REGRET-FREE LIVING | Bronnie Ware | TEDxGraz

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  • Australian author Bronnie Ware will be joining the TEDx stage with inspirational insights into regret-free living. Drawing on the insights gained while caring for dying people, Bronnie has learned to live an authentic life, drawing on courage to follow her heart’s guidance. She will be sharing tools with us on how to live in such a way, from a place of kindness while still managing regret-free living.
    Bronnie Ware is the author of the international bestseller, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. Applying the wisdom of dying people to her own life, Bronnie created new directions and has now become the person she hoped to, and more. She will be sharing the importance of courage and conscious choice to create a life free of regrets.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @MANIAKRA
    @MANIAKRA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I started really going after the life I wanted to live after my dad died and I realized how fragile and limited our time is. Don't wait to learn this lesson. Just go now.

    • @hotcakesism
      @hotcakesism 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same, that has been a tough lesson. it's better not to delay learning certain lessons til they are forced on us. good luck to you.

    • @serechkin
      @serechkin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same. I read a book of Bronnie Ware, but it clicked only after my dad passed away. And then russians killed so many of my friends..

  • @bloomuniversal
    @bloomuniversal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Wow! How does this not have a bazillion views? Such a deep, beautiful, profound and heartfelt message to live and die by. Thank you Bronnie.

  • @bittubittu3875
    @bittubittu3875 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bronnie, I have read, loved and recommend your precious book to all of my friends & family members. I am blessed to get opportunity to come across this beautiful content about life.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @randoomly39484
    @randoomly39484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "In order to do the best I can I need to be courageous enough to honor this calling even though I don't understand it".

  • @huizij1
    @huizij1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bronnie's voice has a calming touch to it, I just love listening to her talking.

  • @mariaguild2024
    @mariaguild2024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love this!..I love being a stay at home mom with my kids. even tho I often feel like I am not making enough money or 'doing enough to get ahead in life" But when I really listen to my heart I feel like I would have more regrets having missed big parts of my kids lives. So I am happy where I am ! Yay! I know they will be older soon, and I will have more time to focus on work or a career... But I am cherishing these days with them very much!

    • @melaniel7263
      @melaniel7263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maria Guild I’m with you!

    • @Danny-bc3xr
      @Danny-bc3xr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My Mom stayed home to take care of me and my 5 siblings and I'm forever grateful for her. I know she has zero regrets.

    • @JosephineMarch7
      @JosephineMarch7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maria Guild I am happy for you and also believe that it is the best thing you could do. I wish for the same, longing for a child or better yet children for 15 years. We still keep hope with my husband for a baby. Meanwhile learning to live in present and enjoy every day as a gift cause tomorrow is not guarantied.

  • @PabloTheOne
    @PabloTheOne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You should read her book "The Top Five Regrets of the Dying" - it's a good book to rethink your life

    • @Kareem_Magdy
      @Kareem_Magdy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Salvatore Conte can you send it to me please... I can't find this book

    • @BronnieWare1
      @BronnieWare1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Kareem_Magdy It is available in 31 languages. Perhaps just check with bookstores in your country. Good luck!

    • @KNOWLEDGEPENDULUM
      @KNOWLEDGEPENDULUM 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it available in pdf

    • @BronnieWare1
      @BronnieWare1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's available via eBook, audio book or paperback. @@KNOWLEDGEPENDULUM

    • @denisejeffery3602
      @denisejeffery3602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've just read this book and it is amazing . I cried and laughed and really cried more. She is so true in the story she tells. Please read it. I found it on Amazon.

  • @Nicoleliestsogerne
    @Nicoleliestsogerne ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much. "Service doesn't mean sacrifice". This sentence stuck with me and I wrote it down in my journal. Thank you.

  • @MrGhirbo
    @MrGhirbo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Compassion has to start with ourselves
    treating yourself with that same compassion, patience, and gentleness as you threat other people with.

  • @layne5774
    @layne5774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Really enjoyed this video. It's something we all think about and don't always speak about out loud to friends or especially family. I will go out and buy this book after losing my husband/best friend of 22 years of marriage. Myself being 51 and him being a week shy of 56. Luckily we did talk of these things and that was a gift I was left with after his diagnosis of stage 4 cancer 5 years prior. Suprizingly a very healthy and enjoyable 5 years with one Dr. saying he only had 6 months to live when first being dianosed. We decided not to focus on that and to live life. Thank you for a book I haven't read yet but know it will be a special one!

  • @mobk9774
    @mobk9774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Bronnie, What can I say. You are like a refreshing drink of ice cold water on a sunny day. No thrills, yet powerful and fulfilling. Thank you for sharing your music. You've made this human being feel a little bit lighter.

  • @dr.estherudotai2501
    @dr.estherudotai2501 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you so much for pouring your heart into this message.
    Many people should listen to this.
    I learnt a new definition of self love: adapting the ability to treat myself with the same compassion, patient, gentleness and love I would treat others.
    I will share this message with my audience.

  • @michaelantalya
    @michaelantalya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    From Turkey with love Bronnie.. Your book is good..

  • @melisandreafhoebe1946
    @melisandreafhoebe1946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Almost every regret causes by the lack of courage' . Tq fr that info.

  • @bigmouthpiece1
    @bigmouthpiece1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just finished reading her book 5regrets of the dying great thought provoking read

  • @fdavyes
    @fdavyes 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    4:38 « Let’s use death as a tool for living. »
    That’s deep.

  • @ellanassar9189
    @ellanassar9189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is the best therapy session. Amazing perspective for life and self-love. You are a guardian angel, thank you for sharing.

  • @hereBDBD
    @hereBDBD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've referred to your book on several occasions as a type of life-calibration to reprioritize what's really important in the long run (aka a worthy deathbed reflection) - thank you so much! and so true...courage to give listen to one's own inner voice. God bless you Bronnie.

  • @murilopaiva5302
    @murilopaiva5302 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Very, very inspiring. Loved that.

  • @mysoulwisdomandlightlanguage
    @mysoulwisdomandlightlanguage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love this and her open and honest way of expressing the book, it's a powerful life changing book🙏🏽♥️thank you Bronnie ware

  • @ianbaker2599
    @ianbaker2599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely awesome talk. Thanks Bronnie, I needed to hear this. I need to remember this.

  • @yerkoignacioo
    @yerkoignacioo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From Chile with love Bronnie

  • @dzee3305
    @dzee3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonnie, you are wonderful. Thank you.

  • @klanderkal
    @klanderkal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How much suffering can i keep handling.!! I lost everything,.. and lastly, now my career job. My job actually was keeping me together...
    Im everything less now.
    Im hoping i could at least forgive myself for my devastating mistakes, regrets ,.... but, because of the consequences..
    Im currently unable.
    I have Anxiety and depression for now... and it has made all things negative and horrible.
    .... how, can i go on.
    Im in a dark place., ...🙏

  • @nkian02
    @nkian02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thank myself listening to this and express my feeling on comment that I feel gratitude and bliss from listening to your talk, thank you

  • @perpetututuator
    @perpetututuator 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    a brilliant speech with such a nice warm voice. just wanted to add: reincarnation believes concsiousness of a being will not go backwards but it will only get more awared, so a human wont be reincarnated to a duck but a duck can reincarnated into a human being. or a human can reincarnated to a more awared person, the aim of reincarnation is to reach the highest conciousness in every life loop and at the last loop (nirvana) that person wont be included in reincarnation and have a salvation. so even we believe in reincarnation there will be an end.

  • @mmcc8242
    @mmcc8242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So beautiful way to share such important reality..👌👌👌

  • @seniorlivingadvisorsofcolo6531
    @seniorlivingadvisorsofcolo6531 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome message.

  • @unzahid
    @unzahid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    powerful words.

  • @propman3523
    @propman3523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was waiting for her to state service as sharing, although she did say that service is a reciprocal relationship. Very nice. Simple, but then again, the greatest truths are of the simplest ones in their essence.

  • @josphinahletsholo5370
    @josphinahletsholo5370 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very touching message

  • @maimohamed3590
    @maimohamed3590 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad that I discovered this and know about her after watching a video for Wayne Dyer , thank you😊✨💜💙🌻

  • @mashaishaaaa
    @mashaishaaaa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great talk!!

  • @M9Diry
    @M9Diry ปีที่แล้ว

    Best talk I’ve heard in a while, thank you

  • @rishabmishra6957
    @rishabmishra6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤️

  • @novepipps
    @novepipps 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @reppintrini3576
    @reppintrini3576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great book.i am reading it right now.

  • @PazGriot
    @PazGriot 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant talk

  • @AfroVersity
    @AfroVersity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Chris Do from The Futur brought me here

    • @hanif1766
      @hanif1766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same dude. When Chris Do said about this book, I am impressed how powerful his word.

    • @closmorales3805
      @closmorales3805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oudskii me too

  • @tarawasinger
    @tarawasinger 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugs!

  • @علاجطبيعى
    @علاجطبيعى 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks very nice channel

  • @reethammakv2947
    @reethammakv2947 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful talk

  • @nileshgajarlawar5820
    @nileshgajarlawar5820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice talk......I am currently reading the book....

  • @liyakatmoyal3677
    @liyakatmoyal3677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love brownee

  • @mehkhasur
    @mehkhasur 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice and helpful 👍🏿

  • @herei722
    @herei722 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your book is great...

    • @AhmedKMoustafa2
      @AhmedKMoustafa2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you read it ?

    • @TheBulmaca1
      @TheBulmaca1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AhmedKMoustafa2 I heaved read

  • @billzkhan100
    @billzkhan100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have hurt my family and my relatives.. in the worst of the ways.. and there is no way i can go back and apologize now.. imagine my regret..!!!

    • @wandeto2648
      @wandeto2648 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      billzkhan100
      it's still not too late just go and ask for forgiveness. Try it

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wandeto2648 easier said than done

  • @user-jc1km1qv1m
    @user-jc1km1qv1m ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you from india

  • @user-sl8yn2xi1r
    @user-sl8yn2xi1r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My regrets are my biggest pain please rpay for them to go away.

  • @ximena3280
    @ximena3280 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me encanto el minuto 10:00 y min 17:07 🌠

  • @gluckso4090
    @gluckso4090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️

  • @19fran7
    @19fran7 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @yakamoz1108
    @yakamoz1108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's why I'm visiting lots of countries and teach Japanese to as many people as possible in the world. I think it's my last mission left in life. 62 years old now. I don't wanna regret the lest of my life, too. How about you?

  • @PerspectiveCorner437
    @PerspectiveCorner437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Redirected here by Chris Do of the Futur...am not regretting a thing.

  • @johnclhugyugihjbvgbkj9729
    @johnclhugyugihjbvgbkj9729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ASMR. Unintentionally, I’m sure.

  • @vishalnangare31
    @vishalnangare31 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If we stay with our circle, friends and relatives, can we grow ? Can our society grow?...

  • @mariaflovecchio9245
    @mariaflovecchio9245 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    en español esta?

    • @MrTAYA87
      @MrTAYA87 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maria F Lovecchio quieres la traducion?

  • @SanD-gr5zm
    @SanD-gr5zm 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    svp une traduction en français !!!

    • @hassosigbjoernson5738
      @hassosigbjoernson5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why translate it to french? English is the language here in the internet. ;)

    • @wc7577
      @wc7577 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go to 'settings' and change subtitles to francais-:)

  • @hebercalaniticona2277
    @hebercalaniticona2277 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please Spanish translation

  • @arunsaini208
    @arunsaini208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Goid

  • @labradormcgraw
    @labradormcgraw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I were a wealthy man,
    Such things I'd give to thee:
    All gauges and guises
    Of umpteen surprises,
    And wealthy I'll someday be.
    If I were a clever man,
    Such things I'd build for thee:
    All manner of modes
    Of humble abodes,
    And clever I'll someday be.
    If I were a travelling man,
    Such things I'd bring to thee:
    All features and faces
    Of faraway places,
    And travelled I'll someday be.
    If I were a braver man,
    Such things I'd promise thee:
    All valour in verses
    Of tethering curses
    Will someday be set free.

  • @roni_aust1594
    @roni_aust1594 ปีที่แล้ว

    In Islam muslims are reminded to think of death daily. So as to live a good life inorder to rip rewards in life after death. Hopefully heaven. If you've realy been good to yourself & others.

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I want to be a muslim so I can have 10 wives

  • @lochan8180
    @lochan8180 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life.
    And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
    The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works.
    Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV)
    Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.
    "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him
    should not perish but have everlasting life.
    For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV)
    ✝️ By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely...

  • @amcleod6202
    @amcleod6202 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah Nah. Surely SPENDING more TIME with my kids is up there. Bronnie do you have kids ???

  • @karmasutra4774
    @karmasutra4774 ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe in having fun and exploring and I have done that my whole life. To the detriment of my later years perhaps, I have lived and spent and saved in a balancing act to have little regrets and will die with 0