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Someone played these games with me. Worked for awhile but I left after realizing you can only use these for hooking people, but not build with them long term. This is surface level stuff
Yall know whats crazy. When i was meaner men were stuck on me and hated me but now that im working on being super nice and understanding they think they can run over me and do whatever. Crazy AF. This roller coaster stuff is what keeps them around but im trying to not be that girl. Ughhhh... why are men like this. This that bull
I think if you wanna look at the healthy or positive side of this, it's actually similar to enforcing your boundaries. Sometimes when we are firm with our boundaries, we feel like we're being mean but we're actually just practicing our self-respect and knowing our worth. If you don't have self respect and self worth, then its less likely that you have boundaries, and thats when people just step all over you. So, it's not really all that evil just as long as you are just being your authentic self and not doing these things just to manipulate a guy.
Most men are like this, but not all. Make sure you find the right one and don’t settle. It’s what you settle for, what you accept is that will keep happening. That’s the only control you have.
You're absolutely right... When I was a bihh I got more respect and when I tried to gain consciousness of the narcissism that came with that I changed however I lacked the confidence that comes with being a bihh... Real self love is finding YOUR balance between good and evil
Girl...it's true. I am a Rollercoaster and it works. Like...I'm naturally all of this. I alternate between sweet and a bitch. Without meaning to. Men run all over you if you're too soft.
6:38 stand up for yourselves ladies. dont let them think they can disrespect you. each time they do something you dont like, confront them and be ready to walk away.
Ladies, this is so true!!!! We were dating so quite naturally he was dating someone else also. He decided to make it official with me because of just what he’s saying in this video ❤️
I'd be honest. I have to listen your teachings a couple of times before I start getting it. WOW!! (I am an empath. Some will kill my dog and say they helped the animal and I will believe them.) I've been raised to be a good nice girl if I want to survive in this world. And I have paid dearly for that stupid believes.)
I can totally see this working!! We BELIEVE they can hurt us and heal us, but nobody can really do this if we don’t let them. We can actually be our own healers, and no one can hurt you without you allowing them too. But for the clueless ones, this will work beautifully. 🤣
Actually sometimes people do this naturally and not to manipulate 😅. I’ve done this because people need to have constructive criticism to grow. But at the same time I have a heart full of genuine care and love. It’s not to be toxic or evil, it’s to challenge and help grow my partners where they need it! I can except someone for who they are, but if they for example don’t know how to handle their emotions properly, I have to bring that to their attention. It’s for both of our betterment and good!
This is crazy. Telling a woman to breakup and play games. Every 5 hours a black woman is unalived in the United States. To many games. The right man will act right. Always remember that. This is unhealthy.
All this tactics are great for attracting. But not for sustaining. Sustaining is the hardest part. Initial “victory” will soon reveal itself as loss. Loss of your confidence, mental peace and emotional security. Because at some point you will run out of “tactics” as you can’t use those forever.
Alex, these all sum up to be just be your authentic self , show your like n dislikes n boundaries from a good n loving intention. That’s all the strategies you talk about without too much game.
I’ve had this done to me by multiple men… always a turn off… I see right through this shit but I know a lot of people don’t when it’s being done to them. So what you’re displaying is how people prey on others with low self esteem, who are damaged and/or lack awareness. Education is 🔑. People’s take away from this is LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF. So this type of nonsense can never be used on you. I encourage you NOT to use it on others.
I laughed through this whole video cause it's so true. I've done it to ppl and I've had ppl so it to me. It's very intoxicating to be in love but it's a scary thing
👍💃💃🚀🚀🚀😂 You are A LIFE SAVER like ni other. Love & APPRECIATES you from South Africa. Only one honest. Teacheing the ugly TRUTH. No nonsense because you truly care. Teach like nobody else.
It's not being mean. It's being honest and holding them accountable. I'm very blunt, and i will be respected and call you out on your bs. But i like you though 😊😂
omg..when you realize that you do all of these things and then wonder why others get addicted to you 😳😂👀 actually I tried to be more consistent and reliable in my relationships but it is difficult to change patterns I learned since I was a child.. thank God my bf is just like me and we forgive each other for being egoists
It’s actually trauma bonding. Your binding this person to you. This is dangerous information to put out there. Most ppl are petty and shallow and think nothing of breaking another person and then leaving them once they’ve broken they’re toy. I just wanted to throw this out there. On the other hand men have been doing this to women since the law got passed that it’s illegal to beat your wife. Probly longer. It’s all fair in love and war. I guess. I’m currently trying like hell to break a trauma bond. I’m about ready to chew my arm off all coyote ugly style to get out of this ridiculous trap. It’s pure hell. Your mind and body are turned against you and used as a weapon. I don’t control well so I’m sure I can go the rest of my life with this F’d up feeling. Love is an addiction. You get addicted to the chemicals your body produces then when the source of that leaves you don’t want to do anything. Some ppl actually die. It’s horrifying and I’m pretty sure I’m not doing it again. I’ll just fall in love with the whole world. With life. With spirit. With myself. Anything but one particular person. Hell to the naw
We lose people even without the insecurities thing - illness, personality changes, even death. Time and a sense of reality is all you need. You don't need to manipulate things to intentionally create that. It's not really a nice thing to do, ok. I see the value in your message though because I've experienced this and it's interesting that it would be a universal maybe biological human thing but I don't believe should be exploiting that and if I found out someoydid that with intent it would ruin the relationship for me because I would think they wanted me to be in a state of pain around them so that would mean for me that they didn't respect me as an equal if they didn't care if I was suffering for their benefit... Right? I hope you think a little deeper on how this backfired because it's artificial.
This vido made me aware how to do the stuff I was scared to do and did not know how so I do not fuck it up.. Actually healing, educative vid. Hope used only for grace of fhe G :) love for anybody who was also struggling with the communication in the realationsips.
I watch many videos on line...what i like about your videos.. You go out of your comfort zone with such confidence... your videos. With advise..go so much deeper than most...your sure make me think..and..make sence .thank you..for the work that gos into these videos. Debbie from London uk.
oh my so true on the criticism part, of willing to criticize a person who i don't like vs the person I do like. hahaha! I just criticized a person who I don't like much about the way he smells hahahahahaha
Ladies, if you truly love your man, be VERY careful how you approach this. Because this can backfire in a way that is permanent. I'm a guy who was diagnosed with ADHD and depression (it was labeled as "acute depression", even though I have never been suicidal), and was bullied verbally AND physically - by both guys AND gals - from kindergarten to graduation. In fifth grade, a classmate actually attempted to choke me, and it took three teachers to separate us. As someone who has been put through hell, I can tell you for a fact that not all men are open about past trauma and prefer to hide their scars. But playing mind games like what's suggested in this video can push a person who's already insecure and vulnerable to choose "a permanent solution to a temporary problem". You may literally hold that man's life in your hands. Ponder that, before trying to change a man who loves you.
Your my number one..funny..smart..handsome and just great videos .your one likeable guy...pls continue making these interesting videos Debbie in london uk
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I took your advice & it worked like a charm.
Key words??? Don’t be afraid to walk away !!!
Exactly ! They only being obsessed when you hurt them.
Someone played these games with me. Worked for awhile but I left after realizing you can only use these for hooking people, but not build with them long term. This is surface level stuff
Same thing. I dont think this is what normal people do ...
Thisss 😢
Good to know so don't need to even watch this
Right there with you not for me either
If he cannot see you for who you are he ain't the one lol this is just mind games .. its all fun 😂
The level of spirituality that I have reached won't allow anything that isn't authentic.
This ❤
Yall know whats crazy. When i was meaner men were stuck on me and hated me but now that im working on being super nice and understanding they think they can run over me and do whatever.
Crazy AF. This roller coaster stuff is what keeps them around but im trying to not be that girl. Ughhhh... why are men like this. This that bull
I think if you wanna look at the healthy or positive side of this, it's actually similar to enforcing your boundaries. Sometimes when we are firm with our boundaries, we feel like we're being mean but we're actually just practicing our self-respect and knowing our worth. If you don't have self respect and self worth, then its less likely that you have boundaries, and thats when people just step all over you. So, it's not really all that evil just as long as you are just being your authentic self and not doing these things just to manipulate a guy.
Most men are like this, but not all. Make sure you find the right one and don’t settle. It’s what you settle for, what you accept is that will keep happening. That’s the only control you have.
You're absolutely right... When I was a bihh I got more respect and when I tried to gain consciousness of the narcissism that came with that I changed however I lacked the confidence that comes with being a bihh... Real self love is finding YOUR balance between good and evil
Girl...it's true. I am a Rollercoaster and it works. Like...I'm naturally all of this. I alternate between sweet and a bitch. Without meaning to. Men run all over you if you're too soft.
They use the nice girl as well. They want a maid and a cook a servant and then be like I didn’t force you to do that for me lol
6:38 stand up for yourselves ladies. dont let them think they can disrespect you. each time they do something you dont like, confront them and be ready to walk away.
Ladies, this is so true!!!! We were dating so quite naturally he was dating someone else also. He decided to make it official with me because of just what he’s saying in this video ❤️
I believe bc I been exactly doing this stuff and it seems men get obsessed with me. But I don’t like being that kind of person.
Here at 111 comments. I already watch Shera Seven, this about to make me a real monsta 😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥
Okay! Sprinkle sprinkle ! 😂
Finally someone is teaching the class about dating that I grew up feeling like everyone watched without me.
I'd be honest. I have to listen your teachings a couple of times before I start getting it. WOW!! (I am an empath. Some will kill my dog and say they helped the animal and I will believe them.) I've been raised to be a good nice girl if I want to survive in this world. And I have paid dearly for that stupid believes.)
I can totally see this working!! We BELIEVE they can hurt us and heal us, but nobody can really do this if we don’t let them. We can actually be our own healers, and no one can hurt you without you allowing them too. But for the clueless ones, this will work beautifully. 🤣
Actually sometimes people do this naturally and not to manipulate 😅. I’ve done this because people need to have constructive criticism to grow. But at the same time I have a heart full of genuine care and love. It’s not to be toxic or evil, it’s to challenge and help grow my partners where they need it!
I can except someone for who they are, but if they for example don’t know how to handle their emotions properly, I have to bring that to their attention. It’s for both of our betterment and good!
We should always pray for this guy
😭
❤❤Protect Father Alex at all costs!!!
@@lebomafatle amen
agreed
If It meant to Be It's Gonna Work out...Trust The Process ❤
This is crazy. Telling a woman to breakup and play games. Every 5 hours a black woman is unalived in the United States. To many games. The right man will act right. Always remember that. This is unhealthy.
All this tactics are great for attracting. But not for sustaining. Sustaining is the hardest part.
Initial “victory” will soon reveal itself as loss. Loss of your confidence, mental peace and emotional security.
Because at some point you will run out of “tactics” as you can’t use those forever.
Very proud of you for being so consistent with your content! You do a great job! 🎉😊
Alex, these all sum up to be just be your authentic self , show your like n dislikes n boundaries from a good n loving intention. That’s all the strategies you talk about without too much game.
I’ve had this done to me by multiple men… always a turn off… I see right through this shit but I know a lot of people don’t when it’s being done to them. So what you’re displaying is how people prey on others with low self esteem, who are damaged and/or lack awareness. Education is 🔑. People’s take away from this is LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF. So this type of nonsense can never be used on you. I encourage you NOT to use it on others.
Thats why the book of life says that one part of love is long suffering
These are narcissist tactics, evil. It's how they cause trauma bonds and not something you do to someone you love.
Knowledge "IS" Power and helping the world where its most needed is always a super power! I love what you do...DONT STOP!!!
I laughed through this whole video cause it's so true. I've done it to ppl and I've had ppl so it to me. It's very intoxicating to be in love but it's a scary thing
Only my mother could make me cry out of anger.
Mine too 😂
Honestly, if I saw that in the first few weeks they get angry a lot. I wouldn't just bring it to their attention, I would have to walk away also.
You’re talking about Vasopressin - this is the hormone that stimulates “love” in men. It’s released by pain.
Ig you mean oxytocin😅
Vasopressin regulates osmolarityy... 😅
Oxytocin and Vasopressin are biological siblings, however Vasopressin is more ancestral and primitive @khushisingh8042
I feel like this video heavily applies to those of us who's man has a Scorpio moon 🌙♏
I want to stay single❤ İ found my happiness like that
Same here.
@@elarisa10 💚
Father Alex u are a blessing. It's shadow work. Hugs n kisses😘
👍💃💃🚀🚀🚀😂 You are A LIFE SAVER like ni other. Love & APPRECIATES you from South Africa. Only one honest. Teacheing the ugly TRUTH. No nonsense because you truly care. Teach like nobody else.
It's not being mean. It's being honest and holding them accountable. I'm very blunt, and i will be respected and call you out on your bs. But i like you though 😊😂
Always look forward to hearing your perspective. Thank you for the consistent content, Alex!
We are made of good and evil and it's for a reason.
I’m going to use this at 100%
omg..when you realize that you do all of these things and then wonder why others get addicted to you 😳😂👀
actually I tried to be more consistent and reliable in my relationships but it is difficult to change patterns I learned since I was a child.. thank God my bf is just like me and we forgive each other for being egoists
We men know that trick it no secret but we play along too.we love games just like women.
@@marvinpercival4717thanks for admitting that and your correct... It's a balance of good and evil...
No wonder these men be pressed about me…I naturally do this. However, it’s not out of manipulation. 😅
I learned a lot from you.
This is how narcissist do you.
I love that you are bettering yourself and give back. Blessing to u Alex.
OMG THIS IS SO TOXIC BUT I WILL DO THAAT🤣🤣
1)The Good Boss Effect
Omg i have been doing all those without realising it😅😅😅
Alex your videos are amazing! Your advice always works 😇
It’s actually trauma bonding. Your binding this person to you. This is dangerous information to put out there. Most ppl are petty and shallow and think nothing of breaking another person and then leaving them once they’ve broken they’re toy. I just wanted to throw this out there. On the other hand men have been doing this to women since the law got passed that it’s illegal to beat your wife. Probly longer. It’s all fair in love and war. I guess. I’m currently trying like hell to break a trauma bond. I’m about ready to chew my arm off all coyote ugly style to get out of this ridiculous trap. It’s pure hell. Your mind and body are turned against you and used as a weapon. I don’t control well so I’m sure I can go the rest of my life with this F’d up feeling. Love is an addiction. You get addicted to the chemicals your body produces then when the source of that leaves you don’t want to do anything. Some ppl actually die. It’s horrifying and I’m pretty sure I’m not doing it again. I’ll just fall in love with the whole world. With life. With spirit. With myself. Anything but one particular person. Hell to the naw
I feel you...
I love that! Fall in love with the whole world, with life, with spirit with myself! Very smart
Wow, so profound
💯💯💯💯
We lose people even without the insecurities thing - illness, personality changes, even death. Time and a sense of reality is all you need. You don't need to manipulate things to intentionally create that. It's not really a nice thing to do, ok. I see the value in your message though because I've experienced this and it's interesting that it would be a universal maybe biological human thing but I don't believe should be exploiting that and if I found out someoydid that with intent it would ruin the relationship for me because I would think they wanted me to be in a state of pain around them so that would mean for me that they didn't respect me as an equal if they didn't care if I was suffering for their benefit... Right? I hope you think a little deeper on how this backfired because it's artificial.
Please make more videos like this and when are you coming to London?
This vido made me aware how to do the stuff I was scared to do and did not know how so I do not fuck it up.. Actually healing, educative vid. Hope used only for grace of fhe G :) love for anybody who was also struggling with the communication in the realationsips.
Wow Father Alex! We love you! Learn so much from your channel.
I do all these things naturally 😭😭
I was just thinking that lol
@@lashan4269 and that’s on they never leave me alone 🤣
I watch many videos on line...what i like about your videos.. You go out of your comfort zone with such confidence... your videos. With advise..go so much deeper than most...your sure make me think..and..make sence .thank you..for the work that gos into these videos. Debbie from London uk.
Good day, your highness. Here we have yet another masterpiece!
'This is fucked up' 😂😂😂 you rock Alex! Long time no see you. Hope you do good
YOURE SO REAL ILY
Chrisean rock 🦷
Oh man... I literally just did this to my guy 😂😂😂
What if he’s a really really good man. Gives me no reason to have to be mean?
Ain't no such thing. Use it!!!
@@munix9351 😂😂😂😅
You gonna regret it in the long run. If you gotta be mean , don’t be an ass about it. Check their ass out if you gotta.
You are so good. Thank you.
oh my so true on the criticism part, of willing to criticize a person who i don't like vs the person I do like. hahaha! I just criticized a person who I don't like much about the way he smells hahahahahaha
Why relationships have to be so toxic lolll
Always thankful to father Alex ❤
When is the next meet up cause im gonna come to NY to meet u and do this meditation thing also
There is alot of truth to what he's saying.
Love you alex. Thanks for the insight, thanks for you help.
I like this guy!!!
The new guy will heal me.
IDK big brother, I think I'd rather be alone than hurt, and be hurt.
I’ve taken your advice now he’s stalking me ffs 🤦🏽♀️ private number calls not saying a word should I be worried 😟
Run 😮
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😂😂😂😂
😂😂
I love your cap. So good on you.
Ladies, if you truly love your man, be VERY careful how you approach this. Because this can backfire in a way that is permanent.
I'm a guy who was diagnosed with ADHD and depression (it was labeled as "acute depression", even though I have never been suicidal), and was bullied verbally AND physically - by both guys AND gals - from kindergarten to graduation. In fifth grade, a classmate actually attempted to choke me, and it took three teachers to separate us.
As someone who has been put through hell, I can tell you for a fact that not all men are open about past trauma and prefer to hide their scars. But playing mind games like what's suggested in this video can push a person who's already insecure and vulnerable to choose "a permanent solution to a temporary problem". You may literally hold that man's life in your hands. Ponder that, before trying to change a man who loves you.
I love this man 👠❤️
No. Being in love is not a form of abuse, tf r u talking about
Great content , awesome you shirtless and in a bucket hat too
Loved that! Brilliant 👏👏
Your my number one..funny..smart..handsome and just great videos
.your one likeable guy...pls continue making these interesting videos
Debbie in london uk
Really informative and useful video thank you
8:00 lol you kill me father alex so funny
Can u pls do a video father alex about : why doe's a guy flys out to u from another country ?
Im glad u said it about the Leo shit 😂😂😂😂 lmao. That had me dying... 😅
New follower. Love your content
I love the intro.
“ Look ladies & gentlemen, I know that this video is pure evil.”
Down for the evil😈
You are just amazing person
If im right with this Outfit, you are Sancho Pansa here😂
Ok so.. idk how to feel when I realize I accidentally do these things to others without knowing. Can it even be called manipulation then? 😵💫
I did this unknowingly then I found your channel 😈
How would say are ways to get rid of someone who will not go away?
Let them know you've filed a restraining order
Why are you wearing a hat inside 😂
You speaking the truth
Dang imagine someone losing respect because you're nice.
Love ur vids haha
can I do this if they ghosted me
YES SCHOOL!
It’s God… our Maker… allows evil and then shows goodness.
Now I'm getting dirty looks and he looking sad af when we pass each other driving in town 😂😂😂
Alex you’re my fave
Very good! Thx
Thank you Alex love to see the content & the growth 🥰
The half tooth looks cute
No it doesn’t 😂😂
lmaooo girl you are so funny
@@amerokeewiya1320 LMAO
This is already the 2nd tooth he loses
Yeah he looks like a lil hillbilly baby esp w that hat hehehehe
Do you still do this when you’re in a relationship?..
My question actually
Yes
Im doing this 😈😈😈
You make me laugh loud