"How Do I Kill The Beta Male inside" ?

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  • @pmf026
    @pmf026 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    My #1 blue pill mistake was "trying to make her happy". Don't do that. It's not your responsibility.

    • @TheHillrat4wd
      @TheHillrat4wd ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Been there

    • @anthonyharmon9265
      @anthonyharmon9265 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yep....she should work to make YOU happy and to want to keep her ass....she has only 1 value and thats bearing children, period

    • @pmf026
      @pmf026 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@anthonyharmon9265 Wrong. It's not her responsibility either. One cannot control other person's emotions. That's pathologically narcissistic.

    • @ARTENSASS
      @ARTENSASS ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth.

    • @takeastandorbeenslavedby-left
      @takeastandorbeenslavedby-left ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pmf026, you are wrong. Beta

  • @18LonelyRollers
    @18LonelyRollers ปีที่แล้ว +90

    “Don’t worry about chicks , chase excellence “
    Fine words sir .

    • @devilsoffspring5519
      @devilsoffspring5519 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you're at your very best you don't chase excellence. You create it. You define it outside of the world of image and racking up pieces of ass to put on the scoreboard at the bar.

    • @nospoontobend2656
      @nospoontobend2656 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @moleahy6880
    @moleahy6880 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    If you are a man who has his life together - you own your home, have a career, fully funded retirement and non retirement accounts - why would you invite some random woman who didn't participate in building any of that to share it with you? It's like you did all of the hard training, ran the race, won and all she did was wait at the finish line and claim half the trophy.

    • @Hypnotically_Caucasian
      @Hypnotically_Caucasian ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I want kids. My sister can't due to medical issues, so now my entire family put that on my shoulders. It's just that there are no "young ladies" in the US anymore. They are ALL hypergamous

    • @moleahy6880
      @moleahy6880 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Hypnotically_Caucasian Then maybe you and the rest of your family should join forces to properly vet any woman you plan on marrying. And if you have a lot of resources and she brings little to nothing, don't forget about an ironclad prenup. Best of luck!

    • @wolfthequarrelsome504
      @wolfthequarrelsome504 ปีที่แล้ว

      To start a family perhaps?

    • @dantheman4447
      @dantheman4447 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is absolutely true. 💯💯💯

    • @zingking0132
      @zingking0132 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dude stop letting your "family" dictate how you should live your life.

  • @johnnyhandsome3424
    @johnnyhandsome3424 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    She went from hot to cold because there was another guy in the picture. She didn’t want to explain it because she didn’t feel like lying to him about it. /story

    • @user-lt4dm4zx3z
      @user-lt4dm4zx3z ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Makes sense

    • @fabricio_santana
      @fabricio_santana ปีที่แล้ว

      It could be. But it's just weird to me that she was a virgin before dating this guy and suddenly she's monkey branching so quickly...

    • @TheToolnut
      @TheToolnut ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They always have a backup dude.

    • @hussein5570
      @hussein5570 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Women always have options, and ALWAYS entertain them.

    • @TheToolnut
      @TheToolnut ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hussein5570 Monkey branching.

  • @elnegro23
    @elnegro23 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Getting your heart broken normally does the trick.

    • @Hevdan1
      @Hevdan1 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Well, it's just a beginning. Still you have to do the work for yourself and mainly it's a matter of changing your mindset. Which is very hard but worth it. But yes - ironically the break ups and broken hearts are "useful", the turning points.

    • @Black.mountain._
      @Black.mountain._ ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yep. The heartbreak actually saved my life

    • @mortalkomment8028
      @mortalkomment8028 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Heart break plus redpill knowledge

    • @yourmomisgay1420
      @yourmomisgay1420 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, no matter how much you learn beforehand, nothing beats 1st hand experience, your 1st couple of relations will always be a beta fiesta

    • @mashleyred2180
      @mashleyred2180 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah it wakes you up also its hard work to correct yourself learning but you do get there.

  • @janusthegreek7465
    @janusthegreek7465 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    You have to be willing to walk away from a relationship at any moment. That is the basis of frame and where your power lies.

    • @davida.taylor8444
      @davida.taylor8444 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly. This whole narrative of supporting the girl through all her troubles and hardships as a supportive and understanding man usually leads to losing frame. I agree. Walking away can be liberating and even life saving.

    • @rbfarrell1
      @rbfarrell1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't marry the B or your power as a man is gone.

    • @noahmets
      @noahmets ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish I could do this. But whenever I think about leaving I am terrified

    • @gibsnackgaming6087
      @gibsnackgaming6087 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need to cut the anchors and start fresh. I hate myself because I don't have the balls to do this. She is not terrible but I just don't know what to say if I leave

    • @Fontainebleauify
      @Fontainebleauify ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is the only way.... and you have to believe it and be serious about it. Even if you have kids married etc.

  • @Ihearttaylorswif
    @Ihearttaylorswif ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Men, start off on going to the gym. Get your body shredded. It sets the tone for everything. Physically and mentally. Focus all your energy on your path and purpose. And never , ever put up with female attitude.

    • @buddylove3640
      @buddylove3640 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right on the money man. Thank you. I'm 63. God bless you.

    • @anthonyharmon9265
      @anthonyharmon9265 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bingo!

    • @jessicaprice6190
      @jessicaprice6190 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@buddylove3640 A bit to late to take this advice for you boomer isn’t it??

    • @anthonygrover
      @anthonygrover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Purpose over Pu$$y

    • @jolicska
      @jolicska หลายเดือนก่อน

      im in good shape, shredded whatever you call after 13 years of pro ballet and 5 years competitve swim and gym. I'm telling you just because you are in shape no success gonna happen if that what you expecting from it because it is elementary like able to read and write.

  • @steve1714
    @steve1714 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    If any girl ordered me around in my house about dishes, clothes, toothbrushes...she'd be out the door quicker than she can say sorry. I'd trade her in instantly.

    • @ronvaughan8041
      @ronvaughan8041 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like the ones even more who start telling you about everything that you can/should do to the house and how they know all about how it's done because they watched it on Flip Or Flop. Meanwhile they've never held a hammer, made a mortgage payment, will never be able to make a mortgage payment, and have no intention of ever getting rid of their credit card debt.

  • @christopherhayes5238
    @christopherhayes5238 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    After I descended into beta simp territory in a vain, futile, and desperate attempt to salvage my marriage back in early Fall of 2013, and after my now ex-wife divorced soon thereafter, I had to do a lot of soul searching. I analyzed my behavior, was utterly disgusted by it, and decided that I would never allow myself to fall again into such depths of beta simpdom again. I learned form my mistake and I am still ashamed by it. Never again.

    • @tpv59
      @tpv59 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      THANK YOU.
      YOU are the MAN !!!
      YOU are the MAN.

    • @starsthedog
      @starsthedog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry to hear that brother.
      Keep at it and crush life

  • @steveduranko4911
    @steveduranko4911 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I had a girl literally go back to my car after a date and we hooked up in the backseat. She literally brought up politics and I stood my ground in my stance. She knew what my views were before even meeting me cause it’s on my dating profile but she still went out with my anyhow. I just find it funny she brought it up after the fact of banging me.
    Then like two days later she cut it off due to our “differences”. I wouldn’t say it was a loss in my eyes.
    If a girl cuts it off with you it’s not always a bad thing and I wouldn’t consider it that I lost frame because you can’t change a liberals mind 😅

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Silence speak volumes

    • @emptysoul2757
      @emptysoul2757 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Definitely a win/win

    • @cool28990
      @cool28990 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      'Liberals' lol there you go.

    • @J.J.Redick
      @J.J.Redick ปีที่แล้ว +18

      you could have kept spinning her as a plate if u kept ur mouth closed or just played along. don’t debate with women they can’t handle Ls

    • @najeegilani
      @najeegilani ปีที่แล้ว

      she might've asked you after banging cause she hoped you'd have post nut clarity.
      You passed the test, congratulations.

  • @marquisl2313
    @marquisl2313 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    That's one thing I really like about Rich. He uses specifics. He goes deeper than the generalizations most people use. That's how he cuts through the BS so fast.

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton ปีที่แล้ว +129

    The first thing is realize where you went wrong and eliminate those choices from your life. Rich is right that in a relationship power struggle is real. The man has to be in charge from Day 1 🤔

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      From Day one

  • @pete531
    @pete531 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Girls never tell you why to prevent you from learning. She wants you to continue making same mistakes so that other women get alerted too. But if you follow these channels and read RP books, and reflect on what happened, you will see your errors. I started to write "date analysis" where i out line the situation and all the mistakes i made and what i have learned

    • @shanekc3738
      @shanekc3738 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm gonna start doing the same with outlining my mistakes

    • @danr9584
      @danr9584 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She won’t tell him, because she knows he will get defensive and try to argue with her about every point she brings up.

    • @stevearnold8265
      @stevearnold8265 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Funny to think that fucking spreadsheets and data analysis and underground books is what it takes for most guys to get women nowadays 😂 What an absolute joke our society has become lol.

    • @guitarman0365
      @guitarman0365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its almost as if women intentionally lie to men about what they want specifically to root out the betas. To see who is stupid enough to listen and who is man enough to ignore it all and do what he wants that way she automatically can see who is worth looking at. I can honestly believe that kind of manipulation.

    • @barrywhite5502
      @barrywhite5502 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yet women continue to make mistakes but have the gall to keep a list of mens' mistakes. You can't make this stuff up.

  • @Andy-Andeee
    @Andy-Andeee ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Here's my take on it, if she refuses to tell why and is the one to suddenly break up with you, she cheated and is moving onto the next guy.

  • @robertrichards4930
    @robertrichards4930 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Disney must be stopped!!

    • @stms4331
      @stms4331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Disney will pay for this wrong doing

    • @samuelspencer5047
      @samuelspencer5047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @samuelspencer5047
      @samuelspencer5047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stms4331 lol

    • @brianm1185
      @brianm1185 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah really

    • @corvin87x
      @corvin87x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There was a good christian orthodox article about how good brand's especially disney destroyed themself by interfere with politics and ideology.

  • @joeyholthusen6495
    @joeyholthusen6495 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My wife gets up at 4am in the morning to see me off in the morning for work, she makes my lunch ect.. puts out my clothes ect.. when I get home, washes me done, scrubs my back. Even puts toothpaste on my toothbrush. I always drive. But I had to buy the cow before I taste the milk if you understand. Very respectable woman from Beirut Lebanon.

    • @ronizielinski4048
      @ronizielinski4048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw sounds nice

    • @joeyholthusen6495
      @joeyholthusen6495 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ronizielinski4048 I was divorced for over 10 years before, and lost everything. I got so tired of dating shallow American women. Got tired of being asked, where do you work? Do you have a house? What kind of car do you drive? Ect..... so I found a humble Christian woman from Beirut Lebanon, who worked in a law firm for 23 years. Myself I'm a combat veteran, went to college, graduated, also worked at the state as a senior inspector overseeing multi million dollar projects. Now I'm the superintendent/asphalt foreman at a construction company. I also just recently filled as a LLC for tax deductions and bought a sawmill. Holthusen & Seaman LLC. Plan on bringing in my wife's brother's into the game. They both absolutely could be rock stars here. One has a degree in hotel restaurant management from Harvard University the other has a degree in computer science. Both speak multiple languages ect.... all of their friends are doctors, lawyers, engineers, architect's ect...

    • @ronizielinski4048
      @ronizielinski4048 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeyholthusen6495 yes, that is what I have been noticing. The emotional crazy lady would have made a great housewife 80 years ago. Today, this woman is a mess, as her natural role has been stripped. Her brain has to catch up and evolve, and quick!
      I noticed you emphasized your lady's career. It seems as though the career oriented woman has become the modern good girl or marriage material wife, as there seems to be not much space for actual traditional women, as technology and culture have removed that role 95% . However, the stripper and hoe type of deal is still on the table (modern version - Instagram model). So the two a man is choosing from now is the Instagram/ stripper/only fans/ indecisive emotional unstable but cute girl for short term vs the marriage material career women

    • @joeyholthusen6495
      @joeyholthusen6495 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ronizielinski4048 she doesn't work anymore, her job now is that of a house wife. 😉.

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you found someone buddy.. im still not even over my ex from the philippines and now she’s getting married.. im so hurt cause im stuck here in the United States with women who just want to use me

  • @TheDogggrecords
    @TheDogggrecords ปีที่แล้ว +27

    She's messing with you dude. She knows it's harder on men to break up and it helps for us to have closure...as simple as knowing why. Her withholding that from you is her trying to punish you. Abundance mindset, move on, keep busy and pretend she never existed. You got all the value she had out of her, you win.

  • @rocstarang5747
    @rocstarang5747 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    He ignored the red flags because of the hot sex...

  • @hwy1310
    @hwy1310 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    BPD…..I’ve been in TWO long term relationships with women who have that……you talk about a rollercoaster ride. I’ve done a lot of self reflection and I’m determined to avoid this type of woman in the future. Never again.

  • @jellyjams7217
    @jellyjams7217 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That girl in the story didn’t want you to be her boyfriend because she valued your connection or the relationship. She wanted it for her own image so she could tell her friends she had a boyfriend.

  • @philipbunney9445
    @philipbunney9445 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    An example of frame I just thought of comes from The Godfather. During a small scene where Sonny, his mother and friends are having dinner, his sister mentions that their father (Vito C) never discussed business at the dinner table. That was Vito’s frame. Immediately things change & the family resorts back to Vito’s rules (frame) even though he was in hospital.

  • @mariomedinafitness
    @mariomedinafitness ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very true. My wife knows for an absolute fact, that I lead and she follows. And when it comes up that she disagrees, she says it respectfully. My response is usually the same. I disagree and state my points and end with, we are not doing that because if it does side ways I'm the one that has to fix it. I rather fix something I messed up. Now remember this is my wife not my girlfriend. If it was my girlfriend I would barely explain why. She is totally in my frame and I know I am really blessed because I hear HOROR stories of what guys are dealing with now a days. Ps. I agree with Rich also. It's tough to KEEP a girl in your frame especially initially. But it gets WAY easier the more you're in the relationship because they start to settle with the fact that they can't mold you into what they want. And they convince themselves that truly you are thier best option and if you believe what you believe that deeply, then you must be right.

  • @wowerman
    @wowerman ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have been in recently in some relationship ( 6 months) with modern bossy type woman.She was at first warm, she was more in touch with me. After few months she accused me of treating her with equality rules when dating and paying for dates. Quite funny how she did not consider herself a feminist at this time.
    If she did it would mean GAME OVER for her on financial level, so she has lied to me and herself while exploiting me.
    Later on nagging has started and while she was expecting me to be traditional she came out more and more as feminist.We clashed few times and relationship has ended.
    I could not stand her telling me as Rich says basic things adult person knows already. As for me there can be only one masculine person in relationship between a man and a woman.
    If a woman tries to take over your masculine characteristics ,it means that you met a bossy woman/ feminist type and if you have balls you'd leave ASAP.Remember guys. A feminist can be very sexy dressed and seducing but her behaviour and actions will tell you who she is.

  • @TaylorWalston
    @TaylorWalston ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I broke up with a gal, we were good friends, but I did not like how she respected my values when I said I did not want to do something. When I broke up, she wanted to know why, and in my head I am thinking I don't mind keeping you as a friend, and I don't rake my friends over the coals. Did not matter, she turned nasty, made a ton of assumptions and went behind my back sharing privileged discussions to try and sabotage friendships I had outside of her. Now if she would ask...

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t take her back

    • @TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels
      @TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels ปีที่แล้ว

      Do. Not. Be. Friends. With. Women.
      How can you be 'friends' with someone you're banging? Do you bang your male friends? Your mistake was attempting (or pretending) to be friends with a girl you wanted to fuck. Please don't do that again.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages ปีที่แล้ว

      Women are vindictive children like that

    • @TaylorWalston
      @TaylorWalston ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 not a chance.. the ... was if she asked she would get the facts I held back.

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TaylorWalston okay keep moving forward wait until god find you a wonderful woman don’t chase it without you knowing god will find you what you are looking

  • @janeznovak7589
    @janeznovak7589 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When you need to talk to Richy for 20 minutes you have a lot of work to do man.

  • @achavez78
    @achavez78 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Relationship equality"--- that was your exit sign.

  • @Asdfbedffhdsxe345
    @Asdfbedffhdsxe345 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    A great conversation, I got a lot from this.
    It seems we must just instantly ghost them at the first sign of a red flag....
    On dating sites it seems that girls adverts are just a list of red flags to avoid, but they seem to think it's a list of things men want.

    • @ArchinatorWC88
      @ArchinatorWC88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts. I see girls on tinders bio's that say competitive things like I bet you I'm funnier than you or You will fall in love with quicker than you can imagine or I am sassy and full of attitude..and a single mother. Constant red flags that they seem to think makes them attractive.

  • @1xm_mx1
    @1xm_mx1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Deprogramming the beta took a long time for me. I started the process after my less than satisfactory experiencess with women, and later during the process, I joined a men's team (men's masculine support circle), and it helped me deprogram the beta male out of me gradually. I would suggeat joining a men's team for any man who want to deprogram the beta programming out of them. The men's team strengthened the masculine and removed most of the feminization out of my behavior. It is like going to the gym to get stronger.

    • @openureyes929
      @openureyes929 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Was it an actual team or just guys getting together? Ive never heard of a mens masculine support group.

  • @bryceclark8985
    @bryceclark8985 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How to kill the beta? Work more. Focus on making money. Making yourself stronger, better, physically and mentally. Make it a practice to reduce “necessities” in your life. Focus on upgrading your life, wardrobe, network, investments. Do not make women your priority. If you have to second guess yourself with a chick, and it’s too difficult and it doesn’t feel like it’s serving or benefiting your program, fuck it, get off the ride. You don’t need them. They need you. Make it so obvious. Then allow them into your life under the conditions that it remains fun and it’s building both people up.

  • @10Cnote
    @10Cnote ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good and useful conversation.

  • @RobStone
    @RobStone ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was like him once.
    After 2 horrific breakups with 2 women who turned out to have BPD I can now spot them big time and my word... best 2 things that happened as they made me who I am now.
    We have to go through it to learn by it

  • @periclescimon9954
    @periclescimon9954 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a great video!

  • @marcondespaulo
    @marcondespaulo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Quite timely. Thanks.

  • @chockman3833
    @chockman3833 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Man who doesn’t maintain frame complains about not having frame

  • @6PackTo6Figures
    @6PackTo6Figures ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Rich, here in Etobicoke. Love your work, hopefully one day I can interview you,

  • @jeremybrown4489
    @jeremybrown4489 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You don't try and kill any part of your personality, you integrate it.

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When things are going good, and she suddenly cuts it off and won't tell why, you know she found a better, hotter dude. Girls reserve the right to flake at any point in a relationship, so act accordingly. This is why I have zero hesitation to do whatever I want, sleep with other girls, travel, etc, I live my life as though that relationship can end at any time.

    • @JT-up3tb
      @JT-up3tb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      after going through my first breakup thats like honestly rational way to think

    • @user-lt4dm4zx3z
      @user-lt4dm4zx3z ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A meaningful romantic relationship is practically impossible in a society that promotes women's independence.
      How in the world can you become committed to a woman who doesn't owe you shוt?
      It's a problem from day 1.
      You go out on the first date, pick up the bill for dinner, and then she can ghost you the next day. The fact that you paid for dinner is meaningless.
      Then, if you somehow do end up in a relationship, you can become emotionally invested and she can monkey branch to a hotter guy.
      And that's without saying anything about marriage, which is worse than castration.
      The more independent women become, the bigger the risk of you getting screwed and feeling like a loser.
      It's like all relationships that do work, are accidents. They work in spite of a hostile society. And many of them are time bombs wanting to go off. So it's just a matter of time till they too fail.
      Relationships are not detached from the surrounding societal environment, from the cultural atmosphere etc.
      But rather deeply entwined with it.
      As long as society is profoundly sick, the default result for relationships will remain 'failure'.

    • @zenvultra4457
      @zenvultra4457 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-lt4dm4zx3z savage facts.

    • @dre4505
      @dre4505 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-lt4dm4zx3z well said !

  • @AdamantSeraph
    @AdamantSeraph 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't want to brag, I knew almost all this things, discovered by myself after my father passed away when I was 19. However - the way Rich puts order în these things is something like fresh air and free gold. Excellent! Chapeau

  • @RussellTurner
    @RussellTurner ปีที่แล้ว

    BEST video I’ve heard on this ever. Thanks Rich.

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder ปีที่แล้ว

      If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @samhill65
    @samhill65 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your expertise.

  • @MLBERBERKING1063
    @MLBERBERKING1063 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Rich

  • @CameronKiesser
    @CameronKiesser ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to get the book.

  • @raularmas317
    @raularmas317 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    On how to leave the "beta" tendencies behind:
    Learn to internalize your own locus of control before beginning a new relationship.
    Define your particular personal boundaries early.
    With a solidly internalized locus of control you should be able to maintain your frame on your personal likes and dislikes and what you will and will not tolerate(your shoulds and should nots) in a relationship.
    Anything beyond that can and arguably should be used as terms for negotiation.
    Once you have taught her the art of negotiation about lifestyles or living arrangements life "should be" a lot more peaceful because she will recognize and feel safer around you because you are not insisting on having every decision go your way.
    You come across as reasonable rather than trying to monopolize total control of the relationship.

  • @morebass6644
    @morebass6644 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The guy just doesn't want to be seen 🤣😂

  • @inserter400
    @inserter400 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was a really good video 👍
    I going to get the audio.

  • @jamesmcmccray8255
    @jamesmcmccray8255 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Women lose interest because they have the attention span of a 5 year old. They don’t want to play your game anymore, she wants to play with someone else because she’s bored

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is American first world countries

    • @sss-ir5hp
      @sss-ir5hp ปีที่แล้ว

      call em bitches not women

  • @mknlve
    @mknlve 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    rich is right. BPD for sure. i do deep trauma work/ cellular memory release for actually dealing with the wounds in the unconscoius. it is all there, and it takes over the conscious mind as tine goes on in a relationship, because its the 95% of what lives and breathes us,. like you dont really breathe or beat your heart, do you?well, all these reactions, splitting, and needs stem from this repression. i was an empath unplugged beta male bonded to someone who was demonstrated both BPD and narcissism. it was gnarly man. but what massive growth as of a week ago! i realized it was on me, i needed to level up and start to meet my needs first. i was always chasing her, being the anxious, people pleasing avoidant attachment style. anyway, what happened here is the chick issues is with her father back then. not now. therefore, those issues are repressed in the unconscious. doesnt matter what her conneciton with dad is now. you have to vet the early childhood and if she did the inner work to deal with it in presence and awareness. so, sounds like she love bonbed homie and then split, flip flopped due to starting to feel uncomfortable, because the intention of this guy, regardless of beta male, was to project secure attachment style, which energetically was felt by her repression. She lost it because a secure relatioship is foreign and not safe... we default to the familiar, becuase again, 95% of what we don't see is what is running the show. Without emotional intelligence and "seeing it for what it is" like a stoic, it will be a bumpy ride on both sides as we become liabilities to ourselves; not the other. Just my two stoner cents... thanks rich. i need a dose of this kind of information now.

  • @Bag664
    @Bag664 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dude she was not a virgin. U did not take her V card. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @phillipb4996
      @phillipb4996 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bpd girls always have high body counts from my experience. Always bisexual too.

  • @AndreyGreenYtube
    @AndreyGreenYtube 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The simplest and most effective way of maintaining this "frame" or whatever it is:
    At any circumstances, in all situations, before every decision ask yourself a single question:
    What else, apart from emptying my balls, do I get from this girl?
    In 99% percent of cases the answer will be "absolutely nothing".
    After the answer is given, take you decisions.

  • @dancing_reaper2046
    @dancing_reaper2046 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He needs to read the book again…

  • @acewelddive
    @acewelddive ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Rich

  • @kevins5833
    @kevins5833 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    With all of these issues with woman, isn't it just easier to simply stay away from all the shit that comes along with them? The truth is they never give back to you the way you give to them. I've taken myself off the market and gone MGTOW for over a year now. My life is absolute tranquility, no drama, no arguments, and a lot more money in my pocket...

  • @caleb-dx7yd
    @caleb-dx7yd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “She has all green flags.” two minutes later we find out that she was raised by a single mother.

  • @LinskiyEnterpriseLLC
    @LinskiyEnterpriseLLC ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've experienced this (11:45) first hand with my now ex-wife. Rich is 100% correct about women with BPD.

    • @mikeg2491
      @mikeg2491 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dated a girl with bpd for 6-9 months, I swear those were the most stressful months of my life and I literally feared for my life and career with how crazy and vengeful she could be, I can’t imagine being married to someone like that for years.

  • @bob2me2002
    @bob2me2002 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poon Law 89: Blessed is he who teaches future generations: not to make the same mistakes as the earlier generations!

  • @erockvaughn2190
    @erockvaughn2190 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I use to spin about six plates or so at aa time. No exaggeration. Once I got in a LTR, I maintained that I see other women and she has to deal with it. Years later. I see any woman I want and she gets mad about it. But never says anything. One time she pulled a fist full of hair out of my butt crack. Then a week later she found tons of hair in my sweater. She cries but then falls right back in line. If you maintain frame, never bend you can live an amazing life. She knows I can walk away at any moment and is always fighting to keep me. She tries to shit test me from time to time. But finds out she will never get me to bend.

  • @Coach__B
    @Coach__B ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dude dodged a bullet and seems upset about it.

    • @adamwarlock5286
      @adamwarlock5286 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haven't we all coach ?

    • @Hevdan1
      @Hevdan1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I was thinking the same thing. To be honest I somewhat "envy" him. He's young, have some red pill knowledge already and his relationship was very short. He didn't have enough time to create that strong emotional bound with her so the pain or trauma are not so much. I had a break up after 5 years of LTR nad that hit very hard.

  • @jemonda
    @jemonda ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hommie sounds like he is still plugged in.

  • @werthersoriginal
    @werthersoriginal ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *The climactic battle to kill the false being within and victoriously conclude the spiritual revolution.*
    - Christopher McCandless

  • @TheScaryGermanGuy
    @TheScaryGermanGuy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You need to chase excellence and at the same time accept yourself the way you are at any given time. And when you are with a girl your mind won't throw things at you like: Am I good enough for this girl? This thought is the problem. You don't need to establish the opposite either. That is just coping and hiding insecurity behind "strength".

  • @LetsGetRight369
    @LetsGetRight369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts. Always be in the driver seat.

  • @Elaw73
    @Elaw73 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Rich for more priceless AM advice (alpha male)

  • @d.j6371
    @d.j6371 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Like in baseball she gets 3 strikes then she's out. I had 3 dates with the last one. She wanted to play the hard to get game. The next time she texted me, I texted her: Get back with me when you're wearing a dress without panties.

  • @jesse0317
    @jesse0317 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    His last words of "yeah, yeah I know..." tells he's still plugged in. Like Rich said you must chase excellence and it starts by working on yourself. Build that self confidence to where you can set and enforce healthy boundaries so that you can vet people that come into yourself that don't belong there.

  • @DenisDaigle
    @DenisDaigle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this one. “Don’t brush your teeth there” and Rich says “it’s your house, you’ve got a cleaner coming in”. Outside of that would be your mind is on something more important that you need to do and she doesn’t have anything better to do.
    Those are the details that make the petty statement of “don’t brush your teeth there” moot. That’s the type of detail that is missing. You actually need to own the house, you actually need to have a cleaner hired coming by, you actually have something more important to do. As a red pilled beta, I’ve lived that speech and had none of those reasons I could stand on, so I complied. To me it’s more than attitude, it needs to actually be real to be effective. Def feel like Nick and how tough it is to say that with conviction.
    I’m here to learn, please correct me if I’m wrong, but unless you have things in place to factually stand on reasons, and just use pure “no I won’t”, is if you saw your father or father figure be able to do that.

    • @varmastiko2908
      @varmastiko2908 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The ultimate frame is something not shaken by outside factors. Owning the house etc. - that's not the foundation. The foundation is to never compromise on your frame. The frame is the foundation.

  • @danielhausbeck9976
    @danielhausbeck9976 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t have the temperament to be shit tested. If she starts bossing me around, I bounce indefinitely. I don’t put up with it.

  • @damianlopez7630
    @damianlopez7630 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome Podcast!!! I read a bit of Hebrew. I believe The Gentleman's name is Nik Kirshaman.

  • @asianom1
    @asianom1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video, I do have the academic credentials in neuro behavioral psychology to pull a diagnosis and Everything you said Rich is right on point! Im new to the station and will be sticking around!!.. The whole hot cold thing right after sex the next day like it never even happened and why are you bothering me?? yes that’s a direct red flag for borderline personality disorder!..he’s might want to want to watch out for violent outbursts excessive lying etc. etc.! And the only thing I can say as far as killing the beta inside that the kid on the line is..the Beta is an Easy kill lol….love the videos n keep em coming !!…

    • @Erick-di9gm
      @Erick-di9gm ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok Mr psychologist, it's really not. Especially when your father was beta af!

  • @Rakyr
    @Rakyr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree, usually the hot and cold
    Issue is related to her accustomed to being abandoned and she thinks you are going to leave her anyway so she might as well disconnect however. However if she wants to change and you reassure her, it is not a dealbreaker as long as she acknowledges it and works on it

  • @lukaszklopotek
    @lukaszklopotek ปีที่แล้ว

    excellent video

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder ปีที่แล้ว

      If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @whiterabit09
    @whiterabit09 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "your not giving me specific advice" Rich: do you have an example? "None comes to mind"

    • @whiterabit09
      @whiterabit09 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then argues every point Rich makes

  • @AndreyGreenYtube
    @AndreyGreenYtube 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The only reason she leaves you is that she'd seen better, bigger, chaddier deal.
    That's all.
    Women are like magpies, attracted to any shiny object they can (potentially) reach.

  • @officialryanelliott
    @officialryanelliott ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks rich

  • @faulfeza5243
    @faulfeza5243 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you think of arguing with your girl? Corey Wayne says to never argue with her, but I always stand my ground if I disagree with her. Being polite about it, but I’ll acknowledge whenever I think she’s wrong

  • @seeing1111
    @seeing1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    this guy remmids me of speaking to a modern woman. good stuff

  • @garyshepherdly9357
    @garyshepherdly9357 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's still a Simp. Allowed the woman to corner him into a relationship. He's been conquered by her too easily.

  • @zubro
    @zubro ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's a runner, she's a track staarr

  • @holdencaulfield3102
    @holdencaulfield3102 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Does anyone know what a "soft nex" is?

  • @Lifewithemerson323
    @Lifewithemerson323 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She was no virgin lol 😂

  • @javierelizalde4653
    @javierelizalde4653 ปีที่แล้ว

    I asked myself this 3 times today

  • @PuroNonsense
    @PuroNonsense 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    got abused and he never standed up for her to tell her that is ok not to like someone from your family sometimes..

  • @1800awwyeeeea
    @1800awwyeeeea ปีที่แล้ว

    The answer to this question is....through pain, suffering, and genuine self reflection.

  • @nicconfigurator2023
    @nicconfigurator2023 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a female best friend in my early 20s and she referred to a process that she always did with her boyfriends. She called it Bitch-Making her men. She said she would have one boyfriend and get him to fall in love with her and then she would find an additional guy and tell her boyfriend about him. She told me that at first her boyfriend was really pissed and angry but eventually she would get her 1st boyfriend to give in so she could date another man at the same time. She said she would eventually get her men to give in on every little thing she knew they did not like and then she called it bitch-making a man or turning a man into a bitch and getting a high off of it.

  • @njabulombuyazi5132
    @njabulombuyazi5132 ปีที่แล้ว

    13:50 I could not help but laugh 😂

  • @South_paw330
    @South_paw330 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It always about respect. Once she loses respect for you (beta-tized) it’s pretty much over!

  • @dantheman4447
    @dantheman4447 ปีที่แล้ว

    He said this is the 2nd time a girl broke up with him but they did not give him a reason why. The two ex-girlfriends basically used him and manipulated him and for them to brake up with him goes to show that the 2 women are repulsive, toxic, narcissistic and passive aggressive. I would be absolutely furious if that happened to me. This is absolutely disgusting how he has been treated.

  • @user-bm4qn5wb5c
    @user-bm4qn5wb5c หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He said she was a virgin and she gave it up in 4 days come on bro

  • @RaptoRRhythmone
    @RaptoRRhythmone ปีที่แล้ว

    i like this one !

  • @reggaeriderr
    @reggaeriderr ปีที่แล้ว

    He has growing as we all do.

  • @realsmashmouthfootball3819
    @realsmashmouthfootball3819 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rich Cooper is the General

  • @21hearts20
    @21hearts20 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best vid title ever

  • @fresh2354
    @fresh2354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t trust them to drive anyway, they can’t parallel park 😭

  • @rowlandortiz1621
    @rowlandortiz1621 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Digested. It is well.

  • @jake6743
    @jake6743 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never ask her why . Move on completely she’s not for ya ..

  • @me-sd1sq
    @me-sd1sq ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She updating her profiles (tinder, insta/ig, adult friend finder, myspace) while your driving!

  • @juliangrandpiano
    @juliangrandpiano 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My then-girl friend entered my own house, first thing she says very clearly, is "I don't need you"

  • @Nethanel773
    @Nethanel773 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    16:22 This!

  • @nikosfarma5643
    @nikosfarma5643 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mr. Kirshman in this vid. posed the billion dollar question.

  • @TheDianeticist
    @TheDianeticist ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hearing all of this makes sense but being an “alpha” male is such an ego centric and unnatural position for me and not a lifestyle that I would feel comfortable and rewarded for living.
    If that doesnt bring me females then so be it 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @sideman7117
    @sideman7117 ปีที่แล้ว

    Self loathing is a side effect of a lifetime as a beta male. Even small steps to break free help the self esteem issue.