As a chronic oversharer here, moving in silence is my ultimate goal!! Anytime I share what I’m working on, it fails, or I lose interest quickly. Time to zip it 🤐
This used to be true for me too, but in this past year, I really noticed that oversharing isn't the problem. I shared every single idea I had with everyone, even if it was unrealistic, but I've learned that I should only share my realistic goals. Plus, your surroundings are a big aspect. If the people around you are supportive, sharing might be helpful, since your surroundings could help you reach your goals (by supporting/reminding you), but if the people around you say "pffft another big idea from you again?" You'll lose motivation and ofcourse it will fail, anyhow all I'm trying to say is, don't be too negative on yourself and keep sharing your big plans, but be sure to make a start towards your goal before you share it and surround yourself with positive minded people, you got this!
I heard that even just telling people your plans gives you dopamine as though you already did the thing!! And then your brain is like Oh Welp I Already Got The Dopamine So There's No Need To Work At This Anymore.... when I heard this I freaked out 😭
Ozempic is death for a healthy body. If you are not diabetic i don't suggest. I personally know a person that is overweight and has a diabetes type 2, she could easily get herself an dose of ozempic to treat it and losr weight but her doctor explained how dangerous it can be. People that get on that could lose weight easy and they would gain 2× weight they had when they stop taking it, plus ur taking off for people that really need it ( if you arent diabetic). I don't know your situation, but pls think twice if you start taking ozempic.
COMING BACK IN 90 DAYS - REMIND ME PLEASEE 1) I’ll lose weight 2) I’ll get clearer skin 3) I’ll get healthier hair 4) I’ll travel different countries 5) I’ll do more writing and journaling 6) I’ll socialize
@@Riyaaass YES! It has been twelve days and I am slightly healthier and making plans to travel, It is hard but I keep pushing through. I have a new journal - I write poetry, stories and keep my daily updates. Feels really good too because sadly I haven’t been socialising that much but at least I am looking for comfort in me.
Omg I just did a very similar method in 60-70 days, with shadow work, meditation, pray, habit tracker apps, journaling, diet, work out, even quit drUgs and alcohol… and let me share with you all, I literally changed (reprogrammed) my whole mindset and become a new person😊🎉 Im happier and healthier than ever! I’m in peace. But have to put the work in it, and trust in yourself. (And God, or univers whatever) It’s not easy but that’s why so powerful. I want to be even better and better!
Having insecure people around you will create instability in your life. I’m already applying for a different job and plan on quitting my job now that I have an insecure supervisor who accused me of talking behind her back based on only her perception. I brought proof to her and she didn’t change her opinion. Walk away as soon as you see it going downhill from there and don’t sacrifice your mental health, your values or your self esteem for someone who lies. Know your worth
crazy, i’m going through almost the same thing… such a toxic place to work, but i adore my regular customers there, so it’s gonna be so hard to leave!! but i know its for the best :( i have training for a new job starting in two weeks, and i honestly can’t wait for the change. wishing good luck to everyone!
Long story short, I was diagnosed stage 3 cancer a month ago, I'm only 22. I will have a lot of time in my hands, a break from work and school while I get segury and chemo and I want to be a better version of myself when I (hopefully) get better and this video just help me a lot to know where to star! Thank you
I hope you achieve that side of always bettering yourself! I was also diagnosed with stage 2 cancer (lymphoma) and i’m 18 this year. I’ve finished my chemo treatment, and all i can say is please get plenty of rest, and don’t be too harsh on yourself ❤. You got this, i believe in you fellow soldier 🫡 ❤️🩹
I haven’t watch the full video yet but I just wanted to share a snippet of my story and hold myself accountable. Yesterday I cried myself to sleep because I was invited to a birthday party but things changed and no one updated me on the plans. I was waiting like a loser at home, dressed up going no where. I have been trying to making plans with ppl and it would fall through. The friends that I thought were close with me seemed to just be acquaintances that would hang out with me because of convenience. I definitely have issues of my own and I like to make myself out to be the victim more than I am supposed to be. But I am tired of being disappointed by others and myself. I want to start seeing things objectively and not to rely my happiness on others. I WILL finish the video and I WILL CHANGE for myself.
“Why do you keep on focusing on what you don’t want” omg. This hit so hard bc I have a hard time letting go of the desire to impress my family, working towards a degree and I’m so miserable and have no friends but just a few years ago I still had hope for my true dreams of being a content creator and online business owner and songwriter! I’ve always been an artistic person but was suppressed heavily by my family and years of complex trauma. I really needed this video thank you, I hope I can inspire others someday after I finally send it.
I pray all your dreams come true! Focus on creating your art, you are an artist! Family is sometimes our biggest haters, unfortunately, so we have be careful of our mental health because of them. Your happiness and wellness matters, and I found out that no one will take care of you, if you don’t take care of yourself 💗🙏🏾🫶🏾🌸✨
After a recent breakup I realized that - as it often happens - I had forgotten a lot of what made me myself outside of being with another person. I was so focused on catering to someone else and felt more than happy with it at the time. Looking back, I realized I would have missed out on a lot that way. The idea of not only rebranding, but *remembering* what my brand is has been super helpful during the healing process.
Building good habits and discipline takes time and starts with small, consistent actions. For example, brushing your teeth every morning and night, avoiding your phone before bed, and steering clear of certain distractions can all contribute to long-term improvements. Remember, it’s okay to stumble along the way; everyone makes mistakes. What matters is learning from them and persisting. Each time you get back on track, you’re growing stronger and more resilient. Don’t be discouraged by setbacks-embrace them as part of the journey toward becoming a better version of yourself. Keep going, and you’ll find that progress comes with time.
There was a time when i use to call myself a weirdo because i never fit in anywhere... But now i just call myself unique and different in a good way and i am not changing it
that word “superior” is so iconoclastic, and i always used to interpret that iconoclasm as evil. a revelation i had is that Iconoclasm and evil are two (quite similar, but) different things.
Will power is the key.... will power. Cause there will be negetive imotions which is pulling u back. Never allow them to decide ur future.... power up!!!
My dad and I wake up every morning at 6:30 to walk for 30 minutes and every time I ask to sleep in or skip a day he says no because “we are the kind of people who can get up every morning and walk” You explained this concept so well, thank you!
This is so great!! For anyone who has a bad association with the word "discipline", you can substitute it with devotion. Be devoted to you and your goals and your habits and empowerment!
She’s such a good talker about doing better with your life. Dude I wake up in the morning for work and I watch her videos for motivation guys while I get ready for work😩❤️
i usually don't like watching influencer videos because of my disdain for listening to society this one person here actually knows how to give advice and with a realistic mentality thanks Mae! ive always thought that working in silence is best.
She said all of the self-help info I've been reading and consuming for almost 10 years but haven't acted upon. All summarized in 1 vid! (thank youu!) This is all I need to rewatch from now on. It's all here 😭 all I need to do is implement. "YOU CANNOT SLIP UP, YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO GO BACK TO YOUR OLD SELF"
I decided to rebrand my life after watching this video . I’m an unmotivated person but this video motivated me really much. Thank you so much and I am going to start doing to change my whole life.❤❤
I'm glad this motivated you, but this is not supposed to be motivation but rather discipline, what to do when you have no motivation, why and how to not rely on motivation. I think you missed a point there
The last block of your video just made me realized that I am actually going through depression/trauma. I am having a very rough year and I think things have caught up with me mentally and emotionally. I had thought I was broken and lazy and something was wrong with me and I am useless. But when you listed the symptoms I had my A-HA moment and realized that this is exactly what I am going through so now I understand what I am dealing with. I am not at a point where I am able to open up to anyone about it and reach out for professional help. I would like to do the inner work on my own, especially gaining back my discipline and start faking it until I make it.
I woke up today with a positive mindset to reboot myself. After yoga and all of the rituals. I was about to listen motivational audios and i just found your video at my for you page. WOW what a sign!! I have just complete the video and I am feeling my lost potential is coming back to me. I just love your concept of gym and how starting for the betterment is itself a "Better Decision" and a "Win" to ourselves.
this happened with after 2020, it was the last year of the school and it was online+ i deleted my SM for some personal reasons. and when i tell you i got PARAGRAPHS when i got in touch with some people after a year about how much ive changed and gotten mature. and how much my entire energy has become magnetic. i did mean to do all the disappear and come back thing but it happened and i also started noticing it. and these people who were appreciating me were NOT my close friends or something. they were just classmates. it was very empowering ngl the only sad part about all of this that i unfortunately went on different track and kind of changed but im so determined to be even better than that version!!!! and trust me if I could do this, the entire world can do this. Be conscious of your thoughts and actions! YALL GOT THIS! ALL THE VERY BEST GUYS!
I'm turning 40 and I'm probably 50%-70 way through my glow up. I started this time last year. Lost 30lbs and no one noticed but my fam. Got off medication and lost another 30 people at my gym class noticed but not at my job. It's still falling off. I think I'm down 80 now and finally people at my job started to notice. I had no idea until a few months ago they make pre everything wigs at all the companies that are affordable. I got 3. Now the hottest guys at my job give me eye contact and people are pleasant to me. I!m still over weight at 155. Trying to loose at least 40 more and get a personal trainer to grow glutes and chest. Also going to take another makeup class because no matter how much high end makeup I buy or how many tutorials I watch it doesn't make me look better. Now I only wear mascara. The contrast in how your treated is startling or at least trippy and uncomfortable. I don't like it. But I guess you get used to being treated better.
just spend the night questioning about my life habits looking for a good monk mode guide cause I wanted to do things right. Such a crazy timing thank you :)
I know you probably won’t read my comment but I just wanna say that I recently came across your channel and I have to say it’s beyond amazing to me how much familiar and comforting your content is that is hard getting offended by. I am naturally a very lazy and undisciplined person but I feel that a stranger like you can trust that I can achieve my goals more than my own family does. So thank you so much for your wisdom! ❤️
This. Was. Amazing. I felt like God was talking to me through you (yes He can do that). Everything you said was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
This is a little comment to my future self. Today you told your self that all the fear of my own self being less than and bound to fail is a memory of the past. I can breathe first and I know that I'm enough for myself. Longterm I'll strive to be boundless open and the positive peer that will uplift and inspire others to have a leader on recovering and breaking free from the illness mentally of failing. Only a great full reminder
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Omg girl im going through the same thing right now and I haven’t been able to get myself up. But i believe there is a good reason we ended up watching this video!
You love him way more than you love yourself. That’s why he fell out of love with you. Become that obsessed with YOURSELF and life will give you a man that’s as obsessed with you as you are.
You’re impressive. Didn’t hear one “umm” you just kept going with all this knowledge and wisdom. I really loved this video and I will totally start applying it by tomorrow morning. Goodnight, guys! See you on the other side of YOU! 😮💞💞💞
wow i was not expecting the amount of fire that has been lit under my butt after watching this. actually i'm not even completely done this video yet and i've already journaled the mindset i'm going to revisit every day for the next 90 days, that will be in eye view on my dresser. gotten my boyfriend on board with a bunch of things to implement. downloaded the 3 audio books you recommended to my spotify. i even paused to complete some wholesome things like taking my chihuahuas to the park before work. what's even better is that a few weeks ago i started taking workout classes, doing nighttime self care routines, been more in control over what i focus my attention on, interrupting unhelpful belief patterns, more protein shakes and healthy veganism, herbs to heal me, cleaning when i don't feel like it but need to. there's already been a shift before this video. watching this just made my confidence in what im doing solidify. this is coming from someone who has been stuck in a rut for over a year, feeling hopeless, alone, unworthy. i've been feeling this shift. god thank you for this alignment. higher self thank you for the strength. thanks mae, you got a new subscriber
Have you ever noticed how someone like Mae just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
I must say not a single millisecond of the 24 minutes and 52 seconds that I spent here is wasted. Honestly, I was so depressed for some issues going round in my school that I just gave up on trying to be good and I'm being honest that affected my grades a lot. BUT.... I saw this video, 1 month ago and I'm back here to say that this has already helped me so much. I no longer feel the usual "HELPLESS, HOPELESS, WORTHLESS, ENERGYLESS" and I'm happy on the inside and on the outside. And do I even need to say how powerful it makes one feel, like I was legit getting goosebumps every now and then while watching the video. Very seldom people make such videos and you have already changed my life upside down, inside out. A HUUUUUUUGEEEE THANKS to you!
7:10 nah she spittin facts and nothing but the facts right here. the amount of good things that ppl talk themselves out of is baffling and then the same people will crawl into a hole about why they never get anything good, why other ppl always have it good and not them, how life is so unfair. etc etc. that self talk is key! change your words from "why me?" to "why NOT me?" and go for everything you want! you know why? because what is meant as yours already belongs to you ;)
Rebranding your life is like Socrates’ pursuit of self-knowledge: 'An unexamined life is not worth living.' Reflect, redefine, and act with intention. The next 90 days can transform your trajectory. Embrace change now to level up by 2025 and beyond
This video got recommended to me at the perfect time. I just cut off contact with my two best friends (which was heartbreaking), and I really wanted to take this time to just turn everything around. If anyone else is thinking of doing the same, good luck fellow adventurer! This is our time to start a new chapter in life ;)
Thank you for sharing this video your words are truly helping me get through a pivotal period in my life at 42 years old. Planting a garden was my first self motivated project that built up my confidence in small incremental changes, started with a couple raised beds then upgraded to planting in the ground and nature is the best teacher and each year is a year to understand a bit more and make new mistakes and learn that feeling of redemption when you change your technique and feel like you’ve figured it out what that particular plant needs to thrive in the conditions nature is giving. You really need to just jump in and make mistakes and just try everything and see what works well and adjust next year. I’m so excited for next year and expanding and planting more of the veggies my kids enjoyed eating and then trying something new and letting them see for themselves how to plant and take care of the soil with watering and composting and mulching is everything and they definitely see this enthusiasm in me and I hope it helps them in the future!
Long story short.... I grew up with the middle child and the only girl. My family put more care into my brothers than me. So i never really had a concept of self concept at all, as i was always kinda alone and stuck in my own bubble. Friends would always end up calling me weird or just outright ditching me... i was also bullied a ton.... and ive also had several shitty relationships, one of which almost ended in me taking my life... i also was ill, fighting endo and anemia alone with no one to really turn to. In 2023 when i had my hysterectomy (at 32) i realized i needed to change something. I needed to start taking action. I had started to do so, but it fell flat. And it wasnt till yesterday that i realized i need to get back up and do it again... especially since things have hit rock bottom for me yet again... i cant let myself stay here anymore. 2025, im gonna make you my bitch. Im gonna make my music get heard. Im gonna take up space. Im gonna love and accept myself fully. And fuck it. Im gonna look damn good and slay too. Because i deserve nice things. And im sick of the mindset of not deserving things. At 33 i am gonna finally get shit together.
Hey Mae, I have to admit that I was expecting something different from the video title. I'm glad that it was much more than that, namely a much more profound and far-reaching way to transform your own life. Your video came at exactly the right time and I thank you for the motivation and the kick in the ass. I find it remarkable how reflective and with how much power you convey it. Thank you for the push and the recommendations, finally stepping out of the victim role and comfort zone feels so good . And you are right, once you took the red pill there is no going back, and that is good!
I've been in the literal worst depressive episode of my life this year, and your content was one of the things that helped me get myself together and improve my life ❤❤❤
i too will try the 90 days. i am not checking back in everyday but i will attempt to update weekly or biweekly :) day 1 - 9/29/24: (not in order) went on nature walk even tho i wanted to sleep and stay in and just be sad. visited family & talked about things going on in life. looked at apts bc i want to experience living alone even tho it scares me. listened to audiobook “how to try” (self help book). i felt my mood improve bc i did things i kept saying i wanted to do but kept putting off :)
day you do the math lol - 10/12/24: i have been feeling great living better. i am becoming more in tune with myself & practicing more intension with my daily word choice. update about apt: i plan to move out at the end of the yr. i put in an application!!! i am a bit scared but more excited :) etc - i have been remaining active. i do better with group workouts (ie. zumba, solidcore). i was trying to befriend this person but they were so rude. i realized this & will no longer be reaching out bc i deserve to be treated kindly. i no longer despise working. i simply tell myself it could be worse. i have a job that has decent pay & i am able to do the things i want like shop on amazon lol & pay rent !!!!
"I'm going to discipline myself to work out every day, because that is simply who I am, and that's my purpose; and because I have purpose, I also have enough willpower to always be doing that."
you are amazing, talking about law of assumption and physical actions at the same time. feels much better than only loa or (3d focused) self improvement content
I appreciate the acknowledgment of depression towards the end of the video! The way you address it and empathize with it actually helps me want to fight the depression harder and more intentionally. Loved this video!
Thank you so much. I feel like crying watching this. Life has not been really good to me these past two years and I'm working really hard to push myself out of this shit hole.
That bit about chronic depression hit. Figuring that bit out about my existence literally changed my life. Thank you for the frequent insight and wisdom!
This is a very good video. Thank you. There is a few things I already knew, but most things were really helpfull. Personally I come from trauma. I have been staying in this child mindset for a long time. But I have been helping myself more than any psychologist has ever done for me. Because I now know what it means to believe that you deserve to be happy. That anyone deserves to be happy. I have been in the depths of life, and almost gave up. That was exactly the moment when I decided to pick up my weapon, and I have yet to lay it to rest. I will not give up on this road towards self-improvement. No matter how low the lows are. I refuse. To give up. What I am fighting for? Simple. MY happiness.
Out of all the self care influencers, you're the only one that I don't get bad vibes from, when I listen to you, I don't get drained at all, thank you for making your videos!
The whole thing you said about people unconsciously affirming to have no money, it’s sooo true. I used to think exactly like them. And I know it can be hard for people to wrap their head around. To manifest, one must learn how to observe. You are the master of your mind. Capitalism is a thing, rich ppl are a thing, no one said it isn’t. This is about tailoring your belief system. Limiting beliefs are self sabotage.
Idk that part really made me pause because I don’t love the examples used. “I have to work three jobs to provide for my kids” That might factually be true for someone’s situation. And even if they are optimistic and work to find something better, it’s good that they aren’t deluding themselves with optimism that those jobs aren’t necessary for their situation because then they could start missing work and bringing in less income. “Money isn’t unlimited” is like, in terms of what’s on my paycheck, factually true. I can only pull in so much every month and if I tell myself it’s unlimited I’ll start spending like it is. There are better ways to be optimistic about where you’re headed than that. I’d articulate it more like “I’m worthy of being paid a liveable wage and can find opportunities to get that”
Girl, thank you. You're such an inspiration! I'm in a journey of getting myself together and you are just the type of person I need to listen. Thank you algorithm for putting this queen in my feed and my life. 💗
this video brought teaars to my eyes. you articulate yourself so well, and combine empathy, healing, information, and disciplinary advice so well. thank you!
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"I want you to level up so high that you'll have to re-introduce yourself" This one got me
Beautiful
Yeah, she came right out of the gate swinging. I ❤ it!
That’s POTENT!! 🎉
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That was savage love the entire video
she speaks in perfect speed for my brain
Omg me too lol
😂😂
As someone who'd always put every motivational video on 1.25-1.5 speed, I totally agree..
damn! thanks for the likes y'all
Right lol
As a chronic oversharer here, moving in silence is my ultimate goal!! Anytime I share what I’m working on, it fails, or I lose interest quickly. Time to zip it 🤐
This used to be true for me too, but in this past year, I really noticed that oversharing isn't the problem. I shared every single idea I had with everyone, even if it was unrealistic, but I've learned that I should only share my realistic goals. Plus, your surroundings are a big aspect. If the people around you are supportive, sharing might be helpful, since your surroundings could help you reach your goals (by supporting/reminding you), but if the people around you say "pffft another big idea from you again?" You'll lose motivation and ofcourse it will fail, anyhow all I'm trying to say is, don't be too negative on yourself and keep sharing your big plans, but be sure to make a start towards your goal before you share it and surround yourself with positive minded people, you got this!
The evil eye is real. I also thought sharing what’s next will be nice but instead nothing manifested in the end 🧿
Yeah I noticed when I get excited and share something that is brand NEW it flops quickly. 😮🙊
You “speak the arousal out of it” - women who run with the wolves book
I heard that even just telling people your plans gives you dopamine as though you already did the thing!! And then your brain is like Oh Welp I Already Got The Dopamine So There's No Need To Work At This Anymore.... when I heard this I freaked out 😭
Returning in 90 days, Wish me luck
good luck, you can do this ❤
You got this
Good luck 💯🔥👏🏻 for you!! 🌌
showering you with luckkkk!
You will do this!!!! Good luck
We gotta pull a nikocado avocado
Right like im tryna be a whole different person till highschool starts fr
And thats in a while
Ozempic is death for a healthy body. If you are not diabetic i don't suggest. I personally know a person that is overweight and has a diabetes type 2, she could easily get herself an dose of ozempic to treat it and losr weight but her doctor explained how dangerous it can be. People that get on that could lose weight easy and they would gain 2× weight they had when they stop taking it, plus ur taking off for people that really need it ( if you arent diabetic). I don't know your situation, but pls think twice if you start taking ozempic.
Hahahaha yessss
I swear he's my motivation for my winter arc not only for weight reduction but for my other goals
"You can feel what you feel but you don't have to accept it as truth" Hands down, one of the best I've listened to in a while ✨
i love that i found this comment at the exact moment it was said in the video❤
rebranding yourself and saying "it was all a social experiment" would be hilarious with how things are rn on the internet 😂
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Two steps ahead
nikoado avocado type beat
like nikocado avocado lmao
COMING BACK IN 90 DAYS - REMIND ME PLEASEE
1) I’ll lose weight
2) I’ll get clearer skin
3) I’ll get healthier hair
4) I’ll travel different countries
5) I’ll do more writing and journaling
6) I’ll socialize
Ik it’s even 6 days but have you had a difference like a little atleast?
8 days ago, keep going !
11 days, you can do this !!
12 days GOOOO YOU GOT THIS ❤❤
@@Riyaaass YES! It has been twelve days and I am slightly healthier and making plans to travel, It is hard but I keep pushing through. I have a new journal - I write poetry, stories and keep my daily updates. Feels really good too because sadly I haven’t been socialising that much but at least I am looking for comfort in me.
Omg I just did a very similar method in 60-70 days, with shadow work, meditation, pray, habit tracker apps, journaling, diet, work out, even quit drUgs and alcohol… and let me share with you all, I literally changed (reprogrammed) my whole mindset and become a new person😊🎉 Im happier and healthier than ever! I’m in peace. But have to put the work in it, and trust in yourself. (And God, or univers whatever) It’s not easy but that’s why so powerful. I want to be even better and better!
Needed to read this thank you and I’m so deeply proud of you🙌🏿
congrats! so proud of you💕
it's so timely🌷
Congrats bro🎉
Good for you. I’m gonna try some of this. Thank you
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Having insecure people around you will create instability in your life. I’m already applying for a different job and plan on quitting my job now that I have an insecure supervisor who accused me of talking behind her back based on only her perception. I brought proof to her and she didn’t change her opinion. Walk away as soon as you see it going downhill from there and don’t sacrifice your mental health, your values or your self esteem for someone who lies. Know your worth
im in the same positions, just had an interview yesterday, good luck to you!
Insecure people = don't want what's best for you
crazy, i’m going through almost the same thing… such a toxic place to work, but i adore my regular customers there, so it’s gonna be so hard to leave!! but i know its for the best :( i have training for a new job starting in two weeks, and i honestly can’t wait for the change. wishing good luck to everyone!
@@pawflowell said actually. Also insecure people don’t want you to shine the brightest star ⭐️
Exactly 91 days left till 2025. So, let's see how much change can i make until new years eve. I'll come back and update every week!
I was legit about to count how many days til New Years. Lets go into the new year as new people!
Bruh I think I got to do this now I didn't know it was already 90 days
OMG HAHAHA HERE’S ME WHO’S CLICKED ON THIS VIDEO AND JUST NOW SEEING THIS
Let’s gooooo
Yasssss 🎉let’s goooo
guys i’m fine don’t worry!! this was one of those “discipline > motivation” days for me 😆💜 my contact lens was poking my eye
I thought you were crying out of 1 eye!
What happened to your older videos Mae?
Oh girl this happened to me this week and it drove me nuts 😭 👁️
please get rid of contact lenses that feel uncomfortable. it might have a mini tear and will damage your eyes.
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Long story short, I was diagnosed stage 3 cancer a month ago, I'm only 22. I will have a lot of time in my hands, a break from work and school while I get segury and chemo and I want to be a better version of myself when I (hopefully) get better and this video just help me a lot to know where to star! Thank you
YOU'LL DO GREAT LOVE!!!! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
Try to take the time just to heal and rest, no need to put extra weight on what you are going through. Hope you get better soon!
I hope you achieve that side of always bettering yourself! I was also diagnosed with stage 2 cancer (lymphoma) and i’m 18 this year. I’ve finished my chemo treatment, and all i can say is please get plenty of rest, and don’t be too harsh on yourself ❤. You got this, i believe in you fellow soldier 🫡 ❤️🩹
Wishing you all the best and for your healing, sister❤
Sending u heart and energies ! Get better ❤
Watching on October 11th 2024, things are pretty bad right now but I promise you (my future self) you’re gonna get there! Also I love you!
i believe in you :)
let's get into this ship together!!!!! hoping someone will like this comment to check and update how we are doing in our future selves
hows it going?
Wake up babe the queen has posted again
I haven’t watch the full video yet but I just wanted to share a snippet of my story and hold myself accountable. Yesterday I cried myself to sleep because I was invited to a birthday party but things changed and no one updated me on the plans. I was waiting like a loser at home, dressed up going no where. I have been trying to making plans with ppl and it would fall through. The friends that I thought were close with me seemed to just be acquaintances that would hang out with me because of convenience. I definitely have issues of my own and I like to make myself out to be the victim more than I am supposed to be. But I am tired of being disappointed by others and myself. I want to start seeing things objectively and not to rely my happiness on others. I WILL finish the video and I WILL CHANGE for myself.
Don't worry i can feel u r such a pure soul .I wish u more power 💪 and goodluck❤
Hey there hope u are doing great right now. or even if it's not just continue moving forward
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Dude, your disclaimer on life’s nuance and how the same advice doesn’t work for everyone was just so so good. Thank you for that.
“Why do you keep on focusing on what you don’t want” omg. This hit so hard bc I have a hard time letting go of the desire to impress my family, working towards a degree and I’m so miserable and have no friends but just a few years ago I still had hope for my true dreams of being a content creator and online business owner and songwriter! I’ve always been an artistic person but was suppressed heavily by my family and years of complex trauma. I really needed this video thank you, I hope I can inspire others someday after I finally send it.
I pray all your dreams come true!
Focus on creating your art, you are an artist! Family is sometimes our biggest haters, unfortunately, so we have be careful of our mental health because of them. Your happiness and wellness matters, and I found out that no one will take care of you, if you don’t take care of yourself 💗🙏🏾🫶🏾🌸✨
As someone who had severe depression, I barely had motivation to get out of bed or stand up in the shower. Mental help is life-changing.
After a recent breakup I realized that - as it often happens - I had forgotten a lot of what made me myself outside of being with another person. I was so focused on catering to someone else and felt more than happy with it at the time. Looking back, I realized I would have missed out on a lot that way. The idea of not only rebranding, but *remembering* what my brand is has been super helpful during the healing process.
Building good habits and discipline takes time and starts with small, consistent actions. For example, brushing your teeth every morning and night, avoiding your phone before bed, and steering clear of certain distractions can all contribute to long-term improvements. Remember, it’s okay to stumble along the way; everyone makes mistakes. What matters is learning from them and persisting. Each time you get back on track, you’re growing stronger and more resilient. Don’t be discouraged by setbacks-embrace them as part of the journey toward becoming a better version of yourself. Keep going, and you’ll find that progress comes with time.
The aesthetic that black cat adds is everything
hi, i found this video today and i just moved to temporary accommodation because i am homeless. thank you for giving me hope for the new year!
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There was a time when i use to call myself a weirdo because i never fit in anywhere... But now i just call myself unique and different in a good way and i am not changing it
Bamboo takes years rooting and then spurts up high in weeks. Great metaphor ❤ well done Mae - you're awesome 🎉
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The timing of this is freaking SUPERIOR✨️ Thank you, Mae!
that word “superior” is so iconoclastic, and i always used to interpret that iconoclasm as evil. a revelation i had is that Iconoclasm and evil are two (quite similar, but) different things.
'dont wait for reality to happen , reality is waiting for you to take a lead' this changed my whole perspective!!! thankyou girl
relying on discipline and willpower, not motivation.... I never thought that I needed this, tysm 😭
Will power is the key.... will power. Cause there will be negetive imotions which is pulling u back. Never allow them to decide ur future.... power up!!!
My dad and I wake up every morning at 6:30 to walk for 30 minutes and every time I ask to sleep in or skip a day he says no because “we are the kind of people who can get up every morning and walk”
You explained this concept so well, thank you!
This is so great!! For anyone who has a bad association with the word "discipline", you can substitute it with devotion. Be devoted to you and your goals and your habits and empowerment!
She’s such a good talker about doing better with your life. Dude I wake up in the morning for work and I watch her videos for motivation guys while I get ready for work😩❤️
i usually don't like watching influencer videos because of my disdain for listening to society this one person here actually knows how to give advice and with a realistic mentality thanks Mae! ive always thought that working in silence is best.
I cried along with you while listening to this :( I’m going through a very hard time, pls pray for me everyone 😞
These cuts are crazy. Bomb video. You took like 25 self help authors and condensed into 25 min seemingly taking one breath. Nice.
She said all of the self-help info I've been reading and consuming for almost 10 years but haven't acted upon. All summarized in 1 vid! (thank youu!)
This is all I need to rewatch from now on. It's all here 😭 all I need to do is implement.
"YOU CANNOT SLIP UP, YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO GO BACK TO YOUR OLD SELF"
I decided to rebrand my life after watching this video . I’m an unmotivated person but this video motivated me really much. Thank you so much and I am going to start doing to change my whole life.❤❤
I'm glad this motivated you, but this is not supposed to be motivation but rather discipline, what to do when you have no motivation, why and how to not rely on motivation. I think you missed a point there
You’ve got this
guys i’m gonna lock in for these last 60 days 🙏🏻🙏🏻
You got this!
I admire people who know how to talk. I wish i had that skill
Practise! Don't wish to be like someone else, aspire to be like them! Wishing will bring you nowhere ❤
The last block of your video just made me realized that I am actually going through depression/trauma. I am having a very rough year and I think things have caught up with me mentally and emotionally. I had thought I was broken and lazy and something was wrong with me and I am useless. But when you listed the symptoms I had my A-HA moment and realized that this is exactly what I am going through so now I understand what I am dealing with. I am not at a point where I am able to open up to anyone about it and reach out for professional help. I would like to do the inner work on my own, especially gaining back my discipline and start faking it until I make it.
Amen me too ❤
@@TanyaDavis954 Thank you. ❤❤
Self-Awareness is a key 🔑 open the door🚪to healing ❤️🩹 you got this! 👏🏾🙏🏾 (I gotta tell myself the same thing 🥹)
I woke up today with a positive mindset to reboot myself. After yoga and all of the rituals. I was about to listen motivational audios and i just found your video at my for you page. WOW what a sign!! I have just complete the video and I am feeling my lost potential is coming back to me. I just love your concept of gym and how starting for the betterment is itself a "Better Decision" and a "Win" to ourselves.
Köszönjük!
96 Days left for 2025. Gonna come back every week and will see my progress.
So, what's ur progress?
this happened with after 2020, it was the last year of the school and it was online+ i deleted my SM for some personal reasons. and when i tell you i got PARAGRAPHS when i got in touch with some people after a year about how much ive changed and gotten mature. and how much my entire energy has become magnetic. i did mean to do all the disappear and come back thing but it happened and i also started noticing it. and these people who were appreciating me were NOT my close friends or something. they were just classmates. it was very empowering ngl
the only sad part about all of this that i unfortunately went on different track and kind of changed but im so determined to be even better than that version!!!!
and trust me if I could do this, the entire world can do this. Be conscious of your thoughts and actions! YALL GOT THIS! ALL THE VERY BEST GUYS!
I'm turning 40 and I'm probably 50%-70 way through my glow up. I started this time last year. Lost 30lbs and no one noticed but my fam. Got off medication and lost another 30 people at my gym class noticed but not at my job. It's still falling off. I think I'm down 80 now and finally people at my job started to notice. I had no idea until a few months ago they make pre everything wigs at all the companies that are affordable. I got 3. Now the hottest guys at my job give me eye contact and people are pleasant to me. I!m still over weight at 155. Trying to loose at least 40 more and get a personal trainer to grow glutes and chest. Also going to take another makeup class because no matter how much high end makeup I buy or how many tutorials I watch it doesn't make me look better. Now I only wear mascara. The contrast in how your treated is startling or at least trippy and uncomfortable. I don't like it. But I guess you get used to being treated better.
You're so inspiring, hope you'll be able to keep at it!
Like a famous Chinese speech "偷偷學習，然後不動聲色驚艷所有人，順便卷死你們"
Watching this after a heavy mental breakdown. I'm not even half way through and I'm already in tears. Thank you 🙏🏻
Your so strong and you WILL feel better ❤❤❤
@@qxzv Thank you so much 🥹❤️
my intention for fall is “level up” and then you showed up. thank you!
just spend the night questioning about my life habits looking for a good monk mode guide cause I wanted to do things right. Such a crazy timing thank you :)
Thanks!
I know you probably won’t read my comment but I just wanna say that I recently came across your channel and I have to say it’s beyond amazing to me how much familiar and comforting your content is that is hard getting offended by. I am naturally a very lazy and undisciplined person but I feel that a stranger like you can trust that I can achieve my goals more than my own family does. So thank you so much for your wisdom! ❤️
Trying to get on this wavelength as a 30th bday gift to myself 🎉
Happy birthday and good luck! 🍀
@@nikkireigns thank you 💚🍀 Sending the same blessings your way 🙏🏻🍀✨
Happiest birthday!!🎉 May all your dreams come true!🤍
@@rubyjendek1961 Thank you my dear! Sending the love straight back to you 🍀✨
HAPPPY BIRTHDAY!!! AND GOOD LUCK YOU GOT THISS!!!💕✨🪄🎂 I turn 30 next year in may, I want to get on this level before then! 💪🏼🌱🌞
didn’t you just hit 100k subs like a couple weeks ago??!? dayum girl now you’re almost at 200k!!!
the first one hando is the hardest, so they say.
I'm doing this, I've been so depressed about my life I have to change every single thing
This. Was. Amazing. I felt like God was talking to me through you (yes He can do that). Everything you said was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
This is a little comment to my future self. Today you told your self that all the fear of my own self being less than and bound to fail is a memory of the past. I can breathe first and I know that I'm enough for myself. Longterm I'll strive to be boundless open and the positive peer that will uplift and inspire others to have a leader on recovering and breaking free from the illness mentally of failing. Only a great full reminder
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Feel for you. Happened to me too some years ago. My best revenge was to be really happy. Pour all that love into yourself instead❣️
Omg girl im going through the same thing right now and I haven’t been able to get myself up. But i believe there is a good reason we ended up watching this video!
As soon as you let him go he’ll come back but you might not want him anymore
You love him way more than you love yourself. That’s why he fell out of love with you. Become that obsessed with YOURSELF and life will give you a man that’s as obsessed with you as you are.
@@aann7132 that aint possible for me sadly
You’re impressive. Didn’t hear one “umm” you just kept going with all this knowledge and wisdom. I really loved this video and I will totally start applying it by tomorrow morning. Goodnight, guys! See you on the other side of YOU! 😮💞💞💞
I love people like u who notice these “little” things, which aren’t little at all imo!! ❤
@@m-zs2bt Thank you! 🙏🏼
wow i was not expecting the amount of fire that has been lit under my butt after watching this. actually i'm not even completely done this video yet and i've already journaled the mindset i'm going to revisit every day for the next 90 days, that will be in eye view on my dresser. gotten my boyfriend on board with a bunch of things to implement. downloaded the 3 audio books you recommended to my spotify. i even paused to complete some wholesome things like taking my chihuahuas to the park before work. what's even better is that a few weeks ago i started taking workout classes, doing nighttime self care routines, been more in control over what i focus my attention on, interrupting unhelpful belief patterns, more protein shakes and healthy veganism, herbs to heal me, cleaning when i don't feel like it but need to. there's already been a shift before this video. watching this just made my confidence in what im doing solidify. this is coming from someone who has been stuck in a rut for over a year, feeling hopeless, alone, unworthy. i've been feeling this shift. god thank you for this alignment. higher self thank you for the strength. thanks mae, you got a new subscriber
Have you ever noticed how someone like Mae just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
I totally agree with you, you can see it in her eyes.
Thank you for the recommendation!
I must say not a single millisecond of the 24 minutes and 52 seconds that I spent here is wasted. Honestly, I was so depressed for some issues going round in my school that I just gave up on trying to be good and I'm being honest that affected my grades a lot. BUT.... I saw this video, 1 month ago and I'm back here to say that this has already helped me so much. I no longer feel the usual "HELPLESS, HOPELESS, WORTHLESS, ENERGYLESS" and I'm happy on the inside and on the outside. And do I even need to say how powerful it makes one feel, like I was legit getting goosebumps every now and then while watching the video. Very seldom people make such videos and you have already changed my life upside down, inside out. A HUUUUUUUGEEEE THANKS to you!
7:10 nah she spittin facts and nothing but the facts right here. the amount of good things that ppl talk themselves out of is baffling and then the same people will crawl into a hole about why they never get anything good, why other ppl always have it good and not them, how life is so unfair. etc etc. that self talk is key! change your words from "why me?" to "why NOT me?" and go for everything you want! you know why? because what is meant as yours already belongs to you ;)
You do not "sugar-coat". It is so refreshing. Keep up the great work.
I don’t want to show anyone anything I just want to show myself I want to work on myself for myself I want to be proud of myself 💗🦋🌸
"You can't fail unless you don't do it"
I'll deffo remember this one.
Bae are you ok your crying 😭 0:17
@@Blahbee are you? You can literally see one of her eyes are wet and you can see a tear on her face???
her eye is probably just watery lol lets be smart
Maybe she has an eye infection,or its her lenses
@@Cninnn maybe i think i saw a comment saying it was her lenses she should have pinned it tho
Rebranding your life is like Socrates’ pursuit of self-knowledge: 'An unexamined life is not worth living.'
Reflect, redefine, and act with intention.
The next 90 days can transform your trajectory. Embrace change now to level up by 2025 and beyond
Remind me to come back in 90 days ☺️ I’ve already started making changes and I’m for sure I will see the fruit of them before this year is up 🙌🏽
I literally love you girl.
This video got recommended to me at the perfect time. I just cut off contact with my two best friends (which was heartbreaking), and I really wanted to take this time to just turn everything around.
If anyone else is thinking of doing the same, good luck fellow adventurer! This is our time to start a new chapter in life ;)
Thank you for sharing this video your words are truly helping me get through a pivotal period in my life at 42 years old.
Planting a garden was my first self motivated project that built up my confidence in small incremental changes, started with a couple raised beds then upgraded to planting in the ground and nature is the best teacher and each year is a year to understand a bit more and make new mistakes and learn that feeling of redemption when you change your technique and feel like you’ve figured it out what that particular plant needs to thrive in the conditions nature is giving. You really need to just jump in and make mistakes and just try everything and see what works well and adjust next year. I’m so excited for next year and expanding and planting more of the veggies my kids enjoyed eating and then trying something new and letting them see for themselves how to plant and take care of the soil with watering and composting and mulching is everything and they definitely see this enthusiasm in me and I hope it helps them in the future!
Long story short.... I grew up with the middle child and the only girl. My family put more care into my brothers than me. So i never really had a concept of self concept at all, as i was always kinda alone and stuck in my own bubble. Friends would always end up calling me weird or just outright ditching me... i was also bullied a ton.... and ive also had several shitty relationships, one of which almost ended in me taking my life... i also was ill, fighting endo and anemia alone with no one to really turn to. In 2023 when i had my hysterectomy (at 32) i realized i needed to change something. I needed to start taking action. I had started to do so, but it fell flat. And it wasnt till yesterday that i realized i need to get back up and do it again... especially since things have hit rock bottom for me yet again... i cant let myself stay here anymore. 2025, im gonna make you my bitch. Im gonna make my music get heard. Im gonna take up space. Im gonna love and accept myself fully. And fuck it. Im gonna look damn good and slay too. Because i deserve nice things. And im sick of the mindset of not deserving things. At 33 i am gonna finally get shit together.
i'm returning after 90 days, and no social media to distract me, wish me luck! :))
Good luck
Hey Mae, I have to admit that I was expecting something different from the video title. I'm glad that it was much more than that, namely a much more profound and far-reaching way to transform your own life. Your video came at exactly the right time and I thank you for the motivation and the kick in the ass. I find it remarkable how reflective and with how much power you convey it. Thank you for the push and the recommendations, finally stepping out of the victim role and comfort zone feels so good . And you are right, once you took the red pill there is no going back, and that is good!
I've been in the literal worst depressive episode of my life this year, and your content was one of the things that helped me get myself together and improve my life ❤❤❤
Omg my mind was wandering for a few seconds and it came back at 9:00 i was like girl how'd u know I wasn't listening 👀😂
I think this video just changed my mindset omg
i too will try the 90 days. i am not checking back in everyday but i will attempt to update weekly or biweekly :)
day 1 - 9/29/24: (not in order) went on nature walk even tho i wanted to sleep and stay in and just be sad. visited family & talked about things going on in life. looked at apts bc i want to experience living alone even tho it scares me. listened to audiobook “how to try” (self help book). i felt my mood improve bc i did things i kept saying i wanted to do but kept putting off :)
Who's the author of that audiobook? It sounds interesting!
@@winterstellium “This is How” by Augusten Burroughs. He has it in book format too. if you do decide to read it. read with an open mind :)
@@ah-vb1tm Great, thank you so much! I wish you luck on your journey!
@@winterstellium - thx you too :)
day you do the math lol - 10/12/24: i have been feeling great living better. i am becoming more in tune with myself & practicing more intension with my daily word choice. update about apt: i plan to move out at the end of the yr. i put in an application!!! i am a bit scared but more excited :)
etc - i have been remaining active. i do better with group workouts (ie. zumba, solidcore). i was trying to befriend this person but they were so rude. i realized this & will no longer be reaching out bc i deserve to be treated kindly. i no longer despise working. i simply tell myself it could be worse. i have a job that has decent pay & i am able to do the things i want like shop on amazon lol & pay rent !!!!
"I'm going to discipline myself to work out every day, because that is simply who I am, and that's my purpose; and because I have purpose, I also have enough willpower to always be doing that."
you are amazing, talking about law of assumption and physical actions at the same time. feels much better than only loa or (3d focused) self improvement content
Yeah, man 4ra’s explanations are so clear. even newbies can start easily now.
This video needs to go viral.
I appreciate the acknowledgment of depression towards the end of the video! The way you address it and empathize with it actually helps me want to fight the depression harder and more intentionally. Loved this video!
I’ll be back in 90 days with results
Thank you so much. I feel like crying watching this. Life has not been really good to me these past two years and I'm working really hard to push myself out of this shit hole.
Nobody's gonna talk about her cat? So cute. Btw, I love your video. Thank you
That bit about chronic depression hit. Figuring that bit out about my existence literally changed my life.
Thank you for the frequent insight and wisdom!
you guys are beautiful before and beautiful after
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The most realistic advice I've ever heard from bloggers who are giving advice about self - improvement. Thank you so much
Love you ❤
you're the best YT mentor! cheers to leveling ourselves up each day 🌟
Go girl. Love this!
This is a very good video. Thank you. There is a few things I already knew, but most things were really helpfull. Personally I come from trauma. I have been staying in this child mindset for a long time. But I have been helping myself more than any psychologist has ever done for me. Because I now know what it means to believe that you deserve to be happy. That anyone deserves to be happy. I have been in the depths of life, and almost gave up. That was exactly the moment when I decided to pick up my weapon, and I have yet to lay it to rest. I will not give up on this road towards self-improvement. No matter how low the lows are. I refuse. To give up. What I am fighting for? Simple. MY happiness.
Imma comeback here on 25.03.25 , wish me luck :)
Walahi, is like second older Sister I never knew i needed. Thank for motivation.
Out of all the self care influencers, you're the only one that I don't get bad vibes from, when I listen to you, I don't get drained at all, thank you for making your videos!
The whole thing you said about people unconsciously affirming to have no money, it’s sooo true. I used to think exactly like them. And I know it can be hard for people to wrap their head around. To manifest, one must learn how to observe. You are the master of your mind. Capitalism is a thing, rich ppl are a thing, no one said it isn’t. This is about tailoring your belief system. Limiting beliefs are self sabotage.
Idk that part really made me pause because I don’t love the examples used. “I have to work three jobs to provide for my kids” That might factually be true for someone’s situation. And even if they are optimistic and work to find something better, it’s good that they aren’t deluding themselves with optimism that those jobs aren’t necessary for their situation because then they could start missing work and bringing in less income. “Money isn’t unlimited” is like, in terms of what’s on my paycheck, factually true. I can only pull in so much every month and if I tell myself it’s unlimited I’ll start spending like it is. There are better ways to be optimistic about where you’re headed than that. I’d articulate it more like “I’m worthy of being paid a liveable wage and can find opportunities to get that”
Girl, thank you. You're such an inspiration! I'm in a journey of getting myself together and you are just the type of person I need to listen. Thank you algorithm for putting this queen in my feed and my life. 💗
reminder: you are loved
Starting 03/10/2024 . I'll be back
this video brought teaars to my eyes. you articulate yourself so well, and combine empathy, healing, information, and disciplinary advice so well. thank you!