SHE'S PERFECT! I've been learning English and here I can practice my English and get more information about humans behavior, which I like!! Thank you from Brazil 💛
Vanessa, another great video!!! I love your bullet points. I will first be using the self-evaluation for myself and also suggesting our leadership team add this video to our leadership training!
As always a fantastic and extremely helpful video, thank you Vanessa. Also loving your book at the moment. Keep up the valuable work your doing. Sending you good vibes from the UK. 😃
Thanks Vanessa for sharing it. I try keeping your insights in mind when I carry myself around at work. I need to practice controlling my hand gestures but for some reason I end-up putting my hands together on the table, in pockets, etc. Any tips on how to improve hand gestures during business communication to exude confidence, get acknowledgement, and be likeable? Thank you!
While it bums me out that people judge on a first impression & hold onto that. I still like the tips. It is just a matter of being more self aware of your body.
That's why I've pretty much given up on finding a girlfriend. I have the posture, walk and stance of a soldier; the presence of the 11th doctor, and Harrison Ford's tired eyes and half smile. I can't say that makes a great first impression.
This video is more about externals that, while valuable, are not as important as internals and how someone genuinely interacts with others to make a good impression.
Surely, I agree with you about your experience with the people who are looking for the perfect place to stay with me, I replied that answer tomorrow morning at 9:00, Dt 29/08/2019 about my last two years ago experience, what I was doing, and in which struggling I was passing through this process of making a good thing and how I was working. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about me that what people are thinking about me.
nice research and tips given thanx it was quite helpful ..... but i believe at the end being yourself is very important, do not try to impress go with the flow naturally other wise it might be suffocating trying to remember all those gesture. but being your self does not mean be arrogant or cocky. just be generous , compassionate indiscriminately and be a deep listener and meditate. peace
First impressions aren’t the strongest impressions though. But sometimes people won’t give a 2nd chance, but if they do and actually take time to get to know someone. Also, first impressions do not stay with us, because this one woman’s first impression was incredible, but now I’m not so sure about her character at all, after all this time.
Your recommendation: People sitting with their toes inwards always signalize shyness, weakness, (already we see this by kids a lot and its then also true) On the stage we have never thought not he's/she's pointing with his /her shoes to the audience ?
"If you're depressed or in an anxious mood, people will pick up on this." Well f***, that pretty much kills it right there. It seems like I'm in a constant low-key depression. And what if you're not feeling calm, confident or powerful? What am I supposed to do, fake it? I thought I was supposed to be myself. This channel is not for people like me.
Here are a few articles that should help answer your question! :) www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-make-a-conversation-with-a-girl/ www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-flirt/ www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
Mmh I often hear the statement "at first xx appeared a bit yy, but when I got to know him/her, he/she was lovely". Would everyone be a massive hypocrite?
@@freeyou2000 omg im sryXD i didnt think translated: most people like the colour blue it also makes peole calm and i think its her favorite colour so blue is always a good choice^^
I'm great at first impressions. It's once people start talking to me for a prolonged time and they realise I'm actually an anxious wreck underneath all of the superficial posturing that the problem arises. You can look and sound as confident as you like, but if you don't actually feel that way underneath all of these little tricks are effectively pointless.
The first impression I got was not authentic. Too many over exaggerated hand gestures. This whole thing seems way too dramatic. Factor that into your algorithm.
I’m thinking voters would look at the track record of a politician rather than how they look or talk. For me, actions are all I care about! I don’t care what someone says.
So is the world split into two groups of people? The ones who are trying everything they can think of to make a good impression/not be boring/seem confident and happy... And then the people that group are trying to impress, who sit back and live their lives and simply judge the first impression/interest level/confidence of the people around them? Or, are we all in that first group and we're all just trying to impress each other simultaneously?
@@Zwitterion17 Forgot about this comment but still wonder about the answer lol So you mean we are split into two groups or you think we're all in the former "trying to impress each other" group?
I'm sorry to be a hater, but these tips seem kinda ... arbitrary. I'm not a rider on the non-verbal hype train (though I understand the comment about "ornamentation"). If you could provide some links to the actual sources, Vanessa, that would be helpful to me in understanding why these tips actually have the positive effects you describe.
Find out more in our full article on this topic:
www.scienceofpeople.com/first-impressions/
I just like how venessa is always happy when she talks, and that makes me listen more.
I think she records her videos on her good days 🙂
SHE'S PERFECT! I've been learning English and here I can practice my English and get more information about humans behavior, which I like!! Thank you from Brazil 💛
wow that's really good! keep it up
I had a amazing first impression from Vanessa, since I discover her videos ... Great Job!
Thank you for all your great beneficial videos, a big thank you deep from the heart 🙏
Vanessa, another great video!!! I love your bullet points. I will first be using the self-evaluation for myself and also suggesting our leadership team add this video to our leadership training!
Vanessa,you are basically captivating and inspiring.you are great.......
As always a fantastic and extremely helpful video, thank you Vanessa. Also loving your book at the moment. Keep up the valuable work your doing. Sending you good vibes from the UK. 😃
This video is an awesome resource! It's full of great advice that I'm sure many people can benefit from. Thanks for sharing! 🤗
Thanks for sharing .. will stick in my brain from now on... I already do but nothing wrong in reviewing this típs now and then ❤️👍
Thank you Vanessa and your team !
Thanks Vanessa for sharing it. I try keeping your insights in mind when I carry myself around at work. I need to practice controlling my hand gestures but for some reason I end-up putting my hands together on the table, in pockets, etc. Any tips on how to improve hand gestures during business communication to exude confidence, get acknowledgement, and be likeable? Thank you!
Thank you Vanessa for this useful video!!!!
While it bums me out that people judge on a first impression & hold onto that.
I still like the tips. It is just a matter of being more self aware of your body.
That's why I've pretty much given up on finding a girlfriend. I have the posture, walk and stance of a soldier; the presence of the 11th doctor, and Harrison Ford's tired eyes and half smile. I can't say that makes a great first impression.
Your valuable insights... have shown time and again Your vast knowledge of the human dicatimony and how it relates to astounding results!
I love her energy
Aw thank you!!
Very informative Tnx
Of course, thanks for watching!
Good Job Vanessa with your nice videos . Hard work behin every video it´s clear. Congratulations a my best wish of good lock
Great vedio
Loved it
Plz keep making more
Always something great! Love it
This video is more about externals that, while valuable, are not as important as internals and how someone genuinely interacts with others to make a good impression.
Surely, I agree with you about your experience with the people who are looking for the perfect place to stay with me,
I replied that answer tomorrow morning at 9:00, Dt 29/08/2019 about my last two years ago experience, what I was doing, and in which struggling I was passing through this process of making a good thing and how I was working.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about me that what people are thinking about me.
Mis respetos para una mujer como Vanessa muy hermosa y muy profesional pocas mujer como EYA ya no hay😍😘
Thank you so much 🌺
nice research and tips given thanx it was quite helpful ..... but i believe at the end being yourself is very important, do not try to impress go with the flow naturally other wise it might be suffocating trying to remember all those gesture. but being your self does not mean be arrogant or cocky. just be generous , compassionate indiscriminately and be a deep listener and meditate. peace
Number 6 was baaaaaaaad advice!
I like "ornaments" to describe clothing or accessories
First impressions aren’t the strongest impressions though. But sometimes people won’t give a 2nd chance, but if they do and actually take time to get to know someone. Also, first impressions do not stay with us, because this one woman’s first impression was incredible, but now I’m not so sure about her character at all, after all this time.
Omg can I get coaching from you I absolutely love your channel
Your recommendation: People sitting with their toes inwards always signalize shyness, weakness, (already we see this by kids a lot and its then also true) On the stage we have never thought not he's/she's pointing with his /her shoes to the audience ?
Vanessa, do you use nootropics?
you are so smart !
Hi teaher i like your lessons and Beaurityful tolking keep going
Thanks 🌺 😘😘😘
Fantastic
Great
Please I want some help from u I think u help me ?? My question is How I will use my hand to talk to any ??
I understood that but i think hand use is many kind so which kind of hand use I will do ??
You are really really good
"If you're depressed or in an anxious mood, people will pick up on this." Well f***, that pretty much kills it right there. It seems like I'm in a constant low-key depression. And what if you're not feeling calm, confident or powerful? What am I supposed to do, fake it? I thought I was supposed to be myself. This channel is not for people like me.
Please, tell me just one thing. In general, in a conversation, I´m a little shy with a woman. How is the first step...!?
Here are a few articles that should help answer your question! :)
www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-make-a-conversation-with-a-girl/
www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-flirt/
www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
Professional or casual? Which word is the “negative” one?
Depends on the people you are surrounded with.
Love the tips but I’m 4’11 and will always be looking up at almost everyone 🥴
Mmh I often hear the statement "at first xx appeared a bit yy, but when I got to know him/her, he/she was lovely". Would everyone be a massive hypocrite?
Hand shake only works pre-covid times.
😊😊😊
I like Vanessa videos so helpful I have increased my level of charisma. Happy for you, you looking beautiful as you gained little weigh
You always wear blue dresses , why ? Share with us ❤.
die meisten Menschen mögen blau außerdem hat es eine beruhigende wirkung zudem denke ich das es ihre lieblingsfarbe ist^^
@@cleander3645 haha , like i would understand this language.
@@freeyou2000 omg im sryXD i didnt think translated: most people like the colour blue it also makes peole calm and i think its her favorite colour so blue is always a good choice^^
@Mak Tub i translated in the comment below
there's a really good color psychology video on this channel that answers that exact question
it takes lot of effort to rember all this.
*A firm, hearty handshake gives a good first impression, and you'll never be forgiven if you don't live up to it.*
1st impressions = Overrated
I'm great at first impressions. It's once people start talking to me for a prolonged time and they realise I'm actually an anxious wreck underneath all of the superficial posturing that the problem arises.
You can look and sound as confident as you like, but if you don't actually feel that way underneath all of these little tricks are effectively pointless.
@@SolarJakee At least it helps you get a job. I'm totally opposite so I'm using this to help me hopefully get a job.
Microsecond ? Really?
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
you dont have to make any impression on anyone, just be yourself
I never hand shake.. I kiss 😋
Same, in my country doing the hand shakes is actually really weird (except for professional events or something like that)
Man she’s beautiful
First impressions: You hair looks beautiful
Why would intelligent contradict wierd? They most likely go hand in hand
The first impression I got was not authentic. Too many over exaggerated hand gestures. This whole thing seems way too dramatic. Factor that into your algorithm.
يقبرني االي خلقك
هيا مغتفهمش العربية 🤦♂️
@@freeyou2000 I want her to ask someone who knows Arabic. Just to deliver how much I love her 💏 😍
@@jodhaakbar5868 hahahaha you should ve wrote it in clasic arabic , so she can translate it .
Like " انت فتاة جميلة"
@@freeyou2000 انت فتاة جميلة يا فانيسا
انا بتابعها من زمان غيرتلي حياتي
I’m thinking voters would look at the track record of a politician rather than how they look or talk. For me, actions are all I care about! I don’t care what someone says.
Way too much hand talking going on.
So is the world split into two groups of people?
The ones who are trying everything they can think of to make a good impression/not be boring/seem confident and happy...
And then the people that group are trying to impress, who sit back and live their lives and simply judge the first impression/interest level/confidence of the people around them?
Or, are we all in that first group and we're all just trying to impress each other simultaneously?
Definitely the former
@@Zwitterion17 Forgot about this comment but still wonder about the answer lol
So you mean we are split into two groups or you think we're all in the former "trying to impress each other" group?
I disagree weird is a negative state
Doesnt make me feel good
First
First impression
You sound so monotonic
I'm sorry to be a hater, but these tips seem kinda ... arbitrary. I'm not a rider on the non-verbal hype train (though I understand the comment about "ornamentation"). If you could provide some links to the actual sources, Vanessa, that would be helpful to me in understanding why these tips actually have the positive effects you describe.
Channel spreads false information. I recommend unsubing
Channel spreads false information. I recommend unsubing