Treat him like a new pair of Jimmy Choo's. One day you love them, next day it doesn't suit your outfit. Next week you forget about them. Rotate them. Love them, yet Never outwear them or they'll hurt your 'sole 😌 Keep them on their toes. Be Unforgettable 👠
I was dating a man for 3 months and then I told him “I’m scared af of commitment but you make me want to change my mind.” Now he’s my man and we been together for almost a year 😌
This video is excellent! It is very simple. Be sexy, reveal some human, vulnerable things about yourself by showing some weakness, validate him, show him how he makes you feel, pull away from him and remove that security for a while, go in with you life by joining a class or doing a hobby and giving him space. This will create love for you, if it’s going to happen, if not, it was never going to happen. It’s actually quite simple and genius!
Hey Alex. I just wanted to pay you a compliment. Out of all the dating coaches you're the only one I've watched that actually puts everything in the description. I enjoy listening to you but I retain information by reading it far easier. I appreciate that you take the time to do that and even if no one else tells you that I'm sure I'm not alone. So thank you. :)
I’m doing all this completely naturally and whoa ....it’s working on the craziest levels. He’s pursuing me and taking control and chasing. And he’s sweet and respectful but at the same time...insanely hot and exactly what I’ve been missing out on. I’ve also been talking to a bunch of other guys on the side and guys can definitely sense this abundance mentality. Like I’ve been feeling like I have tons of options and everyone is replaceable... guys have been hitting me up like crazy. The minute I stopped wanting/needing a relationship things flowed so much! Thanks Alex 🖤 you’re videos are so spot on. Btw girls not all men are stupid. Some are... I have to admit that lol. Don’t hate all of them cause that doesn’t help you in attracting anyone at all. When you know what you want and know your value and worth- trust me the hottest guys ever will also feel the same way about you!
Ive been using your tactics, and my guy has finally told me he loves me..he told me first. He then went onto say he thinks we should stop seeing each other as hes falling for me, but then he still keeps on with his daily contact and good morning txts...Actions speak louder than words.
*While these tips can help foster a deeper connection, it's essential to remember that love is a complex and individual experience. It's about finding someone who appreciates and loves you for who you are, rather than trying to mold yourself into someone else's ideal. Use these tips as guidance, but always stay true to yourself and your values.*
Damn, does everything got to be a damn game? Are there any real people out there anymore just genuinely interested in one another that can be normal human beings and get along and develop a relationship the right way? I don't understand all this bullshit, I'm recently gone through a break up after 12 years and honestly, if I have to do all of this just to get his attention back and then make him fall back in love with me, I don't feel he's worth it if I got to do that. Love should flow naturally if someone don't love me or like me then it ain't meant to be. Wouldn't you say so?
Love should flow naturally? Life isn't so black and white and perfect and neither are people so no. It's a nice thought but no. I agree with you though he's not worth it.
you were in a relationship for 12 years and then broke up or you were in a relationship 12 years ago.... if 12 years relationship..how did you keep hi for so longg..? thats like a legacy!!
I’ve never asked him if he was in love with me . After a month , he told me he was in love with me :) not sure If love is possible that fast . But whatever the case, he said it first .
i'm currently 3 minutes in on ignoring his GM text and havent text him in over 36 hours..... lol. 1st time I unfriended him on fb and did not text.. 5 days later he finally text and inboxed me saying he cant believe that i unfriended him and that it was bothering him... i really enjoy him, but i am the one that is very expressive and i wear my feelings on my shoulders... i sense he feels the same way how i feel about him, but he isn't quick to say things... he thinks about it FOR A LONG TIME... wanting to make sure he is doing and saying the right thing... I mean he shows me, but I need to hear words and expression as well. Is that a bad thing
I just wonder why we like the people who aren't capable of loving us. But no matter how hard it is to make a man you like to fall for you, you should at least try to make him notice you. Approach him in a friendly manner, who knows, you will get along with each other.
I showed my other side alright. He said I scared him. I said, why, you are the one collecting guns, I just use my mouth? He got it. Men say they are afraid when women get angry but we need to tell them why we get angry and it has to do with their bad behaviors.
It's so fun listening to you Alex and listening to all of the ways you advise ladies to get "the man". But no matter what tactic is used, there HAS to be interest on his part in the first place or all of this is just one big huge waste of time.
wow okay im glad i listened to this. lots of advice out there is: ONLY be cool, laid back, never give a F., good mood, perfect princess, bla bla bla 🙄 im glad im showing glimpses of my shadow too-keepin it real!
Interesting video! I see where you're coming with this, quite intriguing to me. Sexual aura... it's like when you "Netflix and chill" and you're pretending to watch the movie but what's really on your mind is the part when the tv will be switched off and shit gets dooown with like fucking sexual music in the background and both half naked... great stuff... brilliant 👍🏽hahah
Alex, by doing the one video a day with notes, you have made yourself a little more organized, but you have taken away from the spontaneous part of yourself and freedom to just say whatever comes to you, that's the realness that I liked and admired about you and your coaching, but do whatever works best for you. Still, great content today.
Damn... Ur good... he confessed!!!!... He said he's in love with me... I didn't say "i love you" back cause i'm showing it with my actions not with my words, just following ur advices Father Alex 😄 but... He tried to make me say it and said he reciprocates the feeling... I said "you say it first then!! ", he said "me first? No, no, no...." 😄 Sooo now we assume we love each other but we shut the f**k up, we ain t saying it.... Where will this go? I m really in love with this guy so i don t wanna ruin everything... 😃 He still chasing, we still good, but he withdrawed emotionally a little after all this, maybe felt vulnerable...so... What next Father Alex?? P. S: You'r the best!!!
question:how can i show him my love when i am not sure that he wants me the same like i want him?in any more ways then being at home together ,make love .do i tell him this?or show in other ways?my experience is that i like to feel that we want the same.i hate to tell him all this things again and again .then it lose meaning for me.so how i can act to find out this.?
these are good tips because it's true and it's something that I'm actually walking through right now with this very exceptional man that I met a few months ago. So you telling our experiences right now
Laura Short just fall back. Focus on you, hanging out with family and friends. Find a new hobby, and don’t respond to his calls/texts so quick. Take three hours to respond.
You are not alone girl. I do exactly the same when i am around the guy i am very attracted to. It takes practice, train your brain muscle. Just noticed when you want to react fast, breath and control your emotions
What do we do when we are already in a love relationship. How do we keep them once they know they don't have to work hard to get us anymore? Do we have to continuously create fear and anxiety in them to make guys want us more. It would be exhausting I think to do this for so many years. What if he gets jealous to the point of thinking well I don't trust her so I might as well go cheat too.
This is me naturally... I like watching these videos to put things into perspective but I'm a cancer so I have the too strong too weak personality... sweet probably why I get bored with games quick
Very intuitive video, thank you Alex. However, I don't like the abrupt ending, as the questions you were answering from the comments were quite educative 😐
Has Alex done a video on how to tell a man no? I get two different stages, a stranger comes up to u strikes up a conversation then eventually asks the ? Do u have a man.... the best ans I have come up with is, 'thats end of discussion on this topic, would u like to talk about something else... I don't talk abt these things so I'm not inviting more discussion abt it.' then there is 2nd case, u go to a reoccurring salsa class or whatever & a dance partner tries to ask u out. well all I can come up with is 'hey, I see u as a friend / good acquaintance& I'm not looking for more in my life at this time.' that's the best I can come up with. In the 1st scenario it infuriates me when a stranger comes up to me, eventually asks the question, then asks More ?s about my answer, (like I have to dance around their persistence etc/ 'no, thank u' is Never enough, they always want to talk more about it).so I'm planning to be even more direct as stated
will this work when you want to get someone back? my middle school sweetheart and i started dating for a month and both of us were fresh out of long term relationships. his ex came back wanting to work things out. he went back, but felt uncertain about the decision because he developed feelings for me. I'm doing my own thing now, but i do miss him. lol....
Sacha Walton he wouldn't be a good candidate for a long term relationship because he'll always have his ex on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with you. So what you need to do is put him also on the back burner and find yourself a main man
My boyfriend of 2 years never mentioned marriage, so I brought it up and he said, "I don't ever want to get married again, but I love you, I just llike watching my T.V. shows and being alone as I am 76 y.o. now so why marry? I was deeply hurt. He is an alcoholic l year sober but now has started drinking again. I truly love this man. What should I do?
Treat him like a new pair of Jimmy Choo's. One day you love them, next day it doesn't suit your outfit. Next week you forget about them. Rotate them. Love them, yet Never outwear them or they'll hurt your 'sole 😌 Keep them on their toes. Be Unforgettable 👠
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This guy is turning me into a monster 😂
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I was dating a man for 3 months and then I told him “I’m scared af of commitment but you make me want to change my mind.” Now he’s my man and we been together for almost a year 😌
Damn let me use this on my man tonight lol
I will try this on my friends with benefits. I'll give a 1 month update.
@@PinkLaptop hey, any update ?
@@PinkLaptop any update?
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This video is excellent! It is very simple. Be sexy, reveal some human, vulnerable things about yourself by showing some weakness, validate him, show him how he makes you feel, pull away from him and remove that security for a while, go in with you life by joining a class or doing a hobby and giving him space. This will create love for you, if it’s going to happen, if not, it was never going to happen. It’s actually quite simple and genius!
Hey Alex. I just wanted to pay you a compliment. Out of all the dating coaches you're the only one I've watched that actually puts everything in the description. I enjoy listening to you but I retain information by reading it far easier. I appreciate that you take the time to do that and even if no one else tells you that I'm sure I'm not alone. So thank you. :)
Branndy Hontz i second this
He’s awesome ..just not easy to get ahold of him
💯💯!!
I’m doing all this completely naturally and whoa ....it’s working on the craziest levels. He’s pursuing me and taking control and chasing. And he’s sweet and respectful but at the same time...insanely hot and exactly what I’ve been missing out on.
I’ve also been talking to a bunch of other guys on the side and guys can definitely sense this abundance mentality. Like I’ve been feeling like I have tons of options and everyone is replaceable... guys have been hitting me up like crazy. The minute I stopped wanting/needing a relationship things flowed so much! Thanks Alex 🖤 you’re videos are so spot on.
Btw girls not all men are stupid. Some are... I have to admit that lol. Don’t hate all of them cause that doesn’t help you in attracting anyone at all. When you know what you want and know your value and worth- trust me the hottest guys ever will also feel the same way about you!
Ive been using your tactics, and my guy has finally told me he loves me..he told me first. He then went onto say he thinks we should stop seeing each other as hes falling for me, but then he still keeps on with his daily contact and good morning txts...Actions speak louder than words.
*While these tips can help foster a deeper connection, it's essential to remember that love is a complex and individual experience. It's about finding someone who appreciates and loves you for who you are, rather than trying to mold yourself into someone else's ideal. Use these tips as guidance, but always stay true to yourself and your values.*
"IF A PERSON DOESN'T LOVE YOU, THEY'RE NEVER GONNA LOVE YOU!" LUV YA ALEX YOU'RE AMAZING YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST! THANK YOU...♡♡♡
Damn, does everything got to be a damn game? Are there any real people out there anymore just genuinely interested in one another that can be normal human beings and get along and develop a relationship the right way? I don't understand all this bullshit, I'm recently gone through a break up after 12 years and honestly, if I have to do all of this just to get his attention back and then make him fall back in love with me, I don't feel he's worth it if I got to do that. Love should flow naturally if someone don't love me or like me then it ain't meant to be. Wouldn't you say so?
Carole Marie thats not how the human body works. its al a chemical reaction .
Love should flow naturally? Life isn't so black and white and perfect and neither are people so no. It's a nice thought but no. I agree with you though he's not worth it.
you were in a relationship for 12 years and then broke up or you were in a relationship 12 years ago.... if 12 years relationship..how did you keep hi for so longg..? thats like a legacy!!
@@Sydney432hz That is a long time by many people's standards suppose but Most everyone in my family have been married 12+ years
@carol. Yeah i feel you. Seems like excessive
IMO - for most women, falling in love is an emotional rollercoaster full gut-wrenching twists and turns
I’ve never asked him if he was in love with me . After a month , he told me he was in love with me :) not sure If love is possible that fast . But whatever the case, he said it first .
how 😭
i'm currently 3 minutes in on ignoring his GM text and havent text him in over 36 hours..... lol. 1st time I unfriended him on fb and did not text.. 5 days later he finally text and inboxed me saying he cant believe that i unfriended him and that it was bothering him... i really enjoy him, but i am the one that is very expressive and i wear my feelings on my shoulders... i sense he feels the same way how i feel about him, but he isn't quick to say things... he thinks about it FOR A LONG TIME... wanting to make sure he is doing and saying the right thing... I mean he shows me, but I need to hear words and expression as well. Is that a bad thing
I just wonder why we like the people who aren't capable of loving us. But no matter how hard it is to make a man you like to fall for you, you should at least try to make him notice you. Approach him in a friendly manner, who knows, you will get along with each other.
haha is that picture matthew, the other dating coach?!
I prefer Alex than Matthew.
Deffo they are both hot too which helps! Alex has some serious depth tho. gets right down to the core of things!
Yeah! Alex goes deeper in the mind of men!
Simone Randall I think Alex will interview Mathew.
Some one are waiting to hear nice words from you
I just cant get used to watching other channels, I like yours the most :)
I get it...just be yourself. I do this stuff naturally. I don't put on airs
I showed my other side alright. He said I scared him. I said, why, you are the one collecting guns, I just use my mouth? He got it. Men say they are afraid when women get angry but we need to tell them why we get angry and it has to do with their bad behaviors.
01:45 is where the video begins
You definitely outdid yourself on this video... One of your best.
It's so fun listening to you Alex and listening to all of the ways you advise ladies to get "the man". But no matter what tactic is used, there HAS to be interest on his part in the first place or all of this is just one big huge waste of time.
wow okay im glad i listened to this. lots of advice out there is: ONLY be cool, laid back, never give a F., good mood, perfect princess, bla bla bla 🙄 im glad im showing glimpses of my shadow too-keepin it real!
So far everything that you have said has worked!! I love listening to your infinite wisdom and knowledge about love and relationships!
Just don't do this if he is a narc. Then it will not be a reason to fall in love, but a way to control you.
I took 2 days to watch all your videos. You are by far my fav
That girl in the background walking up and down is so annoying. I would get a private booth without windows.
You are a realist. Of all the dating coaches, your advice works best.
what if its long distance?
malika hammond You can very easily apply these techniques if it’s long distance.
Interesting video! I see where you're coming with this, quite intriguing to me.
Sexual aura... it's like when you "Netflix and chill" and you're pretending to watch the movie but what's really on your mind is the part when the tv will be switched off and shit gets dooown with like fucking sexual music in the background and both half naked... great stuff... brilliant 👍🏽hahah
This is your most powerful most meaningful video, the sound of this video it is excellent, thank you.
Omg I actually did that!! I work with a gay man and told him i kinda like him and he shows interest😂
thank you for the notes! this video came at the perfect time.
what about when a guy doesn't show much emotions? how can you tell how he feels?
Having a hard time getting past the blue fuzzy looking ice cream cone 🤣
Alex, by doing the one video a day with notes, you have made yourself a little more organized, but you have taken away from the spontaneous part of yourself and freedom to just say whatever comes to you, that's the realness that I liked and admired about you and your coaching, but do whatever works best for you. Still, great content today.
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Love this technique! It's natural for me
Damn... Ur good... he confessed!!!!... He said he's in love with me... I didn't say "i love you" back cause i'm showing it with my actions not with my words, just following ur advices Father Alex 😄 but... He tried to make me say it and said he reciprocates the feeling... I said "you say it first then!! ", he said "me first? No, no, no...." 😄 Sooo now we assume we love each other but we shut the f**k up, we ain t saying it.... Where will this go? I m really in love with this guy so i don t wanna ruin everything... 😃 He still chasing, we still good, but he withdrawed emotionally a little after all this, maybe felt vulnerable...so... What next Father Alex??
P. S: You'r the best!!!
love Matthew's pic on the thumbnail!
haha i thought it'd be funny lol
question:how can i show him my love when i am not sure that he wants me the same like i want him?in any more ways then being at home together ,make love .do i tell him this?or show in other ways?my experience is that i like to feel that we want the same.i hate to tell him all this things again and again .then it lose meaning for me.so how i can act to find out this.?
If you're still not sure that means there is no trust in your relationship unfortunately and he is taking you for granted!
i miss your hair
I love how you break it down
I feel like I have been Mathew fished
He is better
I think I started Falling inlove with you dear.. You always make sense
these are good tips because it's true and it's something that I'm actually walking through right now with this very exceptional man that I met a few months ago. So you telling our experiences right now
That last jealousy question was the missing jewel!!! Thank you friend on the glass
I think my problem is is that I show too much about how I FEEL. How can I calm down?
Laura Short just fall back. Focus on you, hanging out with family and friends. Find a new hobby, and don’t respond to his calls/texts so quick. Take three hours to respond.
You are not alone girl. I do exactly the same when i am around the guy i am very attracted to. It takes practice, train your brain muscle. Just noticed when you want to react fast, breath and control your emotions
I promise their ain't a formula to a man's heart. But there is to a woman's one
One of ur best videos 👌 VERY well put together... Very articulate... Very structured
The poor girl who ALMOST got her questions answered 😵💔
Good one Alex now this one is definitely a good one. Ladies take note
Why is Matthew Hussey in the Thumbnail ahahahahahaa
i will finish the video before talking to him again. aha!
What do we do when we are already in a love relationship. How do we keep them once they know they don't have to work hard to get us anymore? Do we have to continuously create fear and anxiety in them to make guys want us more. It would be exhausting I think to do this for so many years. What if he gets jealous to the point of thinking well I don't trust her so I might as well go cheat too.
+Tulip watch the newest vid
See, this is where I feel Alex looked his best...
How are you such a genius!! God Bless your heart
This video is still GOLD
Alex could we have a part 2 on this please loved this and someone rudely interrupted lol
Did anyone else think he was holding a puppy at first? 🤣
This was a great video! Glad I found it! Apparently I need to catch up some more.
6:27 i hide everything! it's such a struggle....
I’m to selfish to chase a man
You are amazing, very passionate and expressive in the exposition
True! This gaves me the best Results, in the past. The best Video 👌🏼 because I think authencity always wins.
Pity you hardly read comments...really great vid Alex👍
Hey,
What if he leaves you and then use the child as an excuse to visit and smiles and then goes cold. Respond.
Iesha Green lol
This is me naturally... I like watching these videos to put things into perspective but I'm a cancer so I have the too strong too weak personality... sweet probably why I get bored with games quick
This is the most powerful video you have
you are amazing. wish i had found you sooner! keep it up
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Who dis? 😂😂 Love you!! Totally applying your advice and got 2 dates this week.
Very intuitive video, thank you Alex. However, I don't like the abrupt ending, as the questions you were answering from the comments were quite educative 😐
I like this baby boy look 👀 lol
Using Matthew to get people to click lol......
Has Alex done a video on how to tell a man no? I get two different stages, a stranger comes up to u strikes up a conversation then eventually asks the ? Do u have a man.... the best ans I have come up with is, 'thats end of discussion on this topic, would u like to talk about something else... I don't talk abt these things so I'm not inviting more discussion abt it.' then there is 2nd case, u go to a reoccurring salsa class or whatever & a dance partner tries to ask u out. well all I can come up with is 'hey, I see u as a friend / good acquaintance& I'm not looking for more in my life at this time.' that's the best I can come up with. In the 1st scenario it infuriates me when a stranger comes up to me, eventually asks the question, then asks More ?s about my answer, (like I have to dance around their persistence etc/ 'no, thank u' is Never enough, they always want to talk more about it).so I'm planning to be even more direct as stated
Love your videos they always make me feel better
How do you not have more views
Gladyou have refreshed your self. Alex...!! Your voice also sounds stronger........ For real. Pam
i would have avoided a crazy suck the life out of you relationship a few years ago
This advice will keep you single forever.
Nobody has times for childish ass games anymore.
Just be open and real Fuck everything else
I really enjoyed this video 😁
is it a good i idea to fall in love with a younger guy?
katty sultan when you find out let me know... Wait..too late I've already fallen. 😢
Why not? What age are you and him?
@@mist__4974 I am 23, he is 21
@@mist__4974 help me
Baby Sloth that’s totally ok!! Hope you went for it!!
Alex! Omg-if a person can’t hear you, they can’t!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Men who chose not to hear you toxic. Never chose them, protect yourself from these ego-whores.
LOL at the girl behind you with her cell phone
Love the flower mic 💮🎤
sweden love you!
Great video :)
You are really good...great approaches.
this was very good. thank you!
Can you tell me what a good boyfriend should do in a relationship ?
will this work when you want to get someone back? my middle school sweetheart and i started dating for a month and both of us were fresh out of long term relationships. his ex came back wanting to work things out. he went back, but felt uncertain about the decision because he developed feelings for me. I'm doing my own thing now, but i do miss him. lol....
Sacha Walton he wouldn't be a good candidate for a long term relationship because he'll always have his ex on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with you. So what you need to do is put him also on the back burner and find yourself a main man
Cool Chicka thank you
Damn this is so good. I used to do the distancing him part would drive him nuts
My boyfriend of 2 years never mentioned marriage, so I brought it up and he said, "I don't ever want to get married again, but I love you, I just llike watching my T.V. shows and being alone as I am 76 y.o. now so why marry? I was deeply hurt. He is an alcoholic l year sober but now has started drinking again. I truly love this man. What should I do?
Love yourself....invest in someone...who will love you back...and invest in you...don't buy tickets for this roller coaster ride...get off!
I'm getting a lot out of this.
your twists are dangerous hehe
Is it possible to build a healthy relationship being 100% free of games??
Can you make a video on this, please ! ! !
krysty kava yea I had that. 100% trust= 100% no games
i hope this will work in a long distance situation
YOU ARE SO CUTE FOR ME😍.. KEEP UP YOUR GOOD WORK👍🏻.. hope you will get more viewers that can help you also somehow.. ❤️GOD BLESS❤️.. subscribed
It's all about power
You’re the beeeest 👏🏼
love your videos
What if you are not on social media? What tactic can you use regarding that.....
YOUR AMAZING
The grapefruit technique? Oh god lord!