How to Make a Man Fall Madly in Love With You (Go From Liking to Loving You)
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Many women struggle with making a man fall in love with them. they believe that to make a guy fall in love with you requires aggressive, direct action. They believe that in order to make him fall in love, she must impress him with her awesome traits.
The truth is that to make a guy fall for you, it must be done unintentionally... at least the illusion of it.
Most women don't struggle with making him want you, it's the love that's the problem. To make a guy love you, you must first get his interest and make yourself the weak one. The one who can't control your emotions in front of your man.
This is done through a few ways: The superficial way would be Responding fast to his text messages, validating his ego, and make him feel strong.
You will also confess to a "wrong doing" that you did to reduce suspicion. This will lower his resistance. It's important to do this because if there's resistance, then he's not going to allow himself to love you.
But the best way to do it is to allow your weakness to become your strenght. We all have weaknesses that we repress because of fear of losing the person.
As long as you don't repress it, the weakness can be used as a strength, wherein, he lowers his resistance and sets the proper ground to allow love to flow through him. It also allows you to transmute his desire for you into love.
But it has to be done from time to time. It can't be a thing that happens all the time. It has to be occasional glimpses into your psyche. This allows you to go from just a sexual being, to a flawed human being who wants to be loved. This arises in us sympathy and can potentially turn into love.
So lets suppose that you are emotional at times, or get sad from time to time, allow yourself to put it out there a little bit more than usual. This will give you a good polarizing affect that's needed to make him see you in another light.
But lets say you are a bit emotional and you try to hide it, or lets say you really miss him but you try to hide it, you wouldn't be as charming and as seductive. You have to have men sense your other side, your softer side.
For example, i can be a bit confident but at times i can be a bit too emotional. I get angry at times and almost every day i struggle with my impulses.
So in your case, you have to have the sexual aura but at the same time the little girl who needs a savior. Its all about hitting at a man's masculine side from the aggressive to the softness.
As soon as you do this back off. Once he feels he controls you, back off. Once he feels that you are dependent on him and that you stroked his ego, take a step back.
Suddenly don't respond to a phone call, or a text. Take a bit longer to respond to his text messages, and start acting a bit bored. Not overly, but just a bit bored. This will sturr up his insecurity and guess who he has relied on for self esteem? YOU! Now you have him under your grip.
Increase it two fold by seeming interested in somebody else. Make sure to cover your tracks (making him gay) but include someone else, or at least the thought of it. Attend a salsa class or somewhere with other men. But make sure it's a hint or else it'll be too obvious.
When people realize that your love is not unconditional, you begin to work harder for their attention. Similar to growing up and knowing that our parents get mad at us when we misbehave. This potential threat of losing the person sturs in us fear and anxiety, the right kind that makes us want the person even more.
Treat him like a new pair of Jimmy Choo's. One day you love them, next day it doesn't suit your outfit. Next week you forget about them. Rotate them. Love them, yet Never outwear them or they'll hurt your 'sole 😌 Keep them on their toes. Be Unforgettable 👠
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Dudeee this is gold❤
This guy is turning me into a monster 😂
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Ditto hahaha
I was dating a man for 3 months and then I told him “I’m scared af of commitment but you make me want to change my mind.” Now he’s my man and we been together for almost a year 😌
Damn let me use this on my man tonight lol
I will try this on my friends with benefits. I'll give a 1 month update.
@@PinkLaptop hey, any update ?
@@PinkLaptop any update?
This video is excellent! It is very simple. Be sexy, reveal some human, vulnerable things about yourself by showing some weakness, validate him, show him how he makes you feel, pull away from him and remove that security for a while, go in with you life by joining a class or doing a hobby and giving him space. This will create love for you, if it’s going to happen, if not, it was never going to happen. It’s actually quite simple and genius!
Hey Alex. I just wanted to pay you a compliment. Out of all the dating coaches you're the only one I've watched that actually puts everything in the description. I enjoy listening to you but I retain information by reading it far easier. I appreciate that you take the time to do that and even if no one else tells you that I'm sure I'm not alone. So thank you. :)
Branndy Hontz i second this
He’s awesome ..just not easy to get ahold of him
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haha is that picture matthew, the other dating coach?!
I prefer Alex than Matthew.
Deffo they are both hot too which helps! Alex has some serious depth tho. gets right down to the core of things!
Yeah! Alex goes deeper in the mind of men!
Simone Randall I think Alex will interview Mathew.
Some one are waiting to hear nice words from you
Damn, does everything got to be a damn game? Are there any real people out there anymore just genuinely interested in one another that can be normal human beings and get along and develop a relationship the right way? I don't understand all this bullshit, I'm recently gone through a break up after 12 years and honestly, if I have to do all of this just to get his attention back and then make him fall back in love with me, I don't feel he's worth it if I got to do that. Love should flow naturally if someone don't love me or like me then it ain't meant to be. Wouldn't you say so?
Carole Marie thats not how the human body works. its al a chemical reaction .
Love should flow naturally? Life isn't so black and white and perfect and neither are people so no. It's a nice thought but no. I agree with you though he's not worth it.
you were in a relationship for 12 years and then broke up or you were in a relationship 12 years ago.... if 12 years relationship..how did you keep hi for so longg..? thats like a legacy!!
@@Sydney432hz That is a long time by many people's standards suppose but Most everyone in my family have been married 12+ years
@carol. Yeah i feel you. Seems like excessive
I’m doing all this completely naturally and whoa ....it’s working on the craziest levels. He’s pursuing me and taking control and chasing. And he’s sweet and respectful but at the same time...insanely hot and exactly what I’ve been missing out on.
I’ve also been talking to a bunch of other guys on the side and guys can definitely sense this abundance mentality. Like I’ve been feeling like I have tons of options and everyone is replaceable... guys have been hitting me up like crazy. The minute I stopped wanting/needing a relationship things flowed so much! Thanks Alex 🖤 you’re videos are so spot on.
Btw girls not all men are stupid. Some are... I have to admit that lol. Don’t hate all of them cause that doesn’t help you in attracting anyone at all. When you know what you want and know your value and worth- trust me the hottest guys ever will also feel the same way about you!
Ive been using your tactics, and my guy has finally told me he loves me..he told me first. He then went onto say he thinks we should stop seeing each other as hes falling for me, but then he still keeps on with his daily contact and good morning txts...Actions speak louder than words.
i'm currently 3 minutes in on ignoring his GM text and havent text him in over 36 hours..... lol. 1st time I unfriended him on fb and did not text.. 5 days later he finally text and inboxed me saying he cant believe that i unfriended him and that it was bothering him... i really enjoy him, but i am the one that is very expressive and i wear my feelings on my shoulders... i sense he feels the same way how i feel about him, but he isn't quick to say things... he thinks about it FOR A LONG TIME... wanting to make sure he is doing and saying the right thing... I mean he shows me, but I need to hear words and expression as well. Is that a bad thing
*While these tips can help foster a deeper connection, it's essential to remember that love is a complex and individual experience. It's about finding someone who appreciates and loves you for who you are, rather than trying to mold yourself into someone else's ideal. Use these tips as guidance, but always stay true to yourself and your values.*
I just cant get used to watching other channels, I like yours the most :)
Interesting video! I see where you're coming with this, quite intriguing to me.
Sexual aura... it's like when you "Netflix and chill" and you're pretending to watch the movie but what's really on your mind is the part when the tv will be switched off and shit gets dooown with like fucking sexual music in the background and both half naked... great stuff... brilliant 👍🏽hahah
You definitely outdid yourself on this video... One of your best.
"IF A PERSON DOESN'T LOVE YOU, THEY'RE NEVER GONNA LOVE YOU!" LUV YA ALEX YOU'RE AMAZING YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST! THANK YOU...♡♡♡
I’ve never asked him if he was in love with me . After a month , he told me he was in love with me :) not sure If love is possible that fast . But whatever the case, he said it first .
what if its long distance?
malika hammond You can very easily apply these techniques if it’s long distance.
IMO - for most women, falling in love is an emotional rollercoaster full gut-wrenching twists and turns
01:45 is where the video begins
question:how can i show him my love when i am not sure that he wants me the same like i want him?in any more ways then being at home together ,make love .do i tell him this?or show in other ways?my experience is that i like to feel that we want the same.i hate to tell him all this things again and again .then it lose meaning for me.so how i can act to find out this.?
If you're still not sure that means there is no trust in your relationship unfortunately and he is taking you for granted!
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It's so fun listening to you Alex and listening to all of the ways you advise ladies to get "the man". But no matter what tactic is used, there HAS to be interest on his part in the first place or all of this is just one big huge waste of time.
I showed my other side alright. He said I scared him. I said, why, you are the one collecting guns, I just use my mouth? He got it. Men say they are afraid when women get angry but we need to tell them why we get angry and it has to do with their bad behaviors.
I just wonder why we like the people who aren't capable of loving us. But no matter how hard it is to make a man you like to fall for you, you should at least try to make him notice you. Approach him in a friendly manner, who knows, you will get along with each other.
That girl in the background walking up and down is so annoying. I would get a private booth without windows.
I like this baby boy look 👀 lol
i would have avoided a crazy suck the life out of you relationship a few years ago
This is your most powerful most meaningful video, the sound of this video it is excellent, thank you.
thank you for the notes! this video came at the perfect time.
what about when a guy doesn't show much emotions? how can you tell how he feels?
What do we do when we are already in a love relationship. How do we keep them once they know they don't have to work hard to get us anymore? Do we have to continuously create fear and anxiety in them to make guys want us more. It would be exhausting I think to do this for so many years. What if he gets jealous to the point of thinking well I don't trust her so I might as well go cheat too.
+Tulip watch the newest vid
Love this technique! It's natural for me
I get it...just be yourself. I do this stuff naturally. I don't put on airs
Thanks *DR BARYOO THE GREAT CASTER* for bringing my ex back🤗🤗.
“I've got a great ambition to die of exhaustion rather than boredom."
I think my problem is is that I show too much about how I FEEL. How can I calm down?
Laura Short just fall back. Focus on you, hanging out with family and friends. Find a new hobby, and don’t respond to his calls/texts so quick. Take three hours to respond.
You are not alone girl. I do exactly the same when i am around the guy i am very attracted to. It takes practice, train your brain muscle. Just noticed when you want to react fast, breath and control your emotions
Thanks *DR BARYOO THE GREAT CASTER* for bringing my ex back🤗🤗.
Having a hard time getting past the blue fuzzy looking ice cream cone 🤣
How are you such a genius!! God Bless your heart
One of ur best videos 👌 VERY well put together... Very articulate... Very structured
I took 2 days to watch all your videos. You are by far my fav
I’m to selfish to chase a man
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My bf did she me really stressed out. Do that count for seeing another side. Mostly, I am sexual.
There are youtubers that read stories that their subscribers send to them or they go get it off story websites. You need to ask your fans to send in stories of their love lives past and present, mainly if it got better off what you are teaching them. Try to keep them all under the same topic on the same video. Tell them the topic you need stories for when you have short stories and you need more stories about the same thing to fill up the time you want to fill up. To keep their attention, try to keep each video between 15 to 30 minutes. Start with the story I wrote below. Let them know you got the story from one of your subscribers because you asked the question, what would you do to make your man feel special or what ever that question was. Go listen to the end of your video and you will hear how you asked the question. Let me know if I have any typos I my story so I can fix it before you read it.
Good luck.
My bf dumped. Bl8cked me in everything and went back in the dating site and he has blocked me on that too. I guess there is no way back from that is there?
I feel like I have been Mathew fished
He is better
Alex could we have a part 2 on this please loved this and someone rudely interrupted lol
love Matthew's pic on the thumbnail!
haha i thought it'd be funny lol
6:27 i hide everything! it's such a struggle....
I love how you break it down
is it a good i idea to fall in love with a younger guy?
katty sultan when you find out let me know... Wait..too late I've already fallen. 😢
Why not? What age are you and him?
@@mist__4974 I am 23, he is 21
@@mist__4974 help me
Baby Sloth that’s totally ok!! Hope you went for it!!
Alex, by doing the one video a day with notes, you have made yourself a little more organized, but you have taken away from the spontaneous part of yourself and freedom to just say whatever comes to you, that's the realness that I liked and admired about you and your coaching, but do whatever works best for you. Still, great content today.
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Just don't do this if he is a narc. Then it will not be a reason to fall in love, but a way to control you.
sweden love you!
This is stupid! People who love/care about each other wouldn't play mind games or hurt you intentionally!
I think subconsciously humam relations are about a certain type of dance. If intentions are good, the dance leads to a greater union. If not, that's also ok. It's a dance after all. Practice the dance!
Why is Matthew Hussey in the Thumbnail ahahahahahaa
these are good tips because it's true and it's something that I'm actually walking through right now with this very exceptional man that I met a few months ago. So you telling our experiences right now
Pity you hardly read comments...really great vid Alex👍
Hey,
What if he leaves you and then use the child as an excuse to visit and smiles and then goes cold. Respond.
Iesha Green lol
You are a realist. Of all the dating coaches, your advice works best.
i will finish the video before talking to him again. aha!
will this work when you want to get someone back? my middle school sweetheart and i started dating for a month and both of us were fresh out of long term relationships. his ex came back wanting to work things out. he went back, but felt uncertain about the decision because he developed feelings for me. I'm doing my own thing now, but i do miss him. lol....
Sacha Walton he wouldn't be a good candidate for a long term relationship because he'll always have his ex on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with you. So what you need to do is put him also on the back burner and find yourself a main man
Cool Chicka thank you
you are amazing. wish i had found you sooner! keep it up
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That last jealousy question was the missing jewel!!! Thank you friend on the glass
what if your weakness is how unattractive you are? 😂🙈
wow okay im glad i listened to this. lots of advice out there is: ONLY be cool, laid back, never give a F., good mood, perfect princess, bla bla bla 🙄 im glad im showing glimpses of my shadow too-keepin it real!
So far everything that you have said has worked!! I love listening to your infinite wisdom and knowledge about love and relationships!
Good one Alex now this one is definitely a good one. Ladies take note
Sorry can't watch this dude. Have trouble understanding him. He talks too fast, too muffled, don't pronounce clearly and have whatever that mike thing is covering his mouth is distracting. Not even listening to this entire video. 😐
Can you give examples of using fake weakness ? I really can't think of any lol
What if he's trying celibacy for a year? Wtf! Lol
Using Matthew to get people to click lol......
Has Alex done a video on how to tell a man no? I get two different stages, a stranger comes up to u strikes up a conversation then eventually asks the ? Do u have a man.... the best ans I have come up with is, 'thats end of discussion on this topic, would u like to talk about something else... I don't talk abt these things so I'm not inviting more discussion abt it.' then there is 2nd case, u go to a reoccurring salsa class or whatever & a dance partner tries to ask u out. well all I can come up with is 'hey, I see u as a friend / good acquaintance& I'm not looking for more in my life at this time.' that's the best I can come up with. In the 1st scenario it infuriates me when a stranger comes up to me, eventually asks the question, then asks More ?s about my answer, (like I have to dance around their persistence etc/ 'no, thank u' is Never enough, they always want to talk more about it).so I'm planning to be even more direct as stated
This was a great video! Glad I found it! Apparently I need to catch up some more.
lmao...Alex, why Matthew? lol
What if you are not on social media? What tactic can you use regarding that.....
How do you hint off that you miss him? Do you just come out and say it or do it subtly? Can you give an example please lol
How do you not have more views
Omg I actually did that!! I work with a gay man and told him i kinda like him and he shows interest😂
Haha twisted but I personally feel necessary ;)
I promise their ain't a formula to a man's heart. But there is to a woman's one
This is me naturally... I like watching these videos to put things into perspective but I'm a cancer so I have the too strong too weak personality... sweet probably why I get bored with games quick
Very intuitive video, thank you Alex. However, I don't like the abrupt ending, as the questions you were answering from the comments were quite educative 😐
Is it possible to build a healthy relationship being 100% free of games??
Can you make a video on this, please ! ! !
krysty kava yea I had that. 100% trust= 100% no games
Oh my gosh, people are so stupid. Look man, real people don't play games. Real mature men are kind and strong and have no need to play games. Be upfront to a lady about your intentions. Don't use people. It's that simple.
Damn... Ur good... he confessed!!!!... He said he's in love with me... I didn't say "i love you" back cause i'm showing it with my actions not with my words, just following ur advices Father Alex 😄 but... He tried to make me say it and said he reciprocates the feeling... I said "you say it first then!! ", he said "me first? No, no, no...." 😄 Sooo now we assume we love each other but we shut the f**k up, we ain t saying it.... Where will this go? I m really in love with this guy so i don t wanna ruin everything... 😃 He still chasing, we still good, but he withdrawed emotionally a little after all this, maybe felt vulnerable...so... What next Father Alex??
P. S: You'r the best!!!
Who dis? 😂😂 Love you!! Totally applying your advice and got 2 dates this week.
Wait i thought it was Mattew 😆😆😆
You do that and then he'll dump you. Bad advice, it's playing games. "Covering your tracks" Yeah you do these and he might dump you. You say long term, I think these are more short term. Love is unconditional. Yeah, not meant to. Or meant to just for that time. Yeah, I'm thinking a lot of bad advice. Yes, at the end is bad advice.
samantha wilson Love is not unconditional. Nope. Sorry.
true love is
Yes, it is.
Why is Mathew Hussey on the thumbnail
Now everywhere we are being taught psychological or sexual games to learn how to get a guy. Due to sexual liberation (mass brainwashing by men) women have lost their self worth from being like a diamond, who is wanted for just being a, nurturing, beautiful, spiritual to a financial worker, who needs a man's sexual validation. Plz ask do we really need men if we can earn, have babies, run a clean house too. So whats a man's role is, women are creators of life, so plz stay in ur half role and let a man do other half of being a provider, in a respectful, loving , caring way.
Your microphone looks like a mushroom from a german forest. If you want meee to fall in love with you, you should take a walk with me through a german Forest, because I think its cute and hilarious if a guy from nYC visits me in my countryside hometown.
This advice will keep you single forever.
Nobody has times for childish ass games anymore.
Just be open and real Fuck everything else
UR2cute-use your own pic, Alex-- "who dis?" lol, 💟💙💟
You lost me when you started talking about manipulating the situation. Pretending not to hear a phone call, or delaying a reply to a text purposely etc. That is not sustainable and the real you will eventually show up in the relationship (talking from experience) just have an interesting life and be passionate about your own life and your partner and that will make things amazing. For more info subscribe to Matthew Hussey’s page:)
YOU ARE SO CUTE FOR ME😍.. KEEP UP YOUR GOOD WORK👍🏻.. hope you will get more viewers that can help you also somehow.. ❤️GOD BLESS❤️.. subscribed
You are amazing, very passionate and expressive in the exposition
My man is taking me for granted and pretends he is married cos of that. We been together 5.5 mths now with breaks and ups and downs cos he loves himself too much. He is proper cute. Anyways he was meant to meet this evening but he is ghosting me so I said to him, "Enjoy with your wife and I enjoy with someone else. I dont mind". He wrote, "Very nice". WTF is that supposed to mean? I can be a real bitch and send him one of my ex mans pic who want me back now. My ex man too cute. Im thinking of getting back with my ex too cos this kind of thing pisses me off. What do you think of my bfs comment, "Very nice" and what is he feeling really? Does he care or not?
3 years ago, and your mouth was all cleaned up. What happened. Could it be that you have fallen for you?!
Thankyou ❤
this was very good. thank you!
Jesus this is bull
Why play all these games?
I think I started Falling inlove with you dear.. You always make sense