How To Make A Good First Impression | Jamila Musayeva

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    How To Make a Good First Impression: In this video, I will tell you all the important elements of making the very best first impression starting from the grooming finishing up with a perfect handshake. They say, it takes less than 7 seconds to make the first impression. Truth is, it is even less than that. A lot is told by the untold and that includes what you wear, how you carry yourself, the way you shake hands, the way you handle your business cards, etc. If you are going for an interview, meeting in-laws for the first time or trying to network, make sure to watch this video beforehand. The first impressions can make or break the deal. Be ready to impress!
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  • @miscuitsmarmelade
    @miscuitsmarmelade หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    We, women, need more role models like you in this day and age.

  • @poonambagari
    @poonambagari หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    1. Dress well and appropriately, groom well
    2. Have a good posture
    3. Pace yourself
    4. Give a firm handshake
    5. Know how to introduce yourself
    6. Carry your business card with you
    7. Give undivided attention
    8. Master the small talk
    9. Have good table manners
    10. Maintain good impression throughout the event

  • @logicalbeing1897
    @logicalbeing1897 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    1) Dress well, Grooming
    2) Hold yourself, postire
    3) Pace Yourself
    4) Give Undivided Attention

  • @DanisDiamonds
    @DanisDiamonds หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    this came out right before my job interview this morning! wish me luck!

    • @Sophiee0x0
      @Sophiee0x0 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good luck!!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Good luck!!

    • @Phd366
      @Phd366 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will do great! 🎉❤

    • @MayAfo
      @MayAfo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good luck

    • @mimansajena6508
      @mimansajena6508 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good luck!

  • @hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955
    @hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Jamila, you are the epitome of elegance!

  • @dimitrap2505
    @dimitrap2505 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It's amazing how the small talk makes all the difference, no matter how good the hand-shake, eye contact and smile are. I am a shy, not very talkative person and I come out a little awkward in conversations, then I end up being the "sweet, naive girl". The small talk is a torture for me, unfortunately. I bought some books to improve my skills there. I have seen some improvement, it's clear that people feel better around me when I engage in the small talk and feel relaxed to open up more and have mature conversations with me.
    Your videos have helped me a lot with posture and etiquette and being more confident in social settings and the work environment so thank you very much!!

    • @thasneemriviera1048
      @thasneemriviera1048 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you please tell me which are the book you brought ..

  • @user-hp7qe3tg7p
    @user-hp7qe3tg7p หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Drinking my morning tea while watching your videos, what could be better!

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5if หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Every person should watch this, Jamila! Extremely well done, and honest and true… I am somebody who, even at 60, has a lot of energy… Almost everybody loves it, but I do have to remember to slow down… I’m grateful that people can feel my energy, especially at my age!

  • @user-ib3mh7su8h
    @user-ib3mh7su8h หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your posture say who you are not only to others but also to yourself)) Or even dictate it))

  • @lubnan3033
    @lubnan3033 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I feel very comfortable when I watch your videos because your face is really peaceful and I loved it that you are learning Arabic 😍 good luck for you ❤

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I read in the book, Vanity Fair recently that the world is a looking-glass, or a mirror 🪞 in today's world. What you give out is what you get back. I know personally people treat me well. The way you carry yourself and the way you dress definitely gets you noticed and people remember you because you've made a good impression. But what's worth more than that is the way you treat people, good manners and consideration for others, smiling more. Where I live in Spain I will smile at a perfect stranger. And those people that I pass regularly then start to speak to me as I pass and that leads to a conversation. It really is all the things that are free in life that matter. You don't need to be a millionaire to get noticed. 🌼🌷🌸

    • @UnPeuDeTourisme
      @UnPeuDeTourisme หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, that’s why when I smile to some men, they have the right to bother you. This is probably why when I was there some « friend », they wasn’t there for me.
      What a very good mirror.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love this!

  • @harleyz2643
    @harleyz2643 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are just awesome sister ❤️

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much 😀

  • @geethanjali7733
    @geethanjali7733 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm gonna join in my first job in the next two days and this is the only video I ever needed. Thankyou so much Jamila.

  • @Imad_bake
    @Imad_bake หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Sending love from pakistan 🇵🇰 , freedom for Palestine 🇵🇰 ❤️ 🇵🇸

  • @useraymoon926
    @useraymoon926 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Bye blazer looks sooooooo good,you should wear these type of these more often💕

  • @toybaworku7339
    @toybaworku7339 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My role model ❤❤❤

  • @useraymoon926
    @useraymoon926 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Pure elegance❤

  • @blqkhle
    @blqkhle หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    جميلة حقاً ❤

  • @Anthophile03
    @Anthophile03 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mam your video are fabulous, thanks for helping ❤

  • @marylou3995
    @marylou3995 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As a woman ( Christian) I hate shaking hands - a man think he’s been polite, if you don’t shake, he look like he done something wrong...difficulty .

  • @elviradupcheva
    @elviradupcheva หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always an amazing quality and content I will refer to and apply to my routine. Thank you, Jamila. I know so much about etiquette and manners from your videos only. You are precious.

  • @rachfayee
    @rachfayee หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love this coat and outfit

  • @mariellegrant6248
    @mariellegrant6248 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Jamila for such interesting and useful advice!🌹🙏❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jamila Love Watching your Back to Back Videos so so much and your Back to Back Videos are really helpful to me✨✨

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So happy to hear it 🤍

  • @_.booktrovert._
    @_.booktrovert._ หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for this video Jamila. 💖

  • @kaisankamal
    @kaisankamal หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi jamila! Thanks for uploading valuable contents on TH-cam, I like your video about table manners and since then I started to see other of your videos. The reason for me to comment today is because I would like to request for a video about table manners/Dining etiquette for certain other cuisines. I have a doubt on how to eat some middle eastern meals, I have an issue with kebab breads (Turkish grill bread/pide) and how to dine them (I mean you usually don’t eat bread with knife and fork and also not sure is it the same way as eating bread roll with butter on a dinner). If you find it’s not enough for a video, You can teach how to eat rice, just imagine a scenario in dubai and there is biryani/pilau served in a buffet. There are people who struggle to eat rice with knife and fork (eating spoon is simple) with an etiquette. Chopstick is not really necessary unless needed. Thanks a lot in advance. If you uploaded a video, please reply me with a confirmation. If you can’t do it please let me know, I’m cool if there is an issue and infact you can suggest me somewhere else other than here.thanks in advance.

  • @Dashya.
    @Dashya. หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thankyou for this video.. Pls make one on smile.

  • @Marci82
    @Marci82 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent video as usual ❤

  • @Mariammia77
    @Mariammia77 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much, your video are super informative as always🌸

  • @ZilolaTursunova-dc3gz
    @ZilolaTursunova-dc3gz หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤
    Your videos help me a lot 😊

  • @user-sg5bm3xh9i
    @user-sg5bm3xh9i หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very inspiring video. Thank you

  • @sitbone3
    @sitbone3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excelent video. Thank you once again.

  • @nur641
    @nur641 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please do a video how to pack and organise a suitcase for travel.

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5if หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Oh, and the handshakes…I try to teach every woman and young woman I know how important a strong firm, just two pump handshake is… I think I do see more women getting better at this! It is almost the grossest thing when somebody gives you a ‘fish’ hand!

  • @xeilentynhiazekairva
    @xeilentynhiazekairva หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your OOTV 😍
    Thank you again for this...❤

  • @lisatiptoes
    @lisatiptoes หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A great video. And a good reminder for me to actively listen. Also, business cards are still used. They are something tangible to give someone. Other than putting it in your phone. It also shows that you are are professional and prepared to meet people.

  • @pinkgreenmelon2209
    @pinkgreenmelon2209 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for the advice. In my case, I have to do my first impressions in a language I’m not entirely fluent in so I sound really nervous and end up probably not giving off a good impression. 😂

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Always good to notify the person that it is not your first language in case what you say might be lost in translation.

  • @MyLearningofQuran
    @MyLearningofQuran หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like your every video.
    Your outfit is minimal and easy to carry.

  • @_BLUEZ_666
    @_BLUEZ_666 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Grate video❤

  • @equilibriumtorque577
    @equilibriumtorque577 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi jamila can you make a video on how to be organizable in this fast world we women often lost our feminine trait which is been organizable.

  • @clairenesubs
    @clairenesubs หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @maroshka_
    @maroshka_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Jamila! Your tip about business cards got me wondering, what makes an effective and visually appealing business card?

  • @jasppt
    @jasppt หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are so elegant ❤️‍🔥

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First I Love your videos
    Lots of love from India 🇮🇳♥️

  • @Heidipoptime
    @Heidipoptime หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Jamila! Thanks for always providing such great content. Could you create a video on etiquette for when a friend hosts another friend in their apartment, in a spare bedroom, for let's say 7 days? Should the guest clean their own bedroom before leaving? Should they participate in cleaning shared areas like the bathroom and living room? Should they pay 50% of the groceries if they eat together during meals? Etc. Many thanks!

  • @evelin2019
    @evelin2019 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very nice video. So much information that I didn't thougt about. Would love to meet you at a meet&greet event. Maybe there is some space to come to Vienna | Austria - otherwise Germany, Italy, Switzerland would also be an option!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hopefully soon ☺️

  • @officialpurplejoy
    @officialpurplejoy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How to network with clients? What are the business etiquette?

  • @noname.1890
    @noname.1890 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    this came right before I am going to meet my boyfriend’s parents! Hope it goes well ❤

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good luck 😉😉

    • @asiakhan5314
      @asiakhan5314 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good luck dear! ☺️

    • @noname.1890
      @noname.1890 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asiakhan5314 thank you ☺️

    • @noname.1890
      @noname.1890 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JamilaMusayeva thank you💕

    • @jiahjeon1111
      @jiahjeon1111 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hope it went well!

  • @AichaMaraf
    @AichaMaraf หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello, I am Aisha, I followed you from Algeria. I really love you. Could you please make a video for us that talks about how I take care of my hygiene in the summer with simple things? Thank you

  • @luxpursuits
    @luxpursuits หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My two biggest issues:
    1) Posture
    2) Blabbering

  • @A0789IJP-vh9zk
    @A0789IJP-vh9zk 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish that if one day you could also do talk about how to like carry yourself in foreign land with different culture, etc from us because say I'm currently in foreign country, I migrate there, but also facing some harsh situation like some locals didn't understand you but criticize you for no reason just because of differences.
    I hope you get what I mean 🙏

  • @secretscarlet8249
    @secretscarlet8249 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    But how do you define the line between pacing yourself and stretching the silence until it becomes awkwardness? I’m not great at thinking on my feet so when I go too slow I think I’m going too slow.

  • @sonaxanmcfrova8330
    @sonaxanmcfrova8330 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are angel my princess God bless you 🙏❤️🥰😇💋

  • @kellyroy7248
    @kellyroy7248 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How do you feel about women not wearing nail polish in casual situations? If the nails are still groomed and clean, but not polished with color?

  • @user-hd4kl6jz9n
    @user-hd4kl6jz9n หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @TheLTNO
    @TheLTNO 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    @10:45, are handshakes necessary in this post-covid world? I was a germaphobe before covid and have become all the more since. Thank-you for your work. Your channel has been a great resource to me for several years now 😀.

  • @jishajain7341
    @jishajain7341 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Time stamps? 👀

  • @sinchitaghosh
    @sinchitaghosh หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ma'am, I try to follow every step you explain but I face a big problem with sneezing since I have really bad dust allergy. I tend to sneeze pretty loudly. I've tried to lower the volume but in the process my nose just itches and leads to more sneezes and it becomes really messy. Is it a bad thing to snneze loudly in a social setting? There's nothing I'm able to do about it. I know it's more of a medical issue but I also think sneezing is considered a manner?

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5if หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    PS, I have friends who have terrible posture, and I always have to hold myself back from pulling back their shoulders!😘🧐

  • @JezzTeo-de4wp
    @JezzTeo-de4wp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi I am a college student and will be graduating with a business degree in 2 years. I belong to a professional business fraternity and will be interning with a company this summer. Will you suggest that I have a name card to give to potential companies in the social events? Also, as I am thinking of my internship this summer,what would be an appropriate tag in the new work place. Thank you

  • @ankitasharma1588
    @ankitasharma1588 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤

  • @selyemperzsa1
    @selyemperzsa1 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great summary video, thank you! For the outfit, the jacket looked great on the street photos, however in sitting pose it seem to have swallowed you, also maybe improve the lighting in the room to bring more light to your face, overall mood, liveliness into the video, just like ont street photos, which looked full of live, dynamism, sexiness! :-)

  • @laurawolf9613
    @laurawolf9613 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🥰

  • @knjigoveznica
    @knjigoveznica 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jamila veliki pozdrav od , Radomir Eric Beograd, Srbija.

  • @antoinette4729
    @antoinette4729 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dear Jamila, having been a microbiologist over 40 years, I am a germaphobe. I believe handshakes should be banned as a social gesture. Retired to Thailand, the “ wai” is an accepted greeting and farewell. No touching of skin is involved. It is similar to a “ namaste” gesture. Again, a respectful greeting without skin touching skin. Many people have hand issues: arthritis, trigger finger, carpal tunnel etc. and a handshake can be somewhat painful. These reasons could explain a weak handshake. Thank you an excellent video.

  • @scrap_donetsk
    @scrap_donetsk หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    черпаем вдохновение для наших работ 🪡🧵👠на вашем замечательном канале 🌿 с уважением, от коллег по обувному ремеслу 🔨✂ Jamila, as always, we draw inspiration for our work 🪡🧵👠on your wonderful channel 🌿 respect from collegues shoemakers 🔨✂

  • @denisbasirov
    @denisbasirov หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Спасибо что вы делитесь знаниями. Не хочу вас обидеть, но для меня ваш голос слишком тихий и приторно слащавый. Между прочем смотрю и слушаю вас через онлайн переводчик яндекса, где голос больше подошел бы для вас. Жду каждый ролик с нетерпением.