I really want to know TH-cam’s algorithm for recommending this video to me because it is unlike anything I normally subscribe to. I think TH-cam must think I’m attractive 😂
You're fine as hell: 1. They assume your smart & successful. 2. They stare at you because you stand out in a crowd. 3. They can't take their eyes off you, look but turn their head in embarrassment, but then turn back. 4. They either love you or hate you because your beautiful. They're hot or cold. 5. They're happy just because of you and want to be in your presence. 6. They like how you express yourself. 7. They trust you. Strangers approach you from babies, the elderly, to animals. 8. They like your open mindedness and they feel heard. 9. Your smile is contagious and they compliment your smile. 10. You're confident, passionate & dedicated and people want to be around you.
I’ve noticed that since wearing a mask I get a lot less attention as most people have told me they love my smile although I don’t like my own smile I guess I’m a generally happy person & smile all the time Can’t wait to be done with these masks
4:52 Where are the people that don't think happiness affects beauty or attraction? Just look at the happiest woman in school, work, gym whatever place. She for sure is attractive. No matter how beautiful you are physically, if you are a moaner nobody is attracted by you. Great content, very valuable 🥰
This was an interesting break down. I struggled with self esteem for years and once I hit my glow up I found people acting “weird” around me🤣 this video pretty much sums it up I work at a gym and people stare A LOT. My co worker tripped over his own foot yesterday and all I did was wave lol I do intentionally try to positively impact others though ✊🏾🤍
I remember when I was younger I always got mad (daily) for people staring at me. My granny yelled at me and said “DID YOU EVER THINK THAT THEY STARE BECAUSE YOURE SO BEAUTIFUL???” I felt so stupid after that. Now when others stare I smile at them and they always smile back and sometimes we start a conversation. 🥰 I’m still annoyed but it’s ok. I’ve caught myself staring at beautiful people too. The difference is I always tell them they’re pretty/handsome.
I stare at beautiful people too but I’m too nervous to tell them it’s because they’re beautiful. I don’t have the social energy most of the time to talk to strangers. I’m constantly stressed out in public.
Unwanted attraction makes the ppl from the same sex as you dislike you...their spouses are often looking. So after this happens 1 or 2 times all of a sudden you aren't invited anymore or all of a sudden they don't want to hang out with you anymore. You will be sabotaged at every chance they get. sad but real
True I’ve had this happen where friends won’t want me around their husbands or significant others. I’m never interested in their guys anyways, I would never.
Maybe it’s because you assume their spouses are looking. If my partner’s friends were that arrogant, I definitely would frown on their relationship and the person’s character lol.
that point of being treated with supreme kindest or extreme rudeness is true. i've been connecting the dots lately and things are starting to make sense now. lol
I suppose it can have to do with leo's being kinda all out there, oftentimes liking the center of attention, making a show. It doesn't just have to be your sunsign, it can be another prominent placement in your chart. This can be either fun for people or a bit annoying, depending on their personality
Some folks are mean and cold Bcuz they’re envious also. Some folks will be attracted to you and be ok with it, but other folks will be attracted to you and resent the fact that you possess some qualities that they don’t think they have (or at times they’ll resent the fact that you’re getting more attention than they are from others). They’re usually the ones always making comparisons and competing with others and to them it’s like some win/lose game. Other times they will flatter you excessively, but underneath is the envy and resentment and at times intent to sabotage.
@@sandim.3844 Yes very often it’s sneaky with them being so fake with us but also it can come across as hot/cold or inconsistent (if you hang around them long enough Bcuz they can’t keep the facade up the whole time very often...the mask slips here and there and eventually falls off), but the cold part is the real truth and the fake warmth is just their lying mask. One huge mistake I used to make was falling for the charming mask every time they got “nice” again. But it never failed..they always went back to being cold and passively hateful. They also tend to lay it on thick once again when they see we are about to drop them.
@@goodenoughgirl8102 thanks for the heads up yeah I kind of see that now too but you know sometimes people are very talented and they have a lot of things going for them. I think he thinks I'm ugly because he said something about yeah you are ugly and I think why you know thanks for the Judgment you really don't know me you know the person that I wanted you to see and that's how you see me and that's how you're always going to see me but you can't get to know the real me because you don't take any chances. But calling somebody ugly directly indirectly low and immature and just pathetic and they don't give you credit for anything you've done to help them they just take and act like they don't have to give you anything back and that if you even asked it's cuz you're some kind of gold digger?
@@sandim.3844 Ugh. Yeah that’s just so rude. I’m pretty sure you’re not ugly at all tho. Sounds like someone threatened by your beauty and also someone who knows you can do better than the likes of their sorry ass...and if they don’t insult you, or can’t make you feel like it’s true....one day you may in fact just walk off from them and actually find better than the likes of them. They say things like that to us Bcuz they love to feed off how bad it makes us feel. They also want to keep us down on their low level. They don’t want to lose us Bcuz they’re parasites who always need a host to feed off of. Not Bcuz they “love” us. If we have too much self confidence and respect, they know we will one day leave people like them behind in the dust. It makes them feel like they have more power and power over how they think they can “make” us feel. But what I’ve noticed so much (after so many mistakes and trial and error) is that people project their own stuff onto others all the time. Most times when I felt ugly or untalented or unqualified or insecure, so many times it was another toxic person who projected that onto me. How people treat us is so much more about them and what all is in their messed up heads rather than any kind of actual facts. I’ve seen that too tho. They put on a good show with supposed charm or talent or clout etc. You’d think they’d be more secure since they seem to have all that going for them and seemingly way more than we have going for us. It’s often not logical at all tho. They’re full of shame and insecurity to their core and no matter how many compliments or trophies they get or no matter how high up the ladder they go....they’ll never find any security in it and will always be carrying that mindset around. It’s bcuz they’re full of holes and no matter how much gets poured into them, it all just runs right out of them pretty quickly and they’re always on the hunt for more. Some folks are bottomless pits and enough will never be enough for them. Plus they often feel so entitled. They lift one finger for us and they think we owe them platitudes and homage and service to their needs for the rest of our lives. They think Bcuz they put in maybe only two cents of effort that now they should reap the millions from us. Those effers imo cost way too much. They’re not worth two minutes of our time or one drop of our precious sweat. The type you describe tends to think they only have to show effort minimally and early on and then they think they should get to lay back and forever take take take just Bcuz they gave some tidbit early on. They suck. They seem to think once they’ve got someone hooked (thinking they’re this giving person) they lay back and proceed to take from someone else until they’re all spent up and become an empty shell. It is just a waste of our precious resources imo. Still I can see envy tho. They hate the fact that we aren’t so vapid and full of holes like they are and I think this is mostly what they envy or get jealous of. They want us to feel as bad as they do and they want us to bear that for them so they can keep pretending they’re not the truly fkd up ones. It’s truly an exchange. They take our good and give us their bad. Like some sickening osmosis sort of thing. Next thing ya know we start believing we’re the bad apples (or ugly or not worth a sh*t etc) and they’re some perfect gods of the universe. It’s a very sneaky mind fk for sure. They see it as them having to be “top dog” and holding all the power in the relationship and that’s about as unhealthy as it gets. If we have any power, they see it as taking from their top dog place. But right? Relationships aren’t about that tho. They’re about working together cooperatively. Not about competing for some top dog position with one being over another etc. They just don’t know how love works ya know. How you have to be willing to give it out before it can come back to you randomly in waves. They never get there Bcuz they only give to get and then they think that little bit is still too much. They often aren’t happy until someone is worshipping them like a god and then they’re only happy for a few minutes. They’ll need more and more until there isn’t any more to give and then they’ll go looking to get it from other people over and over and simply trash the used up person without a second thought...who already gave them all they had. They can’t ever seem to hang onto any real love and they’re always trying to snatch it up and steal it from everyone else. They’ll never be able to comprehend how it works so much the opposite of what they’re so often doing. Well that got long. But yes. I’m referring to mostly narcissists. I had to deal with this in my parents and then I had many repeat performances of this when I grew up. Then one day I stumbled on the info and saw how it fit them like a glove. But when you strip it down to the bare bones....they’re all pretty much the same. They just don’t have the capacity to love anyone really. They’re like toddlers in arrested development and they’re just trapped there forever. Not every jerk is a narcissist and they have varying degrees of the traits, but you can be sure that every narcissist is a jerk. My comment was more to do with people like my mother and jealous mean girls but there are Def some really feminine men out there too who do similar things and operate out of an envious and competitive mindset with the opposite gender. If they love anything, it’s the perks we have to offer them and they see us a objects to possess only. More like a tree to pick fruit from. They’ll never bother to water or care for that tree tho. They’ll just eat all the good fruit off of it until it runs down or dies. Then they’ll go looking to pick fruit off of other trees. All of it for them is only about their own constant consumption. They don’t really love us as a person tho. The irony is that they’ll prob get way more than their fair share in life, but yet they’ll never once be satisfied. Def it would suck more to be them imo Bcuz things like gratitude and contentment are gifts and great treasures. As much as they get, they’ll always be lacking until the day they die. That’s about the only poetic justice I’ve been able to get from the whole ordeal yet somehow that’s enough for me.
Got a double take from a 10 today. I used to be 50 pounds overweight, hated myself and had it drilled in my head that I was ugly and nobody would ever love me. Fellow TH-camr, you DO have the power to improve your looks and your life. Set goals and focus until you get what you want.
This video explains a lot. I often will get compliments from random strangers in cafes and other such places like “your dress is so beautiful” or “ I love your hair” and I only thought girls really gave out those compliments to girls, but a lot of guys say that to me. I was once walking around the supermarket looking for something and I just happened to look over at where the butchers place was and the young guy working there literally had his moth wide open while staring at me; I thought people only did that in cartoons and movies! And I’m a super shy girl who has never even held a guy’s hand (mostly because my 6 brothers constantly hover over me if they know a guy is near me😂) so I get really flustered and awkward when people do those kinds of things. Anyway, hope whoever actually reads this has a fantastic week and stays safe😊
@@flowerwitch4459 honest man, only people who themselves are cringe actually unironically use the word cringe, but anyway, I really do hope you have a fantastic rest of your week and that you stay safe😁
Not really. The most attractive people get the least amount of compliments because people assume they already know they're attractive and they don't want to give them that extra ego boost. If someone compliments you a lot it might mean they feel sorry for you so they try to find something attractive about you and they constantly point it out. I knew a fat unattractive girl who got complimented on her eyes all the time. People just wanted her to feel better about herself
This was really helpful because I don't fit any conventional type. These 10 points fit me very well. My positivity and upbeat outgoing personality make me seem much younger. At 75, I still attract attention even from younger men and yes, I get hostility too. I think for some, the hostility is a way of keeping distance. I had an uncle who was a decent man, would never do anything inappropriate but he always teased me about my "unattractive" features. I just realized it was because he was keeping himself from having improper thoughts as I was maturing into a young woman. I also think the hostility can be jealousy when it comes from a person who is the same sex as you.
Wow! Thank you so much Will Smith! The same wish is being sent back to you! My family and I adore you and the wonderful young man, father, husband, actor, business man, and role model that you are. Thank you so much for being you! God Bless You and Thank you again!
That's no.10 hit hard. The way you speaking, doing sth lead by your whole-hearted passion, glorious pride and full-concentration always glows in other's eyes.
A lot of people with high IQs are terrible investors because they’ve got terrible temperaments. You need to keep raw, irrational emotion under control.
@@sophiablakes I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do because i have no idea of how and where to invest in?
Does looks really matter. Well no For me it's all about leaving a good impression on someone. You may be the most good looking person in the room. But if that person isn't leaving any good impression. Do you still consider the person's attractive? Being attractive isn't about how beautiful you're face is but how act and how you treat yourself and other people around you. Sometimes we think. Just having a beautiful face all tooks to attract some one. If one person Doesn't get attracted to you doesn't means you're not beautiful. Maybe they have a preference that doesn't match yours. Don't invalidate yourself because you didn't win someone's attraction
Well damn this my life.....I've always felt I was average, I became aware by 22 that others see more because of these exact things. Im 40 and it still happens but I'm still average in my eyes. But I definitely don't make eye contact with men, especially in the work place because it just causes more issues.. you just learn what to do or not to do.I think real beauty comes from within, a great soul and using your gifts to fulfill your God given purpose 🙏 Now on that I'm a 10. So many times an attractive person opened their mouths and their looks went to a hard 4.5 because they weren't very good people 🤷🏾♀️💯❣ Thank u for validating my thoughts.
I avoid eye contact and sometimes they get aggressive and try to make you see them and force interactions. It gets really bad on jobs sometimes even though you try to just be cordial and keep it moving.
I think I we can have ranges (some days we are more attractive than other days). Like when we just work out and get a haircut vs. when we need a haircut, are tired and haven't in a while due to work, etc.
Haters gonna hate. But some people are just so darn attractive that they can't help but attract the attention of others, sometimes without even realizing it. It's not just about the way you look, either. You might be more attractive than you think you are based on these ten signs.
3 or 4 of them apply to me. Yet, I never saw people staring at me. But I also never looked for signs like that and additionally, I'm an Aspie, so my perception of the world is pretty much different from many others. I will, however, look out for signs like staring from now on. I'm simply intrigued...
@@sirbughunter i got autism and I catch people looking way too much. But I also look a lot at others too so I'm the one that somehow accidentally locks eyes with anyone, even a killer by accident lol
I have to say that this video was very informative and enlightening! I was always baffled why people either hated me or really liked me. Now I know, and knowing is half the battle! 💪🏽
If anything, this is showing me I am “decently attractive” and the reason why is because people don’t fall in love with me for my looks, they fall in love with my personality. I don’t get creepy stares in public, but when someone gets to know me, my personality is extremely likable and therefore makes me look attractive in their eyes. I know this because it’s happened to many guys I’ve talked to throughout my life.
There’s this girl in my class, whenever I first saw her I sat in a seat to which she was between me and the whiteboard, so whenever and if ever she would catch me staring, I would just glance past her at the board and begin writing what the teacher has written
I've had both sexes approach me and smile at me, and a few times would go out of their way and tell me that I'm beautiful. Sometimes, I'm a little shocked because I feel I don't always look my best. But I'm also usually a happy person so that makes me more attractive.
I disagree with the first one, I think it's actually the opposite. People usually assume that attractive people are not as smart, even though attractiveness doesn't have anything to do with intellect. And if a attractive person is smart people don't care about it, they just care about their looks.
i literally can't relate to any of these but whatever. *i* still think i am attractive. don't let a video tell you you're attractive or not attractive. it won't make you less insecure, and you'll only become confident if you believe in yourself and don't listen to other's opinions.
I literally quit my job because female coworkers can’t stand how attractive I was and how all the male coworkers wanted to talk to me (though some were nervous about talking to me). I felt singled out with all the attitude and outcast experience I was getting from the females, that in my opinion didn’t look all that attractive. And it didn’t help that my boyfriend of 4+ years (who is equally attractive and very masculine) also worked at the same place (a psychiatric hospital and no, we didn’t meet at work, we just ended up applying at the same hospital because I was the one that told him to apply because we needed male staff( worst decision ever) this females really came for me by actively trying to get my man’s attention or make it seem like something was going on all with the intention of breaking us up, but little did they know how strongly committed by man is to me. Long story short, we both left the company because it got too toxic and unhealthy. It felt like a battle field, constantly fighting someone new every day
@@ediomo.mp4 is that what it was? It was such a weird and uncomfortable vibe. They would do weird things to get at me like one female coworker bought my man a Christmas gift and didn’t get me anything, they would invite him to share on a lunch meal and not invite me, one even asked for his number because they wanted to talk to me about something like why don’t you just ask me for my number or ask him for my number if you were really that intimidated to talk to me. Just weird and bizarre behaviors like that. If I did something at work, they would go tell my man about it and my boyfriend would tell me everything because we were that close. It really felt like high school except this were hospital workers and I expected some level of professionalism. We just wanted to go to work and make some money and not deal with insecure bitches that can’t get a man on their own. I’m glad we both left that toxic place. We can finally live our lives in peace.
@@vivianglitter93 im so glad you now have peace. And yeah, that's what it is. Often it's spontaneous and without reason. I truly dont understand why people do it but its best not to worry yourself with those types of people.
Holy fuck either this Video is a confidence booster or they actually kinda hit the spot. I don't like the videos where its obvious points if you are 10/10 But some of these points actually connected to me and I completely understood why some of them didn't! Actually gave me a very good self reflection and way to gauge my own perception.
This might sound weird.. but I realized I was prettier than I thought when I admitted to a few friends that I was still a virgin in my mid 20s. I have never, in my entire life, thought I'd have to spend DAYS just to convince them that I simply wasn't lying, since they couldn't fathom the idea of someone attractive "like me" not having taken advantage, at least once, of multiple opportunities in my prime. Honestly, this could even be a test you can try if you really want to know how attractive others perceive you: Use the "I'm still a virgin" card. If they act in utter disbelief, yup, you're probably much more attractive than you thought. If barely or not at all, then you have your answer.
I told someone at my work that I never dated anyone because I never wanted to and she kept asking me about it for months cause she didn’t believe it… It was kinda weird honestly.
I'm a socially awkward guy. After watching this video I can't realize that when I'm with a group why people look at me because of Social awkwardness or attractiveness
Babies, animals, grown ups stare, I get annoyed by it thinking, "Why they staring at me" because for years I had low self esteem, maybe this is actually why they stare 😂
People ALWAYS assume that I have a boyfriend and when I tell them that I don’t they say I’m lying or they’re really shocked and asks why as if something is wrong... that’s really weird
I know I’m very attractive I knew when I been getting attention even when other women are around or walking by, I’m just attractive I attract without wanting to.
Wow, now i came to know why they behave like that “ ur video boosted my confidence nice to hear u actually i needed it . they always starring at me and go on checking what i am doing and how sometimes i found it so irritating but at the same time it feels so special Thanks to god ,structured me like that “
Whats pretty to one is not to another. Whats not pretty to one is to another and when I realized that, I wasn't as insecure as I once was, because as a kid/teen I felt like a troll.. but this was very informative. 😊
Sometimes I look very pretty sometimes I just don't. Being pretty could be tough at times to the point where sometimes I want to feel how it's like to have an average look. Guys with a date would stare at me and that makes me second guess loyalty and true love. I have little to no female real friends bc they tend to be very excluding, makes me feel lonely and invisible for no reason. Random men staring at me makes me feel unsafe when I'm alone. I tend to be very shy and unwelcoming as the effects. Because I'm used to being friends with males, I picked up some of their behaviors which could come out as rude for most females. The feeling of being stared at is annoying yet addictive depending on my moods. I'm afraid I'll get a guy who likes me for just the way I look. Despite of the downsides, if you could make use of the upsides, I think being pretty will boost you forward. It's a blessing if you can make it so, but don't force it as our personalities differ. Sometimes I remind myself to enjoy and be grateful of my appearance while it's still there. Just shine pretty people, regardless of how people treat you. ❤️ Just remember that nothing lasts forever. 🙂
Most people that stare at me, continue to stare even after I've caught them! Also I definitely feel like I piss people off and make people happy but nothing in between. I'm rarely regarded with neutral behavior unless someone is really used to me/known me for a long time. I get smiles and hateful stares at almost the same rate, and yes I can tell through the mask lol.
I'm not looking to be more attractive, I've found people seeming to approach me more often during the past couple years since I was made really unhappy. I'm getting better but have been so surprised and touched at all the kindness and friendliness I've received from people during the past two years.
People compliment my passion a lot. It's one of the things almost everyone who is around me long enough notices. I will admit though... I do get rude reactions from people sometimes. I had no idea it was because of attraction.
I am not beautiful, but I'm very open minded and respect others' perspectives on the world and their personal lives, so I think I am attractive. A friend told me when she first time saw me among many strangers, she just wanted to start conversation with me, she's a very shy and quiet person😂😂😂
Yes, in this video are some things about which it’s interesting to think. Thank you for the video. When you don’t have enough confident you could think that someone give you attention or look at you only in case of laughing at you. That’s really stupid🤦🏼♀️😂 happily teenage time went away😅 Here’re also some good tips to feel yourself attractive. I agree with them. It’s really important to be open, friendly and good person, I think. Also you should take care of the condition of your body💃🏼
I’ve always hatted when guys would try to talk to me or compliment me after literally throwing signs I am not interested, but after complaining so much about that to a couple of my friends they’d tell me I'm very attractive or I have a massive sex appeal.
It also depends on the crowd too u gotta read the room. Ik girls who wouldn’t even look my way and Ik chicks who would link with me rn if I asked them out. We’re all beautiful in are own ways 💯
Oh, come here :) *hugs virtually* *let's virtually go again* Feeling better? :) For real, though, if you experience depression you should consult a psychologist asap... This is nothing to joke about... I have 2 friends who are clinically depressed. They need structure and meds in their life. Otherwise they literally can't survive!
The best inspiring channel for the right way of thinking, I like it a lot, hello to everyone, English is not my first language, but I adore this language and I benefit a lot from you, thanks for the efforts🙏🏻We are a long time subscriber and always hit the like button, would you please list the points of all the content in the comments box! Because it is really useful for us who have English as their second language
When i am out and about in public people just walk up to me and engage me in friendly conversation or if we are in close proximity. I just assumed that i have a friendly face and approachable energy. i've had people tell me about their entire life history....lol
I think you nailed it with the energy part. I believe it's deeper than physical appearance in some cases. Some people will just gravitate toward you. Doesn't hurt to be easy on the eyes though.
This video is all about me, and am happy I found more about what people think of me and each time am around people I get noticed so quickly and I make people laugh.😀
I feel like I fit the bill on the ones that are internal, like the passionate and a great listener (from what I've been told). I get a lot of superficial compliments too but idk, I can still never actually land the people I'm attracted to so it feels like people lie to me lol.
I really want to know TH-cam’s algorithm for recommending this video to me because it is unlike anything I normally subscribe to. I think TH-cam must think I’m attractive 😂
Same cus i was like....okay...thank you???
i was literally just thinkin this at least TH-cam knows 😂
Word 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Eggggzactly lol
Girl that’s what I was just thinking .
Wow- this video just confirmed that I’m not as attractive as I thought I was. 😂😂😂
LOL! I had the same reaction! Fortunately, like you, I also laughed and decided I really didn’t care 😁
Lmao SAME! Literally non of this applies to me😂😂 we basic hahaha
HAHA SAME 😭👍
LMAOOOO
Lol same I was laughing at this video, thanks for confirming what I always thought 😂
I always think when someone stares at me it’s cause I’m ugly
😂😂😂 you never know
I think u r really attractive that's the reason i guess
me too lolol
This happens at the gym. From guys and girls. On multiple occasions, by the SAME people!!!!
@@whatareyousaying339 omg same here. Am i hot & attractive or do i look like an absolute fool rn doing these bicep curls?! 😂
You're fine as hell:
1. They assume your smart & successful. 2. They stare at you because you stand out in a crowd. 3. They can't take their eyes off you, look but turn their head in embarrassment, but then turn back. 4. They either love you or hate you because your beautiful. They're hot or cold. 5. They're happy just because of you and want to be in your presence. 6. They like how you express yourself. 7. They trust you. Strangers approach you from babies, the elderly, to animals. 8. They like your open mindedness and they feel heard. 9. Your smile is contagious and they compliment your smile. 10. You're confident, passionate & dedicated and people want to be around you.
True king
Thank you for listing all the qualities here, I benefited a lot from that, greetings to all followers from the Middle East
No one:
Number 4: Don't hate me 'cuz I'm beautiful!
You are an amazing person
I guess I'm not attractive.
if you ever get bullied dont forget: you look 1000000x better than the bully, the bully got a bad hairline
Hahahahahahahaha
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Idk man I have a widows peak I might be worse
😌def u r a a threat to them.
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attractive assumptions - 0:15
the attention magnet - 0:59
the double take - 2:05
temperamental behavior - 3:39
radiating happiness - 4:45
honest expression - 6:00
unwanted attention - 7:00
opening your mind - 8:06
a contagious smile - 9:01
positive passion - 9:47
Thanks!
Wow that was really nice of u thank you 🤍
People like you deserve the world.
I’ve noticed that since wearing a mask I get a lot less attention as most people have told me they love my smile although I don’t like my own smile I guess I’m a generally happy person & smile all the time
Can’t wait to be done with these masks
Thank youuu
Okay. thank you for making it more clear how I am not an attractive person 😂😂
Me to man me too
Fr 😂😂😂
You know
lol damm
you are an attractive person
4:52 Where are the people that don't think happiness affects beauty or attraction? Just look at the happiest woman in school, work, gym whatever place. She for sure is attractive. No matter how beautiful you are physically, if you are a moaner nobody is attracted by you.
Great content, very valuable 🥰
Indeed. Looks may pique my interest but they don't hold my attention.
@@Niko-ms5op Same. I feel this statement on a spiritual level. lol
This was an interesting break down. I struggled with self esteem for years and once I hit my glow up I found people acting “weird” around me🤣 this video pretty much sums it up I work at a gym and people stare A LOT. My co worker tripped over his own foot yesterday and all I did was wave lol I do intentionally try to positively impact others though ✊🏾🤍
This made my day 😆😆😆😆👍👍
Lol😂
Same bro, people out here looking like the Elmo meme template when they stare at me then they look away when I look back 😂😂
Same story here! Nice reflection 👏🏾
Sometimes I really wonder whether I really am that attractive to the point that they stare like that. I look in the mirror like "nah bruh" lol
I remember when I was younger I always got mad (daily) for people staring at me. My granny yelled at me and said “DID YOU EVER THINK THAT THEY STARE BECAUSE YOURE SO BEAUTIFUL???” I felt so stupid after that. Now when others stare I smile at them and they always smile back and sometimes we start a conversation. 🥰 I’m still annoyed but it’s ok. I’ve caught myself staring at beautiful people too. The difference is I always tell them they’re pretty/handsome.
One time I caught a beautiful woman staring at me and I stared back. :)
I stare at beautiful people too but I’m too nervous to tell them it’s because they’re beautiful. I don’t have the social energy most of the time to talk to strangers. I’m constantly stressed out in public.
@@bastran767 I’ve met allot of people that way. I’m also an extrovert though so I understand.
You almost think there's something wrong with you. Maybe your dressing or posture. But it never crosses your mind they're simply admiring you.
I'm not impressed with beauty because it's just an accident of nature. Beautiful people aren't special.
Unwanted attraction makes the ppl from the same sex as you dislike you...their spouses are often looking. So after this happens 1 or 2 times all of a sudden you aren't invited anymore or all of a sudden they don't want to hang out with you anymore. You will be sabotaged at every chance they get. sad but real
No one talks about this :( thank you
I've never found a comment more relatable to me and my life. Sad,but definitely REAL.
Very true, I have experience the same😞
True I’ve had this happen where friends won’t want me around their husbands or significant others. I’m never interested in their guys anyways, I would never.
Maybe it’s because you assume their spouses are looking. If my partner’s friends were that arrogant, I definitely would frown on their relationship and the person’s character lol.
that point of being treated with supreme kindest or extreme rudeness is true. i've been connecting the dots lately and things are starting to make sense now. lol
I had that problem when I was younger but I definitely wasn't attractive.
This has literally changed my life !!!
People have been weird towards me when I wanted to be friends. The polarizing behavior , wow!
Are you a fire sign like Leo ?
@@rofayy7650 the polarizing behavior is all too real for me too. I'm a Leo and never correlated the two. What does being a Leo have to do with it?
I suppose it can have to do with leo's being kinda all out there, oftentimes liking the center of attention, making a show. It doesn't just have to be your sunsign, it can be another prominent placement in your chart. This can be either fun for people or a bit annoying, depending on their personality
@@hiyou948 I personally don't like to be the center of attention so I don't know what it could be.
Girl you're pretty !
Some folks are mean and cold Bcuz they’re envious also. Some folks will be attracted to you and be ok with it, but other folks will be attracted to you and resent the fact that you possess some qualities that they don’t think they have (or at times they’ll resent the fact that you’re getting more attention than they are from others). They’re usually the ones always making comparisons and competing with others and to them it’s like some win/lose game. Other times they will flatter you excessively, but underneath is the envy and resentment and at times intent to sabotage.
I agree with the latter lots of haters to go around 😉
@@sandim.3844 Yes very often it’s sneaky with them being so fake with us but also it can come across as hot/cold or inconsistent (if you hang around them long enough Bcuz they can’t keep the facade up the whole time very often...the mask slips here and there and eventually falls off), but the cold part is the real truth and the fake warmth is just their lying mask. One huge mistake I used to make was falling for the charming mask every time they got “nice” again. But it never failed..they always went back to being cold and passively hateful. They also tend to lay it on thick once again when they see we are about to drop them.
Preach sis. Preach!
@@goodenoughgirl8102 thanks for the heads up yeah I kind of see that now too but you know sometimes people are very talented and they have a lot of things going for them. I think he thinks I'm ugly because he said something about yeah you are ugly and I think why you know thanks for the Judgment you really don't know me you know the person that I wanted you to see and that's how you see me and that's how you're always going to see me but you can't get to know the real me because you don't take any chances. But calling somebody ugly directly indirectly low and immature and just pathetic and they don't give you credit for anything you've done to help them they just take and act like they don't have to give you anything back and that if you even asked it's cuz you're some kind of gold digger?
@@sandim.3844 Ugh. Yeah that’s just so rude. I’m pretty sure you’re not ugly at all tho. Sounds like someone threatened by your beauty and also someone who knows you can do better than the likes of their sorry ass...and if they don’t insult you, or can’t make you feel like it’s true....one day you may in fact just walk off from them and actually find better than the likes of them. They say things like that to us Bcuz they love to feed off how bad it makes us feel. They also want to keep us down on their low level. They don’t want to lose us Bcuz they’re parasites who always need a host to feed off of. Not Bcuz they “love” us. If we have too much self confidence and respect, they know we will one day leave people like them behind in the dust. It makes them feel like they have more power and power over how they think they can “make” us feel. But what I’ve noticed so much (after so many mistakes and trial and error) is that people project their own stuff onto others all the time. Most times when I felt ugly or untalented or unqualified or insecure, so many times it was another toxic person who projected that onto me. How people treat us is so much more about them and what all is in their messed up heads rather than any kind of actual facts. I’ve seen that too tho. They put on a good show with supposed charm or talent or clout etc. You’d think they’d be more secure since they seem to have all that going for them and seemingly way more than we have going for us. It’s often not logical at all tho. They’re full of shame and insecurity to their core and no matter how many compliments or trophies they get or no matter how high up the ladder they go....they’ll never find any security in it and will always be carrying that mindset around. It’s bcuz they’re full of holes and no matter how much gets poured into them, it all just runs right out of them pretty quickly and they’re always on the hunt for more. Some folks are bottomless pits and enough will never be enough for them. Plus they often feel so entitled. They lift one finger for us and they think we owe them platitudes and homage and service to their needs for the rest of our lives. They think Bcuz they put in maybe only two cents of effort that now they should reap the millions from us. Those effers imo cost way too much. They’re not worth two minutes of our time or one drop of our precious sweat.
The type you describe tends to think they only have to show effort minimally and early on and then they think they should get to lay back and forever take take take just Bcuz they gave some tidbit early on. They suck. They seem to think once they’ve got someone hooked (thinking they’re this giving person) they lay back and proceed to take from someone else until they’re all spent up and become an empty shell. It is just a waste of our precious resources imo. Still I can see envy tho. They hate the fact that we aren’t so vapid and full of holes like they are and I think this is mostly what they envy or get jealous of. They want us to feel as bad as they do and they want us to bear that for them so they can keep pretending they’re not the truly fkd up ones. It’s truly an exchange. They take our good and give us their bad. Like some sickening osmosis sort of thing. Next thing ya know we start believing we’re the bad apples (or ugly or not worth a sh*t etc) and they’re some perfect gods of the universe. It’s a very sneaky mind fk for sure. They see it as them having to be “top dog” and holding all the power in the relationship and that’s about as unhealthy as it gets. If we have any power, they see it as taking from their top dog place. But right? Relationships aren’t about that tho. They’re about working together cooperatively. Not about competing for some top dog position with one being over another etc.
They just don’t know how love works ya know. How you have to be willing to give it out before it can come back to you randomly in waves. They never get there Bcuz they only give to get and then they think that little bit is still too much. They often aren’t happy until someone is worshipping them like a god and then they’re only happy for a few minutes. They’ll need more and more until there isn’t any more to give and then they’ll go looking to get it from other people over and over and simply trash the used up person without a second thought...who already gave them all they had. They can’t ever seem to hang onto any real love and they’re always trying to snatch it up and steal it from everyone else. They’ll never be able to comprehend how it works so much the opposite of what they’re so often doing. Well that got long. But yes. I’m referring to mostly narcissists. I had to deal with this in my parents and then I had many repeat performances of this when I grew up. Then one day I stumbled on the info and saw how it fit them like a glove. But when you strip it down to the bare bones....they’re all pretty much the same. They just don’t have the capacity to love anyone really. They’re like toddlers in arrested development and they’re just trapped there forever. Not every jerk is a narcissist and they have varying degrees of the traits, but you can be sure that every narcissist is a jerk.
My comment was more to do with people like my mother and jealous mean girls but there are Def some really feminine men out there too who do similar things and operate out of an envious and competitive mindset with the opposite gender. If they love anything, it’s the perks we have to offer them and they see us a objects to possess only. More like a tree to pick fruit from. They’ll never bother to water or care for that tree tho. They’ll just eat all the good fruit off of it until it runs down or dies. Then they’ll go looking to pick fruit off of other trees. All of it for them is only about their own constant consumption. They don’t really love us as a person tho. The irony is that they’ll prob get way more than their fair share in life, but yet they’ll never once be satisfied. Def it would suck more to be them imo Bcuz things like gratitude and contentment are gifts and great treasures. As much as they get, they’ll always be lacking until the day they die. That’s about the only poetic justice I’ve been able to get from the whole ordeal yet somehow that’s enough for me.
Got a double take from a 10 today. I used to be 50 pounds overweight, hated myself and had it drilled in my head that I was ugly and nobody would ever love me. Fellow TH-camr, you DO have the power to improve your looks and your life. Set goals and focus until you get what you want.
I love that you have a black woman in the thumbnail!
Thats what I said... yes!👍
Black women are works of art tbh
I was looking for a comment like this. She looks so gorgeous!
It's just a cartoon lol
Of course! I find it so amazing that basically every black woman I’ve ever seen if so dang beautiful!😍
People staring or looking at me all the time I always j think I look like a weirdo or something 🤣
I feel like that too, Jasper !!!!!🤣
ppl always looking at me 😭
Same here !!
My brain when they stare :
"Bro, you must be doing something wrong"
Same😂
This video explains a lot. I often will get compliments from random strangers in cafes and other such places like “your dress is so beautiful” or “ I love your hair” and I only thought girls really gave out those compliments to girls, but a lot of guys say that to me. I was once walking around the supermarket looking for something and I just happened to look over at where the butchers place was and the young guy working there literally had his moth wide open while staring at me; I thought people only did that in cartoons and movies! And I’m a super shy girl who has never even held a guy’s hand (mostly because my 6 brothers constantly hover over me if they know a guy is near me😂) so I get really flustered and awkward when people do those kinds of things. Anyway, hope whoever actually reads this has a fantastic week and stays safe😊
Must be nice
I only had that one time in my life yet (afaik) with a woman that was having the strongest crush on me. Felt strange, yet very nice.
cringe
@@flowerwitch4459 honest man, only people who themselves are cringe actually unironically use the word cringe, but anyway, I really do hope you have a fantastic rest of your week and that you stay safe😁
Wow, you’re like a girl version of me. I relate to basically everything you wrote, expect the “guy” version, I guess
For 99% of those watching, this video either made you smile inside, or crushed all your ideas about your own attraction level
Believe me, if youre attractive youll know. You wont need to watch a video because people will tell you that youre attractive.
Maybe 😂 they need to watch for affirmination purposes!
I just watch it because I love how the signs are
Thank you for showing me I am indeed unattractive XD
So if nobody for exempel: told Adolf Hitler that he is a criminal in person it means he isn't?
Not really. The most attractive people get the least amount of compliments because people assume they already know they're attractive and they don't want to give them that extra ego boost. If someone compliments you a lot it might mean they feel sorry for you so they try to find something attractive about you and they constantly point it out. I knew a fat unattractive girl who got complimented on her eyes all the time. People just wanted her to feel better about herself
And it's the way you carry yourself.
This was really helpful because I don't fit any conventional type. These 10 points fit me very well. My positivity and upbeat outgoing personality make me seem much younger. At 75, I still attract attention even from younger men and yes, I get hostility too. I think for some, the hostility is a way of keeping distance. I had an uncle who was a decent man, would never do anything inappropriate but he always teased me about my "unattractive" features. I just realized it was because he was keeping himself from having improper thoughts as I was maturing into a young woman. I also think the hostility can be jealousy when it comes from a person who is the same sex as you.
Can I add that your name is so pretty? I really love it
this is a weird and presumptuous ass comment to make about uncle on the internet bruh WTF is wrong with you lmaooo
Congratulations to every youtuber
More success and wins
WTH
Is this the real Will Smith
🙏🏾
Wow! Thank you so much Will Smith! The same wish is being sent back to you! My family and I adore you and the wonderful young man, father, husband, actor, business man, and role model that you are. Thank you so much for being you! God Bless You and Thank you again!
That's no.10 hit hard. The way you speaking, doing sth lead by your whole-hearted passion, glorious pride and full-concentration always glows in other's eyes.
I don't know who needs to hear this, you've got to stop saving money. Invest some part of it, if you really want financial freedom
Investing for today is priceless because tomorrow isn't promised, trading bit-coins, gold, silver and crypto secures a better tomorrow
Anyone who is not investing now is missing a tremendous opportunity, i really fear for a future without an investment
A lot of people with high IQs are terrible investors because they’ve got terrible temperaments. You need to keep raw, irrational emotion under control.
@@sophiablakes I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do because i have no idea of how and where to invest in?
The world have advanced a whole lot that you must not be a pro to make money out the market.
Does looks really matter. Well no For me it's all about leaving a good impression on someone. You may be the most good looking person in the room. But if that person isn't leaving any good impression. Do you still consider the person's attractive?
Being attractive isn't about how beautiful you're face is but how act and how you treat yourself and other people around you. Sometimes we think. Just having a beautiful face all tooks to attract some one.
If one person Doesn't get attracted to you doesn't means you're not beautiful.
Maybe they have a preference that doesn't match yours. Don't invalidate yourself because you didn't win someone's attraction
Oncoming Reassurance: Yes you are! You’re gorgeous and capable of anything you put your mind to.
I relate to most of that.. I’ve experienced some of those facts.. thumbs up buddy 👍🏿
Well damn this my life.....I've always felt I was average, I became aware by 22 that others see more because of these exact things. Im 40 and it still happens but I'm still average in my eyes. But I definitely don't make eye contact with men, especially in the work place because it just causes more issues.. you just learn what to do or not to do.I think real beauty comes from within, a great soul and using your gifts to fulfill your God given purpose 🙏 Now on that I'm a 10. So many times an attractive person opened their mouths and their looks went to a hard 4.5 because they weren't very good people 🤷🏾♀️💯❣ Thank u for validating my thoughts.
Exactly .. avoid eye contact with men if at all possible … and pretend u don’t see them starring … lol
I avoid eye contact and sometimes they get aggressive and try to make you see them and force interactions. It gets really bad on jobs sometimes even though you try to just be cordial and keep it moving.
Yes, yes to all of this. I don’t get out much anymore but when I do I experience these things. Even just running errands, these things happen.
I think I we can have ranges (some days we are more attractive than other days). Like when we just work out and get a haircut vs. when we need a haircut, are tired and haven't in a while due to work, etc.
Haters gonna hate. But some people are just so darn attractive that they can't help but attract the attention of others, sometimes without even realizing it. It's not just about the way you look, either. You might be more attractive than you think you are based on these ten signs.
3 or 4 of them apply to me. Yet, I never saw people staring at me. But I also never looked for signs like that and additionally, I'm an Aspie, so my perception of the world is pretty much different from many others. I will, however, look out for signs like staring from now on. I'm simply intrigued...
"Not about the way you look" wtf? LOL
Only way to attract stranger's attention from others without being good-looking is being famous
Facts
Too bad those who struggle with social anxiety will be living hell once that happens
They should get used to it
Haters gonna hate my G
Facts
@@sirbughunter i got autism and I catch people looking way too much. But I also look a lot at others too so I'm the one that somehow accidentally locks eyes with anyone, even a killer by accident lol
I have to say that this video was very informative and enlightening! I was always baffled why people either hated me or really liked me.
Now I know, and knowing is half the battle! 💪🏽
Dear lovely person that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
Same to you lovely❣️🙌🏽🙌🏽
@@Cravenn5 Aw thank you! You’re very much appreciated ❤️🥰
Right back at you!! 😘😘
Nathalie, show me…
Hey Nat, same to you and more! 😘
If anything, this is showing me I am “decently attractive” and the reason why is because people don’t fall in love with me for my looks, they fall in love with my personality. I don’t get creepy stares in public, but when someone gets to know me, my personality is extremely likable and therefore makes me look attractive in their eyes. I know this because it’s happened to many guys I’ve talked to throughout my life.
That's a quality value-packed video.
There’s this girl in my class, whenever I first saw her I sat in a seat to which she was between me and the whiteboard, so whenever and if ever she would catch me staring, I would just glance past her at the board and begin writing what the teacher has written
Strategic at least.
Hope you took a step further and talked to her
U need to change seat to see if she is into u or not
U gotta talk to her and observe if she's into u
@@Jazmin-sd9ms I know what to look for. I’m still unsure but as of right now I am leaning toward she is
This video sir has shed a lot of light on why ppl act the way they do around me. Hella boost in confidence rn and I needed it, tysm
I've had both sexes approach me and smile at me, and a few times would go out of their way and tell me that I'm beautiful. Sometimes, I'm a little shocked because I feel I don't always look my best. But I'm also usually a happy person so that makes me more attractive.
Preach. The two extremes of people. I usually feel like people either extremely hate me or extremely love me.
I disagree with the first one, I think it's actually the opposite. People usually assume that attractive people are not as smart, even though attractiveness doesn't have anything to do with intellect. And if a attractive person is smart people don't care about it, they just care about their looks.
Especially if you're a woman. Many guys underestimate women (well in general), but especially when they're conventionally pretty.
i literally can't relate to any of these but whatever. *i* still think i am attractive. don't let a video tell you you're attractive or not attractive. it won't make you less insecure, and you'll only become confident if you believe in yourself and don't listen to other's opinions.
I literally quit my job because female coworkers can’t stand how attractive I was and how all the male coworkers wanted to talk to me (though some were nervous about talking to me). I felt singled out with all the attitude and outcast experience I was getting from the females, that in my opinion didn’t look all that attractive. And it didn’t help that my boyfriend of 4+ years (who is equally attractive and very masculine) also worked at the same place (a psychiatric hospital and no, we didn’t meet at work, we just ended up applying at the same hospital because I was the one that told him to apply because we needed male staff( worst decision ever) this females really came for me by actively trying to get my man’s attention or make it seem like something was going on all with the intention of breaking us up, but little did they know how strongly committed by man is to me. Long story short, we both left the company because it got too toxic and unhealthy. It felt like a battle field, constantly fighting someone new every day
damn... jelousy on a whole new level
@@ediomo.mp4 is that what it was? It was such a weird and uncomfortable vibe. They would do weird things to get at me like one female coworker bought my man a Christmas gift and didn’t get me anything, they would invite him to share on a lunch meal and not invite me, one even asked for his number because they wanted to talk to me about something like why don’t you just ask me for my number or ask him for my number if you were really that intimidated to talk to me. Just weird and bizarre behaviors like that. If I did something at work, they would go tell my man about it and my boyfriend would tell me everything because we were that close. It really felt like high school except this were hospital workers and I expected some level of professionalism. We just wanted to go to work and make some money and not deal with insecure bitches that can’t get a man on their own. I’m glad we both left that toxic place. We can finally live our lives in peace.
@@vivianglitter93 im so glad you now have peace. And yeah, that's what it is. Often it's spontaneous and without reason. I truly dont understand why people do it but its best not to worry yourself with those types of people.
so glad you’re out of that toxic place !
Don't mix pleasure with business and you won't have these problems
This hit so hard that I felt like this was for me! 💯☝🏾🙏🏾
😂
We are all beautiful in our own way. It’s a shame the world has made some people doubt that.
Holy fuck either this Video is a confidence booster or they actually kinda hit the spot.
I don't like the videos where its obvious points if you are 10/10
But some of these points actually connected to me and I completely understood why some of them didn't!
Actually gave me a very good self reflection and way to gauge my own perception.
Every 3 months TH-cam recommends something to me & I always end up liking them!😆
I watched this to convinced myself that I'm pretty, I guess I'm not attractive. You have really cool logic though.
Same lol😂
This might sound weird.. but I realized I was prettier than I thought when I admitted to a few friends that I was still a virgin in my mid 20s.
I have never, in my entire life, thought I'd have to spend DAYS just to convince them that I simply wasn't lying, since they couldn't fathom the idea of someone attractive "like me" not having taken advantage, at least once, of multiple opportunities in my prime.
Honestly, this could even be a test you can try if you really want to know how attractive others perceive you: Use the "I'm still a virgin" card.
If they act in utter disbelief, yup, you're probably much more attractive than you thought.
If barely or not at all, then you have your answer.
What if you use the "I'm still a virgin" when you're 40 and they say "That makes so much sense!" 🤣
@@elijahcarr4137 💀💀 not the response one wants huh😭😅
@@annyvee_ 😂
I told someone at my work that I never dated anyone because I never wanted to and she kept asking me about it for months cause she didn’t believe it… It was kinda weird honestly.
Hilarious 🤣😅
Honestly if you didn’t get like half it’s ok, your not ugly , just be yourself and be confident that will change your life
I'm a socially awkward guy. After watching this video I can't realize that when I'm with a group why people look at me because of Social awkwardness or attractiveness
Babies, animals, grown ups stare, I get annoyed by it thinking, "Why they staring at me" because for years I had low self esteem, maybe this is actually why they stare 😂
Standards of beauty are different for different people.
People ALWAYS assume that I have a boyfriend and when I tell them that I don’t they say I’m lying or they’re really shocked and asks why as if something is wrong... that’s really weird
I know I’m very attractive I knew when I been getting attention even when other women are around or walking by, I’m just attractive I attract without wanting to.
Me too!!!
At least the fact you have opened this video. Giving yourself hope and permission to consider yourself attractive is the key, I guess :)
All my friends fit these perfectly🥰 amazing to be surrounded by super attractive but also uplifting people
Wow, now i came to know why they behave like that “ ur video boosted my confidence nice to hear u actually i needed it .
they always starring at me and go on checking what i am doing and how sometimes i found it so irritating but at the same time it feels so special
Thanks to god ,structured me like that “
Whats pretty to one is not to another. Whats not pretty to one is to another and when I realized that, I wasn't as insecure as I once was, because as a kid/teen I felt like a troll.. but this was very informative. 😊
Adding onto this: if little kids approach you and say you’re pretty that counts too.
i feel like if you're aware enough to already notice these things, you already know you're attractive
Sometimes I look very pretty sometimes I just don't. Being pretty could be tough at times to the point where sometimes I want to feel how it's like to have an average look. Guys with a date would stare at me and that makes me second guess loyalty and true love. I have little to no female real friends bc they tend to be very excluding, makes me feel lonely and invisible for no reason. Random men staring at me makes me feel unsafe when I'm alone. I tend to be very shy and unwelcoming as the effects. Because I'm used to being friends with males, I picked up some of their behaviors which could come out as rude for most females. The feeling of being stared at is annoying yet addictive depending on my moods. I'm afraid I'll get a guy who likes me for just the way I look. Despite of the downsides, if you could make use of the upsides, I think being pretty will boost you forward. It's a blessing if you can make it so, but don't force it as our personalities differ. Sometimes I remind myself to enjoy and be grateful of my appearance while it's still there.
Just shine pretty people, regardless of how people treat you. ❤️
Just remember that nothing lasts forever. 🙂
Most people that stare at me, continue to stare even after I've caught them! Also I definitely feel like I piss people off and make people happy but nothing in between. I'm rarely regarded with neutral behavior unless someone is really used to me/known me for a long time. I get smiles and hateful stares at almost the same rate, and yes I can tell through the mask lol.
through the masks,lmaoooooo
Being attractive is far more than good looking. It is also your behaviour, manners, intellect.
Great! This Video Has Shown Me 10 Signs That I Am As Ugly As I Think I Am 🥰 What A Great Way To Start My Day
I’m so glad to see that all of these signs relate to me, this was just a confirmation for me
What a relief 😪, just when I needed the video cuz I thought I was unattractive 😔, but now I know I am 😌👍
I'm not looking to be more attractive, I've found people seeming to approach me more often during the past couple years since I was made really unhappy.
I'm getting better but have been so surprised and touched at all the kindness and friendliness I've received from people during the past two years.
People compliment my passion a lot. It's one of the things almost everyone who is around me long enough notices. I will admit though... I do get rude reactions from people sometimes. I had no idea it was because of attraction.
Every one is beautiful!
Thank you for the beautiful brown girl intro pic 🥰🙌🏽🙌🏽🎈🎈
Yessss!!!!!!!!
She actually looks like your pic 🥺
No sign is needed, just believe you are attractive enough 👌
I am not beautiful, but I'm very open minded and respect others' perspectives on the world and their personal lives, so I think I am attractive. A friend told me when she first time saw me among many strangers, she just wanted to start conversation with me, she's a very shy and quiet person😂😂😂
Yes, in this video are some things about which it’s interesting to think. Thank you for the video. When you don’t have enough confident you could think that someone give you attention or look at you only in case of laughing at you. That’s really stupid🤦🏼♀️😂 happily teenage time went away😅
Here’re also some good tips to feel yourself attractive. I agree with them. It’s really important to be open, friendly and good person, I think. Also you should take care of the condition of your body💃🏼
I’ve always hatted when guys would try to talk to me or compliment me after literally throwing signs I am not interested, but after complaining so much about that to a couple of my friends they’d tell me I'm very attractive or I have a massive sex appeal.
I appreciate the lovely thumbnail.❤
It also depends on the crowd too u gotta read the room. Ik girls who wouldn’t even look my way and Ik chicks who would link with me rn if I asked them out. We’re all beautiful in are own ways 💯
Very pretty people go through this, but the beautiful people it's a whole different story
Pls explain
God said I am fearfully and wonderfully made!! and he dont make no junk !!
Amen!
This video gets FIRST PRIZE for the most positive and uplifting video EVER.
For girls out their don't get it wrong...u might or not be attractive if a guy approaches you.
LOL
Facts 😂😂
There*
okay, thank you for confirning everything for me. Let me go ahead and build back my confidence
If happiness makes you more attractive then I'm screwed because I'm depressed. 👁️👄👁️
Oh, come here :)
*hugs virtually*
*let's virtually go again*
Feeling better? :)
For real, though, if you experience depression you should consult a psychologist asap... This is nothing to joke about...
I have 2 friends who are clinically depressed. They need structure and meds in their life. Otherwise they literally can't survive!
Same
How i feel relieved to find this video especially the polarizing behavior one
Thank you so much for reminding me the things that have been hidden in my eye
Lool got recommended this after watching a bunch of "how to spot a narcissist" type videos...I don't know if I failed some type of test
Lol. Same
Looks are deceiving what makes a person attractive is their personality , good dna and decent family .
Good dna?
Seen TikTok
@Cactus Flower can be if you are I. Denial and accept getting screwed
This is weird how this showed up in my feed.... thanks 😊
Love the cartoons and how you create your videos interessierting!!!!
Yes that s me I radiate happiness. Yes I’m very passionate person very dedicated to my goals .
We tend to focus on the negative, I choose to see beauty to work on beautiful aesthetics and become more beautiful, stronger, Sharper and solar
I hope everyone has an amazing week!
The best inspiring channel for the right way of thinking, I like it a lot, hello to everyone, English is not my first language, but I adore this language and I benefit a lot from you, thanks for the efforts🙏🏻We are a long time subscriber and always hit the like button, would you please list the points of all the content in the comments box! Because it is really useful for us who have English as their second language
It's very true, happiness is universal magnetism.
When i am out and about in public people just walk up to me and engage me in friendly conversation or if we are in close proximity. I just assumed that i have a friendly face and approachable energy. i've had people tell me about their entire life history....lol
Same! Sometimes people tell me way more than they should be telling anyone, especially a stranger. 😂
I think you nailed it with the energy part. I believe it's deeper than physical appearance in some cases. Some people will just gravitate toward you. Doesn't hurt to be easy on the eyes though.
@@kendraaraiza7039 Same!
This video is all about me, and am happy I found more about what people think of me and each time am around people I get noticed so quickly and I make people laugh.😀
I feel like I fit the bill on the ones that are internal, like the passionate and a great listener (from what I've been told). I get a lot of superficial compliments too but idk, I can still never actually land the people I'm attracted to so it feels like people lie to me lol.
I'm always surprised when I get someone I'm really attracted to. Most times the ones who are not my type chase me. It's weird
When I’m a bit glam up I do experience some points the video has mentioned
This is something I needed to watch and hear
this video gives so much positive energy AND makes me realize im ugly