I’ve heard that particularly with a Scorpio, their moods might fluctuate, when they’re attracted to you as, particularly male Scorpios are uncomfortable with thinking about what to do with it. While I experienced this, I think, with a Scorpio boss I used to work for, I don’t entirely rely upon someone’s zodiac sign. There were also a few things at play. Being a married boss, attracted to one of your employees and being of two different races can spell disaster, in the workplace. Nothing ever happened and I would’ve never let it, although I’d long been attracted to him. But, not everything goes according to the videos. In fact, in a couple of instances, I’ve seen men who’s voice raise an octave, when they’re talking to a woman they’re attracted to.
I'm too shy of a person. But sometimes when I'm attracted to someone my confidence in my self skyrocketed such as my posture and my gaze becomes like very manly. My only concern is I'm to shy to start a conversation even if the other paerson shows interest me.haizz
@@mr.j3371 It's me too, I had been with an extrovert for a long time when I was younger, but as we got older, it just had went south because of opposite personalities. He wanted to be out among people, and I wanted to relax at home once the day was ending. Physical attraction is what brought us together, and being fixed up by a common friend. I'm an introvert who is shy, so, I am actually fine without anybody other than friends and family around me. Many people my age still want to be with a partner, but I am just over it. But hopefully anyone who wants a compatible partner can find the right person for them. Just make sure they are good to you and will not turn out to be a jerk. If a person is lonely, they might overlook some bad traits in a person so they aren't alone anymore. I did that several years ago. It didn't last long. You live and learn.
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Hey YOU, beautiful person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
I open my mouth and I scare women away. I think I did it again tonight. I feel like shit since 11.30 and I can't sleep because of it. I hate talking about myself. I just want to be adored. I wish I knew what that felt like. The older I get the harder it gets. Sick of it...
It's not always easy to tell what someone's intentions are. You might think that a person is just being friendly, but then out of nowhere they start doing some weird things and it can be really confusing.
Also I have seen a person on an off their confused how they feel about you, not sure if they are really in to you, and maybe they are in to you. I hope this makes sense.
I have a good female friend who gives me long, squeezing hugs and calls me her "boyfriend" sometimes. She also randomly says "I love you". You're right, prob just being friendly, shame she doesn't like me
They're attracted to you: 1. They make themselves look more attractive & behave in pleasing ways. 2. They're looking at you and trying not to stare, but making eye contact. 3. Men lower their voice and women change their voice. 4. They find opportunities to physically get close to you. 5. They glow/sweat. 6. They soothe themselves; rub hands together, etc. 7. They want romantic physical contact; hug. 8. They blush, open eyes wide or flutter their eyelashes. 9. They can't focus. 10. They laugh when you laugh and smile when you smile, etc.
Dont forget that prolonged eye contact might also be indicative of hostility instead of attraction. I made the error of confusing the two. Very interesting experience...
@@patty8644 Imagine hitting on someone you like a lot thinking you have an opening only to discover she actively despise and dislike you. It's a roller coaster of emotions going straight to hell. Dating made me misanthrope and hyper vigilant tbh.
I'm very strange when I become attracted to someone. The more attracted I am, the more distant I become and the more I avoid them. I can't even make eye contact. Not very friendly, I know. It's just how I am.
Me and this girl at my church are attracted to each other. Meaning, we both share the same signs listed in this video. It’s really great when the feeling is mutual and now we can enjoy getting to know each other better over time.
He stared at me...it definitely got my attention. He was not subtle. It was enough for us to introduce ourselves and he bought me a drink. The next time I saw him at the same restaurant, I was ascending the stairs to use the restroom. I figured he would be watching my figure in my dress from the bottom of the staircase, which I am sure he was, but he wasn't staring this time. It was a gaze. I looked back and his focus never wavered. I reached the top of the stairs and looked again. That gaze. It was dreamy. I have never experienced that before. I didn't feel like a piece of meat. A connection had been established in that moment. We were together for less than a week. Sadly, he passed away. I was never able to see what we could have been, but I will NEVER forget that man. Rest in paradise.
@Om Rohit Thank you, don't be sad. I was happy to have ever met him. I never met anyone like him before. I'm not 100% sure but I think he was my twin flame.
You sound like an INFP. Betting you day dreamed about experiences and conversations you never had with this man. His death allowed these unchecked imaginations to become idealized. It's the unrequited love scenario INFP's can only experience in their imaginations but never in real life. The Perfect Love you seek can only be found in a trust/faith relationship woth Christ.
My ex girlfriend cheated on me 8 months ago... I was bored as hell and felt soo bad about myself, but this corona time helped me to work on myself. My friends motivated me to work hard, they introduced me with some tips and tricks that helped me to eat clean as well. In the process I took a diet from Dietarize to further improve my meal planning. I lost 55lbs in eight months, and I am strongly motivated for more!!
I have a hard time making eye contact with men I find very attractive, I have to force myself to be comfortable with it, and not avoid meeting his gaze. On the flip side, I come off as very confident and self assured, but around men I’m strongly attracted to, it is rough!
My crush is shy, but after a long time of getting to know each other, he’s becoming more comfortable. There’s still that awkwardness between us, but we make frequent eye contact and smile at each other
The voice deepening, puffing chest out and smile/laughing when they see you are all that I strongly concur on. I’ve literally never thought of these three things and it’s like a lightbulb went off! Wow. So true.
a joke I suppose... Since I like someone already for 2 years but it's my secret so she'll never be mine since we're both shy... I try to think less but the longer I try it to hide the more I think about her😅
I like all of these tips. My issue is that nobody is really connecting in real life in the physical world. Meeting people online or on dating apps is zero body language and you don't even know if the person really exists.
I’m an introverted guy, and when I have a crush on a girl I can’t look her in the eyes when I’m speaking but when she’s speaking I fixate my gaze on her eyes. Also, I act like I don’t care if I see her or not, but I’m actually craving for any interation with her every second of everyday. Last but not least, I make sure myself look beyond presentable when I know I’m definitly gonna see this girl that day.
I am the same, but I am a girl. My crush is shy as well. But I am not sure is it because he has a crush too or just he behaves like this normally. Advice -please try to show her that you like her ,so she won't be confused.
One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy. Great content, keep it up!
I had just got done working out from the gym and was in Target still wearing my workout outfit. I went up to this girl to ask where the band aids were and I remembered her face just lit up. Her pupils were dilated and she had a smile on her face.
I'm freaking out because I have a freaking horrible crush on my Muay Thai teacher. I have been single for 2 years already and haven't been too interested in men, let alone sex. I have been taking classes for 2 months already and something sparked a couple of weeks ago and now I have the hots for this guy, 7 years younger than me, when I usually like guys older than me. He is tall, has a ton of tattoos is strong and fit, AND he is gentle, which is one of the most attractive qualities I like in men. I love guys who are both strong and gentle. We haven't been able to talk much, but I would love to get to see if I like his personality as I like his looks. The other day we had a grappling class and we were 3 girls and 4 guys. We 3 girls trained together, but he showed all the moves we had to do on me. We shared some laughs and he seemed very comfy being physically close to me, and when I realized I felt really comfy and excited about being that close, I realized that I like him. A lot. I think I'm reading in between lines too hard but I really like him. I'm pretty shy and have never confessed before but I don't know how long I will be able to hold this in. With almost 30 years of existence, it seems I should grow a pair of ovaries already and just casually tell him I like him and that I just wanted to be honest with myself and say it to see what happens. If something happens, great, if not, that's good too, at least I tried. But I'm AFRAID. So yeah, that's my story. It's basically my first time liking someone physically this badly since I'm a demisexual, so processing this is tough for me and I don't completely understand it. I have only had 2 other relationships and no hookups, so my expertise is quite limited and I'm used to either not saying shit or being blunt about my feelings and putting them out there when I feel safe enough to be honest. Okay, I just wrote a whole novel about this but it's letting me get it out of my chest. I'm scared of the attraction I'm feeling due to my shyness and how strongly attracted I feel to him, not knowing if it is him or 2 years of not being interested in building a relationship with no one but myself.
I'm in my early 20s, and with fair warning, my advice might be wrong. I share a similar flipped experience. He was my prof, but I was the younger one, and we had a slightly more significant age gap than you two. (don't worry, it was not illegal) I am an awkward, introverted girl. At the time, I was also very naive and felt that attraction instantly. If I learned anything from my terrible three-year crush on my prof is if you can't be on similar levels with each other and be open, then don't proceed. In my experience, I felt too scared to do anything, so I never acted on it, and that is probably best. If I had, he would have had to adult for the both of us, which is not appealing nor right. However, the guy you are talking about might be mature enough for you and vice versa. So if he reciprocates your feelings and your maturity levels match enough, then it's excellent! Give it a go, enjoy, live your best lives, respectfully. If not, then it's best not to get too serious! Don't get me wrong. Seven years gap isn't that much AT ALL, especially the older the pair are. 23 and 30 are not old ages either. Again, the thing is, some people are mature beyond their years while others are still figuring out the basics well into their 30s, etc. (Not here to judge anyone)It will all depend on the individual and their journey. Know what you are looking for as well. Is it passion and not severe, or do you want to see if your morals line up and you'd be good friends as well as something romantic long-term? I like what you said about taking it slow and getting to know his personality a bit more before making significant decisions if neither of you wishes to be overwhelmed or make conclusions you regret. I agree with your other idea too. Ask/share when you think you are ready not to have that regret or too much built-up tension. That's all the advice I can think of. I hope this was helpful and not misguiding! I wish you two the best! :D
@@Emily-sf8wz Thank you for this reply! Times has passed and some things have happened but nothing romantic. I'm pretty much clueless jaja He has stayed to sleep at my house (in my bedroom), given me massages (on my bed), cooked with me lunch, we have had breakfast. All those times I couldn't tell if he was pursuing something more or if it was just normal friendly activities... although there are some things I personally wouldn't do with a guy I just considered my friend. But we don't talk about it. Since a couple of days ago, he has stopped doing these things with me, and I don't know if it is because he is just busy all of the sudden or because he thinks I'm not interested and don't want to put his hopes up anymore. I have concluded I'm not interested in a relationship at the moment because I want to invest in me and myself only, but I would like to have a friend with benefits since I have never had one and I feel very comfy with him. So I might just pop the question and see if he would like that too, but damn, it's hard! I'm glad you decided to not cross the line with your professor, that can be a bumpy road when you are in a strict environment such as school.
The way you explaining this love story make me feel like i'm sitting next to my crush without seeing her, Thank you for all the motivational you have given us 🙏🏾 Well come the top think you are favourite channels love ✊🏾😘❤️
Honestly take all these hints with a grain of huge salt because it seems I act this way with everyone, so someone with low self esteem may get the wrong message when I'm trying to be friendly, nothing morw.
Don't change yourself to please another person. We are all beautiful; put passion in your wants, be nice and protect yourself from abusers. They can be very pretty but the devil in disguise.
What if you try looking into your own eyes in the mirror? What do you feel? Who knows maybe you start doing that and looking into others eyes maybe easier
@@petersophic nah, I got the tism, it's the main thing I struggle to mask lmao. It at least gives people a good indicator that I'm neurodivergent right off the bat, haha.
There are definitely different voices that I really love. Like the way Kurt Cobain talks and his voice. I just really like it for some reason. Also, Billy Corgan. His voice is unique and I just really like it
I have a thing for certain types of voices too... sometimes that all it takes for me to be attracted to a guy. My ex had a real nice voice. Great singer too. I love Keanu Reeves voice and Johnny Depp...they could talk all day lol loved Robert Downey Jr's voice in Sherlock Holmes. Oh, and Jensen Ackles voice when he played the character Dean Winchester in Supernatural...does help they are all nice to look at too, not going to lie 😂
hate that i realised this person i liked showed signs of attraction to me years ago but i was too stupid, blind, and just avoidant bc scared of rejection... now im the one who's in love with them and finally matured enough to make a move but they've already moved on and not into relationships anymore :(
Uh, if someone’s legs are entangled with yours, there’s a very good likelihood that you already like each other. This is not typically something you do with strangers
I never look long in someone eyes , i feel its disrespectful . If someone looks long in my eyes i know they have a problem with me . Be careful with that
This only really applies somewhat if its the men staring eachother down. Every time a woman has looked at me in the eyes for a long time, they were interested in me or wanted to kiss. It's being vulnerable because the eyes are filled with ambiguity and wonder and a window to the soul. When men stare at other men in the eyes, that can mean they have a problem with you or are just trying to figure you out.
Is it just me or did this thing read 10 things people do when. They are attracted to you but yet it continually says that you feel that you will do this when you are attracted to someone
Probably the most accurate video on gemini men I've watch. Being a gemini man I wish my exs watched snd learned from this video. I would have married one of them for sure.
You gotta be honest. Appreciate their compliment, but say you just don't see them in that way & that they're a good friend. If you string them along like a coward, it'll just make shit worse & they'll resent you because you weren't being honest with them.
Just because I’m interested in someone doesn’t mean that I’m going to make eye contact. I’ve been interested and not made eye contact. Yes, I looked in his direction often and I wanted him to look my way. I tried to start up conversations with him. But, I would look away quickly… because I was shy. That has NOTHING to do with my intentions or my attraction to him!!! That part of this video is absolute bull dung. Not to mention, men tend to think that if I have eye contact with them, that I am interested. When that is not what I am feeling at all. I hold eye contact with many people. Why do men feel this way? Women don’t.
The eye contact thing is true, but not all the time. There are definitely people (like me) who will purposely avoid eye contact because they're shy or anxious. I saw a video that said there are sometimes people who go out of their way to make it seem like they're not attracted to someone. But doing so often makes it even more obvious that you like them
I know people who give a hug purly on social base. It kind of depends on what hug. Some hug around randomly. And there are people who won't even touch the person they have a crush on, let go hugging them. So I don't understand where that info comes from.
Number 2 misses the point because the fact that fue to eye contact with another person you feel lovestruck etc., doesn't necessarily mean they feel the same
I think they’re assuming the other person holds your gaze for a long time, too. Most people that don’t like you will look away or make a face because wtf weird. But if we’re both staring into each other’s eyes, there’s a decent chance of mutual attraction. Maybe not lovestruck, but something could be there.
Him: Prolonged eyecontact is a sign of attraction Me: Never makes eyecontact Him: Wants to be around them Me: Wants to be as far as possible Him: Being around them makes you happy Me: No, it makes me regret all my life decisions
Mann mistakely pressed this and tbh everyone sweats around me 💀 you know I always noticed people get restless when they see me, and thanks for this information cause I has social anxiety and noe I'm about to get paranoia, just hope everyone supports one another and loves themselves and the others unconditionally"
This what people who have poor characters say. When they get old and alone, they learn that they should have developed their character rather than buying everything. There is a famous quote, "money? You can't take it with you when you die."
When a guy is interested, they touch you. I'm not talking about in a disgusting way, but like your arm, your shoulder, whatever. There's a physical component there. And let me tell you, guys, not a fan of it. Not because I'm thinking of it in a disgusting way, but because, maybe this is just me, I don't like people touching me, especially if I barely know you. Though to be fair, I don't think the guys realize they're doing it.
I'm not beautiful I got told that I am ugly and my eyes are scary. So I don't give my eye contact to anyone. But I wish those who find their soulmate who see attractive.
I am a female. I enjoy eating alone while observing others. I am confident and comfortable in my own skin. I walk into the room full of people without any worries.
You missed something out; whenever I see a man that I find attractive, my eyes feel really funny. I didn’t know why this was, until I saw a documentary once, which pointed out that when someone looks at someone they find desirable (for some reason, this happens more in women’s eyes than men’s apparently) their pupils dilate - which means simply, what they are seeing looks good to them! Now I’ve discovered that every time I see a guy I'm attracted to, I now know why my eyes feel funny/strange; my pupils are dilating. This Documentary said one of the easiest ways a man can tell if a woman fancies him, is looking to see if her pupils are dilated - it happens EVERY time - you can’t control it! Unlike men; when they like women it RARELY happens apparently. (I guess other things might dilate instead! - LOL)
great & educative! my husband certainly loves me... at least thx to natural drops spanish fly i bought for myself. just wanted to try bc i wanted my husband to like my energy in bed. actaully i didn't epxtect anything but the opposite came true
As someone who was in love with someone, it is painful when they left me for someone else. I depended on that person for my happiness but I shouldn’t bc how am I supposed to be happy with anyone if I’m not happy with myself? now that I’m alone tho and learning to love myself, getting used to being alone and love being alone, it’s very peaceful
Introverted person may act differently to an extroverted person but in my experience eye contact is key, even if you hesitate or feel to nervous to meet their gaze once you do its alllll over red rovver lol. ❤
Pupils dilate when they look at you. ... Blushing and flushed skin. ... Tonal voice changes. Open body language. ... Leaning closer to you. ... Mirroring your behavior. ... Sneaky gestures to enhance their appearance. ... Increase in body temperature
Unconscious alteration: I change the way I look depending on a number of factors. Neurodivergent: prolonged eye contact, drawn to new people and interesting people. Neither means attraction. Blushing: I blush when a dog licks me. It’s something some of us do because we feel everything intensely, even slight embarrassment (personal or empathized) can also make me turn beet red. Voice pitch: changes depending on what I think will sound more agreeable. As a whole I find I raise my pitch with new people and in professional settings to help me sound less intimidating. Hyperhydrosis: I swear when I stand under a light too long. So my glow is likely due to environmental factors, not my attraction to you. Self-soothing behaviors: diagnosed with GAD and PTSD so I’m constantly self-soothing. I apologize to any and all persons who have been mislead by my behaviors. I was NOT AWARE.
The level of “oof” and awkwardly high feeling of “omg this all sounds so familiar….(20 secs later while reading it hits me) oh shit, this is an almost perfect description/breakdown of myself” lmfao 😂 I feel personally victimized by your TH-cam comment LOL 😂
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
She's come to the realization that you're more than the impression she got at first and now her interest is really peaking and she wants your attention so you will ask her out and something more may develop KNOWING HOW WOMEN ARE
A shy person may act like they don't like you, like avoiding looking right at you. So, not everybody acts the same way in the same situations.
I’ve heard that particularly with a Scorpio, their moods might fluctuate, when they’re attracted to you as, particularly male Scorpios are uncomfortable with thinking about what to do with it. While I experienced this, I think, with a Scorpio boss I used to work for, I don’t entirely rely upon someone’s zodiac sign. There were also a few things at play. Being a married boss, attracted to one of your employees and being of two different races can spell disaster, in the workplace. Nothing ever happened and I would’ve never let it, although I’d long been attracted to him. But, not everything goes according to the videos.
In fact, in a couple of instances, I’ve seen men who’s voice raise an octave, when they’re talking to a woman they’re attracted to.
I'm too shy of a person.
But sometimes when I'm attracted to someone my confidence in my self skyrocketed such as my posture and my gaze becomes like very manly.
My only concern is I'm to shy to start a conversation even if the other paerson shows interest me.haizz
For real! That’s me
@@mr.j3371 It's me too, I had been with an extrovert for a long time when I was younger, but as we got older, it just had went south because of opposite personalities. He wanted to be out among people, and I wanted to relax at home once the day was ending. Physical attraction is what brought us together, and being fixed up by a common friend. I'm an introvert who is shy, so, I am actually fine without anybody other than friends and family around me. Many people my age still want to be with a partner, but I am just over it.
But hopefully anyone who wants a compatible partner can find the right person for them. Just make sure they are good to you and will not turn out to be a jerk.
If a person is lonely, they might overlook some bad traits in a person so they aren't alone anymore. I did that several years ago. It didn't last long. You live and learn.
that's me. I avoid hahhahaha
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
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Hey YOU, beautiful person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
Same to me to you and others who are on their grind stay positive and bless stay focus.
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I open my mouth and I scare women away. I think I did it again tonight. I feel like shit since 11.30 and I can't sleep because of it. I hate talking about myself. I just want to be adored. I wish I knew what that felt like. The older I get the harder it gets. Sick of it...
Thank you for that
Moral lesson: Just be yourself and keep going
Unless you are Hannibal Lector 😂
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It's not always easy to tell what someone's intentions are. You might think that a person is just being friendly, but then out of nowhere they start doing some weird things and it can be really confusing.
This thing happens to me 😬
Also I have seen a person on an off their confused how they feel about you, not sure if they are really in to you, and maybe they are in to you. I hope this makes sense.
I have a good female friend who gives me long, squeezing hugs and calls me her "boyfriend" sometimes. She also randomly says "I love you". You're right, prob just being friendly, shame she doesn't like me
@@SStupendous thats so sociopathic
@@amarson2322 That's so dull-headed to not understand obvious sarcasm
It's always such a good feeling when you meet someone that you share a mutual attraction with. Knowing they are thinking of you.
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The meating is usually better than having.
They're attracted to you:
1. They make themselves look more attractive & behave in pleasing ways. 2. They're looking at you and trying not to stare, but making eye contact. 3. Men lower their voice and women change their voice. 4. They find opportunities to physically get close to you. 5. They glow/sweat. 6. They soothe themselves; rub hands together, etc. 7. They want romantic physical contact; hug. 8. They blush, open eyes wide or flutter their eyelashes. 9. They can't focus. 10. They laugh when you laugh and smile when you smile, etc.
True!
They also raise their eyebrows very quickly when they walk by you, and smile.
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Dont forget that prolonged eye contact might also be indicative of hostility instead of attraction. I made the error of confusing the two. Very interesting experience...
Lmao
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What was the experience?😅
@@patty8644 yes l think lm feeling good
@@patty8644 Imagine hitting on someone you like a lot thinking you have an opening only to discover she actively despise and dislike you. It's a roller coaster of emotions going straight to hell. Dating made me misanthrope and hyper vigilant tbh.
I'm very strange when I become attracted to someone. The more attracted I am, the more distant I become and the more I avoid them. I can't even make eye contact. Not very friendly, I know. It's just how I am.
Mel C, fear of rejection can make a person behave that way.
Me too and I don't know how to fix it
@@mariepetterson7281 how an avoident person like this behave in "romantic" relationships where there's Intimacy and opening up? It's hard
Do things that are uncomfortable everyday eventually you get comfortable with the uncomfortable
I think you have avoidant attachment style
*10 things people do when they’re attracted to you*
0:13 - Unconscious alteration
1:03 - Behind the eyes
2:36 - Vocal variance
3:37 - Romantic gravity
5:01 - The golden glow
6:08 - Comforting cues
6:47 - Dynamite contact
8:08 - Biological attraction
9:10 - Lack of focus
10:01 - Reflective happiness
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I found these things to be true in new friendships as well. People who are interested in becoming friends will exhibit a lot of the same behavior.
That's really true
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Me and this girl at my church are attracted to each other. Meaning, we both share the same signs listed in this video. It’s really great when the feeling is mutual and now we can enjoy getting to know each other better over time.
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He stared at me...it definitely got my attention. He was not subtle. It was enough for us to introduce ourselves and he bought me a drink. The next time I saw him at the same restaurant, I was ascending the stairs to use the restroom. I figured he would be watching my figure in my dress from the bottom of the staircase, which I am sure he was, but he wasn't staring this time. It was a gaze. I looked back and his focus never wavered. I reached the top of the stairs and looked again. That gaze. It was dreamy. I have never experienced that before. I didn't feel like a piece of meat. A connection had been established in that moment. We were together for less than a week. Sadly, he passed away. I was never able to see what we could have been, but I will NEVER forget that man. Rest in paradise.
@Om Rohit Thank you, don't be sad. I was happy to have ever met him. I never met anyone like him before. I'm not 100% sure but I think he was my twin flame.
You sound like an INFP. Betting you day dreamed about experiences and conversations you never had with this man. His death allowed these unchecked imaginations to become idealized. It's the unrequited love scenario INFP's can only experience in their imaginations but never in real life.
The Perfect Love you seek can only be found in a trust/faith relationship woth Christ.
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I have a hard time making eye contact with men I find very attractive, I have to force myself to be comfortable with it, and not avoid meeting his gaze. On the flip side, I come off as very confident and self assured, but around men I’m strongly attracted to, it is rough!
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@@TheConspiredJesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
My crush is shy, but after a long time of getting to know each other, he’s becoming more comfortable. There’s still that awkwardness between us, but we make frequent eye contact and smile at each other
Same. Lol. It’s nice to take things slow. Especially when people are slow to trust others
Girls can have crush? 😮
@@maiwandhimmat4808Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
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The voice deepening, puffing chest out and smile/laughing when they see you are all that I strongly concur on. I’ve literally never thought of these three things and it’s like a lightbulb went off! Wow. So true.
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if you like a person don't tell no one about it, try to think less about the person and keep it secret and that person will be yours
Wow thats so amazingly wonderful..
a joke I suppose... Since I like someone already for 2 years but it's my secret so she'll never be mine since we're both shy... I try to think less but the longer I try it to hide the more I think about her😅
@@willemvandenelzen3656 Just talk to her. Then you can find out if she actually likes you back, or if you can save some time and just move on.
@@jacealbine In the meantime I have decided to just move on😁
If u love somebody go ahead and don't think too much. Go with the flow... No matter the outcome, u won't die lol !
I like your comment dude very realistic lol
Ok, but what if the nervousness causes you to have a panic attack which leads to a heart attack and you do end up dying?
Then what?
The worst thing she can say is: No!
(Ewwww) emotional damage
i will xD
I like all of these tips. My issue is that nobody is really connecting in real life in the physical world. Meeting people online or on dating apps is zero body language and you don't even know if the person really exists.
I’m an introverted guy, and when I have a crush on a girl I can’t look her in the eyes when I’m speaking but when she’s speaking I fixate my gaze on her eyes. Also, I act like I don’t care if I see her or not, but I’m actually craving for any interation with her every second of everyday. Last but not least, I make sure myself look beyond presentable when I know I’m definitly gonna see this girl that day.
I’m the same way with my crush 😂
I am the same, but I am a girl. My crush is shy as well. But I am not sure is it because he has a crush too or just he behaves like this normally.
Advice -please try to show her that you like her ,so she won't be confused.
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@@lessismore8533Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
Great content, keep it up!
Definitely taking notes for the next time I'm out and about
yeah me too, i like to surprise women on bike trails
@@swagking2674 purple shirted eye stabber ??
Earn well..nothing matters..money matters...
I had a doctor that acted like this. He was super sweet 😍😍😍😍
I had just got done working out from the gym and was in Target still wearing my workout outfit. I went up to this girl to ask where the band aids were and I remembered her face just lit up. Her pupils were dilated and she had a smile on her face.
Very good in this modern world we all need help
lol bruh…same story for me, but I was in an old navy. She came up to me, and she was spitting game on me. A memory I’ll probably never forget
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@@iestrrguthrie4620Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
I met a girl, and I love everything about her, her voice, and all her traits come together to make her perfect 🥰
Just wait.
Ingest "red pill content"
Your heart will be hurt bad bro😔
The only thing to impress somebody is to be ourselves
Or rich.
There are others ways tho but yah that’s the best way
I believe not.
Or attractive
Or intelligent.
I'm freaking out because I have a freaking horrible crush on my Muay Thai teacher. I have been single for 2 years already and haven't been too interested in men, let alone sex. I have been taking classes for 2 months already and something sparked a couple of weeks ago and now I have the hots for this guy, 7 years younger than me, when I usually like guys older than me. He is tall, has a ton of tattoos is strong and fit, AND he is gentle, which is one of the most attractive qualities I like in men. I love guys who are both strong and gentle. We haven't been able to talk much, but I would love to get to see if I like his personality as I like his looks. The other day we had a grappling class and we were 3 girls and 4 guys. We 3 girls trained together, but he showed all the moves we had to do on me. We shared some laughs and he seemed very comfy being physically close to me, and when I realized I felt really comfy and excited about being that close, I realized that I like him. A lot. I think I'm reading in between lines too hard but I really like him. I'm pretty shy and have never confessed before but I don't know how long I will be able to hold this in. With almost 30 years of existence, it seems I should grow a pair of ovaries already and just casually tell him I like him and that I just wanted to be honest with myself and say it to see what happens. If something happens, great, if not, that's good too, at least I tried. But I'm AFRAID. So yeah, that's my story. It's basically my first time liking someone physically this badly since I'm a demisexual, so processing this is tough for me and I don't completely understand it. I have only had 2 other relationships and no hookups, so my expertise is quite limited and I'm used to either not saying shit or being blunt about my feelings and putting them out there when I feel safe enough to be honest.
Okay, I just wrote a whole novel about this but it's letting me get it out of my chest. I'm scared of the attraction I'm feeling due to my shyness and how strongly attracted I feel to him, not knowing if it is him or 2 years of not being interested in building a relationship with no one but myself.
I'm in my early 20s, and with fair warning, my advice might be wrong. I share a similar flipped experience. He was my prof, but I was the younger one, and we had a slightly more significant age gap than you two. (don't worry, it was not illegal) I am an awkward, introverted girl. At the time, I was also very naive and felt that attraction instantly. If I learned anything from my terrible three-year crush on my prof is if you can't be on similar levels with each other and be open, then don't proceed. In my experience, I felt too scared to do anything, so I never acted on it, and that is probably best. If I had, he would have had to adult for the both of us, which is not appealing nor right. However, the guy you are talking about might be mature enough for you and vice versa. So if he reciprocates your feelings and your maturity levels match enough, then it's excellent! Give it a go, enjoy, live your best lives, respectfully. If not, then it's best not to get too serious! Don't get me wrong. Seven years gap isn't that much AT ALL, especially the older the pair are.
23 and 30 are not old ages either. Again, the thing is, some people are mature beyond their years while others are still figuring out the basics well into their 30s, etc. (Not here to judge anyone)It will all depend on the individual and their journey. Know what you are looking for as well. Is it passion and not severe, or do you want to see if your morals line up and you'd be good friends as well as something romantic long-term? I like what you said about taking it slow and getting to know his personality a bit more before making significant decisions if neither of you wishes to be overwhelmed or make conclusions you regret. I agree with your other idea too. Ask/share when you think you are ready not to have that regret or too much built-up tension. That's all the advice I can think of. I hope this was helpful and not misguiding! I wish you two the best! :D
Careful, it might end up being your worst 💔 ever
@@Emily-sf8wz Thank you for this reply! Times has passed and some things have happened but nothing romantic. I'm pretty much clueless jaja He has stayed to sleep at my house (in my bedroom), given me massages (on my bed), cooked with me lunch, we have had breakfast. All those times I couldn't tell if he was pursuing something more or if it was just normal friendly activities... although there are some things I personally wouldn't do with a guy I just considered my friend. But we don't talk about it. Since a couple of days ago, he has stopped doing these things with me, and I don't know if it is because he is just busy all of the sudden or because he thinks I'm not interested and don't want to put his hopes up anymore. I have concluded I'm not interested in a relationship at the moment because I want to invest in me and myself only, but I would like to have a friend with benefits since I have never had one and I feel very comfy with him. So I might just pop the question and see if he would like that too, but damn, it's hard! I'm glad you decided to not cross the line with your professor, that can be a bumpy road when you are in a strict environment such as school.
Quit dissecting so much
and go for it!
Life is to damn short.
@@melyssarevilla1468Update please. Lol. Did yall hook up?
Im a nurse and looked into this nurses eyes and I told her that she was piercing my soul
The way you explaining this love story make me feel like i'm sitting next to my crush without seeing her, Thank you for all the motivational you have given us 🙏🏾 Well come the top think you are favourite channels love ✊🏾😘❤️
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Honestly take all these hints with a grain of huge salt because it seems I act this way with everyone, so someone with low self esteem may get the wrong message when I'm trying to be friendly, nothing morw.
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Ok this was good, but can you do one for older people 30 and over who want to take their time with new attractions compared to youthful attractions
You've explained why you'll never get it.
@@eddiethomasville3124 - You don't know because you aren't over 30.
@@kdphotos4691 go chase yourself
Don't change yourself to please another person.
We are all beautiful; put passion in your wants, be nice and protect yourself from abusers.
They can be very pretty but the devil in disguise.
If we are all beautiful, then no one is.
@@thefilmrookie3099 Exactly
@@thefilmrookie3099yah
Man I feel vulnerable and nervous regardless of who's eyes I'm looking into. Eye contact is freaking scary, who's with me?
Yep it makes my eyes go weird when I make eye contact with someone
Social anxiety
What if you try looking into your own eyes in the mirror? What do you feel? Who knows maybe you start doing that and looking into others eyes maybe easier
@@petersophic nah, I got the tism, it's the main thing I struggle to mask lmao. It at least gives people a good indicator that I'm neurodivergent right off the bat, haha.
@@eleanorsparks9503Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
There are definitely different voices that I really love. Like the way Kurt Cobain talks and his voice. I just really like it for some reason. Also, Billy Corgan. His voice is unique and I just really like it
I have a thing for certain types of voices too... sometimes that all it takes for me to be attracted to a guy. My ex had a real nice voice. Great singer too. I love Keanu Reeves voice and Johnny Depp...they could talk all day lol loved Robert Downey Jr's voice in Sherlock Holmes. Oh, and Jensen Ackles voice when he played the character Dean Winchester in Supernatural...does help they are all nice to look at too, not going to lie 😂
@@Kez5150Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
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If only it weren't about looks. If only people gave me a actual chance.
same here mate - I am the ugliest man alive
@@crazykatys77 exactly bro
Being to good looking can be tuff as well
Everyone has his own trait that make him special from another💜
It takes time as I am learning more and more everyday of life's balance of love and heart felt emotions.
Never ever experienced that stuff under any circumstances!
hate that i realised this person i liked showed signs of attraction to me years ago but i was too stupid, blind, and just avoidant bc scared of rejection... now im the one who's in love with them and finally matured enough to make a move but they've already moved on and not into relationships anymore :(
Sucks, huh? Trust, I'm right there w you, fam.
Uh, if someone’s legs are entangled with yours, there’s a very good likelihood that you already like each other. This is not typically something you do with strangers
I never look long in someone eyes , i feel its disrespectful . If someone looks long in my eyes i know they have a problem with me . Be careful with that
Iya pak, kuwi jeneng e pentelang penteleng
This only really applies somewhat if its the men staring eachother down. Every time a woman has looked at me in the eyes for a long time, they were interested in me or wanted to kiss. It's being vulnerable because the eyes are filled with ambiguity and wonder and a window to the soul. When men stare at other men in the eyes, that can mean they have a problem with you or are just trying to figure you out.
How is that disrespectful you need to look at that persons eyes when your talking to them if you don’t then that’s being rude
Bro got opps ☠️
I agree but not in all situations . Every situation can bi different or similar
Is it just me or did this thing read 10 things people do when. They are attracted to you but yet it continually says that you feel that you will do this when you are attracted to someone
I cannot notice his face bc we're in school and he never takes his mask off lmao
Working in a hospital is the same
your voice is very calm. I just felt like I want to sleep🥱
Not everyone is an anxious mess when they like someone dude chill. Some of these like glowing etc may just happen due to excitement.
Liked this one! Why didn't you upload yesterday?! I was waiting for it
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I puff out my chest while waiting for the transit when I find myself slouching. No frigging intentions....this is b s. 😄
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In my experience, a lot of men think you're attracted to them if you so much as smile at them!
stop smiling at strangers
That unfortunately means they think you look easy
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@@hyemuhyemu8221Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
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My crush checked all these boxes. I already knew he found me attractive, I just wanted to hear the validation. Lol
That was a great video, thank you very much!
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Probably the most accurate video on gemini men I've watch. Being a gemini man I wish my exs watched snd learned from this video. I would have married one of them for sure.
What to do when someone attracted to you but you aren't? Like how to decline thier offer politely
Run
Fart.
@@iamshadowbanned699 😭🤣 that would work
You gotta be honest. Appreciate their compliment, but say you just don't see them in that way & that they're a good friend.
If you string them along like a coward, it'll just make shit worse & they'll resent you because you weren't being honest with them.
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The Safeway young women and myself LOCKED eyes while I was looking at hers. The connection was obvious!
Is it possible to be attracted to many people at the same time? I mean, strong attraction as in the vid.
Yes it’s possible
Yep
Of course, it’s called being attracted to many people at the same time.
I don't know why I used to watch these types of videos.
It’s soooo difficult for me to keep eye contact because I have a lazy eye 😭
don't be sad - matters nothing
Wow, what an interesting video, I learnt alot from it
Just because I’m interested in someone doesn’t mean that I’m going to make eye contact. I’ve been interested and not made eye contact. Yes, I looked in his direction often and I wanted him to look my way. I tried to start up conversations with him. But, I would look away quickly… because I was shy. That has NOTHING to do with my intentions or my attraction to him!!! That part of this video is absolute bull dung.
Not to mention, men tend to think that if I have eye contact with them, that I am interested. When that is not what I am feeling at all. I hold eye contact with many people. Why do men feel this way? Women don’t.
The eye contact thing is true, but not all the time. There are definitely people (like me) who will purposely avoid eye contact because they're shy or anxious. I saw a video that said there are sometimes people who go out of their way to make it seem like they're not attracted to someone. But doing so often makes it even more obvious that you like them
It’s called a common denominator. You are an extraneous variable.
This is most helpful for get another person attraction good job
This is soo on time !
i used to get all of this as a less focus and determined younger man who was laid back and less responsible.
I NEEDED THIS
Same!!!
It won't help you.
I know people who give a hug purly on social base. It kind of depends on what hug. Some hug around randomly. And there are people who won't even touch the person they have a crush on, let go hugging them. So I don't understand where that info comes from.
I just figured out nobody likes me
😢😂
😂😂😂😂
I like you ;)
😂
You are wrong. I do…
Number 2 misses the point because the fact that fue to eye contact with another person you feel lovestruck etc., doesn't necessarily mean they feel the same
I think they’re assuming the other person holds your gaze for a long time, too. Most people that don’t like you will look away or make a face because wtf weird. But if we’re both staring into each other’s eyes, there’s a decent chance of mutual attraction. Maybe not lovestruck, but something could be there.
I stare at everybody 😂regardless of attraction… just checking out clothes shoes etc
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Him: Prolonged eyecontact is a sign of attraction
Me: Never makes eyecontact
Him: Wants to be around them
Me: Wants to be as far as possible
Him: Being around them makes you happy
Me: No, it makes me regret all my life decisions
Just watching this so I can avoid doing all of this with my crush.
Mann mistakely pressed this and tbh everyone sweats around me 💀 you know I always noticed people get restless when they see me, and thanks for this information cause I has social anxiety and noe I'm about to get paranoia, just hope everyone supports one another and loves themselves and the others unconditionally"
Nothing matters.
Money matters..if you have money ,looks doesn't matter..
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Sure it can
@@zoeymckeown3194
I’m not talking just surgery.
Not true. My x-boyfriend is a millionaire. I’m happy with my husband. My x-boyfriend was self-centered and shallow.
This what people who have poor characters say. When they get old and alone, they learn that they should have developed their character rather than buying everything. There is a famous quote, "money? You can't take it with you when you die."
If you flaunt money the only fish to take the bait Love the bait. Flaunt yourself as the bait.
Feel like a lot of people do these things even if they're not attracted
When a guy is interested, they touch you. I'm not talking about in a disgusting way, but like your arm, your shoulder, whatever. There's a physical component there.
And let me tell you, guys, not a fan of it. Not because I'm thinking of it in a disgusting way, but because, maybe this is just me, I don't like people touching me, especially if I barely know you. Though to be fair, I don't think the guys realize they're doing it.
Interesting. I actually never do that.
I was so shy towards my crush that I can't even look at him, now he thinks I hate him....
Me who can’t hold eye contact for even a second:🗿
I'm not beautiful I got told that I am ugly and my eyes are scary. So I don't give my eye contact to anyone. But I wish those who find their soulmate who see attractive.
oh every girl i talk to doesnt look me in the eyes:(
They feel awkward bc people who avoid eye contact are hiding love or lying
If they stare at your crotch that’s good too you stud you.
@@314Leothelion31 Bwahahahahahaha!!!!
maybe you are unknowingly looking too much at them and making them shy , means nothing . Most girls actually are hostile to true crushes
I am a female. I enjoy eating alone while observing others. I am confident and comfortable in my own skin. I walk into the room full of people without any worries.
Ma'am this is burger King.
I guess no one has ever been attracted to me ...oh well
Hahaha you Kool I'm sure...
You missed something out; whenever I see a man that I find attractive, my eyes feel really funny. I didn’t know why this was, until I saw a documentary once, which pointed out that when someone looks at someone they find desirable (for some reason, this happens more in women’s eyes than men’s apparently) their pupils dilate - which means simply, what they are seeing looks good to them! Now I’ve discovered that every time I see a guy I'm attracted to, I now know why my eyes feel funny/strange; my pupils are dilating. This Documentary said one of the easiest ways a man can tell if a woman fancies him, is looking to see if her pupils are dilated - it happens EVERY time - you can’t control it! Unlike men; when they like women it RARELY happens apparently. (I guess other things might dilate instead! - LOL)
I feel a girls right now is in love with me but coming out of dating someone I need rest don't you think so
Rest on her Love.
pov you're someone w/ anxiety and feel everyone is looking at u, and somehow this vid gave you a false little confidence
Okay, so what happens if everyone avoids eye contact at all costs? :)
I suck how do I know, my ex told me so.
this one girl was obsessed with me and she would never look at me, I think she was nervous. Consider that.
great & educative! my husband certainly loves me... at least thx to natural drops spanish fly i bought for myself. just wanted to try bc i wanted my husband to like my energy in bed. actaully i didn't epxtect anything but the opposite came true
damn why i hadn't hear of them before? these natural drops are life for me. my partner stopped saying i'm bad in bed !
As someone who was in love with someone, it is painful when they left me for someone else. I depended on that person for my happiness but I shouldn’t bc how am I supposed to be happy with anyone if I’m not happy with myself? now that I’m alone tho and learning to love myself, getting used to being alone and love being alone, it’s very peaceful
When I'm attracted to a woman, I give her a little attention, lock eyes a few times, then ignore the sh*t out of her.
😂😂
Soo unsurprisingly I’ve never seen a girl show any of these signs for me. Why am I not surprised.
Brilliant I know who I like
I watch these videos to do the opposite of what is advised, to ensure I stay single. Thank you so much! 😊 No Serial Killer.
If a girl is attracted to you- she asks to open a joint saving account with you
Lol. Not if she has 2 jobs of her own.
Thanks for sharing❤
My crush also does the same if this comment got 55 likes I would propose my crush
All things are right especially eye contact really good effort 👍
"For example men will stick out their chest in front of females they find attractive"
My mild kyphosis: "I said we gay today"
😆😆
Lol
Introverted person may act differently to an extroverted person but in my experience eye contact is key, even if you hesitate or feel to nervous to meet their gaze once you do its alllll over red rovver lol. ❤
10 things make normal people mentally sick…. Live your normal life
I'm just happy that I can make a serious, mysterious, and unsociable someone laugh. 😁
That's it!!! 😊
Pupils dilate when they look at you. ...
Blushing and flushed skin. ...
Tonal voice changes.
Open body language. ...
Leaning closer to you. ...
Mirroring your behavior. ...
Sneaky gestures to enhance their appearance. ...
Increase in body temperature
Unconscious alteration: I change the way I look depending on a number of factors.
Neurodivergent: prolonged eye contact, drawn to new people and interesting people. Neither means attraction.
Blushing: I blush when a dog licks me. It’s something some of us do because we feel everything intensely, even slight embarrassment (personal or empathized) can also make me turn beet red.
Voice pitch: changes depending on what I think will sound more agreeable. As a whole I find I raise my pitch with new people and in professional settings to help me sound less intimidating.
Hyperhydrosis: I swear when I stand under a light too long. So my glow is likely due to environmental factors, not my attraction to you.
Self-soothing behaviors: diagnosed with GAD and PTSD so I’m constantly self-soothing.
I apologize to any and all persons who have been mislead by my behaviors. I was NOT AWARE.
The level of “oof” and awkwardly high feeling of “omg this all sounds so familiar….(20 secs later while reading it hits me) oh shit, this is an almost perfect description/breakdown of myself” lmfao 😂 I feel personally victimized by your TH-cam comment LOL 😂
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
She's come to the realization that you're more than the impression she got at first and now her interest is really peaking and she wants your attention so you will ask her out and something more may develop KNOWING HOW WOMEN ARE
She's digging you now man.make a move before she cools off