13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You
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In today’s new video, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward.
I really wanted to make this video because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.
And in addition to being practical, this video breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.
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Fact is: Either he loves and wants you, or he doesn't. There is NOTHING you have to do to "make him love you" or "make him want you". What you CAN do is focussing on your love for yourself and your life. But don't think you can ever "make someone love you". Love is a gift and nothing you have to achieve
Yes. I believe the same. But what i think that doing all of this does is actually weeding the people who are not interested. And you also get to know the person for what they are, not what you want them to be, or what you project them to be
Well said ..he either loves you or does not love you ,and will show his true colors in the end..
@@swtmerc exactly
Well said!
@@s.p.baughman7885 I just see those tips as a way to see those colors "faster"
I did all of these things and am currently being ghosted 😂
Someone either loves you or they don’t.
Don’t waste your time on people who can’t see what a gem you are.
Be a high value individual and love yourself.
I totally get you! That just happen to me last week 😞. That sucks
The ghosting and mind games are pathetic 😑🙄. You would think as we get older that the childish behaviour would stop 🤦♀️.
Nope I can say as a man it’s happened at least 5 times to me in the last few years. It’s annoying that we hide behind screens and can’t tell people the truth.
At least you know you did "the right thing" And can get a quicker view that your energy seems to be wasted on that person. Important knowledge, no?
Did that too, in the talk stage, been sweet, supportive, kind, playfully assumptive but being ghosted now 😪😪.
ladies, gents, always forever, remember this:
if you treat someone as if they're a star,
they'll treat you as if you're a fan...
#13
A man gave me so many flowers in the 1st two weeks of our relationship that my looked like a forest. Then he wanted me to go away with him for the weekend. I told him thank you but it was too soon for me & I needed us to learn more about each other.
He became extremely angry and said, "But I bought you flowers!" I replied (very nicely), "i'm sorry, I loved the flowers but thought they were a gift, not a payment.
Neededless to say, we did not continue dating.
That was a kind of abuser I think. They are often do things just to buy someone's good attitude and then to get their "cashback". Thats ugly ( Hope you'll meet another guy who will do good things just for you, not for his ego.
Classic. Beware of people's behaviour when you tell them "no".
Good for you!!
Always gave boundaries
1:09 1) Be more than a last-minute plan
1:46 2) Don't just go with their flow
2:45 3) Suggest a date plan
3:36 4) Send a post date text
5:15 5) Show genuine appreciation for something they did
6:04 6) Have them come to your part of town
8:09 7) Pay for something
8:50 8) Send them a picture from a different part of your life
9:54 9) Send them an 'I was listening' text
10:46 10) Save them a cookie
11:33 11) Be playfully assumptive
12:21 12) Avoid agreeing with them all the time
14:19 13) Beware the weekend away
Thank you so much, Wensu. 👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you ☺
Thank you
We need more heros like you in the comments
Thank you so much for taking the time to create the time lapse.🙂
When you realized you have done all these things, in a non cringe way, and folks still ran or left me on read… sometimes it’s just the pool you are in and not you…luckily I won’t have to change much about who I am and I can just chill till someone who actually wants a relationship with me, comes along. Till then, enjoying life.
You sound smart by heart. Enjoy! I hope you find love.
Love how instead of being bitter about it, you chose to be more positive in this situation
@@akanksha9958 for sure. Being bitter isn’t gonna solve anything and from what I am hearing it wasn’t me sooo lol. I’m good
Im in the situation of doing the things, but when a person doesnt want to commit for whatver reason then there is nothing you can do, we need to focus on other things in our lives and not put everything into it - then if it doesnt work out we will have enough in our lives
we are on the same page
As a woman who only yesterday admitted to my boyfriend (who's loved me for the longest time now) I love him - I did all of this without actually seeing this video when I met my guy except 13 and know that this IS IT. My beau and I easily took each other seriously because I've always had a natural standard I expect from someone I'd be long-term with and he, with so much grace, is perfect at upholding those standards. He asked if I'd like to meet in my city (he lived on the other side of the country), he asked to meet again and I offered to come near to his side next, I brought him something as a gesture on our trip away, and the rest is history. Today we live together in a home we created together and share a beautiful life. For many years I was the girl who would cry looking up at the skies, wondering where the one is, and he is everything and more than I could ask for. Please know to wait for the right person, they'll make employing all of this so easy and actively want to be in your life. I guess I'm only writing this to give hope and to take my love up because he's perhaps the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Thank you 🙏🏼🥰
Now that I read this, I’m so glad I broke up with the narcissist I was with. He was only keeping me from finding someone who would actually love me the way I deserve.
@@jscorpio1987 I'm glad you did! It's also important to be kind to yourself when you leave a relationship like that. Today, this man brings me flowers weekly, massages my back when I'm stressed, and made me a little art studio to pursue my passion. It's possible, and it's out there. It needs patience. And until then one needs good humor and faith to walk away when one doesn't see that love or respect in another person.
Thank you soo much for sharing this. It definitely gives me hope. I've found myself crying lately because I've begun loosing faith it will ever happend for. E. But this video and this comment means the world to me. Thank you. ❤️ And God bless
This is Lovely Thankyou for the reminder true love is worth the patience 💕
I was single for years. I went through a desperate phase early on where I had recently had my heart broken and it made me feel so empty because I didn’t have a foundation of core self esteem. I think a large part of the shift was just getting older, but it was also me letting go of my strong need to be validated by others. Pursuing goals, traveling, being nice to myself in a multifaceted way seriously changed the game. I met a guy last fall and I went in completely unattached to the outcome, just being myself, which meant I was warm and happy to be there but I wasn’t worried about what he’d think of me. It took me awhile to want to date this man because I didn’t want to rush anything, but he was into me from the start. We’re now together and he’s wonderful!
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My Mother told me that you can tell if a man likes you cause he gives you little gifts. Not expensive gifts, but little things that he thinks would please you. Even something like a donut from the corner coffee shop. When I was married the only gift my husband ever gave me that he picked out himself was a bag of green apples! He was at work in the country and saw an apple tree in the ditch. He knew that I loved green apples, so he picked me some. I was truly thrilled and he was beaming with pride!!
I did all of these things, and he still told me he didn’t want to commit to anyone. Four weeks later, he has a girlfriend (he didn’t tell me until I came over to his house).
Atleast I know I’m on the right path for the RIGHT guy, after watching this! One day someone will appreciate and love me but until then I’m gonna appreciate and love myself more. 🥰
Thank you for your videos
You did ALL these things...but what did HE do?? Make sure you getting what your giving!
we are on the same page
He was just not meant for you, you’ll have BETTER 😊
No man with self-respect wants an obese woman. That's the kind of brutal honesty that Matthew Hussey will never tell you.
Hi ❤❤❤❤😍
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Maya Angelou
This is incredibly accurate. I will try to remember this more often
You just need to be yourself, have integrity, honesty, healthy boundaries and make the effort to meet someone at least in the middle. The right person will fall in love with you and commit to you.
As a man, can confirm this is killer advice. As long as there is some attraction, doing these things will put you ahead of the pack. Showing interest is hot
I showed him interest, he showed me interest, we were friends for about a year before interest started. Confirmed the interest, we slept together twice, he acted all lovey dovey in person, so I asked him out, we went on a date and then he ended it afterwards. Said we could still be friends but he didn’t have romantic feelings. I don’t know what went wrong!
@@katej23 i don't really understand that either. Maybe he was not that attracted in the first place but got horny...idk sounds fuckin weird. Dick move on his part, I'm really sorry that happened to you
😂😂😂
@@katej23 bruhh🥺
@@katej23 Nothing went wrong, seems like he just wanted to sleep with you which is really shitty considering he was your friend first. You deserve better!
i like how Matthew's content can apply to both men and women, even 17 year old boys like me can draw nuggets of knowledge and gems from this smooth operator
Yes it does. Knowledge is power
@@Coolgirl-yasmin indeed, we can find great knowledge and things of value from all sources bro!
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I found that really interesting and true as well, since most of these dating/relationship advice channels tend to focus only on one gender and how to have success with the other gender. While this channel has solid universal advice that can be applied in a general sense and situation then by applying your own masculine energy or for the ladies, their feminine energy with the advice in the videos.
@@trueasianmensch You have it spot on here, beautiful take
I honestly think men need these tips way more than women..
My husband then boyfriend we're dating at the time. His friends got him sloppy drunk. They left him in his puke. I got to his room and saw the state he was in. I went back to my apartment and got clean sheets and blankets. I cleaned him up, changed his sheets, and put him back to bed. We have been together for 28 years now. ^-^ I do whatever I can to make him happy. It's the little things that matter.
I do the majority of these by default and still zero commitment, everyone wants the 'boyfriend girlfriend' experience but as soon as exclusivity is mentioned all I get is a major freak out 🤷♀️
If you find this stuff difficult to remember or follow, one day you forget to do these things and act out as the original you... So just be you and be single. Don't pretend to be nice or someone else to get a relationship.😘 being single is sad but being divorced is the worst
I dated a breadcrumbr, and I did all but #13 (overnight never came up) It became exhausting to do more in that relationship. So I moved on and am working through getting over it. I'm sure he's not crying over me.
A bee is attracted to a flower for the pollen and nectar but the vibrant colors of the flowers also help with the attraction … all he’s saying is don’t be a gray flower 🤷🏾♀️. Great video Matt 😊
This was wonderful! I was dating a man and he expected me to fully integrate into his life without coming into mine. When I finally asked for something he said we needed to slow down. We stopped. He didn't have the capacity to give back and that just isn't an aspect of a healthy relationship. I was happy that he showed this part of himself early in the relationship and that it ended quickly. I'm now dating a gentleman that I have done almost all of these with and it is only bringing us closer. It is easy to be together, we have fun yet can have very deep and serious discussions.
Congratulations Matthew on your engagement, so happy for you both!
Your advice on letting the guy see who you are in different settings, in a family context, work, personal interests, circle of friends, etc, and also to invite him into your life, house, family, etc (as it is timely appropriate) is key!!!
That has been my mistake is the past. Even in a very long term relationship, I was always adapting to their life. And our relationship didn't survive and ended in a way that made me feel he just got rid of me the same way a person can get rid of a picture and toss it in the garbage and hang a new picture on the wall. It's like I was two dimensional for him; mostly a receptacle of all his projections. I know, it's sad. But I've learned a lot about my mistake.
Omg this is me - damn. I’m always uprooted and just exist. Such crap. 3 Dimensional 🥰
Same, I was just this pretty emotional trash can and sexual punching bag that wasn't allowed to have an opinion. It is much better now that I am dating someone who had to fulfill the many things that Matthew mentions.
@@auroreaurore5556good for you! 👏
Additionally: don't stop doing these things. Keep these pieces of advice relevant throughout your relationship.
#13 was really important. Not just about the weekend away, but about being upfront that certain actions/behaviours have meaning to you. I have been out of the dating game for 3 years now and part of that was because I consistently found that things I thought would be generally meaningful to people, actually weren't. And especially for men, they can do a lot of things that don't have any meaning.
If they love you, you can do no wrong. If they don’t, it’s hard to do any right.
Congratulations on your engagement Matthew! You've been a tough love stranger friend from afar giving me the best advice for so many years. And this is a great video, thank you. 😊
It took me such a long time to understand that guys also need to feel excitement and validation from us, the validation we like them, whether it’s in compliments or marking their positive traits, showing affection and seem excited to see them,
Just like we care that about they care too, this is excatly the pre frame and after frame text to show it had a meaning to you
I got out of an 8 1/2 very toxic relationship with a narcissist a year and a half ago. I am only now finally finding myself attracted to a guy enough to date. I have been working in myself and healing. Thank you for your videos, I believe this one will be very helpful for me when he hopefully asks me out!! Wish me luck!😀
Me too! Healing has been hard but very much possible. It won’t happen over night. You will be sad at times and will need to let go of hurt to be able to let love in. That is hard to do and you may find entions flowing out of your spirit that you didn’t think you had. Also, you will see that your normal was not normal. You will need to relearn what is good and normal. Finding a good friend or someone with good intentions for you will help. Don’t rush the process. Only narcissist will rush love with you. The good ones will be different than you think. It will be worth it.
Thank you, Matthew! You have no idea how much of a positive impact you are having on my dating life. As a single mom, it can be challenging to navigate and assess relationships. However, every time I watch your videos, it serves as a reminder that as women, we should embrace our power and not just constantly give without receiving in return.
We are 2 more single moms here (me and my friend) navigating the dating apps world 😄 setting our own rules for ourselves and learning along the process. Matthew is our master! Hahah good luck darling the great love will come our way the right way and time. Matthew we love you! ❤
#13 - your last point really hit hard for me cause I made that exact mistake. I spent a lot of money to take a trip to go see a guy in his province and expected it to go somewhere from there. I had high hopes it turning into something meaningful or that maybe he would move to my home city. But I don’t think he will and I haven’t heard anything from him in 2 weeks now. I feel so stupid and I regret flying to see him and putting my heart on the line like that :(
Don't be too hard on yourself, we all make mistakes. I myself I'm guilty for getting way too excited when I first meet a guy lol, but I'm working on it. I wish you the best.
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Outstanding tips imo! I think I finally did most of them before watching but it is huge validation that hear that these are the things that may have set things on a great path so far. At the same time, I am not sure this man is emotionally available or otherwise, in any case, but it is totally reassuring to hear a man's point of view articulated clearly linking action to meaning interpreted. I did buy the popcorn, share my roots, plan a date, challenge, etc. etc. etc. Still may be hopeless, but I have thoroughly enjoyed myself in the process so all good. Thank you for this awesome video!! Best I have seen!!
Gr8 advice 😎 stop obliging, going along to get along, being a push over ...avoid getting swept up in their energy but see if they can step into yours. Stay in alignment to stay on track on course
There is more happiness in giving than receiving. Slow & steady... ☑️
If you go in with terms & expectations you're in for disappointment. Be spontaneous.
Congratulations to you and Audrey on your engagement Matthew. So happy for you 💓
My boyfriend and I were deeply in love. He asked me to move in with him and as the time moved closer, he freaked out and ran. Im absolutely devastated. Thank you for these videos.
I’m so sorry Sweetheart! I Hope you’re doing better and will find healing ❤️🩹! (I can imagine your anticipation…to be moving in together…that is what I’d like…). 😘
Also love the “not going with the flow but going with your own flow” or what we call “beat to your own drum” and go home separately after a date and not sleep together that night. Also the ultimate way to be taken seriously! ❤😊
The ability you have to clearly and succinctly explain these often elusive relationship dynamics and give examples of what you’re explaining is soo helpful. I always enjoy listening to you bc you have a TRUE gift in this area. LOVE your content!!🌟🌟
Matt, just in case you ever run out of dating advice, you could always start a comedy channel on the side 😅
These things are great…if the other person is interested too. I did most of these things with my last guy…everything was well accepted…one day it all ended very unexpectedly.
I like your tips, but isn't it terrible that relationships are so complicated these days that our every move has to be analysed? I think if it doesn't just flow naturally with someone, what's the point of bothering with that person? I think the most important thing is to just be yourself! If it's all too hard, and we have to think about things and over analyse everything we say or do, then it's just not the right person. Can he make me laugh? Do we have fun together? Are we able to just be ourselves around each other? Are we on the same wavelength most of the time? Is he respectful of me and my beliefs, my needs and my thoughts? Do things just flow naturally, especially in the bedroom? If the answer is YES to all these questions, then we are probably with the right person.
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I think in general this is good advice. Matt usually points out that in other areas of our lives we practice skills needed, so dating is also a skill, and we can learn how to be better partners while being true to ourselves. We don't just have to accept this is how we are.. also sometimes our social expressions may be a result of trauma or lack of good modeling and we can always learn to behave and act in healthier ways.
Yes, i agree with you. But these particular tips seem so basic and yet i think people need to be reminded on how sending a thank you note, saving a cookie or a small gesture can really make a difference in how a person sees you.
@@madhuryamaa exactly!
I think most of these come natural for most people- I think he points them out incase you were wondering about one or were unsure if you were doing the the right thing
I have been following your content for the last 6 years since I split from my abusive ex husband. Thanks to your content, though I am still single, I am happily single. I chose to start watching your content because I realized I played my own part in my relationships, and if nothing else wanted to be the best I could be for both of my boys, and learn how to communicate properly with the opposite sex because I was never taught that. You have taught me so much Matthew and I am eternally grateful. I can't wait to attend your event in Florida as that has been a bucket list thing of mine to do when I could afford it. Keep up the great work. #6 is my favorite because it reminds of us our value, and the right one will appreciate those things that make us who we are :)
Matthew you are so good at helping us & you are funny and much congratulations on your engagement. Yay!
Matt, thank you so much! I love your content! Congratulations on your engagement, I wish you happiness!!!
Thank you for this. I am 30 but after a very long relationship, I have fallen in the casual relationship situation too much. This has been so so helpful for me, I realize the things I was doing wrong.
Why do you think you deserve a guy? You dont!
Let's start here...Why are 90% of college brainwashed...I mean "educated"...students human females (REAL WOMEN have been extinct for AT LEAST 40 years, young and old)?
Why cant all of you females mature mentally, emotionally and spiritually past the age of 5 or 6? You cant help your physical bodies mature and get old and wrinkly by the age of 25, so that matures. But when it comes to any personal effort there is none by an adult human female. So, what is the difference between each human female and another mammalian female animal like a cat or a dog. Ok, well I guess you can talk. Mostly not saying anything that ever would really matter. But I would be amazed if my dog started complaining about how he just had to sit around all day and had nothing to do amd was bored so he went and slept with the dog next door. That would be pretty cool. The animal being able to put two words together part. Not your sexual adventures...I mean not my dogs sexual adventures.
You each are so easily manipulated on a grand scale...it's hilarious.
Thanks for showing us what happens when you adult females run the world...Since over 85% of Bidens cabinet talking heads anyway are adult females.
The greatest civilization is destroyed because of your female leadership. And you do it in record time. Amazing. What skill and talent you posess.. Us men are in awe..
You "women" have been destroying civilizations, and what men have built, slowly while you have been slowly removed from the kitchen.
Thanks for all your destruction you have done, are doing, and will continue to do until its all crumbled to the ground. Like you did with the Greeks, the Romans, the Egyptians, etc, etc, etc. Destruction of great civilizations comes from within. And nothing is more at the center of a society than homes. And who is unfortunately at the center of those homes??? Ya, you girlfriends, wives and mothers. And the more freedom you adult females are given the more and more self-centered you become. And the more you cheat..not ONLY on your husbands and boyfriends through your high levels of deceit, but you also cheat on every one of your children. I understand you dont want to look at yourselves as a gender because you are so sickening. But you gotta so you dont destroy every single thing. Its obvious why you are seen as the "saintly" gender.
Me to
@@justthetruth6197 you’re deluded . Go get some help.
Or u marriad
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Hello am max from USA searching for a true love let's get to know each other
Post framing, not agreeing to everything and showing him multi dimensions of me is a great idea. It shows my stand, my presence and acknowledging him makes him feel seen and understood. It's actually pretty good.
Such a well crafted list ❤ I found each one so meaningful.. many of those we have done before but understood their value and inherent purpose better today.
Just bumped into one of your IG shorts and that led me to this video on TH-cam
Glad to meet you virtually with such impactful content. Thank you for sharing this.
Have a great day ahead
I’m already having one 😊
Thank you
Love the weekend tips, fabulous, thank you!!
I really appreciate that your content has stayed so enthusiastic, it makes the 17 minutes so smooth, I love these.
All of these only works if the guy wants to stay and wants you. If not, it will be useless.
Very true. we had an amazing sex and i texted him the next day, he texted back kind of coldly, i was tired off. i wish i did not text him! 😢
Thoroughly enjoyed this video. Very insightful indeed. Lots to implement.
Last point was something new to me, thank you for such a great list of things to know and to do! I like it.
Mathew, I just love your videos. They are so great and I feel like they can be applied to not just our life lives but other parts of our lives too, with family, friends n work colleagues. Personally, I totally agree with #1 and #13 the most.
Super helpful and these are things I already do- thanks to you!
This was one of your best videos yet!!! Thankyou so much Matthew 🥰
Thank you Matthew! I love your mischievous smile and twinkle in your eye when you give certain tips and how humorous you are when you want us to go to your website. You are absolutely fabulous! Although I am not currently interested in dating anyone, I am so content on my own, I still watch your videos every now and then. And I always learn something.
01:09
be more than a last minute plan
01:46
don't just go with their flow on a date
02:45
suggest a date plan
03:35
send a post date text (post-framing)
05:13
show genuine appreciation for something they did
06:03
have them come to your part of town
08:03
pay for something
08:49
send them a picture from a different part of your life
09:53
send them an " i was listening " text
10:46
save them a cookie (tiny gifts)
11:33
be playfully assumptive
12:20
avoid the bandwagon of agreeing with someone all the time (break rapport)
14:18
beware the weekend away (pre-framing)
Thank you
Good job! Ty!
Listening not listing
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Fabulous advice, as always - Matthew 🥰
Thanks so much Matthew. And congratulations on the financee! 😊
I needed this .... thank you so much! First and last were most meaningful for my personal life... big time!
So I want to tell you guys because I do feel like we’re a little community: tonight I was on a 3rd date with a guy who’s personality isn’t my type, but I feel calm and myself around him. I also didn’t feel a lot of chemistry initially, but it’s grown because I’ve always thought him handsome and cute. I found myself making a couple of corny jokes lol, and he’s seemed to appreciate them! Well, tonight we kissed. I liked that he didn’t pressure me (verbally or non verbally) to kiss him this entire time. Oh my gosh, I lost my balance after our kiss lol! I know that’s just chemistry, but I’m glad it’s there. I’m really trying not to overthink things now and spiral off, but I enjoy my time with him. Just had to share that. Matt and Team, your advice has me feeling confident with or without him! You guys are a God send!
I love your videos, Matthew, especially this one! I hope some of this rubs off on me. I’m a serious Capricorn so it’s your humor, playfulness, done with such charm and intelligence that totally wins me! Thank for sharing this wisdom. 😍
Number 1 was Great reminder for me. Thank you for taking the time to make this 🤠 video.
I loved the pre-frame and post framing concept
I loved the playful assumptuous one:) Texts can be so serious and planting the missing aspect in his mind and then being light is genius Matthew!
Matthew, just seeing this video, but the moment I realized I and the person I've been seeing for the past 3 months have started doing almost all of these things back and forth my jaw dropped to the floor at how intuitive we've been for a bit now. As always, quite insightful and helpful, thanks so much for sharing!
Being appreciative is sooo important
This was awesome! I like the reframing and post framing ideas.
Seriously, the timing for this video couldn't be more perfect. I met someone online that has offered to put me up in a hotel if I would come to the State in which he lives. So Matthew . . . . # 13 is SPOT ON. 💝
I'm loving this guy. He really confirms some things I've finally learned later in life, and breaks it down even more for me with scenarios. I appreciate his advice. He is awesome!
Thank you Matthew, this is so helpful 😊🤗
I'm sharing these with my brother. He can interpret them, so it has bearing on relationships with girls too.
I love the fun playful take you have on these video's.
I never learnt how to do relationships or dates.
Thank you for making these for geeky girls like me🤗
Sending an I was listening text is such a cool thing. In any relationship setting. Loved that you mentioned that 👍🏼
Also not agreeing all the time and not being a Yes person is so important. All these tips were sooo good but those are my top 2 wisdom nuggets I took from the video 😊
This opened my eyes to trying something different and practicing my skills for when I do meet the right guy!!!
this is a terrific video! straightforward and to the point, which is always appreciated with scripts that can be used. thank you!
watched the last part twice. ive always been wanting to word thoughts like these!
I liked the post framing suggestion. Sometimes in the moment I have forgotten to thank a guy for a great date or I’m not sure if I really thanked him properly. I think it’s a nice gesture to send a text saying thank you, I really had a nice time and I appreciate you planning such a lovely date or however you’re feeling after a date.
Saying you loved sharing time with someone, and thanking someone for a good time, they’re different things aren’t they?
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Really good and consistent! Thank you for your honest advice for putting time into this! PS. Loved your retreat in August 2016 in San Diego
Every technique was excellent!! You are a relationship master!!
This was amazing thank you so much! Every point is so valid and your what you offer on your website is so unique! Thanks so much for sharing and being you!
Thanks for this, I have actually done several of these tools, so your giving me confidence that I am on the right track 😅
I do all of these things….didn’t know there were formal titles for these actions …thanks. I’m also a nerd and appreciate new vocabulary. I absolutely enjoy all of your videos Matthew. Keep spreading knowledge to inspire love and successful relationships around the world.🌎 💓
All of the 13 techniques are great, you’re brilliant Matt you always impress me
so true. Thank you for your passion and knowledge.
Wow, I'm the first one giving a like...
Anytime I'm watching a video with this coach, I'm getting more strength...even in the most difficult times. It's amazing the positive vibe is bringing in our life...
Keep going Matthew!!❤️❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️❤️
Hi Matthew. I'm from Iran and I've been watching you're videos since I had a hard break up after 5 years. And you really helped me out and I literally understand and believe every single word you say and try to do them. You're such an angel thank you so much.
I love listening to you! so much wisdom and truth! Thank you so much!
the weekend away thing gets complicated if they are ALREADY away...my current interest is 5 hours away and weekends away at events are common in our social circle so navigating this is going to be tricky if things progress...which of course may or may not happen anyway. This is a fantastic list and I am going to re watch this for sure. I am seeing both he and I have done many of these things already and I am glad to have that confirmation as a start. Your videos are fantastic, straight forward, well versed and full of very useful information, thanks for all you do!
Thanks Matthew..this was very helpful. I liked the one about telling the guy I had a nice time. I wasn't doing that and always letting them lead.
You're a fantastic communicator. I appreciate you much ❤
Loved that video thank you ! My favorite advice was not to go with their flow but with mine, and , it’s true, people appreciate you voice your needs and respect you even more after that, assume what we are up or not up to is important :)
You guys (and gals) are the best. Appreciate all of the simple yet counter intuitive explanations behind the psychology that you provide to us dating-challenged folk. I’m learning so much about myself thru this. Keep up the amazing work, you are a beacon of hope in a (seemingly) dark dating world. Thank you.
I know of a very powerful spell caster, Dr Joel caster on youtube he has helped lot of people get their ex back, you can search for him on TH-cam for some work.
Loved all of them. So sincere effortless kind and sweet and smart.
Loved it!!!! The last one in the list applied to my life right now. I still have to talk to him about it later on today. Thank you so much! ❤️🦋
Matthew-Must admit was skeptical before watching this video but having watched it am thoroughly impressed!👍 You have a great mix of kindness, perceptiveness with regard to human nature, and an ability to speak honestly while tempering it with humor and compassion. Well done. My favorite tip is #12-can’t recall what you called it but it was about the need to not always agree…to be willing to express an opinion or view different from the guy’s opinion. It totally reminds me of my favorite scene in the movie (based on the book by Jane Austen) Emma, in which Mr. Knightly-who absolutely loves a rather clueless Emma, quietly expresses his disappointment in her when he witnesses her being unkind to an older, less fortunate woman at a social gathering. His gentle admonishment crushes her and actually serves to make her realize just how much he means to her. Swoon worthy…..🥰
i KNOW that my relationship is not right, whenever i feel like i have to watch matthew and follow his tips in order to the bf to like me or stay with me etc.
Things should go forward naturally i believe without having to use all these relationship formulas like math.
Contact Dr Joel spell caster on youtube he will help you get your ex back, he is available on youtube.
My god! Such a complete guide!! Thank you Matt!
OMG Matthew thank you so much for your advices, i love them, I'll use them. Thank you👍👍👍👍👍
Absolutely LOVE This! Also confirms that I naturally and genuinely do these things for people I care about. This also confirms that I may have less to worry about in regards to my current person than I thought since he is doing more than half of these acts ❤🙏🏻
Congratulations on your engagement. Can you do a video of how you go from dating to engaged?
Or u marriad
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Thank you so much. I needed this ❤