I'm 80 years old. The. happiest time in my life was when my kids left home and I spent 10 years alone ...I did what I wanted when I wanted..if I wanted company ..I found them....being alone doesn't equate lonely...your only if you choose to be
Quiet time is think things out time, be one with yourself. That means what? Get out of your car at a Byrne Dairy. Someone approaches asking for money. Or you get a seat at Byrne, and a stranger questions you about wearing sunglasses. A loud overbearing person. What do you do? Or at a Circle K gas station, an employee is talking to his wife, and I hear one of then say to the other referring to me, next time he's here ask him if he's gay or bi. Recognize threat situations and act wisely, get out fast, or avoid as a place to go as a habit.
I love my own company never get lonely can live how I want blessed as have 4 wonderful adult married kids & 7 Grandkids we are a close family get together often. I also have a beautiful dog ❤ Will always miss my Husband wish he was here but know he's in safe loving place without pain/suffering. I think someone who has to be entertained surrounded by lots of people is actually lonely I find this quite sad.
I have lived alone and liked it since I was 18, and have never felt lonely. I like my space, and I like my freedom. The idea that single people are lonely and miserable is nonsense.
I love being single and in this day and age of psychos being on every corner I would not trade my singleness either. I can do what I want and go where I want. You can't put a price on Peace and Solitude.
Pardon typos due to medical issues with my vision but this answered one of you so I can not edit. Thank you for your time & yes, I have lived alone for decades, but have never been lonely & I take His advice by loving everyone, although some from afar. ~
I am 55 years old and being alone since last thirty years. Infact being alone at home doesn't bother me but outside is my daily Drama. My Question is it better if I move to a city where everybody is more liberal?@@Official_Wise
I am alone at 76 years old. At first it was really bad but not now. I read the Bible and have found good pastors to listen to. The verse “ Be still and know that I am God.” Has helped me. I am no longer lonely or sad. I love this video.
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
Don't depend on your children too much. They wont' be there and they may resent you. When you get older, you have to change your health habits. No smoking or drinking, watch your diet. Exercise. You're children may contact you for a monetary loan, unless it's money you can afford to "lose" please don't do it. Also do your best to keep the house clean. Your peace of mind is a must. It's quiet, peaceful, and zen. You can take care of your business without being pestered.
I'm 60 and building a life alone. Blessed to have a sister who does my laundry and picks up my meds. Grateful to have such good family. Stroke survivor. Still effected on left side of body.
@@sissyparker2525 It's all mindset. I'm an introvert, so being by myself has never been a problem. You can be in a room full of people and still be lonely. Also, many marriages today are not solid ... more of a convenience or social expectation. If you happen to be in one with someone who is no longer "the one", that can be very stressful.
@@acornsucks2111lol, I am now old, but say “I made my most important life choices as a teen, back when I knew everything”. That WAS the blueprint for the rest of my life, now age 62. Awe, but have never had a regret about having my precious son. :)
Being alone proves and shows that your content with you and others are not needed for you to feel alive or loved. Youve got you , noone can make you feel more better then what you can make yourself feel. Noone. Hence noone needed. We can help them out in life but you love you.
Being alone without money makes you bitter , empty , cause you can't enjoy life to the fullest. I would love to go overseas , but not financially possible for me as I have to work to support myself , never inherited money or properties from family or husband. How do you enjoy life to the fullest without MONEY???????
It's better to be by yourself than to wind up with a person who is not right for you. Be selective of people, aware of your environment. Think as an adult for as long as you can. Some of my mom's last words. "I may be old, but I still have young thoughts". Think about that.
I'll raise you - "Choose your life's mate carefully; from this one decision will come 9/10's of life's misery or happiness." Credit: Life's Little Instruction Book
One thing I learned is that one spouse will always pass away before the other. I just experienced this. Your whole life changes in an instant. For the first time in my life at age 64, I only now considered how so many others are like me, alone without their partner. Yes, life has made me humble now. I must be my own best friend
I am 77+ and now self Hermitized , as one might say, Todsville , the days are not long enough, I have so many little interests, with a background of classical music, suits me, yes sireee!
Good on you me too. How lucky are we? I am nearly 72 yrs old & love my life so grateful to be who I am & way I feel. Blessed with such loving family who would help in a heart beat but love being independent. Love old age answer is to keep as fit/healthy as can go with flow. Love going out but love coming 🏡 no place like it. Life to me is going to get better as time goes by. Happiness comes from within that's fir sure. Certainly don't care what anyone else does have. My time now going to enjoy every moment while here on earth 😊 all taken care of when we pass ❤ Keep having great life 🍀
@@newlynn7338 well we can't have that 🤗 Remember you are the master of your life it is up to you to change what not happy with. Try get organised have routine that you get up each morning do exercise then come back energised ready to have breakfast get some basic jobs out the way. Tell yourself you are proud of yourself that you are going great & will benefit from looking after yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself if tired & miss you have to pace yourself. Even join walking fitness group if need motivation or start 1. Getting out & about good for you from head to toe enjoy after awhile uoy will hate to miss that time. You come back home & appreciate all you have more will be happier. On outings you meet people never know what's install I've gone to coffee mornings with people I've met out there never feel you're the only 1 who feels like you do most people are same. Remember gave to help yourself change what don't like there's always ways around everything seek & yoy will find. Try stay positive "movement" simple inexpensive walking riding a bike or swimming impregnates those thoughts makes feel wonderful & answers fixes problems. Believe in yourself small steps changes huge & life changing. Don't settle to doing 0 about your life don't feel too sorry for yourself always someone worse off alround tell yourself. Appreciate your life don't waste it. Help others pay if forward. Wishing you happy life 💖
As age advances deeply, it's slowly & gradually, recommended to detach oneself subtly & emotionally from everything & everybody...as this Gradually...It prepares oneself better, emotionally, mentally & psychologically , for the inevitable, once it comes ...!!! 🤔👌🙏
Their are so many nuggets of wisdom here that it is hard to take it all in. I wish I would have had something like this available to me when I was a younger man. I hope younger men and women take heed! But your never to old to learn anyway. Thanks for sharing!😊
I wouldn’t want to imagine my Life without my best friend & Comforter. Life isn’t always easy, but I haven’t felt lonely in decades, although to many I appear alone. ~
Being alone can be rough but until you learn to be alone, you cannot discover who you truly are and when you are with someone you are not offering the best of you. ❤
Being alone is so depressing and I can't do anything about it. Being a widow for 10 years and 66 year old , is very hard to find a soul mate again. Men at my age want the young girls , OR they will go for a woman their age , but with MONEY. So if you don't have youth or money , you are the FORGOTTEN ONES!!!! Women lose their self worth after being single for so long. Happiness for me is to love and be loved.💕 Without love I am EMPTY!!! I SUPPOSE IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!
Give love and caring.then you willen be not alone. You want love a man fiindig Search for friendship go learn a lenguage or art. There you met people Friends. You can work in a house for older stick people. There you met others and make otters happy. Your have pitty with yourself Go out and make otters happy
Avoid people who have "good intentions" judging you by their perceptions of your life and in the process of helping you actually pull you down. Don't let them reach over and rub your arm as if they pity you. Beware of others negative actions toward you which pull you down. Avoid those people.
Alone does not necessarily mean lonely. Learn to enjoy your own company… Don’t be disappointed at other when they fail you. Be happy when they are gone. Life can still be good in old age.
I’m 72 years old and I’m so grateful for the years I have been able to live. I’m still married to my beautiful wife who I have been with for 47 years. We have both had blessed lives and I hope we will be together in the afterlife. I served 30 years in the Marine Corps and at times that strained our marriage but we worked through it. Other things strained it but we prayed together to our Lord and things are good again. These sayings are so true and I try to live by it. But every now and again something sets me off the Marine Corps mouth comes out in me and I will curse up a storm. I learned at a young age to listen to older people because they have been around a long time and they have experienced a lot of things. I hope that some common sense comes to society today but the world is a crazy place to be these days. I’m content to live with my wife in our little corner of the universe and watch the insanity pass us by. God have mercy on this world. It’s gonna need it.
Aging in itself is learning and goes with certain tensions and tendencies. To aged to certain level too, has its own level of blessings and benefits. Not everyone gets to that. But to sit and chat with your geat ground children 're Greater part of the Joy in the world. We not the same., and our everything cannot be Same.
Some of the Prophet's had very long Life's. Others too had very short Life's. These are all indications of the Power of Almighty GOD. Telling us that, even with your and the Chosen prophets are called to Him at His Reckon Time without any Hesitation whatsoever. That Tells the Mightiness of GOD.
There are so many reasons behind the Age of the Chosen One's - especially, with regards to the Prophet's. The number of years given to every Prophet has its own Connotations and Scretcy and only known to He the Mightiest. To Prophet Muhammad ( swa) who Died at aged 63 , has so many dimensions and meanings at the Secret Realms. For example, the Number (3) is a unique Number multiply by (7 ) gives you ( 21) which is also quite and misterouslly . Multiply by (3) that gives you the Age (63) which is very very Unknown to Humanity. So, in short, the Number of Years given to every Humanity including the Prophets has its own Connotations and Scretcy. No one can Tell accepts ( HE ) .
Many thanks for the ultra wise human who wrote those quotes. They are so true, and should be taught to young humans in school. Wisdom is the best retirement.
Very poignant, I needed this. In time I will reach my destination. My husband abandoned me, and my grief is real. Anger and resentments are eating me up. I must figure out another way to get through this.
Tolle's Power of Now helped me several years ago when my fiance and I broke up. Also try Michael Singer books. I know of a woman who kept her resentments going for over 15 years--no one wants that. Best wishes
This really helped me to remember who I am. And to get my behind up and moving to get things done. I can do things with no transportation no money and I will pull myself forward once again. He hasn’t won. I will once again move forward.
Three things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, your attitude when you have everything and your wisdom when you aknowledge you have everything.
Incredible compilation of wisdom! The idea of focusing on self-improvement rather than proving yourself really struck me. It’s a powerful reminder to prioritize personal growth over validation from others. Keep sharing more of these life lessons
Life isn't easy, should say it hasn't been for me, however it has been an upward spiral. I am grateful and hope I have learned important lessons about many things, including self. I believe life is wonderful, love it!
Wisdom. Thank you. So often I meet others who do not understand how I can be so content amusing myself just by learning, being and doing. I think we grow when we have time to be alone and can then give more understanding to others when we are not alone. It feels good being content to be who we are, whatever that may be.❤
Life lessons I wish I learned long ago...but I'm still learning At 64, I see many of these are truly spot on. You dont know how truly alone you are til you have no one to call. That's a 'lonely' which I've felt for too many years.
Such powerful advice! These insights from 80-year-olds really put things into perspective. Loved the message about valuing inner peace and controlling your thoughts. Amazing video
On June 14, 2024, I lost husband in his sleep. I lost the man in my life of 65 years. He was my lover, my friend, my provider, the father of my children who I have only one left. I will miss him till the day I am with him again. God bless the man of my life!
Best advice. Find it out for yourself as early as is possible. You are alone. Period. You may have come surrounded by people. But you grow old and die realizing just how alone you've always been. Learn the difference between alone and lonely. The former is our natural state, the latter is our ego-social identity.
Do not have the notion that,your children should compensate you for what you had done for them.Most often they side with their mothers and May allocate a fix pay for them.If you don’t expect anything from them then you shall have a peaceful state of mind in the event that they failed to live to their promises.
Yes love living my life the way I want to ❤ everyday is exciting never know what's going to happen. Love people love but lucky I feel as love my own company never lonely or bored don't believe in that word as always so much to do in life. Appreciate what you have where you have come from always be hopeful. Personally have gone through worst I feel in life. I know great loss, heartbreak & hardship I tell myself not going to be abused used can face what ever comes my way will be able to handle. Not ever running from anything again don't have to as only do right things not wrong. Love life determined rest of my life is going to be wonderful in everyway. Dreams come true & miracles happen all the time 🙏 thank you God for everything & more 🌟 Will always do my best & trust the process ❤❤❤
I was 79 last April. I lost the love of my life in August 2017, after 40 years of being together. I was devastated for 6 years. I have no children. I moved two years ago to be closer to whatever friends I had left. Within six months, two of those friends passed away, both men. I have one older sister that I haven't spoken to since 1989 after our dad passed away. She found out I was gay and that made it too embarrassing for her to deal with. I have no need to deal with the baggage she would bring if I were to try and connect with her again. She cheated her kids out of a great, loving uncle. I have only wished her well my whole life. The ONLY one in my life that ever supported me in every way other than my parents was the love of my life. I was loved. I have the greatest memories that we shared. I have no regrets about my life. I feel that my time is limited on this earth, and i've learned how the man I am today is due to the love I was given. I am not ashamed of my life or the person who loved me. God did ok by me......
Dear Jinxy Sanchez, I see you, I hear you. Your life matters. You & I have a lot on common. But I'd advise you to pray & I'll pray for you. GOD SEES you & GOD TRULY CARES. You are HIS VERY VALUABLE CREATION. Never forget that. Nothing else matters. Much Love & Blessings, Christina
An elder advice got all the merits and wise expertise for their real wisdom need to know what we are? and what we are all miissing and never heard so we all need to listen very carefully. Thank you for the sounding wisdom of advice. ❤❤❤
I'm 80 years old. The. happiest time in my life was when my kids left home and I spent 10 years alone ...I did what I wanted when I wanted..if I wanted company ..I found them....being alone doesn't equate lonely...your only if you choose to be
True!
Well said ❤❤❤
Quiet time is think things out time, be one with yourself. That means what? Get out of your car at a Byrne Dairy. Someone approaches asking for money. Or you get a seat at Byrne, and a stranger questions you about wearing sunglasses. A loud overbearing person. What do you do? Or at a Circle K gas station, an employee is talking to his wife, and I hear one of then say to the other referring to me, next time he's here ask him if he's gay or bi. Recognize threat situations and act wisely, get out fast, or avoid as a place to go as a habit.
Unless you have mental illness
@@A13JMC The nerve of that person is obnoxious.
Loneliness is not the absence of people it's the loss of one's self .❤🙏🌞🦋
Sure and lack of self love
Loneliness is when others don't reciprocate love . loneliness is the weight of others selfishness!
This hit hard.
When you love yourself and value the moment you alone with yourself, tell me how you would be lonely?
True; every day that I gain a sense of who I am and what I like is a day I feel a little less lonely.
I love my own company never get lonely can live how I want blessed as have 4 wonderful adult married kids & 7 Grandkids we are a close family get together often. I also have a beautiful dog ❤ Will always miss my Husband wish he was here but know he's in safe loving place without pain/suffering. I think someone who has to be entertained surrounded by lots of people is actually lonely I find this quite sad.
The only one true person you can rely on, is yourself 🥰🥰
AND GOD ...❤
...now about to say that...AFTER GOD JEHOVAH...AND HIS ONLY BEGOTTON SON CHRIST JESUS...OUR RANSOMER🤗@@romanastrasheim5226
I have lived alone and liked it since I was 18, and have never felt lonely. I like my space, and I like my freedom. The idea that single people are lonely and miserable is nonsense.
I love being single and in this day and age of psychos being on every corner I would not trade my singleness either. I can do what I want and go where I want. You can't put a price on Peace and Solitude.
@@debbiesittard7653 Good for you! There are millions of single people who will agree with you. All the best.
I agree. Im alone in a lot of ways, but still have many pleasant exchanges throughout my day.
@@debbiesittard7653loneliness equal to Alzheimer!!!
not
I’d rather be lonely then heartbroken
The owner of a lonely heart is much better that the owner of a broken heart
Or disappointed when you get betrayed or backstabbed.
Once upon a time a young divorced mother, after heartbreak, decided you are right! Determined to care for her daughter alone, she became a workaholic. In times not working, the young woman busied herself building a brick wall around her heart to never have it broken again. Self sufficient, she raised her daughter to understand working to earn anything she desired. As independent as her Mom, the little girl was working evenings during high school, so moved out to enjoy her new found freedom at age 18 as her mother kept working her career, and of course building her wall planning to work until age 80 or death, whatever came first. After her daughter moved out the mother was running errands on a lunch break & a truck hit her car sending her to the ER instead of back to work as planned. Unfortunately, doctors discovered arthritis had occurred during her years of working 20 hours per day on her job & wall. At only age 50 she had spinal X-Rays more of at least a 70 year old hard labor worker, she was warned that she couldn’t return to work & her situation had been reported to all labor authorities, so she would be required early retirement to prevent paralysis docs wouldn’t be liable for. Knowing her wall would be completed within a week, she went home to try to make sense of everything. Upon her 6 week medical visit, brick wall completed, she asked advice. Her specialist advised as follows:
“We delayed telling you about early retirement bc I sensed you as an independent working woman like myself, but you now have a 5 pound lift limit you must adhere to, or at best you will be paralyzed from the waist down (wheelchair confined) from the bilateral sacroiliitis & degenterational disc disease in your spine.
Fortunately, your only child is grown & you are still a reasonably young, attractive woman. You have worked an impressively long time so paid in enough towards your retirement to, not live as comfortably as you’re used to, but get by alright with a start over & long life ahead. I will provide comfort medications, so with support of your loved ones, no reason you can’t enjoy life at least another 30 years”.
Dismayed, the mother went home with a heavy heart & heavier mind. Exhausted, she crashed on her sofa, replaying the information she received to try to understand. She WAS only 50 years of age, so perhaps she must start over. Having had already lost her parents in her thirties, she felt alone, respecting that her daughter had a life of her own which she was very proud of. Should she tell her, since they kept in touch by text but only seen each other on holidays? And WHAT had the doctor meant about starting over? Sure, she had loved, married & lost in her youth. She HAD bought & paid for her home & car, but how long would her car last? She simply couldn’t lay on that sofa wallowing in doubt, so she grabbed her evening shower & slipped into a robe, flipped on her coffee pot she reprepaired before leaving for her appointment, then walked painfully into her 2nd bedroom, which she had converted into a home office & flipped on her laptop.
Her home office had a full length mirror which she had cleaned regularly but never really looked into until this evening, letting her robe flop open. Wow, that was a tired woman looking back at her! But actually, not TOO badly aged, considering all of the years of hours she had put in, working 12 hours a day handling & making OPM at work; looking around the room, she said aloud “and at home”, as she scanned her chair as the only comfort zone in the room. That chair was a “bonus gift” from the corporation she worked for. She plopped down in that soft, adjustable office chair (ouch) and wondered what to do now. Her mind slipped into overdrive, considering the hours she had spent building that brick wall to protect her heart. Then her confidence started to fade, wondering if it was too strong for her to remove if needed. Of course it was since she started building it at age 20 & only recently finished it. She didn’t even know her neighbors, her coworkers (friends?) had already quit calling, other than an occasional call for work related information. Remembering the last person she “had to let go” bc her Regional Manager had told her to cut him as dead weight. Everyone else was complaining about getting behind on assignments due to “earning his pay too” and “Why didn’t she just fire him since he didn’t want to work anyway”. It took her a year & the company cutting her bonus to finally just cut his hours so he would quit. So why even think about that now? Obviously distraction from the crisis at hand. I think we all do that sometimes.
Back to the wall.
The truth was coming in on her, as the room darkened: the brick wall she had built around her heat for protection was actually a prison. Her heart started pounding loudly in her ears, started skipping, then everything became dark.
Moral of this story:
Whether you are young or old, a student or working; it doesn’t matter if you live among a large family or alone. Keep your eyes & heart open & able to breathe. Young or old, we all need love as much as water & air to breathe. Her daughter was heart broken to learn her mother died of Sudden Death due to Heart Failure. What did that even mean? Perhaps her heart was overworked by trying to knock down that wall.
Written by ©️Crystal K.C.O. Belle 2024 our year of the Lord who always knocks at every heart’s door at least once, but that door opens from the inside only. (He laughs at the different names, as when asked it, He answered with I Am, Son of God, The Word, laughed when asked “are you Jesus” saying “you say I Am”, bc He has a better sense of humor than any. Think not? Look in a mirror! I did & LoL! age 62 GBU all & as He said, “Love one another” ~
Pardon typos due to medical issues with my vision but this answered one of you so I can not edit. Thank you for your time & yes, I have lived alone for decades, but have never been lonely & I take His advice by loving everyone, although some from afar. ~
@@diligentsun1154 So the story goes.😄
Am a 84 yrs old seven minutes ago. All my life, I've been alone and never felt lonely. I am a known as a recluse. I love my life.....
thanks for your sharing!
I am 55 years old and being alone since last thirty years.
Infact being alone at home doesn't bother me but outside is my daily Drama.
My Question is it better if I move to a city where everybody is more liberal?@@Official_Wise
🎂 Happy 87th birthday ✨️🎈🎈🎈🎉🎊 well done going good guns ❤
Everyone should be living to outlive the Chinese guy that lived to 256! Someone will break his record!
🎂🎉🎈🌺
🎼 Happy birthday to you..
Best wishes for your 84th year😊🎉
I am alone at 76 years old. At first it was really bad but not now. I read the Bible and have found good pastors to listen to. The verse “ Be still and know that I am God.” Has helped me. I am no longer lonely or sad. I love this video.
Thank you for sharing this thought!
@@judyhalsell9510 Let go of pain and your soul, heart❤, and mind can be at peace. ✌💚😐
God showed you that you were never alone, He was there all along,,
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
And also to you @Luckystoic💐🕯️🙏💙
AMEN, and you too.❤❤❤
@@yemisitijani1218 GOD BLESS YOU❤
Thank you wishing you same back ❤ all the best always.
@@jangriffin-fi1yx GOD Bless you❤
Don't depend on your children too much. They wont' be there and they may resent you. When you get older, you have to change your health habits. No smoking or drinking, watch your diet. Exercise. You're children may contact you for a monetary loan, unless it's money you can afford to "lose" please don't do it. Also do your best to keep the house clean. Your peace of mind is a must. It's quiet, peaceful, and zen. You can take care of your business without being pestered.
Everything you said makes sense. I’m 90.. I live alone & love it.
I'm 60 and building a life alone. Blessed to have a sister who does my laundry and picks up my meds. Grateful to have such good family. Stroke survivor. Still effected on left side of body.
Great advice thank you for sharing ❤❤❤
It‘s: Your children, NOT you‘re children. You‘re is a contraction of „you are“
Seriously, that's YOUR response to this persons post? Thanks for bringing negativity to a positive post. Get over YOURself!@axeljacobs9723
Sometimes we are forced into being alone and then you realize you actually like it.
Well said!
Super relate.❤❤❤❤❤
No company is better than bad company. Some people tolerate abuse because they fear being alone - and end up worse off.
Being alone is horrible
@@paulradice3534 Perhaps for you, but no everyone.
I've been single for over 20 years. Now, I never get lonely ... and the freedom is priceless.
You are a winner!! I'm 80, been alone for almost 40 years. Been told that's not healthy. Guess that depends on your version of healthy!!😂😂😂😂
@@sissyparker2525 It's all mindset. I'm an introvert, so being by myself has never been a problem. You can be in a room full of people and still be lonely. Also, many marriages today are not solid ... more of a convenience or social expectation. If you happen to be in one with someone who is no longer "the one", that can be very stressful.
I get more lonely in a crowd than I am when I’m alone.
@@markg6860The one thing I liked about the pandemic was the social distancing. 😅
I wish this video would be mandatory for Children in Middle School it would help them avoid a lot of useless Pain.
Schools are not there to raise awareness.....they are there to indoctrinate future plantation workers, serfs, to serve the system controllers
You assume they would listen, but a good thought.
Very, very true!❤
@@acornsucks2111lol, I am now old, but say “I made my most important life choices as a teen, back when I knew everything”. That WAS the blueprint for the rest of my life, now age 62. Awe, but have never had a regret about having my precious son. :)
People can be lonely in a crowd and happy by themselves BUT A LITTLE BIT OF BOTH IS PERFECT.
Being alone isn’t bad.
Being alone proves and shows that your content with you and others are not needed for you to feel alive or loved. Youve got you , noone can make you feel more better then what you can make yourself feel. Noone. Hence noone needed. We can help them out in life but you love you.
Better than being surrounded by aggravating, two-faced, dishonest people.
If you feel this video is good and meaningful, please comment number 1!
Being alone without money makes you bitter , empty , cause you can't enjoy life to the fullest. I would love to go overseas , but not financially possible for me as I have to work to support myself , never inherited money or properties from family or husband. How do you enjoy life to the fullest without MONEY???????
@@marimuller9530 Budget carefully and manage your income.
It's better to be by yourself than to wind up with a person who is not right for you. Be selective of people, aware of your environment. Think as an adult for as long as you can. Some of my mom's last words. "I may be old, but I still have young thoughts". Think about that.
I'll raise you - "Choose your life's mate carefully; from this one decision will come 9/10's of life's misery or happiness." Credit: Life's Little Instruction Book
100% agree..........
Be aware of the truth.Sometimes you are with someone and still feel lonely .
Amen
@@Jipjip-m6fI've never felt lonelier in my life than when I was in bed with the wrong woman.😐💚✌
So true!!!
I love being alone and living alone but also love being with people
some people are like clouds.
when they disappear
it's a beautiful day. (or night!)
😂 So True...
One thing I learned is that one spouse will always pass away before the other. I just experienced this. Your whole life changes in an instant. For the first time in my life at age 64, I only now considered how so many others are like me, alone without their partner. Yes, life has made me humble now. I must be my own best friend
Thanks for your sharing!
I am 77+ and now self Hermitized , as one might say, Todsville , the days are not long enough, I have so many little interests, with a background of classical music, suits me, yes sireee!
Good on you me too. How lucky are we? I am nearly 72 yrs old & love my life so grateful to be who I am & way I feel. Blessed with such loving family who would help in a heart beat but love being independent. Love old age answer is to keep as fit/healthy as can go with flow. Love going out but love coming 🏡 no place like it. Life to me is going to get better as time goes by. Happiness comes from within that's fir sure. Certainly don't care what anyone else does have. My time now going to enjoy every moment while here on earth 😊 all taken care of when we pass ❤ Keep having great life 🍀
Thanks again am so broken
@@newlynn7338 well we can't have that 🤗 Remember you are the master of your life it is up to you to change what not happy with. Try get organised have routine that you get up each morning do exercise then come back energised ready to have breakfast get some basic jobs out the way. Tell yourself you are proud of yourself that you are going great & will benefit from looking after yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself if tired & miss you have to pace yourself. Even join walking fitness group if need motivation or start 1. Getting out & about good for you from head to toe enjoy after awhile uoy will hate to miss that time. You come back home & appreciate all you have more will be happier. On outings you meet people never know what's install I've gone to coffee mornings with people I've met out there never feel you're the only 1 who feels like you do most people are same. Remember gave to help yourself change what don't like there's always ways around everything seek & yoy will find. Try stay positive "movement" simple inexpensive walking riding a bike or swimming impregnates those thoughts makes feel wonderful & answers fixes problems. Believe in yourself small steps changes huge & life changing. Don't settle to doing 0 about your life don't feel too sorry for yourself always someone worse off alround tell yourself. Appreciate your life don't waste it. Help others pay if forward. Wishing you happy life 💖
Also perfectly content to be me and find pleasure in anything and everything.
Still nice to have a little company on ocassion
I must play this video regularly. Thank you.
As age advances deeply, it's slowly & gradually, recommended to detach oneself subtly & emotionally from everything & everybody...as this Gradually...It prepares oneself better, emotionally, mentally & psychologically , for the inevitable, once it comes ...!!! 🤔👌🙏
Their are so many nuggets of wisdom here that it is hard to take it all in. I wish I would have had something like this available to me when I was a younger man. I hope younger men and women take heed! But your never to old to learn anyway. Thanks for sharing!😊
Thanks so much, You can do it!
Thanks Lord for your peace
Thanks Lord for your salvation
AMEN
Delusional.
Freedom is more important than belonging, especially if there is no freedom in the collective.
I realized that you are never ALONE but always with the ALL ONE. This video contains many WOWS. Words of Wisdom.
Always keep God Almighty and his son Jesus Christ first in your life!
You are also son of God not only jesus
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
@@amitanand5471thank you.♥️
I wouldn’t want to imagine my Life without my best friend & Comforter. Life isn’t always easy, but I haven’t felt lonely in decades, although to many I appear alone. ~
Amen 🙏
Life has the most joy when you share it with someone. Being alone is a rough adjustment for many people.
Being alone can be rough but until you learn to be alone, you cannot discover who you truly are and when you are with someone you are not offering the best of you. ❤
There are times, one can be more " alone," with someone than without them.😑
Being alone is so depressing and I can't do anything about it. Being a widow for 10 years and 66 year old , is very hard to find a soul mate again. Men at my age want the young girls , OR they will go for a woman their age , but with MONEY. So if you don't have youth or money , you are the FORGOTTEN ONES!!!! Women lose their self worth after being single for so long. Happiness for me is to love and be loved.💕 Without love I am EMPTY!!! I SUPPOSE IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!
Give love and caring.then you willen be not alone.
You want love a man fiindig
Search for friendship go learn a lenguage or art.
There you met people
Friends. You can work in a house for older stick people.
There you met others and make otters happy.
Your have pitty with yourself
Go out and make otters happy
15:12
Amazing msg. Im 73 and wish i had a revelation of this when i was young would love to have all this wisdom now.🙏
But now,you do.😑
stephen is completely right. Every day is a new beginning regardless our age, as long as we wake another day. ☀️
The person spoke about that, just be happy that you have it now.
Avoid people who have "good intentions" judging you by their perceptions of your life and in the process of helping you actually pull you down. Don't let them reach over and rub your arm as if they pity you. Beware of others negative actions toward you which pull you down. Avoid those people.
Alone does not necessarily mean lonely. Learn to enjoy your own company… Don’t be disappointed at other when they fail you. Be happy when they are gone. Life can still be good in old age.
wise and profound
If I could not wake up tomorrow morning, I should retire myself, for good.
This holds me up every day and enjoy every bit of time.
When you feel lonely just call your mind back to your soul.
Excellent quotes ,can listen over and over again.
When the people you love let you down at your most difficult time, you learn not to care who stays or leaves from your life.
The two.most important things in life is your health, and your family.
3 important things .. your faith, health and family
No. Some families are toxic. In this case we have to create our own tribe. Nevertheless, you may outlive everyone that you love.
I’m 72 years old and I’m so grateful for the years I have been able to live. I’m still married to my beautiful wife who I have been with for 47 years. We have both had blessed lives and I hope we will be together in the afterlife.
I served 30 years in the Marine Corps and at times that strained our marriage but we worked through it. Other things strained it but we prayed together to our Lord and things are good again.
These sayings are so true and I try to live by it. But every now and again something sets me off the Marine Corps mouth comes out in me and I will curse up a storm.
I learned at a young age to listen to older people because they have been around a long time and they have experienced a lot of things.
I hope that some common sense
comes to society today but the world is a crazy place to be these days. I’m content to live with my wife in our little corner of the universe and watch the insanity pass us by. God have mercy on this world. It’s gonna need it.
Bless you. Thanks for your sharing!
With you all the way brother............
Trust God, clean house and help others.
And get a dog...
Don't forget to include God in your journey in this cruel life who's the only one who can really help you!
It should go without saying, but glad you did.
God is my strength and savior.
Yes and Amen
He will help you if you are Lucky. But most of the time is really Busy to hear you😢😢😢😮
I'm amazed when the elderly tells their stories. I'm 60 yrs hoping to learn more.
This is a blessing in disguise when the seniors narrate their experiences from which we can learn from (a food for thought).
Prophet Muhammad (SAW)lived for 63 years,hence that is a yard stick any one that passes the age of 63 is a bonus for you .
Aging in itself is learning and goes with certain tensions and tendencies. To aged to certain level too, has its own level of blessings and benefits. Not everyone gets to that. But to sit and chat with your geat ground children 're Greater part of the Joy in the world. We not the same., and our everything cannot be Same.
Some of the Prophet's had very long Life's. Others too had very short Life's. These are all indications of the Power of Almighty GOD. Telling us that, even with your and the Chosen prophets are called to Him at His Reckon Time without any Hesitation whatsoever. That Tells the Mightiness of GOD.
There are so many reasons behind the Age of the Chosen One's - especially, with regards to the Prophet's. The number of years given to every Prophet has its own Connotations and Scretcy and only known to He the Mightiest. To Prophet Muhammad ( swa) who Died at aged 63 , has so many dimensions and meanings at the Secret Realms. For example, the Number (3) is a unique Number multiply by (7 ) gives you ( 21) which is also quite and misterouslly . Multiply by (3) that gives you the Age (63) which is very very Unknown to Humanity. So, in short, the Number of Years given to every Humanity including the Prophets has its own Connotations and Scretcy. No one can Tell accepts ( HE ) .
Many thanks for the ultra wise human who wrote those quotes. They are so true, and should be taught to young humans in school. Wisdom is the best retirement.
thanks so much!
My lord, my God, fade loniless and alone , Thank you JESUS.
Very poignant, I needed this. In time I will reach my destination. My husband abandoned me, and my grief is real. Anger and resentments are eating me up. I must figure out another way to get through this.
Tolle's Power of Now helped me several years ago when my fiance and I broke up. Also try Michael Singer books. I know of a woman who kept her resentments going for over 15 years--no one wants that. Best wishes
Let him go.
The healing begins. But don't let him come back. When you let go you truly free.
Me too, locked me out of our house pennyless. I’m so depressed. Homeless. Moneyless. If I didn’t have my daughter. I’d be dead. I know it.
This really helped me to remember who I am. And to get my behind up and moving to get things done. I can do things with no transportation no money and I will pull myself forward once again. He hasn’t won. I will once again move forward.
It is a gift. You are now free to choose your destiny
Three things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, your attitude when you have everything and your wisdom when you aknowledge you have everything.
Wonderful words of wisdom! Thank you so much!
"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference." From Winston Churchill
Soo much wisdom and so true. This was wonderful. Good to read every day until memorized. Thank you!
Incredible compilation of wisdom! The idea of focusing on self-improvement rather than proving yourself really struck me. It’s a powerful reminder to prioritize personal growth over validation from others. Keep sharing more of these life lessons
If you are having a hard time with something, maybe it's because it's a hard thing to do.
What a blessing! Thank you, though not 80, but great for any age! 🙏🏾❤️
Really very good advice that we all need. Thank you.
When you have Jesus Christ in your life,your never alone❤
❤Amen
Praise the Lord !! "For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not, I will help thee." Isaiah 41:13.
Praise the Lord !! "For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not, I will help thee." Isaiah 41:13.
AMEN
LOL you are delusional, Jesus Christ was a composite invented by the Romans!
What a splendid lesson to cherish ourselves!
Amen they need to learn being alone is not a bad thing
Teaching wisdom vs much nonsense in today's schools etc. would be a nice shift , indeed ❤🙏✨
God will be with you in hard times he's healed of cancer
Life isn't easy, should say it hasn't been for me, however it has been an upward spiral. I am grateful and hope I have learned important lessons about many things, including self. I believe life is wonderful, love it!
Thankfully someone made it Anyway!
Wisdom. Thank you. So often I meet others who do not understand how I can be so content amusing myself just by learning, being and doing. I think we grow when we have time to be alone and can then give more understanding to others when we are not alone. It feels good being content to be who we are, whatever that may be.❤
I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success!❤❤❤
The more i think of my kids,the more i love .my dog
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Life lessons I wish I learned long ago...but I'm still learning
At 64, I see many of these are truly spot on.
You dont know how truly alone you are til you have no one to call. That's a 'lonely' which I've felt for too many years.
After listening to all of that i can honestly say i feel more like i do now than i did awhile ago.
Those are brilliant lessons in life. I copied them in my notebook. They can be my guide in life! Thank you so much.
Thank you Sir for sharing your wisdom wellbeing, good living life words and messages with all humans in Jesus Christ name amen 🙏
Same to you!
In order to be strong learn to walk alone! Miyamoto Musashi Ronin Samurai Warrior
If its good enough for a Samurai Warrior its good enough for me. Lol.
Such powerful advice! These insights from 80-year-olds really put things into perspective. Loved the message about valuing inner peace and controlling your thoughts. Amazing video
Harry & Megan need this video urgently.
Not sure who really cares about them. Let them live their life in peace and without judgements.
They are too far gone and up their own arse to be bothered, sod'em.....
Excellent thoughts Thanks sir
On June 14, 2024, I lost husband in his sleep. I lost the man in my life of 65 years. He was my lover, my friend, my provider, the father of my children who I have only one left. I will miss him till the day I am with him again. God bless the man of my life!
Bless you! 🙏🙏🙏
The more you control your secrets the more you control your life.
Imam ali a.s
Thanks for sharing!
We learn how to survive alone and with others.
I Find That Money is very important too! Living by yourself is great if you are suited to That kind of life.
Yes, but money would be good. I’d travel everywhere and help the children and elderly.
...Sage counsel indeed!
Thank you for this video
Angelina Jolie, in a movie said live each day as if it's your last, as one day it it will be.
Best advice. Find it out for yourself as early as is possible. You are alone. Period. You may have come surrounded by people. But you grow old and die realizing just how alone you've always been. Learn the difference between alone and lonely. The former is our natural state, the latter is our ego-social identity.
thank you!
Wow wow wow its fabulous ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Not everyone in the Bible got married and stared a family, alone never he's with you always thank you Jesus
That was superb an essential framework for anyone's life.
Would love a book with these gems printed in it. Thank you for these many inspirations.
There is one, it is called "Life's Little Instruction Book,"
Thank you for very good advice, regardless of age. Listening or reading are key elements of personal growth.
When truly alone you'll become aware we ain't alone. ❤
We certainly do. Thanks for confirmation lol.♥️
U can only be contented with what u have n not hunger for more be happy ❤
So true of words to follow in one’s life .
BEAUTIFULLY SAID!!!!
Vitamins for all of ages , the young and the old ones. Let's appreciate lives which had been given by our God!.
If it "Takes a Villiage to raise a child" where is the villiage when the child becomes an Elder and needs more help and care then their baby self?
Do not have the notion that,your children should compensate you for what you had done for them.Most often they side with their mothers and May allocate a fix pay for them.If you don’t expect anything from them then you shall have a peaceful state of mind in the event that they failed to live to their promises.
Yes love living my life the way I want to ❤ everyday is exciting never know what's going to happen. Love people love but lucky I feel as love my own company never lonely or bored don't believe in that word as always so much to do in life. Appreciate what you have where you have come from always be hopeful. Personally have gone through worst I feel in life. I know great loss, heartbreak & hardship I tell myself not going to be abused used can face what ever comes my way will be able to handle. Not ever running from anything again don't have to as only do right things not wrong. Love life determined rest of my life is going to be wonderful in everyway. Dreams come true & miracles happen all the time 🙏 thank you God for everything & more 🌟 Will always do my best & trust the process ❤❤❤
I was 79 last April. I lost the love of my life in August 2017, after 40 years of being together. I was devastated for 6 years. I have no children. I moved two years ago to be closer to whatever friends I had left. Within six months, two of those friends passed away, both men. I have one older sister that I haven't spoken to since 1989 after our dad passed away. She found out I was gay and that made it too embarrassing for her to deal with. I have no need to deal with the baggage she would bring if I were to try and connect with her again. She cheated her kids out of a great, loving uncle. I have only wished her well my whole life. The ONLY one in my life that ever supported me in every way other than my parents was the love of my life. I was loved. I have the greatest memories that we shared. I have no regrets about my life. I feel that my time is limited on this earth, and i've learned how the man I am today is due to the love I was given. I am not ashamed of my life or the person who loved me. God did ok by me......
Bless you! 🙏🙏🙏
Oh i love this qoutes this makes me more wiser every day of my life
Being old....well I not lonely....I'm just boarded.....
Thank you for these words of wisdom ❤
thanks so much!
Thank you so much for sharing this video and enlightenment!👍❤
Dear Jinxy Sanchez,
I see you, I hear you. Your life matters. You & I have a lot on common. But I'd advise you to pray & I'll pray for you. GOD SEES you & GOD TRULY CARES. You are HIS VERY VALUABLE CREATION. Never forget that. Nothing else matters.
Much Love & Blessings, Christina
An elder advice got all the merits and wise expertise for their real wisdom need to know what we are? and what we are all miissing and never heard so we all need to listen very carefully. Thank you for the sounding wisdom of advice. ❤❤❤
"Dont tell some people too much and your weakness. They will use it against you when they can...."
Good. Advice! Very Helpful! Many. Thanks!🎈
Glad it was helpful
This is the things I do and work on YES! THANKS!!
Do what you can and can what you do!
I love this wisdom I love it it's good to my soul 🙏🙏🙏🙏
thank you