Curious about bisexuality? | how to know if you are!
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- This video gives a guide for anyone who has ever wondered whether they are not 100% straight or gay.
It helps to explain what attraction is and how to understand your own. I have written a special article to go along with this featured by The Know magazine.
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Could you be bi-curious or something more? Find out by watching this video and reading my article on bisexuality today…
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Mark turned everyone bi with one video
He trapped us all with this one 😆
Hurrah! You discovered my cunning plan! 😂🤣
Recently discovered your channel and as a bisexual man I have to thank you for sharing this with us. I’ve only watched a few of your videos and very much appreciate the content. I’ve been married to a both a man and a woman ( not at the same time) and they both were monogamous relationships. The most difficult part of being bi for me is the negation of my sexuality by others because so many people believe one must be either gay or straight. Thank you again for your content and how clearly you express and deliver it.
Hey thank you so much for joining us and for your kind words. I’m so glad we can connect. I totally feel what you’re saying. Thank you for sharing a bit about you too. I’m so proud to have you here with us. Sending so much love and welcome 🩷💜💙
So basically practice mindfullness 😌
Have a non judgmental mentality, listen to your body, accept what you are and are thinking (but acknowledge that that is just now), everything changes all the time (impermanence) and so on…
Namaste 🧘♂️
That’s not a bad summary 🙂 these concepts are kind of universal so they apply to everything ☀️ there’s nothing innately difficult about figuring out your sexuality 🩷 it’s just like figuring out whether or not you like the colour blue or the colour red 🌈 it’s the meaning and the anxiety we create around it that makes it so challenging for people 🍃 so aligning with yourself, becoming attuned to your body and your authentic feelings is what it’s all about 🌼 that’s all sexual orientation is anyways ☘️ it’s what you like so yeah namaste 🙏🏽
Hey Mark, I've just come across your channel. Quite interesting, as also the process of being a coach here made me re-question my values some years ago! Throughout my life I had relationships with girls and guys, including marriage.
Our society pushes us to be straight or gay, but we should gaslight ourselves, and connect with our hearts and body indeed.
There's a sense of inclusion when we understand that we like people whoever and however they are. Also, there's a sense of freedom not having boundaries!
Hey thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. I’m so glad we can connect this way and I definitely relate. Sending so much love and best wishes. Thank you for watching. 🩷🩷🩷
Once again, incredibly validating and these exercises are so good for people who are questioning because it breaks that gendered view of sexuality which really is the basis for confusion. Our bodies know what they want. 👏🏼
In short you like who you like.
Most attractive people if not all are bi lol but whether they will admit or not is another story
Haha .. why just attractive people? I think it's generally most everyone. You notice when a straight guy is with his bros, there is always gay judgement but alone, always nicer.
yes he did a data analytics about bisexual counts and it was very high, but what im saying is, is that attractive people are most likely to be the most experimental and the most open about it, the data also showed many people go from bi to straight between age of 20-30 @@someoneout-there2165 think it all comes down to cirumstances, even what makes people hateful and bitter tbh
This is the most valuable video I've seen about this. I feel so embraced❤. It feels so right.
I'll start applying your tips from now on:
1-Think about the features you like, regardless of gender
2-Listen to your body
3-Choose the label it feels right for you (but remember, sexuality is much more than a label).
Let's see what I'll get eventually
I’m so glad it helped. You are so loved and welcome here in our community.
Great video as usual, happy (almost) visibility day! 💖💜💙
Thanks and to you too. Bi visibility EVE!!! 🩷💜💙
these videos help me out so much. i hyperfixate on my sexuality so much and this really calms me down.
I’m so glad to be of support. I know it can be brutal. Sending so much love.
"Are you bi?"
More or less, yes. To be precise I opt not to label myself, but most definitely in the bi spectrum. Took me years to embrace it, but this is how I am born to be.
I do, however, prefer men better than women over the recent years due to reasons. But I did have genuine romantic and sexual feelings for the opposite gender and that was not a phase. People may simply call this as homoflexible? But I prefer not to label it.
It's 'queer' that I'm still confused about. 😅
Wow! You’re really the best. Everything you said makes perfect sense. I wish you had millions of followers because every person needs to understand these concepts so we can have less problems in the world! 💜💜💜😊
I always thought i was stright and i had many female relationships. Until i met my mate, and started being attracted to him
Hey thanks for sharing
Incredible video as always!! These are so validating and amazing to watch. The way you explain all these different things is just masterful. Thank you so much for everything you do! Also, congrats on over 4K subs and Happy Bi Visibility Week!!!🥳💖💜💙
I wish you knew how much this made my day.
Your videos are very well. Done. I truly believe that 100 percent gay or straight people are not in the majority. I think almost everyone is on the specturm. Please overlook the bad grammar and spelling.
I'm primarily attracted to guys that are rail thin, taller than me and have masculine qualities. By the way, nice nails.. shocked me when I first saw them. 💖
This video deserves more views!!!
Thank you!! This has been sooooooo helpful!!!
Your videos are the highlight of my day 🥰😍
This is interesting. I don’t have any academic background with these areas but I always wonder and question about it. I always find gender-neutral attractive, or both masculine and feminine attractive. I was asked by mom and her friends whether I like men or women and I always can’t give them definite answer. I’m female, but I don’t attract to “very masculine” quality. I do find any feminine quality endearing. And only 2 times in my life that I experienced something similar to “crush on” are female with mixed of masculine and feminine quality 😂
Anyways, great video. Thank you!
Hey thanks for saying. I’m glad you liked it. Thank you for watching.
Thank you very much for another very well done video. Personally I like the simple and clear explanations as I'm not an English native speaking person. Keep it up!
Hey thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so pleased you like the content and of course if anything is unclear just let me know. I know how it is to be a non-native speaker so I’m delighted it’s okay for you. There should be subtitles as well on all my videos. Shout if I can do anything else for you. Sending so much love and gratitude. Mark x
I find myself to be sexualy and romanticaly attracted to many different things...
I am a woman, I like man (mostly androgynous ones) and I also like energetic, dominant, positive, max liberal alternative woman who are physicaly stronger then me and have beautifull feminine features but more of a masculine and dominant energy
I am also romanticaly atracted to deep, emotional friendships with woman, and I have a wild variety of erothical and romantical fantasies and dreams about (mostly imaginary) people of both genders.
I am still not quite sure about my sexual orientation, but the term that definitely feels the most right to me is biromantic 💖💜💙
Hey thank you so so much for sharing.
If I have recurring fantasies about being with someone of the same sex is that my body telling me what I want ?
In those fantasies can you name the emotion that you are seeking to feel in one word? Name it. That is what your body is telling you that you want.
I think many people are bisexual or pansexual. I often see many men stare at me, but not in a stern way i can only assume they like my looks?
Last words in video: "Bi for now."
Hehehe I know lol. I love saying it.
Hi!
My mate has loads of energy and is funny, thats what i love about him, but i don't see it in a sexual way
That’s beautiful
mark i have a question. so i have a boyfriend and would never date a woman, but i feel attracted to them. what does that mean?
Is our sexuality in our genes?
There is no genetic determinant of sexual orientation however there are many complex genetic elements which affect attraction. It’s highly complex. But no, there is no orientation gene.
🎉if you're open to a new bf, here I am.