Men love a woman with duality. They love an independent woman. A woman who know's what she wants, and a woman who isn't scared to walk away. Thanks Alex. You rock my world x
Accidentally pushed send I discovered I wasn't all that ugly like my husband said I was. But I am discovering is that looks can mean nothing without a personality and understanding how the opposite sex thinks. I myself did not have a clue. But your videos have allowed me to have more suitors than I I know what to do with. By the way my husband back me back. On his knees crying. Said the woman had no substance. Even as cruel as he was to me, I did tell him no thank you sweetly. And then I divorced him. Thank you, you little darling!
You are so adorable! I always know that you can learn something from the youth! I am 55. A good-looking woman for my age I think. My husband told me that I was too old for him and he wanted someone younger. Much younger. I was totally devastated! I was married 35 years. All I have known is to be a wife and mother and now grandmother. Thrown into the world of dating men my age. Of course. They are really all the same but a little different.
Deanna Daisy most men don't leave a woman because she looks old, typically its because she acts old. No person wants to be reminded that their days are numbered and many ppl forget those qualities that once made life fun. I bet your husband was really telling you he wanted you to be more youthful, but you focused more on the physical traits that you can't reverse. Men are not as physical as most women think. Physical traits get a man, but they will never keep a man.
Deanna Daisy after 22 years mine left. The advice from this cutie is enlightening and fun. I’m 54... and guys far younger are interested. It’s a great feeling for sure and comforts my hurt. I’m not dating yet...
The problem is, how do we stop sending mixed signals?😭 Over the years I’ve figured out that I have a love-avoidance attachment style. I end up pulling people in, and then when I have them, I suddenly want nothing to do with them. I like to think that I’m a good person, but I know that’s not how a good person behaves. I don’t know how to stop. Anyone have recommendations for a therapy work-book or something? Because my reactions are usually completely unfair to the guy in question, and I worry that a few of them might have been kinda traumatized by it. 😕
Blue Cat try to have clear criteria prior attracting a certain person. In that way, if he is good enough for you, you will value him more and you'll find out if he is actually a keeper!
I'm sitting here doing school work and listening to your videos. LOL. You provide so much more insight on things, and very accurate examples. I love your channel.
I feel like your facade is one of a cute, compassionate, spontaneous, charismatic, curious, searching, passionate, playful, laid back and knowlegeable guy who loves women and gets a kick from their attention to him . A lot of great qualities !
Okay so this much thought is not needed when both individuals are truly interested in each other. These mind tricks are only needed when one person is feeling the other a whole lot more. If manipulation is needed to attain the person you're interested in your wasting your time. Time is money so drop him/her.
Danielle Thompson Maybe you have a good point. These mixed signals is for men who have a hard time liking the girl that likes them. Will they still feel the same after the mixed signals stop? How come when high school teenagers fall in love and chat on the phone and text everyday and no one is giving mixed signals. They are just happy to be with each other. I've seen this happen with my 15 year old son. Mixed signals always made me hate the guy later because I started to think he didn't like me at all or dating others or cheating and made me feel insecure.
Tulip exactly! When you're a teenager the young woman and man are typically more genuine on how they feel especially if they are each other's first real relationship. They've not been hurt so no games about how they feel about the other are played. I find this attitude of being genuine about your intent the best way to find out if the guy is wanting to waste your time. Time is money so again if the dude is giving noticeable signs that he's not interested call him on it. If he continues drop him. You're too important to waste time on someone who may not like you enough. There is someone who would appreciate you the same as you do them so don't settle for someone who probably won't appreciate you once the newness of the relationship wears off.
Erm... You all do realise that teenagers have higher hormones and don't actually realise how relationships work long term, right? *shrugs* The thing with most of this is it needs to become more unconscious than anything else. And a lot of people who are successful do it without thinking.
i'm a nice girl with an angelic look. i can be nice and sensitive and sweet to friends, but not to love, because i don't trust guys, also i look at love in the logical side, so there was a guy liked me and i saw he was moving too fast, wanting to kiss me and have sex, i cut off with him . when he apologized i told him i hope he would change into a better person but if he likes me leave me alone, i want a nice person. this made him liked me more and he said i'm different bla bla. so i think just be whoever you are, i'm still awkward with other people, but do the right thing be tough in the right way. now i still avoid him, he still likes me and he's doing what i wanted, keep a more distance but still try to tell me he likes me. but i dont believe he would change
You state in this video not to let the guy get to know too much of who you are too fast and I agree. I'm losing men left and right because they claim I'm guarded and won't give enough after only a week or two. How the heck do I beat that?! lol
😭 not me being a cancer sun with a Virgo moon and Gemini and Aries placements 😈 I’m already like this 😭 then I was a tomboy in hs then got more feminine as I got older so I look pretty feminine and sweet buuuut then they get to know me and I’m still sweet but come off intellectual and adventurous...I get it now
Im like that since i do high impact dance cardio and knowing my high standards wat i want when i love looking innocent its so powerful and when i dance i turn into someone different
I love love love watching and listening to you. You make total sense to me and I totally understand what you are saying. You are very mesmerizing and leave me want more of you insight. #AMAZING😊
Your façade could be your childhood. You hinted at having a bad childhood and family situation in another video. It was really surprising to me based on how warm you are in your videos
I think one person might have had a 'thing' for me for some time due to the fact that I was a Dominatrix yet very nice at the same time. Think this has happened to a few guys...
why is it some of your vids dont have close captioned? I wanted to check out the book you mentioned, love listenining to you, your energy, is bubbly, hehehe keep it up !
Ah getting it though girls have be careful because some guys get pissed lol. By the way, like when you dress like that with the dreads and goatee totally suits you 😘
like me I'm attending class martial arts and my master(shifu)who is young and handsome admired me bcoz of how strong and flexible my body is.He also flirt with me sometimes.He finds me very mysterious cause I'm not like other girls doing flirting and having selfie with him except me.I'm keeping it distant for many reasons
So we actually are a good girl in real life you want us to put the facade of being a little bit bad ass / wreck less? But then the part that confuses me is when you say to suppress our real self? So do I pretend not to be innocent but I actually am ? Or do I just be innocent ( true self) then pretend to be a little dark?
you pretend to be a little bit of whatever you naturally ARENT. so if you're naturally a good girl, act a little bad once in a while or a have a dirty mind. thats me...im generally a good girl but i have a dirty mind so it confuses the hell out of guys hehe....
So I met a guy who appeared to be nice but suddenly he is more interested in texting vs talking on the phone. Is that weird or is it bcc guys prefer a greater audience committing to the phone he is exclusive buy by texting he is available to more of us or other chicks as well.
Gonna be honest most people ESPECIALLY men hate texting even more so when it's meaningless and lengthy. If he's always reaching out to you first in any form of contact that's usually a good sign, not what medium it's done through.
Men love a woman with duality. They love an independent woman. A woman who know's what she wants, and a woman who isn't scared to walk away. Thanks Alex. You rock my world x
FACTS
you need an agent..your videos are more entertaining than movies
muir woods ion even watch movies I just watch him these quarantine days hahaha
I was thinking same thing,he needs to be an actor,he’s natural lol
Who loves it when he busts out with the female voice..😂🤣😵😱
sounds like elmo.... 😆
lolololol
Guilty ☝🏾😂🤣
Omg me too....my favorite thing about his videos
😭😭🤣🤣
seduction ...pick the right victim....those are wise words for real
true. I attracted my latest boyfriend by dressing super feminine on one day and rocking fitted hats and boy clothes the next - always mixing it up.
mhmmm very very good move
+M.A. 2.0 this really works. He's been glued to my side ever since.
Who thinks he banged the “Ji-Jitsu girl” his “friend” 🙋♀️
Accidentally pushed send I discovered I wasn't all that ugly like my husband said I was. But I am discovering is that looks can mean nothing without a personality and understanding how the opposite sex thinks.
I myself did not have a clue. But your videos have allowed me to have more suitors than I I know what to do with.
By the way my husband back me back. On his knees crying. Said the woman had no substance. Even as cruel as he was to me, I did tell him no thank you sweetly.
And then I divorced him.
Thank you, you little darling!
Deanna Daisy c
Deanna Daisy you go girl!!
After watching some of your videos today, I realized that both me and my boyfriend are trying to “ manipulate” each other 😂💀
😂😂😂
You healed me smart as hell work ing 🎉
You are so adorable! I always know that you can learn something from the youth! I am 55. A good-looking woman for my age I think. My husband told me that I was too old for him and he wanted someone younger. Much younger. I was totally devastated! I was married 35 years.
All I have known is to be a wife and mother and now grandmother. Thrown into the world of dating men my age. Of course. They are really all the same but a little different.
Deanna Daisy
most men don't leave a woman because she looks old, typically its because she acts old. No person wants to be reminded that their days are numbered and many ppl forget those qualities that once made life fun. I bet your husband was really telling you he wanted you to be more youthful, but you focused more on the physical traits that you can't reverse. Men are not as physical as most women think. Physical traits get a man, but they will never keep a man.
Deanna Daisy after 22 years mine left. The advice from this cutie is enlightening and fun. I’m 54... and guys far younger are interested. It’s a great feeling for sure and comforts my hurt. I’m not dating yet...
@@TheJaiNetwork😂 bfrr
-I literally naturally send all these mixed signals. That's why he's confessed many times he's in love with me lol
Same. He has confessed two times now.
lol me too😂
Same here but everyday I think of blocking him cause he in another state and he in college with no job no money no place.
The problem is, how do we stop sending mixed signals?😭
Over the years I’ve figured out that I have a love-avoidance attachment style. I end up pulling people in, and then when I have them, I suddenly want nothing to do with them. I like to think that I’m a good person, but I know that’s not how a good person behaves. I don’t know how to stop. Anyone have recommendations for a therapy work-book or something? Because my reactions are usually completely unfair to the guy in question, and I worry that a few of them might have been kinda traumatized by it. 😕
Blue Cat try to have clear criteria prior attracting a certain person. In that way, if he is good enough for you, you will value him more and you'll find out if he is actually a keeper!
I'm sitting here doing school work and listening to your videos. LOL. You provide so much more insight on things, and very accurate examples. I love your channel.
I feel like your facade is one of a cute, compassionate, spontaneous, charismatic, curious, searching, passionate, playful, laid back and knowlegeable guy who loves women and gets a kick from their attention to him . A lot of great qualities !
Everything that comes out of his mouth is like pure genius!
I think it's sweet that you actually reply to comments ..
Never underestimate imagination!!! I am the imagination master!!! No one changes their hats enough... Change them often!
Say it again Jasmine
if he's playing the same game..how do I win?
if he's playing the game, it means he likes you... just take a step back to call his bluff. Watch the video on how to be unreactive...
M.A. 2.0 thanks!
Okay so this much thought is not needed when both individuals are truly interested in each other. These mind tricks are only needed when one person is feeling the other a whole lot more. If manipulation is needed to attain the person you're interested in your wasting your time. Time is money so drop him/her.
Danielle Thompson Maybe you have a good point. These mixed signals is for men who have a hard time liking the girl that likes them. Will they still feel the same after the mixed signals stop? How come when high school teenagers fall in love and chat on the phone and text everyday and no one is giving mixed signals. They are just happy to be with each other. I've seen this happen with my 15 year old son. Mixed signals always made me hate the guy later because I started to think he didn't like me at all or dating others or cheating and made me feel insecure.
Tulip exactly! When you're a teenager the young woman and man are typically more genuine on how they feel especially if they are each other's first real relationship. They've not been hurt so no games about how they feel about the other are played. I find this attitude of being genuine about your intent the best way to find out if the guy is wanting to waste your time. Time is money so again if the dude is giving noticeable signs that he's not interested call him on it. If he continues drop him. You're too important to waste time on someone who may not like you enough. There is someone who would appreciate you the same as you do them so don't settle for someone who probably won't appreciate you once the newness of the relationship wears off.
Erm... You all do realise that teenagers have higher hormones and don't actually realise how relationships work long term, right? *shrugs* The thing with most of this is it needs to become more unconscious than anything else. And a lot of people who are successful do it without thinking.
Danielle Thompson one person always likes more than the other.
No, this is always needed in every relationship to make it work long term otherwise he WILL lose interest
i'm a nice girl with an angelic look. i can be nice and sensitive and sweet to friends, but not to love, because i don't trust guys, also i look at love in the logical side, so there was a guy liked me and i saw he was moving too fast, wanting to kiss me and have sex, i cut off with him
. when he apologized i told him i hope he would change into a better person but if he likes me leave me alone, i want a nice person. this made him liked me more and he said i'm different bla bla. so i think just be whoever you are, i'm still awkward with other people, but do the right thing be tough in the right way. now i still avoid him, he still likes me and he's doing what i wanted, keep a more distance but still try to tell me he likes me. but i dont believe he would change
You state in this video not to let the guy get to know too much of who you are too fast and I agree. I'm losing men left and right because they claim I'm guarded and won't give enough after only a week or two. How the heck do I beat that?! lol
Exactly what’s happening to me 😩😩😩
You breathe life into these beautiful words
I RECOMMENDED YOU TO ALLL OF MY FFIRNDS!!!!
who else has a lo-fi crush on this dude? just me? ok
I just can't help it but everytime he smiles I also smile 😊😀
STOP stirring!!! Stop stirring!!! 😂
OH MY GOD 😭😂😂😂
you are so cute ! you should be an actor you remind me of Lorenz Tate
i do improv comedy from time to time. so one day, who knows
yesss, thats it I knew he reminded me of someone!
i really like the way that u think
youre a comfortable person.
good, that's what i want u to think >:)
someone was studying the Art of Seduction... :)
oh yeah. am eating that shit up. All of robert greene's book
13:30 im ratchet but im a classical violinist and have a degree in biology... people be caught off guard
stirring your drink was the only flaw in this video
This helps me be a narcissist
This is Virgo energy.
find out what you really are..And Suppress It..you are very charming..
You have a new friend😂😍 MAN YOU GOOD☝
When he said shit got real I chuckled ngl😂
Your a triple threat! Great looking and easy going but deep dark and intellectual..
i'm learning a lot from you. you shouldn't be called dalexis. it should be daseducer😂
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I love how you were like I don’t have that side then sips tea haha so funny!
😭 not me being a cancer sun with a Virgo moon and Gemini and Aries placements 😈 I’m already like this 😭 then I was a tomboy in hs then got more feminine as I got older so I look pretty feminine and sweet buuuut then they get to know me and I’m still sweet but come off intellectual and adventurous...I get it now
Alex the Hustler of love 🎼
Guys love that I play Mortal Kombat and that I'm good at it. Like really good. They get impressed.
Nice video ! I love when you out of a sudden interact with objects in you 'scenario'.
The equivalent to this is a woman being attracted to a male ballet dancer
Im like that since i do high impact dance cardio and knowing my high standards wat i want when i love looking innocent its so powerful and when i dance i turn into someone different
21:55 in.. couldn't stop laughing! You're funny Alex!
You kind of. Described a Libra woman lol 😂
💯💯 true
Libra gang
Thank you for what you do Alex. ⭐️
Pretty sure this will make a guy think you're crazy lol
trust me, you don't need this for men to think women are crazy
Yes, so why do shit like this to make them think that we are crazy even more? We aren't crazy at all.
hahaha true!
Every guy who ever loved me , also thought that I am crazy. They love it. So, don't worry about it, Mini
MAR CAFE samee lol .
My names faliushaaa lmfao 🤣🤣🤣
haha...why can't I call you felicia... lmao
Everyone has both masculine and feminine traits in them
I really enjoy listening to you, and I'm in love with the way you talk. I've learned so much from you..
Facade: You love attention! But everyone loves love, you found your niche!
i just had honey coffee too whilst watching this. lol
whn my husband doesnt make sense...I dnt want him...dnt like him...dont want nothing for it
So be mysterious
I agree w what your saying..but it seems like so much WORK
damn he will think I'm crazy -_-
+Maheen Butt u mean 'know'
Yeah just the way you know itt 🙈
One of my favorite advice ; subtle but effective My ex is CRAWLING 💞XO
Alex is funny af 🤣🤣🤣 love this channel!
u are intelligent, funny , and somebody brother gives advice.
I love love love watching and listening to you. You make total sense to me and I totally understand what you are saying. You are very mesmerizing and leave me want more of you insight. #AMAZING😊
Hi , I am Albana from Kosova, I listen some of your video ... You are amazing boy ! Congrulatinos !
this time I GET the story of J.Jitsu GIRL more precisely. It is all about the polarity and what our brain do between it .....yaameen?....
Looking cute and feminine... But driving a forklift at work and shooting guns 😉
The spoon noise is annoying, it distracts me..
Parts without the noise are interesting.
My fascade is quiet yet passonate, firey yet aloof. People find me hard to read.
crazy yet crazy lol
M.A. 2.0 exactly!! I am the opposite of what people think I am 😂😂
April B. Ahammer д
Who wants to walk around looking mean for no reason.
Your façade could be your childhood. You hinted at having a bad childhood and family situation in another video. It was really surprising to me based on how warm you are in your videos
Uzdrawiasz moją duszę
👍 honey in coffee is GOOD
Great video Alex
You very much so strike me as either a Scorpio Sun or Scorpio Rising
Monique did you find out ?
he's virgo. Idk what the rising is tho.
awesome video ..by the way what is your name or how do you want to be called ?
Dalexis, but call me alex
Everything you say is so true!
I think one person might have had a 'thing' for me for some time due to the fact that I was a Dominatrix yet very nice at the same time. Think this has happened to a few guys...
Why do you consider yourself a dominatrix
Why do you consider yourself a dominatrix
I'm a female and I'm guilty of doing some of this t-shirt he be talking bout
why is it some of your vids dont have close captioned? I wanted to check out the book you mentioned, love listenining to you, your energy, is bubbly, hehehe keep it up !
Stirring the coffee, super distracting
Damm lightbulb
Ah getting it though girls have be careful because some guys get pissed lol. By the way, like when you dress like that with the dreads and goatee totally suits you 😘
Awesome info 💋
like me I'm attending class martial arts and my master(shifu)who is young and handsome admired me bcoz of how strong and flexible my body is.He also flirt with me sometimes.He finds me very mysterious cause I'm not like other girls doing flirting and having selfie with him except me.I'm keeping it distant for many reasons
Not everyone has those desires ..
You're the best
Damn... Your good. Shiiit. 👌 Harmonious depiction...with outstanding "continuity". ;)
Alex your shirt looks fine girls love wrinkly shirts
Marilyn Harper haha haha. That’s a good one!
Hi Im from Philippines, I like your videos!😅
your coffee is getting cold smh
armani code he probably likes ice coffee lol
Dalexis.you we're looking for how you speak..you were thinking about " conviction"
Enjoy your videos, pretty dope!
Damn this was good.
So we actually are a good girl in real life you want us to put the facade of being a little bit bad ass / wreck less? But then the part that confuses me is when you say to suppress our real self? So do I pretend not to be innocent but I actually am ? Or do I just be innocent ( true self) then pretend to be a little dark?
you pretend to be a little bit of whatever you naturally ARENT. so if you're naturally a good girl, act a little bad once in a while or a have a dirty mind. thats me...im generally a good girl but i have a dirty mind so it confuses the hell out of guys hehe....
Hey how can I talk to you one on one? I would really like your opinion on a situation. Please let me know and thank you for all your insight
Your are really good!
Text this to your guy "There will come a time that you will never forget me"
So I met a guy who appeared to be nice but suddenly he is more interested in texting vs talking on the phone. Is that weird or is it bcc guys prefer a greater audience committing to the phone he is exclusive buy by texting he is available to more of us or other chicks as well.
Gonna be honest most people ESPECIALLY men hate texting even more so when it's meaningless and lengthy. If he's always reaching out to you first in any form of contact that's usually a good sign, not what medium it's done through.
Girl dead that , no way !
I jus to know how to send mix signals to make him chase through Facebook messenger
You are the best man 👍