As someone who has an easier time giving compliments. I want to share a few things that have helped me. -People always appreciate a genuine compliment. -If you compliment people sometimes you can see their demeanor changes towards you and their eyes sorta light up - Some people don't know how to respond or they will think you have ulterior motives (they just have been deceived so much that they don't trust good things about themselves or it can also be a low self esteem thing) - People are less defensive if you compliment them about their outfits so that's a good place to start - Just make the compliment and then start talking about something else. You don't need to stretch the conversation around the compliment unless the person you said it to carries it. Otherwise, it gets a bit weird for them. - Be yourself and point out things you really think is cool about the person. If there is no single thing then you can compliment their behavior or how they carry themselves. If that is also nothing interesting to you then just leave it. Better to be real than to be fake nice.
You are the first person I see saying that the reason why you should talk to others is to make their day better and, as a consequence, improving yourself, instead of doing it to get phone numbers or something. I like the fact that there is genuine good intention in it, not only interest on getting something back. Nice mindset bro. Greetings from Brazil
@@MohammedSelimec-xb9rh just because we can't measure human intention and emotion doesn't mean it's just imagination. Look up masaru emoto's water experiment human intention has a significant influence on things.
One thing I struggle with, is trusting people, I automatically assume everyone is a bad person and keep people distant. Unfortunately, its pretty bad at times as many people feel scared and uncomfortable around me, but then when I realise that person is a normal good person, I then start to talk to them and treat them like a respectable person. I have been recently trying to be more open towards strangers. I will keep watching to see if theres something I can try. May we all become better individuals 💪
100%. When I talk to people younger than 20 and even a good bit older, I notice that a looot of them struggle badly with holding eye contact and I’m sure it’ll just get worse as time goes
I have been working out for 3 years. I never approached anyone, man or woman, in the gym. I never made any friends in the gym and still dont have any in that gym. While on vacation in Europe, I approached one guy I wanted to be friend’s with. I was literally shaking and had really bad nerves. I never experienced this sort of reaction besides from school presentations but it shows that working out doesnt make you a giga deep voiced chad that can approach anyone. You have to force yourself to approach people sooner than later.
this guy approached me when the train got stuck and was smooth. we matched energy and he helped me get out of my comfort zone and open up. we LOVE when ya’ll initiate!
You make some great points and I agree. Nowadays, if you say, "Hi", more often than not, you are considered to be the, "weirdo". This erosion of basic communication between people actually a very bad sign on where the world is likely headed, and it is not going to be a good, fun or enjoyable place to be...talk about Hell on Earth!
People talked to much in the past before the smartphone. Don’t speak before spoken to was something we used to strive for. Today it’s the opposite. People need to speak up and stop cowering away in their smart phones. Just put it away when you’re in public. You’d be surprised how responsive people are when you speak first and look into their eyes. ❤️ Human beings thrive in engagement physically.
You don’t necessarily have to be best friends with everyone you meet but it’s good to keep good acquaintances in your life just tread lightly People are weird nowadays, you think someone won’t fuck you over and next thing you know you’re left disappointed …have no expectations of anyone and you won’t be let down is how I go about it
Seems this video came just in time for me. I’ve struggled with this most of my life. I was born in early 90s, so still had a childhood without cellphones, however being raised by narcissistic parents ruined my self esteem. I got called stupid a lot growing up and after being called something enough times you get brainwashed into believing it. Eventually I stopped believing that but the insecurity in initiating convos remained. I’ve always been someone who will give my all in a conversation, but not until someone’s initiated. It’s kept me from being able to make many friends. Thankfully with awareness I can start working on this now.
Bro I’ve never heard more facts spoken in my life. Im someone who lives much of my life in this way and I don’t want to be like this. Imma definitely work on this it’s such an easy way to begin to speak to people you’re an absolute g
Duude yes. 90% of my daily chats are me engaging them, i think about this a lot. I'm blown away if someone engages me on their own. Sometimes i do a test and dont engage when i normally would and yup, vast majority don't engage..must be social media and tech..different times
Even if I had a genuine compliment I would still be a bit nervous that the person may say thank you but after think "Weirdo" or "Creep" maybe Im over thinking it !
Great advice, man. It’s definitely a lost art, especially here in Japan. There are so many people in Tokyo, but everyone’s afraid to approach or start a conversation-probably because they’re shy, intimidated, etc.
Yeah those are undoubtedly the reasons. It has just gotten less and less of a thing people do as time goes on so it is much more intimidating now. Side note - I find it awesome you are watching this from Tokyo. I hope to visit one day soon.
He’s right but I’m too introverted to really care about talking to people. I really have no desire but if they approach I’ll be nice about it. But if you aren’t introverted and you are unhappy not a bad idea to get off your phone and talk to people.
Not really, I've always just been a person who speaks when they have something to say. I have no issue talking to people, I'm just not the type to talk for the sake of talking.
I am quiet i enjoy being in my own head but i love talking to people My friend recently said that people thought i was mute because i didn't talk i said they shouldn't assume things if they want to talk to me just say hi It's definitely easy i meet and talk to strangers all the time it feels great to meet more people
I went from socially anxious to lack of interest in socializing. Most of the time socializing to me feels like an obligation and never an actual interest. Might be the reason why I have nothing to say (since I already talked about it with a friend) and when I do say something, I’m not actually interested in what I’m talking about or what the other person is talking about. Maybe I need to find like minded people through a hobby or volunteering. It’s not that I don’t have any interest it’s just that my topics are fairly controversial and not exactly popular. Thoughts?
The majority of people I have an interest of meeting are through hobby’s or places I frequently go to like the gym or my jiu jitsu class because I know I’ll probably see them again and I’ll most likely have a common interest. If you aren’t genuinely interested in the other person or feel like y’all would have nothing to connect over then yeah it’s probably pointless unless you are just craving some socializing. My thoughts on the first thing you said though is to make sure you ACTUALLY lack the interest in socializing and it’s not just a way of coping with the social anxiety. Take some time to think if you actually lack interest or if it’s your minds way of coping with the anxiety. If you genuinely lack interest then I wouldn’t worry about it because some people seriously don’t mind being alone for the most part
@@devmaurello hey thanks for responding, I appreciate the advice. I was thinking about my comment and came down to the conclusion that I’m just not being mentally stimulated overall. Not in my day to day life, job, relationships. So I’m overall just bored. I’ll try something different and volunteer for things that I actually want to fight for and help change. I think I should focus on becoming interested in my life again and then I might find some interesting people along the way, that has the same values as me. You gave me something to think about, thank you.👍
I don't talk to people because I don't see a reason to. I used to want to, but that time has passed and I feel more inner peace from it. Whenever i have to introduce myself to someone, all i hear in their life is sports. Now I don't hate sports, I just hate that it is the only thing most people seem to still talk about. Besides, i get this feeling of a threat whenever somebody tries to talk to me. Some people died from just socializing, you think I wanna be the next one on the list? NOPE.
I never talk to anyone except it's necessary... I don't know what's wrong with me but I can't put up this "HEYYY YOOO I'M HAPPY" face. I would just look people dead in the eye, then I feel weird, I look away, they laugh, I start feeling uncomfortable, I distance myself.
I mean i was the one that always starts the conversation then i felt like i was putting the all effort than i stopped doing it and now yeah i dont do it and nobody does it aswell so yeah i dont know how to get out of it
Abraham Hicks would say “You’re looking for love in all the wrong places.” Here’s my advice along with Mr. Devin’s tips. I am quite quirky and whimsical. Some people may say weird but honestly everyone is weird if you look into their life for 24 hours. And that is beautiful. So how do you develop your capacity to become more engaging and interesting? Pick a book, there’s the book, “The Subtle Art if not Giving a F*ck” my fave to recommend. Also, listening to high leveled podcasts can give you material to talk about. Have fun learning and trying things out. It really comes down to accepting that others perceptions of you doesn’t matter. Abraham Hicks can help understand this particular gem more fully. I am often called extroverted from my friends, but honestly, I pushed myself to talk to everyone I met, because I hate being afraid to do something. Will Smith taught me that nugget. “Your desire speaks to you through your fears.”
It makes for very awkward social situations if nobody speaks. I recently attended a purpose-made social event, and a group of guys, including me, was just standing around waiting. I saw one with a riding jacket, and all I said was, "What make & model?", and then all the guys started talking about their vehicles.
I think it's something to do with too much internet use + overstimulating. I used to be the most extroverted guy back in the days till I started gaming and using social media daily.
I agree bro. Same thing happened to me and I am sure most people. I wasn't extremely extroverted or anything, but definitely much better at talking before I got into gaming and using social media.
Actually solitude feeds creativity when you think all the best artists of our time maybe those people see more because they are more sensitive to their enviroment most people that are considered social from my experience lack thing called emotional intelligence it's also a social skill not to talk when not need to.
Same. People are lame. They're almost all the same and don't care either way. All they want to do is use you for their benefit. The more I see how human nature is, the more I stop caring. I'd rather just be left alone
@@yung_Latiosyup. all it did was get me trapped in unfulfilling relationships. i just got done cutting out every friend from my life. i have never felt more alive. you give so much of yourself up, and for what?
yeah men like I have my best friend but i feel weird going and talking to her , but I see other aproach her like normal and me like I just talk to her when she talks to me , I'm going to try Like sure im not like that but i dont like ignoring a person that i love , I'll also try giving more complements or speaking more freely my mind the other day i visit my cousin she is like 9 and she was just saying what she thinked and like it's so cool cause you dont se that nowadays.
I stop and tell all the crazy generation guys in my gym how badass they are, how hard they are working, or how much they have improved. It’s not a gambit; I really mean it.
I pass on the women; they just look freaked already, without ole gramps talking to them (they’d probably think I was hitting on them, but you couldn’t pay me to hit on a crazy generation chick)
these comments are so depressing and pessimistic. very telling of how our current world is. thank you for being the very few people who actually care enough to get people socialising again. i understand people are hesitant talking to others nowadays, but idk, that seems like a personal issue at the end of the day. yes, use discernment and be aware of your surroundings, but also, not everyone is out to get you, lol. we are social creatures, and i see way too many lonely people for y’all to be acting like this. we’ll never get anywhere if people keep up this lame mentality of “i’m too cool to talk to others, y’all are weird. leave me alone. i’m antisocial” get a mf grip. this is not how we should move forward, i refuse to live in a society like that
When I get approached it's either a hobo or some drunk guy. They talk only about their personal life or politics, nothing different. Even if I get approached by someone normal looking, I'll think this person got mental issues. So yeah, imo approaching people in public is very weird.
i actually feel threatened if someone comes up and talks to me even if it's in the friendliest way possible, which is why i don't talk to other people.
Do you think while youre working its appropriate to give a compliment to a girl while working.. just a simple one like nice nails or you have a pretty smile.. i dont do that because im scared ill get reprimanded lol
Don't spread this message, social isolation is not good for you. But also like im saying this because people are taking shit too literal and aren't making their own experiences
@@Mejustme101 war doesn't need a name or time stamp. War is never ending. Waiting for someone to tell you that you're in a war is living in delusion. The tyrants will NEVER stop. "The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants." - Thomas Jefferson. "Peace" is only a term used for down time between wars. Wars will never end, which means we are in a war 24/7. It doesn't need a name.
@@devmaurelloThe key to heal that it's just speaking your truth, no need to overcomplicate it, or else you'll build a false persona/personality based on that fear. It's in you, it's not you. Fear is like fire, use it, don't let it become you and consume you.
As someone who has an easier time giving compliments. I want to share a few things that have helped me.
-People always appreciate a genuine compliment.
-If you compliment people sometimes you can see their demeanor changes towards you and their eyes sorta light up
- Some people don't know how to respond or they will think you have ulterior motives (they just have been deceived so much that they don't trust good things about themselves or it can also be a low self esteem thing)
- People are less defensive if you compliment them about their outfits so that's a good place to start
- Just make the compliment and then start talking about something else. You don't need to stretch the conversation around the compliment unless the person you said it to carries it. Otherwise, it gets a bit weird for them.
- Be yourself and point out things you really think is cool about the person. If there is no single thing then you can compliment their behavior or how they carry themselves. If that is also nothing interesting to you then just leave it. Better to be real than to be fake nice.
Socializing was normal before smartphones
Boom. Exactly
Damn
Smartphones are more of a symptom than anything. People were becoming less social long before that.
It's almost weird to socialise now.
PREACH….
Bro's single-handly saving our social lives
You are the first person I see saying that the reason why you should talk to others is to make their day better and, as a consequence, improving yourself, instead of doing it to get phone numbers or something.
I like the fact that there is genuine good intention in it, not only interest on getting something back. Nice mindset bro.
Greetings from Brazil
It is nice to hear you say that man, and it's awesome to hear you are from Brazil watching this
There are no good or bad intentions. That's just a human imagination.
@@MohammedSelimec-xb9rh I agree. Imaginary stuff can be useful, though.
@@MohammedSelimec-xb9rh just because we can't measure human intention and emotion doesn't mean it's just imagination. Look up masaru emoto's water experiment human intention has a significant influence on things.
@@M_Hawkinson It obviously has influence on things, but we are not in the position to judge those influences as good or bad
Cellphones, electronics and the pandemic are 100% responsible for this. Made people even more divided, antisocial, awkward, nervous etc.
Fax! Talk to everyone you feel drawn to. You never know what relationships can form from that.
What if I am too focused on women’s look? I only want beautiful girls
One thing I struggle with, is trusting people, I automatically assume everyone is a bad person and keep people distant. Unfortunately, its pretty bad at times as many people feel scared and uncomfortable around me, but then when I realise that person is a normal good person, I then start to talk to them and treat them like a respectable person.
I have been recently trying to be more open towards strangers.
I will keep watching to see if theres something I can try.
May we all become better individuals 💪
Real bro people talk about self improvement like morning routines and shit but more people need this pro social advice , great vid man
be more like "I don't speak unless I have something to say"
I don’t want strangers to talk to me, everytime that’s happened they always wanted to sell me something.
😂
There is certainly less communication nowadays even less eye contact. We are all connected to our devices instead
100%. When I talk to people younger than 20 and even a good bit older, I notice that a looot of them struggle badly with holding eye contact and I’m sure it’ll just get worse as time goes
Have you ever considered a career as a private detective?🤓
@@mistereuro That could be a great career option
I am grateful that youtube recommended your channel.
Keep going ✌️
I have been working out for 3 years. I never approached anyone, man or woman, in the gym.
I never made any friends in the gym and still dont have any in that gym.
While on vacation in Europe, I approached one guy I wanted to be friend’s with. I was literally shaking and had really bad nerves. I never experienced this sort of reaction besides from school presentations but it shows that working out doesnt make you a giga deep voiced chad that can approach anyone.
You have to force yourself to approach people sooner than later.
this guy approached me when the train got stuck and was smooth. we matched energy and he helped me get out of my comfort zone and open up. we LOVE when ya’ll initiate!
You make some great points and I agree. Nowadays, if you say, "Hi", more often than not, you are considered to be the, "weirdo". This erosion of basic communication between people actually a very bad sign on where the world is likely headed, and it is not going to be a good, fun or enjoyable place to be...talk about Hell on Earth!
People talked to much in the past before the smartphone. Don’t speak before spoken to was something we used to strive for. Today it’s the opposite. People need to speak up and stop cowering away in their smart phones. Just put it away when you’re in public. You’d be surprised how responsive people are when you speak first and look into their eyes. ❤️ Human beings thrive in engagement physically.
You don’t necessarily have to be best friends with everyone you meet but it’s good to keep good acquaintances in your life just tread lightly
People are weird nowadays, you think someone won’t fuck you over and next thing you know you’re left disappointed …have no expectations of anyone and you won’t be let down is how I go about it
Truth 🙌
great reminder man. glad yt recommended your channel
Seems this video came just in time for me. I’ve struggled with this most of my life. I was born in early 90s, so still had a childhood without cellphones, however being raised by narcissistic parents ruined my self esteem. I got called stupid a lot growing up and after being called something enough times you get brainwashed into believing it. Eventually I stopped believing that but the insecurity in initiating convos remained. I’ve always been someone who will give my all in a conversation, but not until someone’s initiated. It’s kept me from being able to make many friends. Thankfully with awareness I can start working on this now.
Bro I’ve never heard more facts spoken in my life. Im someone who lives much of my life in this way and I don’t want to be like this. Imma definitely work on this it’s such an easy way to begin to speak to people you’re an absolute g
Duude yes. 90% of my daily chats are me engaging them, i think about this a lot. I'm blown away if someone engages me on their own. Sometimes i do a test and dont engage when i normally would and yup, vast majority don't engage..must be social media and tech..different times
You’ve got some real genuine content here buddy. 👊
Even if I had a genuine compliment I would still be a bit nervous that the person may say thank you but after think "Weirdo" or "Creep" maybe Im over thinking it !
It's about how you say it
Yeah, you are overthinking it my friend. If your intention is pure and it is actually genuine, tell them. It’ll make you and them feel better.
0:08 - that’s a good one 😂😂
im ROFL
how does he do it 😂
It's strange, but some of the most meaningful conversations I've had lately have happened on Uber rides.
Great advice, man. It’s definitely a lost art, especially here in Japan. There are so many people in Tokyo, but everyone’s afraid to approach or start a conversation-probably because they’re shy, intimidated, etc.
Yeah those are undoubtedly the reasons. It has just gotten less and less of a thing people do as time goes on so it is much more intimidating now.
Side note - I find it awesome you are watching this from Tokyo. I hope to visit one day soon.
He’s right but I’m too introverted to really care about talking to people. I really have no desire but if they approach I’ll be nice about it. But if you aren’t introverted and you are unhappy not a bad idea to get off your phone and talk to people.
Not really, I've always just been a person who speaks when they have something to say.
I have no issue talking to people, I'm just not the type to talk for the sake of talking.
This is excellent advice!
Some people like the quiet
Learn to respect it 🥃🔥
THATS RIGHT HOSS THE QUIETEST IN THE ROOM IS THE MOST DANGEROUS
@@SamFBM Not always, but I guess mostly yes.
The first sentence of this video highlighted the struggles that I’ve been having with society recently. Thank goodness, I’m not alone.
I am quiet i enjoy being in my own head but i love talking to people
My friend recently said that people thought i was mute because i didn't talk i said they shouldn't assume things if they want to talk to me just say hi
It's definitely easy i meet and talk to strangers all the time it feels great to meet more people
Somebody's got to start the conversation, no?😂
Wild Cherry Little Tree 🗣️‼️
A man of good taste 😎
Devin u kinda snapped with this one!
I socialise for example, work related.
I went from socially anxious to lack of interest in socializing. Most of the time socializing to me feels like an obligation and never an actual interest. Might be the reason why I have nothing to say (since I already talked about it with a friend) and when I do say something, I’m not actually interested in what I’m talking about or what the other person is talking about. Maybe I need to find like minded people through a hobby or volunteering. It’s not that I don’t have any interest it’s just that my topics are fairly controversial and not exactly popular. Thoughts?
The majority of people I have an interest of meeting are through hobby’s or places I frequently go to like the gym or my jiu jitsu class because I know I’ll probably see them again and I’ll most likely have a common interest. If you aren’t genuinely interested in the other person or feel like y’all would have nothing to connect over then yeah it’s probably pointless unless you are just craving some socializing.
My thoughts on the first thing you said though is to make sure you ACTUALLY lack the interest in socializing and it’s not just a way of coping with the social anxiety. Take some time to think if you actually lack interest or if it’s your minds way of coping with the anxiety. If you genuinely lack interest then I wouldn’t worry about it because some people seriously don’t mind being alone for the most part
@@devmaurello hey thanks for responding, I appreciate the advice. I was thinking about my comment and came down to the conclusion that I’m just not being mentally stimulated overall. Not in my day to day life, job, relationships. So I’m overall just bored. I’ll try something different and volunteer for things that I actually want to fight for and help change. I think I should focus on becoming interested in my life again and then I might find some interesting people along the way, that has the same values as me. You gave me something to think about, thank you.👍
Nah bro, if someone randomly comes up to me and wants to talk I would think he's hella weird
Obviously need to be in the same place / have something in common
Sometimes this is the easiest approach tbh. Avoids arguments.
Flattery is indeed a great skill for politicking and gaining peoples trust
I don't talk to people because I don't see a reason to. I used to want to, but that time has passed and I feel more inner peace from it. Whenever i have to introduce myself to someone, all i hear in their life is sports. Now I don't hate sports, I just hate that it is the only thing most people seem to still talk about. Besides, i get this feeling of a threat whenever somebody tries to talk to me. Some people died from just socializing, you think I wanna be the next one on the list?
NOPE.
Man... I needed to hear this!
I never talk to anyone except it's necessary...
I don't know what's wrong with me but I can't put up this "HEYYY YOOO I'M HAPPY" face.
I would just look people dead in the eye, then I feel weird, I look away, they laugh, I start feeling uncomfortable, I distance myself.
My reason is because people take advantage of you but maybe you’re talking about a brief conversation or hi and bye type
I mean i was the one that always starts the conversation then i felt like i was putting the all effort than i stopped doing it and now yeah i dont do it and nobody does it aswell so yeah i dont know how to get out of it
Abraham Hicks would say
“You’re looking for love in all the wrong places.”
Here’s my advice along with Mr. Devin’s tips.
I am quite quirky and whimsical. Some people may say weird but honestly everyone is weird if you look into their life for 24 hours. And that is beautiful.
So how do you develop your capacity to become more engaging and interesting?
Pick a book, there’s the book, “The Subtle Art if not Giving a F*ck” my fave to recommend. Also, listening to high leveled podcasts can give you material to talk about. Have fun learning and trying things out.
It really comes down to accepting that others perceptions of you doesn’t matter. Abraham Hicks can help understand this particular gem more fully.
I am often called extroverted from my friends, but honestly, I pushed myself to talk to everyone I met, because I hate being afraid to do something. Will Smith taught me that nugget.
“Your desire speaks to you through your fears.”
It makes for very awkward social situations if nobody speaks.
I recently attended a purpose-made social event, and a group of guys, including me, was just standing around waiting.
I saw one with a riding jacket, and all I said was, "What make & model?", and then all the guys started talking about their vehicles.
Transactional relationship is more practical nowadays. So many people have bad intentions.
I find it annoying when people come up to me and talking to me unless it's about a mutual interest.
unless the person is attractive
Yesss esp small talk. I don’t got the time.
I think it's something to do with too much internet use + overstimulating. I used to be the most extroverted guy back in the days till I started gaming and using social media daily.
I agree bro. Same thing happened to me and I am sure most people. I wasn't extremely extroverted or anything, but definitely much better at talking before I got into gaming and using social media.
Our dopamine is fried out from the overstimulation
Um, where you live? Compliment someone and they take it the wrong way. Call ya a: looser, perv, gay, etc.
Actually solitude feeds creativity when you think all the best artists of our time maybe those people see more because they are more sensitive to their enviroment most people that are considered social from my experience lack thing called emotional intelligence it's also a social skill not to talk when not need to.
0:08 Ancestors was coming out of him in this moment.
Thats how I am but yea people talk on social media indirectly
I will stick to do not speak unless spoken to works for me, its how i grew up.
stay stagnant i guess
Same. People are lame. They're almost all the same and don't care either way. All they want to do is use you for their benefit. The more I see how human nature is, the more I stop caring. I'd rather just be left alone
@@yung_Latiosyup. all it did was get me trapped in unfulfilling relationships. i just got done cutting out every friend from my life. i have never felt more alive. you give so much of yourself up, and for what?
It works for me too.
@@yung_Latiossame. Screw humanity
I accept,,,just leave them alone 8n their world of sadness
Very good advice.
If nobody speaks when spoken to nobody can ever start a conversation?
lol bearded optimist Chad: just talk to them bro
Loser
Stay Uncommon!
Nah I'm annoying as fuck I chat shit constantly.
boosting this in the algo ; )
That’s just a British culture thing for me
No it is definitely weird. Believe it or not some people will end your life if you approach them. We live in a cold world.
yeah men like I have my best friend but i feel weird going and talking to her , but I see other aproach her like normal and me like I just talk to her when she talks to me , I'm going to try Like sure im not like that but i dont like ignoring a person that i love , I'll also try giving more complements or speaking more freely my mind the other day i visit my cousin she is like 9 and she was just saying what she thinked and like it's so cool cause you dont se that nowadays.
Fr the people who believe its weird to talk them are themselves weird 😂
I stop and tell all the crazy generation guys in my gym how badass they are, how hard they are working, or how much they have improved. It’s not a gambit; I really mean it.
I pass on the women; they just look freaked already, without ole gramps talking to them (they’d probably think I was hitting on them, but you couldn’t pay me to hit on a crazy generation chick)
I have a man in my gym just like you. I've worked out with him a few times and it's always a great time.
these comments are so depressing and pessimistic. very telling of how our current world is. thank you for being the very few people who actually care enough to get people socialising again. i understand people are hesitant talking to others nowadays, but idk, that seems like a personal issue at the end of the day. yes, use discernment and be aware of your surroundings, but also, not everyone is out to get you, lol. we are social creatures, and i see way too many lonely people for y’all to be acting like this. we’ll never get anywhere if people keep up this lame mentality of “i’m too cool to talk to others, y’all are weird. leave me alone. i’m antisocial” get a mf grip. this is not how we should move forward, i refuse to live in a society like that
Then leave.
@@Mejustme101 no 🩷
Yea ok chicken chest. Don't think too hard 😂😂😂
What if I simply don't feel like approaching people and don't like being approached either?
sadurawn it to dawn
When I get approached it's either a hobo or some drunk guy. They talk only about their personal life or politics, nothing different. Even if I get approached by someone normal looking, I'll think this person got mental issues. So yeah, imo approaching people in public is very weird.
i actually feel threatened if someone comes up and talks to me even if it's in the friendliest way possible, which is why i don't talk to other people.
What if they just say your backpack zipper is open lol
Very sad
You my sir have a problem
Yeah many people can’t be trusted nowadays
Same here, though i keep it to myself
what flavor little tree is that i can’t tell cuz slow wifi
Looks like wild cherry on my screen
Yeah it’s the greatest smell of all time wild cherry little trees
yes
This generation is sick.
You ppl gotta get off youtube and get into the real world forget these self help zoomers with no real life experience
Funny title
Do you think while youre working its appropriate to give a compliment to a girl while working.. just a simple one like nice nails or you have a pretty smile.. i dont do that because im scared ill get reprimanded lol
Yeah I think that’s fine as long as it doesn’t come off creepy haha
-1000 aura
Don't spread this message, social isolation is not good for you. But also like im saying this because people are taking shit too literal and aren't making their own experiences
You're cute there I said it...
We are literally in a war. Small talk is pointless.
What war?
@@Mejustme101 war doesn't need a name or time stamp. War is never ending. Waiting for someone to tell you that you're in a war is living in delusion. The tyrants will NEVER stop.
"The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants." - Thomas Jefferson.
"Peace" is only a term used for down time between wars. Wars will never end, which means we are in a war 24/7. It doesn't need a name.
Our culture is sick and failing
3:04 cringe
Damn bro it really is. I wish you wouldn’t have pointed that out to me HAHA
@@devmaurello i mean that compliment is lame overall, i understand you used it as an example
You got social anxiety my guy. Go face your fears and grow
im 6'6 I'm fully grown what are you talking about
Yeah bro that was kinda the point of the video lol. To tell about something that helped me get over it
@@devmaurelloThe key to heal that it's just speaking your truth, no need to overcomplicate it, or else you'll build a false persona/personality based on that fear. It's in you, it's not you. Fear is like fire, use it, don't let it become you and consume you.
@@valterescrivao1515he knows dumbass he literally makes videos preaching it