French born, but living in the US my entire adult life, I practice all 10 habits EXCEPT I give away most books so someone else can enjoy them, when I know I will not reread them… and I get rid of dust and too many bookshelves. Less is more. I donot care that my bookshelves donot impress my visiting European friends. Thanks for all your videos. :)
Yes, social graces, decorum, and etiquette are essential. I never address someone by his or her first name unless the person instructs me to do so; to refer to them by their first name is too invasive and declasse.
I absolutely love your comments about the importance of being a well-read woman. I have books in every room, and I read a new novel every two days. What do you expect from a former literature instructor? Further, it is never, never too late to advance ourselves through education. At the age of 63, I am earning a third MA degree; this one will give me the education to become a librarian--the career I have always desired. Read, read, read, indeed! I will be the most stylish librarian on the planet, thanks to our lovely Marie-Anne!
I too love books as if they are beloved pets. I now have macular degeneration so reading has to be brief due to strain. I was panicked about this. One day I tried free audio books. Granted, finding a great presenter takes time but I found some. Now I “read” more than ever! This is such a blessings and it’s enriched my life.
@@Donna-cc1kt Hi Donna, I am sorry to read that you have macular degeneration; I cannot imagine how stressful this must be. My heart goes out to you. I am so glad that you have discovered free audio books! What a blessing, indeed. How amazing that you can still enjoy the joy of books--and even more so now. I cannot live without books, books, books! Natalia Utah
Elegance is not about looking fancy. It is an ingrained, well-deserved demeanor of poise, kindness, careful grooming and aesthetics, and joie de vivre. It cannot be bought, it can hardly be taught, and if you don't have your SELF together, you cannot achieve it. All the bling and plastic surgery and expensive clothes in the world will not fool people who understand such things.
I am so glad that you included number 7: Be Well Read. Being well read is so important to me, and I celebrate other people who find this as crucial as I do. I also agree with number 10, the three pillars. Thank you for this video.
So true about good manners! I was just listening to an old NPR interview with the great singer Tony Bennett. When asking about "warming up" an audience, he said simply "Let them know you like them!" What good simple advice and it makes life so much more pleasant.
I couldn't agree more! I go to beauty salon regularly and enjoy it. Reading has been my hobby for years, you learn so much from books and they make you think. Thank you, Marie-Anne
I have so many books but need to work on the self care! Never had a facial or a manicure or a pedicure! I really enjoy your videos Marie-Anne. I think I would add standing tall to your list of life changing habits. Many years ago a friend's Dad said to me 'Why do so many women walk with their heads down to the pavement? Why don't they raise their heads up and walk tall?' I now try to walk tall and not hunch over like an apology! xx
I love being in a book group. Discussing literature with a group of lovely women. Food is so important. Quality over quantity. Working to live. So important to our quality of life. 💖
I met a random man recently at a Greek food festival and we had a lovely discussion about Voltaire and de Tocqueville (who I didn't imagine anyone else had ever heard of!). My stone mason friend once told me the biggest benefit of his university education was being able to converse at parties :)
Merci pour cette vidéo. It is sad to see that our society has become less elegant-overworked and underdressed people. I make it a point to look presentable when I leave the house-I never know who I will see. I like to take time out of my busy schedule to experience my daily joie de vivre. I love to read and learn-education doesn’t end at your last degree. Being kind and appreciative is always elegant. I never cease to learn from you! ♥️😘
Gretchen, Yes, it is very sad to observe the slovenly appearance of many individuals in America. Like you, I always look my best, since I never know whom I might meet that day. I like what you wrote: "Education doesn't end at your last degree." Indeed, learning from books, print media, others, advanced coursework/degrees, and travel adds so much to our lives--not just knowledge but spiritually and emotionally, too.
@@nataliamiles7109 Thank you for your comment. I am appalled at how sloppy people look in the US these days. At the mall, for example, I see so many who look like they should be working in the yard. Yes, I look my best every time I leave the house because I never know who I will run into when I go out, whether it is an old friend, my teacher from 30 years ago, a co-worker, or even a celebrity. I would be mortified if I look like I just got out of bed and I saw any of them in public. Education doesn’t end at your last degree-it ends at your last breath. I love to read and travel (can’t wait until I feel comfortable going abroad again) and enjoy attending educational workshops. I am also learning foreign. languages, including Italian and Spanish, in my free time. I naturally learn at work because I am a proofreader who works on academic documents and educational material. I feel like I am getting paid to learn from some of the most prestigious business schools. 😉📚
@@nataliamiles7109 The problem is some people do not take pride in themselves. That is a tribute everyone should have. Even if one is in the dumps, taking a bit of time to look good is healing. Well that is how I feel. Cheers from 🇨🇭.
I love the tip about the wow? or no! I usually always buy one item at a time because I was specifically looking just for that piece. Sales people always make me feel like I'm short changing myself and that there must be something else I need. Well, no. Because I'm so specific, I know if I need something or not. I realize they're trying to do their job, but this is why I prefer to shop on line. Love your videos Marie-Anne. I threw away some unflattering pieces and bumped up my lipstick color since watching you. Many people around me don't care at all, but I do and I'm working on doing what I enjoy instead of underdressing like my peers. I want to feel good about myself and I've been a wall flower way too long.
Marie-Anne, As usual, you are so correct in these 10 habits. I subscribe to most, if not all myself. Self care is VERY important in a stressful world. If you don’t take care of you, how can you care for your friends and family around you? Live life, enjoy a slow afternoon. Now that I am retired, I think this is so very important. Slow down and enjoy a good meal with family and friends, a cup of tea at a cafe, a bubble bath with the good candles. Ahhh, perfect!
The philosophy of Classic French style has had the greatest influence on my personal style. However, I’m also fascinated by the beauty of the art created during the period of extravagance throughout the age of French dominance (1650-1800)....And this includes the opulent costumes of early style icons like Madame Pompadour, Marie Antoinette, Louis XIV...The fabrics, embroidery, lace, prints, textures, beadwork, and color were combined to make each of their outfits into 3D masterpieces.🥰
A great haircut is the key. Even on days I know my hair is not looking that great I will sometimes get a compliment. I know it's the great hair cut. I used to get manicures but now I do my own, once or twice A year I will go for one. Since I am retired from a job I will wear my clothes regularly and try to avoid looking sloppy at home . I would save my good clothes for work or to go out. If I dont use my better clothes more I would never wear them
Merci Marie Anne pour vos très bons conseils 🥂🍾 Indeed, life is so much more enjoyable when we keep it simple 🫖🥢🌷 L’art de la table est obligatoire 🍄🐚🦩🦋🍉🍎🥝🌶🥬🥕🫒🫐🍐🧀🍞🧈🥗🍤🥧🍯🍷🍵🎨🏖 Happy weekend to everyone 🎡⛲️⛩💎
Class is something that money can't buy. If you come across a French lady, even if she's not rich - she will probably be one of the classiest people you will come across. Thankyou Marie Anne. X
I love sitting outside at a nice coffee shop, sharing conversation with a good friend and watching the world go by. Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips!
These are great ideas for living one's good life.. I have mostly tried to only buy the Wow factor with the occasional mistake.. books well love them . My father always said you don't have to travel to be well informed. The world is in a book. Thankyou for sharing and confirming these points.x
When I visited Paris years ago, I was so impressed with the way people greeted shop-keepers and visa/versa. I've always made it a habit, even prior to my visit. It's not terribly common here in the US. Seems a pity, though it may have to do with many sales persons working on commission and people/customers feeling pressured.
The three pillars were taught to me by both my parents. It has resulted in me buying only the best I could afford whether it be clothing/shoes/food/wine/jewellery/cars etc. It has resulted in me having beautiful things that have stood the test of time and more than 40 years later I still have some of my shoes/boots/clothing/jewellery and still love them. I can use them differently from the way they were used 40 years ago. Obviously making sure that they are all age appropriate. Midriff baring = NO, too tight = NO, too short = NO but for all else I re-use beautiful things with joy and delight.
Excellent video Marie-Anne! I believe the art of elegance is lost with our society looking for fast everything... This is the main difference between Europeans and North Americans although I must say as a French Canadian, I feel a lot more closer to the French when it comes to lifestyle and fashion. I love your channel.
Dear Marie-Anne, You are such an icon not only for French chic style, but the French art of living overall! Compliments and thanks for being such an inspiration! ❤
No 6…we no longer shake hands….covid has wiped that habit out now …when you think we only started doing it to show we had no sword concealed..it’s one habit I’m happy we’ve got rid of.. it always made me feel uneasy…especially in flu season.
SO TRUE, MARIE-ANNE I am an American who lives in Paris ---I fell in love with the French culture mny years ago and give much credit to your country for the marvelous ways I have been able to evolve here LA JOIE DE VIVRE!!!!
I enjoyed my pedi yesterday, one sits in a massage chair, too. Not so much the leg waxing that proceeded it, but it’s equally necessary. I don’t have enough hair left to require shaving, a monthly waxing is sufficient. Now my feet and legs are at their best again, I’ll be showing them off.
I just turned 39 and I follow all of these, paying even more attention to all points as I continue to mature (hooray for confidence and self acceptance!) However, the area that I need to tend to most is making time for fun with family etc. This can be hard with where I am at in my career right now, especially since I married into a family of extreme work ethic and high energy who prioritizes work! Good stuff.
I was just thinking about the book thing- I've been to so many houses where there are zero books, and it's not places that have a separate room for a 'library'. Books are such a huge part of my life- I would be lost without Colette and Agatha Christie :)
Dont judge a book by whether it has a cover!😊 My husband and I both read extensively, but we don't have many books in our home. Most of our books are in electronic format now. We don't have much space, and also appreciate that with electronic versions you can enlarge the print and control the back lighting; much easier on older eyes.
I had a book shelf and I decided to eliminate it. Most of the books once read I don’t read them again. I gave them to friends, otherwise it’s just another thing to dust off. Very few books I feel the need to read for a second time. Most books can be found online, so I read on my tablet. I have a couple of coffee table books, just because of the beautiful photos it’s nice to go through them
I love to read books. Unfortunately, with the possibility of having to downsize sometime in the next few years (my only child is in college), I was sad to get rid of so many books, including my childhood favorites. When I move and discover more shelf space (ironically), I will track down my lost books and snatch them, even if they are beat-up!
That's a great summary of things that make living as a Frenchwoman fun. It seems that I have a French soul. About the pillar "Keep it simple" - it certainly does not apply generally! What about the cuisine, culture, films, dinner parties? And I could go on and on :) Details matter, techniques are developed etc. To me sophistication is also a very French quality
I have to make time for spas. I take care of my hair with a salon, but everything else I do myself. I have always kept things in mothballs, plastic container organizers to separate sweaters from t-shirts, scarves, and such. I keep handbags and shoe toes stuffed with tissue and protected in dust bags and or plastic bags. My stumbling block is not having my clothes tailored-I use belts and roll up sleeves or add a scarf if they are not the perfect fit. While I do not do hauls, I do sale shopping and keep things on hand for a day when I can't shop or I am too busy. I have extra simple non-faddish sweaters and skirts. I seemed to have stocked up on personal items just like I do with the pantry and cleaning supplies. This is a strange lifelong habit not related to the recent pandemic. I think my skin looks younger because I put only oils, moisturizers, sunscreen on, and no makeup. I add brow pencil, mascara, and lipstick and everything else is skincare in the am and evening. I also make sure I have additional supplements I know I do not get in food that help with my immune system, my hair, nails, and skin. I have a home library and a habit of lifelong learning. I do want my husband and me to make healthy food and take walks seriously as a daily ritual. I suppose I am well on my way to Chic and Elegant.
It's all well and good to take care of yourself, educated and refined, but no mention of taking care of others. That is a habit we all should aspire too!
We all watch your videos Marie-Anne because we all love French Chic Women. Who wouldn’t love to go to Paris, especially when you live in Australia. Your advice is very helpful and heartfelt. Thank you Helen.
When I was a teenager many many years ago I had a limited budget but always purchased made in France skincare makeup my skin looks great to this day because I took care of it.
I go for the “no makeup” makeup look. I wear a neutral, light color eyeshadow, medium brown eyeliner, brown mascara, tinted lip balm, and, if I wear foundation, it’s usually a mineral powder foundation. It works. I look put together, but not made up.
Bonjour Marie-Anne, I was fortunate as a young woman to have lived in Louveciennes, France for two years. That was fifty years ago, but it was one of the high points of my life! Sitting in a cafe having 'cafe au lait et un croissant' with friends was a favorite pastime. That time in France really changed my whole view on what is important in life! Merci bien!
oh fabulous views on fashion and values , i agree completely, as i only buy classic clothes and need to last a long time , my values really look towards my shoes as i buy not only heels but flats too in the same colour , but must above all fit and be comfortable and be of good quality , i am afraid i am really stubborn about my foot wear , as i really enjoy good foot wear. my evening footwear must be elegant but comfortable , however since having an knee replacement i have needed to lower my heel hight but kitten heels can still look elegant , i resisted them for a long time until i found a beautiful pair of shoes which solved my issues then i swallowed my pride and bought a few pairs and then they changed my life ! fortunately ! my regards liz x
Thank you for this great video and fabulous tips! My very first manicure was at age 30, a Christmas gift from my husband! I am now 69 and get them regularly as well as pedicures. I also get my hair cut and colored every 5-7 weeks, but don’t go between times; I may start a weekly or bi weekly hair salon trip if I can work that into the budget! After a recent drastic weight loss (thanks to Parosmia!) I have had to replace everything, and I mean EVERYTHING! in my wardrobe. I have become very conscientious about what I purchase, buying only what really appeals to me (that WOW factor, maybe?) and not just clothes to fill my closet. I am from the Southern United States, Texas to be exact, and happily most Texans and Southerners still practice politeness and good manners. On a trip to New York and New Jersey years ago, a clerk in a bookstore asked me, “So Southern person, where are you from?” This shocked me, as up to that point I hadn’t said anything that would cause my accent to give me away! I asked my friend what had made him think I was from the South? Her answer, “You smiled at him when we went in!” Such a simple gesture and so natural fro me that I didn’t even give it a second thought! Love your videos, and enjoy reading the comments!
What a perfect video! I try not to rush through anything. I feel that people in general here in the states are rushing through just about everything. If we could only breathe and live in the moment there would be much less stress.
L just discovered your channel and I love it, and you! I agree 100 % with you regarding French style which is classic in comparison with what Americans believe is fashionable. I have a lot of those items, like the striped cotton shirts and blouses and my fave is a white blouse with jeans or black pants.
Lovely presentation. We have a good size home library. All of our family loves to read. Our children did very well in school and I believe our cultivating the habit of reading is one of the reasons. Quality over quantity in every aspect of my life is my motto. Enjoy your channel.
Omigosh this hit home so much with me - 'work to live', not live to work. I work in a sector full of workaholics, people who compete for putting in the most hours, who view you as an isolationist if you don't attend community and work events on weekends. But I look at all the time they spend at work or work events and think, Don't they have family? Friends? Other interests? I have always been slightly notorious in my company for not exceeding 40 hours a week but I don't care. I will always try to maximize time with the people I love, and doing and learning new things in the world outside work. THANKS for the great tips & reminders about what matters - simplicity, self-care, quality, mindfulness. :) :) :)
Thank you for this, you have inspired me to ha a salon to discuss whether French women from France compared to French women in Canada have similarities and what differences are. Vous etes mon inspiration merci enormement. Merci, a bientot.🤗💖💖💖🌹
My mother taught me to read as a toddler and I was a library member by the time I was three years old. I've been a voracious reader ever since and don't own a TV as it doesn't compare to books.
You are soo grounded! Refreshing, sensible, worthwhile, necessary for peace of mind. My last discovery on your list is the no makeup makeup. Who knew!? I’m stunned to see I actually look better. It’s a big improvement ladies. Try it! I was thrilled. I found my lesson on no make up make up from Lisa Eldridge. Freedom.
Hello Mme Marie-Anne 🤗 You have so much to teach that is of value. I think I have without realizing it until now taken in many of the French Chic ways since I was a young woman that I picked up partially from my maternal grandma. She always had the same style, lifestyle and values as you share. My favourite is la Joie de Vivre. I have been consciously bringing this back into my life as we can finally do so again. It has been missed. Sitting at a cafe or wherever one chooses to take some time out and slow down while being social in person is so important ☕️
Bonjour Anne-Marie! Great video! I love and have been trying to apply all of your tips lately...especially the 'if it's not a WOW it's a no!! Love it!! Merci!!
You are a genius! I love the 10 steps! I love everything you said. Thank you so much and I really appreciate You! I love everything French and I love France. 🤠
Great advice. I wouldn't like to go to a Beauty salon as I can do it myself but having hair styled and cut (I need to do more often) I've just been to have it cut. It's taken years for me to think before I buy anything.
I have recently watched a video on TH-cam regarding French Women's diet and it was not very complimentary of French Culture and the requirement for French women to be thin. It talked about the pressure to be thin and eat very little to remain thin. It implied that French women are hyper vigilant about their size and eating. I would love to hear your honest insight on the topic. This is very different from how French thinness has always been portrayed to non French women. I love your videos and value your perspective.
I love this video. So easy to watch and absorb. Living in Las Vegas for 25 years I've almost forgotten how to Work to Live but this video just sealed the deal and I am 100% going to make a life changing decision that I have been swaying back and forth on. Time to start living.
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“If it is not a wow,it is a no” is my new mantra.
It’s great, isn’t it!
good mantra for buying and decluttering 👌
Great way to shop
similar to Marie Kondo’s saying, “If it doesn’t spark joy …”
This will help me in donating clothing that no longer has the “wow” factor.
How lovely, Marie-Anne. Not only conscious buying, but conscious living and eating.
French born, but living in the US my entire adult life, I practice all 10 habits EXCEPT I give away most books so someone else can enjoy them, when I know I will not reread them… and I get rid of dust and too many bookshelves. Less is more. I donot care that my bookshelves donot impress my visiting European friends. Thanks for all your videos. :)
Social graces are very important , simple manners are lost on so many, Merci great video.
Yes, social graces, decorum, and etiquette are essential. I never address someone by his or her first name unless the person instructs me to do so; to refer to them by their first name is too invasive and declasse.
@@nataliamiles7109 yes I agree, as a Nurse, i always dress patients by their surname., as well as strangers.
I absolutely love your comments about the importance of being a well-read woman. I have books in every room, and I read a new novel every two days. What do you expect from a former literature instructor? Further, it is never, never too late to advance ourselves through education. At the age of 63, I am earning a third MA degree; this one will give me the education to become a librarian--the career I have always desired. Read, read, read, indeed! I will be the most stylish librarian on the planet, thanks to our lovely Marie-Anne!
@@MarieAnneLecoeur
Thank you so much! I love that title: Custodian of Knowledge. I shall proudly wear that as my title on a name tag!
I too love books as if they are beloved pets. I now have macular degeneration so reading has to be brief due to strain. I was panicked about this. One day I tried free audio books. Granted, finding a great presenter takes time but I found some. Now I “read” more than ever! This is such a blessings and it’s enriched my life.
@@Donna-cc1kt
Hi Donna, I am sorry to read that you have macular degeneration; I cannot imagine how stressful this must be. My heart goes out to you. I am so glad that you have discovered free audio books! What a blessing, indeed. How amazing that you can still enjoy the joy of books--and even more so now. I cannot live without books, books, books!
Natalia
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Elegance is not about looking fancy. It is an ingrained, well-deserved demeanor of poise, kindness, careful grooming and aesthetics, and joie de vivre. It cannot be bought, it can hardly be taught, and if you don't have your SELF together, you cannot achieve it. All the bling and plastic surgery and expensive clothes in the world will not fool people who understand such things.
I am so glad that you included number 7: Be Well Read. Being well read is so important to me, and I celebrate other people who find this as crucial as I do. I also agree with number 10, the three pillars. Thank you for this video.
How about adding a # 11 - take care of your smile/teeth?
I recently spent an utter fortune fixing a gap in my teeth. I now go around grinning like an idiot and it has changed my life!
@@Chahlie Good! I bet that you look fab.
So true about good manners! I was just listening to an old NPR interview with the great singer Tony Bennett. When asking about "warming up" an audience, he said simply "Let them know you like them!" What good simple advice and it makes life so much more pleasant.
Went backstage to meet Tony bennett years ago - he was appallingly rude and dismissive
I couldn't agree more! I go to beauty salon regularly and enjoy it. Reading has been my hobby for years, you learn so much from books and they make you think. Thank you, Marie-Anne
I would be lost without my books
I've started 'wearing' no make-up since the pandemic. My skin has never been better.
I love it “Look after your clothes and they will look after you. “ So true. ♥️♥️
I have so many books but need to work on the self care! Never had a facial or a manicure or a pedicure! I really enjoy your videos Marie-Anne. I think I would add standing tall to your list of life changing habits. Many years ago a friend's Dad said to me 'Why do so many women walk with their heads down to the pavement? Why don't they raise their heads up and walk tall?' I now try to walk tall and not hunch over like an apology! xx
I love this concept. It's so true we do shopping hauls here instead of buying for quality.
I feel more elegant just listening to you, thank you.
Yes, French makeup is invisible except for the bright-red lipsticks!! With American or Italian makeup the stuff is more pronounced.
I love being in a book group. Discussing literature with a group of lovely women. Food is so important. Quality over quantity. Working to live. So important to our quality of life. 💖
I met a random man recently at a Greek food festival and we had a lovely discussion about Voltaire and de Tocqueville (who I didn't imagine anyone else had ever heard of!). My stone mason friend once told me the biggest benefit of his university education was being able to converse at parties :)
Merci pour cette vidéo. It is sad to see that our society has become less elegant-overworked and underdressed people. I make it a point to look presentable when I leave the house-I never know who I will see. I like to take time out of my busy schedule to experience my daily joie de vivre. I love to read and learn-education doesn’t end at your last degree. Being kind and appreciative is always elegant. I never cease to learn from you! ♥️😘
Very well said and my thoughts as well.
Cheers from Switzerland🇨🇭🥳🌻
Thank you very much for giving to us women ideas for a better Life. I loved to see you.
Gretchen,
Yes, it is very sad to observe the slovenly appearance of many individuals in America. Like you, I always look my best, since I never know whom I might meet that day. I like what you wrote: "Education doesn't end at your last degree." Indeed, learning from books, print media, others, advanced coursework/degrees, and travel adds so much to our lives--not just knowledge but spiritually and emotionally, too.
@@nataliamiles7109 Thank you for your comment. I am appalled at how sloppy people look in the US these days. At the mall, for example, I see so many who look like they should be working in the yard. Yes, I look my best every time I leave the house because I never know who I will run into when I go out, whether it is an old friend, my teacher from 30 years ago, a co-worker, or even a celebrity. I would be mortified if I look like I just got out of bed and I saw any of them in public.
Education doesn’t end at your last degree-it ends at your last breath. I love to read and travel (can’t wait until I feel comfortable going abroad again) and enjoy attending educational workshops. I am also learning foreign. languages, including Italian and Spanish, in my free time. I naturally learn at work because I am a proofreader who works on academic documents and educational material. I feel like I am getting paid to learn from some of the most prestigious business schools. 😉📚
@@nataliamiles7109
The problem is some people do not take pride in themselves. That is a tribute everyone should have. Even if one is in the dumps, taking a bit of time to look good is healing. Well that is how I feel.
Cheers from 🇨🇭.
I love the tip about the wow? or no! I usually always buy one item at a time because I was specifically looking just for that piece. Sales people always make me feel like I'm short changing myself and that there must be something else I need. Well, no. Because I'm so specific, I know if I need something or not. I realize they're trying to do their job, but this is why I prefer to shop on line. Love your videos Marie-Anne. I threw away some unflattering pieces and bumped up my lipstick color since watching you. Many people around me don't care at all, but I do and I'm working on doing what I enjoy instead of underdressing like my peers. I want to feel good about myself and I've been a wall flower way too long.
Good for you Joni!!
I love your attitude, keep it up! 👏
Marie-Anne, As usual, you are so correct in these 10 habits. I subscribe to most, if not all myself. Self care is VERY important in a stressful world. If you don’t take care of you, how can you care for your friends and family around you? Live life, enjoy a slow afternoon. Now that I am retired, I think this is so very important. Slow down and enjoy a good meal with family and friends, a cup of tea at a cafe, a bubble bath with the good candles. Ahhh, perfect!
How fantastic. Love this channel. Femininity is a lost art! Thank you for helping us become more elegant
These are lovely ideas for anyone's life! Thank you for sharing them. :)
When clothes shopping I know straight away if something is a 'wow'. Yes, I do agree with all of these tips.
The philosophy of Classic French style has had the greatest influence on my personal style. However, I’m also fascinated by the beauty of the art created during the period of extravagance throughout the age of French dominance (1650-1800)....And this includes the opulent costumes of early style icons like Madame Pompadour, Marie Antoinette, Louis XIV...The fabrics, embroidery, lace, prints, textures, beadwork, and color were combined to make each of their outfits into 3D masterpieces.🥰
A great haircut is the key. Even on days I know my hair is not looking that great I will sometimes get a compliment. I know it's the great hair cut. I used to get manicures but now I do my own, once or twice A year I will go for one. Since I am retired from a job I will wear my clothes regularly and try to avoid looking sloppy at home . I would save my good clothes for work or to go out. If I dont use my better clothes more I would never wear them
I always take time for myself at night to apply my skincare routine. It’s nice to pamper myself and do something good for my skin 😊
Merci Marie Anne pour vos très bons conseils 🥂🍾
Indeed, life is so much more enjoyable when we keep it simple 🫖🥢🌷
L’art de la table est obligatoire 🍄🐚🦩🦋🍉🍎🥝🌶🥬🥕🫒🫐🍐🧀🍞🧈🥗🍤🥧🍯🍷🍵🎨🏖
Happy weekend to everyone 🎡⛲️⛩💎
Class is something that money can't buy. If you come across a French lady, even if she's not rich - she will probably be one of the classiest people you will come across. Thankyou Marie Anne. X
Really not true.
I love sitting outside at a nice coffee shop, sharing conversation with a good friend and watching the world go by. Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips!
These are great ideas for living one's good life.. I have mostly tried to only buy the Wow factor with the occasional mistake.. books well love them . My father always said you don't have to travel to be well informed. The world is in a book. Thankyou for sharing and confirming these points.x
When I visited Paris years ago, I was so impressed with the way people greeted shop-keepers and visa/versa. I've always made it a habit, even prior to my visit. It's not terribly common here in the US. Seems a pity, though it may have to do with many sales persons working on commission and people/customers feeling pressured.
To this day I get a bit peeved if I am not acknowledged when I enter a shop!
Have you ever done a video on 10 ITEMS EVERY WOMAN NEEDS?
The three pillars were taught to me by both my parents. It has resulted in me buying only the best I could afford whether it be clothing/shoes/food/wine/jewellery/cars etc. It has resulted in me having beautiful things that have stood the test of time and more than 40 years later I still have some of my shoes/boots/clothing/jewellery and still love them. I can use them differently from the way they were used 40 years ago. Obviously making sure that they are all age appropriate. Midriff baring = NO, too tight = NO, too short = NO but for all else I re-use beautiful things with joy and delight.
Excellent video Marie-Anne! I believe the art of elegance is lost with our society looking for fast everything... This is the main difference between Europeans and North Americans although I must say as a French Canadian, I feel a lot more closer to the French when it comes to lifestyle and fashion. I love your channel.
Thank you for this amazing life habits from France. I was always fascinated by French culture.
Thank you for reminding me that I have about 3 books on my kindle that I need to get started on! 📖
Dear Marie-Anne, You are such an icon not only for French chic style, but the French art of living overall! Compliments and thanks for being such an inspiration! ❤
No 6…we no longer shake hands….covid has wiped that habit out now …when you think we only started doing it to show we had no sword concealed..it’s one habit I’m happy we’ve got rid of.. it always made me feel uneasy…especially in flu season.
SO TRUE, MARIE-ANNE I am an American who lives in Paris ---I fell in love with the French culture mny years ago and give much credit to your country for the
marvelous ways I have been able to evolve here LA JOIE DE VIVRE!!!!
This is one of my favorite chic videos. The habits are excellent and possible to do. The video quality is fantastic.
I enjoyed my pedi yesterday, one sits in a massage chair, too. Not so much the leg waxing that proceeded it, but it’s equally necessary. I don’t have enough hair left to require shaving, a monthly waxing is sufficient. Now my feet and legs are at their best again, I’ll be showing them off.
I just turned 39 and I follow all of these, paying even more attention to all points as I continue to mature (hooray for confidence and self acceptance!) However, the area that I need to tend to most is making time for fun with family etc. This can be hard with where I am at in my career right now, especially since I married into a family of extreme work ethic and high energy who prioritizes work! Good stuff.
I was just thinking about the book thing- I've been to so many houses where there are zero books, and it's not places that have a separate room for a 'library'. Books are such a huge part of my life- I would be lost without Colette and Agatha Christie :)
Dont judge a book by whether it has a cover!😊 My husband and I both read extensively, but we don't have many books in our home. Most of our books are in electronic format now. We don't have much space, and also appreciate that with electronic versions you can enlarge the print and control the back lighting; much easier on older eyes.
I had a book shelf and I decided to eliminate it. Most of the books once read I don’t read them again. I gave them to friends, otherwise it’s just another thing to dust off. Very few books I feel the need to read for a second time. Most books can be found online, so I read on my tablet. I have a couple of coffee table books, just because of the beautiful photos it’s nice to go through them
Excellent video! Thanks 💕
I love to read books. Unfortunately, with the possibility of having to downsize sometime in the next few years (my only child is in college), I was sad to get rid of so many books, including my childhood favorites. When I move and discover more shelf space (ironically), I will track down my lost books and snatch them, even if they are beat-up!
@@bellebb8673 same! I have hundreds of books, but they’re nearly all electronic.
That's a great summary of things that make living as a Frenchwoman fun. It seems that I have a French soul. About the pillar "Keep it simple" - it certainly does not apply generally! What about the cuisine, culture, films, dinner parties? And I could go on and on :) Details matter, techniques are developed etc. To me sophistication is also a very French quality
Simplicity is certainly dear to our hearts Zlota - like any culture some may slide into extravagance 😉
Marie-Ann This was one of may favorite videos! Thanks for reinforcing all ten elegant habits, that we all should apply to be an elegant woman.
me too!
I have to make time for spas. I take care of my hair with a salon, but everything else I do myself.
I have always kept things in mothballs, plastic container organizers to separate sweaters from t-shirts, scarves, and such. I keep handbags and shoe toes stuffed with tissue and protected in dust bags and or plastic bags. My stumbling block is not having my clothes tailored-I use belts and roll up sleeves or add a scarf if they are not the perfect fit.
While I do not do hauls, I do sale shopping and keep things on hand for a day when I can't shop or I am too busy. I have extra simple non-faddish sweaters and skirts. I seemed to have stocked up on personal items just like I do with the pantry and cleaning supplies. This is a strange lifelong habit not related to the recent pandemic.
I think my skin looks younger because I put only oils, moisturizers, sunscreen on, and no makeup. I add brow pencil, mascara, and lipstick and everything else is skincare in the am and evening. I also make sure I have additional supplements I know I do not get in food that help with my immune system, my hair, nails, and skin. I have a home library and a habit of lifelong learning.
I do want my husband and me to make healthy food and take walks seriously as a daily ritual. I suppose I am well on my way to Chic and Elegant.
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It's all well and good to take care of yourself, educated and refined, but no mention of taking care of others. That is a habit we all should aspire too!
I find clothes shopping so easy after following these videos 😊
That is lovely to hear Madelaine - merci 🤗
We all watch your videos Marie-Anne because we all love French Chic Women. Who wouldn’t love to go to Paris, especially when you live in Australia. Your advice is very helpful and heartfelt. Thank you
Helen.
When I was a teenager many many years ago I had a limited budget but always purchased made in France skincare makeup my skin looks great to this day because I took care of it.
I go for the “no makeup” makeup look. I wear a neutral, light color eyeshadow, medium brown eyeliner, brown mascara, tinted lip balm, and, if I wear foundation, it’s usually a mineral powder foundation. It works. I look put together, but not made up.
American Women here! You taught me so much! Thank you!
Bonjour Marie-Anne, I was fortunate as a young woman to have lived in Louveciennes, France for two years. That was fifty years ago, but it was one of the high points of my life! Sitting in a cafe having 'cafe au lait et un croissant' with friends was a favorite pastime. That time in France really changed my whole view on what is important in life! Merci bien!
I am so glad you had such a wonderful time CMB 😘
Could you please do a reading list for us? Thank you for the wonderful videos
oh fabulous views on fashion and values , i agree completely, as i only buy classic clothes and need to last a long time , my values really look towards my shoes as i buy not only heels but flats too in the same colour , but must above all fit and be comfortable and be of good quality , i am afraid i am really stubborn about my foot wear , as i really enjoy good foot wear. my evening footwear must be elegant but comfortable , however since having an knee replacement i have needed to lower my heel hight but kitten heels can still look elegant , i resisted them for a long time until i found a beautiful pair of shoes which solved my issues then i swallowed my pride and bought a few pairs and then they changed my life ! fortunately !
my regards liz x
Enjoy your videos & I am happy that you are a part of my life. Vous êtes merveilleuse.
I do all these things. Tres chic! Merci, Marie Ann!
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Thank you for this great video and fabulous tips! My very first manicure was at age 30, a Christmas gift from my husband! I am now 69 and get them regularly as well as pedicures. I also get my hair cut and colored every 5-7 weeks, but don’t go between times; I may start a weekly or bi weekly hair salon trip if I can work that into the budget! After a recent drastic weight loss (thanks to Parosmia!) I have had to replace everything, and I mean EVERYTHING! in my wardrobe. I have become very conscientious about what I purchase, buying only what really appeals to me (that WOW factor, maybe?) and not just clothes to fill my closet.
I am from the Southern United States, Texas to be exact, and happily most Texans and Southerners still practice politeness and good manners. On a trip to New York and New Jersey years ago, a clerk in a bookstore asked me, “So Southern person, where are you from?” This shocked me, as up to that point I hadn’t said anything that would cause my accent to give me away! I asked my friend what had made him think I was from the South? Her answer, “You smiled at him when we went in!” Such a simple gesture and so natural fro me that I didn’t even give it a second thought!
Love your videos, and enjoy reading the comments!
Playing instrument or painting is great too next to reading. I traded social media browsing for piano in the evenings and it feels great.
What a perfect video! I try not to rush through anything. I feel that people in general here in the states are rushing through just about everything. If we could only breathe and live in the moment there would be much less stress.
Your advices are respectful!!!
Thank you! I’ve really noticed a positive change in your videos over the past period of time. It’s a pleasure to watch and learn from you.
Ah Marie -Anne such wise words...sadly fell down on number 8 in the past....but never again.
God bless
Gilly
L just discovered your channel and I love it, and you! I agree 100 % with you regarding French style which is classic in comparison with what Americans believe is fashionable. I have a lot of those items, like the striped cotton shirts and blouses and my fave is a white blouse with jeans or black pants.
Marie Anne thank you for this charming presentation. pS you look great with the short hair. It’s young and fresh and suits you very well
Lovely presentation. We have a good size home library. All of our family loves to read. Our children did very well in school and I believe our cultivating the habit of reading is one of the reasons. Quality over quantity in every aspect of my life is my motto. Enjoy your channel.
I love the books. Not so much dusting of them all. So I've cut way back. If I can use the library copy, that's what I do.
Lovely Marie Anne...thank you for sharingxxx
Thank you very much for the great reminders of what our lives should be like !!
"L' art de vivre", très important! Merci, Madame. 💐
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Omigosh this hit home so much with me - 'work to live', not live to work. I work in a sector full of workaholics, people who compete for putting in the most hours, who view you as an isolationist if you don't attend community and work events on weekends. But I look at all the time they spend at work or work events and think, Don't they have family? Friends? Other interests? I have always been slightly notorious in my company for not exceeding 40 hours a week but I don't care. I will always try to maximize time with the people I love, and doing and learning new things in the world outside work. THANKS for the great tips & reminders about what matters - simplicity, self-care, quality, mindfulness. :) :) :)
Very good advise. Hopefully the world will get better soon. Many blessings to all.
Excellent video and very excellent topic. Thank you.
Thank you for this, you have inspired me to ha a salon to discuss whether French women from France compared to French women in Canada have similarities and what differences are. Vous etes mon inspiration merci enormement. Merci, a bientot.🤗💖💖💖🌹
Great habits for an elegant life.
Of course Marie, not only external beauty but also internal
As an English teacher I love that you mentioned reading! So important 🤍
My mother taught me to read as a toddler and I was a library member by the time I was three years old. I've been a voracious reader ever since and don't own a TV as it doesn't compare to books.
As always your videos never disappoint. ❤
I have a lot of these great habits, lovely.
You are soo grounded! Refreshing, sensible, worthwhile, necessary for peace of mind. My last discovery on your list is the no makeup makeup. Who knew!? I’m stunned to see I actually look better. It’s a big improvement ladies. Try it! I was thrilled. I found my lesson on no make up make up from Lisa Eldridge. Freedom.
I’m working my way though your videos!
Nice video, Marie-Anne!
Hello Mme Marie-Anne 🤗 You have so much to teach that is of value. I think I have without realizing it until now taken in many of the French Chic ways since I was a young woman that I picked up partially from my maternal grandma. She always had the same style, lifestyle and values as you share.
My favourite is la Joie de Vivre. I have been consciously bringing this back into my life as we can finally do so again. It has been missed. Sitting at a cafe or wherever one chooses to take some time out and slow down while being social in person is so important ☕️
🍎 Thank you,charming Marie- Anne.
Merci, Marie-Anne! Joie de vivre!
Without it, style is just clothes.
Bonjour Anne-Marie! Great video! I love and have been trying to apply all of your tips lately...especially the 'if it's not a WOW it's a no!! Love it!! Merci!!
Brilliant!!!!- excellent tips .
You are a genius! I love the 10 steps! I love everything you said. Thank you so much and I really appreciate You! I love everything French and I love France. 🤠
Thank you for amazing tips!
great advice, as always, thank you for sharing!
Great advice. I wouldn't like to go to a Beauty salon as I can do it myself but having hair styled and cut (I need to do more often) I've just been to have it cut. It's taken years for me to think before I buy anything.
I had a French grandmere. Sadly never knew her. Chanelling her spirit ❤️
I have recently watched a video on TH-cam regarding French Women's diet and it was not very complimentary of French Culture and the requirement for French women to be thin. It talked about the pressure to be thin and eat very little to remain thin. It implied that French women are hyper vigilant about their size and eating. I would love to hear your honest insight on the topic. This is very different from how French thinness has always been portrayed to non French women. I love your videos and value your perspective.
I love this video. So easy to watch and absorb. Living in Las Vegas for 25 years I've almost forgotten how to Work to Live but this video just sealed the deal and I am 100% going to make a life changing decision that I have been swaying back and forth on. Time to start living.
1st of August 2022. Just watched your last video about people writing bad comments, ignore them
Great tips.
Simplicité fait beauté!
@@MarieAnneLecoeur I enjoy your videos so much. I have learned a lot form you! Merci bien!
You have made such a difference to my life thank you. I lived this blog as I still have a lot to learn. Keep up the good work. Thank you.
Wonderful
This is a perfect list!
Marie Ann even if I not share your opinion with something - watching your videos is always a pleasure! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for inspiration!
I love your culture.