best as he reaches out to more people. The fact that Tony is not wild about set routines, this current model for him works really well. I’m sure he will take all of that into consideration as he moves on with this gift that he has.🙌🏻🙏🏻💗
This is great advice. Now as women it’s our responsibility to follow through. This way we set a higher standard for men that they have no choose to meet if they want to be with us.
Once I raised my standards and respected myself, I received several marriage proposals. I'm over 50!
Honestly really shouldn’t have sex until married ❤ that’s what I will teach my daughter and son.
Thanks for this deep message , I agree 100% and confirm that when you give a man sex before marriage your value in his eyes will definitely decrease a lot and the respect in the same time ! I’ve made mistake in my past but no more . Thanks God for this confirmation to encourage me to stay abstinent and celibate until I get married .
God Bless you my dear 🙏🏽
Once it is established you have a committed relationship where you are only with each other and you feel this... You know this. If that happens I think that's okay too :-)
Facts🔥 Thank You 🙏🏽
@@CC12398 No Marriage. No Sex. Period. God's way is Always the best way!
@@tp1201 ALWAYS!!
@@patriciawhite9509 AMEN.
Hey Tony, not sure if you’re aware, but there’s a new TH-cam page reposting your content to their page. They put your name in the title, but I still think its a kind of theft to garner traffic to their page by using your content and not making their own. The page is called “Christians Abstaining for Marriage Courting”.
You beat me to it!! Hopefully he sees this!
I saw this too on that website!!!
Talk to the men too because some men never taught how to treat a woman. Some men raised by single mother and need to hear it from a man. Thanks. Appreciate you
I've beennn saying thisssssss . Off the cuff I say I don't be texting men after 10pm
I don’t care about all the bells & whistles.. just the information Tony . 🙌🏾
MARRIAGE ONLY FOR TOUCHING, OTHERWISE KEEP MOVING! PERIOD! ONE CALLED ME OUT OF MY NAME IN 2011 & HE'S STILL TRYING TO GET ME BACK TO THIS DAY! I SAID "PEACE, POOF, REPENT, GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST, BE GONE!"
Powerful message! I am so grateful for my father and brothers. They have teach me the most of this on a young age. it’s so important for us to have a male role model. My father died 4 years ago and I still miss this conversation with him. @Tony Gaskins may God bless you. Much love all the way from Holland Nederland 🇳🇱❤️
All women Listen Always Have Respect For yourselves
Tony I love you! With all due respect! I feel like I’m the only woman that thinks oral on a strange man is DISGUSTING!!! Women give away so much to too many men. The desperation is real out here. I’ve been eating my popcorn watching this horror story.
Dang I’m almost 40 and I wish my dad would have told me all this when I was younger!! I’m suffering the consequences now of my foolish actions when it has come to disrespecting myself and my body. Doing this will inevitably 99 percent of the time lead to horrible depression and anxiety, envy, anger….and just so many things that lead to destruction. I’m slowly breaking free from each of these things everyday. You’re amazing Mr. Toni. Thank you for putting this info out there for young women who need to hear this. Knowledge only first came by hearing, and hearing only from those who were sent and bold enough to tell it. 🙏🏾
I'm a single, divorced woman.. It's SO true about how women give oral sex like it's an extension of kissing!! It's hideous.. I am no prude.. However, Im disgusted and sad to see how willingly women give away something that should be a sarcred moment in a committed relationship.
I ove all your videos. I've just started watching you. And you are so on point.
I will tell men that I have my values, and that I am old fashioned in my beliefs, and dating, and I make no apologies for it.. If they can't accept i that's just fine with me.❤
Well it is either oral or vaginal for some men!
I'm praying for u Mr, Gaskins. May God grant u all ur wishes Sir. May God continue to bless u and the Gaskins family Sir! May He be with u. May God protect u! Amen!
Why is it that sometimes a woman will do a lot of the things you advise against, and she still gets proposed to? It's got me over here confused, because there are women that are doing the work to be wife material or already have done the work that get passed over. It makes no sense to me.
I need answers too.
You are actually right.
I think as women we can only do our part , the woman who get proposed to , we have no idea the man their marrying . Just because a woman gets married doesn’t mean she’s walking into a good marriage. Maybe she is but maybe she isn’t , what we do know is with the advice he’s sharing , we as woman are more prone to walking into good marriages not just marriage in general. Aso, Sometimes we get passed over because it’s just not the person. God may still be preparing our person for us.
Uncle Tony with the lunchtime gems 💎 ✨️ 🙌🏾
Brother Tony Gaskins - yes, GOD is in the details. Favor is upon you. Your work is for the KINGdom🙌🏾🙏🏾. Continue to be led by Him. You are appreciated. Blessings to your wife and sons🙏🏾..... So grateful for your work 🤌🏾
I pray God will continually bless you in your season of excellence. God has so much in store for you because you speak the truth. This is confirmation.
Be classy and expect classy. Been married 11 years and this is so true. Finally somebody speaking with some sense.
Okay, big brother! We see the thumbnail lol I'm sooooo proud of your growth. God's Hand on you is so evident that excellence in every area is just the natural progression. I needed that same encouragement/reminder (thanks!). And, because of you, I've also grown sooo much in so many areas. Thank you!
Just wanted to say I've been obtaining your wisdom since late 2019 and you're so right the hand of God has been evident throughout the years. I'm looking forward to your future endeavors!
It’s not women’s job to teach men how to treat women
I’m old thought I knew it all but don’t be accessible after 10 or before 9. I seriously had no idea. WoW thanks
Your videos have changed my life for the better. Bless you, your wife and boys.
Not Tony with thumbnail 👀. Are you trying out something ? Lol
Your video is so valuable , every woman should watch, especially teenagers who have started dating. it amazes me how the Black community in America throw the word "bitch" around even playfully, it has become accepted and women dont get offended when there"re referred to as bitches..
It's the rawness for me! Ladies let's get this FREE knowledge Tony is giving and use it to our advantage. No other man is giving us this information ..especially those of us without fathers/brothers. We have to listen and do better! Like Tony said a few months ago... the power is in the P lol. We hold the power. So we have to keep our legs & mouths closed 🙏🏾😂
Dang, I’ve definitely been too accommodating 😮😮 with my employment and children responsibilities.
Thank God for u, Tony Gaskins. God has u and will continue to lead u. Thank God for u in teaching us to be open and receptive. 🙌🙌🙌
Excellent video. The only way to break free from the power of a man is to get under the power of the Holy Spirit.
Tony tony tony. What about men and money!? When women give it to em, when they don’t etc!! Plz do one on this topic, love. Thank u. Your insight is perfection. Xox
For me the talking late at night or early morning is not a big deal because I’m just genuinely excited to get to know this person. And sometimes late at night may be the only time I have during the week. But I know I do struggle respecting my own time so… Physical boundaries though, and making sure he treats you with respect (honesty, kindness consistency) will weed out the players.
The reason why Tony said late at night and early in the morning is because a guy who just wants to use you contacts you at those hours. Everyone got 24hrs in a day and if a guy doesn't contact you during the day that's a red flag.
@@bee67371 Yes I have been contacted by the guy testing me at 11 pm at night. Usually a guy I just connected with. It does say a lot.
Tony is right
It’s a lot classier to not comunicate between 10,00 pm and 9,30 am
@@FoundSheep-AN I agree in the initial conversation but if it naturally happens, I don’t think that is bad. Especially if you communicate with this person earlier in the day on a regular basis. Also, I tend to stay up late especially on weekends. My main thing is authenticity. I don’t want to refuse a phone call or text convo that I genuinely want to have. It’s feels in-genuine. I don’t think you should not doing something just for the sake of appearances i.e. being classy. I want to not do things because they are actually impractical, detrimental, etc. I do get the point though, if you are doing that so much that it interferes with your schedule (like needing to get up early). This would then be a real issue of you putting them above your needs and responsibilities. Im an entrepreneur and my schedule is not set, so it’s easier for me to adjust my schedule. I guess it goes into the “caveats” for me, and not pretending to have a standard just to appear “classy.”
I agree, it’s not one size fits all. Everyone’s schedule are different. Like you said if you’re both communicating throughout the day and talking after a certain time at night works for you both then go with it.
Spirit of excellence… Polished! Thank you for that blessing 🙏🏼
Hi Tony. Sometimes, a woman can do all the right things, follow all the rules of morality and still encounter a man who will not respect her. Some men are good at lying and manipulating; therefore masking who they really are. Do you have a video about those types of guys?
He has many... search for his name and add "grown boys" and you'll find them.
This was such a very powerful life changing msg. I have already shared with my daughter and friend and will continue to share with women and plan on sitting my 13 yr old grandson down when I feel he’s mature enough to receive. To God be the glory, honor, power and praise! 🙌🏾👏🏾💃🏿
Thank you for confirming my conclusion, regarding men. Three years ago God reveled the nature of men is circulated around respect! Thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you Tony for doing what you do!! I agree that relationship education should be taught with consistency and wisdom! Had we known about things like this in our formative years it would've saved us so much pain and trauma! 🙏
I just told my mom about being submissive, and understanding a mans position . He is the head. Women don't want to let men lead.. but the man has to know himself enough to lead as the teacher of this video... I'll be showing this to my daughter . Thank you! I'm just old fashioned. This is one reason women are loosing feminimity- Thinking they can be like a man and do what a man does and then our bodies get all worn down trying to manage too much..
Don’t ever be men lead. Being men lead means doing all the things he wants and not thinking for yourself. So If he wants to sleep with you in the first date it’s ok? If he wants to call you names that’s ok? If he wants to jump into bed when you have the flu that’s ok? He doesn’t want you to discipline your kids you have together that’s ok? If you are tired and he wants cooked food that’s ok? If you want to be men lead that means the man is 100% right all the time. No person is 100% all the time. I will never be lead by anyone. I don’t drink don’t smoke don’t party… very educated great job. people who do those things are lead by others. Ladies always have boundaries even if you are married with children like I am.
@@suddiansmith8578 i understand what you're saying, id like to clarify because i mostly definitely do not mean in the way you listed above, lol. Each person has to know themselves. Couples have accountability to each other. Most people simply do want that responsibility. A lot goes into it. Whether someone is damaged from their past bringing that into something new , or the influences of the world, or they simply have not been taught or have not had an example as this man is doing in these videos... the list goes on and on. The psychological effects of just the few things that I named Are deeper than what people realize you cannot love someone if you do not love yourself or know yourself That alone can take a lifetime. So no most definitely not let a man lead and control everything but each person know their postion & place . A lot of people can not let go enough Because they are harboring things from the things I listed above and more... We can't even let go enough to let God! That's enough said😊🙏🙌
A woman do want a man to lead, if he doesn't act like a woman.
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I waited about a year after my divorce to self reflect pray start loving myself and felt like I was healed and finally met someone seemingly a very nice young man non-confrontational, hard-working, one child, respects his mother, and generous, and very kind. One year and a half later of dating him and figuring out that he has too much past trauma to continue a relationship with I decided to cut ties and block him. He comes to my house 20 minutes later and he smacks me twice and calls me a bitch in front of my child text my phone so I can't call the police and slams it down on the ground and leaves. I never saw it coming. I am now back in the place I was two and a half years ago... Scared and wondering where I went wrong how did I lose his respect for him to even think that he would pull this off and there would be no repercussions from it. I am nowhere near a lesbian but it gives me an understanding of why women turn to women. Men are savages in general n even the so-called nice guys are trying to show their asses and I think social media and the way that men degrade and disrespect women as a whole has a lot to do with it.
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry this happened, but thankful you were not injured badly. You can do everything right, and a man still won't respect you. Often people wear masks
Tony spoke a word on this video! Sending this to a few people.
I needed to see this, at this time. I thought I was doing well in this area, but my father passing during the holidays, pushed me to break from a relationship I KNEW was lacking but tryna hang in there. I see my responsibility in my past relationship fails and am ready to do better cuz I been knowin’. My new year starts NOW.
Good morning 🌞 Hope everyone have a blessed day ❤
Tony, I want you to know that one of the BIGGEST reasons you have a good platform the way you is because of how genuine you are. I personally don't want you to get the glam and glitter, because a lot of people change when that happens. We are comfortable with your platform the way it is because it's almost like we're talking to someone we know personally. That is the kind of relationship you want to have with your audience. You are a married man- so not TOO personal, but personal enough to where we feel like you are family and we can come for advice. I have not had sexual intercourse in 2 years- plus I was able to walk away from a man that I was dealing with on and off for 2 years a little over a year ago. That is 100% because of God leading me to YOUR VIDEOS. You changed the way I deal with men. Particularly black men. Cause I date all races, but brothas are unique in a sense that they act like lil boys that need to be trained and I've learned how to put my foot down with these dudes. And as a result, they respect me for it. So please don't change anything. We are getting the message. We hear you. And we are grateful for men like you who actually care about women. Because most men don't. Thank you!
Preach! bm in mass are manboys🔥. putting bw down, while they consistently doing the least yet expecting the most sexually & in every way. but 🙄 run if u say i'm abstinent or mention the word marriage 🏃♀️. they have no morals/values and blames bw women for everything bad yet claims he's a king. other races don't put their women down they protect them. done with bm grownboys. they are addicted to porno and lost in the sauce. other race men are not 🤷 the best. but they are not broken beyond repair like bm.
It is so sad that all women don't inherently know this.
Brilliant advice!
Once humanity learns that sexuality is sacred and a path to higher consciousness, the game will change. Spiritual awakening changes everything. ✨
Preach the truth, Tony. Thank you for this much needed message.
"Mind ya business" lol 😆 🤣
"I'm shocked to find that out!"... As always; WISDOM ✨❤✨
It can't be more powerful than this🙌🏾 Thank you and God bless your heart!!
He is telling the truth ladies if a man want be with u and he say he love u make him earn your love ,trust, and respect you cant change a man he will change himself that's how u know if he really love u real talk
You’re like the big brother I never had Tony! Thank you for this. Taking notes for when i start dating again.
Great teaching brother. God bless you ! 🥰🥰
I'm checking in for this lunch time lesson. Be blessed Tony. G
I so love your integrity and authenticity Tony. I thank GOD for your life, love for him and your family. You are a blessing to the body of CHRIST!
WOW Tony this video is much needed! All of your videos are helpful and I thank you and Mrs. Gaskins to give your time as you have. I just heard on a podcast that some men aren't against polygamy to have multiple women. Yet it may not be his taste to do but he's not against polygamy. Yet when asked could his women have other men, there was a straight no because a man explained "his woman could get pregnant by the other man". Yet wouldn't that be the same for him getting one of his women pregnant. The boundaries are so out of line with some men, not all. Cause there are some good men out there. We continuously need your voice Tony to speak truth. You give truth and game away and these are truly life changing for the better. THANK YOU TONY, THANK YOU because you are saving women and men LIVES!
We can’t call them “men”…men don’t have those behaviors! We have to keep them in a “grown boy” or “male” title. A man is someone who knows how to respect a lady, guys, males and grown boys brother Tony! These are not men and they shouldn’t be given such honorable title with such reckless behavior.
1000% I remember in my early dumb years when I dated a sociopath he used to tell me that he knew I love him more than my kids and I thought he was insane but come to find out that he was actually right
Wait..so you did??
I am so, so, soo thankful I have a somewhat protective dad who has always vetted the man I was interested in dating. He taught me lessons similar to this over the years. When I became Christian I also began learning why it is so important to set boundaries, discipline ourselves and walk away from anyone who does not respect that. You might not want to do these things, but we must think of our future selves and the consequences of our actions.
Tony, Tony, Tony has done it again!!! These are straight jewels that he's dropping. I needed this in high school, my 20''s 30''s and now 40's.....but better late than never.