12 Intellectual Girl Habits You NEED to EXIT YOUR FLOP ERA

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  • @DrFayeBate
    @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    ad Thanks to Milanote for sponsoring this video! Sign up for free with no time-limit: milanote.com/fayebate

  • @saranghaneun_byeol
    @saranghaneun_byeol 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +289

    *🎧 Summary Of The Video 🎧*
    🎥 Habit 1: Starting Early
    🎥 Habit 2: A study routine that works for you
    🎥 Habit 3: A study routine that is backed up by science
    🎥 Habit 4: A vision board
    (Milanotes for reference)
    🎥 Habit 5: Regularly exploring beyond the curriculum
    🎥 Habit 6: The mindful breaks
    🎥 Habit 7: Not interrupting the first 20-30 of focus
    🎥 Habit 8: Prioritising
    🎥 Habit 9: Make studying more enjoyable
    🎥 Habit 10: Surrounding yourself with people who have similar goals
    🎥 Habit 11: Building good routines/habits
    (Atomic Habits for reference)
    🎥 Habit 12: Being organised
    (Notion for reference)
    🎥 Habit 13: Never comparing yourself

    • @natashatranchi
      @natashatranchi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank u sm!

    • @taylorwolfram3871
      @taylorwolfram3871 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      thanks my friend i appreciate you

  • @ffl7189
    @ffl7189 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    To me active recall doesn’t bore me as much as it causes me anxiety over how much Ive forgotten… it sets me back and it is definitely something I dread doing. However it has proven to be very effective, so it’s like a battle with my own self to do active recall.

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Honestly i can definitely relate to this for SURE!
      the key with active recall is ignoring the devastating ego death/realising that ego death is evidence you’re not wasting a second of your time studying stuff you already now
      Bottom line is getting things wrong = learning
      And if you’re not getting things wrong, you aren’t challenging yourself enough

    • @ffl7189
      @ffl7189 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@DrFayeBate I REALLY needed to hear that. I will power through and watch my ego die I guess. I will update after my finals to let you know how it went. Thank you Faye.

    • @ffl7189
      @ffl7189 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      UPDATE: I passed. In all my exams.
      And Im not gonna lie I struggled a lot with the frustration of how much I’ve forgotten but this time around I continued studying through the tears and all. So glad I did 💗 Thank you Faye and good luck to all you got this 🩷🌸

  • @moonchildkyanite
    @moonchildkyanite 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    i see a lot of myself in you, which is comforting. after an incredibly successful “gifted kid” era i begun flopping and panicking through the end of the highschool. i realized (recently) i never actually knew how to study at the first place. now here we are, after 3 years, i unfortunately ended up in a different degree than i wanted but i decided i’ll still try to get into med school. because it was always what i dreamed about. also, did i mention i’m recently getting an ADHD diagnosis as a 21 year old lol. sooo i’m going through a lot. life rn is confusing, and heavy but you’re such a huge inspiration to me in terms of what you’ve been going through and how openly + honestly you’ve been sharing those experiences. you often times give me hope and actual solutions about my current problems. i’m hoping to be able to get through those problems this year. thank you for being an inspiration to me. i admire you and your honesty makes my life better ❤

    • @jenna5550
      @jenna5550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You sound so much like me!! It’s crazy to realize at 21 that I never learned to study and I’m really paying for it now in uni.

    • @moonchildkyanite
      @moonchildkyanite 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jenna5550 🥲🥲 but it gets better i promise. i slowly realized i’ve not lost it all and its actually possible to re-learn the things im used to (like studying)💝

  • @haanh.nguyen
    @haanh.nguyen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    this is so important 2:50 it sounds so simple and obvious, that it kept being ignored and forget.

  • @archi_artsyy
    @archi_artsyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    recently i started using obsidian for note taking and it did wonders for me. When i started it first it wasn't pleasant but when i started building up my notes day by day - DANGG started loving it.

  • @marfrantz
    @marfrantz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Can we get a whole video of your phone and iPad/MacBook setups for when you were in school? All the apps or extensions and such for what helped you study, did you keep social apps on your phone etc.? I’m thinking of going to PA school but I am a 28 year old mom of 3 boys and my attention span from all of the hormones and daily tasks is really getting ahead of me. I want so badly to do it but it feels out of reach at my age with my circumstances.

    • @dharinipatil9770
      @dharinipatil9770 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      dont stress keep going lady!! I'm proud of you Mom.

  • @MagorzataGorska-hj7xp
    @MagorzataGorska-hj7xp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    another tip: when you study pay attention to things, which you don't know yet, which are not exactly clear for you - and try to learn those things, that helped me a lot in my university studing

  • @DrQuindelJones
    @DrQuindelJones 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yes this is so on time! I’m transitioning from my PhD 🎓 to medical Postdoc this fall 😅 and definitely needed some inspo + tips for preparing for it over the summer (learning a new coding language and studying research papers) loved the video!! Thanks for sharing 😆

  • @smaaahen
    @smaaahen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I wasted too many time on my academic years mostly because of undiagnosed ptsd and adhd… and now, in France it’s too late for my medical studies … I wish I could go back in time 😢

    • @yalanp97
      @yalanp97 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s never too late, there’s a lady becoming doctor Becs with no traditional qualifications she became a doctor at 42 and a guy is in med school 3 rd year at 51!
      Now that you have your diagnosis if you still want to become a doctor go for it you’ll get the support you need and deserves.
      Good luck

    • @smaaahen
      @smaaahen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@yalanp97 I am very grateful for this comment, thank you for taking the time 🥹
      France doesn’t allow to take medical 1st year more than 2 times . But I’ll check more opportunities (maybe in another country😄), I’m really motivated , thank you again 🤍🙏🏽

    • @roisindoyle6829
      @roisindoyle6829 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      this comment is like three weeks late(sorry) but i relate to this so much i didnt do well in school because of my undiagnosed adhd,im doing a course soon which hopefully gets me into veterinary nursing in college next year as i didnt do well enough to get in from school grades,i am going to be older than most of the people in my class as im a mature student which scares me and i also thought it was too late for so long but i truly believe now that its never too late!so please dont give up on your dream of medical studies!!there is always a way i promise!! i believe in you!and im sorry to hear about your ptsd i hope you are okay now, please be kind to yourself😊im rooting for you❤❤

    • @smaaahen
      @smaaahen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@roisindoyle6829 thank you from the bottom of my heart 🤍 I admire your courage and I’m convinced you’ll do a fantastic work on your studies and beyond. Our brain doesn’t follow sometimes but our heart and motivation is kinda persistent right ? 🥰 I can’t help but tell you this : right back at you sweetheart ! About the « be kind to yourself » cause we know we’re all there , and you deserve to hear it billion times. I wish you the best and sending you my deepest gratitude and support 🤍

  • @hamzaahmed1671
    @hamzaahmed1671 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    faye ur vlogs really heals me mentally so thats why i alsways asked for it

  • @SlayQueen-om5ez
    @SlayQueen-om5ez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    FAYEEE MY BAEE love you so much ❤❤ you helped me so much! Your absolutely gorgeous btw.

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much 🥹🥹 hope you enjoy the video xxx

  • @red..ridding..h00d
    @red..ridding..h00d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love the way you talk omg

  • @JacquelinElizabethWrites
    @JacquelinElizabethWrites 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I need this as I plan to go back to school in the fall.

  • @Scipio0404
    @Scipio0404 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Honestly I never understood the whole Anki obsession med students on the west have. For me it seems impossible to fit like 900 pages of physiology into a deck.

    • @ana891
      @ana891 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      it's because you're supposed to only create cards for information ***you must remember*** and stuff you often get wrong. creating a deck with too much information is pointless, so instead, study the subject, take practice exams and only then create cards off of what you got wrong, for example.

    • @Scipio0404
      @Scipio0404 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ana891 All of the 900 pages is a must remember lol, they ask everything in our oral exams. I've never seen anyone doing flashcards in my year, but ig each to their own

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      I’ve definitely found only doing flashcards based on questions I’ve got wrong has helped cut this number down massively! Because some things do stick easier than others

    • @fal65
      @fal65 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ana891thanks for this

  • @theascott1656
    @theascott1656 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I just LOVE your advice Faye, thank you so much!

  • @anamarijabogataj2529
    @anamarijabogataj2529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    i needed this right now!! i have only 4 exams left and my thesis (BCs in cosmetic science), but at times i just feel so unmotivated :( your videos really help and thank you for representing women in STEM!

  • @jowiriaehab9988
    @jowiriaehab9988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Came in a critical time, thanks a lot. You always motivate me❤

  • @Ayaatiee
    @Ayaatiee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Oh my gosh I’m binging your vids they’re so helpful ❤️ appreciate all your hard work ! Love you girl!!!💘

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So so happy you find them useful 🥹🫶🏼

  • @MotivationMastery2311
    @MotivationMastery2311 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This whole video is great, but the tip at 13:07 really stands out. So useful!

  • @TravelingBibliophile
    @TravelingBibliophile 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos. I picked up Atomic Habits this week and downloaded the forest app based on your recommendations to help me while I going to law school, started using the forest app for the studying as soon as I downloaded it.

  • @taylorwolfram3871
    @taylorwolfram3871 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have another thing:
    Figure out WHY you dislike school and your work.
    Is it the workload? Is it a specific subject you dont like? is it just because you are going with the crowd? or is something off?
    For me I CANNOT do anything with pencil. I found this out one day while i was doing some school and i was like... wait... this is so cool! now i regularly purchase colorful pens so that my writing is pretty and I have two colors on a page to keep me focused. With only pencil or no highlighting i get lost quickly and have headaches. I found that when i incorporate highlighters, felt tip pens, and color to my work, it is SO MUCH EASIER.
    Just find that one thing that makes studying fun :D

  • @zachirst4496
    @zachirst4496 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    well done faze, im still in school and this will probably
    help me allot

  • @dianasbooknook
    @dianasbooknook 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Faye! I’m 29 and I’ve been wondering if I’m too old to start med school. I follow you since the beginning! (6k followers) ❤❤❤

  • @nadanada5488
    @nadanada5488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    We love uuuuu omg❤❤❤

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🥹🥹🥹

  • @a.alfehaid1982
    @a.alfehaid1982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love your honesty & kindness in addition to the feeling of proud of u even when I don’t know u Faye but thank u for everything dear🫶🏻🤍🤍🤍

  • @Nini-vs7vb
    @Nini-vs7vb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I've never related more to someone istg

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m flattterrredddd 💅🏼

  • @thestreetflow1
    @thestreetflow1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Teaching and Feynman's technique is soo underrated

  • @AlokitaChakraborty
    @AlokitaChakraborty 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You're literally my idol💕💕

  • @catalinapinzaru9788
    @catalinapinzaru9788 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Happy to see a new video)❤

  • @sarahloufrani7866
    @sarahloufrani7866 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just tried the milanote, it's really nice !!! You can make aesthetic board to motivate you or use it in all sorts of stuff, highly recommand !!!

  • @ekaterina_larina
    @ekaterina_larina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was so looking forward to this video!❤

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope you enjoy 🫶🏼

    • @ekaterina_larina
      @ekaterina_larina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DrFayeBate ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @JusticeFredrick
    @JusticeFredrick 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks Faye🇳🇬❤

  • @venusd1946
    @venusd1946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This channel was necessary for my brain. Subscribed subscribed subscribed

  • @DU0EDua12
    @DU0EDua12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These vedios help me to keep working hard....my final exams are very close

  • @Vishalkevet9793
    @Vishalkevet9793 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!

  • @layanqa
    @layanqa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You should make books 🤩

  • @shreyayonjan4405
    @shreyayonjan4405 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Okay, I love you thank you

  • @sandunisamaranayake5093
    @sandunisamaranayake5093 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are great. Thank you so much for this. I'm not a medical student but I wanna be like you darling. I am from Sri Lanka😊.

  • @vanilla-tc7ow
    @vanilla-tc7ow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Faye can you please continue the video about the personalities that you don't need to stop to be respected so something like that... That began with being a people pleaser.
    Please continue the video and upload it please, thank you❤
    Faye
    Faye
    Faye

  • @zarinuddin
    @zarinuddin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i have my first alevel exam in less than 2 weeks and im so worried that i will fail. its also my resit as i didnt do well. i struggled with depression for 2 years. i know its my fault i didnt try both last year and this year. im trying to not think about the outcome and just try my best the next few weeks. i know there are many opportunities [apprenticeships, access courses, foundation years]. but im still scared of change and if i were to take another gap year or a foundation year i will be 2 years behind my peers and that scares me the most.

    • @KrumperFiokas
      @KrumperFiokas 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Everyone has their timeline, you can do this! Also not sure if your school is aware of your mental health, sometimes this grants extra time for you to do things ❤ you got this

    • @zarinuddin
      @zarinuddin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KrumperFiokas thank you so much ❤️

    • @thebritishenglishteacher
      @thebritishenglishteacher 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don’t panic about being behind. I followed the “usual” timeline of A-levels at 18 and degree straight afterwards. I didn’t enjoy my career and retrained in my 30s for a job I love. I know several other people who did the same. Under-25s are definitely not the only students in a university.

  • @Serine_T
    @Serine_T 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i have my finals tomorrow , made thousands of timetables but couldn't follow through .. my head jst wouldn 't shut up for 2seconds and let me focus .. but anyw im gonna try again

  • @МарияЛесникова-о1н
    @МарияЛесникова-о1н 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank u so much 🤍

  • @samarPartapsingh-xg7rl
    @samarPartapsingh-xg7rl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!

  • @shreyayonjan4405
    @shreyayonjan4405 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    U r so relatable I lobe you

  • @_peasant6317_
    @_peasant6317_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for this xx

  • @dreaming_of_that_mbbs_mbchb
    @dreaming_of_that_mbbs_mbchb หลายเดือนก่อน

    Visualisation is impossible for me I am APHANTASIC my minds eye is blind I can’t even visualise what an apple looks like…. How do you visualise if you can see images in your head? If I figure that out my academic flop will be over…. I can’t even make a mind map because it makes me stressed because I see lines and words and none of it makes sense

  • @Harshi7a
    @Harshi7a 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your videos 🥹💕

  • @mariatujalloh6873
    @mariatujalloh6873 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey fayee. Wish you could've elaborated on studying beyond the curriculum, how exactly?

  • @tiaa458
    @tiaa458 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I blind or is the template not linked hahaha thank you for the video though Faye. Love from Australia!

  • @hamzaahmed1671
    @hamzaahmed1671 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    dont judge me wrong next one is vlog and around 50 min utes or more

  • @gracecooke9607
    @gracecooke9607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hey does anyone remember the collage app faye used to use?? it cut out the backgrounds automatically and made a rl pretty photo dump x

    • @theia_xx
      @theia_xx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's milanote

  • @cherrysunglasses
    @cherrysunglasses 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Faye, What about studying 4hours daily consistently, is that enough in medical school?

  • @ArmanHotipur-dw9vy
    @ArmanHotipur-dw9vy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The silence around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is unbelievable. This book reveals powerful techniques, yet people remain unaware. Don't miss out - discover what everyone's ignoring!

  • @kimiya351
    @kimiya351 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    how old were you when you started med school?

  • @Sabeen_shaukat
    @Sabeen_shaukat 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am giving my AS exams currently it due to undergoing two surgeries in one year I am not well prepared. Is it possible for me to get into medical if I don’t get all A’s? I really wanna know the answere

  • @rehnumatabassum1577
    @rehnumatabassum1577 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does is also work for humanity major such as History,Philosophy,English etc.

  • @RegularOddball
    @RegularOddball 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    12:57 not to be that guy but it's formulaic not formuleic

  • @venusd1946
    @venusd1946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also can you teach us on 1. How your schedule was as a YT and medical school student

    • @venusd1946
      @venusd1946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also how you manage all the script writing, medicine, and a life?

    • @venusd1946
      @venusd1946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With ADHD

  • @kou_isthatyou
    @kou_isthatyou 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @elib9369
    @elib9369 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So like am I not supposed to read

  • @reyhan2202
    @reyhan2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Türkçe altyazı plss 🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷 seni seviyorum askoo 💃💃💃💃

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Let me see if I can add how! Sorry about that

    • @reyhan2202
      @reyhan2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DrFayeBate ama yine de seni seviyorum 🤍🤍

  • @Factsforbetterhealth-s2v
    @Factsforbetterhealth-s2v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was boring to watch, atleast for me. A little advice ,take it or not, try to add more texts and pictures rather than just sitting and talking. Otherwise, it was insightful.

  • @Mogalog
    @Mogalog 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    HI FAYEE HOW ARE THINGSS 🤍🤍

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      HEY! They’re going on just busy busy busyyyy but not busy enough to come say heyyyy 🎀🎀

  • @Lina333-y3w
    @Lina333-y3w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have exams starting from June 24 and struggling, do you have any advice to help me not give up

    • @Lina333-y3w
      @Lina333-y3w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      (end of yr 12)