15 WORDS YOU MUST START USING TO SOUND ELEGANT! |USE THESE WORDS TO IMPROVE YOUR VOCABULARY

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  • In this video, I have compiled a list of 15 words that you should start incorporating into your vocabulary to start sounding elegant!
    You may be used to using particular words in your everyday speech however I assure you that if you make the effort to use these excellent synonyms, you will become more confident in using them in your everyday conversations and you will start sounding more elegant, refined and cultured in no time!
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  • @ChristianaEffiong-yv8ph
    @ChristianaEffiong-yv8ph 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1035

    15 Words to make you sound elegant
    1 polite words
    2 Gracefully in place of easily
    3 perhaps in place of maybe
    4 contrite in place of sorry
    5 Admire in place of like or envy
    6 Exquisite in place of beautiful
    7 Lack in place he/she doesn't have
    8 whimsical in place of funny
    9 endear in place of attract
    10 Bespoke in place of taste
    11 impeccable in place perfect
    12 ladies and gentlemen
    13 Magnificent in place of beauty
    14 surreal in place of strange
    15 ostensible in place of seemingly

    • @Esthervencia
      @Esthervencia 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Thank you

    • @Marie-fq5px
      @Marie-fq5px 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Thank you for the summary ❤

    • @olubunmiadewolebabatunde4769
      @olubunmiadewolebabatunde4769 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thank you for this ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Arid_OasisLLC
      @Arid_OasisLLC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Thank you ❤

    • @Arid_OasisLLC
      @Arid_OasisLLC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      With her lovely accent, everything sounds elegant.

  • @medeplicity
    @medeplicity 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    Vivian,
    A gentleman commented that he was not gay and, in fact, had a girlfriend, and he appreciated your contribution. Well, I, too, am a hetero-sexual male that appreciates the power of words and always seek elegance in my communications. It was Maya Angelou who said that "the right word is the most dangerous and powerful thing there is, for it can change the heart, the mind, the world." I, too, thank you for your elegance addition.

    • @trishsiprell6996
      @trishsiprell6996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Ooh, this is a fabulous quote! I've never heard it before. Thank you!

  • @weelass3188
    @weelass3188 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    There is always a time and place in which these words are appropriate to avoid the risk of sounding pretentious.

    • @yesiltarla2320
      @yesiltarla2320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely. Context and discourse are essential here.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep!! My family would not like this.

    • @jamilynn322
      @jamilynn322 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Portia620 Your family would not like what, exactly? Being polite? Using something other than basic words? That's a very strange comment to make.

  • @Teresa-K
    @Teresa-K 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I was “taking notes”. Exquisite words making an impeccable impression. Thank you. Kindness, Teresa

  • @garystreaming7774
    @garystreaming7774 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +747

    Im a Man and Im not gay I have a girlfriend but I love your advice about elegance glamour and fashion😅

    • @trishsiprell6996
      @trishsiprell6996 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

      Good for you!
      It makes me sad, though, that you had to qualify it by saying you aren't gay and hv a gf.
      Of course men can be interested in elegance, and shd be!
      And I find nothing sexier than a well-dressed man who smells great and knows how to treat a woman like a lady.
      There's nothing to apologize for in that. And your lady is, or will be, one blessed woman.
      All her friends will wish they were she.❤

    • @StefaniClowdis
      @StefaniClowdis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      I thought that exact thing. We ladies NEED more men like you 😀

    • @angelabrodie6262
      @angelabrodie6262 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Well done. A man of good taste 🎉

    • @trishsiprell6996
      @trishsiprell6996 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Also, may I make a suggestion?
      I hv a great vocabulary, and I learned most of it by reading .
      Great literature, or even fiction/non-fiction/history or arts books written by authors of wit and intellect gave me context and usage of so many words that were unknown to me. Reading opened that world to me. If available, a library card and borrowed books are free privileges.
      Why not try them, if there's a lending library nearby?
      Blessings. 🕊

    • @garystreaming7774
      @garystreaming7774 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      thats kind of you@@StefaniClowdis 🙏

  • @ngamphundarkhaling6848
    @ngamphundarkhaling6848 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    Here's the list for those who don't have the luxury of time to go through the whole video, but i would encourage you to go through the whole video whenever you have time.
    Basic respectful phrases, Gracefully, Perhaps, Contrite, Admire, Exquisite, Lack, Whimsical, Endear, Bespoke, Impeccable, Ladies and Gentlemen, Magnificent, Surreal and Ostensible.

    • @dulaneygibson2014
      @dulaneygibson2014 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thank you!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @TziheriAmboka
      @TziheriAmboka 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you

    • @user-xm7lw9vo2r
      @user-xm7lw9vo2r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Very gracious of you.

    • @jodea2017
      @jodea2017 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-xm7lw9vo2r
      Good student ❤🤓

    • @LB-ku6ry
      @LB-ku6ry 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Love this! Thank you!!!!

  • @eunicebaatjes9185
    @eunicebaatjes9185 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Being an at home mom for years , I've seem to lost my ability use words elegantly.I thank you.

  • @lilpoo1972
    @lilpoo1972 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I have to admit that when I saw the title of your video I was both intrigued and put off mainly because there are so many people on TH-cam claiming to be professionals in a certain niche. Since I was so intrigued I viewed the video and I’m grateful for your worthwhile insight and work that you put forth into this video. About half of these terms are used in my daily life already but the remaining terms I definitely need refreshment on their usage. I’m very pleased that you care about the quality of language that we use as I was beginning to think it was becoming a lost art form.

  • @Rudmyster
    @Rudmyster 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    When I was a young man I realized I had good manners, but my father was a Blue collar worker and I knew I was missing something. My mother was an elegant lady, but As a Black man we tend to have a more rough exterior the culture pushes this on us. So I actually took an etiquette class. I was the only Brother in the class but it elevated me from the boots to the crocket and Jones and bespoke shoes Armani suits And bespoke suits from the Bronx to living on Central Park west. I will also tell you that I do like the fact that I can move in both worlds. The words you are using only works in the world of elegance or In upper middle class. It will get one killed in the hood. I do appreciate your elegance you are a beautiful and graceful lady. Best wishes.

    • @deniseedodson1938
      @deniseedodson1938 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      "When in Rome do as the Romans do". We were taught to speak the language of the group you are with - as long as you don't violate your own personal ethics AND never making others feel uncomfortable. The world is getting smaller. We have to move in lots of worlds to be successful. Be in any world but be of no particular world. It's okay to bring class to any situation you are in without being out of place in any. I love hanging in the hood but have never had to curse or use foul language. It's about accepting and loving people where and how you find them.

    • @2ndhandanxiety719
      @2ndhandanxiety719 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Words create worlds

    • @mebcn5850
      @mebcn5850 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting life story...

    • @sandybowyer7941
      @sandybowyer7941 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why not use the word : pompous . This was soooo pompous !!

    • @TeressaStuckey-psychdata
      @TeressaStuckey-psychdata 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Rudmyster - so you're confirming you're a shallow fake. DON'T BUY INTO THIS BS PEOPLE.

  • @IsaroBururu
    @IsaroBururu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I lack the exquisite words to describe my admiration to your impeccable elegance and beauty! A bow to you queen!

  • @t.moniquenursem.5507
    @t.moniquenursem.5507 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My grandmother is from South Carolina, she raised and taught me how to represent myself as a lady being polite to others, speak elegantly, This world today as us being women represent herself classy well polished manners. the way she walks ,speaks elegantly, will energize positivity ,great results, on what she desire to accomplish within a conversation.This is very helpful to forge good relationships with people ,in dating today. Thank Vivian for this video is very informative.💛❤

  • @raymondandmelaniebolton3775
    @raymondandmelaniebolton3775 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Hi Vivian! You are the perfect example of elegance. I have subscribed!! As a southern lady, elegance is quite important - the reputation of being a ¨southern belle¨ means elegance is not option, nor is etiquette and kindness. You incorporate all these feminine virtues in your videos - THANK YOU; I love your channel.

  • @lazy-gaga
    @lazy-gaga 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    taking notes
    Maybe - perhaps
    Envy - admire
    Beautiful - exquisite
    Does not have - lack
    Perfect - impeccable
    guys and girls - Ladies and gentlemen

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks

    • @glendapeglau4694
      @glendapeglau4694 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Magnificent. Surreal. Ostensible. Last 3 😊

    • @glendapeglau4694
      @glendapeglau4694 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Plus first 2 : 1 polite words. 2 Gracefully.

  • @truthbetold9215
    @truthbetold9215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I was born and bred/raised in Africa. Some of us attended schools in British protectorates. My grandparents were British born, hence my parents had a very good command of the English language as do many African born people irrespective of race colour or creed, yet we still master other languages. We sure are different, our manners are impeccable. Why do Americans have a disdain for foreign dignity and proper languages presented. Speaking properly starts at home. If not taught from the cradle sure does impact you in life and it’s decision making. I love my British /African accent❤️😄🇿🇦🇮🇹🇳🇿🇮🇳🇨🇳🇦🇺🇹🇷🇸🇿🇪🇸🇱🇰🇰🇪🇫🇷🇧🇼🇲🇦🇹🇭🇺🇬🇩🇪🇱🇸.

    • @WordsWeCouldntSay-yx7oi
      @WordsWeCouldntSay-yx7oi หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do celebrate your roots! It sounds like you had access to effective education.
      Now, please complete these sentences:
      Why do Chinese…?
      Why do British…?
      Why do Africans…?
      It’s not wise to paint so broadly when it comes to groups of people.

  • @yesiltarla2320
    @yesiltarla2320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for the inspiring ideas.
    Regarding words such as "contrite", I must say that while elegance in speech is desirable, successful communication (i.e. communicating the intended meaning accurately) comes at a precedence. Before employing a word in your speech you must make sure that it will most likely be understood by your interlocutor. The aim is not to distance oneself. You yourself mentioned that the aforementioned word is seldom used. I am an educated person; yet this was my first encounter with "contrite". How many people here are familiar with it? I just thought I would point this out.

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That word got me thinking that some of this advice doesn't really fly in the US. Some people wouldn't know what that word means, and others would just be surprised someone was using it. It would sound like someone learned English but doesn't have much practice speaking it.

    • @Diana-007
      @Diana-007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Familiar with contrite but as an adjective speaking about the action of someone else.

    • @lisahull6745
      @lisahull6745 หลายเดือนก่อน

      “Contrite” is used in the Bible in regard to a repentant heart. Psalms 51:17.

  • @gracebasque1471
    @gracebasque1471 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Taking notes: I grew up in my great grandmothers home in the 40’s and 50’s and she spoke this way but through the years I’ve gotten away from speaking this way. Thank you so much for the reminder.

  • @renatacantave9588
    @renatacantave9588 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Great advice Vivian - I teach my children to use proper English even though it is not my native language. Being a foreigner I do have an accent, however, my choice of words is rooted in literature, non-fiction and other sources. We can be elegant, ladies, especially when we express ourselves.

    • @Angela-zf8sn
      @Angela-zf8sn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May I ask any specific literature? Thanks!

    • @EweTube4
      @EweTube4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I was taught on ordering food in a restaurant to say, "I would like the Cobb Salad, please". I feel sad for the waitperson when someome says, "bring me" or "I want" or "I'll have". Perhaps it is just me, but these examples sound demanding and demeaning. I was also taught to say "thank you" when my food is served, or my water refilled.
      Seems good manners are declining.

    • @geramerix2753
      @geramerix2753 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello Renata .... me too am a foreigner/ native german living in US loathing the bland "flat" english language ....RenatE with an e at the end is a german name ... Sind Sie aus Deutschland ???

    • @tiffanycrystalclear
      @tiffanycrystalclear 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I say I’d like to have ,,,,,please thank you so much, 😅 is that too much ?

  • @judith018
    @judith018 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    Thank you for this lovely list of words to elevate our speech and elegance. I encourage you to make this a regular offering, but perhaps only 5-10 words at a time. This will give us the opportunity to properly incorporate each list before starting a new list. Thank you.

    • @amyhines0953
      @amyhines0953 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was thinking the same thing. :) Bite-sized to make it easier to digest given how much renovation our speech requires from the ground up .

  • @fetchingpurls1097
    @fetchingpurls1097 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Taking notes! Delighted to have found your channel! Leveling up is essential for self growth and self care. I so admire and apppreciate your expertise! These words are specific and clearly express the intended message. The power of language is largely under estimated. Starting afresh and looking forward to refining my presence while networking and interviewing. Thank you, Vivian.

  • @robyntatelman7233
    @robyntatelman7233 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I would like to say thank you for sharing this video. I grew up with a very elegant mother, who always emphasized the need to be polite to everyone, and in her words “always be on your best behavior” no matter where you are, or who you’re with. That’s what I think manners are, making others feel comfortable around you. It is time that this lesson is taught again. Certainly this generation and everyone can use a refresher course in good manners.
    And speaking eloquently is lovely. I always want to surround myself with people that will elevate me. Bravo.

  • @NinaRoseTreasures
    @NinaRoseTreasures 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Thank you for your impeccable execution of enhancing our gracefulness!💝

    • @tracydenton6955
      @tracydenton6955 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Beautifully said, Nina Rose Treasures❣️

    • @olimalaga2254
      @olimalaga2254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂

    • @lucillekenney8311
      @lucillekenney8311 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I admire how gracefully you embraced the meaning of today’s directive. Indubitably impeccable if I do say so myself.

    • @NinaRoseTreasures
      @NinaRoseTreasures 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! ❤

  • @songbyrrd4138
    @songbyrrd4138 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    I started taking notes after I heard the third word and realized that I needed the entire list! You possess an elegant grace in the the way you speak and this list caused me to become an immediate subscriber. I definitely admire your poise and look forward to watching more of your videos. 💕Thank you!

    • @sparkle3000
      @sparkle3000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too. 😆
      I wonder how she would say that.
      Me also?

    • @cherrie2597
      @cherrie2597 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i also was drawn in by the poise she exhibits. (how's that?)

    • @gigifreefreed501
      @gigifreefreed501 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely delightful.

    • @marilynmainwaring9978
      @marilynmainwaring9978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Myself as well, darling 🥰

  • @rebeccacanlas1328
    @rebeccacanlas1328 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I admire your impeccable execution of this lecture and perhaps to see more in future!

  • @user-pd8gw1ie2g
    @user-pd8gw1ie2g วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would like you to recommend 2 Books l can read to enhance my Vocabulary skills. You have an impeccable teaching skills. You’re well appreciated!

  • @johawelka6317
    @johawelka6317 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Taking notes. Extremely grateful for this session. I’m always polite however often find myself lacking the appropriate words to express myself properly. Thank you for sharing your elegance.

  • @adriennejones5741
    @adriennejones5741 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Taking notes! These are marvelous suggestions. Thank you. I appreciate your effort to make our communications more nuanced, colorful, and...graceful! It’s lovely to come across a wordsmith in today’s world when so much language has become barely articulated grunts and too often vulgar.

    • @gugumazibuko6275
      @gugumazibuko6275 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The worse part at the office too.

    • @easygoing6397
      @easygoing6397 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For (sure)! Smh.

    • @easygoing6397
      @easygoing6397 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Isn't it sad?.

    • @howstunningly
      @howstunningly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh so true!

  • @lisahull6745
    @lisahull6745 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Contrite” is a biblical word I connect with on a deep spiritual level. It refers to a repentant heart. Your platform is of great value and influence Vivian. Thank you!

  • @nicoleyeager5811
    @nicoleyeager5811 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    YESSSSSS PREACH! This generation doesn't seem to appreciate or understand the importance of mixing elegant conversing with the net income... all they care about is the net income part.. and then wonder why certain "classy" individuals still considering them to be "trashy" despite having a hight net income....!
    I for example, don't have a very high net income at the moment, but I still happen to classify myself as more elegant and dignified than many of my aggressors who continue to wonder why I don't consider them to be on MY level despite them having more income than me...

  • @mamolewamodiba9159
    @mamolewamodiba9159 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Taking notes and getting empowered. Journey to sounding elegant in my vocabulary has begun. Thank you so much💟

  • @ezikechisom9321
    @ezikechisom9321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Sir. I just reconciled with my roommate since last year i refused talking to. When you said you give 2 mins to say those words to someone, i had to stand up to reconcile.
    Thank you for helping me forgive. I was finding it hard to do. May God's name be praised. Amen.

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was captivated by your presentation of your thoughtful word list. I’ve always had a keen interest in enhanced vocabulary and the skillful art in which to use it. Thank you for being a true proponent for personal refinement!

    • @marinadinova1119
      @marinadinova1119 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I admire your writing style! Magnificent choice of words! I learned a lot of new expressions!

  • @ebonyflwr8456
    @ebonyflwr8456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Thank you so much Vivian, that was an impeccable presentation! I will endeavor to incorporate this underutilized vocabulary into my lexicon😊

    • @gospelician
      @gospelician 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤love this!

    • @lj3482
      @lj3482 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bravo 👏🏾

    • @felicitypaulse7965
      @felicitypaulse7965 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What a impeccable list of words 🎉

    • @JackMason-oq8lf
      @JackMason-oq8lf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Question. Where is elegant speech a goal and to whom do you address it? Most citizens are alive. Their appearance is not very elegant. Their hair and pants are not real elegant. Why would I want the grocery store clerk bagging my food to sound elegant. Ours is not an elegant world, not since Mrs Astor died. There are so few people I would desire to sound elegant to; not even a Pope would make my list. Maybe meeting some Queen of England type would bring out the elegant speech in me, but how fake is such a situation? It's all for show. Show, of course, is what elegance is about. A beautiful home can be elegant, when seen. Jackie-K made opera-length gloves elegant. Mrs Obama was always so well dressed at State Events, she made an elegant impression, without opening her mouth. So elegant, that girl.

    • @JackMason-oq8lf
      @JackMason-oq8lf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Google thinks it's elegant to change my words to different words. I said "most people are slobs" which emerged from Google, that arbiter of crap, as "most people are alive." It's entirely possible to be an alive slob, trust me, but that was not my choice of words, exactly.

  • @amymonteiro3745
    @amymonteiro3745 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I gracefully took notes of your impeccable teaching.

    • @jaelouma6961
      @jaelouma6961 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I admire your choice of words there that's so impeccable

  • @robinbuschman9663
    @robinbuschman9663 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I ALWAYS say.. " Thank you for your Kindness" its amazing the response you get. I believe you are either born with respect or not. Has nothing to do the ethnic culture, age, sexual preference, religious preference, gender! You either have it or not. This video, Spot on!

  • @nataliamiranda7475
    @nataliamiranda7475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Good for you for taking the time to teach our generation manners and elegance. ❤

  • @adriennerobinson8458
    @adriennerobinson8458 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I considered this video to be impeccably and gracefully executed, and not lacking in any way except for extensive , multisyllabic terms that’s not endearing to those of us who want to sound more coherent and put together. Many of the words we know, but application is key.
    I thought it was was a good list of familiar words and how and when to use them properly. I know people that are not quite as well-read or astute, but appear to be bc they are intentional and strategic with their limited vocabulary, and they are often called on to give speeches etc.
    This video was very exquisite and timely. Perhaps, you will create more similar ones.

    • @dulaneygibson2014
      @dulaneygibson2014 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This was great! I like how you think lol

    • @niki-mars955
      @niki-mars955 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A* 👍🏾

    • @yellowrose9355
      @yellowrose9355 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In response to the above statement, the word "exquisite" is defined as as an adjective pertaining to something "flawlessly beautiful & delicate ". Would that not pertain to an object in the fine arts rather than an erudite video? As for Woman of Elegance, in the words of the incomparable Marilyn Monroe. "Thank you ever so...". Sadly we must look to the generation of Jackie Kennedy, & Grace Kelly to find a standard of elegance. Carry on with this website! You are filling a need for the current generation!! Bravo!

  • @jeanawright3342
    @jeanawright3342 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I’ve taken notes Vivian!! Waiting for part two! May we have fifteen more words please! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Ruthie4j
      @Ruthie4j 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree 💯

  • @mojo4369
    @mojo4369 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great recommendations!
    I also try to use words that have a positive note rather than negative such as "I prefer vrs I don't like" and "decline vrs don't want" and "former spouse vrs ex-spouse" etc. The word "may vrs can" is a nice change also. 😊

  • @Pattie7291
    @Pattie7291 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I admire you for creating these videos! Thank you🎉 They lack nothing, except the incorporation of these refined words in our every day vernacular! 😊

  • @diasporaintellect4485
    @diasporaintellect4485 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just be circumspect in using these words if your family, colleagues or social circles are just everyday people. You will end up presenting yourself as being pretentious. However, if you work with intelligent colleagues and you are around elegant people all the time, then of course this is extremely useful 👌

  • @kaydixie5727
    @kaydixie5727 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "Taking Notes" - Such a great video! It gives us ideas to be on the lookout for other elegant words to improve our vocabularies.

  • @ArachnaeNonafel
    @ArachnaeNonafel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Taking notes. As a writer, it is imperative to use various terms to avoid your work sounding monotonous. It adds interest and also can assist others with their vocabulary. They also add different flavors to your language. Thank you for your videos!

  • @sharongates4699
    @sharongates4699 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Back in the day”, children were taught etiquette and polite speech/conversation by parents AND teachers in school. Not so today. Today, parents are in as much need of this as their children. So thank you for being a light in the darkness of unrefinement. And may I suggest another word for your lists? “Fragrance” sounds so elegant, in my humble opinion. “The fragrance of her perfume drifted across the room”, rather than “The smell of her perfume drifted across the room.” But I suppose that would depend on what it smelled like, right? LOL

  • @uchechukwusunny5229
    @uchechukwusunny5229 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    In a nutshell, adding more uncommon but graceful adverbs to our lexicon ….enhances our overall speech elegance. Welldone 🙌

  • @m.s9146
    @m.s9146 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think you have the right idea but just a nice word here and there will not give someone a pass. Being polite is the epitome of class, glad you began with politeness.
    I recommend watching 1940s movies about the upper class will help with phraseology and vocal inflection. Also take a few lessons in how to speak, elocution lessons are well worth the price. This in addition to your informative videos.
    My husband, son of an Ambassador, royalty and a wealthy businessman, did not see me but heard me speak first. He tells the story to everyone of hearing an intelligent, cultured voice argue a case before a government official. He said he had to turn around to see who owned that voice. Fortunately for me, a practice of careful dressing and maintenance (nothing fake, trim and conservatively outfit) finished the presentation, he asked for my business card and described a legal issue he needed assistance with.
    He later confessed that it was love at first sight. One never knows who is listening.
    Keep up your good work of refinement for ladies, many do not have the benefit of family or education for preparation, yet long to reach higher social levels. ❤

  • @missfunk5
    @missfunk5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Taking note. I admire your quest for us to utilise the English vocabulary. In modern times we are lacking the habit of pushing ourselves to seek better synonyms.

  • @meckismicki
    @meckismicki 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was born in Germany and use of the spoken word is different when you know someone or your in a public situation. When I came to the US I did my utmost to be respectful when speaking in public. My mother who was German & my father first generation American made it a point to use good manners both at home & in public. My mother was very cultured & made it a point to learn the English language at University. Thank for sharing words we need to use more often with dignity and grace.

  • @AuntieKimB
    @AuntieKimB 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love your information in regards to elegance, etiquette and class. Its so refreshing to see younger ppl interested in doing things the correct way🎉

  • @patriziabellatreccia5526
    @patriziabellatreccia5526 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Thank you for this useful guide. May I however suggest to read books. No need for complicate literature ( although it wouldn't hurt) but even light, romance or thriller or other pleasant and fast books. This is incredibly good for your vocabulary. Underline the words you don't know the meaning of and look them up. Hope this helps. Have a great evening ( here in Italy at least). Buonanotte.

    • @salamawise
      @salamawise 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Taking notes

  • @BesideQuietWaters-bm3ke
    @BesideQuietWaters-bm3ke 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the first time I've come across your channel. I so admire your style of communication. You are not only elegant but eloquent. Almost all of these words are a part of my vocabulary. The only word I lack knowledge of is #10. I had never heard the word bespoke before.
    Whimsical and whimsy are frequently used in the interior design realm so I tend to avoid those words and replace them with frolicsome.
    Along with polite words, using proper grammar also makes one ostensibly more elegant. In lieu of asking "can I go or can I have" perhaps ask "may I go" or "may I have". Also when ordering a drink or food at a coffee shop or an eating establishment instead of saying "I would like" ask "may I have."

  • @susandavis5061
    @susandavis5061 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please,this is so important. I work with so many who use the "F" word continuously,and they use it not as a curse,but as a noin,pronoun ,verb...it causes me to cringe. My boss,who is 35 years younger than me, laughs and tells everyone he is waiting for me to use the forbidden word.

  • @Goddess529
    @Goddess529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Thank you! I was TAKING NOTES on this amazing video. I actually use some of these words on a regular basis (the polite words, lack, ladies and gentlemen, and admire). Your advice is always so helpful. Thank you for always trying to elevate us to be our most elegant selves! 😀💗👍🏾

  • @onevenus6040
    @onevenus6040 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Been awhile since I heard some of these words, but they're very appropriate for the occasions and examples you gave ❤

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    @mrsiheanachommayenesther4990 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So wonderfully said
    Tnx

  • @charlenetirado8823
    @charlenetirado8823 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Taking notes

  • @prodigiouswoman2093
    @prodigiouswoman2093 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    You are the Queen of Magnificent, Indeed. You delivered this material exquisitely. Moving forward, I will add these vocabularies to my daily speaking.
    I have not used whimsical before; I will add it to my spoken words. Thank you.

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  • @difernandez4899
    @difernandez4899 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Taking no notes; simply taken aback by your exquisite diction. Most of the time, people I speak to struggle with my English. What a treat!

  • @jaggedlittlepill100
    @jaggedlittlepill100 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    These are all words already in my vocabulary. It's the way my parents spoke. I also started reading at a very early age and, as everyone knows, you pick up many new words when reading. I did not like stumbling over a new word and not knowing what it meant, so every time that happened I grabbed the dictionary. You have given excellent advice and I hope the newest generation listens. It's rather appalling how little schools emphasize vocabulary, diction, spelling, and punctuation these days.

  • @vickiburchfield5741
    @vickiburchfield5741 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Taking notes 😊

  • @Josephine2.0
    @Josephine2.0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Watching Vivieene makes me want to be a better young woman every single time. She has an irresistible aura.

  • @puritynyawira6076
    @puritynyawira6076 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love the way you speak,from your tone to the choice of words.Your vocabulary is on top notch.I want to get to that level.

  • @missjazzy1595
    @missjazzy1595 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Taking notes!

  • @meowmix1023
    @meowmix1023 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I just adore you. I'm learning so much from you and I'm 63 😁.

  • @haniamakram3399
    @haniamakram3399 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Vivian I love you!!! Your content is always new, exciting and never boring!! Thank you ❤

  • @crystalliving993
    @crystalliving993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Perhaps I will start to incorporate these polished words, instead of their simple/common counterparts. Thank you! I admire your eloquence and will strive to be more elegant like you.

  • @angelabrown9840
    @angelabrown9840 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am writing. I highly appreciate your poise and the tenacity you have to challenge us. I do need it to improve my speech and add new words to my vocabulary. I truly appreciate you Can it be a little shorter as I learn through practicing.🎉

  • @BrynDonovanWriter
    @BrynDonovanWriter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love everything about this, and as a writer, I really appreciate how you're discussing the nuances of words.

  • @whereisvivienne
    @whereisvivienne หลายเดือนก่อน

    Taking notes👍

  • @lvj7090
    @lvj7090 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Taking impeccable notes 😊I really admire your videos thank you.

  • @ameryek.9607
    @ameryek.9607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Notes! ✍️
    And "penultimate" is an impeccable word too.

  • @cakewalk3094
    @cakewalk3094 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you! I've tried often to discern why women like Diahann Carroll and Nancy Wilson conveyed that sense of elegance. Now, looking at some old interviews, I notice that their usage of particular words is a great part of it.

  • @natashabrown1144
    @natashabrown1144 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Taking notes! I admire your videos & appreciate your enthusiasm & knowledge to assist us in becoming elegant women!

  • @daniellalyngdoh6211
    @daniellalyngdoh6211 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hello Vivian , i have been watching your videos for almost a year now and i have improved a lot . You nourish and feed our minds with elegant words in this video which can be used in our day to day conversation and regarding the term ostensible it reminds me of my Law school days when we studied about ostensible owner in benamy topic of Property Law 😊 . Nevertheless, I'm from India and i love watching your youtube channel and also Urania's youtube channel " Level up journey" .

  • @Joycezg
    @Joycezg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you; the 3 words from your list that I have not used are "contrite, bespoke, and ostensible." I enjoy writing and will use those words in my next short story!

  • @sandralouise9306
    @sandralouise9306 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Taking notes!! Thank you and perhaps you will share more elegant sounding words soon! :)

  • @fazeelafazal8615
    @fazeelafazal8615 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you woman of elegance for teaching us some new words. You are very kind 🌷♥

  • @karenboyd6293
    @karenboyd6293 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have included many interesting words; I love many of them. I can't imagine saying, "I am contrite that I spoke harshly to you." But in everycase, using these words without using correct grammar will sound pretentions rather than elegant. I would ask your listeners to consider the connotations of synonyms. For example, endear is not the same as attract. Attract merely means drawing attention, while endear imples an emotional reaction. It is also important to not over use superlative words such as magnificant. If you do people will discount the complement. Finally, any title that says "you must" usually leads me to a contraian view.

  • @HaloHighlightz
    @HaloHighlightz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She snuck a bonus word in there
    11:50 second to last = *Penultimate*
    Basic courtesy
    - please, thank you, ma’am, sir, may I, etc
    -Beautifully- = *Gracefully*
    -Maybe- = *Perhaps*
    -Sad, sorry, remorseful- = *Contrite*
    -Like, envy, respect- = *Admire*
    -Elegant, beautiful- = *Exquisite*
    -Don’t have- = *Lack*
    -Unusual, playful, fun- = *Whimsical*
    -Like, attract- = *Endear*
    -Custom- = *Bespoke*
    -Perfect, flawless, very good, great- = *Impeccable*
    -Guys, y’all, Everyone- = *Ladies and gentlemen*
    -Beautiful, striking, impressive- = *Magnificent*
    -Unreal, buzzard, otherworldly, incredible, strange, dreamlike- = *Surreal*
    -Seemingly- = *Ostensible*
    I plan to incorporate a word weekly

  • @treneedemeke2431
    @treneedemeke2431 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Taking notes. I can say I use most of these word. I can say I have not used , “ bespoke and ostensible” thank you very much for this lesson 😊

  • @angelajohn1327
    @angelajohn1327 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Always listen to your videos to the end. So educational!😊

  • @avi8terrfwg317
    @avi8terrfwg317 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It seems with each generation we lose another layer of class and civility. It's lovely to see you demonstrating what elegance means. I would love to see it return to society. Thank you.

  • @anettee.1805
    @anettee.1805 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the word “lack” in place of “don’t have” … there seems to be a hint of hope that one day there may be more and eventually there may be enough. The language “don’t have” seems more finite.
    Thank you Ms. Vivienne … having taken notes.

  • @agnitagregoire8699
    @agnitagregoire8699 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm grateful for your sharing of these words. My favourite one is Whimsical. I will use it more often. All the other words I use bcos as an English teacher, I dislike using overused words. My friends call me a Walking Dictionary. It's an impeccable description of my personality.

  • @carolferguson19
    @carolferguson19 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What a great idea‼️ I'm so glad you thought of it.
    This is so needed.
    I like the words you mentioned. I've always been interested in word choices. My father had a great vocabulary. We all need a refresh in vocabulary💕 You remind me to use the words you mentioned and you make me want to be more conscientious of words I use on a regular basis. I love changing words from time to time. Thank you for this and looking forward to seeing you again.

  • @autumnvaughn5889
    @autumnvaughn5889 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is by far my most engaged video! I adore any opportunity to elongate my vocabulary! ❤
    I use the VOCABULARY app. It sends words throughout the day with pronunciation and definition, along with it being used in a sentence for further cultivation. ❤

  • @joyamenpryce8979
    @joyamenpryce8979 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for your informative And inspiring information, may God continues to bless you for educating our society.

  • @californiasgauld9442
    @californiasgauld9442 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Taking notes! Thank you so much for this timely and helpful video!

  • @pattymerrill2838
    @pattymerrill2838 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just came upon your channel I'm sure not by chance. Only this morning I was pining for the mannerisms, dress, speech, and refinement that was found in the past but not so much in recent decades. I love watching old B+W movies of the 30's and 40's as well as Jane Austen and it is so sad to see how how much we have lost in this area. I decided only this morning i would try to improve in certain ways including in my speech by incorporating more polite words into my own vocabulary.

  • @Mick-Jam71
    @Mick-Jam71 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are a breath of fresh air! If I pay, could you please give private lessons to Megan Markel?? 😂😂😂

  • @patriciacadogan2335
    @patriciacadogan2335 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have taken notes and i agree with you that these words sound elegant when used appropriately.

  • @user-jt7ou4rv4c
    @user-jt7ou4rv4c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Taking notes! I love this list. Thank you❤

  • @juliatripp2010
    @juliatripp2010 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was lovely. Even listening to your style of speech was a pleasure to my ear. Many podcasters are loud, braying, grating and I cant listen to them for long. Others, flat, mundane, boring and put me to sleep. Your voice was lyrical and intriguing, making me want to follow your line of thought. All that being said, I find I do use most of these words when speaking or writing though a few, like bespoke, Ive meant to look up forever, but never did. I love words, their power and flow, their ability to create images and meaning when put together in certain ways. Im guilty of using 'maybe,' but really like, 'perhaps.' Perhaps, I shall substitute that in the future. Thank you for this thoughtful post!❤

  • @hlowrylong
    @hlowrylong 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, you could say “dookie” and “fart”, with your lovely accent and voice, and the result would sound elegant.
    Then your polite words discussion warmed my heart - my sons, now young men around age 20, use polite words easily, because I drilled them to be proper.
    Perhaps I am more graceful as a mother than I give myself credit; perhaps I didn’t lack the exquisite rules. My sons endear themselves to many adults in our family & community with their impeccable manners. 😜

  • @charliegeary5769
    @charliegeary5769 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I enjoy your videos very much. You are so articulate and you always motivate me to try and improve myself. Thank you.

  • @priyaramdoo4762
    @priyaramdoo4762 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Really appreciate your channelling words of wisdom that you share so gracefully🧡

  • @lucinablue
    @lucinablue 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a great idea. In my opinion, courtesy and kindness together are the things that make society -- any society -- work. Can't get along without them. I think we've had numerous lessons about this in recent years.

  • @diannesolomon8645
    @diannesolomon8645 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are a woman of class, I thank God for you, may His best be yours.

  • @mybrownsparklez
    @mybrownsparklez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love listening to you speak. I look forward to incorporating these words into my own vocabulary. Thank you! Taking Notes!

  • @beautybeyondthebeast9091
    @beautybeyondthebeast9091 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, we need to trade in our mundane obtuse words for these upgraded versions. Now, you know I thought about that sentence as I do love your content. I occasionally reinvest myself in taking the time to learn new vocabulary because it is quite fun, it is free, and it is powerful when used correctly.