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"You're not helping people so that they can be grateful to you. You're helping people because you know it's the right thing to do. But more importantly, you're helping people because you get to understand, experiment, and experience different parts of yourself." Yes to this!!
I'm a firm believer of that. People sometimes misunderstand this when I say it, I sometimes consider this as a selfish act as in helping people or when we apologize. When we serve people I feel like I was able to lend a helping hand which soothes my heart, the same goes when I apologize. When I do this it takes off the burden in my heart or in my mind. This makes me think that serving people is just not for the people receiving it but also for us as well.
Took me 25 yrs to realized that I was living with low self esteem and finally I found out at the age of 31 yrs old. I grew up in a latin country with unhealthy mindset about competition for who is the best created an “Ego” in me that was killing my heart and poisoning my mind. Be kind to yourself and be honest with yourself and you’ll discover that your fears are not real. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m dealing with this exact same thing with a Latino guy I’m seeing, same age as you. He is so kind and caring, but it’s like there is so much self hatred. So much pressure to be masculine, so much pressure to act in a certain way, I treat him like he deserves the world, and every small thing that I do, it’s like he is shocked that someone would do that for him. It’s funny because he’s a seriously good looking guy, tattooes, great body, gets loads of attention from girls. He gets a lot this external attention but he doesn’t know how to accept actual love, actual genuine care from a woman without anything being expected in return. I feel so bad you guys have to go through this 😔
As a Latino myself I hear this deeply. I have experienced low self esteem, codependency, and shame as foundational pillars of the culture. Much unlearning/relearning/reparenting happening.
All my life i have been fighting with low self esteem , self doubt , low confidence . I will push through it . I will not let my ego say am the worst in the world . This video gives me a new perspective. I ll work on this perspective. I am happy .
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I hear you man i remember them days back in high school hiding in the bathroom till class was over cause i was to scared to do my presentation. Man the fear and anxiety was eating me up fr. Really build self esteem now I see why it’s the most important g, it’s how we live more happily and communicate!
People say that I m foolish and I also find many times that I forgot things and not a strong mindset people always say that I m not able for anything I m careless person ..its give me a strong tension and I started to loose hope and somtime thought about life is very bad I m the wrost one 😢 please give me idea s
Everyone needs to read it....if you are suffering from JUST ANY kind of a negative emotion that's perfectly fine..even i myself am suffering from 2 consicutive FALIURE low self-esteem feeling stuck depression etc. but i know one thing...if your endurance is bigger than this and hard work is even more bigger....than definitely all suffering will be worthwhile... don't fake positivity....have courage to face endure and replant your own seeds! All the very very best!
My key lessons here are: I learn about my self when I help people. Success comes from service. Ego(too much or too little) has isolates many Thanks Jay
Low self esteem is caused by traumatic experiences and abuses. These 2 factors are the reason behind low self esteem from what i know. These causes you to have no self confidence which leads to low self esteem.
I’ve recently have expressed how frustrated I’ve been with the confusion of life itself and it’s seemingly endless contradictions. I came across this video and in the section with businessmen being successful because of service, it really struck my inner question of why I feel the need to be in service of others. And maybe through this video, I may have found a direction to go to that can fulfill me the right way. From the bottom of my heart, I wish to say thank you for your service
This is ridiculous. The best or the worst? Some people have been through terrible abuse that has left them feeling worthless and without confidence. People have a difficult time listing their skills when they have been told that they are nothing. Many of these abusive relationships begin with losing yourself in the service of others, who then steal from you, hit you and put you down. This eventually makes you feel reluctant to reach out to others, not because they won't thank you, but because they may hurt you again. You may need time to heal, to breathe, to care for yourself, before you feel strong enough to jump into service. Losing yourself in anything, a relationship, a job, a cause, is dangerous. You must be aware of your own values, morals, and worth, or you may be badly used and lost.
It’s still your responsibility to do the healing so you don’t project your pain onto others who doesn’t deserve it. Others hurt you because they chose not to heal. Now you can make a better choice and choose to heal so you are back at feeling you again ❤ you will notice you are healing when you feel less trigger by the pain and you will feel lighter as a being ❤❤❤
The problem that makes me suffer everytime is 'If I think the other person is better than me ' Inner me : lacks confidence and says you are nothing and the opposite of this ' If I say I am better than that person ' Inner me - you are challenging that person . You are being rude ' .
I ve never known you or heard about you until three days ago.There was something I tried to find a way for my soul.Two sentences that you said in your another video became my exact answers.Because of wht I hear from you I am free and stronger now.Thank you so much
Insightful video. Made me realize that the common denominator between an inflated or deflated ego is that both attitudes ("I am the best" or "I am the worst") completely isolate the person. Which I suppose is why service and community involvement in general works to abolish the ego.
sometimes i want to vent to random people and end up going wrong places. sometimes i end up burning bridges because the listener doesn't try to understand me. i have high EQ so i get hurt and end up lowering my self esteem even more. i want to change this attitude. i want to stop wanting to vent to people, searching for emotional support and become numb to any emotion in my life. i want to become a hard wooden log that doesn't rebuke no matter how many times it is hacked into pieces or shredded into dust. jay if you ever read this, please show me a way to overcome my low self esteem due to the above cause.
I knew I had some issues but recently I think a huge source of anxiety for me lately has been low self esteem.. I want to build my self esteem back and be able to regulate my anxiety better so I can be who I want to be instead of beating myself up all the time..
I have to say Jay's success is due to his humility and willingness to share and wanting people like myself to be our best and how to deal with and overcome obstacles. Like all there will be criticism, negativity comments that Jay faces, in this world that will never change, buy its how one deals with it. Every video Jay inspires me and thank you so so much.
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Your podcast had help me to get more confident in my life and my job, I love hearing it on my way to the job
Aiming for goodness,spreading love,kindness,peace all over the world we are blessed with blossoming life of blessings which flourishes our life with happiness forever.
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Jay Shetty's talks are always deep, and this one about ego and self-esteem is no different. It's interesting to think about how our self-esteem connects to our ego, just like Jay and his guest talked about. This reminds me of my life coach, Lisa Haisha, who's an expert in personal growth. She teaches me to be aware of ourselves and grow inside. Lisa's work shows how being honest with ourselves helps me become the best versions of myself. Thanks for sharing this one, it serves as a great reminder! ❤❤
Sir Jay❤️ I'm from Northeast India... I've been following for 5 years since I joined college. I'm reading #Think_Like_a_monk these days and I'm loving it as I can feel optimism in my life.
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In islam, helping others is an obligation due to its affects on us and our hearts in general. I find it fascinating that helping others could ultimately lead us to finding/ discovering who we really are.
helping others does not mean we don't get time for ourselves but can be helping on the way or even strategically but then the second one will make you satisfied because he or she chose to do so, we are all helping whether it be our family or friends,
Wow thanks for this message I needed that tonight. I was so much in my head telling myself that was not go enough. But realizing that who I am right now is better that who I was yesterday. Thanks so much be blessed
My God the way this video help ease my mind I have been falling apart for aboutn2 months and this made me realize how much I need to refocus on myself i have been looking for validation from everyone
I am an empath, and I can say that sometimes we get do get sucked into being manipulated by the wrong people. Helping others involves helping those who need it not those who manipulate you. I have helped the wrong people in the past, and while I do not expect anything in return, Maliciousness is surprising. But I think the key as stated, is to be able to discern a genuine person from a not so genuine person if that makes sense.
EGO just wants to exists away from intuition, I have found that recognising that I am not my thoughts and that I am my intuition, this frees me from my low self belief. Dealing with my childhood traumas led to my choosing my thoughts and my intentions. Thanks goodness I chose this way of being. Service to me is love in action. Thanks for this video Jay!
Exactly! It's fascinating how ego plays such a subtle role in both low self-esteem and overconfidence. I’ve felt that pressure to be the best or the worst, and it only led to more confusion. It's like trying to fit into a box that keeps changing size! Embracing honesty about my strengths and weaknesses really shifted my perspective. Humor’s similar, too-sometimes the fear of not being funny can freeze you, and other times, overthinking it can backfire. The Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x helped me navigate this, and now I’m more relaxed about being myself. Keep it real, and humor will follow!
I do have ego issue and worst thing. About ego is that it lets U see other people bad behaviour but never let U see Ur own mistakes..and it takes maturity to break ur own ego
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The advice to focus on the future rather than dwelling on past mistakes resonated with me. I am now determined to concentrate on growth and improvement, viewing challenges as opportunities for personal development.
I’ve been struggling with low self esteem, low self confidence and Depression for 8-9 years now and I honestly don’t know how to change how I feel. Believe me I want to change that mindset and I want to start proving myself because it’s starting to affect my family and I want to help them but I don’t know where to begin and to make things worse I don’t feel like anybody in my family really gets me or understand how I feel, I guess I hide it well. I honestly feel helpless at this point
This is now so clear to me I always say I'm missing the grey area I mean the in between Ifeel only very happy or very unhappy now i understand the point about the ego, thank you for explaining
I just stopped relying on alcohol to help me get through emotional pain. I finally came to grips with my decisions and choices. I prayed to God Almighty for several years and it just "clicked" a few days ago !!! I have not drank for the past 4 days. I feel great. I have to work on my low self esteem. I messed up in life and I can't go back and fix things. Thanks for reading.
Being in a place where ppl respect u for ur profession n deep inside feeling lnot good enough is a struggle i go through every day...n i dont know how to be d best version of myself nd stand in my expectations of myself
The segment on cutting-edge technologies caught my attention. It's fascinating to see how science and technology are playing a role in boosting confidence. Can't wait to learn more about these innovations!
Nowhere i turn to it’s all about the lowest of oneself, or highest. But I’m stuck in between where I’m indifferent, neither look down on myself but also not spouting with glee. Where I don’t have high self confidence but have just as little reason to consider of myself anything less, as in not more than I am currently - with no further desire to reach.
Hi, great video on self-esteem and Ego - if we could all spend more time being aware of the way in which our Ego speaks to us we could understand the effects it has on us. Being more 'honest' with ourselves is great advise Jay.
Jay always guides me to see things from new opportunities! If l had to share, Jay always guides me better than my own parents! Absolute best podcast & motivational videos
🛐✊🏽Everyone struggles w/ low self esteem & downs themselves w/ something! Think positively can help, but you have to keep trying no matter what you’ll eventually obtain your issues!
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Struck a deep meaningful nerve with myself and other people I've dated and our behaviour. And maybe reflects my INTP 4w5 balance because of childhood experience.
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Dude tell me about it... I've been though shittiness on Earth... Mentally and emotionally... some by random circumstances and others by my own stupidity... Both have destroyed me.... I am an ISFP 9w8 // 947
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We often get stuck in a process as we are attached to the outcome ...whether we will be successful or not..which is not in our control....Jay so rightly pointed out that the we have full control on the preparation, process and practice ...😊😊
Such a great video - such wonderful respect in the energy between you both. I love this. I hope I can heal my soul and find a way to have better self esteem.
It's hard, really hard trying to find yourself when you don't even know who you are or how to start. So much information on how to get yourself and it's not just hitting but making you feel more self conscious. Life is complicated and hard! It's such a battle and I'm weak
Hey Rae, this idea you are weak sounds like a generalization and a harsh judgment of yourself. If you were a friend to a person with this view of themselves and you were an honest and caring friend, would you allow this self belief to be unexamined. Maybe there are some errors in this Perspective you are coming from > I'd question myself; what is this judgement based upon? Is there some error or distortion in the Lense you are looking through. Is it real. Is it true? What Perspective is this based upon or coming from? It's a tenancy to compare our internal judgement to our selective observations of others external " on show" We all need support and love to help us to appreciate the real true reality of ourselves > it's a journey > we start where we are > total acceptance for how it is - being careful we aren't judging ourselves incorrectly > all the best brother / sister
Im dealing with low self esteem and self worth. I lost my mom and sister 45 days apart last October n November. Ever since ive been depressed, i think if myself as a Piece of shit. I have lost all enjoyment in my hobbies.
“Knock, And He'll open the door Vanish, And He'll make you shine like the sun Fall, And He'll raise you to the heavens Become nothing, And He'll turn you into everything.” ― Jalal Ad-Din Rumi ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction TH-camr💜
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Btw successful people struggle with confidence issues as much as, if not more than, the average person. When you’re successful you’re often stretching beyond the boundaries of your comfort zone and doing things that scare you… and ultimately, this goes hand in hand with self-doubt. However, the difference is that many successful people are used to dealing with confidence issues, so they’re often more prepared to manage them and utilize the tools at their disposal to overcome them.
wow i never realized that other side of ego of feeling my life is the worst, its very challening cause also you can focused into others because you want to fullfill a void or geting recognition. i dont consider my life the worst but its almost there bun there is always something missing i guess is the same
The simple concept that ego goes both ways is insane. It’s been almost a year now since I gained the idea that ego can be a negative thing. Since then it’s helped me to better understand my own issues and how to better deal with those issues. I’m doing so much better now.
Ego is either i am the best or i am the worst.You could not fall in the trap of ego is by self honesty. When you honestly figure out what you are good at,great at and suck at.
The controversy is that if you have low self-esteem and low ego you can’t really help anyone because you have to heal your self first and work on your self to build confidence.
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I am writing this comment because no one actually knows me here. I really needed to vent this out. It has been an year and I'm facing anxiety because I feel under confident about almost everything I do. Even when there is something happy in my life, I do not know how the negative thoughts just rush to me. It's very disheartening too. I am facing issues to express what exactly is in heart and none of my friends or family for that matter know about it. I was an extrovert but by time I've realised I've lost the sense of interaction with people. It feels pathetic to be honest. Writing it here maybe would give me a place to talk about it because I'm not getting any platform to talk about it. I do not know I'm doing it right writing about it . I'm again in a dilemma but so be it. My academic performance has dropped which gives me more stress than I can ever take. My personal relationships with people have snapped owing to my insecurities. I realise the problem is with me. I really want to fight it, I know focussing on myself would treat it but I feel enervated. I don't feel like getting up and doing things for myself. I feel helpless and this feeling of helplessness is making me all the way more vulnerable. Maybe venting it out here might not be a very good decision or on the contrary can be a great decision who knows but I might feel a little better. For all those who have read it and heart it, I'm genuinely thankful.
I can relate with you as I am also facing the same. I am really under confident with low self esteem. Everything seems impossible to do or I find myself not good enough. I am barely surviving in my job and have not been able to get promotion due to my reserved behaviour and lack of communication. I try to fix my anxiety and also take actions but I get demotivated really fast or unable to stay consistent. I have suffered in my relationships as well I think it's alright to vent out what you're feeling and I think it's a part of life ... Never stop trying. I am going to see a psychiatrist to help me with the issues. Maybe you can seek medical help if it helps in someway
Thank you. I wish the same for you. Most importantly, I empathise with you. I hope you really grow through talking to a psychologist and I wish you get promoted and do wonders in your job. 🌼
The other day i deleted all my music from all platforms, because my biggest haunter showed up again and upper cutted me, i really dont believe in myself, i dont think im worthy, i feel like i shouldnt even be here, so my creations dont matter and i get it, so i deleted everything, and im seriously planning on getting rid of all of my equipment
If you want ‘Real confidence’ your confidence is in Jesus Christ, is in God. Your true identity is in Him You are loved by your Father in heaven- receive Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour, and you will become a child of God
I need some of this tbh. My crush said she liked me to a friend and she's beautiful but I just dont feel like im good enough for her. I've always seen people as if they are better then me when actually im working on a university degree. Thing with that is I dont believe i can do it and i constantly worry that I will never make it in life even though I have all the oppurtinities which makes me feel like I'm ungratefil for the situation I was born into. People tell me all the time that I am lucky since according to them im tall and have good looks and got some good oppurtinities. I also have lots of friends but I just always feel less then them. Also people telling me how lucku I am makes me realize how lucky iam and yet I still feel somewhat depressed and like im not worth it. I feel really bad about that since I am incredibly lucky yet iam still sad and feel like I'm less. I should be happy but for some odd reason I am just not.
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To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
Thank you I needed this .
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Thank you kind fellow. I hope your dreams come true too.
Thank you
Thankyou
"You're not helping people so that they can be grateful to you. You're helping people because you know it's the right thing to do. But more importantly, you're helping people because you get to understand, experiment, and experience different parts of yourself." Yes to this!!
Because you don’t want them to go through the same things you went through 🙏🏼
Yes
I'm a firm believer of that. People sometimes misunderstand this when I say it, I sometimes consider this as a selfish act as in helping people or when we apologize. When we serve people I feel like I was able to lend a helping hand which soothes my heart, the same goes when I apologize. When I do this it takes off the burden in my heart or in my mind. This makes me think that serving people is just not for the people receiving it but also for us as well.
@@tiffinsuresh860yes man especially this! Socializing especially helps
Took me 25 yrs to realized
that I was living with low self esteem and finally I found out at the age of 31 yrs old. I grew up in a latin country with unhealthy mindset about competition for who is the best created an “Ego” in me that was killing my heart and poisoning my mind.
Be kind to yourself and be honest with yourself and you’ll discover that your fears are not real.
❤
I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m dealing with this exact same thing with a Latino guy I’m seeing, same age as you. He is so kind and caring, but it’s like there is so much self hatred. So much pressure to be masculine, so much pressure to act in a certain way, I treat him like he deserves the world, and every small thing that I do, it’s like he is shocked that someone would do that for him. It’s funny because he’s a seriously good looking guy, tattooes, great body, gets loads of attention from girls. He gets a lot this external attention but he doesn’t know how to accept actual love, actual genuine care from a woman without anything being expected in return.
I feel so bad you guys have to go through this 😔
As a Latino myself I hear this deeply. I have experienced low self esteem, codependency, and shame as foundational pillars of the culture. Much unlearning/relearning/reparenting happening.
the same thing is happening with me right now
@@rebeccatolomei4363this me right now 😢
@@epycpersonyou get through this just believe in yourself
All my life i have been fighting with low self esteem , self doubt , low confidence . I will push through it . I will not let my ego say am the worst in the world . This video gives me a new perspective. I ll work on this perspective. I am happy .
If you want ‘Real confidence’ your confidence is in Jesus Christ, is in God. Your true identity is in Him
You are loved by your Father in heaven- receive Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour, and you will become a child of God
I hear you man i remember them days back in high school hiding in the bathroom till class was over cause i was to scared to do my presentation. Man the fear and anxiety was eating me up fr. Really build self esteem now I see why it’s the most important g, it’s how we live more happily and communicate!
If you’re watching this, I pray everything works out for you! ~❤️Nat
Wishing you the same ... More power to you
Thank you
People say that I m foolish and I also find many times that I forgot things and not a strong mindset people always say that I m not able for anything I m careless person ..its give me a strong tension and I started to loose hope and somtime thought about life is very bad I m the wrost one 😢 please give me idea s
Wishing you the same and thank you❤
Love yourself, I used to until I let toxic people make me think differently. I just want to love myself again so bad.
Everyone needs to read it....if you are suffering from JUST ANY kind of a negative emotion that's perfectly fine..even i myself am suffering from 2 consicutive FALIURE low self-esteem feeling stuck depression etc. but i know one thing...if your endurance is bigger than this and hard work is even more bigger....than definitely all suffering will be worthwhile... don't fake positivity....have courage to face endure and replant your own seeds!
All the very very best!
My key lessons here are:
I learn about my self when I help people.
Success comes from service.
Ego(too much or too little) has isolates many
Thanks Jay
No. Never depend your happyness in others. Others will destroy you in the best way.
@@TH-camr-lv6ehdepends on who you serving regardless it’s not about me I’m doing for them the better
Low self esteem is caused by traumatic experiences and abuses. These 2 factors are the reason behind low self esteem from what i know. These causes you to have no self confidence which leads to low self esteem.
Absolutely right
Neglect and abuse definitely
I’ve recently have expressed how frustrated I’ve been with the confusion of life itself and it’s seemingly endless contradictions. I came across this video and in the section with businessmen being successful because of service, it really struck my inner question of why I feel the need to be in service of others. And maybe through this video, I may have found a direction to go to that can fulfill me the right way. From the bottom of my heart, I wish to say thank you for your service
Big ups to you Big E
This saying is true ..he who does not love himself cannot RIGHTLY love another.
This is ridiculous. The best or the worst? Some people have been through terrible abuse that has left them feeling worthless and without confidence. People have a difficult time listing their skills when they have been told that they are nothing. Many of these abusive relationships begin with losing yourself in the service of others, who then steal from you, hit you and put you down. This eventually makes you feel reluctant to reach out to others, not because they won't thank you, but because they may hurt you again. You may need time to heal, to breathe, to care for yourself, before you feel strong enough to jump into service. Losing yourself in anything, a relationship, a job, a cause, is dangerous. You must be aware of your own values, morals, and worth, or you may be badly used and lost.
Totally agree with you! 🙏thank you!
Hallelujah. I agree totally
I agree
You won't find your values, morals, worth by just living in your head. Get out there and find out who you really are.
It’s still your responsibility to do the healing so you don’t project your pain onto others who doesn’t deserve it. Others hurt you because they chose not to heal. Now you can make a better choice and choose to heal so you are back at feeling you again ❤ you will notice you are healing when you feel less trigger by the pain and you will feel lighter as a being ❤❤❤
The problem that makes me suffer everytime is 'If I think the other person is better than me ' Inner me : lacks confidence and says you are nothing and the opposite of this ' If I say I am better than that person ' Inner me - you are challenging that person . You are being rude ' .
The same thing is withe
With me
Is this lack of self esteem or shyness due to past experiences such as bullying? Or genetics?
I struggle with this too
I too have this problem. Are you an empath?
I ve never known you or heard about you until three days ago.There was something I tried to find a way for my soul.Two sentences that you said in your another video became my exact answers.Because of wht I hear from you I am free and stronger now.Thank you so much
Insightful video.
Made me realize that the common denominator between an inflated or deflated ego is that both attitudes ("I am the best" or "I am the worst") completely isolate the person. Which I suppose is why service and community involvement in general works to abolish the ego.
sometimes i want to vent to random people and end up going wrong places. sometimes i end up burning bridges because the listener doesn't try to understand me. i have high EQ so i get hurt and end up lowering my self esteem even more. i want to change this attitude.
i want to stop wanting to vent to people, searching for emotional support and become numb to any emotion in my life. i want to become a hard wooden log that doesn't rebuke no matter how many times it is hacked into pieces or shredded into dust.
jay if you ever read this, please show me a way to overcome my low self esteem due to the above cause.
Your word encourage me alot to always keep moving ahead in life with all the cons and pros.
I knew I had some issues but recently I think a huge source of anxiety for me lately has been low self esteem..
I want to build my self esteem back and be able to regulate my anxiety better so I can be who I want to be instead of beating myself up all the time..
You are not alone, you are worthy of love, and everyone has their own strengths.
I have to say Jay's success is due to his humility and willingness to share and wanting people like myself to be our best and how to deal with and overcome obstacles. Like all there will be criticism, negativity comments that Jay faces, in this world that will never change, buy its how one deals with it. Every video Jay inspires me and thank you so so much.
Your podcast had help me to get more confident in my life and my job, I love hearing it on my way to the job
Aiming for goodness,spreading love,kindness,peace all over the world we are blessed with blossoming life of blessings which flourishes our life with happiness forever.
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Jay Shetty's talks are always deep, and this one about ego and self-esteem is no different. It's interesting to think about how our self-esteem connects to our ego, just like Jay and his guest talked about. This reminds me of my life coach, Lisa Haisha, who's an expert in personal growth. She teaches me to be aware of ourselves and grow inside. Lisa's work shows how being honest with ourselves helps me become the best versions of myself. Thanks for sharing this one, it serves as a great reminder! ❤❤
I always feel more confident after watching your videos!
Sir Jay❤️
I'm from Northeast India... I've been following for 5 years since I joined college. I'm reading #Think_Like_a_monk these days and I'm loving it as I can feel optimism in my life.
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In islam, helping others is an obligation due to its affects on us and our hearts in general. I find it fascinating that helping others could ultimately lead us to finding/ discovering who we really are.
Mashallah the more I learn the more I realize how beautiful our deen is
helping others does not mean we don't get time for ourselves but can be helping on the way or even strategically but then the second one will make you satisfied because he or she chose to do so, we are all helping whether it be our family or friends,
The evil book also tells people to persecute and humiliate other people for not believing the same things.
Never saw any muslim helping anyone apart from ditching, killing...
wallah this strengthened my faith
Wow thanks for this message I needed that tonight. I was so much in my head telling myself that was not go enough. But realizing that who I am right now is better that who I was yesterday. Thanks so much be blessed
My God the way this video help ease my mind I have been falling apart for aboutn2 months and this made me realize how much I need to refocus on myself i have been looking for validation from everyone
I am an empath, and I can say that sometimes we get do get sucked into being manipulated by the wrong people. Helping others involves helping those who need it not those who manipulate you. I have helped the wrong people in the past, and while I do not expect anything in return, Maliciousness is surprising. But I think the key as stated, is to be able to discern a genuine person from a not so genuine person if that makes sense.
EGO just wants to exists away from intuition, I have found that recognising that I am not my thoughts and that I am my intuition, this frees me from my low self belief. Dealing with my childhood traumas led to my choosing my thoughts and my intentions. Thanks goodness I chose this way of being. Service to me is love in action. Thanks for this video Jay!
Wow! There is so much gold in this video Jay you explained this perfectly! Thank you for sharing 😊 extremely helpful and insightful
Exactly! It's fascinating how ego plays such a subtle role in both low self-esteem and overconfidence. I’ve felt that pressure to be the best or the worst, and it only led to more confusion. It's like trying to fit into a box that keeps changing size! Embracing honesty about my strengths and weaknesses really shifted my perspective.
Humor’s similar, too-sometimes the fear of not being funny can freeze you, and other times, overthinking it can backfire. The Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x helped me navigate this, and now I’m more relaxed about being myself. Keep it real, and humor will follow!
I do have ego issue and worst thing. About ego is that it lets U see other people bad behaviour but never let U see Ur own mistakes..and it takes maturity to break ur own ego
Jay always helps me to see things from new perspectives! Best podcast out there!
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The advice to focus on the future rather than dwelling on past mistakes resonated with me. I am now determined to concentrate on growth and improvement, viewing challenges as opportunities for personal development.
I’ve been struggling with low self esteem, low self confidence and Depression for 8-9 years now and I honestly don’t know how to change how I feel. Believe me I want to change that mindset and I want to start proving myself because it’s starting to affect my family and I want to help them but I don’t know where to begin and to make things worse I don’t feel like anybody in my family really gets me or understand how I feel, I guess I hide it well. I honestly feel helpless at this point
The whole internet makes fun of short men. Women don’t like short men. It’s very hard to become rich. I don’t know how to feel confident despite that.
I love you so much Mr Jay Shetty !
This is now so clear to me I always say I'm missing the grey area I mean the in between Ifeel only very happy or very unhappy now i understand the point about the ego, thank you for explaining
This has been my favourite video of yours Jay, thank you for sharing your wisdom - I felt both comfort and strength in this.
I just stopped relying on alcohol to help me get through emotional pain. I finally came to grips with my decisions and choices. I prayed to God Almighty for several years and it just "clicked" a few days ago !!! I have not drank for the past 4 days. I feel great. I have to work on my low self esteem. I messed up in life and I can't go back and fix things. Thanks for reading.
Being in a place where ppl respect u for ur profession n deep inside feeling lnot good enough is a struggle i go through every day...n i dont know how to be d best version of myself nd stand in my expectations of myself
Your explanations always make me feel more confident!
i have no words for your all videos may god bless you sir
I feel so much more confident with this topic now, thank you!
The segment on cutting-edge technologies caught my attention. It's fascinating to see how science and technology are playing a role in boosting confidence. Can't wait to learn more about these innovations!
Jay, you are the best. What a God-given gift!
I feel so much more confident now!
Nowhere i turn to it’s all about the lowest of oneself, or highest. But I’m stuck in between where I’m indifferent, neither look down on myself but also not spouting with glee. Where I don’t have high self confidence but have just as little reason to consider of myself anything less, as in not more than I am currently - with no further desire to reach.
Hi, great video on self-esteem and Ego - if we could all spend more time being aware of the way in which our Ego speaks to us we could understand the effects it has on us. Being more 'honest' with ourselves is great advise Jay.
Very helpful. Today I needed the most
Jay always guides me to see things from new opportunities! If l had to share, Jay always guides me better than my own parents! Absolute best podcast & motivational videos
I feel way more confident after watching!
🛐✊🏽Everyone struggles w/ low self esteem & downs themselves w/ something! Think positively can help, but you have to keep trying no matter what you’ll eventually obtain your issues!
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So much wisdom shared in just 10 minutes! Thank you
Great talk! Thank you guys! 😊
Struck a deep meaningful nerve with myself and other people I've dated and our behaviour. And maybe reflects my INTP 4w5 balance because of childhood experience.
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Dude tell me about it... I've been though shittiness on Earth... Mentally and emotionally... some by random circumstances and others by my own stupidity... Both have destroyed me....
I am an ISFP 9w8 // 947
I feel more confident after watching!
My favourite speaker best doctor,psychologist and admirable professor Jay genius.
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We often get stuck in a process as we are attached to the outcome ...whether we will be successful or not..which is not in our control....Jay so rightly pointed out that the we have full control on the preparation, process and practice ...😊😊
God bless everyone❤❤
Thank you for such knowledge
What a phenomenal perspective, incredibly helpful 🙏
all i can say is: "THANK YOU"
I feel much more confident after this!
I’m feeling so much more confident now!
Such a great video - such wonderful respect in the energy between you both. I love this. I hope I can heal my soul and find a way to have better self esteem.
It's hard, really hard trying to find yourself when you don't even know who you are or how to start. So much information on how to get yourself and it's not just hitting but making you feel more self conscious. Life is complicated and hard! It's such a battle and I'm weak
Hey Rae, this idea you are weak sounds like a generalization and a harsh judgment of yourself. If you were a friend to a person with this view of themselves and you were an honest and caring friend, would you allow this self belief to be unexamined. Maybe there are some errors in this Perspective you are coming from > I'd question myself; what is this judgement based upon? Is there some error or distortion in the Lense you are looking through. Is it real. Is it true? What Perspective is this based upon or coming from? It's a tenancy to compare our internal judgement to our selective observations of others external " on show" We all need support and love to help us to appreciate the real true reality of ourselves > it's a journey > we start where we are > total acceptance for how it is - being careful we aren't judging ourselves incorrectly > all the best brother / sister
Im dealing with low self esteem and self worth. I lost my mom and sister 45 days apart last October n November.
Ever since ive been depressed, i think if myself as a Piece of shit. I have lost all enjoyment in my hobbies.
Eye opening, definitely
“Knock, And He'll open the door
Vanish, And He'll make you shine like the sun
Fall, And He'll raise you to the heavens
Become nothing, And He'll turn you into everything.”
― Jalal Ad-Din Rumi
~Much Love from a Law of Attraction TH-camr💜
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Thanks alot Jay Shetty, the book think like a monk has changed my perception on life
Gonna watch this always as a reminder
Btw successful people struggle with confidence issues as much as, if not more than, the average person. When you’re successful you’re often stretching beyond the boundaries of your comfort zone and doing things that scare you… and ultimately, this goes hand in hand with self-doubt. However, the difference is that many successful people are used to dealing with confidence issues, so they’re often more prepared to manage them and utilize the tools at their disposal to overcome them.
wow i never realized that other side of ego of feeling my life is the worst, its very challening cause also you can focused into others because you want to fullfill a void or geting recognition. i dont consider my life the worst but its almost there bun there is always something missing i guess is the same
The simple concept that ego goes both ways is insane. It’s been almost a year now since I gained the idea that ego can be a negative thing. Since then it’s helped me to better understand my own issues and how to better deal with those issues. I’m doing so much better now.
Ego is either i am the best or i am the worst.You could not fall in the trap of ego is by self honesty. When you honestly figure out what you are good at,great at and suck at.
Thank you for your love and honesty ❤️🌟✨🍂
Much needed to hear Jay! Thank you so much❤️
The controversy is that if you have low self-esteem and low ego you can’t really help anyone because you have to heal your self first and work on your self to build confidence.
Wheather one moves slowly or with speed the one who's seeker will be a finder!✨
I have heard this video earlier but this time it made me cry no idea why
My inspiration Jay ♥️
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Thank you so much!!!
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In this life I am struggling, within myself, this helps a little x
Great points! I like the concept of becoming addicted to the process.
I love your last speech in this video❤ Thank u, Jay Shetty.
Super questions, and thoughtful answers. Best
Ilike always to watch jay shetty
Our thoughts in mind creates awesome life which is true.
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I am writing this comment because no one actually knows me here. I really needed to vent this out. It has been an year and I'm facing anxiety because I feel under confident about almost everything I do. Even when there is something happy in my life, I do not know how the negative thoughts just rush to me. It's very disheartening too. I am facing issues to express what exactly is in heart and none of my friends or family for that matter know about it. I was an extrovert but by time I've realised I've lost the sense of interaction with people. It feels pathetic to be honest. Writing it here maybe would give me a place to talk about it because I'm not getting any platform to talk about it. I do not know I'm doing it right writing about it . I'm again in a dilemma but so be it. My academic performance has dropped which gives me more stress than I can ever take. My personal relationships with people have snapped owing to my insecurities. I realise the problem is with me. I really want to fight it, I know focussing on myself would treat it but I feel enervated. I don't feel like getting up and doing things for myself. I feel helpless and this feeling of helplessness is making me all the way more vulnerable. Maybe venting it out here might not be a very good decision or on the contrary can be a great decision who knows but I might feel a little better. For all those who have read it and heart it, I'm genuinely thankful.
More power to you. Continue doing things , smaller or bigger, that makes you happy. Don't let anyone define you.
I can relate with you as I am also facing the same. I am really under confident with low self esteem. Everything seems impossible to do or I find myself not good enough.
I am barely surviving in my job and have not been able to get promotion due to my reserved behaviour and lack of communication.
I try to fix my anxiety and also take actions but I get demotivated really fast or unable to stay consistent.
I have suffered in my relationships as well
I think it's alright to vent out what you're feeling and I think it's a part of life ... Never stop trying.
I am going to see a psychiatrist to help me with the issues.
Maybe you can seek medical help if it helps in someway
Thank you. I wish the same for you. Most importantly, I empathise with you. I hope you really grow through talking to a psychologist and I wish you get promoted and do wonders in your job. 🌼
@@shrinkhalatimsina4704 thank you ma'am. Made me feel a lot better!
Did u overcome your prob?
The other day i deleted all my music from all platforms, because my biggest haunter showed up again and upper cutted me, i really dont believe in myself, i dont think im worthy, i feel like i shouldnt even be here, so my creations dont matter and i get it, so i deleted everything, and im seriously planning on getting rid of all of my equipment
Ego is simply a self identity. If someone insults you and you get offended it's your ego protecting itself.
If you want ‘Real confidence’ your confidence is in Jesus Christ, is in God. Your true identity is in Him
You are loved by your Father in heaven- receive Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour, and you will become a child of God
I need some of this tbh. My crush said she liked me to a friend and she's beautiful but I just dont feel like im good enough for her. I've always seen people as if they are better then me when actually im working on a university degree. Thing with that is I dont believe i can do it and i constantly worry that I will never make it in life even though I have all the oppurtinities which makes me feel like I'm ungratefil for the situation I was born into. People tell me all the time that I am lucky since according to them im tall and have good looks and got some good oppurtinities. I also have lots of friends but I just always feel less then them. Also people telling me how lucku I am makes me realize how lucky iam and yet I still feel somewhat depressed and like im not worth it. I feel really bad about that since I am incredibly lucky yet iam still sad and feel like I'm less. I should be happy but for some odd reason I am just not.
This is exactly how I feel. And that's the reason why I subconsciously keep pushing people away, even those who might be remotely interested in me.
Thank you for posting the video.
Spot on jay shetty, I underestimated you but I am going to buy think like monk today after watching this video
Thank you for your video.
Please please consider not having background music. I love your wisdom 😊
This is fantastic.
J Shetty and the Sadhguru are Outstanding
Thank you for making this video I needed this
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