Living As A Burn Survivor: Charlene Chew's Story
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 เม.ย. 2021
- Charlene Chew is a 23-year-old who suffered third-degree burns to her face after a kitchen mishap. She is now using social media to inspire other burn survivors to feel comfortable in their own skin.
This is her story.
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The whole thing happened just because her ex forgot to turn off the stove. And yet he still has the balls to leave her. What a bad person
"bad" is an understatement ...
That's sad. Such an irresponsible person.
@@GlitterMeltz “F” is a better word.
Leaving a person is ok, what's a jerk move is him leaving the same night of her accident.
Better to leave her earlier than later. It shows his character! Imagine married and getting divorce after few years.
Is it just me or she is just beautiful that even burns can't make her ugly.
I know right
Roasted
I agree , she’s still very beautiful
Ikr
Yeah she is really beautiful.
A three hour wait for an emergency burn is outrageous!
It’s just so normal in Australia
@@hylamyc yes true
Again...its Australia so...
But socialized medicine is totally the way to go, no waits, no overburdened system, no lowest quality medical care.
Don’t over react, it’s Australia
Even a small burn hurts so much. I cannot imagine how much pain she had to endure :( She’s still so beautiful and resilient
So, her ex-partner was irresponsible enough to leave the stove on, he’s responsible for the accident but he has the audacity to leave her when she’s in a time of need? I’m impressed by her character, she didn’t let this circumstance ruin her life. She’s so strong.
Leaving or staying is own decision, you can't force.
The lesson is, don't choose your partner because of her beauty or his wealth but his or her character. She's was living in delusion now she's coming back to reality
@@rodrozil6544 so its her fault?
@@newstudio6471 bitter truth is yes
@@rodrozil6544 how is it her fault? Tf?
Hi. Thank you so much for sharing my story and to everyone for leaving the kind comments on here! Also I just wanted to clear up some things, the way the video was edited makes it seem like my ex broke up with me the same night of the accident but that was not the case, it was a few weeks after and it was more complex than what many people assume - yet, it is irrelevant as that is not the focus of my story as I still respect the person he was in my life, instead I share my story in hopes of educating, helping and empowering others. Also, I understand that oil and water do not mix and yes, it is an irrational choice in a time of extreme panic, and I have paid a huge price for it. I do not blame anyone for it, and I share so that others may learn from my mistakes as well. Thank you to everyone again and I am deeply humbled and grateful for all the kind words.
You're so brave Charlene.. Stay strong❤️
You look just as beautiful as before, even tho you might not feel like it at times (and we all have insecurities, even without burns) ❤️Scars just make you look more badass.
I teared when I listened to you speak about the ordeal. I just had a very tiny scald on my hand a few days ago and it was sooooo painful. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you went through. I wish I could hug you for being so brave and positive. You are so beautiful inside and out. Take care Charlene.
You are beautiful inside out
Still, his loss. He doesn’t deserve you. You are inspirational and people may be looking at you to see how unique and beatiful you are. A warrior.
She's so pretty, and still so well spoken and smart, despite the trauma she went through. Truly amazing
Thank you so much!!
She is so brave. The first thing she thought about her dog safety makes me cry.
The dog is her dinner
@@samiee4200 can you be any more insensitive?
@@samiee4200The 'asian eat dogs' is getting really old and lame don't you think. But I guess that is the best someone as unoriginal and cringy as you can make
@@flaw5774 okay im sorry im sorry here I'll take it back asians don't eat dogs....... but they do eat cats
@@flaw5774 no offence but asians eat literally anything I've seen it
She healed sooooo well. Her eyes look so good and her facial expressions look so subtle and unchanged from before her burn. Like she is absolutely gorgeous
Right?!!! Her skin looks so smooth I could never-
pls she's literally so stunning
She looks great, most important her mental is not burn
It was Oil burn. It's not the same as being burned by a fire. Fire would have melted her face.
@Gan Danny
That's not what i meant, Stoopit!!
The way people sound totally AMAZED she wasn't disfigured like most burnt cases... they attributed it to how well she healed. I had to explain that it wasn't bcos of how well she healed. Every burn injury heals the same way. The degree of the injury is the question.
Bcos her injury was not caused by direct fire.. but of hot Oil, hence she was not disfigured. You understand, stoopit!!
i'm not even trying to sugarcoating, her recover is miraculous. She looks very beautiful now. I'm glad she heal physically and mentally.
Truly agree with you. She still is very pretty, just maybe stronger than before. Bless you Charlene
That's what i thought too.. She still looks very pretty
Really really agree with you!
Just my opinion but like... she's prettier than I'll ever be. 😂
@@user-zz3mg5qf5m HAHAHAHA bro did you just come up with that? 😐😐
"Don't wait until tragedy happens before you live the most authentic version of your life." What a strong and brave young woman! Fighting, Charlene!!!
it's good her eyes are still ok - i think she can do some laser for normal skin later
Always remember not to put water in hot oil. IT WILL EXPLODE. Just leave the pot and if there's flame use a wet cloth or the pot cover and cover it.
the first thing she thought when she saw the smoke was the safety of her dog, she also waited so long in the hospital with 3rd-degree burns on her face, neck,, shoulders... YOU HAVE MY RESPECT MA'AM
❤❤❤
she was a hero, she saved 2 pets, the real dog, and that pussee-ex-bf
the pussee-ex-bf decided to leave....it wont survive
@@simypkl YESSS
why the fuck would you put water on boiling oil, i mean its just common sense after you see how the meat react when the oil is hotter why would you do thaaat!
P
Tbh she’s still attractive and not only because of her looks. Because of her mindset and willpower 👍
tbh, she still looks attractive because of her looks, imo
Crazy how 3rd degree burn victims look better than me. Fml man. guess it’s not just about skin. Bones, facial proportions all add up
@@CRUZEOO yee character and looks I look like shit 🤣
@@VirallVariety Same here. I look like a caricature.
@@water9584 it is what it is bro
That girl is so beautiful and so eloquent. I bet she is the one who says "sorry for my English" but has a better vocabulary than most of the native speakers.
I was also burned when I was 5 while playing tag in the kitchen, my grandma accidentally spilled a whole pot of oil onto my body. My whole right shoulder had burns. I don’t remember if it was 2nd or 3rd degree burns, but I remember the surgeries too! Thank you for sharing your story! Tons of people when I wear a tank would stare at me and I just find it so funny, but it’s a ice breaker to share. We’re all normal people underneath our scars!
I'm so sorry about what happened to you! ♥️
A whole pot how does that even happen-
Ngl old lady needs to know her place
She's fucking gorgeous. I hope she doesn't ever let what anyone says about her get her down. Shes so pretty :(
Ye I like she a lots she is very pretty
I know she’s soo gorgeous!!!
I agree!
No
@@no-dc4mn if she in England I would like to take her go to Disneyland in Paris 😘
He left the stove on, which was the cause of the original problem, and then after the accident he leaves. What a loser. He didn’t deserve you.
You’re still so beautiful. Your strength is incredible. You’d never guess you have hair extensions.
Read the comment she made
He left the stove on so her face is burned because of him and it’s his fault?! What the fuck is wrong with people
@@deeeliana1213 what is wrong with you? of course it is his fault he STARTED THE FIRE
Guys sometimes you don't know the guilt someone feels. You guys might think he wasn't a very good person. I agree but emotions are complicated and sometimes we say things that we dont mean but say to anger each other.
@@deeeliana1213 He was lazy and stupid; he had to pay for his action
shes gorgeous inside and out. I just hope she is mentally and emotionally In a better place now.
I really am :') Thank you!
She is destined for great things, sometimes people's departures open up new doors and possibilities for growth to happen. I wish her all the best!
she healed so well, her skin looks really smooth. her ex is a jerk, not only did he cause the accident, but then he just left her??? he does not deserve someone as strong and beautiful.
She has commented on the thread. She stated that the breakup was more complex which insinuates they had problems before the burn accident.
Jeez, take it easy bud. He made a mistake and left the stove on....he didn't cause the accident. Also, don't pretend like you know everything about their lives after hearing a few minutes of an interview.
@@pipes3 leaving the stove on is dumb tho like below average IQ.
@@sophisticatedbeaver3569 right? plus, why did he not realize that there's smoke and not went to turn it off himself 😩
😣
He left her even though he forgot to turn the stove off. Yet, he left her after she got burned and was still in recovery. Look at how much her face got better and her face is rlly pretty. Its his loss for not getting back with her even though he caused it.
Lot of pained
Exactly, his behavior was absolutely disgusting! I hope she'll get famous and she'll be everywhere for him to see, so that he won't forget how much of an ass he has been to her
It happen to her because of his careless n he is the one leaving her after burn..omg is he human being.?.worry not preety ..karma will soon hit him..
Statistically, more men leave women when the women become injured/disabled/handicapped (pick your PC word) while in the relationship. It's less for women when the men get injured.
Why would he go back? Why would he take him back after all this? Fk that guy.
Oh wow, Charlene. I got burnt when my radiator caught fire in 2009, and was in the hospital. I still have visible scars and pigmentation on my entire left arm. My entire room was burnt down, and I was blessed to be alive. This happened to me in Melbourne too - I'm still residing here. I get some looks here still, and also when I go back to Singapore annually. Really understand what you went through! Keep up the good work in giving out good vibes through your content.
Hello! Thanks for your kind words. Haha I dont know how I came back revisiting this video, I am currently quarantining with covid ad I just read your comment. i am sorry to hear about your accident, that must have been terrifying. You are a fighter and I hope maybe one day our paths will cross in Singapore! Take care!
This almost happened to my wife (then my gf). My wife and I was in the room watching a movie, then suddenly our cat goes under the bed and then we smell smoke. We go into the kitchen to see what's going on. The pot was on fire! there was a lot of oil in the pot so it was a huge fire. My wife was obviously panicking and started to fill water in a bowl about to throw it into the pot and I screamed, NOOO! thinking back at all the videos that I've watched that taught me oil and water don't mix! Stopped her immediately. I took a cutting board near by and covered the pot, simply sliding it in from the side. The fire went out immediately. In the aftermath, the entire kitchen wall was black and the microwave above the stove melted. But no harm was done. I saved my wife, our cat and the apartment that day yet it's treated like a normal day in the past... oh well.
It's lucky you were there. So many people get burned that way. A fireman came to my school and told us about a man who was cooking with oil and accidentally burnt his two young children, and then he had to live with the horror of seeing them scarred every day from the burns he caused.
She hasn’t lost her good looks at all, yet she gained strength and a confidence that only few can be proud of. I imagine that it’s still a painful process to go through. Looking forward to her full recovery
Yes...I agree .
Strength? No. But into reality
In reality nobody wants to be with you if you are ugly girl or poor boy
@@rodrozil6544 what a terrible and depressing way to look at life. Yes we do judge people by their looks but I would not stay with a insufferable and disgusting personality person no matter how good looking they are
She’s still very beautiful to me and her beauty shines from within as well
Looks draw us in but personality makes us stay
Well her boyfriend is one who doesn't believe in for better or worse.
Not only he caused the accident, he also walked away shamelessly??? All i gotta say is What goes around comes around. You’re beautiful inside out. Stay strong. Much love 🖤
Ikr!That man is a jerk tbh.
I know I thought the same. Karma is a bitch ! He's a loser
It's good that he left! She shouldn't be around assholes.
Shes the one who put water on boiling oil. Thats cooking 101, she caused this accident
@@zachzahn2567 Putting water on boiling oil isn't the smartest thing to do but Who's gonna think about cooking 101 when your damn house about to burn down??? My point isn't about who caused the accident! It's about how heartless of him to just leave after everything that happened.
Burns are so incredibly painful. This is one tough girl and she really looks incredible to
Not a lot of burn victims end up surviving, and so I'm proud that she made it this far. That must've been so traumatic to even endure in the slightest. Wishing you all the best in life, Charlene! May you heal completely in due time.
You're very strong. And thank goodness you still have your eyes. Stay strong. No need to care what others say about you.
Yes, she's lucky she still has her eyes. What a strong woman
@@noimxge6684 you are so strong💪
@@noimxge6684 It's true, I was the egg
@@user-zz3mg5qf5m racist
She is strong girl
She still looks cute right now and working out is like 90% of someone's physical beauty. She's doing it right to reclaim her identity.
For real 😳kinda sexy too 😍🤩
Whether it's the same day or a few weeks, it doesn't change the fact that he left you when you needed him. His loss. You are beautiful and brave and deserve better. Sending lots of love to you!
I don’t know if I could be that strong. She’s an amazing woman.
She tried saving her dog that is more human than her ex boyfriend.. which is pig in a sheepskin!..i wish for ur fast recovery.. Emotionally and physically.
Ur a champion n a shero, guick recovery n her ex boyfriend is such a loser, what an idiot
Dogs are low IQ
Her ex revealed his true identity. He could have stayed to help during her recovery. What a jerk. Adversity weeds out the selfish. She truly dodged a bullet when he left. But I'm glad she had genuinely supportive friends.
He was already her ex....so if he left whats surprising in that.
And on top of that staying with this girl is more dangerous who is doing PG and doesn't know these basic things about kitchen
Women would’ve done the same thing.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Ok but the OP never mentioned anything regarding gender. Why are you bringing this up?
@@0xD1CE If he wanted to bring up that Jesus used to love roller skating in Hollywood while playing a trumpet, he damn would have every right to. And besides, he was already her ex before this even happened. Fine another reason to be manufacture your own outrage.
@@xavierlucky397 You realize how stupid your argument is, right. Using your logic, I can ask him this question because "I damn would have every right to" and YOU should "find another reason to manufacture your outrage" over my comment. Put that bullshit aside, I only asked because gender was entirely irrelevant to the comment and this guy just seemed like he wanted to escalate things for no reason. I bet you're also the same type of person who ironically replies "nobody asked" under people's comments.
Oh gosh... burns are the worst pain to deal with because it's not like one hit and you're done, you can feel the heat and searing pain continously through all the layers of your skin... truly horrifying
I'm glad she survive and hope she is doing well in the future too..
Also props to the doctors, surgeons, nurse etc who treated her, and her own efforts to treat it because her skin healed so well
“ Don’t wait until tragedy happens to stop and ask yourself if you are living the most authentic version of your life” Charlene Chew. One of my new all time favorite quotes!! Unglamorous? Girl, you got more beauty and loveliness in a single eyelash than most people have in their whole body!!! ❤️❤️❤️ - Ashley
she turned off the stove herself and even had to tell her ex to call an ambulance for her ..ugh. I’m glad she’s no longer with him.she deserves better 💜💜
yup. her ex are jerkass
they didnt break up the night of the accident tho?
@@lilapuppu5961 I did not say they did tho?
and didn't follow her to the hospital ? and citing Covid for not accompanying her?
It happened NOT because of him.... she put water on hot oil that’s what caused the oil to explode on her face......THATS why she got burned..... stop blaming people who didn’t cause it
She’s honestly attractive. And with that willpower and mindset, it’s even more attractive. What a fighter💪🔥
Yes, the ex lost a good woman
@@nomas9993 Yeah, I genuinely hope she finds a good person to be with for the rest of her life
Yeah she's very pretty, now she just looks like she's been in the wars and has some battle wounds which can be sexy in their own way too. Imperfections are very endearing and you can see her personality is really sweet.
@@Pebble_Collector YES I agree!!
I’m glad that she seems better now an I truly hope the best for her. What a beautiful and kind girl💗💕😘
Incredible how such a traumatic injury can have you emerge as a stronger women than you were before the burns. As a former RN and now retired, I working in Critical Care and have to say it was negligent for the hospital staff in the Emergency department not to make you are #1 priority for an admission, Covid or not. The surgeons you have had for all the operations you have had are excellent considering the deep burns you did have and the grafts done. It is amazing to me how you didn't have injury to your eyes with partial or permanent loss of vision. I wish you well with your continued studies. I also wish you health emotionally as you move toward the years ahead. Be well and always proud of who you are and will continue to be in the world. Bless you.
Charlene Chew is the type of person who blame herself for everything that has had happen.
Deep down, she’s strong as nails.
Please dont get bothered by what others think, you are beautiful in a unique way.
Your character is what matters most.
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼
To all men watching this, look after your partner. Be by their side when they need you the most. Love them and support them unconditionally. Protect them when needed to. And remind them everyday without fail that regardless skin color, weight, or looks, they are the most beautiful people on this planet.
Smh Aussie men
@@memoobaba how do you know if he was Aussie🤔🤔
And to all Women..do the same for your men.
I'm Australian, and honestly always tell my spouse this, I genuinely love her regardless of anything, and in my eyes and heart, she is the most beautiful.
Let's be real here, if her boyfriend got burned she most likely would've left him too.
She's healed extremely well. I would never know anything had happened.
She’s brave enough to share her story. Such an inspiration to other people.
It’s so lucky her eyes are not damaged. Still a beautiful lady ! Strong brave and charming! I’m sure her current/future husband will even admire and love her more knowing what she has Been thru.
I think asians are so good at taking care of their skin that a burn doesn’t even have too great of an effect
You've seen the true colours of your ex and this shows he won't be there for the hard times. In time you will find the one who will love you the way you are. Stay strong and you just gained a new follower on tiktok!
Yes, that dude is horrible. But I was wondering if that decision was out of guilt. Neither party would've been truly happy (this is completely an assumption). It's difficult to be in the same room as the one that caused the accident and the one who got injured. Tho There's no denying he should've helped her recover and not leave in the worst time possible.
@@aayansh3919 IMO if he left her out of guilt, he would've at least helped her recover a bit before leaving her since it would suggest he does feel guilty about what he did. Otherwise, it's more logical to assume that he left her because he didn't want to associate himself with a burn survivor/he didn't like her looks anymore.
One sided story only everyone so judgy. Besides, it's not even the focus of the story.
Thank you. However let us not make assumptions, i did not intend the breakup to be focus of my story ❤️
@@charlenechew250 Well, still sounds like a dick no matter what it is. Stay strong and take care !
you are so brave girl! I love how she told her story of what happen to her without even one single tear drops.
She is very strong, the events she went through and manage to go through that. I wish her the best
Imagine, in a time like this when she really needed someone close around, he quickly left her. What untrustworthy can a person be.
@Annabelle Phen Lee Most despicable I'd ever known.
Guess that's what we call life! I'd be wishing on him a similar episode, but she wouldn't want that!
@@literung8767 maybe he had guilt and any time spent around her made him feel horrible
@@chromaffs9668 that's called running away from reality, and responsibility, and everything else that resembles a man.
she's not pretty anymore, this guy probably a white person because asian wouldn't do that
reason why the pain is “indescribable” is because it has been proven pain cannot be remembered. you can only remember your reaction or your emotions but pain can never be mentally remembered.
Or the nerves were too damaged for her to feel the pain. Either way, it must have been hell while she was waiting so many hours for medical attention.
@@lsw2519 i think she’s referring to the moment she was injured, not after. that few hours of excruciating pain cannot be remembered.
wait wait wait wait wait wait.......... uberstrike... youre a legend i miss that game
@@dips4010 me too!!!!! i rlly miss that game
@@fusionXTR18 but i can still remember the pain I had in some injuries. How is that possible?
She is so brave and strong ! And honestly, I think, still very very pretty !! What an remarkable young lady ! Thank you for sharing your story.
Charlene - I'm lost for words except to say what a wonderful person you are.
How is it possible that she is still gorgeous after the tragedy?
I wish i had her positivity. You can feel it shine through from her.
She's a fighter. And a keeper.
Genetics. Wish i was so pretty!
all the topical scars in the world won't ruin facial symmetry, what is important is that she is able to gain confidence not just from being an attractive female...
@@jonadam5505 woman* dont call women females, weirdo.
@ZenFlowers when you call a woman or girl a female, you're dehumanizing her, for we only use the terms male/female when we are talking about our reproductive systems or about animals. Also, it isn't even a noun, rather it's an adjective: a female bunny, a female mare, a male bird and so on, that's how you use the word. Male and females are not nouns on their own. That's why it's wrong to use it!
@@auroramacula i dont mind being called female i think its a you thing lol
Its her ex’s fault but he left her knowing that she became like this..
Probably this what it takes for her to find out that he isn't worth it... A very expensive price but she got a lot of valuable life lessons in change...
Usually girls like bad boys. So i am not surprise with that.
@@DailyGPT365 ngl sometimes u dont know how ppl r
@@kavinaa9398 fr
@@DailyGPT365 incel
I maybe late to this, but you are a very courageous women Charlene. truly inspiring. i go through emotional distress and depression almost everyday, because i have Neurofibromatosis. There was at times i couldn't go on anymore ever since my ex left me at times of covid. but looking up random youtube video such as this to make me feel, that i am not alone, thank you charlene and stay strong
OMG, you are such a brave girl. Good on you to speak up and I hope you have recovered fully now. I’m proud of you!
She's a boss, she owns her emotions and mentality after all the ordeal. Such painful injuries and your partner leaving while in a foreign land would have psychologically demean a person. Stay strong Charlene.
She's so well healed for less than a year. What a beautiful beautiful girl inside out.
Hey may I talk to you for a minute?
She's absolutely stunning! What a brave strong soul
I'm in my 30's and I had a similar facial injury when i was 14. I truely admire your courage and respect you for putting yourself in such a vulnerable position to help educate the ignorant public out there when there is absolutely no reason to. You probably dont need to hear this but I just wanna let you know when you get to my age, life gets better and all those insecurely fades away. I had no help, no therapy i climbed out of the hole myself and so can you. Time and valuable life experiences heals all wounds. Please continue to embrace life, its amazing
Charlene said in one of her videos that she doesn't blame him because she chose to add the water to oil. She's kind enough to think in this way. But it also shows that her ex just had conditional love for her. Hopefully she finds someone better 💕
Maybe maybe not. He also had to deal with and handle his own psychological trauma. Like guilt for his role in the accident. Being with her was a constant reminder. We dont know how the dynamic of their relationship change. It's not really fair to put that assessment on her ex. It might have been best for both of them to end the relationship.
@@Splexsychiick I do agree with what you say. After all everyone has their own choices. I said better because, I guess that's my idea of love.
Thank you so much for following me for this long to know this. 💕
Her ex doesn't deserve her.. If he truely loved her he should have been there to look after her when she was at her lowest but he decided to walk out n leave her shattered completely physically mentally and emotionally she deserve better..
@@onlyhuman8496 yes she does deserve better.
YOU STILL LOOK VERY PRETTY, YOUR HEART IS EVEN STRONGER N PRETTIER😍
Some blessings-- her eyes are alright. Her skin is healing amazingly well considering the severity of the burns. No hypertrophic scarring. Thought she had sunburn with a little redness of the skin if there were no headlines.Courageous girl with examplary attitude. Charlene is still very pretty. Her ex sounds like an Ozzie guy.
@@maltygoodness2 her ex is the definition of a piece of shit.. causing this accident and then dumping her 😤😤😤
His loss!
Tthanks for sharing Charlene! I admire your courage & resilience. U still look beautiful inspite of your terrible ordeal. Praying for your complete recovery
God bless you. Your resilience is an inspiration and your compassion for others shows us how we should all live.
You're so brave, strong and beautiful! Thanks for sharing with us & we have so so much to learn from you! Please continue to be such an inspiration ❤️
Yes
Yes
Omg Speishi!
ang ganda mo naman ...
@qp umm is something wrong with you
Her ex boyfriend is just a jerk and joker left strong girl behind even though it was his fault
I will live her as well.
Love what she says at the end. Really made me reflect today. What a beautiful girl, seriously. Easy to see past her burns.
She is such a beautiful person inside n out I hope she continues to reach others with her story
“Don’t wait for tragedy to happen for you to ask yourself whether you’re living the most authentic version of your life”
Beauty comes from the inside, Charlene!
coming fr someone using a fake celeb pic..
Thays what ugly people said
Beauty is always outside & our misconception is that it doesn't have a value (It does!).
But what comes from inside& has more value is, skills & talent.
@@forefatherofmankind3305 and personality i guess
Don’t lie and be patronising. Just admit that she lost a big part of her looks and this will affect her whole life. Don’t pretend that she is better off or something. I can only pray that that there will be advanced medicine in the near future to restore her original skin before the accident.
The way she told the story shown that she is very optimistic about what just happened to her. It is full of energy. You are a beautiful girl.
You have such a great personality, that your beauty shines through, especially with your confidence and the humor we saw within the first minute or so.
She healed so well. The doctors did a very amazing job... also the fact that she doesn't blame anyone for the accident... that shows how refined and responsible person she is.💚
She's so pretty omg I still can't believe people as pretty as her exist, even with the scars!! SHES SO BEAUTIFUL MY GOSH
She has beautiful smile and such cute dimples!
@@ViNguyen-tp5ej RIGHT!!
She’s sooo pretty though I didn’t even notice her scars honestly wow she’s stunning! Xx
You have to put it 1080p to see it more. Overall her burns aren't as bad. People legitimately go blind.
Not being able to recognize myself is the worst. I experienced it. You are so brave..and beautiful ❤.
For such a severe burn injury, I'm amazed at how well she recovered and she's still very pretty! She's such a strong woman.
The doctors did a really good job she looks amazing!! I've seen some 3rd degree burn patients but her recovery and scars looks really really good compared to others...she is a beautiful and strong women regardless.
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL SOUL SHE HAS, GOD BLESS THIS WOMAN
Girl! You’re beautiful inside & out! You’re a fighter & the strongest woman I’ve ever seen! Your heart is pure ❤️❤️❤️
I actually couldn't even tell. I thought she had acne.. She's beautiful. I wouldn't have even paid attention.. I cannot imagine the pain she went through, Omgosh this poor lady..
I'm so glad that she got to see the low life that her ex is before she spent anymore time with him.. Trust me, there are guys out there that wouldn't see the burns and only see the amazing person that you are..
You are extremely brave and strong. I can still hear the fear and trauma in your voice throughout the interview. You are truly inspiring and I am sure that your story will help many people (which it already is). 🤍
God will hral you completely...just remember the WORLD IS ROUND......who knows someday .....the clock is ticking....I admire you Charlene...GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS.....😍😍😍😍😍
"You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them" Maya Angelou. Thank you for sharing your story, and thank you for what you do every single day. I genuinely believe you are gorgeous inside and OUT. Hoping to meet you one day, enjoy Life ;-)
For 3rd degree burns, i have to say your scars are in a very good conditions. My body is full of scars from all kinds of surgeries and they don't look like that. You are a strong person. I wish you all the best and someone, who appreciates you, for who you are, not only visually but also your soul. ❤️🍀
A good doctor can treat that well but some try the easy way
@@pietervanderzwaan4295 True. Unfortunately in my case, my scars formed in a weird way, because they had to be reopened.
She’s beautiful. That hasn’t changed. And imagine how strong this has made her. She’s an amazing girl.
What an absolutely beautiful courageous woman.
If more people had her attitude to life, the world would be a better place.
Thank you
It help me alot
I'm burnt 80%of my body just few months back...
In the process of my healing your story helped me alot n I don't feel alone.
In my case my bf stayed with me and watched me heal little by little 💕 I'm just grateful for everything ❤
Your Ex left you because he is not good enough for you. You are beautiful inside and outside. You deserve someone much better than him! Jia You!
Maybe he felt the same way and that's why he left. He probably was delaying with his own emotional stress because of his role I the situation. Like guilt. I cant even imagine 'destroying' a lover's beautiful face. She still looks beautiful but during the healing period she mentioned how gross it would get with pus and even showed some of the dead skin peeling off. Not many people can handle seeing these things first hand or physically care for people dealing with this.
he must not have been able to face her knowing that it is technically his fault.
She is so brave, genuine and positive. She looks glamorous despite the burns
She is radiating positivity and true beauty 😍
I was at work, using an industrial Broaster. I haven’t heard someone describe so similarly to my experience like she did. Mine were second degree burns in the same areas as hers. The oil was around 375 degrees F. I’m still healing right now it happened quite recently. But I needed comfort in knowing I wasn’t crazy.
I'd shoot myself if I had to live with scars on my face or a permanent disability
the ex is such a jerk lol... but she is so brave and strong :) she has gained my respect
What kinda jerk? Like a jerk chicken or beef jerky?
@@ciaservice8093 damn bro you got the whole squad laughing 😐
Oh come on. You really don't even know the entire story of their relationship.
Maybe the guilt he felt was too much?
Maybe she used to be a very bossy and controlling person?
Maybe they were both toxic for each other?
But let's be honest, if he got burned, she probably would have left him too.
I know it sounds harsh but that's the reality of our world.
@Toriann Beckford thanks for reading my comment 🤦🏿
@@ciaservice8093 😐
I wish she showed a photo of her ex "unintentionally" like, "oh, this is a photo of me and my ex before the accident". I guarantee you, he will never get another girl in his life
Why?? He didn't intentionally burn her and it wasn't even completely his fault. Your comment is ridiculous asf
@@brownwikue5137 I did watch the whole video. If the actual victim doesn't put all the blame on him( as she shouldn't), still is friends with him and harbors no ill will towards him.... Then why should you or anyone else harbor any hate towards him?
Its not like he threw acid in her face..it was an accident 😕
Of course he will get another girl in his life. He has anonymity and why would he ever tell a girl he's dating that he accidentally disfigured his previous girlfriend and abruptly abandoned her.
His future partners will never know.
My dear, i was mesmerized by your energy and smile. That is what your true self is. Go girl!
Oh my. So sorry you went through such a painful experience, in so many ways. 😥💔
She won't let a accident ruin her life
You're so pretty
You're such a BRAVE girl
She is still one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen, and after hearing her talk I’m like 1000000x more in love with her
Stay strong, girl. Never let go what you want. If you are lost, let your heart guide you and you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.
She is still beautiful and her courage and bravery is unparalleled
She didn’t cry talking about all the physical pains but choked up when her ex left her during that hard time …
I pray for her to get the best
My aunt is a burn victim in a car accident, my uncle unfortunately died in the crash, but becomes a top sales agent in a insurance company, she is a strong woman raising 2 still schooling children at that time, now she is happily half retired with grandchildren.