Once a guy goes bald and is comfortable with it, and confident. There is nothing you can do that will make him feel low about himself. Hats of to confident bald men that carry themselves with respect and confidence.
When I started losing my hair, I had anxiety about it during two years. Then, the day I shaved it all, this anxiety disappeared. I did not feel any change in my ability to attract women. I was bald when I met my wife and now I have two children with her. Just embracing it completely, being one with your baldness, makes you more mature and makes you learn that true confidence is indeed the key. I know who I am, my strengths and my weaknesses, I know my place in this world. Baldness is a detail. I hope you guys having that anxiety will also overcome it. Life after it is great.
Thank you for this Courtney. I’ve been shaving my head for years. I started losing my hair at 24, and even before then, my hair line was super high up. Took me a long time to grow secure in that. So one day I shaved it off, I dug the look and have not looked back.
@@AsimKhan-hz5kr did it take you a while to fully embrace? I went through a bit of a denial period. But I’m so much happier since shaving my head. Courtney is absolutely right about this.
I adopted the completely bald look 20 years ago when my hair was seriously thinning, I've never looked back and the confidence boost you get is great. Thank you for your endorsement Courtney. 😎
I literally came across this vid after just shaving my head. I've been doing this for about a year or so. I grew a short beard. Never felt more confident about my look. Thank You for this video, Courtney! :)
Bless you for making this video, fortunately for me I took the plunge 3 years ago but held off far too long prior to that but it was the best choice I could have made for myself. The confidence that follows after embracing it is real. It was a major paradigm shift for me in many aspects of my life. THANK YOU for being a female voice to support men who are still going through it. You’re a real one
That's how it goes, I held off for far too long as well. Wore hats night and day, worried about someone making a comment 24/7 and the rare time when I had to take the cap off any small breeze would instantly flop my "bangs" up or to the side revealing not my 4head, but my 5 and 6head. lol I'd take bald guy over Balding guy any day of the week.
Thank you so much Courtney for touching on this subject. Losing your hair is depressing but I think You just boosted the confidence of thousands of men including myself!
I'm 34 and started losing my hair in my late 20s. Started using hair fibers to make it look like my hair is still full. It sucks to do it but, I'm scared I wont be attractive. This video gave me the confidence boost I needed to take the step and go bald.
@@tylershubert1596 I'm gonna have to do it soon. I'm so depressed man, there's this beautiful girl that's entered my life, like I would marry her if I had the chance. I'm just scared once I go bald she'll lose all attraction to me ( I usually have longer hair)
I used hair fibers for years, and they truly are a game-changer. However, the major downside is the fibers need hair to attach to (obviously), so the more you less, the less convincing it looks. My "wakeup call" was seeing a pic of me out with some friends, and realizing my hair looked like it was littered with sawdust. It looked so unnatural, to the point I buzzed my head afterwards. Haven't looked back since.
As someone who is genetically disposed to being bald, it seriously isn't bad at all. I had the widows peak early 20s, thinned crown mid 20s and finally shaved it smooth at 30 and been that way ever since. It is easy maintenance, looks good and most women seriously don't mind. Combovers suck. Thanks for your vote of confidence Courtney.
Hey guys, I'm 27 and have full alopecia - a condition which means I have no hair AT ALL on my whole body. It took a long time to "accept" myself both internally and externally, and in many ways that adjustment is still a work in progress. Don't stress about shaving your head, it's the universe's way of speeding up your self-improvement journey to become the real you. It's a gift. The inner man in you wants to break free and manifest himself. Embrace it, for your own sake. People hide behind all kinds of things, including hair. Life has been made simpler for you. Focus on what's important and reclaim a higher power !!!!! Peace and love ✌🏼 Courtney, your channel is a breath of fresh air and so refreshing to see as a man. Keep it up !
Hey man! I'm late to see this comment but I also developed alopecia universalis on my whole body at age 29 out of nowhere, it's been almost 5 years now since I've lost it all and the worst part has been the lack of eyebrows/eyelashes, I couldn't care less about the hair on top of my head personally lol. I hope all is well with you! I've never had the opportunity to talk to anyone else who has exactly what I have.
Thanks, Courtney. I started going bald when I was 19 yrs old. I tried to hold on to it but then I just shaved it all off and I did feel better about myself. Thank you for making this video. It definitely helps us guys out a lot to hear this kind of thing from a sweet, attractive girl like you.
I started to getting bald when I was 23, now I have 30 and got problems with self-esteem related to it. This is the first video that I watch from this channel and I loved it, thanks for this content, I will start to change my perspective from now on. Greetings from Brazil!
@@whiterabbit1632 technically it’s the mom who Carries the genes of losing hair. Not the father. I know because all my brothers including me is bald. And other men on my mom’s side of the family. But my dads side, all the men, including him still have a full head of hair.
I've had a bald head by choice for the last two years. I'm not losing my hair, I just thought I'd try it one day and I've loved it ever since. I love being bald. It's the best.
@@johnmooney2086 I had the male pattern baldness that didn't look good so just shaved it off and have kept it that way and im fine with it. However I would rather have all my hair since im a natural red head.
It's okay in the end it feels better to shave the head then keep the receiving hair. I shaved my head last month it was a shock but you get over it. I'm 23 by the way some people just have bad luck genetically
I started to bald in high school and just started shaving it in my 20's and never looked back. I agree with you completely about the beard combo grew out my beard a few years ago and love my beard
I just ran across this because I was catching up on your podcast driving into work and all I need to ask is where is the ❤ button! My hairline was receding several years ago and I was so nervous going shaved. Bottom line is at the barbershop I was afraid to look thinking I made a huge mistake, but a young lady with her little boy getting a haircut looked over and said “that looks awesome; you look at least ten years younger”. Since I became a grandpa a couple of years ago I went with a neatly trimmed short chin beard and mustache and feel so much better about myself, plus I’ve gotten a lot more attention recently from women which is really nice. Making the decision to embrace being bald absolutely helped with my self confidence. Love your content, presentation and style Courtney!
@@viper62967 I respectfully disagree, as Courtney creates these videos for us to learn from her insights, not to mention are incredible ones. If people just sit around and do nothing apart from wishing for more Courtneys would fall from the sky, it would be far from sufficient to make a profound, lasting difference in this world, defeating the fundamental reason why she’s here so generously making these amazing videos for us!!
I'm glad you made this video. I started balding at 17 and I'm 24 now. I lost quite a bit of confidence from it. I would notice people looking at by hair, I didn't like it at all.
I can't stress enough how much of a difference it makes being bald with a tan and a nicely lined up beard. I went to a club in Miami after I got a tan and lined my beard up and lots of women were looking at me. And we met a group of girls and the blonde girl was so attracted to me she kept flirting with me the whole night lol. Also working out and tattoos helps as well.
This is especially true for women who are 25+. Guys get huffy about shaving it off because the girls who are 17-24 mostly prefer guys with hair, given that they prefer guys in their general age range. But bald works well when it's done right. You have to be in shape, get a tan, and have some sense of style. If you're out-of-shape, no muscle, weak as a kitten, ghost white, wearing a dollar-store t-shirt, nothing will work for you. I've been shaving it off since I started receding and I've never struggled for female attention.
Hi from Brisbane, Australia - I'm in my late thirties and have been shaving my head since in my late 20's and have embraced baldness since even when I had a full head of hair? Yes I'm married now, but when single, I'd always been able to meet, and have fulfilling intimate relationships with plenty of women. Even more so than my peers who sported a full head of hair! The fact that I'm 6'3", in shape, and well-groomed may also helps there I guess. But the key to being totally bald is confidence, and pride in one's appearance in how you look and that in itself will overcome any hurdle thrown up in life.
@@raytracer5726Depends on the guys bone structure/looks .... A very good-looking guy with a bald head is still attractive but an ugly guy with great hair is still unattractive .....(subjective) ... simply look at the best looking men when they've shaved their head for a season or so .... channing tatum, Tom Hardy, the rock , David Beckham, models etc ... they're still very good-looking.... if it suits a guy it suits them ...less attractive guys that relied on hair may struggle with a bald head .... 👍
I had thick hair until a few years ago and it started thinning on top so I just went for the no guard buzz. It was such a relief when I embraced this look. Add some style to your wardrobe like Courtney always advises and you’re onto a great look.
I started loosing my hair while in my teens during the big-hair decades of the 70s & 80s. I embraced what was naturally happening and refused to do the comb over. Thanks to celebrities like Michael Jordan rocking the shaved dome by the mid 80s, bald didn't seem so bad. I've never given my lack of hair a second thought and put all the money I've saved from salons by building a classy hat collection. Protect that top side, my friends.
When it comes to the ladies, I’ve shaved my head since I was about 19 & always had more success than my full head of hair friends, so it literally is about confidence & looking bad ass.
Awesome man. I’m quite tempted to shave mine bald, I have a good head of hair but I have some real beefy scars underneath from when I fractured my skull as a kid and would love to see what they look like with my head completely bald....probably gnarly and off-putting rather than sexy lol....who knows. Glad it’s worked so well for ya, doesn’t surprise me though as being bald is generally less common so if you rock it and it suits you then you’re bound to stand out from the crowd when it comes to attraction from females. Peace dude.
@@partlysimpson5154 I’m not gonna lie having some muscle definitely helps, but some ladies aren’t into that, guess it just comes down to the girls personal taste & how well you carry yourself.
@@alexanderbeck7953 did you give the bald look a go pal? It’s not for everyone but you can definitely look good rocking a bald head if you are confident doing it 👊🏻
@@martynscotton1020 no I haven’t yet sir, however I’ve had it really short...a grade or two away from being completely bald and that seems to suit me well and shows the scars...some people assume it’s weird tramlines or a haircut gone wrong but their idiots....it’s pretty obvious their massive actual scars....I could’ve died so it’s something I take pride in and wear as war wounds and a badge of honour....even though they weren’t caused by saving peoples lives or serving in war etc. Yes exactly mate, it’s all about confidence and being yourself. Like you said to the other chap about muscles....I reckon you’d be surprised most women actually love it and some won’t admit it but many think it’s attractive and are aroused by muscles and abs....some may be against it as they don’t want a long term partner looking like it due to all the undeniable attention from other women...especially in terms of marriage and having children etc etc....that’s the main thing that comes to my mind trying to look at it from a female perspective. Peace
@@Guus115 thanks so much man. I actually dont. That pic is from when I first started shaving, I would let it grow 2-3 days between shaves. But for the past 3 years, I've been shaving it clean every single day. BEST decision I ever made. Not a fan of SMP
I appreciate you Courtney and your awesome content.because you mentioned confidence several times I thought I would share. I accepted the fact early in highschool that I would probably be bald. But what I desire to share with you is this. Even being bald it took confidence to shave my head. I had to do mental gymnastics with the thought and then one day I did it. Interestingly I never regretted it. I don't faithfully shave everyday anymore but if I want a little boost to my grooming to boost my confidence I start with shaving my head. I'm letting my beard grow Long for the third time in my life. This time will be different. Blessings Courtney, we love you.
I started to lose hair around 20 years old, and now, almost 10 years later, it's one of the best things that could ever happen to me. It's a blessing in disguise.
You're looking good from the photo. I lost my hair too, ironically I put more effort in my hair now shaving it than I ever did maintaining it before. I have the same beard style too.
Hey Filip! I totally agree with you. At first I viewed it as a curse but nowadays I regard it as a blessing since I completely transformed from a rather insecure balding young chap to a self-confidence young man.
Thanks for the video. I'm 46 and have thinning hair in my crown area. Hid it for a few years with longer hair on top. But I was always worried about the bald spot showing. I decided to go ahead and try shaving it a few months ago. And, I really like it. I feel free!
When I was in my 20s, people asked me all the time, "Do you shave your head or are you loosing your hair?". My answer was, "I'm losing hair but I used to shave even when I had hair." I realized that was a total turn off answer. Got a Scalp Micro Pigmentation 4 years ago. Now nobody asks me if I shave my head because I'm losing my hair. Every bald guy can use a subtle Scalp Micropigmentation.
@Edi B I work in retail and when someone bald or balding comes in the boss sometimes shows them my head and they think I'm chatting bs when I tell them that it's a tattoo.
I been bald over half of my life I been told I'm handsome too I'm well groomed my dress code is on point I'm -65 years old been told I look like I'm in my 30's and 40's life is great for me Courtney im loving your videos thank you so much
Hi from Brisbane, Australia - Great video and sentiments. Thank you. I'm in my late thirties and have been shaving my head since I was in my late 20's and have embraced baldness since even when I had a full head of hair? Yes I'm married now, but when single, I'd always been able to meet, and have fulfilling intimate relationships with plenty of women. Even more so than my peers who sported a full head of hair! The fact that I'm 6'3", in shape, and well-groomed may also help there I guess. But the key to being totally bald is confidence, and pride in one's appearance in how you look and that in itself will overcome any hurdle thrown up in life.
Started shaving my head around 2004; kept doing it. When I see a man struggling with the thinning/receding hair, I sometimes suggest shaving their head and about a third of the men say the shape of their doesn't look bald. @Courtney, you might have a follow-up video addressing men who would like to shave their head, but feel the shape of their head doesn't look good bald.
This is the only intelligent comment so far. Everyone else is simping over her. If they are being desperate simps, they are not going to pull off the bald look.
I started shaving my head a few days ago, so the timing of this video is perfect. I guess it kind of affirmed to me that I made the right decision. BTW, great channel!
*I started shaving my head 8 years ago, so great because no "donut" look, no shampoo, no comb or brush, no umbrella, and no more expensive haircuts !!!*
Once you finally shave it off, that's one thing off your head. Seriously, it's less to think about and you can focus on other things. Less stress means more sleep and supports healthy testosterone, so you can focus on your diet and taking care of yourself. It's really a snowball effect, I can't stress enough how my health has improved in the year I've been shaving it and that added lean muscle really complements my new look.
I have Alopecia Areata. When I shave my head, all it takes is one day of missing the shave and people stare at the weird asymmetric patches where there's no stubble.
I have been binge watching your videos for the past couple of days and I can’t get enough of them! I was also thinking that you should do a video of signs that you’re being curved if you haven’t already. Keep up the great work!!!
Being bald for me with a little scruff beard works trust me from experience. It’s all about though what makes you look best. Also being in shape helps. And dressing good/decently like you got your sh*t together. Makes you seem like a grown man on a mission. Young girls don’t like it as much, but grown woman love it. You’re a man’s man. My bald fellas
Totally, as a heterosexual guy with a FULL head of hair at 37 I think bald looks great. The only reason this video exists is some girls are way too picky about hair (still doesn't make sense to me, means more testosterone).
Hi saw your comment. If you can grow a moustache and chin hair that's a good sign because you can look on TH-cam and there are different ways you can increase your facial hair like micro needling with serums I did it for my cheeks and it actually worked for me it came through thicker
This is spot on Courtney, I have more ladies approaching me now then when I had hair, also photo's of me before and after are proof its a good look guys, cheers!
Women actually approach you? Where do they approach you? How tall are you? Do you have one of those square iron jaws with giant shoulders? Bro, you gotta give more info. Women do not approach even the most attractive guys. You gotta be like a billionaire or something.
I gained more confidence when I lost my hair. After that, I knew if I got a girl she would be with me for reasons more sustainable than just physical attraction. Been married 10 years.
Never clicked on one of your videos so quickly. I'm not wringing my hands over it, but I know that the tide is receeding and we're approaching decision-making time here. Thanks for the valuable perspective as always, Courtney.
@@55Porter Why would you recommend a drug that can cause permanent sexual dysfunction, depression, and breast enlargement in men??? Just let the hair go, it's a battle you aren't going to win anyway.
Look up Bald Cafe. He will help encourage you that it is not the end of the world. I started with a buzz and moved to the razor shave and love it now. Balding is never a good look imo. Go bald and don't look back. Epictetus said something like "why should I worry about the baldness of my head? I can't control it, and everyone can see my baldness. And what kind of person would point out and mock that which all can see? Only an ignoramus."
@@CaneFu all that's overblown. The vast majority of people who take it at 1mg or less per day experience no side effects. Many others who do return to normal after they stop. It's just a miniscule percentage of people who try it one time and end up permanently messed up. If keeping hair is important to someone it's probably worth a shot.
Courtney sweetie, for being only 25, you clearly have wisdom far beyond your age. Keep on keeping on darlin. You are the definition of Precocious. Your insight is most impressive.
I've been bald for 30 years and have shaved my head every day since. I also have a one day growth beard. My wife and other women tell me it looks great, so If you are undecided about going all the way don't hesitate, get it done, you won't regret it. Above all for the sake of everyone on planet Earth, avoid the dreaded comb over it looks ridiculous.
That is doubly accurate for fear of rejection by women. I used to try to get random women's numbers in my early 20s. I stopped doing that by my mid 20s. But my dating life has been very anemic due to the fact that I work in the defense industry which is 90% male dominated so I don't really meet women. I just tried to get a date with a cashier at a local store this past week. I have not dated anyone that was not a friend of a friend for about 16 years. It was such a positive experience because a nice person turned me down and my day was not any worse for it. If only I could go back to my 20s. So many missed opportunities. The funny thing is that all those "missed opportunities" that most of guys like to recall might have been rejections also. But at least, we would not have had the regret.
My husband is bald with a beard which I find very attractive and I think he takes care of his scalp and beard more than I do for my hair. He started losing his hair in his late 20s so he's been bald since I knew him but I've seen pictures of him in late teens early 20s before that and I like the way he looks better bald than he did with a full head of hair.
It’s all about how you carry yourself. Hair or no hair. Most of my friends are bald and their gfs and wives are very attractive. Just workout, have a good skincare routine, and carry yourself the right way. You’ll attract who you’re supposed to attract . No need to overthink it.
I appreciate the video, but being bald sucks. Everyone I’ve ever seen with hair that later lost it looks worse without hair, including myself. Hair makes a big difference in appearance and I can’t lie to myself and pretend it’s not a big deal.
Back in high school I shaved my head completely bald. It was so surprising but I’ve never received more compliments about it and especially from older women. If you’re considering shaving your head go for it!!
Losing one's hair happens, and yes, it can be a emotional hurdle in manhood. That said, it doesn't really affect anything. I mean, every guy has some reaction to losing or not losing his hair. I've tried Minoxidil, and Finasteride, but I'm happier that I still don't wear glasses at 45. You come up with coping mechanisms because it's a drag getting old. Don't sweat it. You will be attractive to whomever will find you attractive whether or not you have hair.
A great option is SMP (Scalp Micropigmentation), it's not cheap but works great. End result will look like you have a shaved head-not bald. People are shocked when I tell them it's not real hair, just looks like it. It really helped me, and changed my whole look.
I been bald since I was 22. It was rough when I first saw it happening. But it Never stopped me for a minute with women. Shave your heads and rock it with pride and confidence! Stay hard! Hahaha
My hair had been thinning and receding so I simply buzzed it low with a fade and letting my facial hair grow more and honestly I’ve gotten more attention from women ever since lol
As someone who hung on waaay to long to a thinning and receding hairline before taking the plunge to a clean shave, my advice is do it sooner rather than later! My biggest problem was that my scalp had never seen the sun so when I first shaved it looked like I was wearing a comedy Dr. Evil bald cap (I swear, it was as white as a sheet of paper!). It’s taken about 3 years to start blending in to the skin tone of my face (admittedly I live in the UK so that might have something to do with it). Now I’ve got used to it, all the reasons for doing it in this video are 💯 true! Matched up with styled facial hair that suits you and a classic smart wardrobe, you really can’t go wrong!
@@lloydkline1518 There are women out there who are hot for grey hair also;) I quess it's about how you act out there. I've had bald long before I lost my hair so i dont even remember how it was when I had hair. One thing is a fact. If you dress like a member of right wing aryan skinhead, and you're not, you may meet ladies you dont even wanna meet. 😂
@@saminevalainen3554 I was talking about the michial jordan look;; I know he a billionaire & celebrity:: etc etc he shave all his hair before he was 40;; Grey hair once a certain age everybody gets Grey hair::;; it about how woman & men wear it;;; age has more to do with skin decline : people skin chances with age ; people can dye your hair;; however even 💄 cannot help.skin decline
@@saminevalainen3554 hair is more of a woman thing ;; long hair is a young man thing; it ages does not look good;; short or bald head great;; grey hair issue is more of a woman thing ;;my mother dye her Grey hair
I started balding in my 20's. It took me 2 years to build up the courage to shave my head. As soon as I did it I felt and looked 10 years younger and so the confidence shot up. I started doing quite well with women. Do it!!
I shaved my head at 21. Being bald is great. I've never had an issue with being bald. But not having a choice is more difficult. The desire to maintain control.
I started losing my hair at age 18, then while in college I shaved my head. The women in my classes stopped conversing with me. Later on, one woman, at a distance, asked me if I was going through chemotherapy treatments.
@@donaldhutchison4652 but that's his lived experience. That's what he went through. It's OK to voice that. It's not all roses. This girl is sugar coating things.
All that means is you don't have enough weight on you. Put some muscle on at the opposite would happen. I've shaved my head off and on since high school and the hottest women I've dated are from when I've shaved my head, helps to have a stocky frame even WITHOUT a beard.
Good one Courtney! I rocked the bald look in the USMC for a while. I liked it. Got the head for it. Used to go into Oceanside CA every weekend for a strait razor head and face shave. Now at 43 I go with the high fade. I learned to cut my own hair many years ago while in the USMC. Saved lots of money this way. However every other month or so I'll go to a stylist to tighten it up if needed.
Courtney - thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am "follically challenged" and it does hit you in the gut initially regarding confidence. However, it was something I couldn't change. However, I could change my fitness. I go to the gym daily and due to my passion, I am actually stronger and in better shape than younger guys. Thus, I think my being bald actually pushed me to be more fit if that makes any sense. Thanks for being a true lady. I enjoy your videos!
He had hair when he liberated the continent. He went bald later on in his life. Having hair is a prerequisite for liberating continents. If he was bald during the war, that continent would have told him to get the hell away and shamed him for all the things that men have ever done to women. They would have sided with their oppressor (the bad boy) and put a positive spin on all the bad guy's bad behavior.
I used to have long, curly hair in my 20s. In a ponytail, it could stretch out to just about get down to my belt. First thing that started to go was the typical bald spot towards the back of my head. With the longer hair, it wasn’t as visible. Then, when the front started receding, too, I knew it was time to give it up. Luckily, I’ve always been able to grow a pretty good beard!
Once a guy goes bald and is comfortable with it, and confident. There is nothing you can do that will make him feel low about himself. Hats of to confident bald men that carry themselves with respect and confidence.
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😂 I'm one big ball of low self esteem but my baldness hasn't caused that
Baldness should be consider as a disability.
Reporting in.
I became a bald guy last week, well, hmm, but I'm not gonna stay bald, I'm gonna keep a buzz cut. I guess that does not count as bald.
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When I started losing my hair, I had anxiety about it during two years.
Then, the day I shaved it all, this anxiety disappeared. I did not feel any change in my ability to attract women. I was bald when I met my wife and now I have two children with her.
Just embracing it completely, being one with your baldness, makes you more mature and makes you learn that true confidence is indeed the key.
I know who I am, my strengths and my weaknesses, I know my place in this world. Baldness is a detail.
I hope you guys having that anxiety will also overcome it. Life after it is great.
I will kill myself if it continues
For my bald brothers with beards, make sure you keep it oiled and clean. And don’t forget the skincare routine!
Amen.
I totally agree. I been doing the basics when it comes to skin care but I would like to know any suggestions to keeping your skin clear and refreshed.
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Well said on point!!!
@@Treisiess hahahahahahahaha
She said she would make a video on it...
And she delivered!!!
So you mean she shaved her hairs ?
I'm interested to see that !
Proudly married to a balding KING! He's killing it! OWN YOU, confidence is everything!
Thank you for this Courtney. I’ve been shaving my head for years. I started losing my hair at 24, and even before then, my hair line was super high up. Took me a long time to grow secure in that. So one day I shaved it off, I dug the look and have not looked back.
27 to 28 age started for me
@@AsimKhan-hz5kr did it take you a while to fully embrace? I went through a bit of a denial period. But I’m so much happier since shaving my head. Courtney is absolutely right about this.
Same story here. I actually prefer myself now with a shaved head.
My hair is currently receding. I'm 28 but don't mind it at all. I love it.
Mine was going at about 17-18
I decided to shave my head 2 months ago after accepting my receding hairline. Best decision I've made. No regrets 😁
You need to go to the gym, and make those triceps big,
I'm sure you might have heard this compliment a lot before, but again lemme tell it, YOU HAVE SUCH A SWEET VOICE Courtney! 😊
I adopted the completely bald look 20 years ago when my hair was seriously thinning, I've never looked back and the confidence boost you get is great. Thank you for your endorsement Courtney. 😎
I literally came across this vid after just shaving my head. I've been doing this for about a year or so. I grew a short beard. Never felt more confident about my look. Thank You for this video, Courtney! :)
Bless you for making this video, fortunately for me I took the plunge 3 years ago but held off far too long prior to that but it was the best choice I could have made for myself. The confidence that follows after embracing it is real. It was a major paradigm shift for me in many aspects of my life.
THANK YOU for being a female voice to support men who are still going through it. You’re a real one
That's how it goes, I held off for far too long as well. Wore hats night and day, worried about someone making a comment 24/7 and the rare time when I had to take the cap off any small breeze would instantly flop my "bangs" up or to the side revealing not my 4head, but my 5 and 6head. lol I'd take bald guy over Balding guy any day of the week.
I've been doing the bald head/beard thing for a few years....and can definitively say that women compliment me a lot on it .
Not me
Fine. Do any of them date you?
Thank you so much Courtney for touching on this subject. Losing your hair is depressing but I think You just boosted the confidence of thousands of men including myself!
I'm 34 and started losing my hair in my late 20s. Started using hair fibers to make it look like my hair is still full. It sucks to do it but, I'm scared I wont be attractive. This video gave me the confidence boost I needed to take the step and go bald.
Did you do it ?
Just do it bro. I did it. No regrets after. Have had so many compliments from women. Just be confident. Women love it. You got this
@@tylershubert1596 I'm gonna have to do it soon. I'm so depressed man, there's this beautiful girl that's entered my life, like I would marry her if I had the chance. I'm just scared once I go bald she'll lose all attraction to me ( I usually have longer hair)
@@Samplaceholderhow is out going
I used hair fibers for years, and they truly are a game-changer. However, the major downside is the fibers need hair to attach to (obviously), so the more you less, the less convincing it looks. My "wakeup call" was seeing a pic of me out with some friends, and realizing my hair looked like it was littered with sawdust. It looked so unnatural, to the point I buzzed my head afterwards. Haven't looked back since.
As someone who is genetically disposed to being bald, it seriously isn't bad at all. I had the widows peak early 20s, thinned crown mid 20s and finally shaved it smooth at 30 and been that way ever since. It is easy maintenance, looks good and most women seriously don't mind. Combovers suck. Thanks for your vote of confidence Courtney.
Hey guys,
I'm 27 and have full alopecia - a condition which means I have no hair AT ALL on my whole body. It took a long time to "accept" myself both internally and externally, and in many ways that adjustment is still a work in progress. Don't stress about shaving your head, it's the universe's way of speeding up your self-improvement journey to become the real you. It's a gift. The inner man in you wants to break free and manifest himself. Embrace it, for your own sake. People hide behind all kinds of things, including hair. Life has been made simpler for you. Focus on what's important and reclaim a higher power !!!!! Peace and love ✌🏼
Courtney, your channel is a breath of fresh air and so refreshing to see as a man. Keep it up !
You are a true gem! ❤️ thank you for sharing this. Glad you’re here! 😊
Hey man! I'm late to see this comment but I also developed alopecia universalis on my whole body at age 29 out of nowhere, it's been almost 5 years now since I've lost it all and the worst part has been the lack of eyebrows/eyelashes, I couldn't care less about the hair on top of my head personally lol. I hope all is well with you! I've never had the opportunity to talk to anyone else who has exactly what I have.
That was a powerful message, sir. I hope that you are doing great.
Thank you so much Courtney, Lincoln and Homer 🤍 big love 🙏🏼
@@apelincoln8427I feel the same way! I lost all mine in 2020. I have family with it so I knew it was going to happen.
Thanks, Courtney. I started going bald when I was 19 yrs old. I tried to hold on to it but then I just shaved it all off and I did feel better about myself. Thank you for making this video. It definitely helps us guys out a lot to hear this kind of thing from a sweet, attractive girl like you.
I started to getting bald when I was 23, now I have 30 and got problems with self-esteem related to it. This is the first video that I watch from this channel and I loved it, thanks for this content, I will start to change my perspective from now on. Greetings from Brazil!
A video I needed to see, as someone who really struggled with losing hair at 19. (I’m 35 now, safe to say I embraced it). Thank you, love your videos!
blame your daddy (and mom!)
@@whiterabbit1632 technically it’s the mom who Carries the genes of losing hair. Not the father. I know because all my brothers including me is bald. And other men on my mom’s side of the family. But my dads side, all the men, including him still have a full head of hair.
I’m glad she didn’t leave us bald guys out. Keep it going Ms. Ryan
I've had a bald head by choice for the last two years. I'm not losing my hair, I just thought I'd try it one day and I've loved it ever since.
I love being bald. It's the best.
the same case over here. You’re going to grow your hair back anyway, so why not try something new.
I can’t imagine why anyone would choose this. I would do anything to have all of my hair
@@johnmooney2086 I had the male pattern baldness that didn't look good so just shaved it off and have kept it that way and im fine with it. However I would rather have all my hair since im a natural red head.
I had no idea going bald in your mid 20s was such an emotionally painful experience. I try to be adult about it but it's crushing my mind.
Same I be depressed about it 😔
I feel you bro I'm 39 and getting thin in the front
I was the same, but shaved it off years ago and it’s the best thing I ever did. Check out Bald Cafe - you’ll be ok man 🙂🌞
It's okay in the end it feels better to shave the head then keep the receiving hair. I shaved my head last month it was a shock but you get over it. I'm 23 by the way some people just have bad luck genetically
Get a hair transplant bro save up for it. Usually costs 10k to 15k.
The day I went bald I was self conscious about it on the first day. Afterwards I never looked back since.
I started to bald in high school and just started shaving it in my 20's and never looked back. I agree with you completely about the beard combo grew out my beard a few years ago and love my beard
I just ran across this because I was catching up on your podcast driving into work and all I need to ask is where is the ❤ button! My hairline was receding several years ago and I was so nervous going shaved. Bottom line is at the barbershop I was afraid to look thinking I made a huge mistake, but a young lady with her little boy getting a haircut looked over and said “that looks awesome; you look at least ten years younger”. Since I became a grandpa a couple of years ago I went with a neatly trimmed short chin beard and mustache and feel so much better about myself, plus I’ve gotten a lot more attention recently from women which is really nice. Making the decision to embrace being bald absolutely helped with my self confidence. Love your content, presentation and style Courtney!
We need more Courtney's in the world.
With all due respect, I think it's rather that more people need to learn from Courtney's fine example!
@@jmwoods190 Nah, we need more Courtneys
@@viper62967 I respectfully disagree, as Courtney creates these videos for us to learn from her insights, not to mention are incredible ones. If people just sit around and do nothing apart from wishing for more Courtneys would fall from the sky, it would be far from sufficient to make a profound, lasting difference in this world, defeating the fundamental reason why she’s here so generously making these amazing videos for us!!
One of my cousins names is Courtney. She's amazing and beautiful and funny.
@@keithscommunityanddomestic9513 So you're Courtney's cousin. Cool!
I'm glad you made this video. I started balding at 17 and I'm 24 now. I lost quite a bit of confidence from it. I would notice people looking at by hair, I didn't like it at all.
I can't stress enough how much of a difference it makes being bald with a tan and a nicely lined up beard. I went to a club in Miami after I got a tan and lined my beard up and lots of women were looking at me. And we met a group of girls and the blonde girl was so attracted to me she kept flirting with me the whole night lol. Also working out and tattoos helps as well.
Let me guess. You're above 6'2"
@@michaelboston5589nah I’m 6 ft
Parece ser meio comum moças loiras gostarem de homens carecas.
@@michaelboston5589 do you think hair gonna safe you from being short?
@@bangbob673 I'd rather be 5'8" with good hair than be 6' without hair
This is especially true for women who are 25+. Guys get huffy about shaving it off because the girls who are 17-24 mostly prefer guys with hair, given that they prefer guys in their general age range. But bald works well when it's done right. You have to be in shape, get a tan, and have some sense of style. If you're out-of-shape, no muscle, weak as a kitten, ghost white, wearing a dollar-store t-shirt, nothing will work for you. I've been shaving it off since I started receding and I've never struggled for female attention.
Women who are 40+ accept bald guys because good looking men dont want 40+ old women, so they accept what they can get.
Women younger than 40 prefer men with hair, apart from the ones with bald fetish (who are a small small minority).
Hi from Brisbane, Australia - I'm in my late thirties and have been shaving my head since in my late 20's and have embraced baldness since even when I had a full head of hair? Yes I'm married now, but when single, I'd always been able to meet, and have fulfilling intimate relationships with plenty of women. Even more so than my peers who sported a full head of hair! The fact that I'm 6'3", in shape, and well-groomed may also helps there I guess. But the key to being totally bald is confidence, and pride in one's appearance in how you look and that in itself will overcome any hurdle thrown up in life.
So basically it's a huge disadvantage that has to be compensated by a whole range of other positive attributes?
Got it.
@@raytracer5726Depends on the guys bone structure/looks .... A very good-looking guy with a bald head is still attractive but an ugly guy with great hair is still unattractive .....(subjective) ... simply look at the best looking men when they've shaved their head for a season or so .... channing tatum, Tom Hardy, the rock , David Beckham, models etc ... they're still very good-looking.... if it suits a guy it suits them ...less attractive guys that relied on hair may struggle with a bald head .... 👍
I had thick hair until a few years ago and it started thinning on top so I just went for the no guard buzz. It was such a relief when I embraced this look. Add some style to your wardrobe like Courtney always advises and you’re onto a great look.
Agree with you 100% - thanks for reinforcing these points with the rest of the guys out there - love your channel
I started loosing my hair while in my teens during the big-hair decades of the 70s & 80s. I embraced what was naturally happening and refused to do the comb over. Thanks to celebrities like Michael Jordan rocking the shaved dome by the mid 80s, bald didn't seem so bad. I've never given my lack of hair a second thought and put all the money I've saved from salons by building a classy hat collection. Protect that top side, my friends.
When it comes to the ladies, I’ve shaved my head since I was about 19 & always had more success than my full head of hair friends, so it literally is about confidence & looking bad ass.
Awesome man. I’m quite tempted to shave mine bald, I have a good head of hair but I have some real beefy scars underneath from when I fractured my skull as a kid and would love to see what they look like with my head completely bald....probably gnarly and off-putting rather than sexy lol....who knows. Glad it’s worked so well for ya, doesn’t surprise me though as being bald is generally less common so if you rock it and it suits you then you’re bound to stand out from the crowd when it comes to attraction from females. Peace dude.
this is what we hear, go to gym bla bla bla..what if bald man dont hit gym? Game over i guess
@@partlysimpson5154 I’m not gonna lie having some muscle definitely helps, but some ladies aren’t into that, guess it just comes down to the girls personal taste & how well you carry yourself.
@@alexanderbeck7953 did you give the bald look a go pal?
It’s not for everyone but you can definitely look good rocking a bald head if you are confident doing it 👊🏻
@@martynscotton1020 no I haven’t yet sir, however I’ve had it really short...a grade or two away from being completely bald and that seems to suit me well and shows the scars...some people assume it’s weird tramlines or a haircut gone wrong but their idiots....it’s pretty obvious their massive actual scars....I could’ve died so it’s something I take pride in and wear as war wounds and a badge of honour....even though they weren’t caused by saving peoples lives or serving in war etc. Yes exactly mate, it’s all about confidence and being yourself. Like you said to the other chap about muscles....I reckon you’d be surprised most women actually love it and some won’t admit it but many think it’s attractive and are aroused by muscles and abs....some may be against it as they don’t want a long term partner looking like it due to all the undeniable attention from other women...especially in terms of marriage and having children etc etc....that’s the main thing that comes to my mind trying to look at it from a female perspective. Peace
FINALLY! Some love for us bald bros out here 🥰
U look good bro! Did u have some SMP?
You look awesome!
@@Guus115 thanks so much man. I actually dont. That pic is from when I first started shaving, I would let it grow 2-3 days between shaves. But for the past 3 years, I've been shaving it clean every single day. BEST decision I ever made. Not a fan of SMP
@@CourtneyRyan thanks Courtney. You’re the best 😏
🙏🙌
I appreciate you Courtney and your awesome content.because you mentioned confidence several times I thought I would share. I accepted the fact early in highschool that I would probably be bald. But what I desire to share with you is this. Even being bald it took confidence to shave my head. I had to do mental gymnastics with the thought and then one day I did it. Interestingly I never regretted it. I don't faithfully shave everyday anymore but if I want a little boost to my grooming to boost my confidence I start with shaving my head. I'm letting my beard grow Long for the third time in my life. This time will be different. Blessings Courtney, we love you.
"If you're someone who's been thinking about shaving your head, now's your time to *shine*..." -- I SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE 🤣
Wow! another quote comment!
8:57
I just shaved my head last night, and I am feeling off about it, so I appreciate the confidence boost!
I started to lose hair around 20 years old, and now, almost 10 years later, it's one of the best things that could ever happen to me. It's a blessing in disguise.
You're looking good from the photo.
I lost my hair too, ironically I put more effort in my hair now shaving it than I ever did maintaining it before. I have the same beard style too.
@@cwill6491 thank you. Same here, now I have to shave it every 3-4 days. And our beard style is the best, I see more and more people rocking it.
Hey Filip! I totally agree with you. At first I viewed it as a curse but nowadays I regard it as a blessing since I completely transformed from a rather insecure balding young chap to a self-confidence young man.
Beard + bald is better than hair and I have a full head of hair.
@@mattblom3990 no, beard + hair is the best combo.
This lady gave me more confidence in my look than ive had in years. Thank you
I’m bald and with facial hair … yes what you told in this video is true … thanks for taking up this topic … many thanks:)
Thanks for the video. I'm 46 and have thinning hair in my crown area. Hid it for a few years with longer hair on top. But I was always worried about the bald spot showing. I decided to go ahead and try shaving it a few months ago. And, I really like it. I feel free!
Same here mate
When I was in my 20s, people asked me all the time, "Do you shave your head or are you loosing your hair?". My answer was, "I'm losing hair but I used to shave even when I had hair." I realized that was a total turn off answer. Got a Scalp Micro Pigmentation 4 years ago. Now nobody asks me if I shave my head because I'm losing my hair. Every bald guy can use a subtle Scalp Micropigmentation.
Same here man, got smp done, best decision ever. More people need to get on this
@Edi B I work in retail and when someone bald or balding comes in the boss sometimes shows them my head and they think I'm chatting bs when I tell them that it's a tattoo.
@Edi B Its not just the money, its 6 hours of needles penetrating your scalp. It gives you a frame to your face and you won't look like a dickhead.
No, you save your hair
Divorced, 39, bald with a beard. Best thing that ever happened to me.
The holy trinity 😂
People call it being bald, I call it being aerodynamic.
@Fugeeface Entropy Yup. Sad for all of the hairy guys left in the dust. 🤭
It's so aerodynamic
Copedynamic
U ain't McGregor Brother !
I just shaved my hair off due to male pattern baldnessa few days ago! What great timing! Cheers and thanks
I been bald over half of my life I been told I'm handsome too I'm well groomed my dress code is on point I'm -65 years old been told I look like I'm in my 30's and 40's life is great for me Courtney im loving your videos thank you so much
Hi from Brisbane, Australia - Great video and sentiments. Thank you.
I'm in my late thirties and have been shaving my head since I was in my late 20's and have embraced baldness since even when I had a full head of hair? Yes I'm married now, but when single, I'd always been able to meet, and have fulfilling intimate relationships with plenty of women. Even more so than my peers who sported a full head of hair! The fact that I'm 6'3", in shape, and well-groomed may also help there I guess. But the key to being totally bald is confidence, and pride in one's appearance in how you look and that in itself will overcome any hurdle thrown up in life.
Hello to my bald brothers throughout the world , much love from England Uk
I feel so warm and fuzzy inside listening to you in this video. I've rocked the bald bearded look for 8 years now
Started shaving my head around 2004; kept doing it. When I see a man struggling with the thinning/receding hair, I sometimes suggest shaving their head and about a third of the men say the shape of their doesn't look bald. @Courtney, you might have a follow-up video addressing men who would like to shave their head, but feel the shape of their head doesn't look good bald.
This is the only intelligent comment so far. Everyone else is simping over her. If they are being desperate simps, they are not going to pull off the bald look.
I started shaving my head a few days ago, so the timing of this video is perfect. I guess it kind of affirmed to me that I made the right decision. BTW, great channel!
Own it my friend. Once I shaved it I never looked back. Wish I had done it 5 years earlier
@@andyknight4175 I like it so far.
You seem very emotionally mature and intelligent for 25. Great video, I'm 25 and shaving my head too because my hairline went at 22.
So you have bad genes....
@@whiterabbit1632 well you’re a rabbit I don’t know what’s worse.
@@whiterabbit1632 nothing really matters bro!
In the end we are all gonna die what ever your genns are
Thank you for the honest opinion, great content Ms. Courtney
I love my bald head. Best decision I ever made. Really dont give a damn if anyone else doesnt like it. I did it for me.
*I started shaving my head 8 years ago, so great because no "donut" look, no shampoo, no comb or brush, no umbrella, and no more expensive haircuts !!!*
Once you finally shave it off, that's one thing off your head. Seriously, it's less to think about and you can focus on other things. Less stress means more sleep and supports healthy testosterone, so you can focus on your diet and taking care of yourself. It's really a snowball effect, I can't stress enough how my health has improved in the year I've been shaving it and that added lean muscle really complements my new look.
I have Alopecia Areata. When I shave my head, all it takes is one day of missing the shave and people stare at the weird asymmetric patches where there's no stubble.
@@tastybrownie7448 I'm thinning at the front so definitely hear you there
I have been binge watching your videos for the past couple of days and I can’t get enough of them! I was also thinking that you should do a video of signs that you’re being curved if you haven’t already. Keep up the great work!!!
Being bald for me with a little scruff beard works trust me from experience. It’s all about though what makes you look best. Also being in shape helps. And dressing good/decently like you got your sh*t together. Makes you seem like a grown man on a mission. Young girls don’t like it as much, but grown woman love it. You’re a man’s man. My bald fellas
Well said Ryan.
Totally, as a heterosexual guy with a FULL head of hair at 37 I think bald looks great. The only reason this video exists is some girls are way too picky about hair (still doesn't make sense to me, means more testosterone).
LETS GO, this video is a freaking confidence boost that's for sure
*so true bald head looks so manly than having hair. the only issue with me is im asian and its hard to grow beard lol*
Not true, baldness and alien looks are the same thing, having hair is essential, not in your cock, in your hair I mean.
Hi saw your comment. If you can grow a moustache and chin hair that's a good sign because you can look on TH-cam and there are different ways you can increase your facial hair like micro needling with serums I did it for my cheeks and it actually worked for me it came through thicker
You don't need one.
kudus to you Courtney for tackling a sensitive subject.
This is spot on Courtney, I have more ladies approaching me now then when I had hair, also photo's of me before and after are proof its a good look guys, cheers!
Women actually approach you? Where do they approach you? How tall are you? Do you have one of those square iron jaws with giant shoulders? Bro, you gotta give more info. Women do not approach even the most attractive guys. You gotta be like a billionaire or something.
I gained more confidence when I lost my hair. After that, I knew if I got a girl she would be with me for reasons more sustainable than just physical attraction. Been married 10 years.
wtf what a beta sentence
@@felixw3806 it actually makes perfect sense
lol
@@felixw3806 _Félix W resumes eating Cheese puffs from his mom's basement as he sorts his Pokemon cards_
Thinking the same thing. It made me smile. Thanks.
Never clicked on one of your videos so quickly. I'm not wringing my hands over it, but I know that the tide is receeding and we're approaching decision-making time here. Thanks for the valuable perspective as always, Courtney.
You’re definitely not alone! Happy to help and thanks for being here 😊
Try getting on Finasteride while there's still hope! As long as you can tolerate it, it can help retain your hair.
@@55Porter Why would you recommend a drug that can cause permanent sexual dysfunction, depression, and breast enlargement in men??? Just let the hair go, it's a battle you aren't going to win anyway.
Look up Bald Cafe. He will help encourage you that it is not the end of the world. I started with a buzz and moved to the razor shave and love it now. Balding is never a good look imo. Go bald and don't look back. Epictetus said something like "why should I worry about the baldness of my head? I can't control it, and everyone can see my baldness. And what kind of person would point out and mock that which all can see? Only an ignoramus."
@@CaneFu all that's overblown. The vast majority of people who take it at 1mg or less per day experience no side effects. Many others who do return to normal after they stop. It's just a miniscule percentage of people who try it one time and end up permanently messed up. If keeping hair is important to someone it's probably worth a shot.
Courtney sweetie, for being only 25, you clearly have wisdom far beyond your age. Keep on keeping on darlin. You are the definition of Precocious. Your insight is most impressive.
I've been bald for 30 years and have shaved my head every day since. I also have a one day growth beard. My wife and other women tell me it looks great, so If you are undecided about going all the way don't hesitate, get it done, you won't regret it. Above all for the sake of everyone on planet Earth, avoid the dreaded comb over it looks ridiculous.
Ok so I’m literally binge watching this channel Bc I just got my heart broke💔 and low key is making me feel a little happier
The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.
True!!
That is doubly accurate for fear of rejection by women. I used to try to get random women's numbers in my early 20s. I stopped doing that by my mid 20s. But my dating life has been very anemic due to the fact that I work in the defense industry which is 90% male dominated so I don't really meet women. I just tried to get a date with a cashier at a local store this past week. I have not dated anyone that was not a friend of a friend for about 16 years. It was such a positive experience because a nice person turned me down and my day was not any worse for it. If only I could go back to my 20s. So many missed opportunities. The funny thing is that all those "missed opportunities" that most of guys like to recall might have been rejections also. But at least, we would not have had the regret.
I go back to this video everyone now and then, it helps, thank you
My husband is bald with a beard which I find very attractive and I think he takes care of his scalp and beard more than I do for my hair. He started losing his hair in his late 20s so he's been bald since I knew him but I've seen pictures of him in late teens early 20s before that and I like the way he looks better bald than he did with a full head of hair.
This girl knows how to TH-cam by telling an entire population of guys what they want to hear lol.
Lol
Works for me, champ
This video genuinely made me curious, especially because I shave my head. Just remember that her boyfriend has hair.
@@michaelellis772 so?
@@rockymckay1705 Trust actions, not words.
It’s all about how you carry yourself. Hair or no hair. Most of my friends are bald and their gfs and wives are very attractive. Just workout, have a good skincare routine, and carry yourself the right way. You’ll attract who you’re supposed to attract . No need to overthink it.
Thank you for all that you do for mens health and confidence. Thank you for your honest, caring and practicable advice.
I appreciate the video, but being bald sucks. Everyone I’ve ever seen with hair that later lost it looks worse without hair, including myself. Hair makes a big difference in appearance and I can’t lie to myself and pretend it’s not a big deal.
Back in high school I shaved my head completely bald. It was so surprising but I’ve never received more compliments about it and especially from older women. If you’re considering shaving your head go for it!!
Losing one's hair happens, and yes, it can be a emotional hurdle in manhood. That said, it doesn't really affect anything. I mean, every guy has some reaction to losing or not losing his hair. I've tried Minoxidil, and Finasteride, but I'm happier that I still don't wear glasses at 45. You come up with coping mechanisms because it's a drag getting old. Don't sweat it. You will be attractive to whomever will find you attractive whether or not you have hair.
A great option is SMP (Scalp Micropigmentation), it's not cheap but works great. End result will look like you have a shaved head-not bald. People are shocked when I tell them it's not real hair, just looks like it. It really helped me, and changed my whole look.
I been bald since I was 22. It was rough when I first saw it happening. But it Never stopped me for a minute with women. Shave your heads and rock it with pride and confidence! Stay hard! Hahaha
your voice is so calming
Baldness was initially hard to take, but actually the best thing. Love it, except if you're caught in hailstorm! 😂
her voice is like a calm to calm. so relaxing.
My hair had been thinning and receding so I simply buzzed it low with a fade and letting my facial hair grow more and honestly I’ve gotten more attention from women ever since lol
Haha me too
Yep it definitely works, a lot of people don't know that, also helps boost your self esteem.
Great video, it's nice to hear another woman's opinion on the subject of bald men
Now if the ladies were into bald guys with a dad bod, I'd be absolutely unstoppable 🤣
I’m a bald guy with a beard. Thanks for the self esteem boost!
*sees title
*rushes to barber shop
*walks towards barber
-Ayo, you know the rock?
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Barbar : say no more
The SmackDown was Layethed this day
@*Boss Status* lucky
@yamaneko lunardragon not perception bias at all. your assumption is invalid since he's explained that he's also heard it straight from their mouths
As someone who hung on waaay to long to a thinning and receding hairline before taking the plunge to a clean shave, my advice is do it sooner rather than later! My biggest problem was that my scalp had never seen the sun so when I first shaved it looked like I was wearing a comedy Dr. Evil bald cap (I swear, it was as white as a sheet of paper!).
It’s taken about 3 years to start blending in to the skin tone of my face (admittedly I live in the UK so that might have something to do with it).
Now I’ve got used to it, all the reasons for doing it in this video are 💯 true! Matched up with styled facial hair that suits you and a classic smart wardrobe, you really can’t go wrong!
Yes it’s true, there are women out there who are hot for bald guys!
Bold head has no gray hair
@@lloydkline1518 There are women out there who are hot for grey hair also;) I quess it's about how you act out there. I've had bald long before I lost my hair so i dont even remember how it was when I had hair. One thing is a fact. If you dress like a member of right wing aryan skinhead, and you're not, you may meet ladies you dont even wanna meet. 😂
@@saminevalainen3554 I was talking about the michial jordan look;; I know he a billionaire & celebrity:: etc etc he shave all his hair before he was 40;; Grey hair once a certain age everybody gets Grey hair::;; it about how woman & men wear it;;; age has more to do with skin decline : people skin chances with age ; people can dye your hair;; however even 💄 cannot help.skin decline
@@saminevalainen3554 hair is more of a woman thing ;; long hair is a young man thing; it ages does not look good;; short or bald head great;; grey hair issue is more of a woman thing ;;my mother dye her Grey hair
I started balding in my 20's. It took me 2 years to build up the courage to shave my head. As soon as I did it I felt and looked 10 years younger and so the confidence shot up. I started doing quite well with women. Do it!!
I shaved my head at 21. Being bald is great. I've never had an issue with being bald. But not having a choice is more difficult. The desire to maintain control.
It's only difficult if you find hair more attractive than being bald. I wouldn't go back to growing hair even if I could.
Kojak, aka Tele Savalas was way ahead of the game 50 years ago .
I started losing my hair at age 18, then while in college I shaved my head. The women in my classes stopped conversing with me. Later on, one woman, at a distance, asked me if I was going through chemotherapy treatments.
Bruh. You giving no one hope
@@donaldhutchison4652 but that's his lived experience. That's what he went through. It's OK to voice that. It's not all roses. This girl is sugar coating things.
All that means is you don't have enough weight on you. Put some muscle on at the opposite would happen. I've shaved my head off and on since high school and the hottest women I've dated are from when I've shaved my head, helps to have a stocky frame even WITHOUT a beard.
Trust me fellas she's not lying!! My father was a bald guy ...my mom and all his several women on the side would agree
as well 💪🪒💈
I actually started to get hit on and flirted with more after I went bald and started buzzing my head. Not a big deal at all.
Good one Courtney! I rocked the bald look in the USMC for a while. I liked it. Got the head for it. Used to go into Oceanside CA every weekend for a strait razor head and face shave. Now at 43 I go with the high fade. I learned to cut my own hair many years ago while in the USMC. Saved lots of money this way. However every other month or so I'll go to a stylist to tighten it up if needed.
I've always kept my hair very short since I joined the military. When I started to go bald, it was no problem at all - cut my hair even shorter!
Courtney - thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am "follically challenged" and it does hit you in the gut initially regarding confidence. However, it was something I couldn't change. However, I could change my fitness. I go to the gym daily and due to my passion, I am actually stronger and in better shape than younger guys. Thus, I think my being bald actually pushed me to be more fit if that makes any sense. Thanks for being a true lady. I enjoy your videos!
Just remember: Dwight Eisenhower was bald and that man liberated a continent!
And became president
Damn Straight!
He had hair when he liberated the continent. He went bald later on in his life. Having hair is a prerequisite for liberating continents. If he was bald during the war, that continent would have told him to get the hell away and shamed him for all the things that men have ever done to women. They would have sided with their oppressor (the bad boy) and put a positive spin on all the bad guy's bad behavior.
@@tastybrownie7448laughed a lot at that response!
I used to have long, curly hair in my 20s. In a ponytail, it could stretch out to just about get down to my belt. First thing that started to go was the typical bald spot towards the back of my head. With the longer hair, it wasn’t as visible. Then, when the front started receding, too, I knew it was time to give it up. Luckily, I’ve always been able to grow a pretty good beard!