0:20 you don’t trust your partner 2:17 you’re afraid to bring up concerns 3:18 fear of abandonment 4:51 overthink situations 6:15 compare yourself to partner’s ex 7:30 present differently 8:24 hypersensitive to feedback 9:38 lose yourself in the relationship exactly what i’m needed right now thank you! still working on 4/8 issues presented
thank you! So glad you found it helpful! I can do some upcoming videos on ways to deal with low self-esteem in relationships. Any particular signs that really resonated with you so I can focus on?
Just realizing and accpeting that I have low self esteem as me and my wife just split a few days ago. I tend to look outside the relationship for validation that I'm good enough. I haven't cheated, but the lust, or the need to just have convos and validation from others make me feel good enough. I didn't have the best childhood or love from either parent, plus I was kinda bullied so I became this "person" that everyone liked so I could feel good. On top of that, my anger is an issue and I tend to say hurtful things when I'm angry like a dummy, and I hurt my wife in the process. I don't wanna be this person anymore. I just want to be with my wife and go through life with her and our 2 kids together.
Not to mention that I've never handled my emotions well and struggle, so when I get upset, I bottle them in and I explode and say hurtful things. I seriously hate myself for what I've done to my family
This video is part of a playlist that might be helpful. I recommend you watch the next video which is here th-cam.com/video/qK67381Uz38/w-d-xo.html that starts talking about how to work through this.
0:20 you don’t trust your partner
2:17 you’re afraid to bring up concerns
3:18 fear of abandonment
4:51 overthink situations
6:15 compare yourself to partner’s ex
7:30 present differently
8:24 hypersensitive to feedback
9:38 lose yourself in the relationship
exactly what i’m needed right now thank you! still working on 4/8 issues presented
This is a great video. Made me realize a lot about myself
great video thankyou, it really helped. Also how can I deeal with them, what is a solution to them
thank you! So glad you found it helpful! I can do some upcoming videos on ways to deal with low self-esteem in relationships. Any particular signs that really resonated with you so I can focus on?
Just realizing and accpeting that I have low self esteem as me and my wife just split a few days ago.
I tend to look outside the relationship for validation that I'm good enough. I haven't cheated, but the lust, or the need to just have convos and validation from others make me feel good enough.
I didn't have the best childhood or love from either parent, plus I was kinda bullied so I became this "person" that everyone liked so I could feel good. On top of that, my anger is an issue and I tend to say hurtful things when I'm angry like a dummy, and I hurt my wife in the process. I don't wanna be this person anymore. I just want to be with my wife and go through life with her and our 2 kids together.
Not to mention that I've never handled my emotions well and struggle, so when I get upset, I bottle them in and I explode and say hurtful things. I seriously hate myself for what I've done to my family
Did you manage to work out things with your wife?@@PacmannProductionsTv
So...how do we address this?
This video is part of a playlist that might be helpful. I recommend you watch the next video which is here th-cam.com/video/qK67381Uz38/w-d-xo.html that starts talking about how to work through this.
Awesome video!
I've never really thought about that fear of abandonment, but now that you brought it a lot of things started to make sense 🥲
thank you for your kind feedback! Yeah, fear of abandonment can show up in so many ways.