Are You Bisexual ????
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- Are You Bisexual ????
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Are you really bisexual infact what actually makes you bisexual , can you be more or less bisexual or can you be bisexual first and later become or vise versa we cover all this today with the brand new video flare. If anyone is struggling with their sexuality, be it being gay , bi , lesbian or something else feel free to reach out to me.
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Like anyways love, peace and chicken grease I'll see you when you see me.
I’m crying in confusion. I have no idea what my sexuality is and it’s frustrating
I feel you
There's a Q for a reason just chill out and you'll find out maybe.
@@Cris_Formage I’m bi now 👍
I keep on thinking if I’m straight or lesbian it’s confusing
I love your hair
Yass his hair is everything 👏💕
I was literally thinking that lol
I am so glad i found Your channel. I am 20 years old and for like 6 years of my life I have been in a deep depression because of this, but I finally admitted it to myself recently and I couldn't feel better. Thanks You for Your existence ❤❤❤
That absolutely amazing im really happy for you , keep me up to date with how your journey goes
I saw thor and I was like Yup And then i watched wonder woman. And i was like Yup. Am i bisexual....Yup
Rightttt
LMAOOO🤣🤣 Im fucken deadd XD
Hey everyone I hope everyone likes the video I accidentally didn't set it to Premier but I will on the next one
It's okay!
It's OK
I am ...Will you be?
There’s waaayyyy too many labels. I don’t know where I fall, I’m a human being is all. I like what I like, I’m an individual. I don’t have to fall within a label 😁
I’m bi and extremely happy about that.You look handsomer everyday.
Yep! Didn't realize until I was about 19 or 20. The "liking girls" and the "being envious of good-looking guys" things misled me. It did throw me for a while but I love it now!
I have difficulties in saying that I am bisexual, fear of discrimination.
We all do
It’s SO refreshing hearing a guy talk about this! So glad you’ve come to this stage! I’m sure it’ll be incredibly helpful for bisexual boys and men who struggle with this and who currently can’t imagine themselves being honest to anybody or even themselves about their sexuality.
1. YOUR HAIR IS SO CUTES!!!😍😍🥰❤️
2. Thank you for making this video!! And telling your story with the word. Theses videos you make really help other people! You amazing person!!❤️❤️🥰
Yeah, I'm bisexual and proud!
Loving the hair man. Making great use of that whiteboard too. Maybe I should start throwing things in my room haha. But yeah, its a great point. There are stages. Changes for everyone. Just got to be true to yourself to make you happy :)
Once again ... thank you so much Courtney Jai. You're so right Andean help a lot of people.
You share and show them, you can lead them in a positive manner on their journey in life. You are really growing in confidence too. It shows in your videos. You are looking great too. Take care and be well.
It wasn't a crazy journey figuring out I was bisexual I realized I liked both guys and girls when I was around 12 but didn't know know anything about sexuality or labels and just thought I could only like guys then when I was 14 I heard about the label bisexual and now I'm 18 and identified with it ever since
Im 14 now and going to almost same
thank u sm for making this video 🥺
I could say the same for watching it but as long as it helped thats makes me happy
Bless your heart Courtney-Jai
For my experience being a bisexual men is hard when you fall in love with a girl and you told her that you are bi and she just tell you that doesnt exist well it hurts,and please bisexual girls dont be double moral to say girls can be bi and boys no.
I can relate.
your videos fill me with confidence about myself, thank you.
I'm happy they do
this really helped me, thanks
I'm happy it did
I’ve accepted being bi/sexually fluid but I haven’t come to the point where I can embrace it and im fine coming out t to friends and be comfortable telling people as long as it doesn’t get to my parents bc they know I’m not gay(which I’m not fully) and they don’t think it’s an actually thing like they think you either like girl or boys but not both so imma just stay in my comfy closet from my family 🙂💖💜💙
I relate to what you said about overreacting to being called gay or even being called ma'm.
Yeah I feel like it invalidates us sometimes because how I think about it is like genres of film gay is a whole other genre of person haba
Oooooooh “nonchalant” get you haha 😂 Very “Call Me By Your Name” 🌈
1. Why did you not call me to tell me you posted a video and yes I realize ur dont haven't and are in another country
2. UR Hair is amazing
3. I think I went through 3 maybe 4stages: SHOCKED- a guy kissed me, THINKING/ACCEPTANCE- what am I what do others think and why do I even care about others I love myself who cares, EMBRACING- the next day I told him I liked the kissed
I have been questioning my sexuality for years on and off and I still am no closer. I know I like boys so there’s still a chance I’m actually straight and I really can’t think of a moment where I’ve felt the same for a girl that I’m sure is not just me looking for an answer. The only reason I’m even questioning is that I’ve got a feeling that I’m not straight and then that feeling evolved to questioning. The problem is that I don’t feel like I fit into the typical stages like this video or other videos. I guess I would be closest to denial but I try to keep an open mind and look for the sign but I just don’t see anything and every conclusion feels wrong. I’ve time to time tried not to let it drag me down too much and come back to it later but I feel like I need a new strategy. I also haven’t felt the typical “down period “ when questioning, more so a small moment of panic every now and then and I’ve felt down for other reasons. Basically I feel stuck and I’m currently trying to go with the flow and hope I figure it out as I get older, but I keep coming back to it so some advice would be appreciated.
Andrew Garfiels famously said "I'm straight but I'm open any impulses that may arise within me at any time". Could be your sexuality is Andrew Garfield))
@@TonyIgnatova i mean i am open to the fact that i may not be straight but i feel like there’s something more or i wouldn’t really be questioning it, so i don’t think it’s the same as with him
This video is amazing because
1. It helps me embrace my bisexuality
2. The plot you drew hilariously suggests that, as you go further into denial, the more sad you get. But also there is a point where, if you go just a bit more into denial, you lose your sadness really quickly 😂😂😂
Yeah I realised that after haha mistakes were made lol 😆
Yup, I alredy know, but just to make sure
I've been watching your channel when I finally looked up Bisexuality on the Internet and TH-cam I've been at a cross point where I don't know what I am whether am Bicurious or Bisexual man's it's confusing
As I said experience can change all that being in-between bicurious and bisexual is kinda revealed once you have your first kiss or first real emotional connect.
Exactly one might have many gfs but another special one of the same gender comes and makes you wonder a lot and the all makes sense you love the person not their gender
I actually really confused.. Like i have never have thoughts about girls like in a romantic or sexual way.. I actually have a boyfriend.. But after some situations i kinda start to pay more attention to girls, like "ho she's so cute and pretty" or something like "uau look at her so hot" but i actually don't know if is just admiration or I actually want to have something.. I just don't see nothing weird about dating girls guys or whatever.. Like it doesn't really matter to me sense the person is cool ti hang with and cares about you.. But i haven't really had interest in girls that way until recently, i'm 19, so wasn't I supposed to have that already figured out? Like, i feel nervous around everyone because i'm a little ansious about knowing or talk to people.. So i can't actually tell if i'm bi sexual or bi curious or maiby i miss understanding something amd i'm actually straight.. I'm so confused.. Like.. I just don't know..
Also.. I have afraid if i'm actual bi sexual my family will kick me out.. Like i know they will love me anyways but the one who owns the house is ha.. Really close minded.. He said if i ever bring a girl home he would kill me.. So yeah.. And the others will love me.. But not support me because.. They're all pretty judgemental.. So.. This also confuses me.. Because i don't know if i can't recognize my sexuality because of this situation or if it's because i just admire beautiful girls.. I have never talk about this to anyone.. And i'm afraid to do it.. Because i can be wrong.. And even if i'm right apart from my family i don't know how nmmy bf was going to react or my friends.. Everything is a mess..
Omg 100% same ajsksksl
Except that i'm single tho ahah
It's "easy". If you don't feel turned on and willing to take their clothes and fuck them, then it's not sexual attraction, it's admiration of their beauty
Yes, yes I am :)
Mine took like few years to accept it 😁 an then few more month to understand than im actually pansexual and one year later i also found out im polyamorouse so yeah it took all like 6years 🤔🤷♀️🤦♀️😅🤜🤛🏳️🌈
omg i have that exact same whiteboard in my bedroom and im bi!
Haha it belongs to my girlfriend haha
I need help. I’ve been questioning my sexuality for a good week. It’s stressing me out. I had this dream during that week about two random girls being a couple. I didn’t like the dream. After I had that dream I tried to convince my self I was bisexual. But deep down I don’t think I am. The next day I had dream that had the same couple talking to her son about not forcing himself to be something he’s not. He tried to convince himself just like me. So I guess the son was portraying me. Turns out the son was gay and that he was just confused. That made me feel better but I keep second guessing myself. Help please!:)
I know I'm late with this answer so I don't know if you need help with it anymore... I have an opposite situation, in my dreams I only like girls but in real life I'm trying to know if I like boys too. I think that your second dream is trying to tell you something or calm you down. Just take your time ')
Ewa 78 Thank you for responding back. I’m no longer questioning my sexuality. Turns out I’m straight. I tried imagined myself with women and I just didn’t like it at all. I wouldn’t feel comfortable. So I finally figured it out
@@Carmen-ro6ji I'm happy for you! I think that everyone at some point questions their sexuality.
Yes I’m am 😘😘
Life sure is complicated, isn't it? :) But I've found that once you finally accept and embrace that....life actually gets fun and novel.
I've always been "STRAIGHT." A straight guy. But am I...? I don't sexually _desires_ guys.....but do I find some guys incredibly attractive? Yes. Definitely. Fuck you Matty Healy. :P I feel like I'm bi on an _aesthetic_ level, if that makes sense. I also find gender norms pretty boring and limiting. I like nail polish...I like fashion...I like *_androgyny_* a lot. Anyway, great video. I enjoyed this...and it helped make sense of some things I've been thinking about lately.
And I like you and your point of viev :)
💖💜💙
I'm out to parents but not some of my friends.
I literally just had an idea but I feel like it's probably stupid LOL I wonder if it's possible or even acceptable to integrate a sexuality class like it doesn't have to be in schools but like maybe a optional class for those who want to learn more about themselves or receive encouragement and positivity to be themselves which it probably already exists and I'm being stupid like I said LOL but it was an idea and I wanted to share
I think that's a great idea maybe a class that teaches about the history of the lgbtq+ and how you can reach out to people if you need it
Hey when I came out to my bff I felt nervous and bad is that normal
Of course your expressing a part of you that you've always felt should be hidden but what comes from that is your acceptance of yourself and later your happiness
@@Courtney-Jai thank you you have help me so much
Damn...it would be really hard for me to hide it if you were my crush, even if you were straight. You're absolutely gorgeous. I'd risk it all for you 🤣.
How did you find out you were bisexual ?
It was when I accepted the fact that I'm attracted to both male and female body. Before that I was kinda justifying my sexual attraction with 'it must be a homophilic phase' for example and making excuses that I'm just bicurious or 'sexuality is not only sexual desire so as long I don't want a relationship with a boy I'm no bisexual'. I was also called names becasue of 'some ppl thinking I was gay' and that contributed to my fear of exploring my non-heteronormative side. Eventually, I realised that my attraction to both genders is consistent and my reluctance to even think of being with a boy comes from the fact I just hadn't met the right person. As the acceptance welcomed me, I just started to be open with my desires and to feel free to share that "I find them attractive" regardless of their gender ;)
When I was 14 I thought I was bi-curious so I told my best friend, and she said she was too. However, I was in denial about how I felt towards girls and felt ashamed of it. When I was 18 I saw a picture of Dakota Johnson and Jamie dornan together and I realised that I was just as attracted to him as I was to her. So I came out to close friends and family :) I'm on the path to acceptance but I still have struggles with questioning my sexuality sometimes. Thanks for this video!!
In first grade I saw a cute theater boy playing a part in a play and he was SO CUTE and watched him for the rest of the day. At the same time, I was hopelessly devoted to a girl named Lauren. And also, I thought Troy and Gabriella from HSM were cute af. Then, one day, in 6th grade, I cried myself to sleep because I thought I was gay and weird but then I put the pieces together and realized I was bi.
When I was 12 I discovered my bi curious. I told one of my friends. That friend was there by my side whenever I needed to talk and helped me through a lot. As the years passed I started to go into denial. I started cutting my wrists and having veary unhealthy diets. I had believed that I deserved to experience a lot of pain because of my sexuality. And being in a religious school that shuns LGBTQ+ I struggled to accept myself. I had some really dark thoughts, I just wanted to end it all. It hurt to much to keep up my fake identities, and hiding my true self. Sometimes I go back to my old way of thinking, and trying to suppress my feelings. Trying to deal with some of my embedded homophobia of my religion. While I don't have anything against the LGBTQ+ community. Coming to terms with the fact that wasn't the "norm." caused me to have a really hard time dealing with the fact that I feel attraction towards both men and women. I am now slowly coming out to more of my friends and family. I have found that the most important thing about my entire journey was just being able to embrace myself. Even when it was hard. I would have to say that the hardest thing now is keeping this secret from the people in my life that I love, but know wouldn't except me for my sexuality.
I think I always was, but I was religious for most of my life and was in denial because I thought there was something wrong with me. After a long night of crying and reading a the big book, I realized I didn’t believe in it all anymore, and I was able to begin accepting the parts of myself I had always kept hidden. Your video was spot on (they always are though).
You're so handsome lol.
Been Bi-sexual for years now but just finally accepted it myself a few years back. Still don't have the courage to come out though, sadly....
Don't worry you will one day life isn't a sprint its a marathon sometimes it just takes a bit of time
@@Courtney-Jai Thanks man
Yes, I am 😍🏳️🌈
I love you.
Don't cut your hair!!!! it fits you beautifully!
Not planning on it
I am 19 and male and and think I am bi but I am not sure because I am se*ual attracted to guys, I think they’re hot and I really want to know how s*x with a guy is and sometimes I also imagine being in a relationship with a guy. On the other hand I always had crushes only on girls, I think they are beautiful and I most of the time imagined a future with marriage and children and becoming old together with a girl. I never had a relationship and s*x with either sex and I don’t know if I am gay, bi or straight and bi curious
Im 21, sometimes ive felt atracted to men but im not sure. It feels wrong, how can i figure out if i am bi? (69th comment wow), Great song/music comparison btw
Well how do you feel about men and women do they make you happy, you only feel its wrong because of society
0:55 drawing my crush😍😍
I love me a little drawing haha
Ohhh denial was so fuuun maan
Geees
I’ve been thinking I’ve found some men very attractive but its a much smaller group than women I’ve found attractive am I bi or am I missing something
You could still be bi just means your particular about who your attracted to
I remembed confiding in a friend that i really liked this girl and she said "well you just like her as a person, it's not like you want to have sex with her"
Me being a virgin: * questioning being bi for the next 5 years *
I've read through like every comment and I still don't know what that strange blue spider in the fishtank is. My ADHD won't let me listen to the video all the way through until I know 😂
Its a cleaner shrimp
yep, like this one lots, but its me, I have to criticise something, CJ, get a hair product sponsor, the hair darling, the hair.
If only it was that easy lol
@@Courtney-Jai Sure it is munchkin, you're a very marketable product (you know that) Still talkin' to me huh?
Help I’m not sure if I’m gay or bi but came out as bi but then as gay but now I’m not sure
Ah yeah and I think I’m having a crush on my best friend
I like the music analogy.
I'll add that listening to a different type of music can make you more appreciative of music in general.
Fyi, I like pre 2000s country, rock, and bluesy stuff.
Hypothetical question for Courtney. Do you think if your first experience with a boy was terrible and your first experience with a girl was awesome, or vice versa, do you think it would have been an influence on preferring one sex over the other, even though you are still bi? In other words you can’t pick your sexuality but you can pick your partner.
Yeah I think you could reflect on that complely like that , thats why I said experiences can change how we completely look at the world one bad experience can make the rest of the experiences feel terrible as people we are very good at lingering on whats bad in our life rather then whats good.
It’s me I’m the kid who said “does this make me bisexual”
Its alot of people I think it because its hard to decide if its a phase or the real deal
Lol still my hero ♥️
You said your dad is also have u ever felt anything for a guy your dads age like my age?
Not sure what you mean by that my dad isn't bisexual, as for guys my dads age I guess some celebrities I find attractive like idris alba, steve Carell with the beard look and Kurt russel.
When I knew I was no sexual when I find out I was attractive to dudes at. 12 I did not want to accept it cas the Bible now I see it’s nothing wrong cas u can’t help who u love
Me then : "I'm very straight"
Me after watching Gachimuchi : "Maybe, I'm bisexual"
I had a gay sexual experience an I love it and I think about him every day I am in love with me cas I am who I am bi sexual thank u my role model is u
Hiii from Egypt you are so beautiful I love your face
Thank you thats so sweet
I’d like to see some new content pls
I've filmed some stuff but im busy at thr moment and don't want to release anything unless I'm a 100 per cent happy with it
Courtney-Jai no problem
New content is up hope you like it
I am trying so hard right now not to make a JoJo reference in response to the title, becasue I know it's annoying to some people and many might not even get it.
Ah fuck it, here it is:
th-cam.com/video/msqUsa2I_OA/w-d-xo.html
I'm guessing this is an anime show I haven't seen it though sadly
Help me to get british girls sir
I am out the closet cas of u thank u I truly look up to u
Thats amazing congrats a whole new world is about to open up for you
Well done! I'm not bi, I'm 100% queer!