I feel bad for the first boy. His mind thinks normally like the teenager he is but he just can’t control the body he’s stuck in. So sad. I don’t get why the parents decided to have more children.
WingsOfTruth - Omgosh!!😢. That’s extremely horrible when it’s really the cultures fault. Im sure they know that being inbred will cause disabilities more often than not but they still take that chance. It’s sad it’s the children who suffer. Thank you for looking into it. Appreciate it!
Does he have the mental capacity of a normal 17 year old but with other physical deformities restricting his communication and muscle control etc? Or he is mentally challenged? I hope it is the latter, at least theres a chance that he's not fully aware of all of his misfortunes.
yes but Im even more horrified if I think about the fact that in US , in most states they dont allow abortion even if parents are brother and sister....THATS CRUEL!!! US is turning into a dystopia and all for " pro-life" ...whats the point of life if it looks like this?? Only more suffering...like we dont have it enough in this world
Samz R it is illegal in many countries such as Australia, America’s, Russia, china, korea etc. but for some reason in Europe, and obviously third world countries it isn’t seen as illegal or legal, it’s just happening and it’s terrible.
TaakosGoodOutHere as shit as it is sadly everyone cant see :’) I lost my vision from 14 or so up to now (19) due to a doctor misdiagnosing me Id love to see 100% but Im fortunate enough to see as much as I already am unlike that poor lad sobbing just basically hating his existence really hurts and Id give one of my eyes to him just so we could see shit at least a bit Really sad :(
“The worst part is when we can’t stop them from crying” Because their bodies are BREAKING DOWN on a cellular level. Even a fully cognizant person would be howling in agony if their body couldn’t get rid of waste products
i don’t know how the mother can live with herself. People are defending her by saying she has no education which is false doctors told her the truth and risks yet she continues to blame them. Even after seeing the painful outcome she continued to have children ,me as a mother im a stranger and had to hold my tears hearing those cries😔💔.
Destree Sure the father needs to take responsibility for his actions & not blame the doctor !! But let’s talk about the British government & it’s failed Policies for a minute ??? Multiculturalism is a racist policy designed to keep all ethic minorities ignorant & poor !!! It’s a policy designed to create cheap renewable labour force for Menial jobs !! & the young men who don’t want to do those crap jobs only other options is a life of crime & jail !!! It’s very cruel to bring a whole group of ethnic people into this country and not to help them Integrate and assimilate into the western culture. From an anthropological point of view most of these Pakistani people have the mindset of people from the 15th century agrarian Europe. So how can they possible take responsibility for there actions in a modern western 2019 prospective ???? Please enlighten me ????
@@samriwelkeish7981 She is an inbread peace of shit.She just doesn't even give a bloody fuck about the consequenses aslong as her stupid tradition is makeing herself happy.
They were not raised the way we were, so he hole heartily believes they did nothing wrong, because this type of marriage between first cousins is traditional that’s literally all they know...it’s not ok I agree. But telling them to disregard everything they were taught is like telling a catholic or a anti-vaxxer that everything they were taught growing up is wrong, even if there is in your face evidence that what they believe isn’t right/safe
Especially when the UK has the NHS. You cause problems that could have been avoided. Get it treated free at point of use using hardworking taxpayers money and then have the barefaced cheek to blame the bloody doctors. Get out
I agree with you 1000%. It's very difficult for me to watch this program because I am so angry at these stupid people they know better they've seen what happens when first cousins marry and then they bring children into the world to suffer that should be a crime
One way it's their fault because they should've thought about it before having another child after their first son but another way it's not their fault because they haven't had education to learn about all these
I'm sure the doctors explained to the parents the health concerns and risks after the first child. For sure, after the 2nd child born with defects. To go on to have a total of 6 is awful.
If you want to marry without having children, like fine. But *if you* bring a child in with such pain and difficulty is not fair at all. *edited for clarity
eacarriere I agree that’s why people should seriously get genetically tested for diseases so they don’t match if they both have the genes for it. I carry the most dangerous gene for cystic fibrosis and if I was to have a child with someone of the same or similar gene my child would most likely not make it long or suffer in their life and that’s unfair for the child.
How would they know , its not like they would've known their children will be sick , because of lack of education ofc and proper awareness . But not all first cousin marriages lead to having sick offspring , as only a minority of families carry a recessive disease.
I’m from a pakistani family, and my mother’s friend in the UK married her first cousin. They have two children, one which is heavily mentally disabled and the other blind and also mentally disabled. I find it completely sickening that they decided to have kids, but my mom and much of my family in Pakistan sees this and somehow is ok with it. I get that arranged marriage to family is the easiest traditionally islamic way to go about a relationship, but when you are ignorant of the risks of incest and decide to have a kid with your cousin anyway, that to me is morally reprehensible. The culture has to change.
I can relate to almost everything you described, as I also come from an Islamic background and your neighbouring country. I have seen my relatives marrying their sons and daughters to their first cousins, which, to me, seems so strange and even shameful. However, none of them seem to care. The only reason they continue these practices is that they have been passed down from generation to generation. Luckily, their children are healthy and beautiful for now, but they are still young. I just hope they don’t suffer for actions they didn’t choose. Personally, I don’t want to marry a first cousin, and I feel that leaving my community behind is the best option once I am fully independent. It’s sad that the people who really need to see this video likely won’t while those who don’t need it will.
@@KhalidSiddiquiimind-blowing! I never heard of that. Why is this tradition so popular? What are the reasons behind marriages among relatives? To keep wealth or why?
@@madinam7532 From my perspective, there are several factors behind marriages among relatives Firstly, as the original comment stated, cousin marriage is considered the easiest Islamic way to go about a relationship. In Muslim culture, it is not viewed as something unusual or inappropriate. This practice is particularly common in third-world, Muslim-majority countries such as those in the Middle East and South Asia. Although cousin marriage originally was from Arab traditions, it later influenced South Asian cultures. Apart from this, the primary reasonn in my observation is that marriage in these cultures is not just a bond between two individuals but a bond between two families. This familial aspect makes cousin marriages more appealing. Also, wealth could also be a reason though it may not hold as much significance. But first-cousin marriages can lead to inbreeding depression causing genetic defects. Despite this, people in these regions often lack a clear understanding of the potential consequences. Even when aware, they may avoid questioning the practice because it aligns with Islamic teachings, and challenging these is considered a sin. That is why cousin marriages are rarely condemned, even in light of their potential risks. Sorry for writing this large paragraph, I had some free time :)
When marrying a person who is not related is 7000 K to one risk then you are right , a sick barbaric practice that belongs in Pakistan , if you want to marry your relatives f++k off to Pakistan and have your ' Rat people' th-cam.com/video/RTYwLunQJwI/w-d-xo.html
I don't care if it's culture. This is causing kids to suffer their entire, possibly short lives. If the benefits is that you get to already know each other's family or you have a good bond, then just marry a family friend or something.
As a Pakistani I can easily tell that she has completed limited education in Pakistan, hence her trust in the medical system is significantly less. The problem is that cousin marriage in Pakistan, while I too believe is definetly wrong, has not caused huge health problems like it has done in the UK and this is because the Pakistani community in the UK is obviously smaller thus increasing the chances of genetic disorders. So sadly women like her can’t comprehend this
Im not a first cousin child, but my parents carried a dangerous gene that causes cancers. Its killed 2 of my siblings and i cant help but feel slightly miffed that they had 6 kids. Sometimes, people just play the odds and hope for the best rather than consider the sad reality when the odds play out poorly.
@Ellie Finn even If it means knowingly that after having that 1st child, they know the genes aren't compatible and could fuck up their 2nd child for their whole entire life?
And just think, this is a traditional practice, so it's likely that their grandparents were first cousins too. And their parents... Family tree is a wreath.
Sounds just like all the anti-vaxxers saying that a life saving vaccination will give their child autism, but yet they’re okay with putting not only their child’s , but the general public’s, lives at stake from known pandemic causing organisms..... Ignorance is NOT bliss, people!!
@@brujablanca4941 vaccines are poison!!! They contain mercury,toxins,animal DNA and aluminum!! The mercury and aluminum cross the brain blood barrier and destroy brain cells. They damage health,especially the immune system. The diseases they supposedly protect us against are NOT life threatening! Natural immunity obtained from combatting actual wild viruses is far better and life long. The human body is AMAZING in what it can do. The immune system should be developed normally by nature. Babies should be breast fed and its up to the parents to limit exposure to harmful illnesses especially year one. Getting vaccines is like russian roulette, u are brainwashed!! Do your research,search for the thousands of parents testimony about their vaccine damaged children....its true!! If it happened to one of ur kids,nieces or nephews then you would be a believer. Theres a family that had their triplets damaged....3 healthy toddlers!!! PERFECT!!! The parents were even being cautious by doing single vaccines and spacing them out. ALL 3 babies woke up NORMAL that day....by bedtime the parents had 3 autistic children. I will try and find thier name for you....do ur research!!! Vaccines are toxic!!!
Yesterday i watched an documentary about monkeys. When a female monkey is ready to mate, she leaves her own group to find a Partner because she doesn’t want to do incest and have unhealthy children.
It’s bewildering that incest even came into existence. If I recall correctly, farmers millennia ago would make sure that the livestock isn’t part of the same family due to the same reasons as humans having incest. If they knew, why was this never passed down? And I also don’t want to make any judgements on Pakistanis but isn’t Pakistan generally rural with farmers? The should know what happens with inbreeding animals.
Constitutional Republic it would dissuade some people if they couldn’t get legally married, because there can be economic benefits to being married. It would at least make some people think twice.
@@Katie-mw7pd Law isn't a problem here, culture is. You can find plenty of countries where such marriages aren't technically illegal and yet almost never happen. For Pakistanis marriages within family are fact of life and age old tradition. As long as they'll ignore obvious consequences of such archaic practices no amount of law restrictions will change anything.
Alright I get the first child. They may not have known, but why keep going? Why do it again? They look miserable. Listening to him cry in hallway at the door was sad.
I would let the poor man drive one last time or the first time in a VR headset. He deserves to be happy like the rest of us. Just make this inbred incest practice illegal.
@@Zerz0 there are special headsets tested for blind people so they can see for the first time, but they aren't made for the public, are very expensive and also don't run with every condition.
No offense but I’m shocked about how many children they averagely make through their life. If I have more than two kids in the future I’ll be exhausted lol
At least he's better than most parents who marry cousins. I'm a Bangladeshi and most married cousins are forced to do it by their parents who in turn force their children to do it.
Tbh, as a Pakistani. I can tell you it breaks families more than keeping them together and pits one portion against the other, because of marital conflict/petty shit. Like, some aunts will get secretive and not converse with some cousins, or straight up cut ties with ,for example, a brother's family. It makes everything complicated, and childhood isn't fun either because the parents won't let you play with the opposite sexed cousin because you might get married to him some day. It's perverted, and it ruins vital family relationships. This practice is common in the middle East as well.
This is just wild paranoia. “You can’t get the same bond, love, and trust with those outside of your family” these people live in a small scared little world
Jillian Holmes funny thing is so many people get along much better with people outside of their family. I have around 50 cousins and don’t talk to any of them, but I get along with my friends like they were my brothers and sisters. These people are scared to wander outside of their culture and befriend different people.
The key word was "trust", in their culture a stranger wouldn't lend you money or help you fight a battle but a family member, even if you've never met them, would do so since you are their kin. It is something we have lost a little in the west since many of us no longer even speak to our families or even care for our elderly, if anything we have reversed it in the west as we seek to create our own family and leave our parents and siblings behind. As Peter said, we are more likely to form bonds with strangers to create our own groups but in older cultures the family name is stronger than any other bond you can have. That is until someone dishonours the family name...
Braeden Lotz they have 6 children in total and 3 of them which are healthy. I am not excusing their behaviour/actions. I also believe they should have stopped after their first child. However they are ignorant and don’t want to face the fact that they are to blame for their children’s conditions. They thought that their subsequent children won’t be affected, not realising that they are high risk, because they are both carrying a faulty gene 🧬. They should have gone through genetic counselling.
@@SuperA1507 Well, you would have hoped that knowing that the parents were related, that genetic tests would have been done following the birth of any disabled child and the parents told the outcome and appraised of the likelihood of having more disabled children. I was born in 1969 and there was a disabled kid in my class at school. He was odd-looking, he looked like he had Aperts Syndrome and had been born with his legs on back to front. He had an older brother that was also affected and a younger sister too, their mother also had these facial characteristics. His older brother came home from work ill one day and went to bed, he was found dead in bed the next day aged 17/18. My classmate was also found dead in bed at the age of 22/23. Both brothers were found to have heart defects and after the second brother died their mother and sister were found to have the same defects and were successfully treated. The whole family had vast amounts of treatment over the years, you would have thought that after having 2 children with the same disabilities that they would have figured that more would be a likelihood. My classmate was not Asian and so I don't know how the disability arose with his mother, but it was inherited. Things are too PC these days and you can bet your bottom dollar that if there was the public campaign that there ought to be to put a stop to first cousin marriages, it would be branded racist when in fact all that any sane person wants is to protect the resources of the NHS and the welfare state by simply avoiding the creation of individuals whose lives are absolutely blighted by the sorts of conditions seen here.
@Diane Berg Marrying your cousin is generally acceptable, provided it is not a recurring tradition within the family. Additionally, my family did engage in such unions without any negative consequences, as it was not a frequent practice.
It's very bad if it goes on for generations and generations like in Palestine. They do it there to keep the religion alive. Which I think that is wrong. but I think it's okay if you fall in love with your cousin, if your family doesn't already have a history of incest.
yoginc Muslims are not the only ones who do it. That’s the reason people feel attacked and don’t accept the information regarding the genetic disease issue.
I’m confused... I understand this is a cultural norm and it’s important to keep certain traditions. The problem is when so many children are born with rare diseases and abnormalities, didn’t they ever consider abolishing this tradition? Especially after all these studies came out that it’s detrimental to the health of their children...
The thing with some culture, cousins are not mingling with one another (especially opposite genders) when they grow up. So, when they are adults, cousins feel like strangers
‘He thinks kids his age should be able to see’ ‘He thinks kids his age should be able to drive’. BECAUSE THEY SHOULD AND HE SHOULD YET HE CANT BECAUSE OF YOU.
@@shashankgm2533 ... a toy car that he is unable to see, and unable to understand to be a toy? Sounds "fun". He exists merely due to his parents' guilt.
@@elizabeth-leavesandreads2890 only SOME American states have made it illegal. In fact US is the only western country to have restriction and many states actually excuse to allow it because Christianity also "allows it", that's probably why you hear so many Alabama incest jokes. Luckly it has gone down but it's letting people like in these stories like this slip through the cracks. but who knows if more people like white couple showed around the end hope onto it more
Can you imagine being so unwilling to consider marrying outside of your ethnic group that you are willing to take this awful risk? Of course, the national health service has to pay all the medical bills. If the families had to pay, they would think twice about doing this.
@@mojojojo8631 It is legal in christianity too. and especially with 'royalty'. ever heard of bluebloods? ever wonder why many royalty all have faces like horses, a wandering eye and a relative or two they don't let out of the attic? lol, sheesh.
@Sidra I know you are human and I am not twisting anything..I am Moroccan and Puertorrican and there are things in my cultures I don't follow,also I said that was not fun to your "fun fact" if I hurt your feelings then I'm sorry but my comments are abaut this video and the reaction of others that I find hilarious
I respect culture but we have to be honest, there's preserving culture and then there's just staying stuck in the past. Some things just HAVE to change. Something being a respected tradition isn't an excuse to torture people.
@Oompa Loompa fella cultures like zulu and hindus have separate systems like in case of the hindus the gotta system to separate closely related bloodlines from marrying
My friend is pakistani, her parents are first cousins and now her cousins are marrying eachother. She has shunned the ones that married eachother. She understands the dangers are too high. Im glad there are pakistanis against this. Just sadly not enough.
Utter selfishness. How can they think that it was just “God’s test” instead of accepting that these are genetic disorders caused by their own backward ways?
i agree. their thoughts in this regard made me very angry.. how can they be so stubborn against scientific facts..? I mean, it is modern times.. they live in a modern world..
Thumb of rule in my religion. If you caused it, then it's your own damn fault. Freedom of choice is an important belief, yet people seem to ignore it exists, so everything "its God's fault" and by that they remove all of their own responsibilities. Which is obviously nuts. It's the equivalent of blaming everyone and everything for your own mistakes. So, no, it's not exclusive of religious people, but a character fault of general population to play the "I'm only a victim of circumstances" card.
@@isabellas4120 I have encountered so many classmates that acted like this before. Even my teacher was ranting about it to me. These kind of students don't bother to study hard because they think God has everything planned out and it's "gods plan".
@@damurichannel hmm. But I've seen people doing it tho. I mean some Muslims especially the ones whose parents are rich and live in big cities. Even sometimes in towns too. Nothing is perfect I'd say. The westernisation has distanced us from our culture
@@radger6392 yes, north africans like moroccans or Egyptian do it a lot, even lebanese and Turkish. Sadly this is common now, but if you are a true Muslim you have to know that even hanging out is haram, let alone having a girlfriend or a boyfriend
I have pakistani friends and i'm quite close to their family. The parents and extended family believe that the closer the relation, the better. I.e 1st cousin is more preferable than 2nd cousin...
This is why I, as a Pakistani, will most definitely not let my kids marry their cousins. Its so selfish. This tends to be a generational difference gladly, so will eventually die out.
There are incestuous behaviors in every culture. It's sad but dont just feel like it's a Pakistani problem. It is a human problem. Some people are just sick. I'm glad you will teach your children differently.
@@cheylalynn7881 You're right. It definitely is a human problem and hopefully we can tackle it in every culture, but I have hope for the younger generation. We will break a lot of ties. 🙏
@@Julie.Canada The "older" generation that im talking about is our parents (not just our grandparents). They still exist ofc and they still have children who have grown up now and are getting married hence why the rise. The younger generation im referring to is us, (the children of immigrants for example) and once we grow into parents, we hopefully will break this generational curse. Thats what im talking about. Just like a lot of parents rn are against the LGBT+ movement for example, you cant always change how your parents were brought up but you can decide the way you would raise your kids.
incest have different definitions among different cultures for example in ISLAM incest is the marriage between mother&son sister&brother, aunt and uncle with their nieces. but it's not illegal for cousins to marry each other and here is where the problem begins.
@@paigex4052 as a person who lives in Iran that unfortunately has this culture, I think nowadays it's mostly because of Islam culture that most boys and girls don't allow to have a relationship without marriage and they unconsciously pushed to fell in love with their cousins that they grownup with. luckily in Iran, this culture mostly disappeared but it's not illegal yet.
@Marcus Marcus not only that but most see marriage as a sacrement for procreation. Why use protection when marriage is the ticket (in most cultures and religion) to having and bringing up children?
Thankfully the interviewer belonged to the same race and religion, it would've completely closed conversation otherwise. Whatever we got out of this conversation is because of this informed sweet and rational investigator!
@@lexirandle2497 it's fucking sick! They're ok with having disabled children who get worse and worse. These people have some sort of mental problem if they think it's ok. Especially when she said love and trust between them is stronger than it would be with someone who isn't related to her. My family is Arab American and we've NEVER done any of that shit! Some had arranged marriages but not within the family. I can't believe how they can talk with so much excitement and smile about it.
@@lexirandle2497 it's fucking sick! They're ok with having disabled children who get worse and worse. These people have some sort of mental problem if they think it's ok. Especially when she said love and trust between them is stronger than it would be with someone who isn't related to her. My family is Arab American and we've NEVER done any of that shit! Some had arranged marriages but not within the family. I can't believe how they can talk with so much excitement and smile about it.
@@lexirandle2497 it's fucking sick! They're ok with having disabled children who get worse and worse. These people have some sort of mental problem if they think it's ok. Especially when she said love and trust between them is stronger than it would be with someone who isn't related to her. My family is Arab American and we've NEVER done any of that! Some had arranged marriages but not within the family. I can't believe how they can talk with so much excitement and smile about it.
Ugh I feel terrible for the oldest son. Can you imagine being "normal" at first and then slowly losing your sight, hearing, speaking abilities, and brain function? That has to be terrifying and it makes sense that he just sits and cries, it breaks my heart. And the parents are in major denial, it's disgusting.
If cousins are to marry, there should be genetic testing prior to marriage to determine the probability of having children that will develop genetic abnormalities.
@@imsoskkibiddi For the reasons they stated, a closer connection, lower likelihood of divorce, less familial conflict, and probably to keep the wealth in the family.
With the older child being born with the condition, you'd think they'd stop. But no, no. They carry on, creating lifelong suffering to those inncocent lives. Very selfish individuals.
@@charliesmith_ I don't understand why, evolutionarily speaking, the desert would create black and white thinking to a greater degree than, say, savanna or the taiga. The desert is harsh and difficult to survive, but the same is true about literally every other environment. Even in a place where food is bountiful (ie. a jungle), you'll have more parasites, diseases, more humans living in a smaller area to compete with, etc. It's just as difficult to survive. Or compare the desert to the tundra: both are harsh, have extreme temperatures, low population, not much food. You'll find plenty of narcissistic black and white thinking in every culture. For example, medieval Europe. Plenty of inbreeding there too...
Incest doesn't necessarily mean both parties have to procreate, as long as they don't have children and the relationship isn't pediophilic I don't see anything Morally wrong with marrying someone who you are related too, someday if you go to University or college and take an Ethics course you will probably be asked this question
@@asmallboi3559 good argument except you don't have one. People 100 years ago be like "you can't love someone from a same sex that way thats literally so wrong"
@@asmallboi3559 it's the same principle. Both can't/shouldn't have children (only through adoption). But both should have a right to have marrige and happy life. People are such a hypocrites about this topic. We just cant look past disgust. That is why same sex couples were seem as not acceptable and that is why incest is seen as unacceptable. Just disgust nothing more in both cases.
@@qutielove2208 Sadly I can relate all too well to her. My oldest brother is disabled, and my sister has had health problems, but thankfully, my parents weren't cousins like that girl's. It was tough for me growing up, and still is to this day, caring for my brother
And it’s funny that prophet Mohamed peace be upon him specifically discouraged against marrying close family members and yet some Muslims continue to do something they know is not good.
I really, really hate the whole, "It's cultural so you have to respect it." excuse when a culture is actively harming people and causing suffering. It's perfectly fine to be proud of where you come from, but when it comes to human rights, no culture should overshadow it. The safety and wellbeing of an individual human always comes first, I don't care what your culture is.
@@bryanbradley6871 there are no indigenous peoples in the UK, although there are white people. The UN is the sole body to recognise indigenous peoples. Also, the UK is the site of too many varied invasions to have an indigenous population of any sort. The only white Indigenous Peoples are the Sami.
@@blackcitroenlove quit lying and making excuses non of this applies for Native Americans who did the same thing to a people who whipped out another people . The white Brits been in UK for over 1000 years they're indigenous
inbreeding is embedded in Islam Islamic prophet himself married his daughter Fatima to his own first cousin Ali who again married the granddaughter of Muhammad Umama then again Muhammad's mother in law .. thus Ali was Muhammad's first cousin, son in law , grand son in law, and father in law altogether.
Forget cousins, i don't even want to marry in the same clan i belong to. And just because your children aren't affected yet doesn't mean your future grandchildren will not be affected. I hope the new generation change this scenario and marry out of the family. This "culture" you say will diminish your bloodline rather than expanding.
exactly. I was listening more for the reasons of WHY they did this and there wasnt a clear excuse because several people gave MANY excuses. that is because there IS NO EXCUSE for it. The most i heard was financial stability or security. IMAGE or what would others think was another. This is practicing codependency. They are finding shelter in FEAR. Like that one gentleman said: emotional blackmail. I am here in Texas and have family members that are into this MESS too; incest. I came up kinda sort of like a Tom-Girl. We had to learn to box early and i chose to box on cousins & UNCLES and dudes in every day life, that came at me with that bullshit. Out of the womb Baptized in combat. Today, i dont speak to family members and i'm cool with that. I got 2 healthy children by a man from a different country. I would rather have it that way than to endure a child suffering day in and out due to pain. Some things CAN BE PREVENTED.
Yasmin Salam that is very true!!! My parents were trying to persuade me to marry my first cousin but I flat out declined as my parents are already first cousins 🤷🏻♀️I could not take such a huge risk ...
@VHS youtube Coming out as gay is an honest thing to do. Honesty and acceptance are integral to love of any kind, especially in families. You need not turn your back in your kids if you are gay.
@VHS youtube People don't always have a choice. It's only recently that being gay is somewhat okay. Earlier, you could lose everything and be a pariah in society. You can't blame gay people who didn't have the courage to stand up to discrimination.
I feel bad for the first boy. His mind thinks normally like the teenager he is but he just can’t control the body he’s stuck in. So sad.
I don’t get why the parents decided to have more children.
WingsOfTruth - To some extent it’s through wealthy for some but that family don’t look like they have any kind of wealth. For them it was cultural.
WingsOfTruth - 😧That’s horrible.
WingsOfTruth - Omgosh!!😢. That’s extremely horrible when it’s really the cultures fault. Im sure they know that being inbred will cause disabilities more often than not but they still take that chance. It’s sad it’s the children who suffer. Thank you for looking into it. Appreciate it!
Abigail Andrade selfish parents, heartless
Amy Sternheim - Never knew they inbred but I’ve always questioned the Amish communities🤔.
just seeing that poor young man crying in the hallway should be reason enough to stop this systemic cousin marriage... :-(
Moon child right.... that was so heartbreaking ..
Does he have the mental capacity of a normal 17 year old but with other physical deformities restricting his communication and muscle control etc? Or he is mentally challenged? I hope it is the latter, at least theres a chance that he's not fully aware of all of his misfortunes.
Unfortunately it wouldn’t stop them having children.
It was heartbreaking to watch him.
That just broke my heart.. This young man is suffering for his parents ignorance.
Imagine being born and not knowing why you are suffering.
I guess u wasn't born black
@@masterkey9157 why ?!? Is it really that bad?
Emily Vieira I understand, but try to not look at life too black and white.
crystalidx easier said than done.
I still wish I didn’t know why I was suffering. Rather be undiagnosed and keep guessing than to actually have an answer for myself making things worse
The saddest part is that the mother Blamed the Doctors for her kids having the disability. This will only keep happening to her.
Can't fix stupid, but you can sure puke at the thought of it.
They are ignorant and uneducated.
I bet that doctor might have gotten frustrated and broken something after watching this documentary, and the mother blamed him for that.
Forced endowed weddings beetween cousins. Occidentals don't have to ask them to stop in their own countries.
yes but Im even more horrified if I think about the fact that in US , in most states they dont allow abortion even if parents are brother and sister....THATS CRUEL!!! US is turning into a dystopia and all for " pro-life" ...whats the point of life if it looks like this?? Only more suffering...like we dont have it enough in this world
That poor boy crying at the beginning absolutely broke my heart. He does not deserve this :(
Is he in pain?:(
@@andraarwen imagine you are born blind and can't walk, talk and hear properly, and you think this is normal but you suffer, this is pain
@@andraarwen Probably... but I also think he's afraid. He can't see and can't hear very well, laying all alone on the floor :(
Me too
I cried I felt so bad for him you can hear how upset he is ....why isn’t anybody comforting him 🥺💔
Culture should not trump science. Doesn't matter what colour, race, religion you are. This practice should be illegal.
this is a really strong point!! well said.
Samz R it is illegal in many countries such as Australia, America’s, Russia, china, korea etc. but for some reason in Europe, and obviously third world countries it isn’t seen as illegal or legal, it’s just happening and it’s terrible.
Completely agree
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i would assume it has to do with countries run by a monarchy... royal lineage and incest sort of go hand in hand.
Agreed!
'He think kids his age should be able to see.' He's correct. They should.
Wait for real
Crazy right
You gotta be shitting me🤦🏽♀️
It's a privilege not many have
TaakosGoodOutHere as shit as it is sadly everyone cant see :’)
I lost my vision from 14 or so up to now (19) due to a doctor misdiagnosing me
Id love to see 100% but Im fortunate enough to see as much as I already am unlike that poor lad sobbing just basically hating his existence really hurts and Id give one of my eyes to him just so we could see shit at least a bit
Really sad :(
“The worst part is when we can’t stop them from crying”
Because their bodies are BREAKING DOWN on a cellular level. Even a fully cognizant person would be howling in agony if their body couldn’t get rid of waste products
i don’t know how the mother can live with herself. People are defending her by saying she has no education which is false doctors told her the truth and risks yet she continues to blame them. Even after seeing the painful outcome she continued to have children ,me as a mother im a stranger and had to hold my tears hearing those cries😔💔.
"The doctors treating my kids' illness is what made them like this"
BRO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS
Destree Sure the father needs to take responsibility for his actions & not blame the doctor !! But let’s talk about the British government & it’s failed Policies for a minute ??? Multiculturalism is a racist policy designed to keep all ethic minorities ignorant & poor !!! It’s a policy designed to create cheap renewable labour force for Menial jobs !! & the young men who don’t want to do those crap jobs only other options is a life of crime & jail !!! It’s very cruel to bring a whole group of ethnic people into this country and not to help them Integrate and assimilate into the western culture. From an anthropological point of view most of these Pakistani people have the mindset of people from the 15th century agrarian Europe. So how can they possible take responsibility for there actions in a modern western 2019 prospective ???? Please enlighten me ????
Destree she so dum
@@samriwelkeish7981 She is an inbread peace of shit.She just doesn't even give a bloody fuck about the consequenses aslong as her stupid tradition is makeing herself happy.
They were not raised the way we were, so he hole heartily believes they did nothing wrong, because this type of marriage between first cousins is traditional that’s literally all they know...it’s not ok I agree.
But telling them to disregard everything they were taught is like telling a catholic or a anti-vaxxer that everything they were taught growing up is wrong, even if there is in your face evidence that what they believe isn’t right/safe
Especially when the UK has the NHS. You cause problems that could have been avoided. Get it treated free at point of use using hardworking taxpayers money and then have the barefaced cheek to blame the bloody doctors. Get out
Producing more children like this, after the first, is criminally negligent.
I agree with you 1000%. It's very difficult for me to watch this program because I am so angry at these stupid people they know better they've seen what happens when first cousins marry and then they bring children into the world to suffer that should be a crime
One way it's their fault because they should've thought about it before having another child after their first son but another way it's not their fault because they haven't had education to learn about all these
in England murder is pretty much legal so
Maybe they didnt have education? What year is this
I'm sure the doctors explained to the parents the health concerns and risks after the first child. For sure, after the 2nd child born with defects. To go on to have a total of 6 is awful.
If you want to marry without having children, like fine. But *if you* bring a child in with such pain and difficulty is not fair at all. *edited for clarity
eacarriere I agree that’s why people should seriously get genetically tested for diseases so they don’t match if they both have the genes for it. I carry the most dangerous gene for cystic fibrosis and if I was to have a child with someone of the same or similar gene my child would most likely not make it long or suffer in their life and that’s unfair for the child.
The honkler Don’t be rude just use your brain and read it, it’s not that difficult to understand her comment
i shall say marrying ur own cousin is fine but you dont have to had a genetic kid or smth-
you can adopt a homeless/parentless-kid from a shelter
eacarriere actually it’s not fine if they marry it’s disgusting
How would they know , its not like they would've known their children will be sick , because of lack of education ofc and proper awareness . But not all first cousin marriages lead to having sick offspring , as only a minority of families carry a recessive disease.
I’m from a pakistani family, and my mother’s friend in the UK married her first cousin. They have two children, one which is heavily mentally disabled and the other blind and also mentally disabled. I find it completely sickening that they decided to have kids, but my mom and much of my family in Pakistan sees this and somehow is ok with it.
I get that arranged marriage to family is the easiest traditionally islamic way to go about a relationship, but when you are ignorant of the risks of incest and decide to have a kid with your cousin anyway, that to me is morally reprehensible. The culture has to change.
I can relate to almost everything you described, as I also come from an Islamic background and your neighbouring country. I have seen my relatives marrying their sons and daughters to their first cousins, which, to me, seems so strange and even shameful. However, none of them seem to care. The only reason they continue these practices is that they have been passed down from generation to generation. Luckily, their children are healthy and beautiful for now, but they are still young. I just hope they don’t suffer for actions they didn’t choose. Personally, I don’t want to marry a first cousin, and I feel that leaving my community behind is the best option once I am fully independent. It’s sad that the people who really need to see this video likely won’t while those who don’t need it will.
@@KhalidSiddiquiimind-blowing! I never heard of that. Why is this tradition so popular? What are the reasons behind marriages among relatives? To keep wealth or why?
@@madinam7532 From my perspective, there are several factors behind marriages among relatives Firstly, as the original comment stated, cousin marriage is considered the easiest Islamic way to go about a relationship. In Muslim culture, it is not viewed as something unusual or inappropriate. This practice is particularly common in third-world, Muslim-majority countries such as those in the Middle East and South Asia. Although cousin marriage originally was from Arab traditions, it later influenced South Asian cultures. Apart from this, the primary reasonn in my observation is that marriage in these cultures is not just a bond between two individuals but a bond between two families. This familial aspect makes cousin marriages more appealing. Also, wealth could also be a reason though it may not hold as much significance. But first-cousin marriages can lead to inbreeding depression causing genetic defects. Despite this, people in these regions often lack a clear understanding of the potential consequences. Even when aware, they may avoid questioning the practice because it aligns with Islamic teachings, and challenging these is considered a sin. That is why cousin marriages are rarely condemned, even in light of their potential risks.
Sorry for writing this large paragraph, I had some free time :)
Since when cousins are incest? To calm your nerves, even Americans do that
My aunt didn't marry her cousin yet one of her child is disabled and the other partially
“It’s not high risk, it’s one in four”
That’s called high risk
Yes, apparently education isn't high on the list.....
Right when you have 8 kids.
Right bc 1 is 1 too many
Omg and then his speech at the end 😭
When marrying a person who is not related is 7000 K to one risk then you are right , a sick barbaric practice that belongs in Pakistan , if you want to marry your relatives f++k off to Pakistan and have your ' Rat people' th-cam.com/video/RTYwLunQJwI/w-d-xo.html
I don't care if it's culture. This is causing kids to suffer their entire, possibly short lives. If the benefits is that you get to already know each other's family or you have a good bond, then just marry a family friend or something.
Obviously it's culture because in Islam you can't marry your relative
Actually the Quran doesn’t you say you can’t marry your cousin so they can do it.
Its wealth most of the time. They want to keep the money in the family
What if your cousin is hot and you pull out?
Chop off their genitals
I’m shocked that the mother that has three severely disabled children said the doctor’s medicine made them that way. Such ignorance.
she's indenial and delusion to think that's where the problem began.🙄🤦🏽♀️
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OMG! And I'm willing to wager that the woman does not know how to read nor write!
She's most probable not educated too
As a Pakistani I can easily tell that she has completed limited education in Pakistan, hence her trust in the medical system is significantly less. The problem is that cousin marriage in Pakistan, while I too believe is definetly wrong, has not caused huge health problems like it has done in the UK and this is because the Pakistani community in the UK is obviously smaller thus increasing the chances of genetic disorders. So sadly women like her can’t comprehend this
Im not a first cousin child, but my parents carried a dangerous gene that causes cancers. Its killed 2 of my siblings and i cant help but feel slightly miffed that they had 6 kids. Sometimes, people just play the odds and hope for the best rather than consider the sad reality when the odds play out poorly.
Well from an evolutionary perspective organisms have a self interest to produce as much offspring as possible
I don’t care if it’s their culture. Culture can change and this needs to
Its okay if they wanna commit self genocide all the power to them
@bongwater drinker Exactly
@@JosephAliDeeb straight people produce gay kids lmao
@@anishawazir7064 nothing wrong with gay people. But people like you should be banned from this planet lol
@@anishawazir7064 if you are going to reply to me learn how to spell my mum didn't shag her cousin and us white people don't open our legs to everyone
"it's the doctor that made them this way" IGNORANCE IS THE WORST DISEASE I HAVE EVER SEEN
Pretty sad in a sense the parents did admit they are worried for their children's future, if it's not ignorance then it's Denial.
No a dr didn't.Them nuts did it going with cousins.Yuck
God forbid sex with relative.... unlawful sex relations....Leviticus 18 Bible says that
Meh it’s the parents fault that their kids are miserable and will never have a normal life. It’s so sad
@@hannahf.572 i know
This simply isn’t fair for the children.
no shit
@Ellie Finn even If it means knowingly that after having that 1st child, they know the genes aren't compatible and could fuck up their 2nd child for their whole entire life?
@Ellie Finn oh nonono honey, islam reject the idea of marrying your relatives. No marrying your cousin or all that stuff.
No it's not!
Great comment, Holly
Having only one pair of grandparents is wild…
getting two sets of gifts from grandparents should be enough to not marry first cousins
And just think, this is a traditional practice, so it's likely that their grandparents were first cousins too. And their parents... Family tree is a wreath.
"My children were normal healthy babies but they were at the doctor's everyday for illness"...... they were not healthy yo
Then she blamed it on the "doctor's medicine". WOW😲🔫
Sounds just like all the anti-vaxxers saying that a life saving vaccination will give their child autism, but yet they’re okay with putting not only their child’s , but the general public’s, lives at stake from known pandemic causing organisms..... Ignorance is NOT bliss, people!!
@@brujablanca4941 ikr!?🤔🤔
@@brujablanca4941 vaccines are poison!!! They contain mercury,toxins,animal DNA and aluminum!! The mercury and aluminum cross the brain blood barrier and destroy brain cells. They damage health,especially the immune system. The diseases they supposedly protect us against are NOT life threatening! Natural immunity obtained from combatting actual wild viruses is far better and life long. The human body is AMAZING in what it can do. The immune system should be developed normally by nature. Babies should be breast fed and its up to the parents to limit exposure to harmful illnesses especially year one. Getting vaccines is like russian roulette, u are brainwashed!! Do your research,search for the thousands of parents testimony about their vaccine damaged children....its true!! If it happened to one of ur kids,nieces or nephews then you would be a believer. Theres a family that had their triplets damaged....3 healthy toddlers!!! PERFECT!!! The parents were even being cautious by doing single vaccines and spacing them out. ALL 3 babies woke up NORMAL that day....by bedtime the parents had 3 autistic children. I will try and find thier name for you....do ur research!!! Vaccines are toxic!!!
Bruja Blanca ,, my family’s anti vac🤡😭
This is literally mother nature telling you what you are doing is wrong.
@@WorldBelongsToUs it's irrelevant point bro, go take ur hatred to atleast in relevant video.
@@barel8741 how did you wrote your username like that, please tell me bro🙏
Not mother nature, but Father God
Humans again are a parasite to this earth this earth shall crumble one day because of our stupidity
@@WorldBelongsToUs bruh you think your funny
Yesterday i watched an documentary about monkeys. When a female monkey is ready to mate, she leaves her own group to find a Partner because she doesn’t want to do incest and have unhealthy children.
@Innocentah it seems that monkeys are more intelligent than some humanes!
@@rotkappchen1357 some??
When memes are susususususususubakahahahfuniamogus: 🤫🤔🤭😐🤨😑🙄😏🥳🥺😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😲😲😲😲😲😯😲😳😳😳😳😳😳😲😯😮😲😲😳😳😮😯😲😳😳😳🥺😦😧
Monkey see, monkey does?...
Monkeys are smart. Humans.... not so much.
It’s bewildering that incest even came into existence. If I recall correctly, farmers millennia ago would make sure that the livestock isn’t part of the same family due to the same reasons as humans having incest. If they knew, why was this never passed down? And I also don’t want to make any judgements on Pakistanis but isn’t Pakistan generally rural with farmers? The should know what happens with inbreeding animals.
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It keeps the money within the family , less dowry
Simple as that
PS, Pakistani farmers probably shag their 🐐 to keep the gene pool fresh
woah guys chill, I use protection all the time, it's really good when u get intimate with family. Make sure u don't have kids with them.
@@Prenutdelusion96
Dafuq👀
@@Prenutdelusion96tf
I block my cousins, how do people marry them?
Best comment ever 😂😂
KHOKH 69 family order. ..... honour.
KHOKH 69 😂
🏆You won🏆
Same.
This should be made illegal for the sake of the children.
WestEgg they would still do it.
Constitutional Republic it would dissuade some people if they couldn’t get legally married, because there can be economic benefits to being married. It would at least make some people think twice.
@@Katie-mw7pd Law isn't a problem here, culture is. You can find plenty of countries where such marriages aren't technically illegal and yet almost never happen. For Pakistanis marriages within family are fact of life and age old tradition. As long as they'll ignore obvious consequences of such archaic practices no amount of law restrictions will change anything.
poo poo pee this isn’t in America lmao
It used to be, you had to get a blood test before you could get married
Okay, this just isn’t fair to them at all. Call me disrespectful, but their parent’s are ignorant as hell.
I dont want to sound rude but with the first family....they had 3 kids with the same disease that should have been a hint
No they are ingnorant
They are selfish
This is what happens when you want to be from Alabama
Cheese gang 😂
Alright I get the first child. They may not have known, but why keep going? Why do it again? They look miserable. Listening to him cry in hallway at the door was sad.
This breaks my heart he wants to be normal and be able to drive and talk but he can't :(
I would let the poor man drive one last time or the first time in a VR headset. He deserves to be happy like the rest of us. Just make this inbred incest practice illegal.
Thank you, if u agreed, I am a bit less depressed now :)
Oleg B he cant see
Oleg B do you know what you need for vr?
@@Zerz0 there are special headsets tested for blind people so they can see for the first time, but they aren't made for the public, are very expensive and also don't run with every condition.
The parents : *sees how bad the first child came out*
Yeah, let us make more
Lets try until one isn't sick and then that one can take care of us and all their siblings!
@@franziskahuber9664 lol 😂
No offense but I’m shocked about how many children they averagely make through their life. If I have more than two kids in the future I’ll be exhausted lol
Exactly. My parents had a genetic surprise and their 1st baby died because of it. After that they adopted my brother and me.
right?! it’s so infuriating like why would you do that ?????
"My wife is my mothers sisters daughter"
Yah mate, she's your cousin 🙄
Ariane LCMN Exactly! 😂
Ariane LCMN 😂😂😂 thank you
😂😂😂😂
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At least he's better than most parents who marry cousins. I'm a Bangladeshi and most married cousins are forced to do it by their parents who in turn force their children to do it.
Every child deserves a parent but every parent doesn't deserve a child.
This is horrible, so sad for these poor innocent children who didn’t ask to be here like this..
brooklynsadiepeppermint i’m so sorry:(
brooklynsadiepeppermint L
brooklynsadiepeppermint I feel bad for you
@@lemongrab23 Then that's sheer luck
@@lemongrab23 dude your parents r weird asf
“It creates a strong loving bond in our family”
I’d rather have a horrible relationship with my spouse’s parents then risk my kids dying at 20
Tbh, as a Pakistani. I can tell you it breaks families more than keeping them together and pits one portion against the other, because of marital conflict/petty shit. Like, some aunts will get secretive and not converse with some cousins, or straight up cut ties with ,for example, a brother's family. It makes everything complicated, and childhood isn't fun either because the parents won't let you play with the opposite sexed cousin because you might get married to him some day. It's perverted, and it ruins vital family relationships. This practice is common in the middle East as well.
@@chajang7292 a lot of Indian Muslims don't marry cousins any more because of familial complications, apart from medical ones.
I had a classmate who was all pro marriage between cousins because it kept the bloodline strong.
@@lilianv3252 Must be some moron. Most educated and even not-educated-Muslims don't go for these marriages between cousins any more where I live.
@@newsjunkieish
No. My best friend is Muslim an even her grandparents were already against it many years ago.
"They were *normal* at birth, but they had to see the doctor everyday bc they were *sick* ..." ??? Um...sure.
I can tell you are one or these Anti-Vaxxer fuckwits Lizi
PanicGiraffe everyone understood BUT the sentence is just very wrong built haha
PanicGiraffe everyone understood BUT the sentence is just very wrong built haha
First of all how so she know they were normal at birth? Did she not think that her genes caused them to be sick every day afterwards?
My guess is that they mean the baby looked, ate, shat and cried like a normal baby
20:40- Dad doesn't believe in genetic diseases after raw-dogging his 1st cousin. He's the source of pain and problem.
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😂😂😂
This is just wild paranoia. “You can’t get the same bond, love, and trust with those outside of your family” these people live in a small scared little world
Jillian Holmes funny thing is so many people get along much better with people outside of their family. I have around 50 cousins and don’t talk to any of them, but I get along with my friends like they were my brothers and sisters. These people are scared to wander outside of their culture and befriend different people.
There is absolutely no way to try to justify what these people are doing to their poor children!! 😠😠
The key word was "trust", in their culture a stranger wouldn't lend you money or help you fight a battle but a family member, even if you've never met them, would do so since you are their kin. It is something we have lost a little in the west since many of us no longer even speak to our families or even care for our elderly, if anything we have reversed it in the west as we seek to create our own family and leave our parents and siblings behind. As Peter said, we are more likely to form bonds with strangers to create our own groups but in older cultures the family name is stronger than any other bond you can have. That is until someone dishonours the family name...
@@krashd in the west you don't fuck your cousins, so you didn't loose anything important
@Vixxxen Fox boomer is a mentality
So they had one kid who has a horrible quality of life, and decided to have 3 more?
Braeden Lotz it’s like choosing death 💀
Lots of disability living allowance?
Braeden Lotz they have 6 children in total and 3 of them which are healthy. I am not excusing their behaviour/actions. I also believe they should have stopped after their first child. However they are ignorant and don’t want to face the fact that they are to blame for their children’s conditions. They thought that their subsequent children won’t be affected, not realising that they are high risk, because they are both carrying a faulty gene 🧬. They should have gone through genetic counselling.
@@SuperA1507 Well, you would have hoped that knowing that the parents were related, that genetic tests would have been done following the birth of any disabled child and the parents told the outcome and appraised of the likelihood of having more disabled children.
I was born in 1969 and there was a disabled kid in my class at school. He was odd-looking, he looked like he had Aperts Syndrome and had been born with his legs on back to front. He had an older brother that was also affected and a younger sister too, their mother also had these facial characteristics. His older brother came home from work ill one day and went to bed, he was found dead in bed the next day aged 17/18. My classmate was also found dead in bed at the age of 22/23. Both brothers were found to have heart defects and after the second brother died their mother and sister were found to have the same defects and were successfully treated.
The whole family had vast amounts of treatment over the years, you would have thought that after having 2 children with the same disabilities that they would have figured that more would be a likelihood. My classmate was not Asian and so I don't know how the disability arose with his mother, but it was inherited.
Things are too PC these days and you can bet your bottom dollar that if there was the public campaign that there ought to be to put a stop to first cousin marriages, it would be branded racist when in fact all that any sane person wants is to protect the resources of the NHS and the welfare state by simply avoiding the creation of individuals whose lives are absolutely blighted by the sorts of conditions seen here.
very common in their culture to keep having kids.
"They told us it was a genetic disease but i don't think so"
When 3 out of 5 of your children have the same disease I'd say its genetics 🤦🏾♀️
These people desperately need education not children! Smh
@gooka boo do you Really Need The LORD xplained 2 you??? GTFOH.
@@improover113 Why Don't you. My LORD, you're welcome.
@Diane Berg Marrying your cousin is generally acceptable, provided it is not a recurring tradition within the family. Additionally, my family did engage in such unions without any negative consequences, as it was not a frequent practice.
Same thing. Duh!
Make cousin marriage a crime so easy.
"Why wouldn't you wan't to marry your first cousin?"
*points to the suffering child at the beginning of the video*
Rebecca Burgos I know. what a stupid man.
It's very bad if it goes on for generations and generations like in Palestine. They do it there to keep the religion alive. Which I think that is wrong. but I think it's okay if you fall in love with your cousin, if your family doesn't already have a history of incest.
@@logandogan272 so you thinks its cool for kids to be born with horrible diseases as long as its for love? Fuck man
Logan dogan u can’t marry ur first cousin in Islam I’m pretty sure it’s like ur brother
My answer would be *"You, my man, are the one of example that your parent does not related and you can be born healthy"*
“‘More than half of British Pakistanis marry their first cousins” SORRY WHAT
Thats bs 😆
yup... the bill on the nhs is mad
I believe many of them marry their cousins, but half of them is kind of bs.
@@ahyarhartanto1802 according to statistics it's between 50 to 70 % of pakistani marry a first cousin
@@budhikai4652 those from bradford lol read the study
I’m adopted and it’s still nauseating to think about marrying my first cousin.
It won't be if you're Muslim
Same!
yoginc jokes on you I'm a Muslim and the whole idea of cousins marriage disgust me
Marry someone from another country 😂
yoginc Muslims are not the only ones who do it. That’s the reason people feel attacked and don’t accept the information regarding the genetic disease issue.
Romantic feelings toward your cousins?! That is so sad. Cousins are like siblings.
It a cultural practices nothing do with romantic feelings
*Him crying at the beginning was so heartbreaking..*
Yes I felt so sorry for him 😢
WHY DO THEY KEEP ON DOING THAT??!THEY KNOW THE RISKS BUT THEY DON’T LISTEN
I know that kills me.
thats too much for me
Well I lost sympathy so i can't really relate.
The innocent children have to pay the consequences for their parent's poor choices..absolutely heartbreaking..
@Madeline Prance omg no. Poor choice of cousin marriage and forced arranged marriages
@Ilikepyro if you say so
@Jackie Meintjes so true .i was shocked and appalled..seeing those children..how can you change that culture ?
@Madeline Prance tragic..
I’m confused... I understand this is a cultural norm and it’s important to keep certain traditions. The problem is when so many children are born with rare diseases and abnormalities, didn’t they ever consider abolishing this tradition? Especially after all these studies came out that it’s detrimental to the health of their children...
I grew up with my first cousins, the idea of marrying one of them would be like marrying a sibling 🤢
Literally bleh
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The thing with some culture, cousins are not mingling with one another (especially opposite genders) when they grow up. So, when they are adults, cousins feel like strangers
@@salsabilabawazir9441 Doesn't matter. Cousin are cousin...Too close. Like incest! 4th cousins are permitted.
duh obvio
Having kids with your cousin is evil. How are cousin marriages not illegal?
Because they think it's ok for them since it's a cultural BS thing😢
First cousin marriage is a nice term for incest
Children shouldnt suffer because of tradition. I feel frustrated while watching this.
My thoughts exactly
Me too smh
It’s like the parents are only thinking about their own emotions ffs think about how your kid feels suffering
Queen_Ally me too. this is so tragic and disgusting
How about being a human and think about another human suffering,
Just because you CAN, doesn’t mean you SHOULD...
exactly
Can say the same when the same sex engage in sexual activities. Just cause you can doesn't mean you should.
@@1013VS That's a whole other discussion...
Naiyo that is way different, don't even try it
@@MadMax-us9ih I don't try it. Lol
guy in the beginning: cries alone on the floor
cameramen: I guess I have to film this
That was a really well composed shot, technically speaking
Well idk why but I am still laughing at your comment
😂
im always wondering how do they do that
That’s the full embodiment of “that’s not my job”
graham moore stop
I feel so sorry for the interviewer, she passed away in 2019 at only 48, rest in peace.
She was also a inbred @@zainullahqamar1065
@@zainullahqamar1065 tazeen ahmed
‘He thinks kids his age should be able to see’ ‘He thinks kids his age should be able to drive’. BECAUSE THEY SHOULD AND HE SHOULD YET HE CANT BECAUSE OF YOU.
rollout the battle rapper just because it’s culture doesn’t mean it’s acceptable.
Give him a toy car atleast
@@shashankgm2533
... a toy car that he is unable to see, and unable to understand to be a toy? Sounds "fun". He exists merely due to his parents' guilt.
@rollout the battle rapper it's not Muslim culture.. where did they say they were Muslim? I heard Pakistani and Asian not Muslim..
@@shashankgm2533 ikr? Give him something to hold onto. Feel and understand a little-
All cultures aside. The UK needs to make this illegal with strict regulations.
I thought this was illegal? I’m
In the US so I don’t know UK laws very well
@@elizabeth-leavesandreads2890 First cousin marriages aren't even illegal in every U.S. state. I live in one where it's legal, unfortunately.
@@elizabeth-leavesandreads2890 only SOME American states have made it illegal. In fact US is the only western country to have restriction and many states actually excuse to allow it because Christianity also "allows it", that's probably why you hear so many Alabama incest jokes.
Luckly it has gone down but it's letting people like in these stories like this slip through the cracks. but who knows if more people like white couple showed around the end hope onto it more
It should be illegal everywhere
To #ukgoverernment you can and should do something 🗡⚖️
Can you imagine being so unwilling to consider marrying outside of your ethnic group that you are willing to take this awful risk? Of course, the national health service has to pay all the medical bills. If the families had to pay, they would think twice about doing this.
“Why wouldn’t you want to marry your first cousin” I’m disgusted🤮
Because that meow meow is wet
It is legal in islam it is a long story why people in pakistan marry their cousins
Anime freak I’m Muslim and I would never, ever.
@@mojojojo8631 It is legal in christianity too. and especially with 'royalty'. ever heard of bluebloods? ever wonder why many royalty all have faces like horses, a wandering eye and a relative or two they don't let out of the attic? lol, sheesh.
@@jamesn5595 lol that seriously made me laugh
Imagine seeing ur ex husband at the family reunion
Thats what I thought. U can never get rid of him.🤪
@@cnope2444 🤯Like NEVER! Truly death due you part. NOT THE IN LAWS EITHER!💀💀
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At the divorce hearing; you are no longer husband & wife.....you are now back to being cousins
@@sidra1093 that's not fun
@Sidra
I know you are human and I am not twisting anything..I am Moroccan and Puertorrican and there are things in my cultures I don't follow,also I said that was not fun to your "fun fact" if I hurt your feelings then I'm sorry but my comments are abaut this video and the reaction of others that I find hilarious
I respect culture but we have to be honest, there's preserving culture and then there's just staying stuck in the past. Some things just HAVE to change. Something being a respected tradition isn't an excuse to torture people.
This is not culture.
@@muadsaleh1061 true, we're talking about a practice that ended most royal bloodlines, inbreeding isn't really desirable as others make it out to be.
This is not about culture - this is child abuse
@Oompa Loompa fella cultures like zulu and hindus have separate systems like in case of the hindus the gotta system to separate closely related bloodlines from marrying
Respect it why?
My friend is pakistani, her parents are first cousins and now her cousins are marrying eachother.
She has shunned the ones that married eachother. She understands the dangers are too high.
Im glad there are pakistanis against this. Just sadly not enough.
first of all: ew wtf
second of all: poor kids
third of all: she calls them ‘this’ and ‘that one’
@Orange Blossom no because they're english is shit so they really can't trandlate it that well
The last part is a poor translation and also a language barrier result
That bitch mom probably getting benefits off then
breakitdownnow what language are they speaking there in the video?
Hold up how did medieval times survive? Royal family cousins.
Utter selfishness. How can they think that it was just “God’s test” instead of accepting that these are genetic disorders caused by their own backward ways?
i agree. their thoughts in this regard made me very angry.. how can they be so stubborn against scientific facts..? I mean, it is modern times.. they live in a modern world..
@@BrainlessHaya even God not allowing people to marry relative
Disgusting
Thumb of rule in my religion. If you caused it, then it's your own damn fault. Freedom of choice is an important belief, yet people seem to ignore it exists, so everything "its God's fault" and by that they remove all of their own responsibilities. Which is obviously nuts. It's the equivalent of blaming everyone and everything for your own mistakes.
So, no, it's not exclusive of religious people, but a character fault of general population to play the "I'm only a victim of circumstances" card.
@@isabellas4120 I have encountered so many classmates that acted like this before. Even my teacher was ranting about it to me. These kind of students don't bother to study hard because they think God has everything planned out and it's "gods plan".
Imagine how much easy their life would be if they just didn’t marry their cousin
That’s what happens when you marry your cousin. Ironically Charles Darwin did the same thing
Ravenclaw wait deadass?!?
Cat Cha yeah Darwin married his cousin Way before discovering about genetics and his evolution studies if i recon correctly
Ravenclaw ew
@@aalienbae0993and he later blamed that/himself for his daughters poor health.
I'm a Pakistani and I avoided a forced cousin marriage. Thanks tinder
Tinder is haram bro, just look a girl that isnt your cousin in halal way
@@damurichannel why is it haram, I don't get it??!?
@@radger6392 cos hanging out alone with a female is haram
@@damurichannel hmm. But I've seen people doing it tho. I mean some Muslims especially the ones whose parents are rich and live in big cities. Even sometimes in towns too. Nothing is perfect I'd say. The westernisation has distanced us from our culture
@@radger6392 yes, north africans like moroccans or Egyptian do it a lot, even lebanese and Turkish. Sadly this is common now, but if you are a true Muslim you have to know that even hanging out is haram, let alone having a girlfriend or a boyfriend
That's just sad... Blind AND Deaf? I can't even imagine how isolating & lonely you would feel.
Helen Keller knew
I have pakistani friends and i'm quite close to their family. The parents and extended family believe that the closer the relation, the better. I.e 1st cousin is more preferable than 2nd cousin...
Just euthanize me and donate my organs at that point its just suffering
@Micki Moritz how do you communicate?
RedEnvelopeMedia
Absolutely euthanize instantly!!
This is why I, as a Pakistani, will most definitely not let my kids marry their cousins. Its so selfish. This tends to be a generational difference gladly, so will eventually die out.
There are incestuous behaviors in every culture. It's sad but dont just feel like it's a Pakistani problem. It is a human problem. Some people are just sick. I'm glad you will teach your children differently.
@@cheylalynn7881 You're right. It definitely is a human problem and hopefully we can tackle it in every culture, but I have hope for the younger generation. We will break a lot of ties. 🙏
They said it's on the rise?
@@Julie.Canada The "older" generation that im talking about is our parents (not just our grandparents). They still exist ofc and they still have children who have grown up now and are getting married hence why the rise. The younger generation im referring to is us, (the children of immigrants for example) and once we grow into parents, we hopefully will break this generational curse. Thats what im talking about. Just like a lot of parents rn are against the LGBT+ movement for example, you cant always change how your parents were brought up but you can decide the way you would raise your kids.
🙏
I don’t understand... incest is illegal but it’s only accepted if it’s part of your “culture” how stupid... this is sickening
incest have different definitions among different cultures for example in ISLAM incest is the marriage between mother&son sister&brother, aunt and uncle with their nieces. but it's not illegal for cousins to marry each other and here is where the problem begins.
mohammad ali sadeghi I just don’t understand why they would want to marry their own family...
@@paigex4052 as a person who lives in Iran that unfortunately has this culture, I think nowadays it's mostly because of Islam culture that most boys and girls don't allow to have a relationship without marriage and they unconsciously pushed to fell in love with their cousins that they grownup with. luckily in Iran, this culture mostly disappeared but it's not illegal yet.
Marrying first cousins isn't actually illegal in the UK.
I'm not agreeing it's right, but it isn't actually illegal.
Paige X I am muslim and traditionally it is forbidden to marry first cousins in my cultures.
Islam never ceases to amaze me
This has nothing to do with Islam, you illiterate idiot.
I love how she feels bad but keeps popping out kids
That is true, I was thinking about the same thing
You cant really blame her though. Like, most married couples never wear protection. And thats understandable why
Marcus Marcus is a third world country contraception is not widely known/encouraged/available
@Marcus Marcus not only that but most see marriage as a sacrement for procreation. Why use protection when marriage is the ticket (in most cultures and religion) to having and bringing up children?
4th times a charm
Thankfully the interviewer belonged to the same race and religion, it would've completely closed conversation otherwise. Whatever we got out of this conversation is because of this informed sweet and rational investigator!
That's why they chose her to do it
@@britneyfanvideosfl yeah, it was pretty brave of her to own up to her family's history of incest and use it to spread awareness
@@lexirandle2497 it's fucking sick! They're ok with having disabled children who get worse and worse. These people have some sort of mental problem if they think it's ok. Especially when she said love and trust between them is stronger than it would be with someone who isn't related to her. My family is Arab American and we've NEVER done any of that shit! Some had arranged marriages but not within the family. I can't believe how they can talk with so much excitement and smile about it.
@@lexirandle2497 it's fucking sick! They're ok with having disabled children who get worse and worse. These people have some sort of mental problem if they think it's ok. Especially when she said love and trust between them is stronger than it would be with someone who isn't related to her. My family is Arab American and we've NEVER done any of that shit! Some had arranged marriages but not within the family. I can't believe how they can talk with so much excitement and smile about it.
@@lexirandle2497 it's fucking sick! They're ok with having disabled children who get worse and worse. These people have some sort of mental problem if they think it's ok. Especially when she said love and trust between them is stronger than it would be with someone who isn't related to her. My family is Arab American and we've NEVER done any of that! Some had arranged marriages but not within the family. I can't believe how they can talk with so much excitement and smile about it.
I cannot stand when people don’t take responsibility for their choices and then have the nerve to blame others.
It’s what they do. It’s a cultural thing to not admit fault. Willful ignorance. Narcissistic too.
Or have the cheap excuse that god is "testing their faith" by that
Well that's just being a woman
Ugh I feel terrible for the oldest son.
Can you imagine being "normal" at first and then slowly losing your sight, hearing, speaking abilities, and brain function? That has to be terrifying and it makes sense that he just sits and cries, it breaks my heart. And the parents are in major denial, it's disgusting.
I'm literally crying for this poor young man😭
😓
"1 in 4 is low" ...no sis, 1 in 1200 is low. Y'all purposely messing these kids up.
Round of applause for the British Pakistani doctors openly discouraging this and telling patients the risks!
Agreed. They'd have their own cultural upbringings to work through and science/logic doesn't always trump over culture/religion.
I’m Pakistani American, my parents are 100% against this.
A S I don’t think the parents m give a shit.
many families unfortunately are in denial about this tragedy.
Even after knowing it still happens if the practice is on the rise. They're essentially wiping out their own race.
If cousins are to marry, there should be genetic testing prior to marriage to determine the probability of having children that will develop genetic abnormalities.
I think genetic testing should be for every marriage because genetic disease can be come from unrelated people also
But why marry our cousin in the first place when there's a whole world out there
@@imsoskkibiddi whole world out it no you are wrong it's allow most of the culture and religion
@@imsoskkibiddi For the reasons they stated, a closer connection, lower likelihood of divorce, less familial conflict, and probably to keep the wealth in the family.
With the older child being born with the condition, you'd think they'd stop. But no, no. They carry on, creating lifelong suffering to those inncocent lives. Very selfish individuals.
They get welfare... why should they stop?
@@gracieamazing2076 it’s very sad
I never will understand why people all over will do that. I can’t think of anything else other than selfishness
@@gracieamazing2076 that’s what I was thinking, SSD checks.
It's sickening!!
There are so many people in this world you don't need to marry your family.
Nasty freaks
They need the benefits
mommieofdos no they can get a job
MimixLight unfortunately these children will be living on benefits for the rest of their lives. Selfish parents giving them a life of doom
Hahaha exactly
The fact that the parents refuse to accept scientifically proven facts to deflect their guilt is astounding to me.
@@charliesmith_ I don't understand why, evolutionarily speaking, the desert would create black and white thinking to a greater degree than, say, savanna or the taiga.
The desert is harsh and difficult to survive, but the same is true about literally every other environment. Even in a place where food is bountiful (ie. a jungle), you'll have more parasites, diseases, more humans living in a smaller area to compete with, etc. It's just as difficult to survive.
Or compare the desert to the tundra: both are harsh, have extreme temperatures, low population, not much food.
You'll find plenty of narcissistic black and white thinking in every culture. For example, medieval Europe. Plenty of inbreeding there too...
Naa
They just dont believe in that fact
They think science is rubbish
They also think there's a "guy in the sky who grants wishes." What were you expecting?
@@tr0llol677 Maybe we just let the problem sort itself out over time…
@@Masami_Salami It will never fix itself mate. Their religion is almost 1000 years old. They still believe in those stone age stuff.
Thanks!
Do not marry your first cousin or any of your cousins for that matter
Or any family member at that.
027Anastasia._. Exactly, it is disgusting,
Einstein married his 3rd cousin, 0.51% relation, also every person is related a bit.
Anyway, family marriage is disgusting.
027Anastasia._. but we are all related
@@blazingexil4003 Nope
And THIS IS WHY incest should be outlawed. It actually has consequences!
Not if you wrap you jimmy.
Not if all parties involved are sterilized ...
Cousins is not incest..actual incest 'siblings' is outlawed already
It's the lust
Incest doesn't necessarily mean both parties have to procreate, as long as they don't have children and the relationship isn't pediophilic I don't see anything Morally wrong with marrying someone who you are related too, someday if you go to University or college and take an Ethics course you will probably be asked this question
I see my cousins as my siblings so this is extra disgusting to me
Exactly!!!!
The amount of cringe and cold on the spine this gives me is impossible to describe
I'd rather kill myself than to marry my cousin
Ikr? It's similar to marrying full siblings, but it's literally the same as marrying an aunt, an uncle, or a half sibling.
Same
Muslim son: Mom, I want a girlfriend.
Muslim mom: We have girlfriend at home 🤣
😂😂😂
They're literally suffering because of the parents decision. I feel so bad for them.
Jaegar Ultima leave religion out of it, it’s completely culture. First cousins is freaking incest
@@BusyAngel9999in this case the culture is heavily influenced by their religion so it is a religious thing in a sense.
@@BusyAngel9999it's a Islamic thing. Pakistani culture is purely islamic based
The title: is it wrong to marry your cousin?
Literally the first seconds of the video: YES
Yeah that's actually true.
@llashuwa Beatz the marriage is very wrong lol you can't love your cousin in that way , thats literally so wrong
@@asmallboi3559 good argument except you don't have one. People 100 years ago be like "you can't love someone from a same sex that way thats literally so wrong"
@@thiccsmoke6245 girl you did not just compare same sex relationships with incest😂🖐️
@@asmallboi3559 it's the same principle. Both can't/shouldn't have children (only through adoption). But both should have a right to have marrige and happy life. People are such a hypocrites about this topic. We just cant look past disgust. That is why same sex couples were seem as not acceptable and that is why incest is seen as unacceptable. Just disgust nothing more in both cases.
That healthy little girl is living a hell of a childhood... Must be devastating to live in that house, growing with screams and howls 24/7
That's true. It must be very stressful, I'd hate my life if it would be like that. This is so wrong and degenerate.
She must feel guilt from being relatively "normal" while her siblings are not and are suffering.
iluvjOO I know I could not stand the noise.
@@qutielove2208 Maybe her Mother cheated.. I know I would😂
@@qutielove2208 Sadly I can relate all too well to her. My oldest brother is disabled, and my sister has had health problems, but thankfully, my parents weren't cousins like that girl's. It was tough for me growing up, and still is to this day, caring for my brother
And it’s funny that prophet Mohamed peace be upon him specifically discouraged against marrying close family members and yet some Muslims continue to do something they know is not good.
Imagine defending a rapist and a pedophile 😂😂
@@amaduck2132 neither was proved next
@@lucydpngaisha was 9. That's all you need to know. He's a pedo
I really, really hate the whole, "It's cultural so you have to respect it." excuse when a culture is actively harming people and causing suffering. It's perfectly fine to be proud of where you come from, but when it comes to human rights, no culture should overshadow it.
The safety and wellbeing of an individual human always comes first, I don't care what your culture is.
If they were white indigenous Brits there would be no excuse
Not everything that is practiced in a culture is good. Common sense should trump outdated and wrong cultural mores.
Pakistani culture at a large has more disadvantages than it has advantages. It’s backwards
@@bryanbradley6871 there are no indigenous peoples in the UK, although there are white people. The UN is the sole body to recognise indigenous peoples. Also, the UK is the site of too many varied invasions to have an indigenous population of any sort. The only white Indigenous Peoples are the Sami.
@@blackcitroenlove quit lying and making excuses non of this applies for Native Americans who did the same thing to a people who whipped out another people .
The white Brits been in UK for over 1000 years they're indigenous
That poor guy crying breaks my heart.
As a Pakistani from the younger generation, I am glad to say that the younger generation is breaking away from this archaic practise.
Why were they doing that in the first place?
The lies, go to pakistan and they are still marrying their cousins at the same rate
I am glad to hear it.
@@GoldenBoyDims you from pakistan or what?
inbreeding is embedded in Islam
Islamic prophet himself married his daughter Fatima to his own first cousin Ali who again married the granddaughter of Muhammad Umama then again Muhammad's mother in law .. thus Ali was Muhammad's first cousin, son in law , grand son in law, and father in law altogether.
Forget cousins, i don't even want to marry in the same clan i belong to. And just because your children aren't affected yet doesn't mean your future grandchildren will not be affected. I hope the new generation change this scenario and marry out of the family. This "culture" you say will diminish your bloodline rather than expanding.
The fact that the parents are in denial, even blaming the doctors, is so unreal lol.
There is following your traditions and religion, but this is is so cruel.
@@kellymcphaul2793 its culture. Islam doesn't say marry your first cousin. That's gross.
@@kellymcphaul2793
In islam incest is forbidden
We agree to kill who commits incest
@@kellymcphaul2793
It's a cultural thing. ffs
@@hassanlabyad4082 Cousin are fine in Islam but yeah it is not an obligation
This is pure selfishness. Makes my heart ache for those children
Aby The talentless definitely is! Then to keep having them....smfh
This is Pakistanishness.
@@olamarca7171 don't bring race into this.
I know man , so sad 😔
exactly. I was listening more for the reasons of WHY they did this and there wasnt a clear excuse because several people gave MANY excuses. that is because there IS NO EXCUSE for it. The most i heard was financial stability or security. IMAGE or what would others think was another. This is practicing codependency. They are finding shelter in FEAR. Like that one gentleman said: emotional blackmail. I am here in Texas and have family members that are into this MESS too; incest. I came up kinda sort of like a Tom-Girl. We had to learn to box early and i chose to box on cousins & UNCLES and dudes in every day life, that came at me with that bullshit. Out of the womb Baptized in combat. Today, i dont speak to family members and i'm cool with that. I got 2 healthy children by a man from a different country. I would rather have it that way than to endure a child suffering day in and out due to pain. Some things CAN BE PREVENTED.
Besides the obvious problems with cousin marriages... these people act like you can't form bonds with people outside your family.
I know it's crazy
awoocow Muhammad married his cousin so many Muslims use this as an excuse. As to why it’s acceptable.
@@autumnhomer9786 lots of hilly billies inbreed dont they
Yet bring them over by the boatload! They’ll be so beneficial to the community 🙄
NIHARIKA PASRICHA ummm, they’re not marrying their first cousins or worse, yeah it happens but it’s few and far between, not 1 in 4 🗣ONE IN FOUR!!!!!!
Very disturbing to see a culture think it’s ok to have kids with her first cousin, any cousin in fact. These poor kids
Technically we're all cousins if you go back far enough.
Marrying cousins is an old practice. The younger generation are breaking away from this tradition. Thank goodness!
Thank god
Thank the lord
الحمدلله
Yasmin Salam that is very true!!! My parents were trying to persuade me to marry my first cousin but I flat out declined as my parents are already first cousins 🤷🏻♀️I could not take such a huge risk ...
@@marinakazemi4212 im sure there are other goats or camels available
It's like being trapped in a body that is turning against you. It's so sad.
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First cousins are for hanging out with and getting into trouble at family reunions..and that's it!! 😡
@Truth Hurts So true
Periodt! Imagine cursing your offspring just because you're attracted to the wrong person.
I never talk to my cousins even when there are family gatherings..
I don't even talk much with them 😂😂😂
i cant even imagine having a crush on cousins lmao let a alone falling in love
The woman saying my kids are completely normal, I certainly hope the state doesn't assist her.
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I feel so bad for the older son, almost cried. No hate but he's suffering the consequences of the parents actions, just isn't fair.
I know right? It broke my heart :(
Yeah this isn’t fair for the children, but this is also a culture thing
The whole family, and the whole culture’s actions. They are pressured to do so if they aren’t willing.
@VHS youtube Coming out as gay is an honest thing to do. Honesty and acceptance are integral to love of any kind, especially in families. You need not turn your back in your kids if you are gay.
@VHS youtube People don't always have a choice. It's only recently that being gay is somewhat okay. Earlier, you could lose everything and be a pariah in society. You can't blame gay people who didn't have the courage to stand up to discrimination.