Exactly... it's human nature to have favourites and that's perfectly fine. But the most important things is being responsible parents and giving love to all your kids equally and not letting one feel left out.
"Most parents have a favourite child", meanwhile my parents fed up of both me and my sister 😂 both of us are the least favourite children 😂 JK though 😂
Siblings are not each others responsibility irrespective of age or gender. The can look after each other out of care, if they want to but it's NOT a responaibility
Doctor your sister is 23!!! Not a little girl. She should own up to her own actions and take care of herself!! She can't expect everyone to baby her forever and especially not you!!
I would like to share my story about siblings. We are two sister and I am the elder one. My sister has been studying and working close to my home and stayed at home more than I did. She being the youngest one got pampered a lot, and my parents have a soft corner when it comes to my sister (and I am totally okay with this!). It's been 10 years, I have been staying away from my home and recently when I shifted to Delhi for my job and we happened to stay together. In the last 10 years, this (6 months)was the longest that I stayed with my sister. In June, we got to know about my mother's cancer and since then I have been staying at my home, Initially everyone was here (my father and my sister) so it was okay. but after a month, when my mother started responding to the treatment, everyone left it's just me and my mother. I have been taking care of my mom and managing the medical work for her treatment, and I am WFH. Initially I didn't ask my sister for help and neither she was interesting in sharing the responsibilities. Then I decided to discuss with my sister about responsibility, initially she didn't understand , she was like you are not doing anything new (I used to do all the work when I used to stay home). It felt bad when I hardly get time to have my meals on time and she was saying like this. I understand that she cooks better than me. I am more health conscious and the way she cooks is similar to my mother and my mother likes it. But right now, either I spend time in organizing the house, cooking, buying groceries and medicines for my mother, (my father stays out of town because of work) and stay mostly with my mother. I am totally okay with this. but since my mother needs to be on treatment for quite a long time and I might have to go back to work (of course I will stay here till she finishes chemo treatment) then there should be someone to take her to the hospital (she needs to take one injection every month). I again discussed with her, initially she was not ready to listen then I made her understand. We discussed for some time and then she was like I will also come with you to the hospital because when you are not here then I will take our mother and will manage the medical work. I was happy that finally she understood these things . I realized that initially she doesn't understand and I am very practical. So I need to instruct her what to do. once she understands then it's fine. I am happy that everything is fine now.
Model, you fell in love with your man because you fell in love with his soul. And if someone is judging him based on his caste and claiming that it is ruining their reputation, just know that they are in a deep well of unawareness and they need to be pitied. They are not well. What you can do is try your best to make them realise that this status, reputation, class is all superficial but if they don't understand, just let them be. Just leave it. You have done your part right? You might feel bad seeing your own sister and cousins not approving of him, but your husband does not deserve to be treated badly for something that is not even in his hands. When you are right, never, never compromise that for 'anyone'. And you don't need someone in your life dear who thinks like this. Keep your circle small but positive and peaceful ❤️
Hey Prachi, yes parents do have a favourite child. And i will say it is me because i have always been a good child, but sometimes its hard too, I get it, it maybe harder for the other one, but sometimes its not easy for me to, “WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I WISH SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT BEING A GOOD CHILD MEANT I WOULD STRUGGLE SETTING BOUNDARIES” I relate to this. You know those moments when you want to be a little baddie and just enjoy things but you can’t do that, because of high expectations from your parents. I feel that, sometimes stuck. I am younger one…
Doctor , you did absolutely right and in my humble opinion your sister doesn't deserve to be at your place because she is not a responsible adult and u r not her parent . She will never learn her lessons if you keep rescuing her . You have done more than your share of responsibilities. Just move on and be proud that you are a doctor and a great human being ❤️.
Yes!! Caste does not matter.. What matters is the person with whom you are.. Don't let these petty things destroy beautiful relationship.. Stand for your love.. Fight for your love❤
Do agree with you.. but today's generation choose to give up there relationship and do arrange marriage.. sadly our generation is of diversion not commitment..
I feel like my brother is my parents' favourite child. But I've never felt like I needed more love from them. They love me immensely and I'm so grateful for everything they've given me.
Doctor, you are not selfish, if anyone that's your sister tbh. And there's a very high chance that she might be manipulating your parents too to escape from their fury. The whole blame goes on you for HER reckless actions and she doesn't even utter a word!!! That's selfishness of another level!!!! Sorry man I know you're gonna feel hurt by my words but it is what it is. Stay strong and a big hug to you 🤗
Yes....his sister looks like a girl who wants everyone else to take responsibility for her mistakes. I mean.... she's 23! How can his parents expect a busy doctor to babysit her at that age?
If your parents like your sibling more than you, it's not about you. Likewise, it's not about your sibling too. Most of the times, the least favoured child starts hating the most favoured child and it's not right. Though it's a way of bashing out and lashing out, the most favoured child often does nothing in special to feel loved and she or he doesn't deserve the hatred of the least favoured child. I hope I am understandable :) Correct me if I am wrong :)
I agree but everything u stated is in favour of the most loved child. let me ask you then what has the least favourite child done to be "the least favoured" by parents/others? no one really understands the perspective of the least favourite child, everyone focuses on how he/she is filled with hatred. why is he/she filled with hatred? that is something we never understand and don't even try to. (I may or may not be correct but I often feel like the least favoured by others between me and my brother. my mom and dad love both of us equally which is not questionable. but other people often favour my brother in terms of almost everything. For example, our family hosted a small get together with our closest friends. From the time they came till the time they left, I was running all over the house to serve everyone to take care of everyone which Is my responsibility for sure. my brother however went to the market once to get some drinks and shuttlecocks. when everyone was leaving, everyone literally clapped for my brother for being a great host and no one even cared to appreciate me. u know it might sound childish and like I'm jealous or whatever. but put yourself in my shoes, u'll feel me maybe. just a little appreciation wouldn't have hurt anyone. have a great day:)
@@adrizabanerji6046 I completely understand you dear! And I'm coming from a space of no judgements. It's really hard and hurting to be the least favoured child. Even I am one for that matter, but what I tried to put across is that the most favoured child did nothing extra to be liked by the parents and the relatives. In the process of this favouring games, the least favoured child often ends up hating the most favoured child, when the most favoured child is really innocent The main culprits to be blamed are parents and the relatives but they most often hide behind the backdrop when all on the stage you see is only the most favoured child as the enemy. Parenting is an art and skill that is to be learnt first and practiced next and playing games of favourites will inturn separate the siblings and do no good. When the mistake is done by one, the sufferings are to be taken by both the children. So have no hatred for the most favoured child is what I meant to say. I know it's hard dear, but give it some time you will come out strong and you will learn many life's lessons by experience :) My best wishes!
I was around 14 or 15 years at that time , I went to meet my mother's friend with my mom. The friend looking at me said oh she is beautiful to which my mom replied oh you should see my son he is more beautiful.
Happened to me N number of times.. Saying things like she's least good looking in our family.. For my complexion, my weight, the way I looked.. It's normalized in my family.
Model, Be strong and stand with your fiancé. I myself had an intercaste marriage and if anyone ever said anything before my marriage, I would reply them how wonderful a man my husband is by talking about his good qualities, kindness etc. And now, the same people actually respect him a lot after seeing how he really is. Caste doesn’t define the character of a person and people need to know that.
The other day I was talking to my aunt about maids. She told me that their maids come to clean the house but her son won't let the maid wash dishes. She told me that my cousin says if the maid washes the dishes, he won't eat anything in those utensils. My cousin is around 20 or 21, I was like what? I don't understand where all this is coming from and it's sad that young people think like this.
Oh my god....I can't even believe this !!! In my house even though we have a lady helper to wash utensils, my parents sometimes wash a few themselves because they don't want the helper to get too much strained because of the amount of work she has to deal with. They tell me to wash my dishes myself so that the helper gets less work as she works in another 3 houses. They are humans too...they don't deserve bad treatment.
Yes,i always feel that my parents love my elder sister more n give more importance to her. They always given me her examples even when i got equal marks in the exam as her. Even there were only 1/2% of marks difference.always gave her more properties . But i love my sister so much.she is everything to me. But sometimes it hurts a lot emotionally.
My father loves my younger sister, she is clearly his favourite child. He doesn't even hide it. It hurts to see how normal a father-daughter relationship they have that I didn't get to experience. No wonder I have father issues because of this, and it does affect my mental well being a lot. Like there is this constant mental battle in my head and the feeling that I am making a huge issue of this in my head, But what I feel is valid. I love my mom though, she is my life, she loves me a lot too. So I don't need my father's love anyway. This may also be one of the reasons why I always seek older men when it comes to dating I guess idk! Sorry, my comment is all over the place, P.S. I am a 21-year-old woman, doing extremely great in my career too, not letting this affect my success in any way :) love you mom ♥
Damn i feel so blessed that my parents love both of us (me and my younger sibling) equally . Favourism among siblings wasn't even a thing for me untill i read these comments. I wasn't even aware of this behaviour of parents. Feeling really blessed ❤️
I feel proud to be the part of this channel....I learn a lot from the suggestions you give and think in a different way even when i feel low and depressed your videos are a kind of therapy to me which makes me feel calm and relaxed...you are doing your job so wonderfully...all the best nd keep it up:)
Your videos make my weekend Prachi❤❤...Such diverse content and such beautiful advices....I absolutely wait for your videos every week!! I have never written a letter to you...but have definitely found many situations relatable and applied a lot of your suggestions❤...Thanks a lot!!
I am so lucky that my parents never favoured any of us. They tell us when we are wrong but always told us that favouring a child is wrong. They even don't like the relatives who favours one of us over the other.
The other girl can just do a court marriage or destination so people who are shaming her won't be there. I mean if they are coming there unwillingly the atmosphere of wedding will get unhappy too.
Thank you so much for everyone who were concerned and took time to help me❤. I'm removing my original comment since I now feel guilty for writing personal problems on such a big public platform.
@@Siddharthmenon7_12_98 Thanks a lot for your kind words.... ❣️I become so involved when writing and let it all out at once out of frustration..shouldn't have done that... I'm much better now... Thanks again😌 ✨
The favoritism one is right. My parents always choose my brother over me. He's 5 years younger than me and I'm now 18 and in 2nd year of college and also preparing for cs(although that's not what I really want to do). They always blame me for whatever goes wrong between them as a couple or if my brother makes any mistakes then it's my fault, and if I did any mistakes then oh my god, that is something unacceptable, I'm a disappointment and what not. And the mistakes can be as small as a plate falling from my hand accidentally or my hair strands seen in the bathroom or anywhere or just me laughing or talking normally which is for them very loud( and I've had people outside of my home tell me to speak a bit loudly as they can't hear me which is true). They just call me names, insult me and then say that I can't take a joke and stuffs. During the lockdown, they had hit me twice for no fault of mine, just because they were angry and I'm the only person they can take their anger out. They have beaten me even before for things and I do believe it has messed with me very badly. I do lack confidence to talk with people and self worth issues although I'm working on it. I'm just very tired of everyday taunts, right now my mom is screaming and yelling at me because I'm studying and not helping her which I already did and there's no work now. My dad has anger issues and high bp , so he always yells and is mad at everything especially me. He'll scold and yell at me for things I didn't do and my mom would keep watching silently, but if it's my brother who's getting scolded for things he did, she'll come for his rescue and say things and then my dad would apologize to him. I do love my parents a lot, they have done many sacrifices for us to live comfortably and are still struggling but all these are very tiring for me. It happens everyday, every minute and I'm exhausted. I do want to earn and move out but it will take some time. My family is going through a lot right now and I understand that they are very stressed, but things are not all good for me too. I'm tired of being the only person who's understanding and then being called selfish and other names. They keep saying stuffs to me and get angry saying "why don't you smile? "What should I do now? I can't take this anymore. I had depression previously when I was of the age my brother is now and I struggled a lot to get out of it. I still have severe anxiety and I just cannot express myself as I never got any chance to do at my own 'home'. Please🙏 to all the parents, don't do such things to your kids.. It messes with them big time and is very Stressful. You might even lose them forever if you continue this. Please🙏 I beg you. And Prachi di, thank you so much ❤your videos have helped understand different perspective and people. I would be forever grateful to you. I love you, may God bless you🙏
@@pranoti_prakash5481 it is😔but I know I'll be alright. They do love me I guess and I do too, it's just a matter of time. Thank you for acknowledging 🥰I hope you be happy forever ❤
@Klaus Mikaelson I get what you're trying to say😔I do feel that at times but they have always done things for us and I'm grateful for that , they still sacrifice a lot and those thoughts just make it more confusing for me
Hi Prachi di, thank you for talking about FAVOURITISM. I'm the middle child of my family among three children. Always the elder and younger ones get the most attention and I'm left alone. They both used to be toppers and I was an average student. So right from my childhood I was criticized, humiliated, got scolded and beaten up. Because of this my self esteem, self confidence is very low. I'm not able to overcome those traumas even now. I feel like I'm invaluable and I don't know how to develop my self confidence and will power. Hope one day everything will change. 🙏🏻
I am the only child of my parents so I am the only one who receives all the love, care and attention., however, I have seen so many parents in my friend circle and relatives who have their favourite child. I feel bad for those who are least favourite and when I imagine myself in their shoes I feel sad.
I am 18yo girl and eldest one i have one brother 5 years younger than me and yes i am the favourite child, my parents say i am fav because i am their first 💕
Prachi, by starting the favorite child conversation, you might have intended to heal the less favorite child. But I think, for people who had doubts these thoughts will be cemented, especially in the minds of impressionable teenagers. It will create more divide amongst siblings and more feelings of dislike and resentment towards parents. Whether you are a favorite child or not, your parents still love you.
its not always that easy. usually the less favourite child grows up feeling responsible for the less love they get and zero understanding from the world,, because people are always ready to correct and preach you. This in turn leads to anger, frustration and loss of self esteem. To validate feelings doesnt build resentment, it allows people to know that what they feel is 'normal' and that they deserve better. So they can feel confident of themselves even with all the lack of approval from those around them. healing begins, you get more pateint and relationships gradually improve.
I feel like my low self esteem comes from this favouritism....i was never appreciated for anything I did....but they always reminded me my mistakes and flaws though
Me, one of my cousin brother, cousin sister used to live with my mother’s maternal family including her sisters and grandmother because all of our parents worked abroad. Me being the middle child, was the least favorite child obviously. My grandmother favored the cousin brother (obv gender), and my sister because she was the youngest. I was the strange kid because I was just brought to Sri Lanka from Italy. My grandmother hated the fact that I got along well with my cousin sister. She would even advise her not to play with me even while living in the same house. She badmouthed me to the other aunts and family whenever they visited. I was eventually branded as the black sheep. Growing up, this was very hard for me. I cut ties with everyone as soon as I became an adult and it’s been relief. But I know, all of what I went through still have an effect on my life even as an adult.
Doctor youre a good man bro, but unfortunately we live in a society where we cant hold anyone accountable and even they cant take any accountibility for their actions, Sorry If you feel bad but honestly your parents are not at all bright if they decided to point fingers at you for your sisters bad decisions given that she is 23 and a fully functioning adult. Leave your family and live your life, if they give a damn about you they will contact you and apologize meanwhile dont be a scapegoat and focus on you. As for your sister If I was in your place I would have found the boyfriend showed him what a real brother is capable of (since he was threatening your sister). would have taken the matter to his parents. For now dont worry about your parents and sister, block them and worry about your health which is the most important thing.
You are so good doctor. U took in your adult sister and gave her a roof on her head and she used your innocence. She seems manipulative and irresponsible. Maybe good people are made scapegoats in this world. Follow whatever Prachi has said. You are a successful human being. U don't need validity of your parents. You are good man. Now it's high time to be a bit selfish and set boundaries. Even with your family. People don't understand when they have a good person amongst them. Only when they have lost them, they understand. I wish l had somebody as kind and capable like you in my family.
I am in relationship but he keeps saying bad things to me in anger ..we have been staying together..i don't know what to do?my parents also puts pressure of marriage..i am quite upset ..
Well the thing about "favourite child" ,we are two brothers with a one year age gap and i(first child) am the favourite one in my family, especially favorite child of my mother but because of this favouritism i have faced many disadvantages in my life. Due to my obedient and calm nature, mother always asks me for help or to do other household things, i don't hate helping but if you only make one child to do your tasks all the day and the other child just stays in his room playing games that would surely make someone upset. I have complained about it many times but she just always says, "Dear, you are obidient, you always listen to me, that's the difference between you and him" Another disadvantage is the compromises i have to make in my family, my brother is rebellious and a type of child that bothers parents if his needs and wants aren't fulfilled, because of this nature our parents always give him first and me second, for example toys of childhood,our first smartphones, new beds(i am still waiting for my new bed) etc They always expect me to wait and compromise, they always say stuff like "you are an obedient child,please wait i will get you this and that" "Just wait we will buy you a better one" And the last thing i hate the most is that in our house his "NO" is acceptable but my "NO" is not! If he refuses to do something like going and buying something from shop,filling water bottles etc then parents expect me to do it and if i say NO then they get angry on me.
Yeah.. Kind of, for me its like until im doing something proud for my parents, im their fav child but my younger sibling he just talks and does buttering to my mum and he eventually is allowed to do anything where for me its wrong to do so, n the thing you said about saying 'no' thats similar too
This is fine till you are dependent on them. Once you are adult and he is too. Do not be responsible for younger brother. Some siblings are takers only not givers.
For me, I am my father's favorite while my mother's favorite is my brother. But they treat us equally through. And I am my brother's favorite too.☺☺☺ Sometimes I feel guilty that I get to do anything I want but my brother don't. So, I try to favour him too.
Yes. My mother favours my elder brother more. I have tried to confront her many times about this but she gets irritated and angry. So I have accepted this fact that no one in this world loves me unconditionally, not even my parents.
Yes favouritism is their definitely my younger brother is loved more than me and I used to hate that as a child I used to think ok maybe because he is more calmer and I was always the aggressive child so that's y they love him more than me but now as an adult I know why they loved him more it's because they think he is younger and they have this urge to protect him since when he was just 2 we almost lost him due to pneumonia and they think I'm more responsible child because I'm elder so I don't need protection and care much , but ya now I love my brother and also see him as my baby even tho he is 19 now hehe so in the end u need to understand where ur parents r coming from and why they have a favourite child or why they care that child more than u .
Yes, my parents have chose my younger sister over me! I would say that I knew this when I was around 6-7 now I'm 12. I have completely lost hope now! I'm even going through anxiety & depression. I haven't consult anyone. No one knows about this, but I do cry a lot of times in a day. Mostly I have cried on my bday's as well. I guess that's completely normal that I cry everyday. I feel i shd cry so that all my heart's pressure goes away. Ik that they love my younger sister more. Always on her mistakes I used to get scolds & even sometimes they used to hit me.
Lovely episode, Prachi. What you told Model is perfect. A lot of people in my family have caste pride, but my father ensured that I wouldn't have those prejudices. And yes, spouse is priority nos 1 because he or she is your life partner. Don't stand by anyone belittling your fiance or anything bcoz of caste or anything else, bcoz you and he are teammates for life. I found Doctor's story very sad. Especially the drinking part. Please don't. You have cracked medical entrance, completed the gruelling medical course, you are a doctor. At 29, you have your whole life and career ahead of you. It's fine to drink socially, but not fine to use drinking as a panacea for suffering and depression. Don't become addicted to liquor. Derive your self-worth from your life, not your parents' bias against you. And your sister's life is her responsibility. I am sure she finds living in that small town constrictive after enjoying freedom with no responsibility in a big city. But don't live with her in the future unless she sorts out her life. I am not being judgemental about premarital sex, but she is not serious about her career, she didn't share household chores, she was a freeloader and had nothing to do except have fun. Entitled people are toxic takers. So tell her she needs to grow up emotionally before wanting to live with you and off you. And seriously you stop drinking from depression...you are 29, you are an achiever and your best is yet to come. Good luck.
I can completely relate with the 2nd letter bcz right now I am facing the same situation my bf's family is from another caste and my entire family except my elder brother is blaming me and telling me that I have demean them or insulted them
One reason why parents favour one child is that, the can relate more to their one child than the other. May be the other child has her/his own likings or disliking, which they see as disregarding their decisions. Which is of course very toxic n suffocating for the child. In many such cases they complain about their child's choices with their near n dear ones, and then the relatives label the child as black sheep, n always give them mean advices. I think, parents should never let their children know about this n never complain about them with other people, because for them these people can be their siblings or friends but for the child they are just relatives
In my family, all of we three think we are the most favoured children so actually we don't know who is the favourite Like brother is eldest and more of the one sacrificed everything for us but mumma ka laadla Didi is the first girl after 8 years so the favourite as she was most pampered and loved as a child I the youngest and a baby, I was spared from everything so yes, We all have our pros and cons
Hi... Just so you know it again, you are helping so much through this videos... Can you make one video on how to decide your career after university? I studied one thing, but super lazily, I often get low with some news like now it is on Afghanistan and if not news, then with my own condition of study and results and future... I worry a lot, whenever I'm not distracted with some youtube videos, and I want to study, I start worrying... also I want to do social work, or may be I want to popularize to social science concepts and social studies... I want to study developmental economics but I also need a job... I am already 22 and I feel I wastes so many years... my friends and seniors have gone or are going for really good careers or research works, I don't feel the urge to do research in this field, and I need money... but also I want to join the social development causes... of girls and women education, job opportunity, social security and overall sanity and good mental health... but I am really reserved, so much so that classmates almost kinda bullied me sometimes, in school mostly. I used to have huge social awkwardness, but now I manage things better than before. So with this nature, how can I join such a cause? So I now think, may be I'll try to land a good job and I'll monetarily join such independent channels and agencies in their work, and I can get into their social circle in that way too in which I really would feel comfortable. I don't really know what I'm talking about... but yeah, I think there are some people who get into such a mess like me. Can you tell me one thing? Why people do politics on women's lives? These never-ending politics are depressing...
I think most of the parents do have favorite kid and shower more love on that child because they are good in studies or sports or extra curriculars but most importantly they listen to parents 😂 but I think if you are at a peace relation with your sibling then that issue is something which will stay with parents only, and if anytime you feel jealous then remember you as a individual also must be having some skills /qualities which may not be In your sibling so why not focus on that and you can even ask for help of your sibling if there is something you also want to learn and the other person is good at it, communication is the key and yeah one advice for model - JUST DO IT 🙂
Not always true ! Because I'm the least favourite child of my mother and I was good in studies growing up and my brother was extremely poor ! So what she did she started insulting me everywhere my class my tuitions and used to call my friend's mother and ruined my reputation.. she used to make things up by her own to ruin me ... even if I score good than also I used to get beaten up with thick sticks since I was 11 years old I used to have bruises all over my body it was that bad .. and it took a toll on my mental health and I keep declining in my studies and she used to beat me more and more and used to tell everyone oh I am beating her up because of studies ... and in Indian society abuser has been normalised because parents can't be wrong ! I used to be very good in studies, in competitions, sports ! You name it and I have won prices too but she didn't let me studies further ! Now cries that I am not doing job she herself didn't let me study even when she asked my dadi too not to support me financially! And now says that I'm eating her food ! So favouritism is not always about studies She let her son study tho supported him in every possible way ! So vo badhta gya Aur main degrade hoti gayi !
@@niti470 OK so first of all exceptions are always there but yours one is a nutcase ! Now the only reason I can think of your mother did this Is because she hates you because you are a girl and this is sickening but then again in this country we have seen horrific cases so I can relate, is your mother from very conservative rural background? Also what about your father and brother didn't they ever tried to stop your mother?
D B but she loves other girl child she plays with them ... my father loves me but he is not supportive .. and when it comes to my brother he is also abusive as my mother .. my mother keeps saying my brother to beat me with hockey sticks I heard myself and she then says roz roz ni marta na saal me 2-3 bar marta hai sehen shakti honi chahiye ( means he never beats you everyday he only beats you thrice a year and you should bear it because it doesn't happen everyday ) one day I was on my period then he kicked me in my stomach and my mother instead of saying anything to him was verbally abusing me. I wonder why God in not watching her ! Actually earlier my brother was not like that she made him like that rest god knows ! Whenever he has anger issues he beats me !
@@niti470 Hey Vrinda! God bless you! I feel for you. I know how it feels to be the punching bag of your family. I have been there and I will always be there until my last breath. I used to blame myself for the behaviour of my family. What I did was I ignored them (family), focused on my career and my life. And I stopped trying to make them happy even at my own stake. One of my uncles once told "अपना कलेजा भी निकाल के सामने थाली में रख दोगे लोग तो तब भी खुश नहीं होंगे". If you are independent just ignore them. And if not then focus on being independent. Once earning get out of the there as soon as possible. All the best! Lots of love and blessings for you!
N R thanks for this one ! And I was about to say that don't feel guilty of what they are doing I know that it's not about me rather it's about them ill say the same for you ... never feel guilty because they purposely guilt trip us ... my mother had fracture and she blamed that even on me she was outiside somewhere and I was at home still she got fractured because of me .. bhgwan pta nahi kyu nahi aise logo ko dekhte ! Everyday someone or the others insults me because parents can't be wrong I'm the culprit in everyone's eyes so with me it is happening from every where ! They even shamed me for not getting married Because I'm 30 ... No I'm not independent yet ! But I have given me 4-5 months more I'll find job soon since they didn't even supported me for my studies so I have done studies from distance leaning and it's hard to find jobs !
I am the least favorite child of my parents.. They're partial.. And my father always says that i will not do anything in my life... And he never pay for my expenses like library and class fee.. I do..by my savings of my previous job... I feel neglected when somebody ask them ki what your daughter do... They reply I don't know what she's doing. I am preparing for ssc.. And they want me to do a private job, and support them with money. They don't want me to study anymore. I am 22 only...
Hi doctor you dont need feel guilty about your actions and whatever you did with ur sister that is correct, your sister is irresponsible and living in a fantasy world and ur parents are supporting her even though its her mistake so u dont need to blame yourself, first stop drinking and take care of yourself and you are not responsible for your sister life she is 23 and she should take care of herself and for some days dont call to your parents and sister let them realise their mistake and let them call u apologies to u stop calling them then only they will realise their mistake take a break from your family, start taking care of yourself
It sucks if parents do that and impacts very badly on self confidence. In my case I won't say my parents favoured they often left me out in conversations and many fun things because I'm not old enough it made me question myself each and every time.I'm 20 year but I try to behave like 26 year old and I can't help it. I feel like I'm not enough most of the time.
I am an only child but I feel like my mom likes my cousins more than me. Sometimes I have seen my mom getting jealous when my cousin did something good and I didn’t or couldn’t. She didn’t say this out loud but I have seen and I felt it
My parents like my older bro more cuz he is a boy and their first child but they compensate for it by giving me better birthday parties or getting me gifts, they favor him when we fight or when he asks for something they GET IT IN A JIFFY or dont tell him to help in chores but i dont mind cuz he is also more emotionally weak so them being protective is normal and i m happy with the parties i get and also i m 16 and my mom still hand feeds me (mostly cuz i dont eat what she gives) but yeah we all know their fav child is my bro but they havent really given me a reason to complain lol.
I'm 18 I was the least favoured child and that effected me alot I was so jealous of my brother I would get mad at him for nothing I tried doing everything to receive love from my mom and that's how I became a parent pleaser now many a times I go out of my way to please people I feel like acting against or telling no makes me a bad person which is not true I'm trying my best to work on it
I have felt my mothers favourite child is my younger sister . My mother is literally blind for my sister .I dont have problem with it but sometimes when i scold my sister or try to explain her something which she is not getting i always ask my mother to correct her but she usually take it lightly. On the other hand i have noticed that my father doesn't have any favourite child for him me and sister is equal. I am 23 years old so i can clearly see these thing now.
Well I have no rights to tell anything abt favoritism as i am the only kid. But to those who are telling that thier parents love their sibling more than them, I have a question for u. Don't u have a parent(mom or dad)?
hey didi i have a younger brother and i feel that he is the favorite child in the house but my mom never accepts it or maybe i just felt it i just don't know but i felt that he is the fav child but that made me sad in the childhood but it made me strong and independent
I think my parents don’t really have a favourite child but I am the one who gets more stuff and I only need to convince them a little if I need anything maybe because I’ve good convincing skills. I do know for sure that my mother loves me and my younger brother equally but tends to be on my side in most arguments. And my father claims that he loves me more but he restricts me for everything and he doesn’t really have any rules for my brother. I don’t need such a love from him that doesn’t even let me be myself, all i need is freedom of choice, freedom of speech, freedom of expression and a little bit support from him which i don’t get..he’s the reason i am so unstable emotionally & mentally at 13 years of age. Not only this but he has done so much more reckless things that can never be justified. I can talk about how much I hate him for hours. I’ve been having suicidal thoughts recently and I absolutely hate it. Everytime I have such things going on in my head i just tell myself “dear sukhman you’re just 13, you have to fulfill your dreams and you can’t just let them die with you, life holds so much more for you in future, things do get better, you’ll get better, have some patience and keep going, and you’ll be proud of yourself for not giving up, all this struggle will be worth it someday” And I want to see what happens if i dont give up so easily. I know for sure that things get better and will get better. My comment is all over the place and I hope anyone of you wouldn’t mind.❤️🌸
I'd suggest doctor to be okay with not being the ideal son from your parents perspective for it is consuming your peace of mind, you can do the best you can to be a good son and brother, but don't take unreasonable blames, it's not your fault. God bless!
I am the first child of my parents and i have a younger brother. I was always far from them due to studies since childhood and my brother had always stayed with them, this is the reason my brother is their favourite child and i accept it. But you know what the interesting part is that being an elder one it is me whose demands are fulfilled. also i stay far from them so whatever i wish for i get it more than my brother. ^_^ hehehehe :) BTW my parents say it loud and clear that they love my brother more
I've faced the favoritism by parents, My 9 year elder sister had always been a topper, bright in studies, got good marks and currently she has a government job.. my entire life they compared me to her.. (I'm also a scholar student but not as good as her).. They always used to say when she was your age she did this, she did that, scored 92% in her highschool blah blah.. in that rage i worked damn hard and scored 95% in my time.. and u know what they said??" the times were different then... When she scored 92% she had very few resources than what you have today. " it is just one incident, there had been countless like these. This had resulted in many ugly fights between me and my parents.. They refuse to accept that they ever did this favoritism.. This has resulted in me disliking my sister and our sibling relationship has been hampered. Now we rarely even talk. I think the first child is always the favorite of the parents. (or the smarter one)
@@Siddharthmenon7_12_98 No parent should compare children "to boost up competitive spirit". It is toxic. The child who is getting compared to will tend to have more insecurities about herself and will lose her self esteem. So it is not at all okay to compare among children. I respect ur opinion tho.
I'm only child of my parents. When I was six months old my mom died, but my father doesn't like me because I'm a girl.. but he loves my cousin she is my uncle's daughter...
Yes sis. My mom has 2 children. I have a brother who is 8 years younger than me. I have felt that my mom love my brother more than me. From childhood aftr my bro was born i have been hearing 'he is small'. So all the priority was given to him . Especially in case of food. He will get every special things made at home more than i get. Now im 24 years old. And he is 16. Now mom says he is boy. So he should eat more. But when she gives more to him all my fav foods i feel like im less loved. And not only in case of food. When ever he beat me or create any problems even though if im right she will put all criticisms on me. A few months back he slapped me on my face for accidentally breaking his headset. And i bought new headset for him.But there was no one to b my side at home and i felt soo alone. I hit my head on wall and i was wounded😢. Sometimes this makes soo distressful. And i also feel this is spoiling him. He has no respect towards me.He try to control me as if he is elder one.
*My parents love more n support my brothers n they won't accept this ever* *they also choose them first over me* *Most of the time I feel bad but it's ok* *being a girl in india is not an easy task* *I fight for myself every time*
My fren mom said it infront of us that she love her son more than her , it surprised me , i said my mom (even v r 2 my bigbro😂) My mom said she shouldnt say that , girl get so hurt , that's true .my fren was so offended
My mother hates me like anything anything wrong happens with her it is always my fault ! Two months back she was outside home and her leg got fractured again it was because of me her leg got fractured when I was home. She made me do all her work but again after few days she said what did you do ! All the physical and mental abused ruined me mentally and physically too ! I became people pleaser lack boundaries! I do for people in order to get acceptance, validation and love ... I have craved for love throughout! I read somewhere that when people are working towards their dreams we people are living on survival mode ! Now I generally gets attracted towards girl child more because girl child was never accepted it is in my head I feel I am also doing the same though I love boy child too ( in my neighbourhood) but at least I have awareness now that yes it is there in my mind . Sometimes I feel I'll adopt girl child whenever I'll get married again because girl child was never accepted by our society that's how my mind works now ! My brother is the golden child at our home and I'm the scapegoat one ! There was a funny incident that once due to government issues my dadi didn't get her pension and whole area where I belong too didn't get their pension that is also because of me that she didn't get her pension ! And it is almost on daily basis the blame game happening! Sometimes I wonder where is god ?
Yes I can relate with your second paragraph, one of our close family relative, there were not able to give birth to a child due to some medical reasons, now due to society pressure they went in to depression even. I suggested them to adopt a child, they looked at me and gave me weird look. Now by some medical operations they finally have a girl child but what I have understood by this adoption is still a dogma....in ur case gender is dogma...!! Now I want to adopt a child, it's one of my dream. I don't know how will my future parents will react or family will react. Thanks for sharing your experience, you are a brave girl, don't seek for validations, I won't suggest you anything as I'm not a professional. Thanks, Uday
Coding Sutra but my reason is not medical I'm not even married just because Indians don't accept the girl child they consider them liability even if they love their girl child still they prefer son more than a girl child or feel sad that first child is a girl child I mean how disgusting it is ! That's why I want to adopt a girl child who is unacceptable for their own parents ! These people celebrate navratra these people want kanjaks to worship during narvaratra but doesn't want a girl child or abuse their own girl child such hypocrites!
@@niti470 yes I completely got your context, that's the harsh reality. In my case even people don't consider adoption a good thing too. Slowly things will change (maybe) . All the best 😇😇
Unfortunately in indian families daughetrs are treated in extreme ways. Either they are neglected and completely unwanted or pampered and spoilt. Also the society finds is so convenient to put sisters responsibility on brother. Whether its her education,marriage or other things. I never understood this. Why would an adult take care of another adult who is able bodied, mentally fit and educated. In case of wife the wife is taken care of because she takes care of home and his child but why should sister be the brother’s responsibility?
This favouritism by parents is of totally no good. I know and currently I'm dealing with it. I am the elder child of my parents my mother never wanted her first child to be a girl but unfortunately I am that one, all my childhood memories have one thing in common my parents especially mother always praying to God " God please bless me with a first kid as boy " and 7-8yr old me used to feel had still doesn't nothing has changed so far but now she has her son ( we're three siblings, two sisters and one brother..brat kid). Even I dad never admitted this first child thing but he never talk or asked mother to stop the nonsense, now I am not it talking terms with them..I never had a mother daughter bond with her! And with dad we barely speak, if he's in room I'll leave that place or else he'll move out. As a seventeen years old I can say / I have to I am with TOXIC PARENTS! Sometime I hate this life and other days I believe ingnorace is bliss.....
Very good decision by you. Just my giving birth, these individuals can't be called "parents" in true sense. Parenthood is more about how you bring up ur child, what you teach them and most importantly how you behave to them. India is a hub of pseudo parents tbh.
Doctor, first of all A Big Thank You for your service during the pandemic .
We as society are grateful and proud of you.
It's ok to have a favourite child, but good parents make sure the children never find out who the favorite one is!
So true
Exactly... it's human nature to have favourites and that's perfectly fine. But the most important things is being responsible parents and giving love to all your kids equally and not letting one feel left out.
In my house favouritism was directly proportional to our marks.
If any Parent has a Favourite...... Then the other child will Find Out.
Nonsense Children are Children how can favouritism is ok . Because it can't be hidden for long time or forever.
"Most parents have a favourite child", meanwhile my parents fed up of both me and my sister 😂 both of us are the least favourite children 😂 JK though 😂
Ah so you are the devil duo
@@Vizorfam yepp 🤣
Relatable. And we're three siblings 😅
@@didishen152 uh oh 😂
Siblings are not each others responsibility irrespective of age or gender. The can look after each other out of care, if they want to but it's NOT a responaibility
Absolutely 👍
Absolutely
*I think doctor handled the situation as best as it could have been...*
Doctor your sister is 23!!! Not a little girl. She should own up to her own actions and take care of herself!! She can't expect everyone to baby her forever and especially not you!!
Correct, even her boyfriend doesn't want the kid but she wants the guy back.
Yeah. She should know the consequences of becoming pregnant.
@@anilkumarpr-sub consequences of being a fool and acting on emotions.
I would like to share my story about siblings. We are two sister and I am the elder one. My sister has been studying and working close to my home and stayed at home more than I did. She being the youngest one got pampered a lot, and my parents have a soft corner when it comes to my sister (and I am totally okay with this!). It's been 10 years, I have been staying away from my home and recently when I shifted to Delhi for my job and we happened to stay together. In the last 10 years, this (6 months)was the longest that I stayed with my sister.
In June, we got to know about my mother's cancer and since then I have been staying at my home, Initially everyone was here (my father and my sister) so it was okay. but after a month, when my mother started responding to the treatment, everyone left it's just me and my mother. I have been taking care of my mom and managing the medical work for her treatment, and I am WFH. Initially I didn't ask my sister for help and neither she was interesting in sharing the responsibilities. Then I decided to discuss with my sister about responsibility, initially she didn't understand , she was like you are not doing anything new (I used to do all the work when I used to stay home). It felt bad when I hardly get time to have my meals on time and she was saying like this. I understand that she cooks better than me. I am more health conscious and the way she cooks is similar to my mother and my mother likes it. But right now, either I spend time in organizing the house, cooking, buying groceries and medicines for my mother, (my father stays out of town because of work) and stay mostly with my mother. I am totally okay with this. but since my mother needs to be on treatment for quite a long time and I might have to go back to work (of course I will stay here till she finishes chemo treatment) then there should be someone to take her to the hospital (she needs to take one injection every month). I again discussed with her, initially she was not ready to listen then I made her understand. We discussed for some time and then she was like I will also come with you to the hospital because when you are not here then I will take our mother and will manage the medical work. I was happy that finally she understood these things . I realized that initially she doesn't understand and I am very practical. So I need to instruct her what to do. once she understands then it's fine. I am happy that everything is fine now.
Model, you fell in love with your man because you fell in love with his soul. And if someone is judging him based on his caste and claiming that it is ruining their reputation, just know that they are in a deep well of unawareness and they need to be pitied. They are not well.
What you can do is try your best to make them realise that this status, reputation, class is all superficial but if they don't understand, just let them be. Just leave it. You have done your part right?
You might feel bad seeing your own sister and cousins not approving of him, but your husband does not deserve to be treated badly for something that is not even in his hands. When you are right, never, never compromise that for 'anyone'.
And you don't need someone in your life dear who thinks like this. Keep your circle small but positive and peaceful ❤️
Hey Prachi, yes parents do have a favourite child. And i will say it is me because i have always been a good child, but sometimes its hard too, I get it, it maybe harder for the other one, but sometimes its not easy for me to, “WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I WISH SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT BEING A GOOD CHILD MEANT I WOULD STRUGGLE SETTING BOUNDARIES” I relate to this. You know those moments when you want to be a little baddie and just enjoy things but you can’t do that, because of high expectations from your parents. I feel that, sometimes stuck. I am younger one…
Doctor , you did absolutely right and in my humble opinion your sister doesn't deserve to be at your place because she is not a responsible adult and u r not her parent . She will never learn her lessons if you keep rescuing her . You have done more than your share of responsibilities. Just move on and be proud that you are a doctor and a great human being ❤️.
Yes!! Caste does not matter.. What matters is the person with whom you are.. Don't let these petty things destroy beautiful relationship.. Stand for your love.. Fight for your love❤
Why that fight is still needed in 2021 specially in India
Do agree with you.. but today's generation choose to give up there relationship and do arrange marriage.. sadly our generation is of diversion not commitment..
I feel like my brother is my parents' favourite child. But I've never felt like I needed more love from them. They love me immensely and I'm so grateful for everything they've given me.
Doctor, you are not selfish, if anyone that's your sister tbh. And there's a very high chance that she might be manipulating your parents too to escape from their fury. The whole blame goes on you for HER reckless actions and she doesn't even utter a word!!! That's selfishness of another level!!!! Sorry man I know you're gonna feel hurt by my words but it is what it is. Stay strong and a big hug to you 🤗
Yes....his sister looks like a girl who wants everyone else to take responsibility for her mistakes. I mean.... she's 23! How can his parents expect a busy doctor to babysit her at that age?
Is she a doctor
If your parents like your sibling more than you, it's not about you.
Likewise, it's not about your sibling too.
Most of the times, the least favoured child starts hating the most favoured child and it's not right. Though it's a way of bashing out and lashing out, the most favoured child often does nothing in special to feel loved and she or he doesn't deserve the hatred of the least favoured child.
I hope I am understandable :)
Correct me if I am wrong :)
I agree with you completely!
@@khansaba9234 💛
I agree but everything u stated is in favour of the most loved child.
let me ask you then what has the least favourite child done to be "the least favoured" by parents/others?
no one really understands the perspective of the least favourite child, everyone focuses on how he/she is filled with hatred. why is he/she filled with hatred? that is something we never understand and don't even try to.
(I may or may not be correct but I often feel like the least favoured by others between me and my brother. my mom and dad love both of us equally which is not questionable. but other people often favour my brother in terms of almost everything. For example, our family hosted a small get together with our closest friends. From the time they came till the time they left, I was running all over the house to serve everyone to take care of everyone which Is my responsibility for sure. my brother however went to the market once to get some drinks and shuttlecocks. when everyone was leaving, everyone literally clapped for my brother for being a great host and no one even cared to appreciate me. u know it might sound childish and like I'm jealous or whatever. but put yourself in my shoes, u'll feel me maybe. just a little appreciation wouldn't have hurt anyone.
have a great day:)
@@adrizabanerji6046 I completely understand you dear!
And I'm coming from a space of no judgements. It's really hard and hurting to be the least favoured child.
Even I am one for that matter, but what I tried to put across is that the most favoured child did nothing extra to be liked by the parents and the relatives.
In the process of this favouring games, the least favoured child often ends up hating the most favoured child, when the most favoured child is really innocent
The main culprits to be blamed are parents and the relatives but they most often hide behind the backdrop when all on the stage you see is only the most favoured child as the enemy.
Parenting is an art and skill that is to be learnt first and practiced next and playing games of favourites will inturn separate the siblings and do no good.
When the mistake is done by one, the sufferings are to be taken by both the children.
So have no hatred for the most favoured child is what I meant to say.
I know it's hard dear, but give it some time you will come out strong and you will learn many life's lessons by experience :)
My best wishes!
@@therareworldofficial Thanks for sharing your perspective 🥰🥰
I was around 14 or 15 years at that time , I went to meet my mother's friend with my mom.
The friend looking at me said oh she is beautiful to which my mom replied oh you should see my son he is more beautiful.
Happened to me N number of times.. Saying things like she's least good looking in our family.. For my complexion, my weight, the way I looked.. It's normalized in my family.
Model,
Be strong and stand with your fiancé. I myself had an intercaste marriage and if anyone ever said anything before my marriage, I would reply them how wonderful a man my husband is by talking about his good qualities, kindness etc. And now, the same people actually respect him a lot after seeing how he really is. Caste doesn’t define the character of a person and people need to know that.
This video just shows people need to be more self reliant emotionally and not let these things bog them down.
The other day I was talking to my aunt about maids. She told me that their maids come to clean the house but her son won't let the maid wash dishes. She told me that my cousin says if the maid washes the dishes, he won't eat anything in those utensils. My cousin is around 20 or 21, I was like what? I don't understand where all this is coming from and it's sad that young people think like this.
Oh my god....I can't even believe this !!!
In my house even though we have a lady helper to wash utensils, my parents sometimes wash a few themselves because they don't want the helper to get too much strained because of the amount of work she has to deal with. They tell me to wash my dishes myself so that the helper gets less work as she works in another 3 houses. They are humans too...they don't deserve bad treatment.
Yes,i always feel that my parents love my elder sister more n give more importance to her. They always given me her examples even when i got equal marks in the exam as her. Even there were only 1/2% of marks difference.always gave her more properties . But i love my sister so much.she is everything to me. But sometimes it hurts a lot emotionally.
You are such a sweetheart Prachi di... The world would have been such a better place if everyone thought like you💓
I am really inspired by you💓
My father loves my younger sister, she is clearly his favourite child. He doesn't even hide it. It hurts to see how normal a father-daughter relationship they have that I didn't get to experience. No wonder I have father issues because of this, and it does affect my mental well being a lot.
Like there is this constant mental battle in my head and the feeling that I am making a huge issue of this in my head, But what I feel is valid.
I love my mom though, she is my life, she loves me a lot too. So I don't need my father's love anyway.
This may also be one of the reasons why I always seek older men when it comes to dating I guess idk!
Sorry, my comment is all over the place, P.S. I am a 21-year-old woman, doing extremely great in my career too, not letting this affect my success in any way :) love you mom ♥
You are doing great ❤️❤️
You are really strong hearted person....i also face the sameee situation and that i seek men attention.....love youu for this ❤
Plz share wat u have opted for your career option...I need help !
@@anjalikumari-gv3ox I work at FAANG as a computer engineer
I'm way younger to tell you this but yeah your mom loves you and you are well settled so some or the other day your dad will realize.
Damn i feel so blessed that my parents love both of us (me and my younger sibling) equally . Favourism among siblings wasn't even a thing for me untill i read these comments. I wasn't even aware of this behaviour of parents. Feeling really blessed ❤️
Your videos give me mental strength. Thank you❤
I feel proud to be the part of this channel....I learn a lot from the suggestions you give and think in a different way even when i feel low and depressed your videos are a kind of therapy to me which makes me feel calm and relaxed...you are doing your job so wonderfully...all the best nd keep it up:)
This video is just for me...
Both the topics...both of them !!!!
It just feels like there is no caste and discrimination in today's world. Until, it comes to marriage.
Oh my god, I feel so lucky being a SINGLE CHILD ❤.
Lol 😆
For the first time....YES...glad I'm single 😅😅
Your videos make my weekend Prachi❤❤...Such diverse content and such beautiful advices....I absolutely wait for your videos every week!!
I have never written a letter to you...but have definitely found many situations relatable and applied a lot of your suggestions❤...Thanks a lot!!
I am so lucky that my parents never favoured any of us. They tell us when we are wrong but always told us that favouring a child is wrong. They even don't like the relatives who favours one of us over the other.
The other girl can just do a court marriage or destination so people who are shaming her won't be there. I mean if they are coming there unwillingly the atmosphere of wedding will get unhappy too.
Thank you so much for everyone who were concerned and took time to help me❤. I'm removing my original comment since I now feel guilty for writing personal problems on such a big public platform.
@@Siddharthmenon7_12_98 Thanks a lot for your kind words.... ❣️I become so involved when writing and let it all out at once out of frustration..shouldn't have done that... I'm much better now... Thanks again😌 ✨
That's why I will stick to having one single child only
Same 🥺
The favoritism one is right. My parents always choose my brother over me. He's 5 years younger than me and I'm now 18 and in 2nd year of college and also preparing for cs(although that's not what I really want to do). They always blame me for whatever goes wrong between them as a couple or if my brother makes any mistakes then it's my fault, and if I did any mistakes then oh my god, that is something unacceptable, I'm a disappointment and what not. And the mistakes can be as small as a plate falling from my hand accidentally or my hair strands seen in the bathroom or anywhere or just me laughing or talking normally which is for them very loud( and I've had people outside of my home tell me to speak a bit loudly as they can't hear me which is true). They just call me names, insult me and then say that I can't take a joke and stuffs. During the lockdown, they had hit me twice for no fault of mine, just because they were angry and I'm the only person they can take their anger out. They have beaten me even before for things and I do believe it has messed with me very badly. I do lack confidence to talk with people and self worth issues although I'm working on it. I'm just very tired of everyday taunts, right now my mom is screaming and yelling at me because I'm studying and not helping her which I already did and there's no work now. My dad has anger issues and high bp , so he always yells and is mad at everything especially me. He'll scold and yell at me for things I didn't do and my mom would keep watching silently, but if it's my brother who's getting scolded for things he did, she'll come for his rescue and say things and then my dad would apologize to him. I do love my parents a lot, they have done many sacrifices for us to live comfortably and are still struggling but all these are very tiring for me. It happens everyday, every minute and I'm exhausted. I do want to earn and move out but it will take some time. My family is going through a lot right now and I understand that they are very stressed, but things are not all good for me too. I'm tired of being the only person who's understanding and then being called selfish and other names. They keep saying stuffs to me and get angry saying "why don't you smile? "What should I do now? I can't take this anymore. I had depression previously when I was of the age my brother is now and I struggled a lot to get out of it. I still have severe anxiety and I just cannot express myself as I never got any chance to do at my own 'home'. Please🙏 to all the parents, don't do such things to your kids.. It messes with them big time and is very Stressful. You might even lose them forever if you continue this. Please🙏 I beg you.
And Prachi di, thank you so much ❤your videos have helped understand different perspective and people. I would be forever grateful to you. I love you, may God bless you🙏
Must be really difficult for you.. 😔😔
@@pranoti_prakash5481 it is😔but I know I'll be alright. They do love me I guess and I do too, it's just a matter of time. Thank you for acknowledging 🥰I hope you be happy forever ❤
@Klaus Mikaelson I get what you're trying to say😔I do feel that at times but they have always done things for us and I'm grateful for that , they still sacrifice a lot and those thoughts just make it more confusing for me
Hi Prachi di, thank you for talking about FAVOURITISM. I'm the middle child of my family among three children. Always the elder and younger ones get the most attention and I'm left alone. They both used to be toppers and I was an average student. So right from my childhood I was criticized, humiliated, got scolded and beaten up. Because of this my self esteem, self confidence is very low. I'm not able to overcome those traumas even now. I feel like I'm invaluable and I don't know how to develop my self confidence and will power. Hope one day everything will change. 🙏🏻
Feeling Sad for the doctor 😢😔😟
i want to message you . but how i dont know
Didi.. You are so mature. I love your videos. ❤❤
I am the only child of my parents so I am the only one who receives all the love, care and attention., however, I have seen so many parents in my friend circle and relatives who have their favourite child. I feel bad for those who are least favourite and when I imagine myself in their shoes I feel sad.
I luv the way u say bye 3 times at the end of every video. The way u say bye is exactly same in every video
Prachi u don't know how much u help me by explaining the 2nd letter . Love from me❤
All the best for your wedding, caste religion doesn't matter
Happy to help!
@@SmileWithPrachi ❤😌
Yes I see in my case too my mother keeps all the good stuff for my brother...I don't care bt sometimes it pinches me...he is favored more.
How are you dear .. hope u r doing well❤️❤️❤️
I am 18yo girl and eldest one i have one brother 5 years younger than me and yes i am the favourite child, my parents say i am fav because i am their first 💕
It does impact major part of our lives like we're not loved and unimportant.
Prachi, by starting the favorite child conversation, you might have intended to heal the less favorite child. But I think, for people who had doubts these thoughts will be cemented, especially in the minds of impressionable teenagers. It will create more divide amongst siblings and more feelings of dislike and resentment towards parents. Whether you are a favorite child or not, your parents still love you.
its not always that easy.
usually the less favourite child grows up feeling responsible for the less love they get and zero understanding from the world,, because people are always ready to correct and preach you.
This in turn leads to anger, frustration and loss of self esteem.
To validate feelings doesnt build resentment, it allows people to know that what they feel is 'normal' and that they deserve better. So they can feel confident of themselves even with all the lack of approval from those around them. healing begins, you get more pateint and relationships gradually improve.
PRACHI HOW CAN I WRITE AN EMAIL TO YOU
I feel like my low self esteem comes from this favouritism....i was never appreciated for anything I did....but they always reminded me my mistakes and flaws though
Me, one of my cousin brother, cousin sister used to live with my mother’s maternal family including her sisters and grandmother because all of our parents worked abroad. Me being the middle child, was the least favorite child obviously. My grandmother favored the cousin brother (obv gender), and my sister because she was the youngest. I was the strange kid because I was just brought to Sri Lanka from Italy. My grandmother hated the fact that I got along well with my cousin sister. She would even advise her not to play with me even while living in the same house. She badmouthed me to the other aunts and family whenever they visited. I was eventually branded as the black sheep. Growing up, this was very hard for me. I cut ties with everyone as soon as I became an adult and it’s been relief. But I know, all of what I went through still have an effect on my life even as an adult.
Honestly, never priorities your family over your own needs and mental health lol.
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Prachi Di I'm so proud of you that you're there to guide us like an elder sister✨
Doctor youre a good man bro, but unfortunately we live in a society where we cant hold anyone accountable and even they cant take any accountibility for their actions, Sorry If you feel bad but honestly your parents are not at all bright if they decided to point fingers at you for your sisters bad decisions given that she is 23 and a fully functioning adult. Leave your family and live your life, if they give a damn about you they will contact you and apologize meanwhile dont be a scapegoat and focus on you. As for your sister If I was in your place I would have found the boyfriend showed him what a real brother is capable of (since he was threatening your sister). would have taken the matter to his parents. For now dont worry about your parents and sister, block them and worry about your health which is the most important thing.
You are so good doctor. U took in your adult sister and gave her a roof on her head and she used your innocence. She seems manipulative and irresponsible. Maybe good people are made scapegoats in this world. Follow whatever Prachi has said. You are a successful human being. U don't need validity of your parents. You are good man. Now it's high time to be a bit selfish and set boundaries. Even with your family. People don't understand when they have a good person amongst them. Only when they have lost them, they understand.
I wish l had somebody as kind and capable like you in my family.
I am in relationship but he keeps saying bad things to me in anger ..we have been staying together..i don't know what to do?my parents also puts pressure of marriage..i am quite upset ..
Well the thing about "favourite child" ,we are two brothers with a one year age gap and i(first child) am the favourite one in my family, especially favorite child of my mother but because of this favouritism i have faced many disadvantages in my life.
Due to my obedient and calm nature, mother always asks me for help or to do other household things, i don't hate helping but if you only make one child to do your tasks all the day and the other child just stays in his room playing games that would surely make someone upset.
I have complained about it many times but she just always says, "Dear, you are obidient, you always listen to me, that's the difference between you and him"
Another disadvantage is the compromises i have to make in my family, my brother is rebellious and a type of child that bothers parents if his needs and wants aren't fulfilled, because of this nature our parents always give him first and me second, for example toys of childhood,our first smartphones, new beds(i am still waiting for my new bed) etc
They always expect me to wait and compromise, they always say stuff like
"you are an obedient child,please wait i will get you this and that"
"Just wait we will buy you a better one"
And the last thing i hate the most is that in our house his "NO" is acceptable but my "NO" is not! If he refuses to do something like going and buying something from shop,filling water bottles etc then parents expect me to do it and if i say NO then they get angry on me.
So true😌😌.. Thats just exactly my thoughts in your comment😅
@@anisharamteke3307 Thanks for replying
I guess your situation is also same like me.
Yeah.. Kind of, for me its like until im doing something proud for my parents, im their fav child but my younger sibling he just talks and does buttering to my mum and he eventually is allowed to do anything where for me its wrong to do so, n the thing you said about saying 'no' thats similar too
This is fine till you are dependent on them. Once you are adult and he is too. Do not be responsible for younger brother. Some siblings are takers only not givers.
@@deepalil1085 Thanks for replying, i will remember your words.
most of the time the actions of those parents scars the other child for life…..
For me, I am my father's favorite while my mother's favorite is my brother. But they treat us equally through. And I am my brother's favorite too.☺☺☺ Sometimes I feel guilty that I get to do anything I want but my brother don't. So, I try to favour him too.
By god's grace my parents love me and my siblings equally prachi❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
thats so beautiful :)
Yes. My mother favours my elder brother more. I have tried to confront her many times about this but she gets irritated and angry. So I have accepted this fact that no one in this world loves me unconditionally, not even my parents.
Can you please do a topic regarding middle child?
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Loved intro😍😍✅
Yes favouritism is their definitely my younger brother is loved more than me and I used to hate that as a child I used to think ok maybe because he is more calmer and I was always the aggressive child so that's y they love him more than me but now as an adult I know why they loved him more it's because they think he is younger and they have this urge to protect him since when he was just 2 we almost lost him due to pneumonia and they think I'm more responsible child because I'm elder so I don't need protection and care much , but ya now I love my brother and also see him as my baby even tho he is 19 now hehe so in the end u need to understand where ur parents r coming from and why they have a favourite child or why they care that child more than u .
Yes, my parents have chose my younger sister over me! I would say that I knew this when I was around 6-7 now I'm 12. I have completely lost hope now! I'm even going through anxiety & depression. I haven't consult anyone. No one knows about this, but I do cry a lot of times in a day. Mostly I have cried on my bday's as well. I guess that's completely normal that I cry everyday. I feel i shd cry so that all my heart's pressure goes away. Ik that they love my younger sister more. Always on her mistakes I used to get scolds & even sometimes they used to hit me.
Lovely episode, Prachi. What you told Model is perfect. A lot of people in my family have caste pride, but my father ensured that I wouldn't have those prejudices. And yes, spouse is priority nos 1 because he or she is your life partner. Don't stand by anyone belittling your fiance or anything bcoz of caste or anything else, bcoz you and he are teammates for life.
I found Doctor's story very sad. Especially the drinking part. Please don't. You have cracked medical entrance, completed the gruelling medical course, you are a doctor. At 29, you have your whole life and career ahead of you. It's fine to drink socially, but not fine to use drinking as a panacea for suffering and depression. Don't become addicted to liquor. Derive your self-worth from your life, not your parents' bias against you. And your sister's life is her responsibility. I am sure she finds living in that small town constrictive after enjoying freedom with no responsibility in a big city. But don't live with her in the future unless she sorts out her life. I am not being judgemental about premarital sex, but she is not serious about her career, she didn't share household chores, she was a freeloader and had nothing to do except have fun. Entitled people are toxic takers. So tell her she needs to grow up emotionally before wanting to live with you and off you. And seriously you stop drinking from depression...you are 29, you are an achiever and your best is yet to come. Good luck.
I can completely relate with the 2nd letter bcz right now I am facing the same situation my bf's family is from another caste and my entire family except my elder brother is blaming me and telling me that I have demean them or insulted them
One reason why parents favour one child is that, the can relate more to their one child than the other. May be the other child has her/his own likings or disliking, which they see as disregarding their decisions. Which is of course very toxic n suffocating for the child. In many such cases they complain about their child's choices with their near n dear ones, and then the relatives label the child as black sheep, n always give them mean advices.
I think, parents should never let their children know about this n never complain about them with other people, because for them these people can be their siblings or friends but for the child they are just relatives
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In my family, all of we three think we are the most favoured children so actually we don't know who is the favourite
Like brother is eldest and more of the one sacrificed everything for us but mumma ka laadla
Didi is the first girl after 8 years so the favourite as she was most pampered and loved as a child
I the youngest and a baby, I was spared from everything so yes,
We all have our pros and cons
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Can you make one video on how to decide your career after university? I studied one thing, but super lazily, I often get low with some news like now it is on Afghanistan and if not news, then with my own condition of study and results and future... I worry a lot, whenever I'm not distracted with some youtube videos, and I want to study, I start worrying... also I want to do social work, or may be I want to popularize to social science concepts and social studies... I want to study developmental economics but I also need a job... I am already 22 and I feel I wastes so many years... my friends and seniors have gone or are going for really good careers or research works, I don't feel the urge to do research in this field, and I need money... but also I want to join the social development causes... of girls and women education, job opportunity, social security and overall sanity and good mental health... but I am really reserved, so much so that classmates almost kinda bullied me sometimes, in school mostly. I used to have huge social awkwardness, but now I manage things better than before. So with this nature, how can I join such a cause? So I now think, may be I'll try to land a good job and I'll monetarily join such independent channels and agencies in their work, and I can get into their social circle in that way too in which I really would feel comfortable. I don't really know what I'm talking about... but yeah, I think there are some people who get into such a mess like me. Can you tell me one thing? Why people do politics on women's lives? These never-ending politics are depressing...
I think most of the parents do have favorite kid and shower more love on that child because they are good in studies or sports or extra curriculars but most importantly they listen to parents 😂 but I think if you are at a peace relation with your sibling then that issue is something which will stay with parents only, and if anytime you feel jealous then remember you as a individual also must be having some skills /qualities which may not be In your sibling so why not focus on that and you can even ask for help of your sibling if there is something you also want to learn and the other person is good at it, communication is the key and yeah one advice for model - JUST DO IT 🙂
Not always true ! Because I'm the least favourite child of my mother and I was good in studies growing up and my brother was extremely poor ! So what she did she started insulting me everywhere my class my tuitions and used to call my friend's mother and ruined my reputation.. she used to make things up by her own to ruin me ... even if I score good than also I used to get beaten up with thick sticks since I was 11 years old I used to have bruises all over my body it was that bad .. and it took a toll on my mental health and I keep declining in my studies and she used to beat me more and more and used to tell everyone oh I am beating her up because of studies ... and in Indian society abuser has been normalised because parents can't be wrong ! I used to be very good in studies, in competitions, sports ! You name it and I have won prices too but she didn't let me studies further ! Now cries that I am not doing job she herself didn't let me study even when she asked my dadi too not to support me financially! And now says that I'm eating her food !
So favouritism is not always about studies
She let her son study tho supported him in every possible way ! So vo badhta gya Aur main degrade hoti gayi !
@@niti470 OK so first of all exceptions are always there but yours one is a nutcase ! Now the only reason I can think of your mother did this Is because she hates you because you are a girl and this is sickening but then again in this country we have seen horrific cases so I can relate, is your mother from very conservative rural background? Also what about your father and brother didn't they ever tried to stop your mother?
D B but she loves other girl child she plays with them ... my father loves me but he is not supportive .. and when it comes to my brother he is also abusive as my mother .. my mother keeps saying my brother to beat me with hockey sticks I heard myself and she then says roz roz ni marta na saal me 2-3 bar marta hai sehen shakti honi chahiye ( means he never beats you everyday he only beats you thrice a year and you should bear it because it doesn't happen everyday ) one day I was on my period then he kicked me in my stomach and my mother instead of saying anything to him was verbally abusing me. I wonder why God in not watching her ! Actually earlier my brother was not like that she made him like that rest god knows ! Whenever he has anger issues he beats me !
@@niti470 Hey Vrinda! God bless you! I feel for you. I know how it feels to be the punching bag of your family. I have been there and I will always be there until my last breath. I used to blame myself for the behaviour of my family.
What I did was I ignored them (family), focused on my career and my life. And I stopped trying to make them happy even at my own stake. One of my uncles once told "अपना कलेजा भी निकाल के सामने थाली में रख दोगे लोग तो तब भी खुश नहीं होंगे".
If you are independent just ignore them. And if not then focus on being independent. Once earning get out of the there as soon as possible. All the best! Lots of love and blessings for you!
N R thanks for this one ! And I was about to say that don't feel guilty of what they are doing I know that it's not about me rather it's about them ill say the same for you ... never feel guilty because they purposely guilt trip us ... my mother had fracture and she blamed that even on me she was outiside somewhere and I was at home still she got fractured because of me ..
bhgwan pta nahi kyu nahi aise logo ko dekhte ! Everyday someone or the others insults me because parents can't be wrong I'm the culprit in everyone's eyes so with me it is happening from every where ! They even shamed me for not getting married Because I'm 30 ... No I'm not independent yet ! But I have given me 4-5 months more I'll find job soon since they didn't even supported me for my studies so I have done studies from distance leaning and it's hard to find jobs !
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I am the least favorite child of my parents.. They're partial.. And my father always says that i will not do anything in my life... And he never pay for my expenses like library and class fee.. I do..by my savings of my previous job... I feel neglected when somebody ask them ki what your daughter do... They reply I don't know what she's doing. I am preparing for ssc.. And they want me to do a private job, and support them with money. They don't want me to study anymore. I am 22 only...
Hi doctor you dont need feel guilty about your actions and whatever you did with ur sister that is correct, your sister is irresponsible and living in a fantasy world and ur parents are supporting her even though its her mistake so u dont need to blame yourself, first stop drinking and take care of yourself and you are not responsible for your sister life she is 23 and she should take care of herself and for some days dont call to your parents and sister let them realise their mistake and let them call u apologies to u stop calling them then only they will realise their mistake take a break from your family, start taking care of yourself
It sucks if parents do that and impacts very badly on self confidence.
In my case I won't say my parents favoured they often left me out in conversations and many fun things because I'm not old enough it made me question myself each and every time.I'm 20 year but I try to behave like 26 year old and I can't help it. I feel like I'm not enough most of the time.
I am an only child but I feel like my mom likes my cousins more than me. Sometimes I have seen my mom getting jealous when my cousin did something good and I didn’t or couldn’t. She didn’t say this out loud but I have seen and I felt it
Hi five I am also in lone child gang
That's very suffocating. I can feel your pain
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My parents like my older bro more cuz he is a boy and their first child but they compensate for it by giving me better birthday parties or getting me gifts, they favor him when we fight or when he asks for something they GET IT IN A JIFFY or dont tell him to help in chores but i dont mind cuz he is also more emotionally weak so them being protective is normal and i m happy with the parties i get and also i m 16 and my mom still hand feeds me (mostly cuz i dont eat what she gives) but yeah we all know their fav child is my bro but they havent really given me a reason to complain lol.
I'm 18 I was the least favoured child and that effected me alot I was so jealous of my brother I would get mad at him for nothing I tried doing everything to receive love from my mom and that's how I became a parent pleaser now many a times I go out of my way to please people I feel like acting against or telling no makes me a bad person which is not true I'm trying my best to work on it
Parents discriminating between children based on skin color. 😭😭😭
I have felt my mothers favourite child is my younger sister . My mother is literally blind for my sister .I dont have problem with it but sometimes when i scold my sister or try to explain her something which she is not getting i always ask my mother to correct her but she usually take it lightly. On the other hand i have noticed that my father doesn't have any favourite child for him me and sister is equal. I am 23 years old so i can clearly see these thing now.
Well I have no rights to tell anything abt favoritism as i am the only kid. But to those who are telling that thier parents love their sibling more than them, I have a question for u. Don't u have a parent(mom or dad)?
hey didi i have a younger brother and i feel that he is the favorite child in the house but my mom never accepts it or maybe i just felt it i just don't know but i felt that he is the fav child but that made me sad in the childhood but it made me strong and independent
I think my parents don’t really have a favourite child but I am the one who gets more stuff and I only need to convince them a little if I need anything maybe because I’ve good convincing skills. I do know for sure that my mother loves me and my younger brother equally but tends to be on my side in most arguments. And my father claims that he loves me more but he restricts me for everything and he doesn’t really have any rules for my brother. I don’t need such a love from him that doesn’t even let me be myself, all i need is freedom of choice, freedom of speech, freedom of expression and a little bit support from him which i don’t get..he’s the reason i am so unstable emotionally & mentally at 13 years of age. Not only this but he has done so much more reckless things that can never be justified. I can talk about how much I hate him for hours. I’ve been having suicidal thoughts recently and I absolutely hate it. Everytime I have such things going on in my head i just tell myself “dear sukhman you’re just 13, you have to fulfill your dreams and you can’t just let them die with you, life holds so much more for you in future, things do get better, you’ll get better, have some patience and keep going, and you’ll be proud of yourself for not giving up, all this struggle will be worth it someday” And I want to see what happens if i dont give up so easily. I know for sure that things get better and will get better.
My comment is all over the place and I hope anyone of you wouldn’t mind.❤️🌸
Yes, I'm the least favourite child. It hurts!
I'd suggest doctor to be okay with not being the ideal son from your parents perspective for it is consuming your peace of mind, you can do the best you can to be a good son and brother, but don't take unreasonable blames, it's not your fault.
God bless!
I am the first child of my parents and i have a younger brother. I was always far from them due to studies since childhood and my brother had always stayed with them, this is the reason my brother is their favourite child and i accept it. But you know what the interesting part is that being an elder one it is me whose demands are fulfilled. also i stay far from them so whatever i wish for i get it more than my brother. ^_^ hehehehe :)
BTW my parents say it loud and clear that they love my brother more
Di i mailed you 2 months back u haven't replied
@Hansini Kaushik ok thankd
Mei apni favourite hu😂
I've faced the favoritism by parents, My 9 year elder sister had always been a topper, bright in studies, got good marks and currently she has a government job.. my entire life they compared me to her.. (I'm also a scholar student but not as good as her).. They always used to say when she was your age she did this, she did that, scored 92% in her highschool blah blah.. in that rage i worked damn hard and scored 95% in my time.. and u know what they said??" the times were different then... When she scored 92% she had very few resources than what you have today. " it is just one incident, there had been countless like these. This had resulted in many ugly fights between me and my parents.. They refuse to accept that they ever did this favoritism.. This has resulted in me disliking my sister and our sibling relationship has been hampered. Now we rarely even talk. I think the first child is always the favorite of the parents. (or the smarter one)
@@Siddharthmenon7_12_98 No parent should compare children "to boost up competitive spirit". It is toxic. The child who is getting compared to will tend to have more insecurities about herself and will lose her self esteem. So it is not at all okay to compare among children. I respect ur opinion tho.
I'm only child of my parents. When I was six months old my mom died, but my father doesn't like me because I'm a girl.. but he loves my cousin she is my uncle's daughter...
Yes sis. My mom has 2 children. I have a brother who is 8 years younger than me. I have felt that my mom love my brother more than me. From childhood aftr my bro was born i have been hearing 'he is small'. So all the priority was given to him . Especially in case of food. He will get every special things made at home more than i get. Now im 24 years old. And he is 16. Now mom says he is boy. So he should eat more. But when she gives more to him all my fav foods i feel like im less loved. And not only in case of food. When ever he beat me or create any problems even though if im right she will put all criticisms on me. A few months back he slapped me on my face for accidentally breaking his headset. And i bought new headset for him.But there was no one to b my side at home and i felt soo alone. I hit my head on wall and i was wounded😢. Sometimes this makes soo distressful. And i also feel this is spoiling him. He has no respect towards me.He try to control me as if he is elder one.
*My parents love more n support my brothers n they won't accept this ever*
*they also choose them first over me*
*Most of the time I feel bad but it's ok*
*being a girl in india is not an easy task*
*I fight for myself every time*
I am least favourite child 😁
Prachi...ur child would be so lucky man 🤩🤩
My fren mom said it infront of us that she love her son more than her , it surprised me , i said my mom (even v r 2 my bigbro😂)
My mom said she shouldnt say that , girl get so hurt , that's true .my fren was so offended
My mother hates me like anything anything wrong happens with her it is always my fault ! Two months back she was outside home and her leg got fractured again it was because of me her leg got fractured when I was home. She made me do all her work but again after few days she said what did you do ! All the physical and mental abused ruined me mentally and physically too ! I became people pleaser lack boundaries! I do for people in order to get acceptance, validation and love ... I have craved for love throughout! I read somewhere that when people are working towards their dreams we people are living on survival mode !
Now I generally gets attracted towards girl child more because girl child was never accepted it is in my head I feel I am also doing the same though I love boy child too ( in my neighbourhood) but at least I have awareness now that yes it is there in my mind . Sometimes I feel I'll adopt girl child whenever I'll get married again because girl child was never accepted by our society that's how my mind works now !
My brother is the golden child at our home and I'm the scapegoat one ! There was a funny incident that once due to government issues my dadi didn't get her pension and whole area where I belong too didn't get their pension that is also because of me that she didn't get her pension ! And it is almost on daily basis the blame game happening! Sometimes I wonder where is god ?
Yes I can relate with your second paragraph, one of our close family relative, there were not able to give birth to a child due to some medical reasons, now due to society pressure they went in to depression even.
I suggested them to adopt a child, they looked at me and gave me weird look. Now by some medical operations they finally have a girl child but what I have understood by this adoption is still a dogma....in ur case gender is dogma...!!
Now I want to adopt a child, it's one of my dream. I don't know how will my future parents will react or family will react.
Thanks for sharing your experience, you are a brave girl, don't seek for validations, I won't suggest you anything as I'm not a professional.
Thanks,
Uday
Coding Sutra but my reason is not medical I'm not even married just because Indians don't accept the girl child they consider them liability even if they love their girl child still they prefer son more than a girl child or feel sad that first child is a girl child I mean how disgusting it is ! That's why I want to adopt a girl child who is unacceptable for their own parents ! These people celebrate navratra these people want kanjaks to worship during narvaratra but doesn't want a girl child or abuse their own girl child such hypocrites!
@@niti470 yes I completely got your context, that's the harsh reality.
In my case even people don't consider adoption a good thing too.
Slowly things will change (maybe) . All the best 😇😇
Coding Sutra hope so ! I pray things change for the good ! 🙏🏻
@@niti470 😇
Unfortunately in indian families daughetrs are treated in extreme ways. Either they are neglected and completely unwanted or pampered and spoilt. Also the society finds is so convenient to put sisters responsibility on brother. Whether its her education,marriage or other things. I never understood this. Why would an adult take care of another adult who is able bodied, mentally fit and educated. In case of wife the wife is taken care of because she takes care of home and his child but why should sister be the brother’s responsibility?
This favouritism by parents is of totally no good. I know and currently I'm dealing with it. I am the elder child of my parents my mother never wanted her first child to be a girl but unfortunately I am that one, all my childhood memories have one thing in common my parents especially mother always praying to God " God please bless me with a first kid as boy " and 7-8yr old me used to feel had still doesn't nothing has changed so far but now she has her son ( we're three siblings, two sisters and one brother..brat kid). Even I dad never admitted this first child thing but he never talk or asked mother to stop the nonsense, now I am not it talking terms with them..I never had a mother daughter bond with her! And with dad we barely speak, if he's in room I'll leave that place or else he'll move out. As a seventeen years old I can say / I have to I am with TOXIC PARENTS! Sometime I hate this life and other days I believe ingnorace is bliss.....
Very good decision by you. Just my giving birth, these individuals can't be called "parents" in true sense. Parenthood is more about how you bring up ur child, what you teach them and most importantly how you behave to them. India is a hub of pseudo parents tbh.
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