The phone call thing is so real! It doesn’t matter who I’m around, if I get a phone call I have to leave the room because I don’t want anyone to hear how I speak over the phone or analyze what I say. I get the same feeling while doing basic tasks like cleaning or doing the dishes around other people too! I think it’s a fear of being judged
I’m going to start referring to how I feel about being perceived/how I react as my “hunt and peck” 🤣🙌🏻 I used to babysit a ton; I was 14 or so and had a job with a new family and they had some family members over. The baby was hungry before the parents left, so they fixed him a bottle and handed it to me. I felt eyes on me, and started feeding the baby while he was upright on my shoulder…🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ The mom was really nice, and just said that he was used to being fed while laying in her arms. I turned red and fed him properly. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ How could I *forget* how to feed a baby??
Lol! I’m glad she was nice about it. I’m so for real about hunting and pecking, lol. Don’t watch me type! Welcome to my Channel. Thanks for commenting!!!
I dont think im autistic, but i am diagnosed neuro divergent and a self diagnosed neuro spicy. That said, I believe i do share some trait in such as problems understandinv when people are being dishonest and the subject of your video. I have a deep fear of being perceived. Thank you for speaking abouy it in a way that spoke to me. While no longer religious, i say "i dont belive in god, but i believe in my mother." I may have removed myself from the ideology of church, but the language of it still has a great power to move me. Thank you for lending your voice and visibility to the topic of neuro divergence. You helped me understand the weight of this fear in my life. 🙏🏽
This makes a lot of sense. I feel like social media heightens that fear for me. It's the factor of people being able to create narratives from a lack or context or create their own context to fit a narrative. Like a simple misunderstanding or mistake can be taken to levels it never had to be at in the first place. You just never know how folks will perceive you. That's scary lol
Thank you for replying. I agree with that, creating a narrative from lack of context. Can you imagine trying to provide each person with the context needed? I don’t want to.
The phone call thing is so real! It doesn’t matter who I’m around, if I get a phone call I have to leave the room because I don’t want anyone to hear how I speak over the phone or analyze what I say. I get the same feeling while doing basic tasks like cleaning or doing the dishes around other people too! I think it’s a fear of being judged
It’s absolutely a fear of being judged. It’s tough cause maybe you’re being judged and maybe you’re not. *Sigh*
I’m going to start referring to how I feel about being perceived/how I react as my “hunt and peck” 🤣🙌🏻 I used to babysit a ton; I was 14 or so and had a job with a new family and they had some family members over. The baby was hungry before the parents left, so they fixed him a bottle and handed it to me. I felt eyes on me, and started feeding the baby while he was upright on my shoulder…🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ The mom was really nice, and just said that he was used to being fed while laying in her arms. I turned red and fed him properly. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ How could I *forget* how to feed a baby??
Lol! I’m glad she was nice about it. I’m so for real about hunting and pecking, lol. Don’t watch me type! Welcome to my Channel. Thanks for commenting!!!
I dont think im autistic, but i am diagnosed neuro divergent and a self diagnosed neuro spicy. That said, I believe i do share some trait in such as problems understandinv when people are being dishonest and the subject of your video. I have a deep fear of being perceived. Thank you for speaking abouy it in a way that spoke to me. While no longer religious, i say "i dont belive in god, but i believe in my mother." I may have removed myself from the ideology of church, but the language of it still has a great power to move me. Thank you for lending your voice and visibility to the topic of neuro divergence. You helped me understand the weight of this fear in my life. 🙏🏽
Your thoughtful response means so much to me. Thank you so much and keep being as brave as you can. 🩶
This makes a lot of sense.
I feel like social media heightens that fear for me. It's the factor of people being able to create narratives from a lack or context or create their own context to fit a narrative. Like a simple misunderstanding or mistake can be taken to levels it never had to be at in the first place.
You just never know how folks will perceive you. That's scary lol
Thank you for replying. I agree with that, creating a narrative from lack of context. Can you imagine trying to provide each person with the context needed? I don’t want to.
@@BlackontheSpectrum exactly it's too much lol