Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru

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  • @sadhguru
    @sadhguru  ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes
    Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru
    Full episode link :
    podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000461431603

    • @Kakarotgoku2
      @Kakarotgoku2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🙏 NAMASTE 😭😭😭 AWARENESS OF CONNECTION TO DIRECTION IS A GIFT.

  • @shawnbutler5588
    @shawnbutler5588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4021

    “don’t give people the privilege to decide if you are sad or happy.” truly inspiring

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      DEEP

    • @meenah2637
      @meenah2637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@2008_katikati lopplplnnjjklllll

    • @evawennberg5205
      @evawennberg5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      neither do I, (så klart) but what about algorithms ?

    • @lucypaul4813
      @lucypaul4813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ¹

    • @felixjacobsen7962
      @felixjacobsen7962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Except it cant actually be implemented. We are a product of the people around us.
      Emagine that you somehow grew up all by your self with no people around you ever, no influence.
      Who would you be? What words would you be saying? What music would you like? How would you behave and eat your meals?
      We Owe ourselves to our fellow human beings cause' ist the people around us who makes us who we are.

  • @DrAanchalMD
    @DrAanchalMD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5971

    “What they say will not determine what I am” 😇

    • @Smellofsmiles
      @Smellofsmiles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Are you a dermatologist???

    • @NishantSharma-tr6xl
      @NishantSharma-tr6xl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Smellofsmiles Do you need some meds sister ??

    • @Type797
      @Type797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      *how I am

    • @mystory9682
      @mystory9682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But y do not you hear from them when they speak subjectively and try to be the better version of yourself ....why you don't even care for others ppl think or say...and we should hear from you ....do you understand what I'm talking about ...

    • @user-iw5xr5ew3f
      @user-iw5xr5ew3f 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I enjoy watching your channel. 😊

  • @ahadahsan1
    @ahadahsan1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    "What they say will not determine how I am" powerful words.

  • @wisdomofyogi1
    @wisdomofyogi1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5366

    “ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
    --Sadhguru

    • @udasspieme9044
      @udasspieme9044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I have one question i.e. when I was 19 i ran away from home, but the society, family and friends bullied me so badly still there is some . I want to know how can I overcome by them

    • @winterapplegamingYT203
      @winterapplegamingYT203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@udasspieme9044 hmm I think we need to discuss Bcoz it's not a small issue if u really did that. That would have been trauma

    • @devikasudhakar625
      @devikasudhakar625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      S I don't know how to over come

    • @deepeep
      @deepeep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wisdom of yogi Yes just like Sadhguru says: You’re not the body & not even the mind! :)

    • @arjanmarku6587
      @arjanmarku6587 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you think that fear is wrong? Not at all if we wouldn't fear and live life without it we would be dead.

  • @devashishtiwari90
    @devashishtiwari90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4734

    “Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”. Mannnn that line was extremely catchy and true. ✌🏻

    • @ananyasaini6596
      @ananyasaini6596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I posted the line on my insta status.😍❤️
      Amazing...

    • @adityakumar8148
      @adityakumar8148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@ananyasaini6596....so that you can be better in someone's opinion. Right? 😀

    • @ananyasaini6596
      @ananyasaini6596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@adityakumar8148 Nah mate, it's just the fact that this line is soo beautiful, you just wanna share it with everyone and make them understand the deeper meaning of life. Although I understand why you said so. I feel sorry for you mate as your character of judging others is too over-powering that you can't be optimistic and look onto the bright side. 😄

    • @yeshizewde5491
      @yeshizewde5491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ii donte kare if i listens day and night to this lakcher

    • @prasenjeetdhiwar2067
      @prasenjeetdhiwar2067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ananyasaini6596 Now, You are a consequence of sadhguru's opinion. Actually, This is the thing that they want to tell you...

  • @sauravbasu8805
    @sauravbasu8805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    " No one can insult you without your permission " - Quote

  • @abhishekkumaryadav1308
    @abhishekkumaryadav1308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2263

    *FOR EXTERNAL WOUNDS : BERNOL*
    *FOR INTERNAL WOUNDS : SADHGURU*

  • @JOVI08
    @JOVI08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7752

    I’m beating my fear of being judged! Who’s with me? 😃

    • @AmritaNath-a9i
      @AmritaNath-a9i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      🙋

    • @sanjanewmoonlife
      @sanjanewmoonlife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      He will judge you behind your back.

    • @TN-ec6ig
      @TN-ec6ig 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jovelyn Marco ✋

    • @tanubajaj9979
      @tanubajaj9979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Who so ever judges behind u. Does it matter? It only does when you judge😊

    • @sureshbiotech3027
      @sureshbiotech3027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marco you are so sexy

  • @rishumalik78
    @rishumalik78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    "Be so rooted that nobody's absence or presence could disturb your innerpiece".

  • @jamescadzow9545
    @jamescadzow9545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2184

    The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.

    • @kajalgiri1870
      @kajalgiri1870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      True
      only you holds that key.

    • @doni654321
      @doni654321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      your mom is irrelevant heheheh
      James Cadzow, sure up to some certain point but its natural to care what other think as this is biological.
      my opinion is that you just accept what other people think and move on (e.g: self_acceptance of oneself)
      lets say, a person says you are a killer through an assumption but with no evidence to back it up. and someone finds evidence that you are indeed a killer? wouldnt that make you a killer? wouldnt they excluded you from society.
      if someone had evidence for me being a killer, i would just self accept what i done and move on.
      what is done is done. (btw i havent killed anyone, its just an example)

    • @greanbean001
      @greanbean001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      James, how do you think people form the option of themselves?

    • @blackbarry45
      @blackbarry45 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      great shortcut. you save me 8mins

    • @catselah7368
      @catselah7368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No one is an island no one stands alone

  • @nooryadav7176
    @nooryadav7176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +956

    It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..

    • @greanbean001
      @greanbean001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Good point, Noor. What do you think is self-confidence? How do we grow and sustain it?

    • @vidyamadamanchi8490
      @vidyamadamanchi8490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes very true

    • @ate5ive866
      @ate5ive866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@greanbean001 Achievements and moral actions

    • @overpricedhealthcare
      @overpricedhealthcare 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@greanbean001 by doing what is positive and whatever benefits you

    • @bhiratkholi1617
      @bhiratkholi1617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@greanbean001 by gaining more and more knowledge.

  • @gamingjunkie707
    @gamingjunkie707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    When you overcome fear life begins.

  • @hrush437
    @hrush437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2517

    "I'm stoned in such a way that I haven't lost my judgement at all. And at the same time, whichever way you judge me, has absolutely no impact on me because I'm completely stoned."
    pure wisdom. ♡

    • @brunomerko
      @brunomerko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Old Soul he smokes weed

    • @hrush437
      @hrush437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@brunomerko it's divine.

    • @bellsognodi1787
      @bellsognodi1787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What is the meaning of stoned?

    • @brunomerko
      @brunomerko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Old Soul divine weed

    • @brunomerko
      @brunomerko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Bell Sognodi it means that nothing can penetrate you

  • @bu834
    @bu834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +881

    " no one cares about u as much as they care about themselves "

    • @kunaltelang789
      @kunaltelang789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true

    • @plantmama7442
      @plantmama7442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly. People care more about their little world than anyone else’s 💯

    • @SVL3
      @SVL3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏👏

    • @syritabhutta6796
      @syritabhutta6796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely right.

    •  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hv a loving family

  • @HARSHAL-v5h
    @HARSHAL-v5h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    "We think that the other person is thinking about you" and "Other person think that you are thinking about him"
    So dont get fear all are equal.

    • @pradeepsinghsolanki903
      @pradeepsinghsolanki903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True... The whole matter is this.... We trying to read others mind constantly and make very strong assumptions

    • @jefftone9898
      @jefftone9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's funny

  • @jf8461
    @jf8461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2545

    It shows a lack of self-confidence to be overly-concerned about what others think of oneself.

    • @asmodeus9075
      @asmodeus9075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +289

      Thank you captain obvious, but some people lack self confidence because they were openly judged by parents siblings etc so one can grow that way.

    • @jf8461
      @jf8461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      What I am saying is that it is not so much "the fear of being judged" that needs to be addressed, but the underlying "lack of self-confidence"; when their self-confidence is built up, that fear of being judged will go away! Simple as that.

    • @fredaowusu-agyapong
      @fredaowusu-agyapong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@asmodeus9075 great

    • @vishalhadiya570
      @vishalhadiya570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @J F the more you will be "self conscious" the lesser you will become confident. Because self consciousness is character ( unchangeable). And also it comes up with more accuracy in all the way of life. So the roots are in personality.!!?

    • @wolverineiscool7161
      @wolverineiscool7161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jf8461 lack of self confidence isnt the issue...sometimes u agree with others, maybe their judgement is right and you need to change urself

  • @ayanshabi6134
    @ayanshabi6134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    "Be defined by your actions not their words."

    • @nisav4124
      @nisav4124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      cool !

    • @arikalamari19
      @arikalamari19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ever heard of defamation

    • @selena5905
      @selena5905 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Words of wisdom.🙏❤️

    • @plantmama7442
      @plantmama7442 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WOW yesss 👏🏽👏🏽💯

  • @kashishadwani9731
    @kashishadwani9731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    " right now you are a consequence of somebody" s opinions " -- this just made me realise that we dont even try to find what/who are we from inside .... just because of the judgements being made ... we have shaped ourselves as a result of somebody else' s expectations and stereotypes.....

    • @shitalkumari4383
      @shitalkumari4383 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly we do what others say or whatever they find negative on us we start working on them

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +645

    “We are all telling ourselves a story in our heads”

  • @michellem4084
    @michellem4084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2031

    The judgment always comes from frustrated unimportant people

    • @psychopirate1779
      @psychopirate1779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      True bro😃

    • @stealth9237
      @stealth9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He right on that

    • @ngk4185
      @ngk4185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Michelle M you’re judging too 😌

    • @meenakshijain367
      @meenakshijain367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed

    • @peacebe2u480
      @peacebe2u480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Michelle,
      Spoken like a tragic victim.

  • @jasonfeldes9128
    @jasonfeldes9128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    As a caucasian of European descent, I find Sadhguru's insights are very moving. Although great western philoshophers have converged on many of the same core insights, they feel less spiritually conveyed than from Asian cultures. While we are one people on this planet, I feel as if no wisdom has been as deeply distilled and continuously refined since antiquity than from India, so my instinct tells me to pay the highest attention to this great gentleman's thoughts.

    • @tasteslikeacid7804
      @tasteslikeacid7804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Beautifully stated my friend. I share the same sentiment.

    • @areaxisthegurkha
      @areaxisthegurkha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Individuals bring wisdom, not people.

    • @suesmith261
      @suesmith261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you had to highlight your superior origin!

    • @flaiirenn
      @flaiirenn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "as a caucasian of european descent"
      sounds redundant, doesn't it?

    • @powerstar817
      @powerstar817 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@flaiirenn Not English descent😂😂😂but ur genius

  • @dag4096
    @dag4096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Watching from Ireland we need people like him running the country.

    • @choco1026
      @choco1026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      people like him wouldn't want to.

    • @koustavmajumdar1235
      @koustavmajumdar1235 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ireland is known for booze and alchohol. Its great.

    • @SA-yp6ej
      @SA-yp6ej 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We already have a yogi in the form of Modi.

  • @dilanlol6046
    @dilanlol6046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    "What they say will not determine how I am. Never ever."

  • @bhavini6625
    @bhavini6625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    "I have not given this privilege to anybody that somebody can make me happy or sad." - Powerful lines by Sadhguru 🙏

    • @dhirajgupta7435
      @dhirajgupta7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But you can't realize this with mental effort. Only Spiritual progress can help you attain this state of being.

  • @royalflight8860
    @royalflight8860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1223

    Sadguru's sense of humour....top notch 😍

    • @g.niranjanreddygnr6577
      @g.niranjanreddygnr6577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah, sadhgyru says about don't think people what says u know how u are

    • @jay1970
      @jay1970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did you find funny in this 10 minutes blabbering?

    • @h9production
      @h9production 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@jay1970 some people won't get it...its better for u to stop investing time over here

    • @dilipjain6899
      @dilipjain6899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@h9production Hi

  • @upasnagupta2522
    @upasnagupta2522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +969

    I was really in need of this...cz I always fear to get judged by others.

    • @mariohenriquez8599
      @mariohenriquez8599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      But who's gonna judge a so gorgeous woman like you. MY GOD!

    • @upasnagupta2522
      @upasnagupta2522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      अल्ली X no more...fear😂

    • @officeofvarunraisharmalawc6438
      @officeofvarunraisharmalawc6438 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enlightenment u got I guess

    • @billuchoudhary4436
      @billuchoudhary4436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😥

    • @berrybloom2000
      @berrybloom2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I know me too, a lot of people tell me I'm nice or pretty.. I just need to stop doubting everything about myself because of a few people that make me uncomfortable

  • @divihehehe_
    @divihehehe_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +853

    No one is born ugly,we're just born on jugemental society

    • @mayankyadav3178
      @mayankyadav3178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Army

    • @invisibleeye8752
      @invisibleeye8752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup!

    • @pranavaddanki4263
      @pranavaddanki4263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      armyy

    • @007Sanoop
      @007Sanoop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Basic criteria of judgement is Like or Not..
      Beauty is felt through eyes... ok.. but.. in case of another sense.. for eg, tongue.. I don't know why human beings don't like bitter taste?
      is it part of this judgemental society?

    • @invisibleeye8752
      @invisibleeye8752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@007Sanoop it's judgement but not part of our judgemental society

  • @reginaldpooftah4525
    @reginaldpooftah4525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1753

    Like the great Tywin Lannister said
    "A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"

    • @siwadedumelyayet474
      @siwadedumelyayet474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That was a great line never forget that

    • @JOVI08
      @JOVI08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you for this line. I need it right now. My anxiety is drowning me 😬

    • @prashanthpillai5978
      @prashanthpillai5978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      By what right does the wolf judge the Lion? By what right?

    • @Karma7711
      @Karma7711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The sheep don't care either haha

    • @prashanthpillai5978
      @prashanthpillai5978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Karma7711 But sheep is sheep😈

  • @ruatsangawhite7261
    @ruatsangawhite7261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    "The first time in human history that this many people can think for themselves"
    I cried,what a strong and eye opening words

    • @nikilkenway4533
      @nikilkenway4533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What's the meaning? Please explain

    • @jay1970
      @jay1970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First time in human history... how does he know? Has he been conducting survey since the first generation of human beings?

    • @aditi1729
      @aditi1729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      jay1970 it’s basic knowledge duh
      Have you not heard of science and evolution? And also internet?

    • @Imperfect5252
      @Imperfect5252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is the meaning??

    • @mjkb54
      @mjkb54 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't understood this line

  • @jadeynorth403
    @jadeynorth403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    That "hallo!" makes me sit up straight everytime

  • @Repontex
    @Repontex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    " We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. " ... Love this quote & I believe on this always .

  • @titiksha2959
    @titiksha2959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    " I would not give the privilege to others to make me feel sad, Happy, fearful, hopeless". I desperately need implication of this mantra in my life.

    • @dhirajgupta7435
      @dhirajgupta7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The only way out to realize this is Spiritual Enlightment. There is NO other way out. And Spirituality must therefore be the utmost focus of every citizen of the planet, without which it's forever an ignorant and struggling life.

    • @Jz-gx5eb
      @Jz-gx5eb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!!!

  • @LilianChacha
    @LilianChacha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I always come back to listen to you Guruji. May you live long

  • @lesliehatun2044
    @lesliehatun2044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +789

    What they say will not determine who I am. 😊

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    After I see that I have no power to change how someone else sees me, and after I know that I am trying my best to be positive and good and they still judge me badly, I know that me worrying about what they think is a wasted worry. I might as well be happy with me, because if they see me smiling despite their negative thoughts of me, they have learned that I am not affected by their view of me. The only place that they can then go is to either not think of me at all, or, to be envious of my happiness.

  • @therichbuddha3277
    @therichbuddha3277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Though laughter is medicine and Sadhguru's humor is profound, there is an element of a TV show sitcom to these.

  • @shantisk01
    @shantisk01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    In the last conversation I had with my father before his Soul departed from his body, He said and stated very clear: Noone absolutely NoBODY should judge Shanti. Most Dying people speak the Truth, he knew who I Am knowing if you judge me, upfront you've already lost. Never judge some1, for you never know, if that same person can become the Cure you'll need......

    • @deer3d174
      @deer3d174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's amazing!! Thanks, and love from Australia

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's so true... that's one lesson I learnt by myself within the phase of passing my school,going through many phases in just 6 years in a roller coaster ride and I'm still learning everyday sth from diff people ....when u stop judging u start learning bcz u have an open mind then

    • @metrognome2225
      @metrognome2225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a near death experience myself, very true. We are truly all the same entity in different bodies, I know it’s been said countless times, but I’ve experienced it first hand. We’re playing chess against ourselves but we always calibrate it perfectly for the maximum amount of learning and fun.

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Arjun Warrior Prince Bevause they are competing and very catty.

  • @anildhakal5011
    @anildhakal5011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    What an enlinghtment this man has got 🥺 I was messing round with my life and then this man happened ❤️

    • @peacebe2u480
      @peacebe2u480 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anil,
      So... u keep messing around with your wife till reaching orgasm while watching sadhguru cracking jokes.

    • @ukpabigenevieve4478
      @ukpabigenevieve4478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peacebe2u480 wth? What do you mean by that?

  • @awaaforahinatu7603
    @awaaforahinatu7603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Until I learned to ignore people's judgement about me, life wasn't easy and I was always living in darkness.

    • @shitalkumari4383
      @shitalkumari4383 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And how did u do so?

    • @shitalkumari4383
      @shitalkumari4383 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like when someone feels alone he/she feels unimportant and hesitate to say even the right thing bcz of the fear of judgement..even sometimes when i am right and people laugh at me i start thinking from their prospective..

  • @kellyokeefe7290
    @kellyokeefe7290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I’ve had a low self esteem for such a long time and I constantly fear what people think of me. I’ve listened to all the bad things people have said to me over the years and this pattern of worrying was created. The hard part is learning to trust yourself and knowing that how you feel about yourself is enough. But how do you truly love yourself and not let those opinions of others control you?

    • @GireeshVenkateswaran
      @GireeshVenkateswaran 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It's very specific to each individual. All journey starts with a first step. The first step is to realise and acknowledge that letting other people's opinions affect you (+ve and -ve way) is not good for oneself. From there, it gets deeper. I find that over time you can get better at looking at what other people say, what facts and evidence that is there in reality to support their view/opinion and accept their comments as feedback to change one's behaviour or educate the other as to why their opinion does not stack up to reality and most importantly ignore the person's opinion if they are not able to see reality.
      All of this when done with an attitude of humbleness and kindness to oneself and the other person, it works wonders for one's self-esteem.
      It takes lots of practice to develop this mindset. One needs to be very kind to oneself and readily forgive oneself.

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It takes practice. Always usher the bad thoughts out of your mind & remember all the good things about yourself. ☺️✌️❤️❤️❤️

    • @sowmyasow3321
      @sowmyasow3321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GireeshVenkateswaran wonderfully said.

    • @chercuts
      @chercuts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The problem is we think we have more time than we actually do. Live your life. It's over in the blink of an eye.

    • @shikastormcrow6224
      @shikastormcrow6224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GireeshVenkateswaran perfectly said and practical advice too. Something I will defo be practicing! Thank you 🙏🏼💙

  • @lydiamurphy1765
    @lydiamurphy1765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Seeing him a lot in my recommendations and being as isolated as I am this helps me hearing this man's words

  • @doroteotimtim8854
    @doroteotimtim8854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    His appearance gives me the impression of a person well versed in the problems of the world and what he says to his audience makes a lot of sense. It does not matter if his looks are old....but what he says is what makes the difference. He is a very sincere person with a way of making his voice and mannerisms look very distinguished, very intelligent to me.

  • @InnerThoughtsFlow
    @InnerThoughtsFlow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    There is truley only one Judge, and that's you. You judge you. Unconsciously, conciously, subconcoliously. Your own judgement is the only judge that counts.
    Love Sadhguru
    Namaste 🙏

  • @tessralte
    @tessralte 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    What other people think of me is none of my business! 😃🤩

  • @pallavitripathii
    @pallavitripathii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    So many positive vibes he generate omg 😭💜

  • @louisecassidy5991
    @louisecassidy5991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Like a pop star said once, "What other people think of me is none of my business!" I took that to heart years ago. Thank you Sadhguru, you too are changing my life.

  • @BeyondResist
    @BeyondResist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    “Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth,
    faithfulness the best relationship.”
    - Buddha

  • @mearslab
    @mearslab 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wow! This video and perspective just blew my mind. I wish I would have heard somebody say this a loooooong time ago. Thank You!

  • @Divine00
    @Divine00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Sadhguru’s answer is always in the first sentence, it’s up to us if we grasp it🤓🤓😃😃😃♥️🙏🏼💜

  • @gillianm9367
    @gillianm9367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    'I will never give anyone the privilege of judging me' Wow!!!! Why has it taken me to age 50 to implement that ?! Whenever I watch Sadhguru I am enthralled, sitting here just thinking Yes ! YES! Wake up world and listen 😊💕

  • @afeefaathar1888
    @afeefaathar1888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Positive way to tell someone that they are wrong on something is to appreciate them when they are right on something
    They will understand their mistakes by themselves

    • @jefftone9898
      @jefftone9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's the only way to be at peace within your self

  • @healingmelody112
    @healingmelody112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    Whoever is reading this now, remember:
    You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is!
    Blessings to all beings!
    Love and Light!

  • @gideonsmart53
    @gideonsmart53 5 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    SADHGURU, your words of wisdom really blessed me tremendously. I hope I could meet you in person one day.
    I am currently following and watching from South Africa.

    • @nix1434
      @nix1434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too! Wish he would come here...I am waiting too!

    • @ShashankB94
      @ShashankB94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Namaste to both of you 🙏🏼

    • @lokeleenP
      @lokeleenP 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Y don't u visit puduchery India and meet him

    • @narensunker6666
      @narensunker6666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lets get him here...

    • @aecha2588
      @aecha2588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mee too

  • @Glo_Cha
    @Glo_Cha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "You can judge me whichever way you want" that's profound...
    You can't control what people do with their minds and thoughts...

  • @sandeepdandia92
    @sandeepdandia92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    I am here only for his fluency of being English spoken

    • @shouryababhare2
      @shouryababhare2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I too watch his videos for the same reason

    • @sabarieswaran9055
      @sabarieswaran9055 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am also

    • @creator3596
      @creator3596 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here bro👍

    • @MONUMOMTALKS
      @MONUMOMTALKS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Morethan that there is something else which you ever learn before

    • @siddarthshah1773
      @siddarthshah1773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      but when we already have 22 language of our own den why concentrate learning english language..

  • @onkarkulkarni1312
    @onkarkulkarni1312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    There is a saying in Marathi- Aikave janache , karave manache.. means listen to every body but do what your Vivek says..

    • @gracetrindade6335
      @gracetrindade6335 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your generosity.....dear man......

  • @stevenhamilton801
    @stevenhamilton801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think that overcoming people's opinions is directly tied to others affecting me. Freedom from others yet caring for others is my goal

  • @dimple5241
    @dimple5241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    true, I listen to everybody's judgement whether it is good or bad. It settles in my mind for long and keeps running.
    I floating on clouds if it is good judgement but the bad judgement ruins my 15 16 days. I forget good judgements sooner than bad ones. It demotivates me and makes me unhappy .
    This video helped me to change my behaviour and to remove fear of being judged.
    I don't use chemical but anxiety desolves as a chemical in my mind that ruins my mood and work and everything. I should not care of being judged by people and try to be stoned.

    • @mosnobi6271
      @mosnobi6271 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dimple it's so simple...

  • @srikanthsrinivasan3843
    @srikanthsrinivasan3843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "What they say will not determine how I am!!"

  • @ajohnson4431
    @ajohnson4431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Being yourself is useful to other’s people because that’s how you change humanity

  • @markdeguzman6556
    @markdeguzman6556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Knowing yourself deeply will definitely shield you from what other's think about you. This kind of clarity builds your confidence. Respect your limitations and develop skills for survival. Only listen to sound advice but not to ridicule and destructive criticism that belittles you as a person. Don't rely on others for motivation but be self-motivated towards living an honest life. Don't even try to compare yourself with other's growth or achievement for each individual blooms in his own time.

  • @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT
    @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I am going to addicted to u
    Lots of love from 🇵🇰

  • @juanrosilio777
    @juanrosilio777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have learn this during meditation
    You cannot let yourself be affected by other people.
    In samadhi state innerworld is clean then the outside world cannot harm you.

  • @e2kutt50
    @e2kutt50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You’re so right about the new generation I’m 15 stay focused and balanced 👁

  • @prameshsharma6327
    @prameshsharma6327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Stop. Looking ur self from anyone else view,
    To be happy
    This is the theme

  • @BuddhaTruth2024
    @BuddhaTruth2024 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It warms my heart to see Buddhist teachings being shared on this platform. Let’s come together to spread positive energy and create a more peaceful world

  • @srinivasans9345
    @srinivasans9345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    OMG.. what a sense of humour. And also teaching in a lighter vein great truths... Sadhguru is incomparable. Namaskaram Sadhguru.

  • @kanhabansal8673
    @kanhabansal8673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    SIR YOU ARE A LEGEND ... YOU ARE A PERSON WITH UTMOST INTELLIGENCE..

  • @kall_me_krazi
    @kall_me_krazi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW!!! “The consequence of other’s opinions..” the DEPTH IN THAT IS REAL!!!
    Sadhguru- THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. Even though you are stone- I’m sending you loving energy!!!
    Amen!!!
    People depend on substances because they don’t know how to escape their internal fears. {that will more than likely never happen} They believe emotions are a bad thing, but in fact they ARE a gift from God to help us navigate through our lifetimes. They tell us if we are in, or out of alignment with our higher self. We know we are in alignment when we feel loving emotions; happy, calm or peaceful. Out of alignment is any fear based emotions. Feeling fear? MEDITATION is best on a daily basis. When you get random scary thoughts, REFOCUS and become that mental master you were all born to be! I believe in you!!!
    The BODY is a machine, the way we care for it, the way it will work. I got hit by an 80,000 lb tractor trailer and have tons of internal, physical damage including a ceramic hip at 37. This weighed on me mentally. I got into meditation and reiki. I could be addicted to a ton of narcotics, but I chose to give that up and take the natural, holistic path. My faith led the way. If I can overcome what I have been through since I got into that accident, ANYONE READING THIS CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING. I BELIEVE GOD AND YOUR SOUL would NEVER sign up for more than you can handle!!!
    Sending loving energy everyone’s! Namaste y’all! 🤗💜🙏🏻♾

  • @ToyaDOracle
    @ToyaDOracle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    For years I was praised often that when I stop being praised - I went crashing like an airplane which engines failed to keep its float in the sky.. and I now realize that - its never the fault of what others says about us and never the fault of how they make judgement about me. But rather yet our dependence on always hearing the things that we feel fed by as resource of motivation to go out and be something whereas if we trained our thinking to be self willed than to acknowledge praises. I would haven not been seeking it everywhere else and end up being disappointed when it turned to criticism. self views on this

  • @bobbymidha3901
    @bobbymidha3901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    In punjabi there is an expresson. Duje log sabdu vada rogh. In Hindi dusre log sabse bara rogh. Basically the opinions of others are the biggest disease

  • @ashokr505
    @ashokr505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    If other people words can decide your mood that means anyone can control you.

  • @sukritighimire5097
    @sukritighimire5097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I'm in love with his laugh ❤️ 😂

  • @Nobodyisnothing
    @Nobodyisnothing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    He is just incredible , what a genious he is , love from Pakistsn

  • @bilstein2410
    @bilstein2410 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I care what people think of me because that means they're going to start treating me the way that they see me. Be it good or bad, your relationship with people in that way is going to change.

  • @abhiji5739
    @abhiji5739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    0:42 Sadhguru laughs likes so innocent kid..Even I got laughter along with him

  • @Consciousplanetorg
    @Consciousplanetorg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "Any moment we could be doing something wrong, so we listen to everybody but what they say will not determine how I Am, never ever, This you must fix" ~ Sadhguru

  • @judithbcajuban3718
    @judithbcajuban3718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What God knows about me is more important than what others think about me.❤️😇🙏

    • @messue428
      @messue428 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      At the end of the day this is all that matters!!!

  • @1990jjal
    @1990jjal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ask and the universe provides; I've been struggling a bit lately and now I understand that it was a little growth that i needed.

  • @rahulps8616
    @rahulps8616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Rather than Sadhguru this guru is knowledge abundant guru Smart intelligent Old man full of wisdom

  • @khushbooslife38
    @khushbooslife38 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Surviving because of your videos.i wish in school we had these type of teachings.

  • @annharding9634
    @annharding9634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wonderful man, quiet humor so refreshing! Great audience. Love the lack of pomposity; science he adds.

  • @LadyEdHD805
    @LadyEdHD805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I needed to hear this, thank you.

  • @Ahatcho21
    @Ahatcho21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Simply Wow. This man is beyond imagaination. Thank god I found you.

  • @bartobruintjes7056
    @bartobruintjes7056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When you do the things good, nobody can say you do it wrong.

  • @kanhabansal8673
    @kanhabansal8673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I AM CONSTANTLY JUDGED BY PEOPLE AROUND ME THINKING I AM NOT TAKING THE RIGHT DECISION... BUT I AM . I HAVE THE SELF CONFIDENCE TO DO SOMETHING..

  • @cheptuketcomedian4100
    @cheptuketcomedian4100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Humanity will judge you but they will never determine who you are

  • @funkndrucked
    @funkndrucked 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This could easily solve many issues if it were HEARD.....spread this around!

  • @ratnakararaopasupureddy4121
    @ratnakararaopasupureddy4121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    That girl asked a good question actually.. it's really the perfect question. We actually don't need to bother about what others think of us. As we know what we are. And we don't need to prove it to others. As simple as that😏

    • @jay1970
      @jay1970 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      As simple as that then why this 8 minutes long video?

    • @peacebe2u480
      @peacebe2u480 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is wayward attitude really. Seek counsel from the wise... or else it can lead you to dark places unknowingly.

  • @AbhaySingh-wl9yd
    @AbhaySingh-wl9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    At the age of 19 i think I'm enough mature to deal with world
    Thank to guru ji to give path to my spirituality 🙏

  • @sheenmacalino8743
    @sheenmacalino8743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Thank you Sadhguru. ❤ -From Philippines

  • @Mochi.mochi.icecream
    @Mochi.mochi.icecream 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Imagine being a consequence of someone else's opinion :O omg . Thank you Sadhguru

  • @BuddhismBliss-eng
    @BuddhismBliss-eng 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sadhguru's words remind us that true peace comes from within, not from the opinions of others.

  • @MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc
    @MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    Respect from Pakistan.

    • @OmnivoreGuy220
      @OmnivoreGuy220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Pkmkb

    • @harshitpathak7641
      @harshitpathak7641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kya be bin mtlb ladne lgte ho uski kya glti h

    • @businessboss4190
      @businessboss4190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks gentleman

    • @user-ek6ts5ew9p
      @user-ek6ts5ew9p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc sorry for the bad comments above bro some fool will never change no matter to whom they gonna listen love from india.

    • @zaibakhan5044
      @zaibakhan5044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Don't let other people make u loose ur ethics.
      Honoured India. 💚

  • @bijovalsaraj
    @bijovalsaraj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Imagine a generation, who s Alys happy,,, wow,, I wish I could heard this years before... MA life ND career might hve changed.

  • @bhuviraj27
    @bhuviraj27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man his language and the way he uses it is mind blowing

  • @janetmcbee
    @janetmcbee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hi,,
    I want to say,,,
    Thank You.
    And, I love you.
    You as a Wonderful Vessel on this earth.
    This had taken me some time in my younger years
    (I'm 58yrs old, presently) to learn, except, and so on.
    Thank you again!

  • @erikgilcrease9925
    @erikgilcrease9925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Oh snap...he was just talking about me,lol...thank you Sadhguru...i am so grateful that you are in my life...you have helped me greatly during these experiences

  • @youngmediocre
    @youngmediocre 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Others opinions shouldn't determine How I'm and who I'm. If opinions are making me sad and happy, I need to fix it right now.
    Will come back and read this. Whenever I'll have a fear of being judged.