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Ladieeezzzz NEVER look good for a man- Look good for YOURSELVES. Wear matching lingerie, shower in the more expensive gel, use body cream, perfume yourselves, Do the sport... watch your nutrition- Men may come and go- but you are here to stay!!! ❤❤❤
That's the best advice ever! We women should treat ourselves as the queens we truly are. All this please the man talk seems just exhausting. I put myself on pedestal, rather then the men, meanwhile they do nothing to be honest. They don't go expensive hair dresser, they don't buy the sexy stuff, make up etc. None of that.
I have an AMAZING MAN! He always tells me how beautiful I look. Even first thing in the morning with no makeup. He notices everything I do for him. Even a new lip gloss! I have never been one to wear dresses but I wore one a few weeks ago and my man really loved it! I have worn them a few more times since and he can’t keep his eyes off of me. ❤ I bought a cute sundress for an out of town trip and I can’t wait to wear it for him! I’m 54 and he is 48. My body isn’t what it used to be but he seems to be obsessed with me so I love putting in a little effort to see his reaction. 🥰
Praise be to God- I’m truly happy for you. I did everything in the video and I was ignored and disregarded for a decade. I kept trying and held onto sweetness but now that I found out that my husband and father of child has been cheating for nearly the entire duration of- I only know sadness. Everything was taken from me in the blink of an eye. He tries to get me back now but I mostly look forward to the next life to come. I tried everything in this life and I have been nothing but lied to and treated like I’m nothing. I will do my best here for the sale of my child and the many nieces and nephews who I care for, I hope to impart on them wisdom but I have very little left to offer anymore given my new state of mind. Truth is better than perpetual confusion anyway so I guess there’s that.
I like to make an effort in looking good and dressing up not just for a man but for myself. Self-care is very important whether you are in a relationship or not.
I had an abusive awful ex. Now blessed with a masculine wonderful man. He is so happy that I appreciate all of his efforts. I never forget to tell him thank you with a smile. 😊❤ dont complain about petty things, it really could be worse. He does love to see me dolled up and its a joy to do it with him.
I was widowed 3 years ago.. I was only 61.. didn’t realize that I got lazy and walked around in sweats and tee shirts.. wasn’t happy carrying a few extra pounds.. I started to eat healthy, exercise and completely change my wardrobe. I did it for me! And of course, a man will appreciate that you look put together. I now only use sweats and tees to work in the yard.. I “get dressed” everyday.. nice jeans with a belt and a nice top..it’s not difficult.. and I like to feel put together.. sloppy should not be the norm..
My Father told me that 40 yrs ago! Guy I met called me & I wasn't home, Dad told me this guy called for you? I asked did you ask for his number? Dad says no. If he's interested he'll call back. We had phone books then but Dad said men like to be the chasers, don't call him so I didn't. He called again, same thing. 3rd time I was home. Moral of the story don't make yourself so available.
Iv been with my man for 8 months now and the relationship is getting stronger by the day we chemistry we have trust we have friendship, both divorced and in our 50’s we now know what we want, we are open with each other and smile everyday, I am seen now on all levels which is amazing and beautiful ❤
I asked a guy if He liked my outfit , no comment ! Yet others have complimented when I wear this outfit. I’ll never be with a man again who can’t give compliments
All about looks. I do a lot to make myself look and feel good while my husband NEVER dresses up, NEVER puts effort into himself, and NEVER acknowledges how I look. Literally this is so misogynistic and ridiculous.
I always dress up and wear dresses since 17. I have my own signature scent. I always make sure my nails look great before walking out of the house. Hair is done even going to the grocery store. Hygienic and look neat is important to me. Basically, what they call is "high maintenance woman" but I maintain by myself. It doesn't cost much because I don't use salons, pretty much diy. My husband loved my styles when I met him. He appreciated it and always complimented. Then, after we got married, he wanted me to downgrade my styles. I told him perhaps he should marry someone who is opposite from me to match his styles, and I should find a "similar me" so nobody can suffer with new changes. After that, he never complains again, and I notice he has upgraded his clothes and more fresh haircuts often. 😅
WRONG!! The MOST important person to do ANYTHING positive for is YOURSELF!!!! "When you look good, you feel good". Bonus if he notices, but do it for YOU ladies. This brainwashing crap is bogus. If your man notices your messy bun and sweats and can't stop and ask "WHAT IS WRONG? ARE YOU OK? WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP?" he is NOT worth it!! We have to step in AND create the space for HIM to step UP?? such crap. Take the initiative on your own, boyo. We ARE NOT YOUR MOTHERS!!!! We are not here to vacuum in pearls. What a load of crap
love the honesty in this!! i notice on first dates, even when i make minimal effort (jeans) but wear cute heels they always notice and comment. same w my nails when they're painted.
My god so much stuff we women should do to keep a man interested! Seems like a full time job on top of the job we should work also to pay the 50/50. Seems way more easier stay single, get yourself a cat or dog that will love you and enjoy investing in yourself and go out there and have fun with friends. 😂
50/50 isn't biblical. A masculine man won't go there. Both men and women should just prioritize the Lord first and foremost. God first and He will help us navigate life.
Women are not supposed to pay half of the bills. The man pays 100%. The woman’s money is hers for playing and saving and spending on the man for suits and cologne, nice trips for his birthday and holidays. Do not marry a man who wants you to pay half. He will not value you. A man values what he must work for! That being said, don’t have sex with a man you are not married to. Make him earn it. This is your BODY for God’s sake. The temple of the Holy Spirit.
@@danilaroche1156 That's wishful thinking, in today's time. Even men that go to church each Sunday can be liars and cheaters. Maybe even more so as they hide under the god-fearing facade. I can show you a whole village where I live, where people go to church and pray and still do the worst possible things!
I appreciate your honesty and accept your advice. It’s very unfortunate though that all but one thing was about how women look. Ladies- don’t judge yourself on how men feel about you. Your other abilities and heart are more important than your looks.
Except that women are failing badly in the looks department. Even if you are average looking you can raise it to another level of beauty by dressing nicely and wearing a smile and getting our hair cut....stop the stupid pony tails.they are for horses. (Men too- how silly looking)
Wear feminine outfits, look good, create space for men to step up, inspire him to be best version of himself, support his mission and dreams in life, women bring beauty to men's life (ex. Home decor, energy,beauty in space around you), wear sexy lingerie
Why give instructions at all? Just do whatever you do with joy. Others may not enjoy "your" routine and habits. It's all good, just deal with yourself and allow others to be authentic. Life is short. 😊
You are my favorite. Its like you can read my mind lately!! I appreciate you speaking to the experiences I am having and helping me to get my needs met in a feminine way - and also explaining men!! Holy moly it makes it so much less stressful to understand about men in these ways . i am going through this right now with the clothing piece. thank you so very much.
Why do women have to put in so much effort, just to get minimal effort from the man. Can't men do better on their own, without us helping them so much?
No! They can’t. We all have opportunities to grow, but it comes down to free will, that is a choice. If women are also choosing mediocrity over excellence, guess what mate most men will choose…Personal growth and development is the hardest thing for a human being to commit to…
When she asks "How was your day? " " Are you okay ?" You ladies have no idea how good it feels when you ask that . Plus it provides the doorway to forming a bond and developing trust between the 2 of us .
1.wear cute feminine clothes 2.Look good,impress(not only the beginning of relationship) 3.create space to men to step up 4.Inspire him to believe in him 5.support to his dreams 6.Bring beutify to his life 7.Wear sexy lingerie 8.embrace your sexuality
8 Magnetic Habits 1. Wear cute feminine outfits 2. Look good 3. Create the space for him to stand up: to be useful, to be your hero 4. Inspire him to be the best version of himself: believe in him 5. Support his mission and dreams in life 6. Bring beautify to his life: living space, your beauty in the physical, in your energy 7. Wear sexy lingerie 8. Being sexually open and expressive
My boyfriend made it a point saying that he likes seeing me dressed up, I told him to give me a reason other than getting dolled up just to walk around the house. Lol If they want us to look good, well… take us out, give us a reason. They have to create the opportunity for us to want to get dolled up and feel good. Cause and effect, gentlemen.
4 out of the 8 things listed have to do with looks. What should one do when the other partner doesn't like what he sees? I could get dressed up, make up, hair...all of it, but he doesn't give me a second glance. After so many times of the same reaction, i gave up.
Point 3 is great...Give Space to step up ..but they take too long to transform. Too much time and life passes on. It's a pain..and there are those who are lazy and don't want to put in the work
They actually are! My guy always wears tshirts or polo shirts. We recently had to dress up for a party and he wore a button up shirt. I told him how great he looked and he wanted to go shopping for more shirts. I even went and bought him one on my own and he loved that I did. He wore it for me right away. 😊
My husband loved to have me come downstairs in my suit, hair, and makeup before leaving for the train to go to the office. He’d have me do a turn and tell me how cute I looked. Every day. I was in my late fifties, he in his late seventies. Thirty years went by quickly. He passed just six weeks ago.
So far I've been doing pretty good I have watched your videos for a while and I do the things that you talk about😊 at least I'm on the right track👍 thank you!
Great video . Yes I was doing most of this stuff from your list . But problem was I was with partner with dismissive Avoidant attachment style for far to long he really didn't care about beauty , my outfit, especially lingerie 😆 me make home beautiful as woman as artist or when I appreciated him he moved his arms said yea ok not big deal . We berly had sex as avoidants are intimacy avoiding and Im very sexual I had to suppress my sexuality because I was with wrong partner . I never was more lonely in my life . However meayby with different partner in future preferably with secure attachment style as myself all this advice on list are absolutely fantastic. Thank for sharing. 🙏
Sexologist hmm didn’t know there was such a thing . I had a wonderful lover , We had strong chemistry . Unfortunately He didn’t want more . I’d love to have Him back but this time with the respect I deserve …..
I always wear cute dresses and heels also looking good when I go out with him. I have been with him romantically for 3 months and known him as a friend for 10 years - he met me in those outfits and loved them that’s why he started talking to me. For 3 months he only told me I look beautiful last week. Once. Funny how things change once sex comes into to.
Where do your teachings/precepts originate? I see several TH-cam channels talking about masculine and feminine energy. But what seminal books or writings are the foundations for these talking points?
I love this! But what about when you feel like your sexy self is the biggest part of the relationship? My current partner is great about bringing out my sexuality so much that I worry that is all he sees in me. He does seem to appreciate other aspects, but the sexual part is big! While I am ok with this to a point, I want to know that he feels more for me than sexuality.
If you are doing things other than “Netflix and chill” or in the bedroom, then there is more than sex. Are you going outside of the house and doing things together? If so, then he actually enjoys your company. If it’s mostly in the house or bedroom, then it’s purely sexual.
There are many other ways to look sexy without having to "fake" yourself from top to bottom... Be yourself in ways that are comfortable for yourself. Some men look for natural and authentic others for fake and unnatural
No, actually it is not. This is a natural thing, we are drawn to beauty, because beauty was always a sign for health. Even animals prefer beautiful partners, because beautiful partners stand for good genes. Don`t be sad about biology. ;-)
I’ve been married for 7 years, and we dated for 2 years. He is a workaholic so I don’t see him much but we talk on the phone several times a day and randomly I pop up at his work to see him. He is absolutely adorable and I love him so much! It’s funny that I do some of these things just naturally. Thank you for the tips. I’m always happy to help him feel comfortable and appreciated.
If you have been with a man for a while, especially if you a bit older, is he really interested in whether you have sex with him or wear sexy underwear? It seems like if you did that he'd just not notice or not care wouldn't he? It would take him about 5 seconds to turn on the TV or Internet and find someone younger and better looking to look at 😕
Look people I know we get mad like damn women have to do so much for a man. But no !! Do these for yourself and not just so happens that men like it. For example my father always had good hygiene and wore the best stylish outfits and cologne. He always looked awesome and so did my mother. They are well presentable beautiful people who do these to feel good and just so happens they appreciate it in each other. I’d find it gross if my partner was not well dressed or didn’t shower
Love and listen first. A third party is best to teach someone to drive, agreed? Go to therapy together first about sensitive issues. Reality check: making demands and giving orders to your partner "for your benefit only" is selfish manipulation. Natural compassion and love energy is enough, and discussing desires together in the right, safe forum/place is good. But telling anyone else what to wear and how to look good is a huge negative. For example, how would you feel if anyone demanded that you spike your long hair short, lose the beard and replace the skinny collared shirt once in a while? Yikes! Simply encourage one another to feel their best and healthy self. Lingerie? How about naked, and a spontaneous gift of a new dishwasher or washing machine or a longed for puppy, along with a nice dinner, concluded with a trip/phone session in therapy together and also separately soon thereafter? You are an experienced therapist ... one size does not fit all. Perhaps a more subtle and gentle encouragement for others to try therapy (for a more tailored experience) is a good start. Then, your specific suggestions make much more sense as potential options to try out or not.
It should be illegal to have your gorgeous eyes 😻... Beautiful eyes, that's the first thing I find attractive about a person. And you have the whole package😮. Yes, I know you're married.
But if they don’t notice it, then why put all of that energy into dressing up in lingerie, a cute outfit, hairstyle etc…? Sure, if I feel like it, I’ll do it for myself. Honestly, it can be defeating if the man doesn’t notice. Having to actually prompt him to get a compliment just doesn’t have the same impact.
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I thought exactly the same! That’s pathetic! Such a sexiest video and men should do exactly the same is not only us! It’s both ways
Ladieeezzzz NEVER look good for a man- Look good for YOURSELVES. Wear matching lingerie, shower in the more expensive gel, use body cream, perfume yourselves, Do the sport... watch your nutrition- Men may come and go- but you are here to stay!!! ❤❤❤
That's the best advice ever! We women should treat ourselves as the queens we truly are. All this please the man talk seems just exhausting. I put myself on pedestal, rather then the men, meanwhile they do nothing to be honest. They don't go expensive hair dresser, they don't buy the sexy stuff, make up etc. None of that.
Amen!!
Amen 🙏 ❤exactly 100%!
@@bluecolour-wt6gxstay alone
Life is short.
I have an AMAZING MAN! He always tells me how beautiful I look. Even first thing in the morning with no makeup. He notices everything I do for him. Even a new lip gloss! I have never been one to wear dresses but I wore one a few weeks ago and my man really loved it! I have worn them a few more times since and he can’t keep his eyes off of me. ❤ I bought a cute sundress for an out of town trip and I can’t wait to wear it for him! I’m 54 and he is 48. My body isn’t what it used to be but he seems to be obsessed with me so I love putting in a little effort to see his reaction. 🥰
Wow...i like your story😃it compare's with my story❤
That’s beautiful!! Thank you for sharing!! 😀❤️❤️❤️
That’s so sweet ❤
I love this! There is hope for me yet
Praise be to God- I’m truly happy for you. I did everything in the video and I was ignored and disregarded for a decade. I kept trying and held onto sweetness but now that I found out that my husband and father of child has been cheating for nearly the entire duration of- I only know sadness. Everything was taken from me in the blink of an eye. He tries to get me back now but I mostly look forward to the next life to come. I tried everything in this life and I have been nothing but lied to and treated like I’m nothing. I will do my best here for the sale of my child and the many nieces and nephews who I care for, I hope to impart on them wisdom but I have very little left to offer anymore given my new state of mind. Truth is better than perpetual confusion anyway so I guess there’s that.
I like to make an effort in looking good and dressing up not just for a man but for myself.
Self-care is very important whether you are in a relationship or not.
i love looking nice for myself 😊 it makes me feel more confident.
It begins with yourself..for sure. XO
I had an abusive awful ex. Now blessed with a masculine wonderful man. He is so happy that I appreciate all of his efforts. I never forget to tell him thank you with a smile. 😊❤ dont complain about petty things, it really could be worse. He does love to see me dolled up and its a joy to do it with him.
These are great pointers however if you do this for your man and it’s not reciprocated we feel short changed and eventually resentful. Happens alot
I was widowed 3 years ago.. I was only 61.. didn’t realize that I got lazy and walked around in sweats and tee shirts.. wasn’t happy carrying a few extra pounds.. I started to eat healthy, exercise and completely change my wardrobe. I did it for me! And of course, a man will appreciate that you look put together. I now only use sweats and tees to work in the yard.. I “get dressed” everyday.. nice jeans with a belt and a nice top..it’s not difficult.. and I like to feel put together.. sloppy should not be the norm..
So, look good for a guy who doesn't notice I'm looking good and support him in his dreams of watching TH-cam videos endlessly. Got it.
sounds like you married/partnered with a dud guy. you chose him.
He's not the same guy I married 15 years ago.He has changed, and so have I.
😂😂eewww😂😂😂😂
@@changingwoman1494 yet you're still with him and bitching about it here. victim compex.
Leave them wanting more by not being to available! Seriously, it works for me. Live a full life! He'll want to join in the fun.
But that will backfire during the courtship stage ....
My Father told me that 40 yrs ago! Guy I met called me & I wasn't home, Dad told me this guy called for you? I asked did you ask for his number? Dad says no. If he's interested he'll call back. We had phone books then but Dad said men like to be the chasers, don't call him so I didn't. He called again, same thing. 3rd time I was home. Moral of the story don't make yourself so available.
Iv been with my man for 8 months now and the relationship is getting stronger by the day we chemistry we have trust we have friendship, both divorced and in our 50’s we now know what we want, we are open with each other and smile everyday, I am seen now on all levels which is amazing and beautiful ❤
I asked a guy if He liked my outfit , no comment ! Yet others have complimented when I wear this outfit. I’ll never be with a man again who can’t give compliments
Why are you fishing for compliments instead of allowing him to compliment you
Love yourself first, compliments yourself first! ❤️❤️Look beautiful for yourself first! ❤
I love to dress up not just for my man for myself too👌👍💃🏻🥂
All about looks. I do a lot to make myself look and feel good while my husband NEVER dresses up, NEVER puts effort into himself, and NEVER acknowledges how I look. Literally this is so misogynistic and ridiculous.
Emphasis on the never 😢
Maybe you should find someone who deserte your efforts
I always dress up and wear dresses since 17. I have my own signature scent. I always make sure my nails look great before walking out of the house. Hair is done even going to the grocery store. Hygienic and look neat is important to me. Basically, what they call is "high maintenance woman" but I maintain by myself. It doesn't cost much because I don't use salons, pretty much diy.
My husband loved my styles when I met him. He appreciated it and always complimented. Then, after we got married, he wanted me to downgrade my styles. I told him perhaps he should marry someone who is opposite from me to match his styles, and I should find a "similar me" so nobody can suffer with new changes. After that, he never complains again, and I notice he has upgraded his clothes and more fresh haircuts often. 😅
Never mind Malia, YOU look great and you know it!
The rest of the world does too.
A lot of men are like that even if their woman dress up etc
WRONG!! The MOST important person to do ANYTHING positive for is YOURSELF!!!! "When you look good, you feel good". Bonus if he notices, but do it for YOU ladies. This brainwashing crap is bogus. If your man notices your messy bun and sweats and can't stop and ask "WHAT IS WRONG? ARE YOU OK? WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP?" he is NOT worth it!! We have to step in AND create the space for HIM to step UP?? such crap. Take the initiative on your own, boyo. We ARE NOT YOUR MOTHERS!!!! We are not here to vacuum in pearls. What a load of crap
love the honesty in this!! i notice on first dates, even when i make minimal effort (jeans) but wear cute heels they always notice and comment. same w my nails when they're painted.
The way this therapist talks is so soothing.
My god so much stuff we women should do to keep a man interested! Seems like a full time job on top of the job we should work also to pay the 50/50.
Seems way more easier stay single, get yourself a cat or dog that will love you and enjoy investing in yourself and go out there and have fun with friends. 😂
50/50 isn't biblical. A masculine man won't go there. Both men and women should just prioritize the Lord first and foremost. God first and He will help us navigate life.
Women are not supposed to pay half of the bills. The man pays 100%. The woman’s money is hers for playing and saving and spending on the man for suits and cologne, nice trips for his birthday and holidays. Do not marry a man who wants you to pay half. He will not value you. A man values what he must work for! That being said, don’t have sex with a man you are not married to. Make him earn it. This is your BODY for God’s sake. The temple of the Holy Spirit.
Agreed 100 💯 unless the guy has shitloads of money and a good personality, do not bother 😂
@@danilaroche1156 That's wishful thinking, in today's time. Even men that go to church each Sunday can be liars and cheaters. Maybe even more so as they hide under the god-fearing facade.
I can show you a whole village where I live, where people go to church and pray and still do the worst possible things!
I appreciate your honesty and accept your advice. It’s very unfortunate though that all but one thing was about how women look. Ladies- don’t judge yourself on how men feel about you. Your other abilities and heart are more important than your looks.
Except that women are failing badly in the looks department. Even if you are average looking you can raise it to another level of beauty by dressing nicely and wearing a smile and getting our hair cut....stop the stupid pony tails.they are for horses. (Men too- how silly looking)
Thank you! I always make sure I look good for my man. I love being in my sexy feminine.❤
I love how you teach us slow and composed with every word
Wear feminine outfits, look good, create space for men to step up, inspire him to be best version of himself, support his mission and dreams in life, women bring beauty to men's life (ex. Home decor, energy,beauty in space around you), wear sexy lingerie
Be sexually open and expressed
Why give instructions at all? Just do whatever you do with joy. Others may not enjoy "your" routine and habits. It's all good, just deal with yourself and allow others to be authentic. Life is short. 😊
You are my favorite. Its like you can read my mind lately!! I appreciate you speaking to the experiences I am having and helping me to get my needs met in a feminine way - and also explaining men!! Holy moly it makes it so much less stressful to understand about men in these ways . i am going through this right now with the clothing piece. thank you so very much.
Why is everything about how a woman should be with a man? Don’t you ever have anything that helps a man understand a woman?
Exactly. He needs to show up for us in order for us to show up for him.
EXACTLY!!!
He is speaking from a man's perspective. There are plenty of others that speak to men on how to show up for women.
Did u read his channel Name
Seriously!!
Men can always step up but I don't think I've ever met a man that wasn't an apathetic, abusive, deceptive infant.
Why do women have to put in so much effort, just to get minimal effort from the man. Can't men do better on their own, without us helping them so much?
No! They can’t. We all have opportunities to grow, but it comes down to free will, that is a choice. If women are also choosing mediocrity over excellence, guess what mate most men will choose…Personal growth and development is the hardest thing for a human being to commit to…
When she asks "How was your day? " " Are you okay ?"
You ladies have no idea how good it feels when you ask that . Plus it provides the doorway to forming a bond and developing trust between the 2 of us .
1.wear cute feminine clothes
2.Look good,impress(not only the beginning of relationship)
3.create space to men to step up
4.Inspire him to believe in him
5.support to his dreams
6.Bring beutify to his life
7.Wear sexy lingerie
8.embrace your sexuality
Great advice, thank you ❤
Glad it was helpful!
8 Magnetic Habits
1. Wear cute feminine outfits
2. Look good
3. Create the space for him to stand up: to be useful, to be your hero
4. Inspire him to be the best version of himself: believe in him
5. Support his mission and dreams in life
6. Bring beautify to his life: living space, your beauty in the physical, in your energy
7. Wear sexy lingerie
8. Being sexually open and expressive
Thank you so much for this! I love his advice but don't like how it takes so long for him to get to the point. I really really appreciate it.
@@laurastein18amen 💯
Thank you 😊
I appreciate people who save us time like this! Thanks!
It almost all about sex and looks. Men are one dimensional.
Assuming the husband or man is always impeccable too right?!!!
If you want a sharp dressed man, don't settle for sloppy. That simple. ❤ A man who wants a beautiful woman will not settle for sloppy.
Dr. Love!!! Where have u been my whole life.
Your voice is penetrative in itself.
My boyfriend made it a point saying that he likes seeing me dressed up, I told him to give me a reason other than getting dolled up just to walk around the house. Lol
If they want us to look good, well… take us out, give us a reason. They have to create the opportunity for us to want to get dolled up and feel good. Cause and effect, gentlemen.
I really love your shirt and you give great advice😊
Is this from the past century?
Never look for validation on your appearance from men.
4 out of the 8 things listed have to do with looks. What should one do when the other partner doesn't like what he sees? I could get dressed up, make up, hair...all of it, but he doesn't give me a second glance. After so many times of the same reaction, i gave up.
Thank you so much this is so helpful and answers a lot of my questions and confirms my thoughts too 😊
You're so welcome!
I dress up nice and cute regardless if he notices or not! I am dressing up for me… if he noticed it.. then that’s a bonus! 😉
Point 3 is great...Give Space to step up ..but they take too long to transform. Too much time and life passes on.
It's a pain..and there are those who are lazy and don't want to put in the work
I'm happy to do that I feel it's important...but are they prepared to do the same ???
They actually are! My guy always wears tshirts or polo shirts. We recently had to dress up for a party and he wore a button up shirt. I told him how great he looked and he wanted to go shopping for more shirts. I even went and bought him one on my own and he loved that I did. He wore it for me right away. 😊
My husband loved to have me come downstairs in my suit, hair, and makeup before leaving for the train to go to the office. He’d have me do a turn and tell me how cute I looked. Every day. I was in my late fifties, he in his late seventies. Thirty years went by quickly. He passed just six weeks ago.
So far I've been doing pretty good I have watched your videos for a while and I do the things that you talk about😊 at least I'm on the right track👍 thank you!
That's great!
Self love❤❤❤
Wow, so much work to get a man. What should they do???? Lol
Great video . Yes I was doing most of this stuff from your list . But problem was I was with partner with dismissive Avoidant attachment style for far to long he really didn't care about beauty , my outfit, especially lingerie 😆 me make home beautiful as woman as artist or when I appreciated him he moved his arms said yea ok not big deal . We berly had sex as avoidants are intimacy avoiding and Im very sexual I had to suppress my sexuality because I was with wrong partner . I never was more lonely in my life . However meayby with different partner in future preferably with secure attachment style as myself all this advice on list are absolutely fantastic. Thank for sharing. 🙏
Great advice ❤ I love dressing up. I'm extra if I'm not looking homeless 😂 I always look good for myself 😍🥰
Sexologist hmm didn’t know there was such a thing . I had a wonderful lover , We had strong chemistry . Unfortunately He didn’t want more . I’d love to have Him back but this time with the respect I deserve …..
I always wear cute dresses and heels also looking good when I go out with him. I have been with him romantically for 3 months and known him as a friend for 10 years - he met me in those outfits and loved them that’s why he started talking to me. For 3 months he only told me I look beautiful last week. Once. Funny how things change once sex comes into to.
Speaking of beauty in the home, this background is distracting.
I do this because this is who I am.. and ladies… men would do anything for me! I am never in need! My friends don’t get it! I don’t even date!
How can we inspire our man to be the best version of himself? (without being irritating...)
It cracks me up that you just point out "the obvious" 🤙😉
Where do your teachings/precepts originate? I see several TH-cam channels talking about masculine and feminine energy. But what seminal books or writings are the foundations for these talking points?
The books of David Deida are a good source but there are many originating even back to the Bible
@@MagnetizeYourMan thank you 😊
Love those blue eyes, lol
Single here.. I just came across to your channel 😅 great video thanks!❤️btw you have beautiful eyes!!😍
please use a white board or visuals of some kind. I found #4, but none before. Thanks.
Sounds like guys need to date guys to me
They do! Haha and even that doesn't work because they don't like to see themselves in their partner.
This guy is so hippy chill I feel like I need to smoke a joint while watching.
I love this! But what about when you feel like your sexy self is the biggest part of the relationship?
My current partner is great about bringing out my sexuality so much that I worry that is all he sees in me. He does seem to appreciate other aspects, but the sexual part is big! While I am ok with this to a point, I want to know that he feels more for me than sexuality.
Asking questions in a casual, non-pointed way might help
If you are doing things other than “Netflix and chill” or in the bedroom, then there is more than sex. Are you going outside of the house and doing things together? If so, then he actually enjoys your company. If it’s mostly in the house or bedroom, then it’s purely sexual.
Look good drees good for your self lady's
Rubbish I put more effort into my appearance than most Women , I always try to look my best when with my guy
Yet it wasn’t enough
It's not enough. Men love a pretty lady but there has to be more substance. Are you picking right kind of men also? I wish you the best.
There are many other ways to look sexy without having to "fake" yourself from top to bottom... Be yourself in ways that are comfortable for yourself. Some men look for natural and authentic others for fake and unnatural
The only one i please is ...myself😂❤
better men
I get frustrated when I look great, and the man wears sweatpants, or sloppy jeans and t shirt. Let him show some respect for the lady!
Honestly? The top 2 things are about appearance?? That makes me so sad. It's just so cliche, and so shallow.
Appearance and sex. Shocker.
No, actually it is not. This is a natural thing, we are drawn to beauty, because beauty was always a sign for health.
Even animals prefer beautiful partners, because beautiful partners stand for good genes.
Don`t be sad about biology. ;-)
Its not shallow, and Im a woman
It can be hot though, level up some with makeup, hair, workouts, classes, TH-cam.
Men are visual. Get used to it.
Who’s the dude dancing in the suit?
You jaz classics opra or sway
Women should have a mission too - it's not fair to think it is only for men.
I’ve been married for 7 years, and we dated for 2 years. He is a workaholic so I don’t see him much but we talk on the phone several times a day and randomly I pop up at his work to see him. He is absolutely adorable and I love him so much! It’s funny that I do some of these things just naturally. Thank you for the tips. I’m always happy to help him feel comfortable and appreciated.
You skipped #6
If the guy is deeply in love with another and absolutly absorb by hair😢
My partner is happy with me but I am losing interested in him 😟.
Leave him. If you keep being with the wrong man, you send the message to the right men to stay away from you.
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
I dont like the comment that we would do it for him. Like i do it for me and i love uf he likes it but regardless i do it for me.
This is in reference to no. 1
When are you marrying?
Yeah become one of the stepford wives , !!!
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Number 7 is my favourite. Sexy lingerie lol
If you have been with a man for a while, especially if you a bit older, is he really interested in whether you have sex with him or wear sexy underwear? It seems like if you did that he'd just not notice or not care wouldn't he? It would take him about 5 seconds to turn on the TV or Internet and find someone younger and better looking to look at 😕
Why are you even with this man who seems to have no interests or attractions toward you? Ditch him.
You want me to look goo all the time then Pay for it l! ❤❤❤
Look people I know we get mad like damn women have to do so much for a man. But no !! Do these for yourself and not just so happens that men like it.
For example my father always had good hygiene and wore the best stylish outfits and cologne. He always looked awesome and so did my mother. They are well presentable beautiful people who do these to feel good and just so happens they appreciate it in each other.
I’d find it gross if my partner was not well dressed or didn’t shower
Wow. Just wowwww. Half baby - half caveman.
Love and listen first. A third party is best to teach someone to drive, agreed? Go to therapy together first about sensitive issues. Reality check: making demands and giving orders to your partner "for your benefit only" is selfish manipulation. Natural compassion and love energy is enough, and discussing desires together in the right, safe forum/place is good. But telling anyone else what to wear and how to look good is a huge negative. For example, how would you feel if anyone demanded that you spike your long hair short, lose the beard and replace the skinny collared shirt once in a while? Yikes! Simply encourage one another to feel their best and healthy self. Lingerie? How about naked, and a spontaneous gift of a new dishwasher or washing machine or a longed for puppy, along with a nice dinner, concluded with a trip/phone session in therapy together and also separately soon thereafter? You are an experienced therapist ... one size does not fit all. Perhaps a more subtle and gentle encouragement for others to try therapy (for a more tailored experience) is a good start. Then, your specific suggestions make much more sense as potential options to try out or not.
Omg, just get a mom! We don't live to please you.
It should be illegal to have your gorgeous eyes 😻... Beautiful eyes, that's the first thing I find attractive about a person. And you have the whole package😮. Yes, I know you're married.
I wont give him that satisfaction cause he is a liar when he finish with one woman he goes to another
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What a BS video
These habits are for both men and women
So sexist.
I love looking nice not for a man but it boots my confidence and self esteem. Who doesn’t like looking good? 🫠
Super interesting heared from a man .Thanks 👍🏻 thanks
You seem like a very sweet guy. And your eyes are gorgeous-- but maybe rethink the ponytail--and the shirt.
To be honest I love to look good for myself, not for anyone
But if they don’t notice it, then why put all of that energy into dressing up in lingerie, a cute outfit, hairstyle etc…? Sure, if I feel like it, I’ll do it for myself. Honestly, it can be defeating if the man doesn’t notice. Having to actually prompt him to get a compliment just doesn’t have the same impact.
Thank you for your advice 💗
You are so welcome!