How to Know if You Are Selfish

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
  • In today's video, I explore the fine line between selfishness and self-care. I'll identify signs of selfish behavior versus healthy self-care practices and offer tips on how you can find the right balance between prioritizing your own needs and considering others' needs for maintaining healthy relationships. Plus, I have a free guide on confident communication to help you express your needs assertively while being mindful of others. Tune in for my insights on prioritizing self-care without being selfish.
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  • @JellySocialLab
    @JellySocialLab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Your tips on balancing self-care and considering others' needs were spot on!

    • @drjulieshafer
      @drjulieshafer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m glad they were helpful 🩷

  • @erinlmatlock
    @erinlmatlock 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The 'S' word. It's a tough one. I feel like we spend our whole lives undoing the indoctrination of our worthlessness. Thank you for this video, Julie. It's so needed. ❤ (And I love that shirt. 😍)

    • @drjulieshafer
      @drjulieshafer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks @erinlmatlock 🥰

  • @phyllisowen5298
    @phyllisowen5298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow, I had no idea that I wasn't actually being selfish! Thank you so much Dr. Julie!

    • @drjulieshafer
      @drjulieshafer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ideas to live by 😉🩷

  • @deetravelstories
    @deetravelstories 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great insights!

  • @josiekorenek2795
    @josiekorenek2795 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Holy shit. I’m not selfish

    • @drjulieshafer
      @drjulieshafer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Does that surprise you?

  • @--M--1111
    @--M--1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Having kids in a broken world, instead of adopting, knowing climate changes, possibly harm, handicaps and other miseries that this world has to offer AND THEN judge women who chose to take care of themselves, travel, enjoy their young 20s and 30s , excel in their careers is selfish. More women should learn to be selfish with their time on Earth. Nobody ever asked us to be here, so it is up to us to chose how we want to live it. As long as it is not to harm others there is nothing wrong with saying NO I won't please others so that they are comfortable.

    • @drjulieshafer
      @drjulieshafer  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! More women should take better care of themselves with their one, wonderful life ❤