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I learned as a teen not to judge a man based on his car. I remember everyone was going crazy over guys with rims on their cars. I thought it was very tacky from day one 😂 I feel the same way about designer clothing. I’d be embarrassed to be at dinner with a man and his clothing is matching like a 2T outfit and full of letters & patterns😂😂 less is always more for me
Its so refreshing to hear someone advising women to search for a man with good character! Not stressing looks, money or other things that dont edify the soul. A man with character will draw blessings to you and himself
That's like a needle in a haystack..Good Luck with that!!! With a lot of b men it's all about s*x..Their ever movement and game is how quickly they can get you in the sack...Sad!!!
I’m sorry but if a guy is testing me by coming on our date with his beat up car and then comes back with a nice car. That tells me all I need to know about him. I’m not interested in someone who plays games cause that means that they’re not healed and they’re operating based off their trauma to test women to see if they’re “gold diggers”. If I’m being courted you better come to impress. Sorry not sorry 💅🏾
Well how is going to know? Women these days are not God fearing and play a good game of having it all together and yet be 40 and still clubbing. And if they stopped and added up all the years of buying drinks, clothes and nails would be a small fortune. Good men have to be careful because Games are being played by both in that case.
@Brice Bennett I can understand and empathize. A while a go I would have rolled my eyes at a man complaining about what seems basic but it's not bc we are all struggling so much. I just hope we can all find a person we connect w as friends first and then fall in love
@Cathy Marie I'm sorry you feel this way , too. Things were complicated in decades before social media and porn on tap. Now, its significantly harder to discern who's healthy and keep your peace at the same time.
I learned a long time ago that a man can have a luxury car and still be behind on bills. Just because he’s driving it means nothing. Thanks for the cheat code Tony 📝👌🏾
I knew someone like that, could hardly pay his rent, but had the most expensive car and asking for money for gas. I encouraged him to get a more affordable car and downsize his apartment, but did not want to do so.
Yes! My ex had a 2023 BMW, A luxury apartment in a wealthy area in Maryland and fixed his lips to ask me for money so he could purchase a want and not a need. Once I realized he lived wayyyy beyond his means, he went from Boyfriend to acquaintance. Ladies do not be fooled by these men with fancy STUFF.a lot of them are super insecure and that’s the only way they can attract a woman is by “appearing” to be stable. Because the character is not there!
@@eaglelensforemay7503 if u knew QuaTheTruth was at the same financial level as this dude she spoke about, (and many women making this same type of comment are) would u still consider her a gold digger?
@@eaglelensforemay7503 No, we met at a basketball game. I always drove my own car to dates out in DC. I never checked for what he had. He actually waited a few months to reveal what he did have….material wise. So Goodbye!
He must have a job/profession or a business, money management skills and being able to take care of himself financially, along with integrity and character. Great teaching as always.
I’m sitting in my tractor right now listening to you then you discredit us women driving lol. Female trucker for eight years now….. I so needed this video.
This is catch 22. This only works if you have not that much as well. I’m sure it’s implied. Because if you happen to have more than him it gets tricky.
Most of the REAL men I come across are already married for years or not attracted to black women outside of sex. It’s really tough out here for us so many of us choose to be superficial or just single for life. Regardless, thank you for the content!
I get underestimated all the time because of my selection! My type isnt a look, its a spiritual connection. That cannot be bought, its earned and it should be valued. More of us women and men need to strip the egos and allow the opposite sex in...they will find out we all want the same thing unconditional Love❤
It means he's financially responsible. Thank you Tony for breaking the delusion. Sometimes women use the fairytale approach to real world issues. I've been way more concerned with a man's ability and ambition, authenticity and character.
Hello, Tony, You are so right 90%, of us don’t listen. It is so sad. Thank you for continuing to pour into us! Thank you for giving up the game to us that don’t listen. As you often say, men know men! I am learning and listening!
Character, conduct, and conversation 🤌🏾 all should be clean. That shows an individual's moral compass and it shines brighter than material things that will eventually rot anyways. Substance over surface🙏🏾
Literally on my weightloss journey and was biting into a pineapple pizza as soon a Tony said you said you on your weightloss journey but....😂😂😂I literally just lost my appetite I'm convicted
The title is incorrect for this video. It should read something like this: How a woman should choose a man. Secondly, the type of woman most men are looking for is a woman he can control because that is the experience of men for thousands of years.
Then they have he nerve to not even buy the dupe..they get the real thing all to impress a woman that will eventually find out his spending habits are out of control!
Content 👏🏽 So grateful for my boyfriend. With your teachings I was able attract him & see my man stick out like a sore thumb compared to others. You’re hilarious per usual
Tony ok so we have our 3Bs and settle for being happy because he doesn’t cheat and he prays? I enjoy my luxuries.. I don’t want to be shamed for knowing God has the best for me.. even materially. High earning women be careful…
Love this comment!!! Tony want us out here perfect but we have to settle for potential 💀 Character is definitely a standard but imagine being with a man making 40k, if I get pregnant, I’ll still have to work the whole pregnancy 🤦🏾♀️ Hard pass!
It's giving red pill, just be happy you have a "good man" energy and I'm not with it.. Signed ~ a semi- materialistic, married, carefree, child free, woman~
What really happens is the guy will have a job and talk about starting a biz and getting a degree but never make a real move to that…false advertisement…then you look up and he may have that low paying job still or he may have quit a couple times, usually the latter. Realistically, women are not passing up good men but liars and pretenders.
Thank Mr. Tony Gaskins for continuing to drop gems 💎. I agree 💯. There is no price you can place on integrity, character, respect and ambition. Those are attributes that are taught and learned through home training and life experience.
The men should start by not judging women and they won't be judged, most men are quick to attack and judge single mothers and say she doesn't deserve love and those are hard working women, yet they don't want to face the same accountability. I'm waiting to see the high profile, middle-class man who's going to date and accept a woman who works in housekeeping, the retail store, and serving in restaurants. My question is, would you give this advice to your daughter's. Real men don't lead with money to get the woman, they lead with loyalty, honesty, security, ambition, protection, and FYI real women aren't empressed by what you drive that's male ego and insecurities. A good woman won't trick you out of the bag, so stop looking for treats in a trick basket. Bills don't wait for improvements. 😂
Everytime my mom get money she runs to spend it, then she always counting my pockets quoting "You save yours " I tell her stop being so quick to spend!!!!!
Great message Tony! Laughed at the comment about the woman driver in the 18 wheeler big truck! I thought what would you do if you got on a flight and after boarding finding out the pilot was a woman 🤣🤣
Hello Mr. Gaskins, I am listening. I appreciate your wisdom and advice to us women! I wish I could have talked to you one-on-one when me and my ex-spouse was seeking counseling!! I truly appreciate your videos right now! It has help me get through! God Bless You and Your Family🙂🤩
Tony, you speak the truth. I read the Bible daily, and I'm in agreement with everything so far. Thank you for helping us by giving away the "game". I'm married for 35 years now, but I listen to you too educate my grands that are teenagers. Plus I'm learning in case I'm back on market one day. Thank you so much!!!
I think that if a woman is wealthy it is okay for her to look for a man who is also wealthy. I want to be with someone I can build wealth with that is important to me. I don't want to be with a man who is okay being financially average because he will be holding me back.
I loveeeee his videos!!! He be definitely telling the truth and be funny too!!! LOL!!!! "You talking about you on ya journey and you sittin' there ordering a pasta, a cake with a coca cola." LMAOOOOO
Character!morals! Self respect! Integrity! Loyalty!
I don't even hear women mention these yet they wonder why they keep running into dusties with money🥴🤦🏾♀️
I learned as a teen not to judge a man based on his car. I remember everyone was going crazy over guys with rims on their cars. I thought it was very tacky from day one 😂 I feel the same way about designer clothing. I’d be embarrassed to be at dinner with a man and his clothing is matching like a 2T outfit and full of letters & patterns😂😂 less is always more for me
Many wealthy people dress more minimalistic and plain. Poor people wear a bunch of logos because they are trying to look rich.
@@la6136 or people that used to be poor & can now afford labels that they couldn't when they were poor.
@@gapeach7814 Now this just preachd. I call in New Money... ain't use to nothing and you can tell.
This whole thread is the truth!
RIGHT 😂😂😂
Its so refreshing to hear someone advising women to search for a man with good character! Not stressing looks, money or other things that dont edify the soul. A man with character will draw blessings to you and himself
Amen 🙏🏽
That's like a needle in a haystack..Good Luck with that!!! With a lot of b men it's all about s*x..Their ever movement and game is how quickly they can get you in the sack...Sad!!!
Amen my sister!
100%
🙏🏽🙏🏽
These dudes want to be chased yet they desire a feminine woman.🤔
@@genovasquez8361 whatever works for you 🤷🏽♀️
@@genovasquez8361Mature women don't want to be chased, but to pursued;)
@@genovasquez8361 if you say so
@@genovasquez8361 it’s about pursuing, not chasing. The minute you have to chase is when games are being played by that woman. 🙄
Tony I love it when you tell the truth! I am 70 years old, divorced, and I now realize how important it is to be a godly woman with some sense!!
Amen!
I’m sorry but if a guy is testing me by coming on our date with his beat up car and then comes back with a nice car. That tells me all I need to know about him. I’m not interested in someone who plays games cause that means that they’re not healed and they’re operating based off their trauma to test women to see if they’re “gold diggers”. If I’m being courted you better come to impress. Sorry not sorry 💅🏾
I agree. I don't like mind games either.
Preach!!!
Thank you! 💅🏾
Exactly, women want a man who knows when he’s found a good one too
Well how is going to know? Women these days are not God fearing and play a good game of having it all together and yet be 40 and still clubbing. And if they stopped and added up all the years of buying drinks, clothes and nails would be a small fortune. Good men have to be careful because Games are being played by both in that case.
I'm exhausted by dating
Same here. Dating is like a job interview. They don't qualify us as their type men of choice
@Brice Bennett I can understand and empathize. A while a go I would have rolled my eyes at a man complaining about what seems basic but it's not bc we are all struggling so much. I just hope we can all find a person we connect w as friends first and then fall in love
I feel you
@Cathy Marie I'm sorry you feel this way , too. Things were complicated in decades before social media and porn on tap. Now, its significantly harder to discern who's healthy and keep your peace at the same time.
Yes. It sucks.
I learned a long time ago that a man can have a luxury car and still be behind on bills. Just because he’s driving it means nothing. Thanks for the cheat code Tony 📝👌🏾
I knew someone like that, could hardly pay his rent, but had the most expensive car and asking for money for gas. I encouraged him to get a more affordable car and downsize his apartment, but did not want to do so.
Yes! My ex had a 2023 BMW, A luxury apartment in a wealthy area in Maryland and fixed his lips to ask me for money so he could purchase a want and not a need. Once I realized he lived wayyyy beyond his means, he went from Boyfriend to acquaintance. Ladies do not be fooled by these men with fancy STUFF.a lot of them are super insecure and that’s the only way they can attract a woman is by “appearing” to be stable. Because the character is not there!
@@quathetruth8314but you went out with him because you assumed he was stable and had money! Girl you are a gold-digger yourself 😂
@@eaglelensforemay7503 if u knew QuaTheTruth was at the same financial level as this dude she spoke about, (and many women making this same type of comment are) would u still consider her a gold digger?
@@eaglelensforemay7503 No, we met at a basketball game. I always drove my own car to dates out in DC. I never checked for what he had. He actually waited a few months to reveal what he did have….material wise. So Goodbye!
He must have a job/profession or a business, money management skills and being able to take care of himself financially, along with integrity and character. Great teaching as always.
Include good health too I never knew my deceased finance has heart issues
@@bosslady4146 True. If they have health issues, they need to get it under control.
@@missj5564 its too late he died before i knew
Yep. That what I think
A man who have passion and go after his work
Exactly Tony!! A man who has character, morals and values are the real GOAT.
Amen!!!
I’m sitting in my tractor right now listening to you then you discredit us women driving lol. Female trucker for eight years now….. I so needed this video.
That might be you I passed lol . Bless you!
As a female truck driver, we take no offense Tony 😂 you out here changing lives… we are grateful for your wisdom 🌻
"Pulling up with red bottoms and your bank account is red bottomed"😂😂😂
This is catch 22. This only works if you have not that much as well. I’m sure it’s implied. Because if you happen to have more than him it gets tricky.
Reallll tricky …lol
I agree
Yep...real tricky
Most of the REAL men I come across are already married for years or not attracted to black women outside of sex. It’s really tough out here for us so many of us choose to be superficial or just single for life. Regardless, thank you for the content!
So true
Some of the good ones are taken
Relationship coach/ comedian 😂😂😂
Willingness to keep a job!!! Be responsible for his own needs! Support his family and be that
Godly man!
I get underestimated all the time because of my selection! My type isnt a look, its a spiritual connection. That cannot be bought, its earned and it should be valued. More of us women and men need to strip the egos and allow the opposite sex in...they will find out we all want the same thing unconditional Love❤
😂😂 Tony is hilarious 👍🏽 his realism is RAW!!
It means he's financially responsible. Thank you Tony for breaking the delusion. Sometimes women use the fairytale approach to real world issues. I've been way more concerned with a man's ability and ambition, authenticity and character.
Exactly
Yes
Hello, Tony,
You are so right 90%, of us don’t listen. It is so sad. Thank you for continuing to pour into us! Thank you for giving up the game to us that don’t listen. As you often say, men know men! I am learning and listening!
It's called SELECTIVE LISTENING - only hearing what you wanna hear! :(
Character, conduct, and conversation 🤌🏾 all should be clean. That shows an individual's moral compass and it shines brighter than material things that will eventually rot anyways. Substance over surface🙏🏾
Are you married or in a relationship?
Let a man's character be his currency as Mr. Tony said. Be blessed.
And most of these grown boys are morally bankrupt!!
Tony is really a comedian!
😂yes I agree
Tony must have drunk a cup of coffee
Whew. A man with character is rare.
Literally on my weightloss journey and was biting into a pineapple pizza as soon a Tony said you said you on your weightloss journey but....😂😂😂I literally just lost my appetite I'm convicted
Your first mistake was eating pizza with pineapple 😂
@@faithfitness6434 🤣🤣🤣pineapples are made for pizza lol
😂 u caught
@@eveheart2876 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣big time. I said God be speaking through Tony fr lol
😂😂😂
The title is incorrect for this video. It should read something like this: How a woman should choose a man. Secondly, the type of woman most men are looking for is a woman he can control because that is the experience of men for thousands of years.
You come in there with some red bottoms and your bank account in the red bottoms. 😂😆
Then they have he nerve to not even buy the dupe..they get the real thing all to impress a woman that will eventually find out his spending habits are out of control!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Character 🤝🏾 = Currency ☝🏾
👏🏾💯👏🏾💯
Tony I have my CDL’s even though I don’t drive anymore. I’m a nurse now but I was an excellent driver 😂I still love you
Women truck drivers are some of the best drivers in the world. 😮lol . Love you Tony and the work you are doing for everybody.
Content 👏🏽 So grateful for my boyfriend. With your teachings I was able attract him & see my man stick out like a sore thumb compared to others. You’re hilarious per usual
Tony ok so we have our 3Bs and settle for being happy because he doesn’t cheat and he prays?
I enjoy my luxuries.. I don’t want to be shamed for knowing God has the best for me.. even materially.
High earning women be careful…
Love this comment!!! Tony want us out here perfect but we have to settle for potential 💀
Character is definitely a standard but imagine being with a man making 40k, if I get pregnant, I’ll still have to work the whole pregnancy 🤦🏾♀️
Hard pass!
It's giving red pill, just be happy you have a "good man" energy and I'm not with it..
Signed ~ a semi- materialistic, married, carefree, child free, woman~
What really happens is the guy will have a job and talk about starting a biz and getting a degree but never make a real move to that…false advertisement…then you look up and he may have that low paying job still or he may have quit a couple times, usually the latter.
Realistically, women are not passing up good men but liars and pretenders.
Thank you...these men out here playing good women and Tony knows this. He's said this himself. He sounds red pill. He's changed
You are so real and an open book, but you have me laughing. Continue helping us, thank you
So true - thank you for sharing this (some of us are listening) 🙂
Tony I wanna say thank you for bringing pure logic to the chat.
This is great content!! You're also very funny 😂 appreciate you, Tony 🙏🏽
😂😂😂 ok, Tony! Mercedes don’t mean money!
Be blessed Sir!
Thank Mr. Tony Gaskins for continuing to drop gems 💎. I agree 💯. There is no price you can place on integrity, character, respect and ambition. Those are attributes that are taught and learned through home training and life experience.
The men should start by not judging women and they won't be judged, most men are quick to attack and judge single mothers and say she doesn't deserve love and those are hard working women, yet they don't want to face the same accountability. I'm waiting to see the high profile, middle-class man who's going to date and accept a woman who works in housekeeping, the retail store, and serving in restaurants. My question is, would you give this advice to your daughter's. Real men don't lead with money to get the woman, they lead with loyalty, honesty, security, ambition, protection, and FYI real women aren't empressed by what you drive that's male ego and insecurities. A good woman won't trick you out of the bag, so stop looking for treats in a trick basket. Bills don't wait for improvements. 😂
Well said!
Thank you bro for all of you work.
Everytime my mom get money she runs to spend it, then she always counting my pockets quoting "You save yours " I tell her stop being so quick to spend!!!!!
It's important for men to be able to balance having a strong working ethic, and being able to spend time quality time with his wife and family.
Thank you Tony 😊👍🏾🎯💯
The commentary got me weak! But you’re stating facts 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for this Tony!!
Thank you for this video!
Keeping it real. This is Wisdom!
Driving one right now listening to you 😊
😂😂😂 I Love TG! Love his voice change and facial expressions
Well said! Ladies, this is great advice ❤
I agree with this message
I'm just wondering when the 'character' covers the cost of living ...
Especially to look after your family ...
I love the points system 😂👏🏽.
I learn so much watching these videos. I also be cracking up now 😂😂🤦♀️
FACTS, TG‼️💯🎯
Hi Tony, it’s been a while since I committed on your video, keep speaking truth!! This is so true, also your 🎉🎉 funny, lemon on the side no salad!!
Great message Tony! Laughed at the comment about the woman driver in the 18 wheeler big truck! I thought what would you do if you got on a flight and after boarding finding out the pilot was a woman 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the pulling up faces Tony made!
Agreee his character will let you know
Let a man’s character be his currency!
"Ay ay Tony Gaskins here. Yall have to forgive me, I gotta use the bathroom right quick".
Lol, im teasin.
Thanks!
Real 🎯 teach us I really appreciate you Tony peace and blessings ✌️🙏🏽👍❤️
Hello Mr. Gaskins, I am listening. I appreciate your wisdom and advice to us women! I wish I could have talked to you one-on-one when me and my ex-spouse was seeking counseling!! I truly appreciate your videos right now! It has help me get through! God Bless You and Your Family🙂🤩
Preach Tony!!
Thank you Tony
thank you Tony you are so correct.
Tony, you speak the truth. I read the Bible daily, and I'm in agreement with everything so far. Thank you for helping us by giving away the "game". I'm married for 35 years now, but I listen to you too educate my grands that are teenagers. Plus I'm learning in case I'm back on market one day. Thank you so much!!!
Great video
AMEN AMEN!!!!!!! MR.GASKINS.
"Point blank pereoodd!!" 👌
Straight facts 💯
Great video!
Ayeee Tony hasn’t told one lie!!
This is my first time listening to your videos and you are hilarious and on point.
Checking in 👋🏽
Yesss, preach Tony
Real talk!!
Good Word 👍
They just talked about this on the breakfast club this morning! Judge a man by his character not his pockets
I think that if a woman is wealthy it is okay for her to look for a man who is also wealthy. I want to be with someone I can build wealth with that is important to me. I don't want to be with a man who is okay being financially average because he will be holding me back.
True
That part. It they will resent you if you make more than them
😂
This was good. Thank you, sir.😂
Man I love your videos 😂😊 they make my day so great.
Aye cut it out...😂😂😂 I'm rolling the semi
Love the content
Tony you and that truck driver, you are hilarious.
Really like the number system.
55 seconds in...already💯🎯
Tony you are too funny & handsome! No disrespect to Mrs. Gaskins, love your videos!!🤣💕
That's why I always keep a straight face when I see or hear about the cars...never let myself be intrigued or disappointed by the material stuff...
This is a PSA!
Thank you Tony for being a man of God and for teaching me how to be a Lady of God .👑💝
Yesssssss so true.
❤❤❤❤Tuned in from Nairobi Kenya
my birthplace
I loveeeee his videos!!! He be definitely telling the truth and be funny too!!! LOL!!!! "You talking about you on ya journey and you sittin' there ordering a pasta, a cake with a coca cola." LMAOOOOO
😂😂😂😂maaaaan the truth behind this is funny!
You are so funny to me but you speak the truth. Thanks