5 Stages Of Bisexuality
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- As a Bisexual man i believe there are 4 to 5 stages every bisexual goes through while they are discovering what makes them bisexual, these are the stages that let me know how i knew i was bisexual. I feel like alot of this could be applied to other coming situations such as being gay, pansexual and many more.
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Hi everyone I'm the youtuber in Heartstopper ❤ go watch it on netflix 😊
wow that’s crazy did Netflix contact you to put you on the show?
@@hazelyt6039 kind of I was contacted by thr company making the show at the request of Alice oseman
That show is so special to me I can't get enough When will you post your reaction to later episodes Think I saw you talking about #5
So glad they are renewed 😍🤪
@@Courtney-Jai that's super cool
The show is life-changing for probably thousands of people and it's already Historic as a positive game changer in so many ways Alice needs to be sure that any difficult plot does not get in the way of keeping viewers happy and optimistic One way is to keep NICK AND CHARLIE As a loving caring couple
I know that would make me happy
I new that was you
1) confusion
2) confusion
3) confusion
4) confusion
5) more confusion
“trust the process”
7) uncontrollable fear and anxiety
8) more confusion
@@oworcestershire7331 ssssshhhhh don't talk about the bonus levels! Everyone needs to discover them by themselves NO TH-cam GUIDES!
Anna 😭THIS IS A GOOD ONE !
more like denial, deniAl, denial... means you are just gay. bisexuals dont exist. men who want orgasm, they exist.
My sexuality: confused
I am bi
My girl crush... straight
Guy crush...... gay
Story of my life
Same
I'm straight and like girls. Always have done. Would like to be bisexual and start dating men also.
@@MissDavids then do it as long as it makes you happy
Same
11: straight
12: *hyping girls up bc they are beautiful* + *making "jokes" about liking women*
13: bi curious
14: fuck im bi
Oh shit I'm on the second stage you just described
That probably says something about my situation hahahah
the "making jokes about liking women" hits harder than i thought 😔🤚
I'm at somewhere around 3th and the last stage
Same
That's basically me in a nutshell
I feel like I’m bi because of a girl in my art class a year and a half ago. But before her, I’ve only had crushes on guys, so I was very confused and mistook it for “I just want to be her friend”. So I started questioning and looking at videos of how to figure out if you’re bi and things like that. I feel like the most confusing part is I don’t know if I’m making it up or if it’s real. I talked to my brother about it and we have a very close relationship and I tell him everything, and he said “Don’t put a label on it if it causes so much stress on you. When you find someone, you find someone.”
Saaameee
You’re brother is a real one for this advice
Sooo Hey 🤠
oml share your brother with me-
Samw
When I first realized I was bi at the age of 13, I didn't know the word for it so I legit thought of myself as "half gay".
Lenny Payne I’m deadddd 🤣🤣🤣
bisexuals are just gay people not wanting to br called gay. That is why you now have the q in lgbt. Bisexuals dont exist. but straight guys can have sex with man. they are still straight!!!!
@@eduardochavacano ¿?¿?
@@eduardochavacano wth, stop trying to invalidate bisexual people
musicfret i presented an idea and argument. You responded with a command. Dude, Im not your butler! Go get a dog and feel like you have power over something.
Does anyone else go through crazy phases where they’re more interested in guys and then late they’re more interested in girls? And then sometimes they’re not interested in anyone and you feel so all over the place? Yeah me. Edit: I had no clue this comment blew up until 8 months later!
Collin Meadows I can totally relate! I identify as bi, but I currently crave having a bf and not a gf. A few days ago however, I was longing for a gf. But right now, I’m kinda just chilling on my own and being fine with that.
Ye man but only sex w guys no dating or any of that shit.. attracted to women
You're not alone
Yes lol it’s so annoying
Yea it’s like I’m confused I’m only 14 but I’m attracted to girls but sometimes I would be attracted for boys for a week but then I’d be like nah I don’t want that and then I wouldn’t and Id go back to being straight and I wouldn’t be gay anyway bc I don’t think my dad would be proud
QUICK TIP: if you are stressing about what u identify as, feel free to go "label-free". You don't have to choose if YOU don't want to
Yes!
@@twink276 Exactly In the end everyone can fuck and date whoever they want so it's not other people's perrogative to have you labeled if you dont want to label yourself
Please, help me. I consider myself as a straight woman, I never had a crush on woman, but than, I kinda freaked out when I find out that when I see orgasm and moaning woman turns me on. Am I bi? This is important for me, because I live in the religious society. Though, I'm not againts lgbtq either.
@@idontwannabeanonymous4725 in the end you can choose to not label yourself into anything and jut love and hang out with whichever sex you want
@Juntasan Shunsa thanks for your reply
“Sexuality isn’t a lifestyle, it’s a sexual orientation” That was an insight. It hit me hard and I had to stop the video to analyze it. This line is genius
It's not a preference, it's an orientation.
@@joshsmith2760 yeah sorry, I wrote this a while ago but you’re totally right
I am very confused I am a male crossdresser who has wanted to be a woman all my life and I don't fancy other men just women other crossdressers or trans.Am I weird straight guy lesbian this is doing my head in I just want to know
@@tonyhoughton6857 obviously I don’t know your life or feelings but have you considered being a trans lesbian or another gender identity/ sexuality? There are many people talking about their experiences so maybe you could look them up and see which resonates with what you’re feeling! I wish you luck!
@@Someone-zt1ni thank you I definitely know that if I transition I would definitely become a lesbian. I have been told that gender is different from sexuality as I have been fascinating about the female body for so long now it's the one I find most attractive
You will never know why I got so many likes
me
Galaxy Playz I’m asexual and bi maybe gay undecided
This is legit my stages of realisation too
Galaxy Playz I CAN RELATE
Galaxy Playz OMG sameee
im having difficulty differentiating between admiration and attraction
Me too
Yep
Me too
same
Me to but he cute
Being bi is always a struggle. As a 27 year old man I’m still dealing with it. Just love who you love. There is no time limit. Just be you.
Just be yourself,,dont commit sin to love someone but not REAL love ,,,its fake dont continue ,,you will suffer till end,,,that is the major ultimate decease,!very very very v v difficult to cure decease .....to be gay or bi or others,,,
You are fighting with Satan ,
But praying to God and really follow what is written in the bible ,your struggle will be solved till you become señior age,,,,
You will be amazed you are healed by God,,,,
I think the show heartstopper was well representing the Bisexual community. Now I came out to my mother before high school which was 7 years ago before starting high school. Last night I watched the second half of the show and love it. For the last few years, I have been wrestling with my sexuality and my Christian faith. last night I broke down in tears, I came to terms with my sexuality after wrestling with it. I love both men and women. I've watched your videos a few years before this show heartstopper. Just trying to understand what I felt. I talked to God last night and I know it may seem controversial, I felt his presence in the room hugging me, and just being there was amazing. I feel more clear about my sexuality than I have in years! Thank you, Courtney!
No problem and isn't hmthat point of faith , if you believe God wants you to live happy then you go live happy
I felt God's presence at the gay affirming non-profit Q Christian Fellowship's Chicago conference in 2019 and it was special and meaningful to me. The church I grew up with won't change their minds, but I know the freedom and acceptance I've experienced.
Please don't let religion ruin your life. Religion is so toxic and all man made up. It's very controlling and a cult. It can be down right dangerous.
Me at 12 years old: “I’m totally straight”
Also me at 12 years old: *goes to a wedding in a suit and converse*
I mean converse are pretty boss so I respect your choices I did the same for my prom
i wore a suit and doc martens to a performance i was in and basically INSISTED that that was my outfit. So yeah. Big ass mood.
Eleanor Clark Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
Courtney-Jai haha thanks man!
Same, thought I was so straight but I literally wore a glittery white tux to my aunt's wedding, I was the ring bearer
that's a sick fish tank dude
Thanks man it's in dire need of a good clean and some corals haha
I see Marlene,Nemo and Dory.
ellery glee
Do you really not know how to read?
@@black_horse_lover2655 unfortunately i never learned how
@@daisychaine1742 I mean I think it perfectly fine what you said so ....
“I was friends with everyone but also friends with no one” THAT HIT SO HARD OMG WHAT-
I’m realizing that I’m bi, but have a heavy lean toward men (I’m a woman) so I feel like I’m now “allowed” to identify as bi, because I feel like others won’t take me seriously and just see me as a curious straight girl.
I think I’m both physically and romantically attracted to both men and women, although I have more of a broad “type” with men. Like there’s a lot of ‘types’ (both physical and personality types) that I’m attracted to, whereas with women, I feel like I’m more “picky”, both with physical and romantic attraction.
I’ve been thinking about trying out tinder with “looking for a woman” settings. But again, I feel like any bi woman or lesbian will just see me as an experimenting straight girl and not want to waste their time.
Thanks to anyone who read this long comment. I’m just rambling because I don’t have any friends to vent my sexuality-based confusion to🤣
A lot of gurls say their bi when they are not
This is basically exactly how I feel. I don't know if I'm allowed to use the label bi or even really want to use the label. It's so difficult for me to talk about my confusion and struggles with my friends, even though I'm out to them as bi. It's just so hard to put into words for people who haven't experienced this questioning phase and also admitting that I don't know how I feel about girls definitively.
And then there's that girl I'm interested in and everytime we look at each other I go back to ... "Yeah I'm definitely bi."
I still don't know if I'm interpreting to much into this😕🥲
Also, thank you for your comment. It's always nice seeing that you're not alone.
Have a nice week
@@bi_twixSame thing for me.
Just to give a little update here, I have asked the girl out and now were practically dating, even though we aren't officially togethr just yet. I have no doubt that I do like girls anymore, and I guess I'd still be capable to feel attraction towards guys, so technically I'd call myself bi but I've started to not really care about labeling myself anymore :)
I wish you all who are struggling lots of strength and patience. It'll all make sense some day. Don't pressure yourself into labeling if it's not that clear to you, even though it's easier said than done. You're valid either way :)
Oof I know this is an old comment but this hits so close to home, the whole "i'm bisexual BUT i'm more attracted to this gender than that gender, so am I *really* bi???" thing is the worst haha
Me: _has had more crushes on guys than girls_
Me: _but checks out more girls than guys_
Me: Uhhh... I thought I was straight ..
k_y ME ME ME
This is me😂
Me
Makes gay jokes because gay used to mean happy
Sees hot guy
Me: I’m straight
Me
Sees a hot female body that is goals
Me
It’s just a phase I’m still straight
Also me:
Has lots of guy and girl anime crushes (can’t resist anime characters are so cute and hot)
Me in public
Sees a female mannequin in store
Me: stares at the body
Me: I want that body
Me
But that guy-
Me
I don’t even care anymore! I’m done! This is so confusing
Right ok same, I’m really confused rn coz I don’t know if this is attraction or just wishing I had there body. Because I’ve been attracted to guys before and it hasn’t felt like this but when I see a good looking girl I’ll say in my head “ooh she cute👀” then be like “woah, where did that come from?”
Same 🥴🤣
Me: Mom i'm bi
Her: cool
Me: do you actually realise what i'm telling you? I might bring over a girl someday instead of a boy.
Her: Honey, with those damn commitment issues you have, you ain't bringing a girl neither a boy.
Me:... now that hurt!
Rip
SAvAgE
Lmao 😂😂
Our truth.
My dad was like: So what? Big deal.
I honestly am experiencing this right now I'm 14 and am bi. I've only said that to myself because I couldn't say it to anyone else. I've been questioned since the beggining of Middle School and it was always hard for me to socialize going through with what I had to. This video made me feel alot better about myself💕💕.
💜
But what is bi refer to watch? Gay porn/straight porn or???
I wish this type of video had been around years ago. When I was in school, especially in middle school when I was first starting to mature a bit, I was bullied very heavily for being gay despite believing I was straight. As I got older, looking back on it, I know I repressed every ounce of feeling I had for other guys because I couldn't possibly be what all the bullies told me I was. I got so used to repressing, that I'm pretty sure I completely lost sight of half my sexuality for most of my life. Fast forward to a few years ago, when as a happily married man, I worked with a guy that literally every time I saw him I pictured making out with him in my head and thinking about how cute he was. My wife actually completely supported me and helped me work through my completely awkward and 100% confused stage that had me questioning everything. So many years...and tears... later, I finally accepted who I am. For me though, since I didn't realize I was bi until I was 35 and happily married, I feel like the experiences that I could have had as a younger person were ripped away from me. Part of me feels like I don't really even know myself, which makes me angry at all the phlegm-wads that took away any chance I may have had to experience that side of myself. That's one of the reasons I loved "Heartstopper" so much, because this issue was addressed in season 2 with the plot between the two teachers. I had to have a good cry about it before I could move on. Thank you for all the encouragement toward working through all the many different emotions involved in acceptance.
I'm very sorry to hear what you had to go through , I also wish I had a video like this to help me through alot of things being the one that nick watches in heartstopper was a massive moment for me because I finally got to be what I never had. I finally got to give back what so many people deserve a life line , someone to say it's okay to be you now I hope no one has to feel like we did and everyone can have those moments of happiness.
Me coming here to find a informative video:
My brain: oh no he's hot
I KNOWWW😭😭😭
Omg , I'm not alone🤩🤩
U read that with squidward's voice
same lol
Lol yes
attracted to women's lips and guy's abs so... Tom Hardy.
Alchemist1330 SSLALAKAKSKLAKS
Gift from god
Oof
That's a fact right there. Lol
Bitch same, and Chris Evans and Charlie Hunnam and Shawn Mendes gud laaawwwd! I'm gay af! 😍
Me aged 15, absolutely in love with zendaya, and in denial: i dont like her i aDmIrE hEr
Me age 16, looking back: gurl u so bi
th-cam.com/video/b9FunEkhTNo/w-d-xo.html
I've liked guys my whole life but i'm starting to like girls now I'm older. I think im bi with a preference to guys, but then I feel like I'm just straight and confused.
samee this is really confusing
please help
If you are sexually attracted to women, and have been sexually attracted to men in the past, congrats, you're bi (attraction to both sexes).
I think that's called omnisexual
@@shaylamia7641 It's called bisexual. "Omnisexual" isn't a real orientation.
My stages of discovering I’m bi:
1: I’m straight
2: am I tho?
3: I AM A LESBIAN!
4: nah I’m straight
5: I AM A LESBIAN!
6: wait men are hot tho... but girls are hot tho...
7: I’m confused
8: I’m bi shy and ready to cry 😎👌
Same thank God year 2019 is over next step coming out 😅🙈🙈#petrified
u...are me my friend ✌🏼
Same
haha literally me but instead of thinking I was a lesbian, I very briefly thought that I was aromantic. Nothing wrong with being aromantic but boy was I wrong
@@rolo1233 yeah... 2020 hasn't been going better.
Others: Bi people have double options!
Me: I'm doubly heartbroken 😔😪
omg why is this so real haha
G M yes
I mean 0×2 still = 0
Desiree Loveros exactly
Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
I feel like not making your sexuality your identity is reallly important. Its not your entirety, its essentially a sexual preference. Putting more attention and importance on how I feel and my experience in the moment rather than an idea of a 'Bisexual Person' has really been a big shift for me in accepting whatever is happening. Thankyou so much for makingn this!! Really helped me a lot and drop a lot of shame around it
I know this is a year old, but wanted to say.. Spot On. Very good post. It is amazing that young people like you have the courage to be public open about such important subjects and have a drive to help others. Great! Thanks for sharing.
Are we gonna ignore the fact my guy has Nemo, Marlin, and Dory in that fish tank?
Oh trust me plenty of people gave seen lol
@@Courtney-Jai bro but it is some times ok to find someone of your same sex attractive. I doesn't means that now your sexuality has changed
@@philosphergaming6954 ofcourse you could use the same principle of their attractive but not my type in regards to this
ikr
Thanks for that
me: he's cute
also me: oh she's cute too
me as well: *WAIT WHAT-*
Same thing happened
I can really relate.
Relatible
Mood
you want to be her!
Thank you, Jai. I’m happy that you are helping me through my struggles. In fact thanks from all of us.
I've finally gotten to that acceptance stage, but I was confused for a long time because I prefer romantic relationships with men but sexual relationships with women. There's no strict rules about it, which is comforting. Seems that I'm not alone in this.
Are you female?
Idk what th I am(:
I , a man.. have only and always enjoyed participating in romantic relationships with women.. how would I know if I wanted a romantic relationship with a man do you just know , or do you start to develop consistencies (feelings) towards guys that are close to you and respect you. Bc part of respecting me is respecting the man that I am
Same! Exactly the same.
@@howto-wiki8291 if they start to feel like your best friend, and it feels weird when you don't talk to them etc, that's usually a good start to a romantic relationship. I've always preferred to be friends first. But there's no definite right way.
Me at ages:
8: straight
9: straight
10: straight
11: straight
12: straight
13: straight
14: straight:
15: kinda curious but not really
16: holy sh*t I guess I'm Bi
fucking same
For me it was like:
Straight
Yep still straight
Definitely straight
Well boys are cute, but straight
Not so sure
Gay(?)
Girls are cute too tho
Bi
Same thing lol
Me:
6:IDK
7:IDK
8:Straight
9:Straight
10:Bisexual
11:Bisexual
12:Bisexual
Yeah, I'm pretty young
8 straight
9 straight
10 straight
11 straight
12 eh u wot mate I’m confused now
Me for 14 years: I’m straight
Me: I’m- wait...
Me: I’m bi
Me: I’m gay
Me: I’m straight
Me: I’m bi
Mom: *you’re straight*
Me: _dies_
Me: I’m bi?
Me: *_CONFUSION INTENSIFIES_*
True
Little Lotus that’s literally me
same
My mom said the same thinnng
Same
When you spoke of trying to fit into so many different things just to feel normal. This sent my mind racing with my struggle to fit in. I also don't like being around a lot if people because my eyes might give me away. Being bisexual for me has kind of always left me being half me in relationships but still very much alone. I have not been lucky enough to find someone like my self. I still have hope there's chance. Thanks for speaking out and putting your emotions on display. It helps those still struggling with who they are.
Omg! I can't believe I finnaly watched this video in full.
When it was recommended to me 1 and an half years ago, I was in full blown denial (I had been most of my life, cause you know, religion) and I wasn't able to watch it in full because of that.( Keep in mind that I was watching a lot of videos about being gay or transgender and a big supporter of the lgbtq+ community but I had a really hard time watching wlw and bisexual content).
I am out now but honestly coming out to my friends and family hasn't been a big deal as I know that they are supporting of the gay community. I was only hard to come out to myself.
geeezz, this video is making me so emotional rn!
Signs of my bisexuality before I knew (before, I thought I was straight):
1. Being touchy with girls
2. Wishing I wasn't straight even though I thought I was (who does that?)
3. Being huge into the lgbt+ community
4. Having a one second crush on a girl the schoolyear before I realized
5. Liking a crush on my best friend. This happened two days before I realized I was bi. A happy little bisexual.
All About April I was the exactly the same way. I loved the lgbt+ community and I was in different lgbt groups even though I didn’t discover I was bi.
Howly crap, that's litteraly me!
All About April honestly, 2 is a mood
Honestly same. Though, I think I might still be a couple of steps behind. I’m at the stage where I’m wondering if I actually am bi.
I get a little touchy sometimes, in the past I’ve wished I wasn’t straight, I’m way into the lgbt+ community (I have gay friends too which is probably at least partially why), I have had mini crushes on girls for like a second and I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t thought about kissing a girl.
But I’m still a little unsure. How did you finally just know?
2. Is soo me and I've always thought I was the only one😂
No one:
Me: stares at the fishes the whole time
I would almost be offended if you didnt their very pretty
stares at him the whole time. He's so gorgeous.
*whole time. *they're pretty.
thorr18BEM oops
asexual mood
That head shake after naming the downward spiral, it went right to my heart. Yes this warrior knows that hard road, just as I do. This is how I know I'm not alone and that I love men, when my heart goes out in a prayer of healing and triumph to a man who's been down in that dark. And risen back out. Good job on that journey, and on this video. Thanx.
Thank you I appreciate your kind words
This video was really helpful and I can relate to what you said a lot, I’ve been struggling for a long time and this made me feel so much more safe, so thank you!
I couldn't stop looking at your fishes.
THEY'RE NEMO AND DORY
Yolanda Gómez I love that this is what you took from this video
10-12 I'm straight as a ruler
13+ looks at slightly bent ruler....
Oh ! I'm bi
I'm exactly that, but not sure if i'm bi or not
I’m a demiromantic gray-ace
i just go by queer bc its vague and says im not straight
A weirdo That does art
I’m a twelve year old girl and I’m so confused at the moment and i don’t really know what to do. Does anyone have some tips on what to do?
I think the biggest issue is you are never quite sure if you’re Bi or gay. I mostly like guys but at random times (sometimes at times when I’m almost completely sure I’m gay) I see or meet a girl and I feel very attracted to her. Then it makes me start hoping and thinking maybe I’m straight and the gay side is just an illusion caused by being single, but then I see a cute guy again and I know that’s not the case.
We all have countless past/ parallel/ future lifetimes on earth and other places, what you have chosen to be in this life is right for you to experience and accept now. Everything else you can be/ you are experiencing in another time & place. The soul is eternal and makes no mistakes about the lives it chooses to live : we choose : to learn and to expand our self awareness of it being everything everywhere, all at once. ❤
This. sometimes I don't understand if im bi or gay
@@mrm4862I've decided that I'm definitely bi. Absolutely without a doubt. I believe there are a whole lot more bisexual people than homosexual people, so I would say you are probably bi. If so, please accept it. There's nothing wrong with it. Whatever you do, don't let religion get in the way.
My stages of bisexuality:
I'm bisexual.. I think?
Ok I have a girlfriend, feels nice.
I broke up with her, it just didn't feel right...
I'm single and I'm not sure what I like
I have a boyfriend
I think I'm straight
Oh no I came out as bi, and now I feel like I'm straight
But girls are so hot..
But I kinda prefer relationships with boys.. Am I straight or..
Help ima cry lol
You do not have to have a label 💛 just do what you feel is right and what makes you happy. Don't worry about an outside perspective
@@jocelynm3900 my mum says the same thing, thank you ❤️
meeeee tooooo im really scaredddd
You are bi! Some people label it as heteromantic bisexual where you prefer romantics relationships with the opposite sex. Trust me I feel the same way
@@AdventuresInMyaLand Thank youuu
How I figured out I was bi...
1. I’m straight
2. Wait, am I bi?
3. No I’m straight
4. I’m completely gay
5. Maybe I am bi?
I still don’t know. (;_;)
Same with me
Ezmaze Things same tho
Follow your heart.
@@kristian2319 honestly, there are loads of girls out there that are into pleasuring a guy in that way so you could just be straight...
Me omg
I watched this 2 years ago wondering if I was bi… this helps me so much. I am bi and I’m forever grateful to you for helping me when I was in the darkest point in my life.😁thank you🥰
Well I'm just happy a video like this could make such a difference to someone's life , I'm happy you realised who you are.
How well-thought out! I kept thinking about my zen practice: first you get in touch with your suffering and then you can help all beings!
Pretty much yeah tou have to address it before you can accept it
Me figuring out I am no
1. She's so pretty
2. Stop your straight
3. He's so cute
4. Yes your straight
5. She's beautiful
6. Am I straight?
7. Holy shit Tom Holland
8. See I'm straight
9. She is so cute
10. Ffs I give up
Lmfao me
(Even though I'm still confused)
@@jaydine6336 yup I'm super confused
Me
UnpredictableJaydine my mom told me that all people are actually a little bisexual before they find the one. That’s was what helped me through it. And a lot of people are confused. I talked to one of my friends she told me also she was confused! It’s totally natural and you will always be accepted!
omg same ha
😂
Representation to my bi boys out there.. this is something always piss me off, how bi people are discriminated by straight people and by gay people, and for bi boys this is even harder.
We need more bi boys on media, tv, movies, netflix shows, TH-cam or whatever, we need to normalize bi boys. We need to show to all those young boys that it’s ok.
I agree. 100%
I am gay but I would NEVER discriminate bi guys *he Is cute as hell i can't*
thank you
Me and my boyfriend are both bi lol
Mar Teumar stiles stilinslki
Just recently came out and videos like this are so helpful I wish I would’ve done this sooner for myself but I know everything is done in divine timing. Thank you so much for these supportive vids.
Well I feel very privileged to have a comment like this well done on coming out 😀
@@Courtney-Jai thank you 💜
Thank you for making this video,
It really helps me see that I'm not alone in this.
1. I'm straight
2. I'm questioning
3. I'm lesbian!
4. I'm straight
5. Im bi!💖💜💙
I’m still confused ):
Georgia D same 😔
Kimi Broadhurst Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
6. I’m pan 😳♥️
My mom: if u like a girl thats ok honey..
Me: SGJDIFOGP I STRAIGHT.
me on social media: damn girls cute doe
THIS EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME WTH
My situation rn
Lynibugz hah dats me-
skskskksks, R E L A T A B L E.
my dad: Laura, you can tell me if you like girls. It doesn't matter to me.
my mom: oh, btw laura. Your stepbrother just came out as gay.
me: oOP THAT BOI CUTE.
me on twitter: 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈⇛girls like girls⇚🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
my parents are homophobic so, can't relate
Man you have gone through a lot, your journey explains it, but in the end, your life become much sorted and you can live fully
I completely zoned out for half of the video cause I was look at Nemo, Marlin and Dory in the background.
There ain't no Dory in that tank though
At 0:02
Holy shit. Finding Dory
Same
Lmao Same
As a 77 year old USAF veteran who has been in a stable relationship with an incredible man for 48 years, I had my first heterosexual experience and my first homosexual experience within a week of each other when I was an eighteen year old college freshman in 1960. I had always been sexually attracted to men, but had crushes on women too. I've had two great relationships with women, one lasting for a couple of years, but on the Kinsey scale I am clearly more attracted to - and feel more comfortable in - relationships with men.
I'm lucky to have family and many straight friends who are very supportive.
@deyokes on yt Haven't you heard? Eighty is the new fifty. I still do long distance bicycle touring and regularly fly my single engine airplane on 500 - 1000 mile cross-country flights. ;-)
Holy shit!!!!! That's so amazing!!! I want something just like this! You. Are. Really. Lucky.
Stan Cooper thats awesome!
I’m 18 now and I found out yesterday that I always smile when I’m with this girl but..... I have dreams of boys
@@PilotScooper wowowowowowow
Thanks for this great honest video. I love how you describe your personal experience. Brilliant work. Love it.
I am so glad that you are putting out these videos and creating a space for those who are questioning and perhaps freaking out about their sexuality.
This is actually what I did for years before I did the reacts I have alot of videos planned just need to get them filmed how I want
Look at the fish tank does anyone else see Nemo Marlin and Dory
Yes!
I see Jonah!!!!
Oh yas
this is literally my brain deciding to be distracted during an important event...
Thas all I was looking at 😂
This is just raw bisexual energy: being everything at once!
Well let's embrace it then
@@Courtney-Jai Boop!😜
Omg your lines stating 4:54 really resonated with me. I recently discovered I was a member of LGBTQ and it's crazy how many peoples stories mirror my own. Thank you for breaking this down as an AMAB Enby I've always wanted to try kissing a guy/AMAB person. It's only in the last few months that I realized I was Bi/Pan
Sharing it is the healthiest thing you can do! It's great to see younger people have a much more positive experience with self acceptance. Great work!
They do now but I wouldn't say it was quite there when I came out almost 10 years ago but making videos like this makes a positive change
The "It's a sexual preference, not a lifestyle" phrase was really beautiful. I don't know what I am or in what phase I'm in but thank you for this video.
my mother still uses the term lifestlye & idk how to not not feel hurt by that
WIshing you luck with your walk into finding out more of yourself and what adventures are in store for you.
Sexual orientation works, too.
It's not even sexual preference...its sexual orientation....preference means u chose to be so....but orientation means it just is...u have no control on it
my stage of figuring out my sexuality
1. im totally straight
2. wait hold on-
3. nope im pansexual
4. sike im completely straight
5. but that girl is so pretty thooo
6. WAIT I THINK I'M ASEXUAL
7. wait am i?
8. confusion
9. confusion
im really really confused right now please help me :(
i feel that.
I’m going to screenshot this because this is exactly my life right now
Felt the confusion 😔✊
That's my life in 10 steps always on repeat
does it matter what sexuality you have? just go for whatever the fuck you like and figure out what you are later.
if you can't figure it out and someone asks then just say you're bi until you can.
sexuality is just a bullshit way to categorize the fetishes people like to pretend aren't fetishes anyways, so don't take it too seriously. why would being attracted to a D or a V be any different from being attracted to intelligence or stupidity, toned abs or flabs, flat chests or bouncy badonkadonks?
🇨🇦 What an extremely authentic sharing to people who will be helped with the information and your insights from your own experience. Ya this is very much a clip to share🤗Kudos
Thank you I appreciate that
This was a really good explanation. Thanks now am not confused anymore after this vedio. I saw a lot vedios but this is most convincing. ❤ thanks
My stages
1. I’m gay
2. I’m asexual (Denial)
3. I love girls but guys are also hot
4. But I’m straight, right?...
5. I can’t take this I’m Bi
6. I have to be straight!
7. There’s no rules, I’m bi
Same though. I need to get to stage seven though
got over stage 2 i think im around stage 3-4
Same it’s just I kept thinking I’m straight then two minutes later no I’m asexual and then a couple weeks later I would think I might be bi
My stages:
1.) I'm gay 😕 ages 5 -11
2.) I'm straight😊 ages 12-18
3.) I'm bi?😳 ages 18-19
4.) No..gay🙄 ages 20 -21
5.) I'm bi..🤔 ages 22 -24
6.) Haven't been with a girl in a while...gotta be gay 🤷🏾♂️ ages 25 -26
7.) I like what I like fuck it! 😎 27-
Update:: wow so cool to see all the likes from this just wanted to say @courtney-jai thanks for your inspiration and courage. Your videos has helped me to be more open for conversation about my sexuality. Even created a separate channel and all 🤣🤣 thanks man! Best wishes and to all of you below as well 😁😁
The exact same
I can sympathize with this.
@Anna Long you're young don't put pressure on yourself. Allow yourself to grow and found who you truely are
@Anna Long that's cool that you're somewhat aware. But try not to focus too much on that especially at 10. Enjoy your childhood while it last...all the little things. 😊
Awe 😇🤗✊
Great video dude explains so many things i felt and experiencing , im in between stages 4 and 5 loving life so magical grateful for everything thank you thank you
No problem glad I could help
That is why you look so familiar. I thought you're an actor. But seeing your part in Heartstopper made me realize a ton of things about myself. I always thought that I know myself pretty well until I saw Heartstopper. And your part is life changing (no kidding). And for that, I want to give you a big, fat, ginormous THANK YOU! 🤟❤️🤟❤️🤟❤️
Haha I'm youtuber I was just lucky enough to asked to be in hearstopper, I'm actually currently reacting to it for my channel.
Also I really appreciate the comment ❤️
My stages of figuring out that I’m bi:
Me: I’m straight
Me: that girl looks so pretty
Me: he’s fine af
Me: I don’t really like guys
Me: I may be a lesbian
Me: I’m definitely bi
marshall law
Amina Ahmed Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
I really thought I was the only one who thought I was lesbian
My stages of realisation
I am gay
I am asexual
I am Trans
I am Pan
Finally, I am Bi
This is the exact same phase I went through 🤣
Same
Wtf does pan and trans have to do with it?, asexual is when you dont feel attracted, and trans is gender identity.
@@FernandoAlonso-cj6pr I had this edge of being a woman, take woman mannerisms, wear high heels, put make up, thinking about how I Lucky I would have been if I had boobs and Vagina...
Parazo Diaz Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
I’ve been friends with this girl for 4-5 years now. 2 years go by and she’s a really good friend, the nicest person I’ve ever met. I also thought she was really pretty! I loved her hair, and she always brought me into conversations when she could tell I felt left out.
Then one day, I got butterflies. I had only ever had crushes on guys before, and had never even felt REAL butterflies before. But the butterflies I started getting around her, were so real and different, I didn’t even know they were butterflies. I went maybe a day, then I finally realized I got butterflies around her and I liked her!
Everything went by so quickly, it was like flipping a switch.
Loved this video. I wish there'd been something like this when I was young (I'm almost 60) because it took me until I was in my 30's before I realised I was bisexual. It was quite a shock initially but luckily the later-in-life discovery meant I seemed to avoid the denial phase almost entirely. Possibly also aided by having a long-term partner who took the bisexuality in his stride - we were together 38 years before his sudden death last year.
He’s cute I’m just leaving it at that
That's sweet thank you
Orion Bailey Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ???
Here is a different perspective.. love you....th-cam.com/video/IomSK8pudTc/w-d-xo.html
This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀
For me it was like:
1) Clueless
“Gays are okay, and they deserve rights, but I’m not gay”
2) Noticing
(Little me, without any damn knowledge on different varieties of sexual preferences) “Lol I think I’m into girls”
2) Denying
“There’s no way I’m Bi, I was just going through a phase at that time, I was young”
3) Giving a chance to the idea
”Maybe, but most likely no”
4)Giving a tought to the idea
”Maybe, I’m not sure...”
5)Giving a possibility to the idea
”Maybe, probably?”
6)Acceptance, still hesitated
”I’m bi. I am, am I not?”
7)Sure
”Nah fam I’m totally bi, boys are cute, girls are cute, it’s as simple as that”
7,5)pAnIc
”I live in the most homophobic country in Europe, what am I going to do??? Will something bad happen??? What should I do??? I’ll stay closeted until death!!!”
8)Confused doubting ”Maybeiamactuallystraightmaybeitsjustaphase”
9) 7 and 8, on repeat.
I really feel the “Gays are okay, and they deserve rights, but I’m not gay”, that's exactly how I've felt for so long and whenever any "gay thoughts" came up it really freaked me out but I somehow convinced myself that I was straight for so long anyway.
omg you just described my process xD, for the longest time i was like maybe im heteroflexible like im straight but i wouldnt mind dating a girl, and then i was like "do i like her or do i just like her "style?" and then i had a proper crush on a girl (and let me add a STRAIGHT GIRL) and was like fuck im bi! and with that came the thought "oh no i have to come out eventually" thankfully i have the greatest friends i could ask for and they know and suport me but i havent told my family and a part of me knows that they'll be okay with it but im just not ready for that conversation.
Sabrielys Gimelindez that “maybe I’m straight but I wouldn’t mind dating a girl” hits too close to home
Russia?
@@blakemtg47 Turkey.
Yeah it’s not in EU (for understandable reasons) but it’s still partially in Europe. Just like Russia.
Though your guess is close enough, we’re usually around the same rankings with Russia when it comes to most homophobic countries in Europe.
Oh what a time to be a proud citizen!/s
"Friends with everybody, and friends with nobody" ... I can relate. It's hard coming to terms with it all. I'm 50+ years in life, and I still find myself having to continually come out to people. Just because they assume one thing or another. In my field of work, it's very heavy with toxic masculinity, but it's getting better as society evolves. But even still, .... well, it exists to this day. But it does get better. 😇😇😍😍💖💖🎉🎉🌈🌈
Reaching out!!!!! Thanks for reaching out and helping people find resources.
No problem
when you’re 14 and have already gone through all these stages
✌️
Same dude! Yaaa
But I’m 13 and still confused 🤪
Lol
True
Im 16 and still confused if Im straight or bi
My five stages (as a guy):
1. I'm definitely straight.
2. Dudes are kinda fine, but I only REALLY like girls
3. Man, it sure is fun to mess with guys
4. Wow, I haven't thought about girls in while
5. Hmm. Guys are generally hotter than girls.
Im confused about myself
@@krthurz ,follow your heart.....not what the World tells you!
Skskskskskkskk sameeeee
give me some of ur attraction to guys pls
Same i guess
Excelent video!
(On the background we can see Nemo, his father and Dory.)
I really think you are one of the people we all need to have entangled in our lives. You carry a vibe that doesn't recognize the negativity in things but the positivity and the way everyone could be. It's better than what it was granted... but here in the US you get so much more wrong energy about the fact that you have a different thing going on sexually. The recognition of certain things and the person recognizing those things happen to be of the same sex. Or the appreciation and ability to share something with someone about a certain aspect you find pleasing. Thank you for wanting to take the whole topic and run with it. So refreshing and hopes that more will adopt the free-thinking you have in general.
I hope so. i was actually in America last week, and I visited the city of Virginia. I could definitely see the queer culture there really making its stand
Trying to fit in as many groups as you can is bisexual culture
I thought that was my life for a long time
Honestly, I'm a middle for everything, even sexuality.
When he said that I felt it so hard becuase it's so true, I don't fit into anything but I try to very damn hard
annabel yeah same here
Mood
Me figuring out my sexuality (female):
I’m straight
I’m bi?
I’m definitely bi
I’m totally straight
I’m Aromantic
Obviously straight
(Im at this point rn)
I’m obviously straight... right😳
Bi maybe??
Confused as hell
Same here, I'm still confused tho
dude exactly the same over here. I keep going back and forth and honestly all I can say is that im not straight. the said part Is that it took me almost a year to get to this point. also definitely relate to the romantic part...Im pretty sure im demiromantic or greyromantic as well a biromantic (?) but not sure lol send help
SAME.
Grace Clover Exactly me (Female) ----------I got a feelin' that you could be feelin'
A whole lot better than you feel today
You say you got a problem
Well, that's no problem
It's super easy not to feel that way
When you start to get confused
Because of thoughts in your head
Don't feel those feelings, hold them in instead
Turn it off like a light switch
Just go, click
It's a cool little Mormon trick
We do it all the time
When you're feeling certain feelings
That just don't seem right
Treat those pesky feelings like a reading light
And turn 'em off, light a light switch
SAME
For sure, denial is a massive hurdle. Great video, Courtney-Jai!! 🙂👍
Thank you
You’re such an inspiration to many brother🙏❤️🔥
My stages:
1. I am straight.
2. Wouldn't mind kissing that guy.
3. No, I am very straight.
4. Trying not to stare at the hot guys in the locker room.
5. I am very straight.
6. Why do I keep dreaming about making out with dudes?
7. I'm so confused!
8. Yeah. I am very bisexual.
Omg same but change guy to girl it especially with the locker room thing I’m just like looking at the wall like “oh that’s a nice wall” and on the inside it just don’t stare don’t stare don’t stare
Seme just girl version
Lmao me
@@casualpotato9375 He literally just said he's bi, why would you say that?
Aaron Hart maybe just gay 😂
Me figuring things out
I’m straight
She’s pretty
But I’m straight
He’s cute
So I’m straight
Oh but she’s really pretty
But I’m straight
And she’s really pretty
Maybe I’m gay
Oh but he’s super hot
No I’m straight
Oh she’s pretty
Oh he’s cute
Oh what’s happening to me
So I’m Bi?
I’m still questioning
May bi ...
I don't think you have to choose at that point
Yep, the cycle
I’m sure you’ll figure it out eventually, there wasn’t really a cycle for me. For 13 years I was like I’m straight and then all of a sudden I was like holy shiznit I’m gray-ace 😂😂
mood
Me too...
Glad you have learned to trust yourself and grow into who you are and are sharing your experience to help others!
I had the same thoughts when I was in school, I couldn't fit completely in any group....and I really tried to fit in, because I didn't want to accept my reality , i'm still in the process of accpeting but your words reallly gave me more courage to keep going...🧡🥰
“Either you will accept it or completely deny it” Dude, I can relate 😫
just like looking at your face,lips and eyes manifests my gayness :) You are a beautiful young man :)
Lmao
Deez Nutz Hi Deez Nuttz!✋🏾🐿🐿🌰
@@GODpermeatesEveryWhere hi who's this though.
Same
Deez Nutz Ha! Got eEeM!
Being a much much older man than you, or your audience, and having seen and experienced the transitions and “semi” acceptance of gay life through the decades, I find it wonderful that younger gay men are now able to be open and express, so openly, who they are. My generation had to hid in dark alleys in order to simply dance. I felt I was different since I was 4 years old. I saw may father naked standing in front of the mirror shaving after his bath! I was mesmerized, stunned and excited by his beauty and young body before me! From then on I never wondered what “turned me on”! (for those who may wonder, NO, my father NEVER touched me. He was a 100% womanizer until the day he died!) I would secretly swoon at my older brothers’s male friends who would stop by after sports. Later, In my adolescent confusion, I did “perform” with various girlfriends. (I guess trying to compete with my father and fight my preference.) Deep down I knew what my heart wanted and needed. I wouldn’t be faithful. I could, I guess, at my current age still perform with a woman, but, I always felt I would be dishonest to her because I know my preference. I guess I can “claim” to be bisexual, but, being from that old school, I would not only be cheating on my partner or being dishonest and/or both! Forgive this old man, but I find it hard to rationalize bisexuality: someone gets hurt, unless both are playing the same mental game of obfuscation! Stay safe young man, I hope you fall deeply in love with your preference.❤
I always knew I liked guys ( I'm a guy) which made me to believe I'm gay but at the same time I also kind of liked girls I just didn't really acknowledged it until recently and it caused me some confusion. This got me thinking and I've come to realise that everyone is unique and it shouldn't matter so much who we are attracted to.
2019: hm am I really straight ?
2020: * downloads TikTok * Yh nope
yes because tik toks are real life.
Omg did that today though...
Fr tik tok made me realize im bi
Uhhmmm excuse me... what's your skin care routine sir? I'm just a lil bit curious.
Not much really I use L'Oréal for men face wash everyday , sometime I might use a mudmask from lush and I use Coco butter for my hands and feet and loreal face moisturizer
I can do a video on it if you want
Oh thank you!!
@@Courtney-Jai Please do, I'm 20 and a guy and I need improvement asap lol
cridecar Sleep and diet.
Far out heres a good 1 for u, I came out as trans, always Thought I was bi been in denial due to total confusion. Not a normal life by any means?.. but happier I'm dealing with things now and not continuing denial and unhappiness at the age of 40 and no later!! Great positive video thanks 😉
This Video, is my FAVORITE video on youtube so so far..I always watched this video when I always get comfused being a bisexual boy..love this video..its really helps me to accept nyself and be a strong person and now my Family and some of my friends know that Im bi..dude thank you so much🌈💕..youre so cool..like the coolest person ive ever seen, I wish I have a Big Broh like you..but that doesn't mean I didnt like my three big brothers..they accept and they support..anyways thanks a lot😅.
Thats awesome man and its makes me so happy this video can do so much
Yeah..It is, and Im thankful that I found this video so helpful😊..again thanks to you.
I realized I was bi at summer camp when the prettiest girl kissed me and I didn’t pull away🤷🏻♀️
Damn... so freaking lucky 😂
Catherine Linsey lucky👁👄👁
😭😭😭share your luckk with MEEEEEE😭
I wish it was me
I wish the girl i had crush on for years didn't pull away when i kissed her🤦🏾♂️