THE MOST 🤪🤪🤪 OF r/INSANEPARENTS
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ค. 2024
- Over an hour of the top posts from r/Insaneparents on Reddit. Join the community subreddit at / emkay ! Video credits below.
Robin ► / xycronva
Robin | BRUH CHILL: 00:00:00
Robin | thanks i guess: 00:25:58
Robin | this parent is LITERALLY insane: 00:47:14
Robin | why is this on youtube: 01:21:10 - ตลก
An hour long video of just robin how did we get this lucky
I don't think we deserve this
Don't forget John A Emkay.
@@EmKayisn't that just his professional moniker
@@EmKay oh yeah forgot about him
@@catz._.and._.cometzz i shall cover you in coke and mentos
"Why are people so creepy now?" They've always been creepy, the only difference is now they have a platform whereas it use to be said between friends and family.
Also, they don't have those big rural fields to bury the evidence (not just the stained clothing)
the parents think they have control over the childs life even when they move out
It is, in fact, illegal to open another person's package no matter if you're their parent.
It’s still counted as post
my mother doesnt open mine bcus she respects my privacy
G O O D
@@paprikagamesmine is scared of what she could find inside but yeah, it’s pretty nice
While that is true, it doesn't apply to minors. I'm not sure if OP was a minor or an adult, but it depends on the age OP is.
if somebody tells you “do as i say not as i do” start a proverb boxing match by saying “imitation is the finest form of flattery”
What about if you're sneaking into some place?
(Not saying I will, just want some clarification.)
I'm glad my dad is protective in a not weird way. He genuinely cares for my safety and is beginning to teach me self defense, along with giving me a pocket knife.
careful with the pocket knife, I'm pretty sure it's illegal to carry outside
@@axonice This includes a “pocketknife” or “Swiss army knife,” box cutter, or “utility knife.” According to California Penal Code Section 17235, all folding knives are legal in the state and may be concealed as long as they are in the folded position. There is also no restriction on the blade length of a folding knife.
Im not sure about other states but California is fine with it.
@@MangoVSC damn im bringing my pocket knife when i visit california next week
I once said "yeah I'm kinda tired" to a mom in my neighborhood. She asked how many kids I have, I said 1. She responded "pfft you don't know anything about tired." Why do ppl do that? Why do ppl treat being a parent like some competition? Nevermind that I am also a doctor and work 50 hr weeks at least. Nevermind that my kid was a toddler at the time. No, I only have 1 kid so it doesn't count. Wtf?
Because to them being a mom is their only character trait. They never got an education or meaningful career and never got to take on hobbies so they have to brag about their motherhood or they have nothing left.
A (few) counterpoint(s) to your mom:
How many PhD's do you have?
How many hours of residency/medical school have you done?
How many diagnoses made/illnesses cured/lives saved?
And lastly, how many of your children who are doctors have gone no contact with you because you're a Karen?
Oh everyone has that "I must compete with everyone else because I chose to have kids therefore I get to always gatekeep being tired/exhausted/stressed/anxious and no matter what is happening in anyone else's life, I will always have it harder," karen in their life. They're the worst.
r/gatekeeping
Its so fucking annoying when people discount your trouble cause "itS not uP tO mY stAnDaRdS", my father does it every time I complain/vent
53:04 will always be one of my favorite Robin moments
"WHO IS CHACHI??? IS IT A DOG???" has me dying every time 💀💀
I'm still laughing
But is what chachi
Chachi is a sick dog! It is confirmed in the text “You don’t need to eat all those hotdogs! A few at a time but you take the whole dam package! You need to starting thinking about other people & a sick dog instead of being so selfish!”
That is just some r/facepalm crap right there.
@@Darlkstalker chachi is what ur supposed to call ur dad's younger brother's wife in hindi
My mother is painfully similar to this, and the more I watched this video, the more I realized how much I normalized her behavior. She constantly has screaming fits and talk’s constantly of how much she wants to get a new husband. She says she means it as a joke, but I always feel like she isn’t. She has once gotten mad at me and said I acted just like my dad, this is when I was around nine or ten. I told her that it felt like a negative thing to call me, she denied it and told me that I thought of it the wrong way. She recently got very mad after I denied food while we we on the way to a party. She turned around the car and threw us (me and my other siblings) inside the house where she continued to scream at me. She chased me upstairs as my siblings retreated to the car. My dad was concerned because he was at the party already and constantly called my mom, but was promptly ignored in her pursuit of trashing my room and throwing my art supplies all around the bathroom while crying and sobbing manically. I was genuinely scared she was gonna hurt me so I began to curl up on myself and plead with her not to hurt me. She calmed down eventually and acted so different, she was now speaking softly with me and asking if I was okay because she hit me down to the ground. We went back to the car after and she proceeded to joke about how I was telling her to not hurt me and how she threw my stuff everywhere, even laughing a bit. She seemed to think I deserved it. I don’t know, I just needed somewhere anonymous to post. It feels so good to let all my thoughts out, I just don’t know if I’m reading into this too much or not..
YOUR FEMALE LEGAL GUARDIAN IS ABUSIVE AS HELL! GET OUTTA HER POSSESSION AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE IF SHE DOES THAT WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE'LL DO NEXT?!
you're not reading into anything too much. that is abuse.
I genuinely hope that you can run out of there as soon as possible and never EVER coming back with her. I am so sorry that you're going through all of that, you not anyone deserves something like that. You deserve so much better than that, dude
Mom is going to call the cups? 😂 My response: " Cool, are the saucers going to be there too?"
I hope they bring the milk and tea! Otherwise, why even have them over?
Quote from my father that still sticks with me some 8 years later:
"depression is just the "in" disease, like SARS was."
He said this to me when I was 16 and was battling with undiagnosed depression and anxiety.
My mom attempted to unalive herself when I was 10, and I found her. I never got help for that. In fact, my father bullied me any time I expressed less-than-happy thoughts and played the victim when I was upset by the way he treated me.
Hasn't he heard about the great depression?
@@skootergirl22 yeah, but he sees that as a valid reason because people were losing their livelihoods and homes.
@@DPWFG but not a mental illness?
@@skootergirl22 noooope. Not finding a parent trying to off themself either.
I really hope things are better for you and your mom now, that really seems awful
Robin getting righteously angry at insane parents actually makes me feel better about my own parents being awful to me. My mother has done so much damage to me growing up I can't even get angry at being mistreated anymore
❤ you deserve better
@@diamondmx3076 Thanks, luckily I'm more stable now but I still get messed up sometimes when she randomly shows up on the street
First of all, I hope you get better man, I could talk to you so much if we were friends
Second of all, I cant believe these people exist, im gonna pray to Allah because my mom is normal🤲🏻🕋
@@just_master9034heyyy fellow Muslim with normal parents!
@@just_master9034 this is possibly the only time in my life where I'm going to pray with a muslim.
some people say blood is thicker than water in response to cutting off family but what not many people know is that the original saying is “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”
That’s false and was a twist on the saying invented after the original saying.
And, above anything else, sayings don't mean shit
@@Unelith They kinda do there's usually a moral to it but you can think that of you want
I know this was posted 4 months ago, but thank you Emkay for this one. I don’t honestly know how Gen Z (I’m almost 20) got so fucked up by Gen X. From talking to all of my friends, my girlfriend, even penpals around the world, it seems like something is unanimously horrible about them as parents at least. This video helped me really realize that this shit happens to almost everybody, and it’s a disease. To everyone else out there who had or is going through this right now, you’re in my thoughts.
I'm 19, and same! I wonder if these abusive parents have always been this widespread, and it's just with the internet that we can discover it by comparing experiences with so many different people.
I got the best of both worlds with being emotionally neglected, (them always on the computer or the TV, they were retired my entire life they just chose not to interact with me or my sister) then turning into helicopter parents when I wanted to do anything with friends or go outside.
They wanted all my passwords, no texting friends, and if I went anywhere I needed to be in constant contact with them. During covid I quite literally wasn't allowed to be inside a friend's house for like two straight years. I had to enter through their backyard and sneak in their house and pretend I was social distancing outside with masks all evening when I got home.
Now it's 'you never spend time with us' 'youre always on your phone'
I could go on for paragraphs, but that's between me and my therapists, I really can't understand the thought process behind not interacting with your kids then getting passive aggressive that they don't interact with you.
I think maybe they were sold on the idea of a perfect life, and kids were a part of their vision, but they didn't see us as anything but accessories to their own fulfillment. I was always a human being that needed support and understanding, but I had to wait until I was 16 to be acknowledged as an individual.
@@blakewhite3131 Thank you for sharing what you did. My story has a lot of complicated moving pieces but the main idea is that one of my parents emotionally and physically abused me and the other just forgot I existed because they had better problems. Now that I’m moved out (only down the road but still) I’m being constantly berated to come and see the family, told that I don’t care about anyone but myself, and whatnot… Also I never got to see or text any friends either, but that was hardly my biggest concern at the time lol.
I hope you’re in a better place emotionally and literally now, as we all could use someone that can properly reflect as these times in our lives to help us navigate everything and hearing that another person in my life offed themselves for something like this makes me sick.
Take care, have a nice life
I'm Gen Y and awful shit happened to me, before Gen Z came around. For example, my stepdad challenged me to a fight I couldn't back out of when I was close to graduation, while I had braces on. And destroyed my teeth. Not to mention beat me as a small kid, and as I grew up, my mom was hyper religious and hyper manipulative and I didn't have true privacy. Plus they called the police on me a lot. I still hate them for what they did.
@@TheChangelingGamerits US culture, parents arent like this in every country.
oh hell they fucked us up REAL bad.
Fun fact, according to the law itself, any items gifted or bought by a kid is considered their property (clothes, computers, etc.). Anything purchased by parents in general (for example like a house or appliances) are the adults property. This makes some of these posts straight up documentations of criminal offenses
oh god.
damn arresting my dad ASAP
Your parents have legal control if youre a minor. So they can just legally transfer it to themselves first.
Not really how it works, then that'd allow them to transfer a 17 year olds money from their bank to the parents bank account, despite it being wages from a job. Parents are NOT 100% legally in control of a child@@theeclipsemaster
@@theeclipsemaster what if i've never touched dynamite or a pickaxe?
This subreddit slowly made me realise that all these things that I thought were annoying but normal were in fact my parents being horrible people and gave me the courage to get out of the situation.
Other than that Emkay is always a win
Same, grateful that this exists and I found it. Only recently realizing that everything I thought was normal actually wasn't
apparently my parents abuse me
from some random video
i dont think they did tho?
(it said the signs of abuse, my parents do most of the things in the vid, but idk)
@@grey.tmc. my parents have done some of these things but its to what extent they do it. if its every now and again its annoying but if it happens regularly then its just abuse
ditto, some aren't clicking in my brain as insane because it sounds so normal to me
don't worry man, same here.. same here...
it was mentioned in another comment that yes it is in fact a federal crime to open another person’s mail, even packages.
it’s official federal title is obstruction of correspondence, and if found guilty, the offending person can be fined up to $250,000 or spend up to 5 years in prison.
on a similar note, if you think someone else is opening your mail, file a complaint at your post office, they will help you get proof if someone is in fact tampering with your mail. once you get proof, get a get a defense attorney who works for usps. few other defense attorneys will challenge them because mail is something you just Do Not fuck with.
it only happens if you work for the postal industry tho
1:30 Parents think children should obey them like they're their slaves or something...
No wonder she doesn't wanna listen.
The most horrifying thing in my viewing of this video was when my mom walked in and asked what i was watching. I told her, and she watched one of the stories with me.
Then she agreed with the insane parent.
Aha!! What a wonderful mom you have!! ❤❤.. 😐 i feel bad for you, im so sorry 😭 i hope youre ok and hopefully the toxicity dies down! sorry that happened :(
(No sarcasm except at the first sentence, sometimes people get confused)
WHICH POST
Which one???
MF WHICH ONE DUDE
You know that fear feeling you feel when you're walking down the stairs, think there's 1 more, but hit the floor- you've there? I call it "the wave of terror". When I read what you wrote, I got the "wave of terror". I was raised by an undiagnosed borderline. We're good now(for the most part), but I still get the wave when my messenger rings. I'll be 45 in December.
That lactose-intolerance post got me - my mother fed me some food last time I was at her house that I recently discovered I was allergic to. She did it because she "doesn't think my doctor knows what's best" and that I was "playing it up" while I was vomiting uncontrollably in the bathroom.
At that point I wouldn't go to her house to eat anymore.
You are clearly disrespecting her by vomiting up her food, how dare you. /s
@@shroomer3867I hope it's a joke
I'm so sorry to hear that, that's a sign to not go over there or eat any food made by her
@@atryielo4076 The "/s" stands for sarcasm sorry if it wasn't clear.
4:40 is literally the
“No I reject your reality and substitute my own” meme 😂
I once got yelled at by my dad (he picked me up to go to school and got me breakfast), because one time I got late (7:02 AM, I was in fifth grade, my sister being in third) and refused to get me and my sister food. I didn’t eat breakfast and he knew that because it didn’t get me full, ending up in a stomachache.
As a No Contact child to an abusive/narcissistic parent, this was therapeutic.
The second I saw this comment when there was a post about narracistance. It is a pest.
Same but I’m still stuck with her :c
@@BeanKallyI fucking pray you get out of that household bro
@@orangeduckduck2996narracistance?
@@gabrielc7861Either I said it or it was autocorrect :/
Im always imagining the father as some kind of super masculine 50 year old lumberjack, and the mother as a 40 year old karen
THIS NEIL FAMILY IS MY FAMILY! IN FACT IM THE NEIL IN THIS POST AT 8:40
Im not mad thst this was posted. Im actually very happy that this was posted on this channel
But why do some people just hate indian people? (Genuine question)
Because there racist and feel that someone else is inferior to them because they're different
Because most people base their taste for Indians off their smell. A lot of times, thwy smell like Indian food (which doesn't always smell good). A lot of people find Indian food duagusting because of thw amell,and sometimes the looks. Not too many people actually give it a shot. It sucks that so many people are racist to Indians because of their food, because I've met plenty that were extrwmely polite. Some of whichI only "met" because thwy stopped to let me walk across the road without a crosswalk.
@@crossanddream2It's probably because of comments like yours.
@@crossanddream2 "all indians are racist" i think thats a racist statement bro
1:11:57
For anyone else confused, the lady in the story is complaining about how her husband is being really affectionate and endearing towards his daughter (aka, just being a dad), and she's upset that he's talking to his daughter like that, instead of her (which is why she kept bringing up cheating).
Just thought I'd try to help by translating crazy Step-Monster into English for yalls
She should see a therapist. Which unlike most of the other clearly deranged people in this video she seems (with what little information we have) like she might actually do that if told to, considering she seems to acknowledge that her jealousy is irrational and crazy. Unless I read that one wrong.
so basically, he is being a good dad and the mom is mad about it.
Thanks was confused. Now understand SD was stepdaughter. Wife needs to realise his kids will always come before her, but equally he's got enough love to love his kid as well as her - it's not limited to one person FFS
It's fascinating how many creative ways these parents find to make sure their children never visit them later in life.
It's crazy how you can almost see the retirement home they get put in degrade over time as they say and do worse stuff
oh, c'mon, they just wanna be alone...
“Abuse Abuse Abuse, Abuse Abuse Abuse, that’s all it (let me do it for you) it’s (let me do it for you) abuse.” -best quote from this channel.
36:45 you know they have a great relationship with their parents when their contact is their real name.
The cat story hits a bit too close to home. I went on a month-long vacation with my father and my sister to Europe, but when I got back I found out that my mom had given my dog away to one of her friends and wouldn't tell me which one. Found out about 6 months later that they had put him down a few months prior despite being perfectly healthy with us. I was devastated yet my mom comes to me to say, "it's a good thing that we gave him away when we did, I would've hated to have to pay for the vet." I never even got to say goodbye to my best friend.
Oh my god I’m so sorry
The only response to that should be no contact. Damn.
@@ingloriousbetch4302 exactly
Wow I am sry
Those assholes
They really had to torture robin by making him look at insane parents for an hour
Edit: These replies are stinky
lol
Wait, this is newly recorded?
I assumed these Best Of videos were compilations of old stuff.
@@averagehumanpersonit is!!! srry for double mention :3
@@averagehumanperson no I’m just joking
@@averagehumanperson its just a compilatio n
1:04:08 this mom actually isn't as crazy as the others. Bedbugs are f@cking hellspawn and can be an incredibly traumatic experience. If you've never had them, pray to every deity you do and don't believe in that you never will.
I have and she's still insane. It's a completely different place and she over reacted MAJORLY.
My parents grounded me, spanked me, and kicked me out of the house one time because I had a tough day at school. They also made me think this shit was normal
Parents need to understand that shit like this is how they end up in the nursing home with children who never want to see them.
The mom who tried to sell her son's Oculus after he paid for it with his own money made me the most mad. I hope everyone told her that she was a terrible mother, and if anyone bought it gave it back to the son WITH the money just to spite her
Ikr? The fact she overpriced it made it so much worse. She must have no idea how bad it feels to save up that much money and then have it all go to waste.
@@CookieIsMyCat09 Update for that mother. She was ridiculed on that page. the money was pocketed by her and the son exposed her on Twitter. She was on bail for theft but her greedy organ refused pay it so she's now facing jail time. Good riddance!
@@SunriseFilms76 good riddance indeed! Thanks for sharing c:
The good ending
I was thinking the same thing about returning it to the kid
2:10 LETS GOOO MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE!
Only family that you love unconditionally is your doggo, those things are pure of heart and should be loved unconditionally. Change my mind
I want Robin to narrate more cute subs. Give the man a break, he's already dealing with enough ❤
As a wise german once said: "Ze healing is not as rewarding as the hurting"
@@Parrtot Medic?
@@starz9273 Ja
@Matusekk we are friends now, no excuses. 💯
Nah, just give him more of r/gocommitdie
My parents were so abusive toward me, emotionally, psychologically, and on occasion physically. My half sisters are 20 years younger than me (I love them to the moon and back), and they get all of the support they could ever ask for, they get just about anything they ask for, my parents put the girls' needs before their own, and my step-dad actually spends time with them doing what they want, instead of them having to seek him out and do whatever he's doing so they can spend time with him. I'm jealous of the love they're getting, but at the same time, I'm glad they're receiving the love I didn't.
That's not allowed. Your sisters can't be having fun. /s
@davidsamarabowling8852 Did you read to the end? I said I'm jealous, but at the same time, I'm happy for them. I love my sisters, and I'm thrilled they're getting the love and support they deserve. I just wish my parents had given me the same.
@@Akalillythat "/s" means sarcastic
mAn i feel this. same with me and my younger sibling (10 year age gap). Although sadly our parents are still kinda abusive and toxic but not as bad as with me. i'm right there with you on the envious but happy train....
This. My age gaps with my siblings aren't quite that big but the same thing happened to me. The worse is that through my whole life we've always passed as a near perfect family, because my younger brothers do genuinely get along with them, so no one would ever believe me if I said they emotionally abused and manipulated me. Took me years to realize what they did to me wasn't normal, and that's just sad, I seriously hope we can raise awareness to this kind of stuff and let kids speak up about their situations without being brushed off.
My parents were so weird about this kind of thing.
Like, on one hand they did the whole Life360 thing. And they would constantly ask me why I was in "battery saving mode" because they wanted to track my location.
But on the other hand, my step Mom caught me sneaking out of the house once, and literally just, "alright, have fun. Be back by ten, you have school tomorrow."
They would always just flip flop between "cool parent" and "insane parent" and there was no in-between.
I've since moved out and they're just kinda, chill now.
5:44 looks really comfortable lol
the 'pouring bleach into the vents' thing reminds me how a member of my family who I live with regularly pours bleach into the toilet to try and clean a stain which is there because they refuse to acknowledge that the cistern leaks (I tested it; it took less than six minutes for water to go from the top of the cistern to the bowl), and even if the toilet 100% DIDN'T have any urine residue left on it, you still shouldn't pour it in the toilet at the same time as toilet cleaner because THAT makes chlorine gas, and if the toilet isn't fully rinsed before the next use the urine will react and make chloramine gas. we know this person does it, because we have seen them in action and we've had reactions immediately after they clean the toilet, but they will not admit it and will yell and scream at you and call you a liar if you try and tell them to not do that. I hate it here
I feel so sick about the 4 yr old and her little brother.
I bet she was just "playing mommy"
After all, she wouldn't know parents aren't supposed to hurt their children - it's what she's used to.
Same!!! They 👏 really 👏 need 👏 a 👏 better 👏 mom
Oh my god that completely went over my head. No wonder she acted like that!
@@Mari-Schimmer how else do you think kids learn?...
@@MissSparks92 I was just too focused on the story itself to think about it, I do know how children learn, it just went over my head
Watching these videos makes me lucky that my parents are actually caring and are willing to help me get through the phase of turning into an adult instead of acting like they're better than me.
Damnit, I love my mom and dad.
My parents not only played with my brother and me when we were little, they taught us a whole bunch of card games and every Friday night when the family was home we would sit down and play Poker, Canasta, Pinochle, Rummy. And we would laugh as Dad told funny stories about stuff that happened where he worked.
Parents who do not share the gift of laughter with their children will probably find themselves lonely.
The saddest thing is that I recognize my parents behavior as insane only after seeing it from the side
Thanks to this channel my eyes are seeing clearly now😅
Sure, my mum and I do argue, but we always make up, and both love each other she worries about me, and I worry about her. You should have this relationship with your mum. I'm sorry that you don't hope you're well and away from them
Same
Same! I never realized since no one ever talked about it but thanks to this I'm realizing it as of recently
Yeah, and you know why they act like that? They fear for you and always want the best. Maybe It doesn't come across that way but I am accurate. They are not your enemies. I never understood my parents either but as an old man, I now know that was also my fault.
@@solidstateresistor2485 I never said they're my enemies. I know they worry but since no one ever taught people how to healthy parent they're doing.. Well how they can
Robin being quiet and serious is infinitely scarier than any horror novel around
15:01 this one is just funny, with the slow serious tone turning into a questioning tone?
Y'know, this sub makes me appreciate my parents more.
Narrator's comments are so spot on I have nothing to comment on. I'll just go on nodding to his comments. Great work, dude!
A bunch of these horrible "parents" need to be either arrested outright for actual crimes (e.g., stealing or breaking their possessions) or remanded to authorities for mental health evaluations. There's a LOT of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, etc. in most of these.
As someone diagnosed with BPD, Yeah no lol. This is just grade-A entitlement and thinking they own someone just because they had sex once. These people make me fucking sick and remind me of my mother.
My step mother has borderline, once dragged me by the hair round the 2 story house
funny how the parents calling the police can backfire so hard bc the child can just say theyre being abused by their parents and the whole ass situation flips around
True
Karens do this exact same thing. Entitled people think the police exist to enforce their desires rather than the law. Which scares me when I think about what they're doing politically
@@hmnhntr Oh I know, karens are the worst case of entitled privilege.
Yea but since u were a kid. They tell u they will beat ur ass till cops come. An the cops will give u to ppl that will do "things" to u
@@jborrego2406 what is this string of letters i am trying to comprehend right now
1:03:11 OH NOOOO
did you get the reference
The reference is the gay guy from family guy i can't remember his name
You mean Bruce?
He sounded like Cleavland
Mom: "I'm about to send them..."
Kid: "LETS PLAY 8 BALL" *8 ball attachment*
Honestly this subreddit reminds me that no matter how many times my family and I get into squabbles, it could always get so much worse. I hope all these people can escape from their awful families and live a good life :)
That mom telling her son to ‘be a man’ pissed me off. I grew up in appilachia and if those old coal miners had ANY other options in life they would have taken them. They didn’t WANT to sacrifice themselves for a living but they were willing to for their family. It’s not something to teach kids to aspire for. Only higher income families that have never had to feel hunger or working until they fall over ever think like this.
Please give robin a nice happy subreddit he deserves it
Usually I'm laughing all the time on EmKay videos. Mebbe munching popcorn or stuff. This time though? Oh the horrors. I feel like I need something strong to forget.
This has been said in probably every r/insaneparents video, but for good reason: Every kid deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid.
We get it. No need t regurgitated the same quote EVERY video
@@HKona7It will be repeated until behavior like this stops.
@@HKona7You seem like one of the parents.
The bad part above all of these stories is until you move out, you cannot run but the parents can give up on you and put you up for adoption but you can’t run
Yeah i've been saying that there need to be institutions to help minors get emancipated. It's not fair that the law protects the parents' belief that children are their property
Even worse, some insane parents hire private investigators to track down their estranged kids to surprise them at their places of work/living
An hour and a half of robin,HELL YEAH
watching these videos makes me infinitely more appreciative of my awesome parents
Robin is so real for every time he took the time to rant about the reality of these parents behavior, I'm actually a DV(domestic violence) survivor because my father was verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive, a lot of these parents here are no different from him and its just plain sad how some parents think that they're the victim, when they're making their kids think they aren't good enough, and never will, so said kids spend the rest of their days trying to please people and/or the parents just so they have the acceptance and approval their parents refused to give them. A lot of people need to act better
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oh hey that's cool, you just summed up my entire life in one comment! Thanks bro ;_;
My dad was an abusive narcissist, and my mom was a codependent enabler who is ALWAYS the victim. She constantly whines about why my sister cut her out of her life and barred her from seeing the grandkids, but when I remind her *_exactly_* why my sister cut all contact, she just flatly denies all of it. I've given up trying to get her to accept the truth.
I've tried to show her the "missing missing reasons", but all she did was ignore the entire article and laser-focused on one sentence saying "although there are rare instances where the estranged parent has not done anything to warrant losing their relationship with the adult child, in the overwhelming majority of occurrences involving estranged parents, the child is justified in cutting contact with the parent".
...Guess which part of the sentence she conveniently leaves out.
It’s always so satisfying when he tells a parent that they need to grow up
My male parent (doesn't deserve the title of father) treated me the way he was risen, as a rowdy boy with two brothers in the 50s, me, an extremely shy and introvert insecure sensitive AF only child girl in the 90s... basically just verbal and emotional abuse constantly. Been no contact for 17 years, so that's great for me!
i have a stepdad who was treated like shit when he was young but he does not do the same to me my brother and my sister hes a cool guy :D but sorry to hear you were treated like that :(
Unfortunately for me, my parents still contact me, even though i had depression and other mental problems from them fucking me up. My stepdad, who I fucking hate, was always beating away at me, and he eventually punched me so hard before I graduated high school, he destroyed all the teeth in my mouth, while braces were on. My mom enabled it and also was hyper religious and won't let me speak how I wish to speak. And she emotionally and verballly abused me. She's still over reacts at "Oh my God". I suffered enough pain that I GTFO'd and moved somewhere else. I haven't suffered location problems yet. Mind this was in 2012, before I heard of anything outside my house. Parents were overcontrolling too. I barely talk to them. Only one I'm chill with is my big sis. Also, my parents decided to get me into court trouble by framing me for something I didn't do, nor was nowhere near! 5 years burned away by pointless legal issues. I was cleared, declared innocent, and allowed to walk free. I hate my parents.
i'm resisting the urge to say "boohoo' so hard rn
wow.. that sounds awful. I've never been through that but that must've sucked. I'm glad you cut off contact with a dickhead like that
@@tt.tt.tec9 ...😨
29:03 that's malware at this point
What a blessing, 1 hour and 34 minutes of Robin. Although it was an angy subreddit, its stil Robin.
Then these parents wonder why their kids don’t visit them at their retirement home and get sent mean messages about how horrible they were treated
I told my mom repeatedly during my teen years: “you do realize I will be the one to decide whether or not your a- will be in a home, right?”
She treated two of her children horribly but had a golden child (Oh, don’t worry, she told us all the time who her favorite was) and now… none of us are speaking to her. Including the golden child.
@@leileyaravencroftyes the golden kid never takes care of them. Thats the funny part
I take thah back if there male an married they will let mom live with them to be spoiled an have the wife take care of her ( sorry never hear wife doing that i sure it does but more burden is on the wife
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20:05 Just thought of something, If you are stuck with a parent who is trying to obsess about purity culture things, simply yell in their faces " You. Do NOT. Control. MY. Genitals! What happens between MY LEGS, is MY CONCERN, not Yours! " and watch how fast their blood pressure raises, just make sure you can evacuate immediately.
This just makes me think of the last episode of the British (original) version of Queer As Folk, where Stuart comes out to his homophobic parents with every derogative term for a gay man. Defo cathartic but make sure you are out on your own/an adult or have somewhere to go!!!
My Dad is a workaholic
I’m always tired and running on 1% energy, I work on school work all morning, and then go to work and get off at 1am, But every time I have a Day off my Dad thinks of some Work for me and my siblings to do, either saying “The house is a mess let’s do a house reset, or mowing the yard 3 times a week, or “Time for a work Day” he says it every time I’m off and home, or he’s off work and home. I’m so fricking done with this bs, counting down the months until I can move out 😭🤚
I used to have three levels of bad annoyed, starting to raise my voice and talking in a southern accent, and then the Italian hand gestures. I now have four wanting to commit things that I shall not say because of TH-cam regulations. My mom is the exact same way.
may I add? She’s never home.
This kind of thing makes it clear that there need to be much stricter laws on how parents are allowed to treat their children.
And a much better response when those laws are broken. Doesn’t matter what’s written down in a law if it’s not enforced properly, which it never is, because spending money on keeping children safe is less important that paying subsides to oil companies apparently.
Yeah
1:13
This mom went through every stage of grief and depression and ended up with her gaslighting herself 😂
0:35 As a representative of the cristans i can say most of us are not like this 😭
Factual, we're not all like that.
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Man... my parents aren't perfect by a long shot, but after this video, I have never been more thankful for them
One thing that really confuses me is the entitlement of some of these parents thinking it's okay to open someone else's letter/package regardless of if that person is their child or not. The only times my mum opens anything with my name on it are times when she has explicit permission to do so.
It confuses you because you understand peoples boundaries and have respect for others stuff and privacy.
Abusive parents which I have don't give a shit about any of that. They think their kids are their possessions and have no rights to anything even their own mail. They void you of any personality or original thoughts and you have to be, do and say what they want you To. If you go against it you are severely punished.
My parents said since the mail came to their address it's theirs to open even though my name is on it. I learned the post route and times and got my mail out and left theirs in there.
@@mystical0333 I’m sorry you have to deal with that. Hopefully time passes quickly and you’re able to get away and cut contact with them.
that vr one killed me. there was even like a 3 act structure to it, it completely blindsided and enraged me
Seeing these makes me happy my Mom & Dad are chill
3:25
End of conversation
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*YOU CAN’T EVEN HAVE A CONVERSATION*
The story at 18:25, is similar to what happened to me at the age of ten.
I forgot to do a chore from a long list of chores, my “mother” kicked in my bedroom door, grabbed me by the hair and dragged me down the stairs where she proceeded to yell and threaten me, and then she kicked me out of the house. Hours later, I had no choice but to go back in as I had nowhere to go, she wasn’t there but my stepfather and grandmother were, and they were under the impression I had run away of my own accord.
She literally lied to people in order to avoid getting into trouble, and they, despite knowing how awful she is, just went along with the lie.
I hope your fine, that didn't sound like a healthy place
you shouldve called the authorities after
thats messed up man.. i seriously hope ur alright
OH MAN! Dude I am so sorry
Don’t worry one day you’ll have the chance to put her into a home
Oh my bloody god... I really hope she was arrested....
As a father of 2 little dudes, this subreddit is teaching me what not to do
little gunksters
lil fellas
Lil munchkins
scrunkly creatures
little punks
Hearing Robin stone cold rage at this subreddit is always so validating when i’m overthinking everything
Thank god for emkay they are saving my attention span
6:17 I see this and immediate red flags before I even see the shit about punishing the girl for hitting the baby. Yes, the 4 y.o should not have done that, but leaving a toddler and an infant ALONE? Y'all know that this is Madeline MacCann's parents did when that poor girl went missing, right???
I seen something about how kids in school now days have the same level of anxiety as mental patients from the 1950s. I can believe it when I was in school it was some of the most stress I've ever experienced. I would make myself sick stressing over homework I struggled with and had no one in my family who knew how to do the work to help me and I struggled in class and the teachers would barely try to help as well even getting mad at me, I would get picked on for the stupidest things like not having a certain brand of clothes or shoes and anything they possibly use to try to make me feel like crap, alot of the teachers where downright cruel I even had a teacher pull me out of class and "do a random weapons search" they forced me to lift my shirt while 4-5 teachers snickered and laughed at me because of my weight, I even had a guidance counselor lie and tell me my grades where too low to pass the year unless I got straight As for the rest of the year (even did math for me) then after I quit trying because I knew I wasn't able to pull straight As off he calls me down to his office and tells me he was trying to motivate me but it was too late now my grades really where to low to pass.
I'm so sorry you had to go through all that...I went through a lot of similar things as well. I can 100% believe that statistic, I sure felt like a 1950's mental patient when I was in school. I'm sure the 7 or 8 different kinds of meds I had forced on me for "unproductive behavior" didn't help either.
1:13:53 Bro, the clown emoji after mom got me laughing 😂
I almost cried at this video, because I didn't realize how much I actually was taking for granted. I have had some good parents (some minor bumps here and there) who treat me well, and I didn't realize that some people have it this HORRID. I really truly feel awful.
"There are serious regulations for those under 18 working in the US"
Also the US: bringing back child labour and reducing punishments if something happens to the kids.
These videos make me appreciate my parents SO much more
1:05:25 this story always makes me so sad, I would never want my cat to just be permanently taken from me :(
Asian parents treat their children better than any of these mofos tbh
Turns out destruction of property includes breaking property of others. Even if it can be repaired, it is a crime and you can sue.
The more I listen to these, the more I realize everything my parents did and do, and I start sobbing. There’s no way out.
Robin: why is it always moms?
Me: because dads are normally physically or emotionally absent
11:23 reminds of a time when I checked out a scary stories book with a spider on it. To respect my mother, who had arachnidphobia, I made a book cover out of a paper back, like our teacher taught us. She eventually found the book and took off the cover, as it was fraying and screamed and yelled about its contents. Long story short, I had a Matilda moment as she ripped the book apart and yelled at me for bringing a "demon book" home
Kids having more emotional maturity than their shitty parents breaks my heart, sorry your mom's a whack job
you madlad
@@TheChangelingGamer ey I tried to compromise lol
@@imboredig what? Not often do I hear of a Matilda moment. I'd pay money to see that moment.
Need to show your mother the king of the hill Halloween episode
Close enough to scary stories
I'm listening to this in a cathartic way i think. I got out of a bad household 5 years ago and struggled to find footing, I'm now finally in a stable and safe place. I haven't been to therapy in 4 years. but now I have an appointment with a new therapist in a couple days. It's scary and the PTSD has been getting worse lately but I'm hopeful. I finally feel like I'm making the steps to recover. Not trying to trauma dump, I just wanted to share. It does get better, I'm finally starting to believe that.
idk why but damn near this entire compilation had me damn near foaming at the mouth with rage
1:17:57 “go towards it” so menacing I love it
These posts make me feel like I'd be a good parent when I eventually reach that age.
9:39 is a rough example. If my FOURTEEN YEAR OLD daughter got that level of privacy invasion, I'd have to do a checkup for mental issues. What the hell is wrong with that parent?
Nothing. That's a responsible parent keeping their child safe from the internet. Sorry to break it to you but parents giving their kids internet access with no monitoring is failing as a parent to keep their child safe
@@BICSEDITS2Yeah, see, your take would've been good, if not for the fact that you could communicate with your child, instead of invading their privacy. Passwords nonetheless are not a necessity to the parent, and definitely not for _everything._ Just because you aren't invading your child's privacy, unconditionally, doesn't mean that you're negligent.
Tips for being a good parent: Don't be so controlling, Respect Privacy, Recognize they ARENT your property, actually LOVE them, and don't ground them for stupid reasons.
Its videos like these that make me more appreciative of my loving family
0:55 THANK GOD that one of my Parents (my Dad) is literally a Bachelor in Arts and he's absolutely adorable if I ever show him my works
I am a hobbyist artist and Everytime I show my artwork (I do extremely basic sketching if I don't do my work in Multimedia) he's getting all giddy and always insanely supportive of me to the point that "Dude, you should trace that digitally, animate that and post it on the internet!" is a common take that came out from both my mom and dad and I had to always constantly remind them that even in my current work, I'll need a LOT of time to actually make that work lmao.
I'd gladly take a bullet for them to always be with me. And thank God that I don't have to deal with non supportive and absolutely bonkers parents who have zero empathy to their Children's works
The fact that Robin is so mad that he doesn't know who chachi is makes me laugh.
Saw this comment right after the clip about the hotdogs
This makes me appreciate my parents alot more thanks
34:06 Funny how it is being sold for 200$ more than it has ever sold for and she says 'No lowballing'