I would change the fact thatbi still have bed tome when i was younger i didn't have any btw I'm 14 and ny parnet came more strict when my little brother was born
I would change my parent's old mentality cuz I hate it so much..they just tell me to live my life according to them..they don't understand me a bit..why don't they understand this is my life..even they tell me to choose my lover according to them..like seriously?? I HATE THEM SO MUCH..I am only with them cuz of my needs..If I would leave them then life will be not possible..cuz I need food and money..and the worst part is they don't even let me do a safe job..I want to earn for myself
MY MOM DOES THAT TO ME - literally every time when i do something and like smack my little brother back, who is 6 years younger than me, but he’s pretty strong too, and really arrogant + bullies me a lot, my mom doesn’t give a little shit, she thinks just been I’m pretty much a teen now, I’m able to handle all the bruises/injuries I get - sprained wrists, scratches, bites, bruises, I mean yeah I don’t mind them, but sometimes when it’s like a bruise in a specific area/sprained wrist/bite, it could last like 2-3 weeks (not too long but still smh)
@@beanhead7632 u know like dat parents are so deluiled now a days if they could experience the things we have to go through then they would understand and not act like this
yE My mom is kind and lovely but- She’s said dis which my heart really want her to not be my mom I don’t hate babies My mom she hates babies I just stay quite and I’m not person who talks much I don’t even has a sis Her- “SHe hAs a siStEr aNd sHe hAtEs hEr” I want my brother to treat me fair My mom-hE tReAtS hEr sO fAir bUt sHe sTArtS a fiGht
she basically described my parents the only thing wrong was the substance abuse also btw about the grade one they even told me a flat lie saying colleges look at your middle school grades
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
@@leorichard7955 I wish I can really trust them but I got no friends they left got their own life now and my sister father cause me this I can't really think
My parents are very discouraging and honestly it’s so weird for me to grapple the fact that the people who gave life to me are the people who push me to take it away
@gaspersnakes exercise, eat healthy, read psychology, stay away from toxic people, do creative things, try to be independent by getting even a part time job, do breathing exercises
It's funny how parents don't even realize what they're doing to their child, then the parents say it's from being on the internet like it's not their fault
Sometimes I think they do it bc they think that they can tell us whatever they want becasue they are our parents and they have the authority. No one has the authority to cause someone depresion.
my mom takes away my phone because I have online friends. actually only one. some people I've met online have helped me with depression and when I went through series of panic attacks. she's never helped me because I'm scared to talk to her. she once took away my phone for 2 months straight. I spent almost all of that time alone in my room. Edit: she's taken away my phone again, she says I'm never getting it back.
I know what you mean I was at the point of killing my self and my uncle cause I went down to some railroad tracks and he ran down there and started chasing me back to the house and everything gone toys electronics everything besides my bed and some Shelves
My parents call be bad things like idiot, stupid, annoying, dumb, etc. They never care about what I want and how it will affect me. They also never cared about my accomplishments. 😢 I cry every day because of them. Spending time makes me so sad.
The same thing happened to me when I was in high school. My parents never encouraged me. My mom always said negative things about me and wanted me to react obediently towards her. It feels so bad and home feels like hell. Growing up in a toxic family is tremendously terrible. Sending you a big hug. I hope that we, and any other children who are going through similar experiences, can move on.
The first sentence my mom calls me that names sometimes and i feel like im gonna go on a outburst she even said i have a small brain JUST BY forgetting only 2 things. Yeah she is totally pre-toxic
I feel like im weak. I always explode or snap to my parents. When i open up to my friends they tell me about their problems and how lucky i am. I need ur opinion an i a drama queen or what cause i dont even know anymore
@@datboi6671 I don't think that you're being dramatic, I feel the same way most of the time like I'm not good enough and that I'm worthless but I realised that there is someone out there who cares about me and loves me for who I am. I hope this helps ❤️
My mom threatens to take away my phone any time I do something even slightly wrong (sometimes I didn't even do anything, my siblings just lie and blame it on me) But my phone is literally my safe place... So when she takes it away, my mental health just crumbles 🙃
_"If I ever become a mother, I won't be anything like my mom."_ Edit: It is sad to see how many of us relate to this. Lets work hard on ourselves so that we are better than our parents.
@@drugs8177 Well here's the thing you could always be a good mom BUT always make sure that the father is really nice as well ight.. Because here outta my parents my mom is like the nicest person in the whole world but my dad on the other hand, he yells at me, screams at me, saying that he'll no longer do anything for my family, he humiliates me always make sure that the father is nice as well... otherwise there is literally nothing you could do but to get a divorce if you try to talk to him he'll get even more mad and he might even try to hit you soo yeah (my father doesn't hit my mom or like y'know yells at her or smth, but i have a feeling that he doesn't do that because whenever he screams at me she never sticks up for me because she's scared that he might end up punching her or smth tho if she one day stands up for me and he ends up punching her, then he bouta lose his balls. anyways holy crap i don't wanna write a whole story of my dad being a total bum soo yeah just make sure you get a really nice bf (: )
The worst part: depression and anxiety is now the leading cause of suicides, and the only sad part: theyll hate you if your allive, and only loved when your "gone". And the worstest part about it, they dont care and continue passing it to their new childs.
My mom removed the emotion crying in my body 2 years ago. I was unable to cry and let my emotions go. Luckily i still relieve myself (by crying ofc) but that happens once or twice per year
I’m always the happiest when I’m home alone Edit: does anyone else’s parents say you should be more social but won’t let you talk to anyone see anyone? Edit2: hope all of you are doing great
Ngl, tears started streaming down my face while watching this, because I’ve realized how emotionally, mentally, and sometimes physically abusive my mom can be..
Btw my doctor diagnosed me of the severe depression, said that if I don’t find treatment, I have high chances of ending my life, but my my mom said therapy is too much and I’m faking it
@@Your_rizzerlergrandmahey just believe in god and do prayers it will help you to heal from it. recover fast and become something, show your parents what you are.
@@nancymistry6192 believing in fictional beings doesn't cure depression. also trying to get validation from someone who steals your money is a bad idea. he should get real help from outside.
@@ezmqsvwhile I am Christian I do have theses thoughts and the only thing that’s keeping me here is Jesus so although it may not heal the depression or stop the suicidal thoughts Jesus can help with that feeling of loneliness and sadness But I understand what you meant
@@Psych2go All but the physical abuse actually, it's actually kinda sad that it's all but one. Then they ask why I'm depressed and cut and I'm over here to scared to even be in the same room because of what they do.
Well if i ever became parent i Will do my best to never let my son daughter suffre bullying and if they want to became something i Will help them i have lil bro and i get angry and hard at him sometimes but when i do i auto regret why i did that i am 14 years old guy and i Will do my best to be good parent in futur
I feel so unconfortable around them I spent all my time in my room when they're home too. I hate to see it like that but all my hobbies and likings are turning grey after my dad clearly saying he doesn't like any of them. I love video games but it's like a knife in my heart everytime he looks at me playing with a disappointed glance
When your parents just point out the negativity and ignore the good things that you have worked hard on instead of providing actual support, love and appreciation for who you are.
when all they do is point out ur flaws and ignore the good things but when u tell them u did those good things they either dont believe u did it or they are gonna say it matters to them when it really doesnt
if someone didn't tell u already u worth it,ily even if u don't know me and i genuinely appreciate u and u are doing amazing.every little thing will be alright so keep going and remember that It is scientifically proved that if u are really bad right now u will be good maybe soon too i m here for u i know what u are going trough but pls ilysm feel free to talk to me,i am not telling u to underestimate ur things,go to a doctor or stuff is not something that is bad or like... U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I WANNA SCREAM AT THE WORLD THIS BC IT'S WORTH IT AND U ARE WORTH IT AT LEAST FOR THIS STRANGER THAT LITERALLY LOVES YOU SO MUCH,when you want to die you have to strive to live as much as you you want to to die,trust GOD.GOD Bless us.Amen
My mom never appreciates me it's like she only loves my brother coz she compares me and my brother and point out all the flaws while I'm the one who completes all the responsibilities of both a boy and girl but still...i think she's getting toxic day by day but I don't knw what to do other than ignoring 😔😔
This is what im going thrue rn, I have my own dreams but my parents don't care about them all they do is look at my grades and blaming me for being bad and have no hopes for me. They push me to a limit where I wish I never exist anymore, I don't even have a person to turn to if I have issue with something. I hope one day this will get better and that people are having it much better then what I have it like.
@Nalesh Hewavithana no, it means if the parents hurting child too much like in this video and are making u feel bad, I have parents like them I don't wanna stay with them they are just hurting me and don't even wanna listen to my problems once
@@madhuprasad1429 same i am soo depressed at this point that my parents ignores and harras me everytime i do anything specially my mom she is always jealous of my studying and harrassing me to stop 😭
@@ollie1813 it really is... and they would point it out as giving attitude and teach you about all this and that blablabla stuff but they did those for years
They don't pay attention. When I was younger I always was my brother's slave or my parents. "Get my phone" "Throw my trash away" Take the dog out" "Clean up the poop" I always stay in my room.. Forcing me to do stuff.. Worse family ever..
we are both in this ✊ we will get the stuff we want I don't even have ps4 Xbox 1 non console just work work. Sad thing is my friends get what ever they want becouse of their parents. Me I don't get what I want my parent lie they say they don't have money but they have loads They pick what they want me to have 😔 No grades Don't do eneything school
I feel this in my soul! My mother would constantly push me to get a house with her so she could have me around forever but she screamed at me when I even hinted I didn't want that
The saddest thing is that I hesitate to talk to my parents. Whatever the case I always fear they will bring negativity from it. They never understand me :(
Same.. my mum mostly never cares about me at all, she always talks dirty to me, for example: when i cry (im a sensitive perosn btw) she would always say "stop crying, you act like such a baby" and that just makes me feel bad about my self. I would always get pushed and forced on doing something she wished she dreamed of, and if id cry, i would probably get punished.. she has no empathy at all, she never and i say NEVER feel bad for me :( im so jealous others have such supportive parents.. and i dont..
my mom doesn't understand depression. there's this woman that literally has everything. •money •love •fame everything good you can think of. but that woman is still depressed. my mom thinks that the woman is just overreacting, because the woman has everything. so, when I told her I had depression, my mom thinks I'm just copying my cousin that also has depression. that's why I keep everything to myself.
I just wished my parents knew so they won't treat me like I'm less better than anyone else they don't know everytime they compare me I go to my room and cry silently wish I never existed and I'm just a burden sorry I just really need to let this out
I'm crying. Thank you for acknowledging my issues . I feel heard and y don't know how much I needed that, that soft loving voice of yours made me feel safe. I'm sure that the woman making this video will be the most loving parent if she ever has kids, I really hope so, and I wish you all the besttt
Things I've been told that made my depression worse: "you just want attention." "your too young to comprehend your emotions. "you have it too good to be depressed. "just be happy.
I mean we can do what we “like” but they just take it in bad way and don’t let us do anything and what they say is “I’m teaching u how to be perfect” oh cmon y can’t we do what we like I really like to make new games but they took my pc away and “teaching” me Ughhh when will they change It’s literally a new generation now
"why don't you ever come out of your room" comes out of room "gets insults" gets yelled at" "gets bullied for no reason" " made fun at because of the way I dress and look" never again...
It’s the same to me but now they force me out of my room take my phone and computer during the day and only allowed for 2 hours in my room this includes study and just games and I have worked that I missed due to it
I always like sitting alone, when my mom tells me to stop sitting alone and chat, i chat with other people then i get insulted, I only have like 4-3 friends and I cant visit them bec of Corona, but life isnt bad maybe your just in a bad chapter :D
Yeah they're "helping" a lot more like making your kid go through anxiety all the life and beat you up for nothing because they're drunk Man I hate my life
so you say... have you ever been hitted on with a belt on your back repeatedly while you force yourself not to cry for saving whatever little proud and dignity you have left and see how your mom gets angry cause you don't cry and she hits you harder and harder until she finally breaks you and make you cry and then froces you to go to school injured and with a swollen red face knowing everyone will stare at you as a freak all day?
You know it's bad when you are scared that your parents are coming home cuz you know you will be sad or scared what will happen again. Thank you guys for the likes, I hate how many people can relate to this. I hope for everyone it gets better and one day you won't always have to be with them. Just remember that!
Bad parents also never stops to think about why their child might be acting a certain way. As soon as their kid does something they don’t like or agree with, the kid instantly becomes a problem that must be controlled.
The worst part is when they make you depressed and are toxic asf but also are sometimes nice and you even feel guilty for hating them even tho they are literally making you worse.
Kinda felt like that before now I don't feel that great neither of those places but I'm more used to staying at home (cause when I'm home alone it feels like a home but kinda empty and lonely, specially if I'm not doing something productive).
@@Baby_ruby08 oh my god im so sorry you poor thing thats so awful, i know my apology does nothing but i hope you can soon escape from such horror and i hope you can get the courage to get help, best of wishes for you.
Muthu 467 Same here,my mom just said “I’m taking all of your devices if you don’t pick up your grade!” *little does she know,that all of my friends that comfort me are online friends*
when I was just 18, my fucking dad just always, PISSING THE HELL OUTTA ME and he was always slapping my cheek, but i was just going to my friend's house and just going to his B'day party, yeah that's it, now an FBI agent
Sending you my warmth.❤ You are not alone, there are a lot of us. I wish I could hug all these people, who suffer because of their parents. I want them feel happier, because I am being through the same thing. 🥺
I watched this video right after i was mentally and emotionally and physically abused by my mother, and there's always a voice in my head telling me "i wish i wasn't born" , but now i feel like i am used to getting abused from my parents and they make me feel like i don't deserve to be born, the onlu thing i want is privacy and a peaceful life that i don't get abused or annoyed all the time, i get blamed for everything and I don't know what will make me perfect in the view of my parents, i always thought of running away from my house or kill*ing myself or kill*ing my parents, and afterall, i am only 12! I deserve to be happy and i deserve to have a supportive and loving parents no matter what! This is all i want! I am a person too! I dont like it when i see other kids that have supportive parents who loves them more than anything in the world,but i know that my wishes will never come true , to anyone that's having the same probs as me; don't worry, and pleaase dont make decisions that will make you regret doing it, and always remember, god is always with us. I love you allp
Yea my mom have legit mini mental breakdowns very time I don’t listen…and it matter if it was my mistake. It could be hers and she still will blame it on me
The time when I needed a councellor or someone to talk, my dad just told it would bring shame ; he thought if ppl around us saw me going to a therapist's house, they would think I am 'crazy' and would bring 'us' shame. I tried so many times talking to them abt my problems and mental health but they just couldn't understand it. I gradually stopped talking to my dad bcoz he himself has some mental health issues (which he doesn't acknowledge) that made my situation even worse. Then he just threatened me saying that if I don't talk to him anymore, he'll cut ties with me in the future. 1:23 ,I could relate with it so much. Wtf does he know abt how hard those times were for me? I told him so many times but he just didn't understand me. But now its all going fine... For those who are going through a hard time pls never quit, everything's gonna be fine one day trust me.
My mom didn't say it that direct but, she did say that my depressed feelings weren't that serious and it probably was just my hormones.... Until I became suicidal, so... Thnx mom
I have depression, and if I get to grow up and have a family, I’ll never treat my kids the way I was treated. Ignored, put down, it properly cared for. Hurt.
I also hate it when parents take out their problems on you and start yelling at you. I understand everyone has hard days but when I’m mad I take it out on my pillow not my mother. But she seems to not care about ruining my day just because hers was also ruined.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
fr , my father does this and i also understand his work is tiring and has to take care of both me and my brother but when he just screams at us both is so scary. i usually would just carry my brother and run to my room and we both would just cry😥.
Exactly..my mom rarely does that but when she does it’s like “wtf? You don’t need to be a bitch to me all because you’re struggling with your day..if you wanna bring it out than bring it out in a CALMER way and just vent..” like WHY CAN’T OUR PARENTS JUST DO THAT..
*it deeply hurts when a child searches for parents love even when they're alive n around the child, deeper than a lover searching for his/her partner's love*
aaliya sheikh I’m 12 and my parents never trust me. My mom picks my clothes and my life choices. Even if I don’t like it, and if I say something my mom will call me ungrateful. I have more to say but it’s personal I’m suffering from major depression and I’m starting to think it’s them. I need someone to talk to but my counselor doesn’t understand. People say I fake my depression cause I’m 12 cause supposedly we can’t get depression...
I’m hate bringing my friends to my house because my parents are so judgmental and always compare me to them. It’s so annoying, I feel like I’ll never be good enough
My mom used to compare me with my sister, friends and even my aunts but i just didn't care and tend on always being myself, isn't it right that everyone have their different sides that we don't know? You just need to open their eyes.
yea. ive been compared alot she told me “ why cant i be more like my little sister” why cant you be normal and not thin” “ hey your friend has actually grown” its just annoying bc we all have different roles but still compare us to the ones who have different roles
Right. I said that i am mentally exhausted and depressed. Just leave me alone please. But they ignored that and they didn't understand. I have to leave home for my health but there is quarantine.
It's really hard, I relate to all of this signs, I tried communicating and talking to my parents but nothing seems to work. they finally said yes to a therapist because i was nearly begging them for it. and when they told me to tell them everything, it turned out that i am an ungrateful brat, who doesn't see what my parents do for me and i say that they are bad parents and they don't consider themselves as bad parents because they kept us fed and warm. and I'm the one in wrong here and i shouldn't be depressed. this kind of bullshit and low knowledge is making me so mad. i hope we all get the help and happiness we deserve, because everyone deserves to be loved, confident and happy. i wish you all to succeed and never give up in your life.❤
and now they have a child who lies about their entire life and say they're happy even tho they want to kill themselves and never tells them how they actually feel. congrats, mom.
"Wow, you're problems aren't even real problems!" -Dad, in a sarcastic tone, after I tell him about my rough day "You're not depressed, it's probably just the weather." -Mom, to me, in front the doctor who just said I had depression There's a lot more, too. My family calls me lazy when I don't get out of bed and ungrateful when I don't feel like eating.
Families can really suck! But just because they're related to you doesn't mean they say true things. "No one else believes in you. Why don't you put in an effort to get what you want?" -My Mom to me when I told her I didn't want to do something she was forcing me to do even though it was for "my own good" "Worthless" -My Dad, after I spent a few extra minutes talking to my sad friend to comfort them. I'm pretty sure these aren't true, and they just aint good
I always find my parents tell me they love me every night, but I often find their presence overwhelming because I feel like they care about my grades more than me. They yell at me if I’m not focused, or when I don’t do what they want, or when I need to rest, but have homework. They’ve also told me I’m just too emotional or think I’m weird if I like childish things.
No,DO cry. You'll never rest when you hold it in. Crying makes you feel so much better and relaxed. It's okay to cry,it's natural and something that should be done. It's okay if you can't cry too,but sometimes that's actually a sign to get help,so watch out for that.@@Novanimator
If there's one thing that you could change magically about your life, what would that be and why?
that i didn’t have to live with my parents and i could move out now because they push me to just agree with them even if i disagree on everything
I would change the fact thatbi still have bed tome when i was younger i didn't have any btw I'm 14 and ny parnet came more strict when my little brother was born
I would like to change my mother..
She is toxic.. and always puts so much pressure on me. Especially in school..
I would change my parent's old mentality cuz I hate it so much..they just tell me to live my life according to them..they don't understand me a bit..why don't they understand this is my life..even they tell me to choose my lover according to them..like seriously?? I HATE THEM SO MUCH..I am only with them cuz of my needs..If I would leave them then life will be not possible..cuz I need food and money..and the worst part is they don't even let me do a safe job..I want to earn for myself
Idk There are too many things I would like to change ._.
the worst part is when they gossip about you to other adults.
Exactly😂
MY MOM DOES THAT TO ME - literally every time when i do something and like smack my little brother back, who is 6 years younger than me, but he’s pretty strong too, and really arrogant + bullies me a lot, my mom doesn’t give a little shit, she thinks just been I’m pretty much a teen now, I’m able to handle all the bruises/injuries I get - sprained wrists, scratches, bites, bruises, I mean yeah I don’t mind them, but sometimes when it’s like a bruise in a specific area/sprained wrist/bite, it could last like 2-3 weeks (not too long but still smh)
@@beanhead7632 u know like dat parents are so deluiled now a days if they could experience the things we have to go through then they would understand and not act like this
ugh i hate that seriously pisses me off
yE
My mom is kind and lovely but-
She’s said dis which my heart really want her to not be my mom
I don’t hate babies
My mom she hates babies
I just stay quite and I’m not person who talks much
I don’t even has a sis
Her-
“SHe hAs a siStEr aNd sHe hAtEs hEr”
I want my brother to treat me fair
My mom-hE tReAtS hEr sO fAir bUt sHe sTArtS a fiGht
I honestly felt relieved when I found out that my parent's presence can affect my mood is an actual thing, I thought I was being delusional
i cant find the arrow up button on my surface but omg pretend i spammed it. i get soooooo overwhelmed by them its on another level :/
same....and i thought i have anger issues whenever I'm with them
@@mizukihayashi2637 same I have lot of anger issue
Mizuki Hayashi I thought I was autistic
Does anyone else think your parents are holding you back from being a celebrity, just me ok
It’s sad that random people on the internet understand me better than my parents ever will.
True....
she basically described my parents the only thing wrong was the substance abuse also btw about the grade one they even told me a flat lie saying colleges look at your middle school grades
Facts but its good to know that "some" people can understand you.
Damn true
So true
the worst thing is that you have issues outside and inside your house. You feel like crying all the time and don't have a support system
Yep
I am more honest on the internet than with my parents nor anyone I know
@@btsarmygirl7748same I would rather talk about it on social but not with my parents
Sometimes it feels like the only way out is running away and never seeing back.
Bro this comment is the situation of my life right now
As a Christian, I'm always told to love my parents but... it can be hard sometimes.
“Its because you’re always on the internet” No, the internet is giving your child acceptance. That was YOUR job.
Yes
Facts.
Truee omg
yea
YESSS
When parents explain their reasons to us,we listen
But when we explain our sadness,they cut us off
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
Yeah ikr..also sorry for ruining 33 likes
I relate to this comment so much :/
Same with me :(
@@leorichard7955 I wish I can really trust them but I got no friends they left got their own life now and my sister father cause me this I can't really think
“If you tell me the truth, I wouldn’t be mad”
this made me have trust issues
Wales Rebel Same-
This and toxic friendship (aka bullying?) in an early age
@@den_nyssa it's okay honey. Exsactly same here. I'm moving next week. I pray for the best
this generation of parents suck. my mum used to sneak things into my food and lie. now living with an eating disorder :/
Yeah, and when they do the uno reverse card and actually get mad at you
My parents are very discouraging
and honestly it’s so weird for me to grapple the fact that the people who gave life to me are the people who push me to take it away
Don t. There is a God and wants to help you. Talk to Him. He ll get u out like He did me
@@stefaniakonstantinidou981i will say this the most respectable way. Maybe praying isnt really going help *sometimes* sorry
Samee
Like W H A T
@gaspersnakes exercise, eat healthy, read psychology, stay away from toxic people, do creative things, try to be independent by getting even a part time job, do breathing exercises
It's funny how parents don't even realize what they're doing to their child, then the parents say it's from being on the internet like it's not their fault
Sometimes I think they do it bc they think that they can tell us whatever they want becasue they are our parents and they have the authority. No one has the authority to cause someone depresion.
How the hell is that funny people go threw pain because of their parents
Then when I try to tell them I'm just sensitive
Ikr-
till one of their child is going to suicide, they realized and then regretting :////
The saddest thing is when you don't even know if you're depressed or if you're just too dramatic
Exactly
@Azreele I hope you'll get better dear ♡
@Azreele Oh I'm sorry!
@Azreele Np ♡
I feel like I'm being dramatic or overreacting
It boils my head
Their mind works like this:
“oh my child is not happy? let me take away their phone”
my mom takes away my phone because I have online friends. actually only one. some people I've met online have helped me with depression and when I went through series of panic attacks. she's never helped me because I'm scared to talk to her. she once took away my phone for 2 months straight. I spent almost all of that time alone in my room.
Edit: she's taken away my phone again, she says I'm never getting it back.
@@Foxnhund Hope it gets better
I know what you mean I was at the point of killing my self and my uncle cause I went down to some railroad tracks and he ran down there and started chasing me back to the house and everything gone toys electronics everything besides my bed and some Shelves
My Phone is my only coping method because it’s the only way I have a connection to my friend
Perfect truth 😑😑😑
My parents call be bad things like idiot, stupid, annoying, dumb, etc. They never care about what I want and how it will affect me. They also never cared about my accomplishments. 😢 I cry every day because of them. Spending time makes me so sad.
Same thing for my dad.
The same thing happened to me when I was in high school. My parents never encouraged me. My mom always said negative things about me and wanted me to react obediently towards her. It feels so bad and home feels like hell. Growing up in a toxic family is tremendously terrible. Sending you a big hug. I hope that we, and any other children who are going through similar experiences, can move on.
I hope you get the proper treatment you deserve ❤️ I may not know you but I wish the best for you
The first sentence my mom calls me that names sometimes and i feel like im gonna go on a outburst she even said i have a small brain JUST BY forgetting only 2 things. Yeah she is totally pre-toxic
@@user-zy4wf9qd5d yes the same thing happened to me
The most painful is, when your parents compare you to others.
yes !
yes its really reallly true!!!!!!>:(
Yes and i really fucking hate that everytime they do that
My mom keeps on comparing me to my nephew, whenever he is over and something wrong happens she always assumes it's my fault.
Yeah and they say "it's not comparing! I'm just telling she does this and that!"
I’m happiest when I’m home alone / when everyone is asleep
Same
Me too...🌹
SAMEEEE😕
same
‼️‼️‼️‼️
“If you tell me the truth, I won’t be mad.”
Lies.
Edit: guys pls get better parents cuz your stories are genuinely worrying me
Absolutely
It’s sad that so many people relate including myself.
Exactly.
omgg ikr!!
ikr they end up getting mad
Every kid deserves a parent but not all parents deserve a kid
I think Kim taehyung was right when he said- u aren't enough for them (bts armies here?)
Being asked
"Why are you depressed?
Life is beautiful!"
Is like saying
"Why do you have asthma?
There's so much air!"
Ikr
They ask what’s wrong for one sec then they say we want attention for telling everything
Me:bruhh why’d you asked then
I feel like im weak. I always explode or snap to my parents. When i open up to my friends they tell me about their problems and how lucky i am. I need ur opinion an i a drama queen or what cause i dont even know anymore
@@datboi6671 I don't think that you're being dramatic, I feel the same way most of the time like I'm not good enough and that I'm worthless but I realised that there is someone out there who cares about me and loves me for who I am. I hope this helps ❤️
Lesbian Amazon Sister I can definitely relate 😂😂
Life has no meaning
“It’s because of the internet”
-Parent
The Internet is my only good coping mechanism and if they ever took that away from me I'd probably snap.
At least the internet doesnt yell at me and theres people who care
My mom threatens to take away my phone any time I do something even slightly wrong (sometimes I didn't even do anything, my siblings just lie and blame it on me)
But my phone is literally my safe place...
So when she takes it away, my mental health just crumbles 🙃
@@_froskkk_58 the internet is my getaway place and my mom will take away the only things that bring me happiness: my phone, cat, friends, etc.
@@1vy-h2b same.
I will give my future children a life my parents couldn’t give me.
Trust me your parents attitude will past to you beacause you have been with them for years
@@spacegalaxy4329 Dang I never thought of that
i will adopt my kids, so they have a better life, and i will do the most i could do with them.
@Space Galaxy trust me, i one be a deppression causing mum. i will make the have love what my mum wouldnt even try to give me.
I will try my best in the future
"Don't be so dramatic, I'm only helping you."
my suicidal thoughts tell me otherwise.
That is so real. They are always telling me I am so dramatic.
Fr
True
mine too
sounds like narcissistic father!
Parents always act like they were the perfect kid when they were growing up.
It's only my dad doing this my mom cares
Kinda true..
My parents had terrible childhoods
So whenever their mad they tell me how much worse *my* childhood could get
they dont care about me so why should i care about them they always talk shit behind my back
Exactly bella
I will make sure to treat my future children better than my own parents did.
I will give my future kids a better life than my parents gave me
Me too, I did swore to myself that I won't be like them and I won't let them touch my future children.
That's exactly what I told my friend this morning
Same
I will ensure that they will be happy
_"If I ever become a mother, I won't be anything like my mom."_
Edit: It is sad to see how many of us relate to this. Lets work hard on ourselves so that we are better than our parents.
me too i will be that mom for them that they won't even know the word depression
@@drugs8177 Well here's the thing you could always be a good mom BUT always make sure that the father is really nice as well ight.. Because here outta my parents my mom is like the nicest person in the whole world but my dad on the other hand, he yells at me, screams at me, saying that he'll no longer do anything for my family, he humiliates me always make sure that the father is nice as well... otherwise there is literally nothing you could do but to get a divorce if you try to talk to him he'll get even more mad and he might even try to hit you soo yeah (my father doesn't hit my mom or like y'know yells at her or smth, but i have a feeling that he doesn't do that because whenever he screams at me she never sticks up for me because she's scared that he might end up punching her or smth tho if she one day stands up for me and he ends up punching her, then he bouta lose his balls. anyways holy crap i don't wanna write a whole story of my dad being a total bum soo yeah just make sure you get a really nice bf (: )
With the way my parents raised me,I won’t even have a kid.
That's also what I'm thinking, but then again... I wanna be SINGLE for the rest of my life. IDK... Probably scared having an own family.
I wouldn't be my parents either
The worst part: depression and anxiety is now the leading cause of suicides, and the only sad part: theyll hate you if your allive, and only loved when your "gone". And the worstest part about it, they dont care and continue passing it to their new childs.
My mom removed the emotion crying in my body 2 years ago. I was unable to cry and let my emotions go. Luckily i still relieve myself (by crying ofc) but that happens once or twice per year
Omg preach
“You owe me. I gave you life.” No actually you owe me, I never asked to be born.
So true
Exactly
Facts
My mom always tells me “I brought you into this world I can take you right back out of it”
Well said
I’m always the happiest when I’m home alone
Edit: does anyone else’s parents say you should be more social but won’t let you talk to anyone see anyone?
Edit2: hope all of you are doing great
Same....
Same same
Yep
@William Shakespeare same
My birthday wish didn't come true...they stayed home...I'M GLAD THEY CAME HOME THOUGH I WAN'T THEM TO COME HOME THOUGH just wan't to be free
It's scary how we thought the people who love us the most when we were younger, are the ones who became the cause of our depression.
real talk
I was just thinking about that.
Word
Hi , I’ll use ur words as a quote.. can I have ur insta so I can credit u :)
@@ward4523 no need to credit me 😊 I just conveyed my thoughts. You can just credit me as "potato RJ". I don't have insta😅 what's your insta?
Ngl, tears started streaming down my face while watching this, because I’ve realized how emotionally, mentally, and sometimes physically abusive my mom can be..
If I showed this to my parents they wouldn’t care because “it’s from a TH-cam video”
Same my mom WONT open a link/video that I sent :)
Same bro yeah they always push me
@Song Yoon Min same at first but now my mom is an army now-
Yea my parents would say this is brainwashing me LOL
Exactly.
I'm jealous of those who has good relationship with their parents.
ME TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Hope you’re okay :(
@@yuyvomitscutely oh same 🍔😍💀
Same
Me TOOO
The “You’re too young to be depressed” and “why can’t you be just like your brother” hits me hard to my sensitive heart and mind
Sounds similar to me , the only thing is I have anxiety and my dad tells me that I supposed to be on the level of my sister
2nd one sounds like every time me n my classmates do something teacher doesn't like.
Whenever I show them my achievements instead of praising me they act like it's nothing and ignore me :/
Same
This is why I always turn to music that makes me feel better
I’ve begged my parents to get me therapy, but my mom says it’s too much money, but she takes my money and spends it on temu
Btw my doctor diagnosed me of the severe depression, said that if I don’t find treatment, I have high chances of ending my life, but my my mom said therapy is too much and I’m faking it
@@Your_rizzerlergrandmahey just believe in god and do prayers it will help you to heal from it. recover fast and become something, show your parents what you are.
@@nancymistry6192 believing in fictional beings doesn't cure depression. also trying to get validation from someone who steals your money is a bad idea. he should get real help from outside.
@@ezmqsvwhile I am Christian I do have theses thoughts and the only thing that’s keeping me here is Jesus so although it may not heal the depression or stop the suicidal thoughts Jesus can help with that feeling of loneliness and sadness
But I understand what you meant
@@Your_rizzerlergrandmahold on best you can until you can get therapy (it will be available at some point)….it will be worth it. ❤
It sucks how much people can relate to every single one of these.
Same, brother!!
Giving my support and good vibes.
its quite shocking to me. parents, everyone needs to realized mental health is truly important. its so sad thinking about it.
@@anotherdeadgirl.mp3 🤘
How many signs did you relate to?
@@Psych2go All but the physical abuse actually, it's actually kinda sad that it's all but one. Then they ask why I'm depressed and cut and I'm over here to scared to even be in the same room because of what they do.
parents don’t understand how much they really effect us😖
yea..
Yeah really . .
Well if i ever became parent i Will do my best to never let my son daughter suffre bullying and if they want to became something i Will help them i have lil bro and i get angry and hard at him sometimes but when i do i auto regret why i did that i am 14 years old guy and i Will do my best to be good parent in futur
Yea
Ikr
Personally i hate going school but every time i finish, i'd rather to stay there instead to come home
I know exactly how u feel
Same
I’m with you on that
I feel it too. But now when school is online, I find it hard to go zoom-ing while being 24/7 in home.
same mate
I feel so unconfortable around them I spent all my time in my room when they're home too.
I hate to see it like that but all my hobbies and likings are turning grey after my dad clearly saying he doesn't like any of them. I love video games but it's like a knife in my heart everytime he looks at me playing with a disappointed glance
“Tell me what’s wrong, I just wanna help you.”
*DAMN LIES.*
True
True
They just blame me for everything even my siblings fault
I wanna like but you're at 269 im sorry i cant.
I like it tho
@Marine Chuop-Mourareau is it bad I tell myself that so I can feel like I'm alright
When your parents just point out the negativity and ignore the good things that you have worked hard on instead of providing actual support, love and appreciation for who you are.
exactly, thats worst, but unfortunately i m used to it now
when all they do is point out ur flaws and ignore the good things but when u tell them u did those good things they either dont believe u did it or they are gonna say it matters to them when it really doesnt
if someone didn't tell u already u worth it,ily even if u don't know me and i genuinely appreciate u and u are doing amazing.every little thing will be alright so keep going and remember that It is scientifically proved that if u are really bad right now u will be good maybe soon too i m here for u i know what u are going trough but pls ilysm feel free to talk to me,i am not telling u to underestimate ur things,go to a doctor or stuff is not something that is bad or like... U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I WANNA SCREAM AT THE WORLD THIS BC IT'S WORTH IT AND U ARE WORTH IT AT LEAST FOR THIS STRANGER THAT LITERALLY LOVES YOU SO MUCH,when you want to die you have to strive to live as much as you you want to to die,trust GOD.GOD Bless us.Amen
At this point im just ignoring my parents
My mom never appreciates me it's like she only loves my brother coz she compares me and my brother and point out all the flaws while I'm the one who completes all the responsibilities of both a boy and girl but still...i think she's getting toxic day by day but I don't knw what to do other than ignoring 😔😔
Having actual good parents is like finding life on another planet
there is no perfect parent
@@-yasua he said good sum parents are trash 🗑
Yes, I am living on another planet
@@hetalgarasiya1206 what is your name how far is your planet and what do you think about humans?
I am on Venus
This is what im going thrue rn, I have my own dreams but my parents don't care about them all they do is look at my grades and blaming me for being bad and have no hopes for me. They push me to a limit where I wish I never exist anymore, I don't even have a person to turn to if I have issue with something. I hope one day this will get better and that people are having it much better then what I have it like.
I hope you're okay, I know what that feels like
Ahh that's too deep 😢
"Every child deserves parents
but not every parent deserves a child"
~ i heard it somewhere its so deep and relatable
@Nalesh Hewavithana no, it means if the parents hurting child too much like in this video and are making u feel bad, I have parents like them I don't wanna stay with them they are just hurting me and don't even wanna listen to my problems once
Not every child wants a parent
@@ridewithice5587 same :')
@@madhuprasad1429 same i am soo depressed at this point that my parents ignores and harras me everytime i do anything specially my mom she is always jealous of my studying and harrassing me to stop 😭
@@iamMansiGupta yes mee too each and every sign matches my parents behaviour as shown in video .
Some parents need to realise that childeren have SOULS and aren't robots.
Funny how they get mad when u treat them the way they treat u for years
@@ollie1813 it really is... and they would point it out as giving attitude and teach you about all this and that blablabla stuff but they did those for years
Brooo that is what exactly what im thinking they always make me do chores and not even tell my brother to do the chores
Yeah because kids are humans parents need to stop abusing there kids and stop Turing them into a robot
They don't pay attention. When I was younger I always was my brother's slave or my parents.
"Get my phone"
"Throw my trash away"
Take the dog out"
"Clean up the poop"
I always stay in my room.. Forcing me to do stuff.. Worse family ever..
Me depressed > Not motivated to do anything >Doesn't do school work > Grades drop > Parents stress me out
Repeat
Same for me.... I lose motivation quickly these days..
@@Asuno_ me too... i am in a depressed condition. I have nothing. My family is very poisonous. But they dont admit that
Exactly
we are both in this ✊ we will get the stuff we want I don't even have ps4 Xbox 1 non console just work work.
Sad thing is my friends get what ever they want becouse of their parents. Me I don't get what I want my parent lie they say they don't have money but they have loads
They pick what they want me to have 😔
No grades
Don't do eneything school
Same tbh
It's very sad seeing that we are going through this much of pain. But our parents who always act like, they care about us are doing nothing.
Yeah
Also a sign:
When your parents talk to you like you’re their slave or servant instead of another human being, even when you’re an adult.
I can relate to that.
YESSSSS YESSSSS. Like my gosh I’m not your servant ur a grown adult do it yourself
I can confirm that as how I relate to this
I feel this in my soul! My mother would constantly push me to get a house with her so she could have me around forever but she screamed at me when I even hinted I didn't want that
Yes!!! Cause they think just because they brought you to this world they own you
The saddest thing is that I hesitate to talk to my parents. Whatever the case I always fear they will bring negativity from it. They never understand me :(
Same.. my mum mostly never cares about me at all, she always talks dirty to me, for example: when i cry (im a sensitive perosn btw) she would always say "stop crying, you act like such a baby" and that just makes me feel bad about my self. I would always get pushed and forced on doing something she wished she dreamed of, and if id cry, i would probably get punished.. she has no empathy at all, she never and i say NEVER feel bad for me :( im so jealous others have such supportive parents.. and i dont..
I want to fucking die
@@OneEyed8135 ngl, same, im kinda tired of living, im literally so exhausted, i still have to wait for years
Same
@@OneEyed8135 same, it’s the fucking worst to be at a house that you’re not even happy.
No lies. I envy people who have healthy relationships with their parents. I strongly envy.
That’s why I am with my neighbors 24/7. They have parents that are TOGETHER and SUPPORTING, and then there’re is me
Me too. My husband has a great relationship with his parents while me... I wish I could just cut them off from my life...
Same, even though it depresses me; like, why can't that be me? Hopefully I'm never the same kind of parent.
@@mcam96 Trust me, so do I.
I envy with them too. How i wish to have a supporting parents😔😭
I hope my mom feels what she’s said to me, I cry almost everyday because of her.
my mom doesn't understand depression.
there's this woman that literally has everything.
•money
•love
•fame
everything good you can think of.
but that woman is still depressed.
my mom thinks that the woman is just overreacting, because the woman has everything.
so, when I told her I had depression, my mom thinks I'm just copying my cousin that also has depression.
that's why I keep everything to myself.
I wanna send hug to you. My mon doesn’t understand my depression too.
Same -_-
But I don't care anymore that they understand me or not .
Parents *NEED* to learn that depression isnt a joke, and that if their child is depressed, the parents need to help
Same expect the copying part.
i mean you did just post this to the internet
Honestly I'm scared that im gnna be a parent and won't even notice that my kid is crying by themselves in there room
I just wished my parents knew so they won't treat me like I'm less better than anyone else they don't know everytime they compare me I go to my room and cry silently wish I never existed and I'm just a burden sorry I just really need to let this out
I wish . I have a parent like you
Spend time with them, be present and work together as a team. If you treat them with respect and as an equal they will feel safe to confide in you.
Well I'm not having kids, thank you mom for making me constantly fear that I'll be the failure of a mother that you are
me to my parents toxicity rubbed off on me and i don't want to rub it off on my child.... thats why im not having kids
The thing that hurts the most is when they compare me to others......😔
yup that’s hurts :(
Am always compared to my bestfriend and have 5 siblings and they alway have something to blame me or talk about me
same 😞
Bro I am compared to my 4 yr old cousin
Same😔
I'm crying. Thank you for acknowledging my issues . I feel heard and y don't know how much I needed that, that soft loving voice of yours made me feel safe. I'm sure that the woman making this video will be the most loving parent if she ever has kids, I really hope so, and I wish you all the besttt
“I only want the best for you”
But you don't know what's best for me
related they even advice us smthing tht they dont even know..
When I talk up about how I feel to my mom, She always says "You are being too negetive!" "You re not sad!" And never understands how I feel.
@@sheetalbhat7083 they say I'm acting depressed for attention :(
My mom does both unfortunately
I don't know why but i started crying when i read this (is that normal?)
"You have to succeed in your studies"
"STUDY!STUDY!STUDY!"
damn,sometimes i just wanna stop living in this world
I like studying but I'm just started 6th grade you can't make me study 9th grade stuff
Just do your best they can’t control you.
take me with you
you, then me
Same here
remain strong! there are brighter days! you will escape your parents one day!
Crazy thing is our parents will never apologize for these things
True...their ego is more important than anything..
ikr
@@geegeecook5063 or there reputation
My dad thinks he's always right
Can't wait for our generation to be parents
Things I've been told that made my depression worse:
"you just want attention."
"your too young to comprehend your emotions.
"you have it too good to be
depressed.
"just be happy.
Omg! Yes! Sure their are lives worse than mine but that shouldn't take away how I feel.
and they say they were just "teaching" us to be a good kid.
I mean we can do what we “like” but they just take it in bad way and don’t let us do anything and what they say is “I’m teaching u how to be perfect” oh cmon y can’t we do what we like I really like to make new games but they took my pc away and “teaching” me
Ughhh when will they change
It’s literally a new generation now
They are just ruining my lifeeeee
Exactly ,
@@ray8221-y4r yeah ikr
Yeaahh.. They always give pressure on us
"why don't you ever come out of your room"
comes out of room
"gets insults" gets yelled at" "gets bullied for no reason" " made fun at because of the way I dress and look"
never again...
It’s the same to me but now they force me out of my room take my phone and computer during the day and only allowed for 2 hours in my room this includes study and just games and I have worked that I missed due to it
This is the reason why we are all getting introvert😔
literally most of my life
Sometimes...
I always like sitting alone, when my mom tells me to stop sitting alone and chat, i chat with other people then i get insulted, I only have like 4-3 friends and I cant visit them bec of Corona, but life isnt bad maybe your just in a bad chapter :D
My parents think they’re “helping” but they’re actually making my life a living hell
Lmao my life was already a living hell xD
JK not tryna be edgy
Yeah they're "helping" a lot more like making your kid go through anxiety all the life and beat you up for nothing because they're drunk
Man I hate my life
Such a dumb parents
Absolutely right!
I do this thing where I imagine my comfort characters comforting me because my parents (specifically my mom) won’t.
I'm so sorry I used to do the same with characters from books
It’s weird how much words hurt compared to a slap.
so you say... have you ever been hitted on with a belt on your back repeatedly while you force yourself not to cry for saving whatever little proud and dignity you have left and see how your mom gets angry cause you don't cry and she hits you harder and harder until she finally breaks you and make you cry and then froces you to go to school injured and with a swollen red face knowing everyone will stare at you as a freak all day?
@@antognr I'm sorry you are going through that. I don't get hit. But I don't want to be here anymore...
@@antognr Whatever the kind of abuse...i think every type of abuse has the ability to break you down to pieces......I'm sorry Psyche
Agreed
@@antognr i used to get my ass beat but at least mine was for a reason, sorry if you had go go through that shit man
The worst pain is they don't see your struggle and say you're wasting your time
This 💯
💔💯
That's what's happening with me.
So hurtful...
@@sarahneels4331 😢💯
😢😢😢
You know it's bad when you are scared that your parents are coming home cuz you know you will be sad or scared what will happen again.
Thank you guys for the likes, I hate how many people can relate to this. I hope for everyone it gets better and one day you won't always have to be with them. Just remember that!
I'm so sorry Anna 💔😢
Sometimes I'm scared of my dad but I always push down that feeling... Why? Mainly because I don't want to hurt my dad....
@@too_fluid_to_care I had 2 panic attacks because of my dad's behaviour.
I know how u feel.
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 same
Bad parents also never stops to think about why their child might be acting a certain way. As soon as their kid does something they don’t like or agree with, the kid instantly becomes a problem that must be controlled.
The worst part is when they make you depressed and are toxic asf but also are sometimes nice and you even feel guilty for hating them even tho they are literally making you worse.
😭😭Facts mahn
Thats exactly whats happening to me
Yup
ikr
bruh those are one of the reasons why I want to be a adult just so i can live in peace
do you ever just feel like school is better than your home,
and when you go back home you just feel sad and null again.
Kinda felt like that before now I don't feel that great neither of those places but I'm more used to staying at home
(cause when I'm home alone it feels like a home but kinda empty and lonely, specially if I'm not doing something productive).
Aaaaand this is why I dislike not going to school
Yep
Wow yesss.... I would stay in school until it closes and walk home instead of getting a ride even though I live 20 miles away
Yes. Even though I hate school, I'd rather be there than at home.
I’m happier when I’m isolated so that when I get my feelings in order no one is there to bother me.
Agreed loineness is my greatest gift in this dark world (bit dark but yeah)
Me too
Same
Same
Same
Sometimes the internet is better at talking to us than our own parents.
sending a hug...
Something I once read said:
“Heal before having children, so your children don’t have to heal from having you as a parent”
Yeah thats true
I don't think I will get married with someone if myself was like thus
I wish my parents would've read this before having me
@@Ranbirsopcartoon09 i hate em
Kinda wish my parents had done this, now I just get blamed for the problems they have
Something i once read to :
"Don't wish you had a good parent, be one"
The dislikes are the parents who see there kids watching this and say "iT's BeCaUsE oF tHaT dAmN pHoNe"
@@Roop566 exactly.
Same, its like saying "I dOnt HaVe ElEctricIty In MY Age"
BRUH! Its ww2 the hell you expected
exactly my parents always blame everything that happens to me on the dam phone even when it has nothing to do with it
no pe yeah I feel you
Its does 😣
It sucks having depression and anxiety caused by your parents.
Right then they ask why we are like this
I'm going through that right now and idk what to do 😭
@cyber Alex me too
r/im14andthisisdeep
@@Baby_ruby08 oh my god im so sorry you poor thing thats so awful, i know my apology does nothing but i hope you can soon escape from such horror and i hope you can get the courage to get help, best of wishes for you.
why are these suddenly on my fyp. I needed these a long time ago.
Same
Can’t wait to turn 18, pack my stuff, move out and never come back.
Some Thot make sure you save up💖that way you won’t keep making excuses for staying there x
Superb feeling 😇
i was talking about that until i become 18, i am 18 but they dont let me do that, i am stuck here
same
Same here i cant even have emotions of feelings and they slap me so i cant wait to turn 18 too!!!!😌🤗
The worst situation is when your parents compare to others in studies
Damntrue
YES 😫
Bitter truth 😔
They're always comparing with others studies and grades
They don't care about how passionate I'm .
They just need grades and marks
Muthu 467
Same here,my mom just said
“I’m taking all of your devices if you don’t pick up your grade!”
*little does she know,that all of my friends that comfort me are online friends*
That’s what my mom does
"are you abused?"
"Depends on the context"
"Physically? no"
"Mentally and emotionally? Yes"
me too
when I was just 18, my fucking dad just always, PISSING THE HELL OUTTA ME and he was always slapping my cheek, but i was just going to my friend's house and just going to his B'day party, yeah that's it, now an FBI agent
Same
Absolutely right
Kinda..
Thought I was alone until everybody in the comments start experiencing what I experience
sending a hug....
Sending you my warmth.❤ You are not alone, there are a lot of us. I wish I could hug all these people, who suffer because of their parents. I want them feel happier, because I am being through the same thing. 🥺
Same it's kinda crazy
@@WaterLily177Me to I’m through the same thing
"Words cut deeper than a knife"
True
Yeah 🙃
Army
Yeah army 💜😔😞😖😩
@@anandpurimetla8132 can you not
Yeah
“Its for your own good”
Also her: *puts pressure on me everyday not even thinking how i feel*
That’s how my mom is with me on online school. I’m serious
Sometimes i get worried that i will be like my dad
@Bread Neo no I am nothing like my father... nothing like that fat, abusive maniac....
I accidentally unliked, sorry. But I relate.
@@PranavTheGreat1 same
I watched this video right after i was mentally and emotionally and physically abused by my mother, and there's always a voice in my head telling me "i wish i wasn't born" , but now i feel like i am used to getting abused from my parents and they make me feel like i don't deserve to be born, the onlu thing i want is privacy and a peaceful life that i don't get abused or annoyed all the time, i get blamed for everything and I don't know what will make me perfect in the view of my parents, i always thought of running away from my house or kill*ing myself or kill*ing my parents, and afterall, i am only 12! I deserve to be happy and i deserve to have a supportive and loving parents no matter what! This is all i want! I am a person too! I dont like it when i see other kids that have supportive parents who loves them more than anything in the world,but i know that my wishes will never come true , to anyone that's having the same probs as me; don't worry, and pleaase dont make decisions that will make you regret doing it, and always remember, god is always with us. I love you allp
The hard thing is when you made a little mistake, the parents are just get angry.
Hmm S I don't know why they do this 😡
Yeah.
Especially if they make the exact same mistake. 😒
Yea my mom have legit mini mental breakdowns very time I don’t listen…and it matter if it was my mistake. It could be hers and she still will blame it on me
@@DarkPlayerV2 yeah same
It's sad that most teenagers and children are the ones who need therapy, who need actual help, and have suicidal thoughts.
Me 🙋♀️
Wow how did u read my mind
Why we still here just to sufer every tear in my body scar in my brain i. Why i was born i dint sigh for this men
The time when I needed a councellor or someone to talk, my dad just told it would bring shame ; he thought if ppl around us saw me going to a therapist's house, they would think I am 'crazy' and would bring 'us' shame. I tried so many times talking to them abt my problems and mental health but they just couldn't understand it. I gradually stopped talking to my dad bcoz he himself has some mental health issues (which he doesn't acknowledge) that made my situation even worse. Then he just threatened me saying that if I don't talk to him anymore, he'll cut ties with me in the future. 1:23 ,I could relate with it so much. Wtf does he know abt how hard those times were for me? I told him so many times but he just didn't understand me. But now its all going fine...
For those who are going through a hard time pls never quit, everything's gonna be fine one day trust me.
True
"You're not depressed"
This right here is jsut awful to say to your child.
My parents say that every time I bring up my depression, so I stopped bringing it up, so I wouldn't "annoy" them.
I hope you get better, Taco
My mom didn't say it that direct but, she did say that my depressed feelings weren't that serious and it probably was just my hormones.... Until I became suicidal, so... Thnx mom
I have depression, and if I get to grow up and have a family, I’ll never treat my kids the way I was treated. Ignored, put down, it properly cared for. Hurt.
@@soIzec thanks, I hope I do too, but honestly it seems to get worse every day
The worst is they say bad words and hurt you
I also hate it when parents take out their problems on you and start yelling at you. I understand everyone has hard days but when I’m mad I take it out on my pillow not my mother. But she seems to not care about ruining my day just because hers was also ruined.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
fr , my father does this and i also understand his work is tiring and has to take care of both me and my brother but when he just screams at us both is so scary. i usually would just carry my brother and run to my room and we both would just cry😥.
Exactly..my mom rarely does that but when she does it’s like “wtf? You don’t need to be a bitch to me all because you’re struggling with your day..if you wanna bring it out than bring it out in a CALMER way and just vent..” like WHY CAN’T OUR PARENTS JUST DO THAT..
This.
Kill em'
*it deeply hurts when a child searches for parents love even when they're alive n around the child, deeper than a lover searching for his/her partner's love*
Yes😢😢
aaliya sheikh I’m 12 and my parents never trust me. My mom picks my clothes and my life choices. Even if I don’t like it, and if I say something my mom will call me ungrateful. I have more to say but it’s personal I’m suffering from major depression and I’m starting to think it’s them. I need someone to talk to but my counselor doesn’t understand. People say I fake my depression cause I’m 12 cause supposedly we can’t get depression...
@@daphne2489 me too 12 and so much depressed
This is so true 💔
@@daphne2489 we both are having some situation😭😭😭
all my parents care about are my grades, there’s not a time they ever ask me how i’m feeling or doing.
That is so sad our generation will change that we will be better
@@moeclassy6509 I hope..
Same here...
Yeet i dont need as b+ is the way
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I’m hate bringing my friends to my house because my parents are so judgmental and always compare me to them. It’s so annoying, I feel like I’ll never be good enough
I don't feel good enough for my parents ever!
Did anyone else lowkey cry while watching this?
I cried alot.
You don’t even know
My parents love me I know that but they just don’t understand...I could NEVER tell them the truth or why I’m like this
Me
I cried for days and months
I'm crying from reading the comments, man...
The most painful is, when your parents compare you with little kid or other
Yea. My mother did that and you know what she said? Its a joke.
*Is comparing my weakness to other's strength a joke?*
My mom used to compare me with my sister, friends and even my aunts but i just didn't care and tend on always being myself, isn't it right that everyone have their different sides that we don't know? You just need to open their eyes.
I got compared to my cousins. Let's laugh together. They're all less than 8 years old.
Exactly
yea. ive been compared alot she told me “ why cant i be more like my little sister” why cant you be normal and not thin” “ hey your friend has actually grown” its just annoying bc we all have different roles but still compare us to the ones who have different roles
The worst feeling when you're mom know that you're sad and depressed and ignore u 😃
Right. I said that i am mentally exhausted and depressed. Just leave me alone please. But they ignored that and they didn't understand. I have to leave home for my health but there is quarantine.
🙃🙃🙃🙃
Yes true, she always ignores me😔
Samr
Me 👍😀
It's really hard, I relate to all of this signs, I tried communicating and talking to my parents but nothing seems to work. they finally said yes to a therapist because i was nearly begging them for it. and when they told me to tell them everything, it turned out that i am an ungrateful brat, who doesn't see what my parents do for me and i say that they are bad parents and they don't consider themselves as bad parents because they kept us fed and warm. and I'm the one in wrong here and i shouldn't be depressed. this kind of bullshit and low knowledge is making me so mad.
i hope we all get the help and happiness we deserve, because everyone deserves to be loved, confident and happy. i wish you all to succeed and never give up in your life.❤
biggest lie of our childhood:
"we wont get mad if you just tell the truth"
wow very true:(
@@nikobellic7587 indeed
and now they have a child who lies about their entire life and say they're happy even tho they want to kill themselves and never tells them how they actually feel.
congrats, mom.
@@Farenomos facts
I can relate
"Wow, you're problems aren't even real problems!"
-Dad, in a sarcastic tone, after I tell him about my rough day
"You're not depressed, it's probably just the weather."
-Mom, to me, in front the doctor who just said I had depression
There's a lot more, too. My family calls me lazy when I don't get out of bed and ungrateful when I don't feel like eating.
💝❤ < For you
@@humancentipede. hey thanks :) 💗💞
Lmao sis “the weather”?
Same
Families can really suck! But just because they're related to you doesn't mean they say true things.
"No one else believes in you. Why don't you put in an effort to get what you want?"
-My Mom to me when I told her I didn't want to do something she was forcing me to do even though it was for "my own good"
"Worthless"
-My Dad, after I spent a few extra minutes talking to my sad friend to comfort them.
I'm pretty sure these aren't true, and they just aint good
"Your sister was never a problem, you cry about everything"
This caused me depression and always reminded me I wasn't good enough
Well this is so normal these days for me that I'm tired of hearing this
honestly. they always compare ur sibilings to you. i dont think they realise how TOXIC that is and how it could affect their child.
They compare us to other ppl which makes us feel like we're not good enough
Exactly! My parents do this daily that I don't even know if all I'm doing was enough for them to appreciate me.
Because of tgat im bad emotion zombie im 10% safer...
I always find my parents tell me they love me every night, but I often find their presence overwhelming because I feel like they care about my grades more than me. They yell at me if I’m not focused, or when I don’t do what they want, or when I need to rest, but have homework. They’ve also told me I’m just too emotional or think I’m weird if I like childish things.
same, honestly its depressing and the worst part abt it is that no one is ever there to understand my situation
@@amrithsanarhkumar8216 🥲 just smile through it😭
The bathroom is basically my home now.
Crying is basically my daily routine
Mine too..
Mine is watching TH-cam to escape my life.
same girl same..
Yes I am totally dippresed😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
girl same. i just wanna leave.
It’s like one minute your happy with your parents the next you lock your self in a room and cry
Do NOT cry
No,DO cry. You'll never rest when you hold it in. Crying makes you feel so much better and relaxed. It's okay to cry,it's natural and something that should be done. It's okay if you can't cry too,but sometimes that's actually a sign to get help,so watch out for that.@@Novanimator
I find that happening more then I would like
@@yomna.is.normal cry then😂
@@Novanimator stop acting like it's a bad thing bro
I feel safer in my friend's home rather than mine.
same tho
Same I’d do anything to leave
The thing is.. I dont have friends anymore
@@albertalberto2288 same😂
Same
My parents don’t even BELIEVE in mental illness or depression. They’re hard on me sometimes, and if they find this I’m in HUGE trouble…